Orthodox Jew Answers Your Questions | Q and A | Orthodox Jewish Mom (Jar of Fireflies)

Its time for a Q and A! In this video I will be answering your questions from my perspective as an Orthodox Jewish Homeschooling Mom of three. I will be sharing facets of my Orthodox life as I answer your questions on a variety of topics. The questions and my answers range from can Jews adopt? to how do you handle Diabetes on fast days? and Do we celebrate Christian holidays with my extended family? also How do you know what kind of Jew you are? and can you wear leggings under your dresses? and how do you handle the Mikvah during Menopause? and what is Kosher? And what makes a food kosher? And many many more! I answer each question based on my personal knowledge and experience to the best of my ability :)
Hello and welcome! My name is Chana, I’m married to my best friend, and we have three wonderful children together. We also happen to be Orthodox Jews and we homeschool our kids. This video is a sneak peek into our daily lives :) You can see how this particular Jewish homeschool mom sets up her days, rolls with the punches, and gets it all done. Thanks for watching!
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[@jaroffireflies]

If y’all have any follow up questions, feel free to let me know here and I’ll do my best to answer! Thank you for watching and I hope you are having a wonderful day!!! 💖

[@anjahorn]

My question: when do you plan, to come to frankfurt to drink a coffee with me ? :)

[@jaroffireflies]

@@anjahorn I love that! Hows this, while I have no travel plans now, when and if I do make it to Frankfurt, we will absolutely meet for coffee!!!

[@dreaG45]

I’m curious about why milk and meat cannot be eaten together. Thank you for your time. ❤️

[@jaroffireflies]

@@dreaG45 it stems from a verse in the Torah "Do not cook a kid in its mother's milk." This verse appears in the Torah three times, twice in Exodus (23:19 and 34:26) and once in Deuteronomy (14:21).

[@dawnbaker9274]

Do you mix fibers in clothes?

[@cathy2142]

Awww and now you have 4 children❤. What blessings

[@jaroffireflies]

Indeed :)

[@kaitlynwert6673]

I really respect how there are certain things you hold back on, yet others where you're an open book. I appreciate that you always have the forethought to pause and really think through your answers to ensure you're not putting anything out that would be devisive. There's such a level of respect for other cultures. For example, I notice that you tend to hold back a bit on stuff relating to your parents and family, when it is an answer that is incredibly deep and personal, like your beliefs vs. their Christian ones. It's a delicate balance to put your life out there for the public, but to also keep a handle on how much is too much. To simplify my point, we have freedom of speech. But just because we have it, doesn't mean we have to exercise it and let everyone know every thought we have. Exercising restraint and not sharing things that might hurt or be sensitive spots to others shows how much you respect them, and ultimately, love them, which is the basis of what both of our religions believe. People like you are so refreshing to me. In a world that praises outspokenness as authenticity, and restraint in conversation as a threat to individuality, you are an example of how to walk and speak gracefully and preserve peace.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you for your kind words :) I respect my family greatly and would never want to intrude on their privacy just because I chose to share about my life here :)

[@lafemmerouge4271]

Have you considered writing a novel of Miriam’s story from her POV? Your eyes really lit up when you talked about her and I think you may be a storyteller at heart. 📚

[@jaroffireflies]

That would be an amazing story!!!! If only I had the time!!!

[@lisachatham8690]

In this all I can say is that if you really want to do something and it is important to you, you will find the time. It may take decades to get done, but starting is the key. You are AMAZING and I would love to read the story from your point of view.

[@chayastaub-krell6601]

@@jaroffireflies you could always wait until your children have grown up some. As they get older, they'll need less "hands-on" from you and do more independent work. This gives you some free time while they're doing their schoolwork. Even if it's only an hour or two a day, it will get done! I would love ❤ ❤❤ to read that book!

[@jaroffireflies]

@@chayastaub-krell6601 one day then perhaps :) There is literally a stack of book ideas in my head that I would love to write!

[@chayastaub-krell6601]

@@jaroffireflies and I'd be happy to read any and all of them!

[@roseyc.5846]

P.S. Chana, I totally agree about classifying "Harry Potter" as, 'fantasy'. At the end of the day, it is purely fictional. And, I love it! 🙂 Rosemarie 💖

[@jaroffireflies]

Exactly!

[@amelianoire4619]

I agree 100% as well. To me, it's no different than mermaids, unicorns, or dragons. I was raised in a rather strict Christian household/ community and as a child, I wasn't allowed to read/ own the books, or any books/ games/ movies that were along those lines. I absolutely adore Harry Potter and couldn't imagine not sharing that wonderfully whimsical world with my children now. I wish that more people, especially those of religious backgrounds shared these views. The world is serious enough as it is; let the kids (and us adults as well) dream and imagine.

[@jaroffireflies]

@@amelianoire4619 totally agree! Thank you for sharing your perspective

[@elizabethgrogan8553]

I've always yearned to know as much as I can about other Cultures/Religions. It makes living in our multicultural world easier for me. Whilst there are those I can easily set aside because of Cult like practices, I learn so much from others. I had some preconceived notions of Judaism in my early life, I now love the principles. A keen interest in history, at school, led to my visits to the concentration camps a few times. That is a tragic and sobering encounter. I've been to Ann Frank's attic accommodation in Amsterdam and devoured books on that era. Your videos now open up the family situation to me. I love the happiness you exude. For a brighter, safer future, we must learn from the past. So many communities have contributed much to society. I like to respect others, even though our backgrounds and cultures are poles apart. I want my daughter to be without prejudice, so that she can gracefully proceed. You are a shining example of your culture.

[@KerbyKast]

Agreed! So many rich cultures to learn about.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much for your lovely comment 💜

[@lisachatham8690]

I also love to learn about other cultures and religions and such. I am currently searching for a good fit for me in relation to religion, I have been LDS since I was 16 years old and recently found I had more questions than answers in the Church. I am exploring all and your channel is helping me with the Jewish side of my journey. I just am not sure about the holidays and the Shabbat part because my husband is Southern Baptist and most likely will not convert. I just don't know where I belong yet and it makes me very uneasy because I feel the second coming is very close and I feel unprepared.

[@vsibirsky]

One of fondest memories growing up in an observant family was tearing the toilet paper for the family and visitors before Shabbos. At 5 years old I couldn'took or clean or polish the silver but I knew how to tear things up!

[@jaroffireflies]

Ha! That’s awesome! Thank you so much for sharing :)

[@_tardigrade]

I really appreciate that you want to be a foster parent for teenagers in the future ❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks :) I used to work with CPS caseworkers and I just have such a place in my heart for all those kids especially the teens 💜

[@rayniebee]

I think it was really neat how you mentioned that sometimes your doctor would give you the all clear to fast, but your Rabbi would err on the side of caution and say you shouldn't. It's lovely how that duty of care is taken seriously and in your best interest.

[@jaroffireflies]

I agree :)

[@tiagorman1553]

Thank you for sharing more information about our Jewish culture with everyone. Being culturally aware helps aid all of us in understanding and encourages dialogue and hopefully respect for every culture.😊

[@jaroffireflies]

You are so very welcome Tia! Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words 💜

[@dianneblake8101]

Good morning from Maine! Seeing your notification of a new post always makes my day! I have a head cold right now, too. We teach our kids to share and then they give us things like this, lol! Hope everybody is healthy and happy soon!

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh no! I hope you feel better soon! It’s the worst to have these headcolds! Like it’s not so bad that you want to stay in bed all day (as if we could lol) but we need to rest to get better lol

[@debra333]

Hi, sweet Chana! I love this informative video. And any child, natural or adopted, would be a lucky soul to be raised in your loving home. 🫂❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so very much Debra 💜

[@cmgobin]

Enjoyed the content and your matter-of-fact way of discussing issues like adoption and menopause. Thanks for sharing!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Crystal! And thanks for being here!

[@trishpolk640]

Oh Chana!!!! You are so awesome! I want to give a shout out to you for speaking about fostering and adopting teens. I was a caseworker for that age group. They are a tough bunch and rightly so. They have been through the wringer. Anyhoo, you are wise to wait until your kids are older than the new child's age. It can really cause many issues. I think you guys will rock at it!!!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Trish! I used to work with CPS caseworkers and I met a lot of the kids as they were entering care (I was usually a caseworkers first stop because the nonprofit I worked for supplied nice new bags, new clothes, new toys, new stuffed animals, new shoes etc) so I’ve heard so many stories and I just want to take every single one home with me! But like you said, better to wait until my kids are older :) I’ll get there!

[@debbiebrookover5189]

Thanks for answering so many of my questions. I am not Jewish but it is wonderful to learn. Thanks for teaching me the value of cleaning up the kitchen. It really lifts my spirts to clean up thoroughly once a week and then keep it clean the rest of the time. You are so talented. I would love you to show the hanging on the wall that has the birds. I love it. What are your favorite candle smells? What is the candle at the end of Shabbot? I love the chicken soup recipe. I make it all the time now. Thanks for keeping your site going. I love watching you.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you for your kind words! I love sweet and home smelling candles :) the candle at the end of Shabbat is for the havdalah ceremony. I have a couple videos about it here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rWiXfZWMatiEfa8 and here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nJPEd3lnidmFabM enjoy!

[@RochelWaldman]

Hi Chana, Love your Video's Thanx so much! I am a Diabetic (I am in my 50's, and have been a Diabetic for about 10 years.) I do not fast on most Fast days, excluding the 9th of Av and Yom Kippur. I always speak with my rabbi before those fasts and if I feel ill, I drink water( a certain amount called Shiurim).every 9 minutes when needed. Of course I really do not want to drink but I need to really watch my sugar stays at a healthy number on these days. I do what is needed.

[@jaroffireflies]

Life always comes first! As we say, we live by the Torah not die by the Torah :) Thank you for sharing your experience with us

[@cathy2142]

We did asl for my daught when she was nonverbal until past age 3. I took 3 6 week classes. But the biomedical intervention for sure is what got her talking. We did urine test we sent to France. Chelated her body from heavy metals, and purged bacteria overgrowth woth antifungals and antibiotics. We still use collodial silver daily years later. I make my own and have over a decade❤

[@jackandpicklesvlogs]

This video touched my heart. My husband and I are in the adoption process, so you gave me butterflies 😊 Hugs, Chana ❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh SQUEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 I cannot love this enough!!!!!!

[@jackandpicklesvlogs]

@@jaroffireflies We will be waiting a while, but we've got names already picked 😁

[@jaroffireflies]

@@jackandpicklesvlogs so amazing!!!! I be praying the wait is short!

[@winnieewing7730]

You answered the questions very clearly. Enjoyed everyone. Ireland.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks so much Winnie!

[@sklugmann7206]

my son-in- law is a diabetic father of four and a paramedic. Medically speaking fasting is possible but not always a good idea. Glad Chana that you have such a great relationship with your Rav.

[@jaroffireflies]

That’s why I said he may be able to start but might not be able to finish :) We shall see!

[@debbierosenzweig8801]

Hi Chana, great educational& informative video. Regarding the issue of not ripping toilet paper, I had extended family at my house for Sukkot. I set out boxes of tissues in each of the bathrooms. Within one day, the toilets were completely backed up. I learned that tissues should never be thrown into the toilet. I wanted to make you aware so you don’t have the same awful experience and an expensive bill from the plumber.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! Sorry you had that experience!

[@colleenorrick5415]

Chana, you don’t need make up - you have gorgeous skin and natural colour. You’re a natural beauty.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Colleen :)

[@gailresko8315]

Chana, This was marvelous! Thoroughly enjoyed and learned a lot. Thank you. I look forward to every episode. It's like meeting with a dear friend every time. Much love to you and your family.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so very much Gail!

[@SusanP674]

I love your Q & A videos 💚

[@jaroffireflies]

Yay! So happy to hear that 💐

[@estim7641]

I recently came across your channel and now love watching your videos. I grew up in (and still am a part of) the orthodox community in NY, I am sephardi as well. I love the insight and the perspective that you bring. Living in the orthodox community in NY is very insulating, so I love seeing how you bring everything and everyone together. I always wanted to visit Texas, I know there is a wonderful community there. Sending lots of love from NY

[@jaroffireflies]

Hello! Welcome! I’m so glad that you are here! Ya I am wayyyy out of town here in Texas :) Bit it’s a beautiful place! The people are amazing! You should definitely visit if you get the chance!

[@MediocreComedian]

As always, a video upload from Jar of Fireflies makes for a better day. I love that you share with us so many things since I feel we are a village. Have a great week Chana ❤️

[@jaroffireflies]

Hooray! So glad that you enjoyed :) Hope you are having a wonderful day!

[@joannamugliston9853]

In short: just love your stories. Q and A session was very interesting. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

[@jaroffireflies]

So glad you enjoyed! Thanks for being here Joanna!

[@kaydublin5164]

Love that you answer questions, love learning about your religion and your family.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Kay! I am so glad that you are enjoying these :)

[@ayalastrauss-resnick4177]

Hi Chana, I am really enjoying your channel. You have a beautiful family. As a frum from birth (FFB) 32 year old woman I am really inspired by your story. Growing up Jewish is part of my DNA. The fact that you accepted all the mitzvot upon you as an adult is really amazing. Thank you for sharing your life with us!!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Ayala!

[@iceeyes3875]

Thank you for answering my questions! I always enjoy learning about your religion and the way your eyes light up talking about certain things, makes all the videos so joyful! Much love ❤️

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so very much! And thank you for the great question!

[@Penny-bt4gc]

Hello from Alberta Canada. Love the Q & A videos. It’s interesting to learn Jewish traditions and culture. Thanks for sharing.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much for watching! I’m so glad you’re here!

[@larissafaller3193]

Another great video! I truly enjoy your Q&A videos. I'm familiar with a lot of Jewish traditions, holidays, and rituals through friends and "fun fact" my mother, who is Danish was an upstairs maid in the Israeli Consulate in Copenhagen, Denmark, just prior to her university studies. Much of what she learned there was taught in our home although we are Lutheran. Food somewhat confuses people who are not aware of the Jewish faith. To me, it makes sense as I grew up with it...and being an American child of European parents, lol! Many blessings to you and your family and I hope all of you feel better soon. 😊

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much! I loved hearing your story! And yes thankful feeling much better today :)

[@maryreynolds5310]

Great questions today! Thanks Chana for answering them too…you are quit understanding to the fact we are mostly clueless on many issues, even pretty private one’s. Have a beautiful day 🤗

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Mary! I’m so glad you’re here :)

[@Estikm82]

I absolutely love these q and a videos, I think u do such an amazing job answering all the questions that pertain to our beautiful religion, good job chana 👏🏻

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Esther!

[@NicSullivan15]

Love this and the range of questions from the in depth religious to whether you get your eyebrows done. It's great and I managed to watch the whole video in one go while my youngest son (who I had at 43 after having my oldest son at 34 so I didn't start young either) was asleep because usually I watch a video in at least three separate chunks, not always on the same day either xxx

[@jaroffireflies]

Wow that’s amazing you got to what this all in one go! I couldn’t even do that when I tried to give it a final watch through after I finished editing last night 😂 So glad you enjoyed :) Thanks for being here Nicole!

[@NicSullivan15]

@@jaroffirefliesyou're welcome xxx

[@andreaknibbs9328]

I cackled at the modesty during childbirth reply - love your direct honest and sweet answers !

[@jaroffireflies]

😂 Glad you got a kick out of that!

[@Jackie-dm1ye]

Wow! Another wonderful Q & A video Chana! I’m glad you’re feeling better. Your answers to the kosher questions are answered so well! I’m asked about why certain fish aren’t kosher, especially shellfish, so I just wanted to add that fish have both requirements of fins and scales. Talking about Bella how dog food meet certain requirements remind me of reading the cat food labels so very carefully, at the time we had cats. Have a very nice Shabbat!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you for adding that about the fish needing scales and fins! That’s a great point:) Shabbat shalom!

[@lupeaguilera8348]

As always Thank you for sharing your life with us. 🙂

[@jaroffireflies]

My pleasure :) Thanks for watching Lupe!

[@myboyzr2]

Another wonderful video Chana! Hope you continue to feel better..always love when our kids share colds!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much! Thankfully I am feeling so much better!

[@elsands9774]

Love your Q&A videos. Your able to make the Q&A videos so relaxing and educational. You do such a fabulous job answering questions/explaining. As always, a joy to see you’ve uploaded a video 💕

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so very much! And thank you for being here :)

[@aturnerw]

I absolutely love your Q&A’s! You will answer anything and everything asked. Much appreciated

[@jaroffireflies]

You’re so very welcome! Thanks for being here!

[@marije8562]

I learn something new in each of these videos, but I just wanted to say that the Jewish name (forgive my spelling if I'm doing it wrong) ben/bat Avraham is so beautiful. It's like, "hey you don't have a direct biological Jewish parent, but you are part of our family so have our common father's name". What a beautiful way to be accepted into a family. ❤

[@jaroffireflies]

❤️❤️❤️

[@martaupward5992]

You are such a breath of fresh air! I love your posts.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Marta!

[@debbiewoell3247]

Watching your videos just brighten my day! Thank you for your videos.

[@jaroffireflies]

I'm so glad! Thank you so much Debbie!!!

[@karenhopper1691]

Fascinating and interesting. You do a great job of answering your questions. I loved your answer about Harry Potter and the explanation about fantasy. I think it is important that our children know the difference and enjoy their imaginations. It can be a healthy way to expand their minds. My favorite books as a child were the "Wrinkle In Time" series. I would be curious to know if you have read them and think they are appropriate. Thank you for such an informative video! ❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Hi Karen! So glad you enjoyed! Yes, I read A Wrinkle in Time but not since I was a kid, so I’d have to read it again before I could give you my opinion there :)

[@sue1263]

Another great video I feel as if I learned a lot. Thank you for lighting up the internet as you show how you live your faith.

[@jaroffireflies]

Aw thank you so very much!

[@rosemaryracine5476]

Good morning from Calgary, Alberta in Canada

[@jaroffireflies]

Howdy!!! I feel like y’all would say howdy in Calgary :) Good morning!

[@KerbyKast]

Rosemary, just wanted to say hello to you as I too am from YYC! And I am a weirdo who reads comments. 😂

[@heatherireland2810]

And from Red Deer! Hello from the heart of Alberta, Canada🇨🇦🇨🇦

[@jaroffireflies]

All my wonderful Canadian friends!!! 💜💜💜

[@dreaG45]

Hello Chana! I was looking forward to your video today. ❤️❣️

[@jaroffireflies]

Hello Andrea! Thanks so much for being here!

[@amma3536]

Take care and God bless!! You have such a happy attitude. Love it that you love your life.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you!

[@franbowers7032]

Hi Chana wow what a great video I always learn so much from them. Hope you and your family are well x

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Fran!

[@rebeccanichol]

What a brilliant video - so full of information! I'd love to meet Miriam as well and Deborah.

[@KerbyKast]

I have often wondered about the perspective of Moses’s mother and her bravery in keeping Moses alive for three months and setting him in a basket to try to save his life further. Also, Pharaoh’s daughter who’s heart was softened by this Israelite infant and eventually brought him up in Egypt.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! So glad you enjoyed! Oh yes Deborah was a brilliant one as well!

[@meglangdon1944]

Love the Q&A videos.It is so enjoyable and important to learn the basis of other people’s religion and culture.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Meg! And thanks for being here :)

[@kristinmiller4779]

Good morning Chana I'm always excited to watch your DIL❤❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Hope you enjoyed!

[@lareid529]

Thank you for talking about your side of the family. I commented on an older video that I wondered if you interacted with your birth family and you answered! I totally understand not spending Christian holidays with your family but it's still important IMO for your kids to interact with them and get to know them!

[@jaroffireflies]

I absolutely adore my family I just want to respect their privacy which is why I don’t talk about them much here :)

[@barbarashames1372]

It's always wonderful to learn so much from your Q&A. Thanks for sharing!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks so much for being here Barbara!

[@patriciagreene5842]

We have germ over sharers here too, lol I look forward to your videos! Feel better soon!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! I think I’ve finally beaten the cold!!!

[@annemcclelland5036]

Just love your Q&A’s. It is so interesting and one learns so much from you, just ❤️ your channel.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so very much Anne!!!

[@ameliahunt9609]

When our local Kellogg factory switched from making nutragrain bars to pop tarts my Friendster (friend/sister) was the person in charge (at that factory) of making sure that all the allergens were listed on the packaging and getting the factory certified kosher. She told me all the steps that they had to go through including driving to the closest airport (3 hours one way) to pick up the person who was inspecting the facility to make sure they were doing it correctly (this was like 2005/2006 so the process maybe different now). I don’t if they are still kosher or not but I was surprised that only the unfrosted ones were kosher (at least at that time).

[@jaroffireflies]

So cool! Thank you so much for sharing!

[@laurag5583]

Thank you! It was like visiting with a friend!

[@jaroffireflies]

yay! Thanks for being here Laura!

[@oxymom2002]

So many great questions! Thank you for sharing all of this information with us. 💜

[@jaroffireflies]

You’re so welcome’

[@arleneg1271]

I always find it interesting the questions you are asked for these Q and A's! I always learn something new. As for Harry Potter and really all fairy tales, a wise older lady told me that as long as good triumphs over evil, she feels those stories are okay and even teach a valuable lesson. With my last name being Grimm of course I am going to stand up for fairy tales.lol But I also agree with you that if you have a check in your spirit about some of the more modern and dark examples of magic, I would do just as you did Chana. We have to use our heads and our hearts.

[@jaroffireflies]

Exactly! That mama guy instinct is for real!!! 💜

[@marianglynn9479]

Chana, once again , thank you for answering these questions, I am so enjoying following your life and learning about Judaism. Many Blessings on you and your family

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Marian!

[@vergieclark131]

Thank you so much for sharing I really enjoyed learning about your way of life ! 🥰💜

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks so much for watching 💜

[@chayastaub-krell6601]

Hey Chana! Love these Q & A vids! Leggings yes! Funny story - being in Florida when I started dressing modestly, I never thought to ask about what we would do in cold weather. My Dad became naftir in December many years ago. Our family cemetery is in NY. There was a huge blizzard predicted for that night (which, Baruch Hashem, never happened!) and the temps were well below freezing. I talked to my Rebbetzin about how to dress and she told me thermal shirt and pants under my clothes, leggings and, of course, boots. I still wear leggings under my skirts now. We do get cold here sometimes. Like last Shabbos and Sunday, when it in the 40s at night and only in the low 60s during the day. This Shabbos and Sunday, they're predicting the same, maybe even cooler. We will also some years get down to 15 or so for a week or two in January. 🥶 To the person who asked about the status of eggs - in addition to what Chana explained ... this rarely, if ever, happens nowadays but if you find an egg inside of a chicken (or other bird), it is considered meat and can't be eaten with dairy. And, yes, the real reason your husband came to America was to meet you. It, of course, wasn't yet time to meet you. The job opportunity was just Hashem providing a practical reason. Many times, our bashert (soulmate) is in another country, on the other side of the world and it seems like it would be impossible to meet. But, Hashem has His ways 😃! Take care and Shabbat Shalom!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks for sharing your leggings story :) And the fun fact about the egg in the chicken! I didn’t know that and it’s fascinating!!!!!

[@jaysondavis7064]

Ohmygoodness! What a great video! I learned so much today. I just love how you are so willing to share and answer questions. I pray you are feeling much better. Blessings, Shawn 😀

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Shawn! Thankfully I am feeling so much better today!!!

[@jaysondavis7064]

Also, when I was asked about why as a Christian I would read and and allow my children to read Harry Potter my answer was 2 part 1) I love the bond of friendship throughout the series and 2) never once after reading the books have I or my children felt the urge or have we cast any spells on anyone. The books are great fantasy, not real witchcraft.

[@OurBucketListHasHoles]

Great Q&A video Chana. You always put great thought into all your videos. I love hearing about your traditions, holiday preps, homeschool and etc. You are very blessed with such a beautiful family 💜

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so very much!

[@michellesunshinestar]

I'm teaching myself ASL!! I know the alphabet. There are videos on KZbin, and I bought a book from Amazon. I once ran into a def person at Target. I was able to sign what I wanted in the alphabet, and she found it for me!!

[@jaroffireflies]

That’s awesome! Good luck!

[@sandraottway5618]

Thank you Chana, i loved the q & a, and you answered both my questions. love to you all xx

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks for the questions Sandra!

[@janithgottfried8320]

I am very curious as to what crafts you and your family do, I love your craft room! Thank you for sharing and enjoy!

[@jaroffireflies]

I enjoy quilting, knitting, miniatures, and watercolors best :)

[@elizabethwittig5978]

thanks for answering my question. im learning so much from you.

[@jaroffireflies]

You are so very welcome!

[@margierodgers688]

There were some really great questions in this Q & A. I have a granddaughter that’s married now, when she was younger she came to visit me(we live in 2 different states)I took her out to catch fireflies. It’s one of the fondest memories we share together. I would like to meet Esther or Mary Jesus mother b

[@karenhill1739]

What a very informative session, I loved it. You explain everything in a great way thank you.

[@jaroffireflies]

You are so welcome! Thank you so much for being here!

[@behindthegrandadventure3518]

Thank you Chana for answering my question I'm sorry I didn't introduce myself but my name is Jennifer. Hope you have an amazing rest of your week.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you for the introduction Jennifer!

[@mariacawdron2488]

I love your q&a videos, so informative, I've learned loads, thank you xx

[@jaroffireflies]

Glad you like them! Thank you!

[@elileit]

Highly recommend Body Glide for chafing. I used to wear shorts until I tried it. Never went back.

[@jaroffireflies]

I used to use that when I was a runner :) it’s great!

[@MsPossums]

So interesting. I learn something every time I watch you 🙂

[@jaroffireflies]

I’m so glad! Thank you! And thanks for being here :)

[@AbrahamsBridges]

Chana, you’re awesome! Love you! 😃

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you!

[@idmouse]

Maybe some day we can show you around this area and Yellowstone. It would be so fun to get to know you. You have this... authentic isn't the right word because duh of course you are, this fun personality that kinda pulls you in. As I mentioned in a comment on your last video I have found this channel both very interesting and informative. Please keep it up. And let me know if Yellowstone is ever in the cards. My family would love to show the short ones the wonder of wonderland.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much! You are so kind! If I ever get up your way I would love to take you up on your generous offer :) I would love to visit that part of the country again! I have yet to go to Yellowstone.

[@idmouse]

@@jaroffireflies #soon. It would be so fun. Between Yellowstone, craters of the Moon, and grand Teton so much fun and learning to be had.

[@cherylcalac8485]

Love how you are so honest and to the point!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you 😊

[@sandykalmeyer9523]

Another beautiful video and I learned so much again. It seems like there’s always something new to learn about Shabbat. Can you bathe or wash your face, brush your teeth? What about food items. Can you cut your meat? I love hearing about Shabbat. What a wonderful 24 hours.

[@jaroffireflies]

Great questions! We can wash our faces, but not shower or bathe. No flossing our teeth. We can cut our meat :)

[@leahwithheld783]

You can’t remove your makeup but you can wash your face? Those are the same thing for me. How does that work?

[@carolyngross7664]

we adopted a baby from south korea and what we did was meet with the Rabbi and we ended up having a naming cermony for her. We also are conservative/reform so our rules may differ from yours. As i mentioned on one of your past videos, she loved being the only south korean jew in her hebrew school classes. :)

[@jaroffireflies]

How wonderful you were able to adopt!

[@stephaniebell9093]

Boker tov Hannah. I am looking for a book (small if possible) that has the morning prayers and all the barukas. The little book you had in one of your videos (when you did handwashing) didn't look like a full size siddur, so I am wondering if there is something like what I am looking for. LOL . My rabbi loving called me a new baby jew the other day. I had to smile and laugh. Thank you for sharing all you do. Your conversion videos have made me realize I don't have to get it all down at one time - it will take time. Amazing - I really can't learn it all in a short time. Love my journey and love the fact that I can laugh at myself.

[@jaroffireflies]

Hi Stephanie! Many siddurs come in different sizes. I have my regular weekday and Shabbat siddurs in two different sizes of the exact same book :) If you are Ashkenaz check out the Artscroll Women's Siddur. If you are Sephardi check out the Orot Sephardi siddur :) Hope that helps!

[@daphnelandsborough3663]

You do an amazing job with your eyebrows. I really hope one day you do adopt a foster child. My dad helped found a shelter in Arizona for abused children. God bless you for wanting to do that. I helped out there a lot and saw a lot of children just wanting a hug

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Daphne! I really hope I can adopt as well :)

[@paigebanks7552]

Lol! "There's nothing modest about childbirth" and "it's all out there" . I literally snorted my drink when you said that. Amen sister. As an RN I can say that can't be more true!

[@franditri7185]

I am also a nurse, a woman looses all modesty when giving birth, in fact when she goes for her well woman check up she looses all modesty. I went to a group that was not associated with with the hospital I worked in.

[@jaroffireflies]

LOL Sorry you lost a bit of your drink over that lol I am a doula so I have seen it from both sides and there just is a.) no modesty in childbirth and b.) we do not care LOL

[@paigebanks7552]

@@jaroffireflies It's funny, there's actually now a couple of male RN's on L&D and of course most women on their first or second delivery 's are like "um...no". But after that it's..."whatever, bring him on" . Almost without exception they find them so patient, kind and calm.

[@saraboyd1892]

You would be the most amazing doula. You are so compassionate and sweet. Never had a doula myself but you would be my choice.

[@michellesunshinestar]

These Indian dishes you get in a bag in the international section, they say their vegan, gluten free and Kosher!!! I was looking for stuff with 0cholesterol. My cholesterol is rising a little, and looking at my family history, that's not good. Also, my tooth is saved, they were able to do a root canal. I have a Bible study on Zoom at 2 PM EST/1 PM CST. Here where I live the temperature is supposed to drop, so I got food today. My uncle was next in line, and the poor bagger mixed his food in with mine. I was once a bagger. But I made sure I at least had the dates, I love dates, and they were lower in price. Oh, and they got new carts, the wheels were smooth. And they had the salad I liked that I used to only find at Kroger.

[@jaroffireflies]

So fun! Hope you are having a great day!

[@cathy2142]

We have rattlers all around here in Montana. I ran on a pishkun or buffalo jump with my gpa and parent. They said STOP. I was 4. I heard a POP and a rattler fell over messy right next to my left foot. 😮. Gpa was packing as usual😂

[@judycarter7841]

What is the reason you fast? Do you spend time in prayer most of the day? What would you pray? Already written prayers, specific needs or problems, forgiveness for sins?

[@jaroffireflies]

Different fast days have different reasons. And some fast days we go about life fairly normally others are days spent learning or in prayer.

[@laurenk88pa]

Could you maybe do a video on Miriam? So I would love to learn more about her. You were sparkly when you talked about her!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much for the video suggestion! Someone else asked for this also so maybe :)

[@stephaniebell9093]

I was surprised to learn that a given product "A" could be kosher (at the store it has the hechsher) but next month it might not.

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh ya. Totally happens. Not often but it does. My favorite salsa became non kosher and that was a sad day for me.

[@susang1711]

I love the tartan you chose. Which tartan is it? Is it associated with a particular clan? Will you show us the costum when you've completed it? I love your videos. They can never be too long!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks Susan! It’s my family tartan and that’s how I chose it :) I’ll definitely show the finished costume! Though I’m reconsidering at this point because I’m not sure what size I’ll be then 🧐

[@vergieclark131]

Hope you feel better ! 💜🙏🏼

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! I do!

[@edwinahughes7386]

Love the video very informative and interesting ,hope you are all better now xx

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks so much 😊 Yes, thankfully I am feeling much better today

[@stackywood]

I loooove your videos and look forward to when you post!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Staci! Thanks for being here!

[@marynall7280]

Chana "Texas" is a BIG state. Depending upon were you live, will determine how often you see snakes. When I lived in "town" (I grew up in Plano) I never saw them. I now live in a rural area up on Lake Texoma. I have had a snake come in via the Doggie Door. We have also had them wound around the back fence. We see them in the lake all the time. Again, just depends on were you live. Just my opinion. Thanks for all the info you provide. I enjoy your channel.

[@jaroffireflies]

Texas is way bigger than non Texans think it is usually lol I have had a snake sneak into my house and camp out in my bathroom, scared me so bad when I walked in there in the morning!!!! I have seen plenty of non-venomous snakes where I live. Just not the venomous types :)

[@villemokellin]

I learn so mutch form your videos, Love the Q and A :)

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Laila!

[@ednahenrich3627]

It always brightens my day to see you've uploaded a new video. You are so open to our questions, even those that seem very personal & almost prying. Glad you are all feeling better. I always feel so bad for moms of littles when they get I'll. No bed rest for moms. I have a question about a different area of life. I have a friend who also does extreme marathons. She and her husband do 55 and hundreds several times a year. They always sound like they have such a great time. What was your favorite extreme marathon and why?

[@jaroffireflies]

Great question! I was going to stop taking questions but I’m adding this because it’s such a fun topic :) Thank you!

[@roseyc.5846]

P.P.S. Sorry, Chana..last one! I love your "simple" self-care. Hair covered, usually not wearing makeup, jewelry, etc. That'd be me, too. You always look so fresh and pretty! Rosemarie 💖

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Rosemarie!

[@CherylNoe]

I loved your Q&A's. Thank you!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks so much for being here!

[@plazas1242]

Very informative. Thank you for this podcast.

[@jaroffireflies]

You’re so welcome! Thanks for being here :)

[@shlomiefogel3205]

Thanks for making me proud to be jewish i am amazed how strong u are in ur yiddishkeit i take it for greanted and dont appreciate it

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words :) I really appreciate you