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[@jaroffireflies]

Hope that you all had a wonderful weekend! Thank you all so much for your congratulations and well wishes on my last video! The outpouring of love and kindness has had me on cloud nine 💖💖💖

[@tracylawrence6872]

Also try Lynette Yoder and The Menonite Mum (Mom) they are great channels too. As you know I also watch Megan Fox lol....

[@jaroffireflies]

@@tracylawrence6872 I’ll check them out thanks

[@tracylawrence6872]

@@jaroffireflies no prob enjoy

[@nancyayala2217]

Your so welcome, a baby is truly a blessing

[@sophiemorrison9820]

@@tracylawrence6872 i have watched them all as well. i like an orthodox jewish mom "sonya's prep". too.

[@elizabethlinehan2576]

So funny when you learn about different cultures and realize how alike we all are. I'm not Jewish, but I've leaned so much from you.

[@jaroffireflies]

Exactly :) So happy you’re enjoying

[@elizabethgrogan8553]

I've been thinking of you these last few days after news came of the hostage taking at the Synagogue in Texas. I was so relieved that the Rabbi and other hostages were released safely. It's sad that there is so much unnecessary hostility in our world. I'd love to hear about your skincare routine as your face always looks so fresh.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Elizabeth 💖 That was scary news indeed. I will probably end up doing something about my skin care because I get asked about that a lot 💜

[@karincampbell9289]

This synagogue is a mile from my home. I am a nurse, and we received word that there was a hostage situation, and we were all on guard in case of a tragedy. What a relief to know the outcome allowed the Rabbi and his members were released to safety.

[@alisonway8904]

It tickles me that an Orthodox Jewish woman living in Texas enjoys Rosemary and Thyme! (I'm from the UK and didn't realise the programme had made it across the pond!) Our family love murder mysteries so we watched a lot of great late-90s dramas growing up including that one

[@jaroffireflies]

I first discovered it when they played a Rosemary and Thyme marathon during the Super Bowl, lol I much preferred Rosemary and Thyme to the game and have been hooked ever since!

[@MsAlmost500]

where you discuss "having your face light up"..... memories. Thank you.

[@marciaasturia5217]

I love to watch Megan's channel, too! I think it's so cool how easy it is today to get a peak into another culture. Before I found her channel, I had only ever seen documentaries about the Amish and Mennonite and it seems that their lifestyle and religion wasn't being portrayed properly at all. Peter Santenello also made a KZbin series about the Amish / Mennonites that was very interesting. I really enjoy the insights that other lifestyles bring with them. Sometimes it's surprising how much we can learn from people we seemingly have nothing in common with! :)

[@megantracy7627]

Someone once told me to use the words “I get to” vs “I have to” when doing anything. When you look at something as a privilege instead of a chore it helps your mind set. Your interactions with your children made me think of these. Enjoy the privilege of being with them.

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh I love that! Thank you for that beautiful insight!

[@samanthagordon6215]

Oh wow! I love Megan Fox unlocked. I ahve learnt so much from her and she's so warm and caring. Same reasons why I love your channel !

[@colleenorrick5415]

Chana, just some trivia for you. I read this in a commentary on the book Peony by Pearl S. Buck. When the first Christian missionaries went to China they found communities of Chinese Jews. I love that! So there must have been Jewish merchants who followed the Silk Road. Though they didn’t proselytize but the Chinese people were inspired to follow Judaism.

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh how interesting! Thank you for sharing!

[@charliebarrow7086]

Thank you Chana for this video, it is so interesting to be able to participate a little bit in someone's life, their customs, their daily routines, beliefs and find out about their religion. The best part for me is to be able to respect and celebrate all the holidays from the different religions that I am learning about. Channels like yours help to broaden people's horizons and will hopefully contribute to less misunderstandings/animosity amongst religious groups as they all stem from the fear of the unknown.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much!

[@melhebs1]

You are GLOWING! Seriously.

[@Mellags]

I was homeschooled and it was a great experience. Im so glad you love it and are able to help your children with what they need.

[@jaroffireflies]

That’s awesome!

[@lisamurdoch1721]

I must say I love that piece of music that accompanies your videos. Very comforting.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! It’s called Blue Mountains by Gabriel Witcher

[@lisamurdoch1721]

That is so funny because the town I grew up in up here in Canada is famous for a downhill ski resort called Blue Mountain. Lol.

[@jaroffireflies]

@@lisamurdoch1721 oh wow! I wonder if the artist is Canadian!

[@angelabankert3341]

Thank you for taking the time to answer all these questions! You even got to mine! 😊

[@patriciagreene5842]

How beautiful you spoke of your rainbow babies… As someone who has also had multiple losses, that was so eloquent , I wouldn’t have my other children. Again, amazing video and comments. Thank you!

[@muneerakhair]

I would LOVE a meet up!

[@roseyc.5846]

P.S. Chana, I've never been into New Year's, either. I'm looking forward to the Q&A with your husband, too. 🙂 Rosemarie 💖

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you :) I am looking forward to that video too lolol

[@nancybrady2976]

I love what you said about smiling when your kids come into the room. Very important!!

[@jaroffireflies]

So glad you liked that!

[@KCGLivingInGray]

HOMESCHOOLING MOTHER OF 4!!!

[@jaroffireflies]

😁😁😁

[@marthaaliceallen8711]

Can't wait for the joint q and a with your hubby!

[@TracysJourneys]

I love Magan, I started following her about a year ago. She’s awesome

[@PinkHawk191]

Chag Tu BiShvat Sameach! I am so glad that you guys are safe. It was a scary weekend for our Jewish Community.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! Yes it was

[@MeritRaXIX]

We have a Kosher McDonald's where I live. I'm not Jewish, but I eat there sometimes because I like the food. I'm sure you would like it.

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh wow that’s cool

[@renanims6630]

Quilting is my favorite activity, along with reading Cosy Mysteries. Gardening is a favorite also!

[@emilyboller7588]

I'm the oldest child and also a rainbow baby. I remember asking my mother once about the child she lost and did she ever wish that baby had been born (I was fairly young and didn't really understand what exactly I was asking). Her immediate response was "Well, if that baby had been born, I wouldn't have you." I've never experienced a miscarriage, but as a mother, I can't imagine experiencing the dichotomy of missing a baby and yet knowing that if that child had been born you wouldn't have the child you do have now.

[@MediocreComedian]

Good morning Chana! I live in NH, and woke up today to a very dreary, cold, windy ice storm. But I brightened right up when I was able to sit and watch your delightful video. I love the Q&A videos so much. You are so graceful in how you answer. How nice it would be to sit and have hot chocolate with you! I am a fellow quilter as well. It can be frustrating, but that finished project is the greatest feeling ever. Have a wonderful day, and God Bless!

[@jaroffireflies]

Stay warm! Hope you get to have some coca or tea and a warm quilt!

[@marije8562]

I absolutely love your parenting advice. For the longest time, I thought I was a burden to my parents. I could never do anything right and especially my mom would just get mad at the slightest mistake I made. I understand now that they were probably stressed (my brother is autistic), but I still have to live with the consequences on my mental health of their parenting choices. I'm studying to be a teacher/pedagogy (my therapist says that it's such an obvious choice for me with the family background that I have) and even on the days where I'm feeling stressed or when I'm on my period or something I make sure to smile when "my" kids walk into the classroom. I'm not authoritarian at all, but "my" kids rarely ever give me trouble. I just want to make sure that no-one ever feels like they're a burden to me. Being a teenager, or even just being a human being is hard enough as it is sometimes, we better make sure we treat each other with kindness and love. 🧡

[@villemokellin]

Thank you for sharing :) I also follow Meghan Fox and love her. Both of you are so willing to share your life, and it makes me happy. I am not Jewish or Mennonite, but you are so inspiering and it makes me work harder to prioritise to follow my own religion. I love your videos.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much! 💖

[@gloriasihlis4932]

I agree with your comment about homeschooling. I homeschooled our daughter and we really enjoyed it. We got to teach our Christian faith to her and go on outings and trips through the years and set our own schedule that is best for our family. We got to teach her things that we thought are important. She graduated Grade 12 in 2015. I think homeschooling is a wonderful option especially for families who want to teach their faith. Teachers work really hard and are much appreciated but there is nothing like a mother's love to inspire their children to really flourish.

[@jaroffireflies]

What you said about there’s nothing like a mothers love is exactly right 💜 I’m so glad y’all had such a wonderful homeschooling experience!

[@stantoncross9782]

i ADORE your videos. I’ve learned so much from you about Jewish culture and it is such a beautiful religion. I was raised a Christian (also live in Dallas and would ABSOLUTELY attend a meet up,) but there is so much beauty in the reverence, ritual, ceremony, and sacred nature of the Jewish faith. Thank you for being such a positive resource and a light for all of your viewers. You are so inspiring. Maybe for a future Q&A video - Is there any sort of standardized stance on LGBTQ rights in the Jewish religion or your community? As a gay man, I always get a little nervous showing interest or trying to learn more about other religions out of fear of being ostracized or judged. Would just love to hear your stance. Thank you again for the work you put into this channel and congratulations on your pregnancy! Absolutely love seeing your incredible family thrive

[@dossit1]

By the Jewish law men are not allowed to sleep with men and for woman it's not appropriate to sleep with woman but also by the Torah we are not allowed to hurt you, it's non of our business, it's only between you and G-d. This is very sensitive topic, there are some religious gays but pretty rare because it goes against the Torah laws. The Torah see the desire as something you can develop and accomplish or control it, every person has some impulses he needs to control, and this is the point of connection with G-d, the weak helpless place inside of me creates the every day conversation and the deep relationship with G-d.

[@michellecolegrove]

You are amazing. Miss you and wish you all well.

[@jaroffireflies]

Miss you too! How are you? 💐💐💐

[@michellecolegrove]

@@jaroffireflies good. Moved to Ohio. I’ll get your number from mom. We’ll catch up.

[@jaroffireflies]

@@michellecolegrove Please do! I would love to catch up :)

[@ednahenrich3627]

Just want to say, again, your channel gives me such joy. You are so positive, even when life is tough. If you ever come to Pittsburgh, I'd love to have a hot chocolate with you. Pittsburgh has a wonderful, vibrant Jewish community. Our Squirrel Hill neighborhood is the heart of it. While I am not Jewish, I would love to share all the great Kosher markets and stores with you and your family.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much for your kind words Edna!

[@marybee4734]

HI,CHANA IOVE YOUR VIEDO LOVE THE WAY YOU ANSWER ALL THE QUESTIONS YOU WERE ASKED THANKS🥰🦋🦋🦋🌻🌻🌻🐝

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you!

[@eilidhmu]

You absolutely and perfectly described why we also home school too! If you ever make it to Scotland let me know, I'd love to show you some of the Highlands! Have a wonderful week

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh I would LOVE to visit Scotland!!!!! So much!!!! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@aspenenglish4976]

Ok green and purple are your colors. It makes your eyes really pop. I too watch Megan Fox. I grew up in an area with Amish and Mennonites. Homeschooling is so worth it and fulfilling. I loved the freedom and adventures that we had. It was quite successful. My kids didn’t want to attend public school. I was so concerned over the hostage situation. Just love and hug your kids. My kids are all adults now. They still come and find me to chat and give hugs. They’re in college but at home due to Covid. I always look forward to your videos. We’re so much alike. We’re gluten free, dairy free and egg free….Fun.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you for your kind words and lovely comment :)

[@linpoulsen1940]

Chana, Thank you for being so open and sharing your life with us. You're so warm and I always feel like I've "spoken" with a friend. You may not think of yourself as an expert on parenting but the fact that you are an aware parent is everything. Specifically with home schooling. I know I've mentioned this before, but it's really impressive that you are able to give your kids the individual attention they would never receive in public school, but also the experiences (nature walks, cooking/baking, music, drawing/painting) which will make them well-rounded and grounded individuals. Kudos to you for that. And finally, YESSSSSSSSS New Jersey!!! We have the best hot chocolate in the NYC area, and I'm sure lots of subscribers who would love to meet you. Or maybe we'll wait to meet you and your husband at the book signing for your Gluten-free/Moroccan/Orthodox cookbook??

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much for your kind words! And maybe a cookbook one day!

[@Emmahb8]

You're totally welcome to come to Melbourne, Australia for Hot Chocolate.

[@suzanneparmenter1478]

I’m so glad that you and your community are safe Chana and that all the hostages were unharmed. This most be so hard for you and your husband to deal with. I’m hoping that your children are still young enough to not understand what has happened. Thinking of all Jewish communities at this time xx

[@heathermayfield4247]

I have been thinking about you and yours over the past few days following the news from Texas - so pleased the Rabbi and congregants managed to get out safely, he sounds an amazing man.. I stand with you all Chana - love WILL conquer even though it currently feels hard to believe. Your videos have become an important part of my KZbin watching I like Megan Fox too!

[@annettewalter2273]

I too love classical music. I have been to Morocco and loved it, the people, the food and the history, Morocco was the first holiday I had after my husband died and I didn’t know how I would feel. It left me with some wonderful memories.

[@junieontherun3311]

I just posted a video of us making your Moroccan Fish recipe and it was wonderful!

[@bananamilk2605]

I apologize for spamming the comment section ahahah. Just caught that you have a baby coming ?!?!!? Aaaahhhh CONGRATULATIONS/ MAZEL TOV ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ What beautiful news. Thank you for sharing.

[@jaroffireflies]

😊😊😊 Yes!!! Check out my last video!

[@marsharotramel6348]

I'm a fan! I'm not Jewish, but have always loved learning about different faiths. "We are all more alike than we are different" Love - can't find the heart emoji! LOL

[@Katalila]

That was lovely advice about making sure your face lights up when your kids walk into the room, I will try to pay attention to that in my own life! And the green scarf makes your eyes sparkle ✨ hope you have a great day!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! 💖💖💖

[@karenhopper1691]

I have been reading the comments and it is interesting how many of us follow the same KZbin channels. I watch Megan Fox and the 2 Hutterite channels mentioned. Plus Sonya's Prep and Frum it up. We are all so different but there are also many similarities between us all. About to go watch your video on ERVU, I somehow missed it. Have a good and blessed week! ❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Yes! It’s fun how much overlap we have!

[@jeanroughley1126]

I love Rosemary and Thyme also.

[@jaroffireflies]

Such a great show:)

[@shawnrdavis1010]

Another wonderful video where I learned so much! I always find the homeschooling questions humorous-as I get them too. I once answered someone (who asked in a not-so-nice way and tone) who asked if I thought I was skilled enough to hs my grandson’, who was in Kindergarten at the time, “ well I did make it all the way through grade school and then some, so yes! I think I am skilled enough!” Again-so happy for you all for the new baby coming and so very happy that you all are safe. Such scary news this past weekend. Have a marvelous week! Blessings!!!

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh gosh the homeschool questions :) lol It’s hard to tell tone in comments here, but I know what you mean! I get them in person too :)

[@shawnrdavis1010]

I tried to answer in a kind tone but I know it was sarcastic. But I just couldn’t anymore!!

[@susansmith493]

Laura from the Bruderhof is my favorite eye opening channel. Not her specifically but the Bruderhof in general. The self sufficiency, the equipment, the farming, the construction. All fascinating.

[@jaroffireflies]

I’ve seen her channel too! Very interesting:)

[@alisonb1699]

I have visited the UK Bruderhof community, they invited us. Such lovely people.

[@jaroffireflies]

@@alisonb1699 that’s so cool!

[@elizabethj.davenport8947]

My mother just recently got back into quilting! It’s such a great way to use up clothing that is either too worn or outgrown but still has sentimental value. I also think it would be cool to do one of those craft retreats; my mom went to a knitting retreat that was on a cruise ship!

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh that’s cool! I heard of an Alaskan quilting cruise! I want to go so bad! Lol

[@elizabethj.davenport8947]

@@jaroffireflies Oh that sounds interesting, hopefully it’s during the summer 😅

[@jaroffireflies]

@@elizabethj.davenport8947 lol right

[@micheledavis3735]

Wow…I commented earlier, but cannot not say this…your parenting advice hit me right in my heart. I endeavour to always embrace my nieces and nephews immediately and now, I’ll make sure my face reflects my heart. Thank you!

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh Michele I am so happy that resonated with you! I know it really stuck with me the first time I heard it :)

[@kathy2929]

Thank you for sharing. Glad your are so happy, it is evident this is your personality.

[@TheJazzlass]

I love the advice that you gave about when your children walk in the room your face lights up. It’s always nice to be wanted ❤️👍😃

[@jaroffireflies]

I’m glad you liked that :) It’s true! Even as adults we love that!

[@kristinmiller4779]

Good morning Chana and kiddos and lil one! Your whole being has changed you are absolutely glowing!

[@jaroffireflies]

Aw thank you Kristin!

[@barbseverino1278]

Great video Chana. Have a great day .

[@debbiewoell3247]

Yes!! Meet up...in Minneapolis. 😊

[@reneematlock9657]

My best parenting advice: When raising children the *goal* is to have functioning adults when you are finished raising them as opposed to overgrown children. Teaching life skills (cooking, cleaning, laundry, how to make good decisions, etc...) is as necessary to their development as teaching the "three r's".

[@jaroffireflies]

Great advice!

[@leonettacook923]

My children are 31 & 28 & my face lights up when they come to my house 🏠. Good advice!!!

[@jaroffireflies]

Love that!!!

[@Penny-bt4gc]

I had the opportunity to visit Israel and Jordan on a pilgrimage through my church. It was a beautiful and fascinating place to visit. I would love to go again as a regular tourist and take more time to sightsee. The food was great and people very friendly.

[@juliehowell8251]

I'm a fellow Rosemary and Thyme watcher, too!🙂

[@jaroffireflies]

Such a great show!

[@angleabass8751]

I was totally going to ask what KZbin channels you like 👍 Yay ! Big love from Fort Worth

[@nadenrc]

My thoughts immediately went to you and your family during the hostage situation. Thank you for explaining.

[@ministerlilliancobos3364]

Thanks for the Q&A Chana! Looking forward to when you and your husband do a Q&A

[@spunkycat6144]

Ah, you are safe. I could only think of what happened this weekend and hopes that you guys were totally safe. And oh my, the way you described Megan's channel is the same way I would describe both of you. I watch you gals and one other person in Florida. I found her first (can't recall her name, found Megan thru her and you thru Megan. My life has been so much improved. Both of you are like Big Sisters even though you are both younger but I have a young personality.

[@micheledavis3735]

So funny…I told Megan and Lynnette Yoder to watch you! Lynne said she would! I love you!

[@jaroffireflies]

You are so sweet thank you Michele! I have seen Lynette's channel, she seems so sweet!

[@micheledavis3735]

@@jaroffireflies yes…it’s like Maya Angelou said, “we are more alike my dear, than we are unalike”. I feel that.

[@jaroffireflies]

@@micheledavis3735 indeed :)

[@lifewithklc]

Class is in session! As usual, this was super informative. Thank you, Chana.

[@ashextraordinaire]

Your parenting advice is spot-on, though. My mom made mistakes (everyone does), but I've known one thing without a doubt: she was -- and still is! -- absolutely delighted to be my mom. Your kids, growing up with that same foundational knowledge, are going to be okay no matter what. When everything you do stems from that love, you can't go wrong.

[@jaroffireflies]

I super love that! Thank you :)

[@lhernan301]

I also love the Rosemay and Thyme mysteries. My husband bought me the DVD set for my Birthday. And I do not care for raunchy movies or books. Give me a good cozy mystery any time.

[@christaalbrecht67]

I learned a lot from this video, thank you so much. I was hoping you'd address a question I (and a couple other people) had asked earlier: how does your community deal with kids or young people who are gay or transgender? I love that your parental advice is to love your kids and show them how much you love them. So how would you support kids who don't fit the norm? My own son is transgender so that's why I am asking, in part.

[@snowwhitecupcakes272]

Agreed! I would like to know more about how trans individuals can fit within Judaism. Right now I am working on a Conservative conversion (my husband is a Jew.) We have a trans daughter and another who we suspect is a lesbian, so I feel I cannot belong to a community if my children are not accepted and supported.

[@dossit1]

By the Jewish law men are not allowed to sleep with men and for woman it's not appropriate to sleep with woman. Transgender is not allowed because we are not allowed to do any damage or change our bodies. This is very sensitive topic, there are some religious gays but pretty rare because it goes against the Torah laws. The Torah see the desire as something you can develop and accomplish or control it, every person has some impulses he needs to control, and this is the point of connection with G-d, the weak helpless place inside of me creates the every day conversation and the deep relationship with G-d.

[@karenhill1739]

Hi Chana, I have thoroughly enjoyed the Q and A sessions. It has been very informative. I spoke with my son over the weekend (he is in New Zealand) and we are hoping I will be able to go over by December. I miss him so much, but having you and your channel in my life twice weekly keeps me going. I hope you are keeping well and looking after yourself.

[@jaroffireflies]

I so hope you’ll be able to visit him soon! I can’t imagine how hard that must be

[@karenhill1739]

@@jaroffireflies - thank you Chana, I have gotten used to him being away now, we keep in touch a lot and he has always been so good to me. I got myself a furry friend 8 weeks ago - a ginger tabby called Leo he is such a funny little man and keeps me amused with all his antics. 😀

[@jaroffireflies]

@@karenhill1739 I’m glad you have Leo :)

[@marthavenegas3537]

I’m disappointed that you did not answer my question. I thought that it was an important one related to childhood diabetes. I responded to your request for questions on your IG post.

[@shandah.9103]

I love to watch any of your crafting and art making/making videos. I loved the miniatures the most. Ive watched almost all your videos, so more creative videos I would Love!

[@jenniferhwaddington]

Thank you so much for answering my question! I truly appreciate it. Many blessings to you.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much for asking it!

[@rebeccanichol]

Thank you! Another amazing video with such great information. You explain everything so well.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Rebecca!

[@CherylNoe]

Good morning, Chana! So nice to see you again!!! I have a Shabbat question. If you forgot to do something before Shabbat, like turn on your food heating tray or set up your lights or something you are not allowed to do, can you invite a non-Jewish person into your home to do the "work" you aren't allowed to do, like turn the lights on or prepare your food? Thank you again for a great video. I love the Q&A's!

[@jaroffireflies]

So sort of… I can’t outright ask anyone for anything or to do anything. But if there was sort of an emergency like a fire, I would go to a neighbor and explain and without asking they would come to help

[@chayastaub-krell6601]

I'm fortunate to have a non-Jewish person living in my home (my son-in-law). Many times, I'll forget to turn on the light on my back porch before Shabbos. I like to daven and read out there before and after dinner. I can't ask my son-in-law directly but I can hint. Something like "it's really dark out here" or, if a ceiling fan is left on but it's cold in the room, I can mention "it's kinda chilly in here." He's become really great at realizing things ahead of time, noticing what I've forgotten or the temperature in the house, etc so he just does things before I can even hint. This type of thing may be different in different communities.

[@amma3536]

Take care and be blessed! Hope you are feeling better.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you!

[@jennelle.v]

Thank you for these videos and sharing this glimpse into your life.

[@jaroffireflies]

You’re so welcome!

[@annemcclelland5036]

Learning so much from your Chanel, so interesting and informative and sooooooo fun. Loved how you responded to the question on parenting when your kids come into the room..Amazing… always love the smile and expressions on your face through out your video’s. Looking forward to all your video’s, especially one with you and your husband 🇨🇦 💕

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Anne :)

[@teutonic7113]

I’m a huge fan of British crime shows. Rosemary and Thyme and Father Brown are faves!

[@myboyzr2]

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. You are a great mom! That was the best parenting advice I’ve ever heard..ever. Put me on the list for tea in the Northeast!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you!!!

[@Trekkifulshay]

I loved Rosemary and Thyme I'd forgotten about it lol

[@jaroffireflies]

Such a great show!

[@winnieewing7730]

Once again Channa thank you for all your answers. I really enjoy the Q & a. The expression on your face makes smile. 🌹😊Hope you are keeping well and not being too sick in the morning. ❤️Ireland.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much for your lovely comment 💖💖💖

[@rax1437]

If you like Rosemary and Thyme then I would highly recommend Father Brown

[@jaroffireflies]

I’ve seen it! Great recommendation!

[@barbarashames1372]

Thank you so much for sharing all the wonderful information. You're a special lady🌹🌷❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much!

[@sue1263]

Thank you! Another day of learning, as a third grade teacher I love learning about different cultures and the way people do things. We have the day off today so I was able to catch a video early this morning. I think the real reason that you homeschool is because you love your children and you want to spend time with them as well as choose their curriculum and be able to meet them where they are which is so wonderful. Have a wonderful week

[@jaroffireflies]

I definitely love my kids and love spending time with them :) I guess I figure that goes without saying 😂 I keep thinking I’ll do a video just on the topic of why I homeschool because I get asked that question so often… maybe one day :)

[@wendi2819]

Hannah, if you happen to see this, what is the word you are using about an apparel women are wearing you said is a man's apparel. I've listened many times and can't grasp this word to look it up. I just love having you explain your ancient and beautiful culture!!! 💗

[@jaroffireflies]

I’m sorry can you give me a time stamp? Or is it tzitzit?

[@wendi2819]

@@jaroffireflies thank you.💗

[@jaroffireflies]

@@wendi2819 was that the word you were looking for?

[@claudiathatcher5342]

Hi Chana. Thank you for the very informative video. Also thank you for answering my question. I didn't think it was going to get answered but it was the last question 😂. I love learning about other religions and cultures. It promotes greater understanding among people. Nothing causes more problems than

[@claudiathatcher5342]

Jumping to conclusions

[@jaroffireflies]

I’m so glad I was able to get to your question! Thank you for asking it :)

[@clm2417]

As usual, learned some new things. Always fun, and always interesting. Btw, I am from New Jersey, and would love if someday you did a meet & greet. I can only imagine that now is definitely not the time! Thanks again for a great video.

[@jaroffireflies]

NJ seems a popular spot! I’d definitely be open to a meet up there next time I’m around :)

[@clm2417]

@@jaroffireflies Anytime, I will be there!

[@jenniferlawrence9652]

@@jaroffireflies same here I live in Tom's River near Lakewood NJ and would absolutely love to meet you if your ever here .. would be amazing

[@melaniecortes2856]

Thank you for doing these videos. I didn’t know anything about Judaism before and it is so fun to learn from you. I appreciate your positivity and kindness…, you model good citizenship and that’s something we can all be better at.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you for your lovely comment Melanie!

[@courtneyharrel5500]

Hope you are feeling better and 🥳 Mazel Tov!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks Courtney!

[@nickyedgerley8129]

If you ever get to Vermont I would love to meet you

[@HappyGirl4666]

Hi Chana, I tried to hurry back from an appointment to see you video. We are having a blizzard the snow is already to my knees. Walking was fun . 😵‍💫

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh wow! Stay warm and safe!

[@HappyGirl4666]

@@jaroffireflies ❤️

[@andreajohnston7479]

Thank you for everything you share I am fascinated! And I might add you are Glowing! Have a great day today

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you!

[@karenkingrey6142]

I love your Q & A’s!!! I watch Megan Fox too! Isn’t she just the sweetest little thing!? And I have so enjoyed learning about different religions. I have learned so much about being Jewish from your channel. So many things I really did not know!!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Karen!

[@Getlostandwander]

I totally understand about the rainbow baby! I had a miscarriage in March of 96, got pregnant in April 96, and had our baby in December 96. I know that we can't replace a lost baby but I know that my son is a precious gift and I can't imagine him not being here. It has totally helped with the loss. Thank you for answering my question about kosher vs gluten free. Watching you and Sonya's Prep make kosher meals makes it seem so manageable but being gluten free would be overwhelming for me at this point.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Hope! I’m so glad you got your rainbow 🌈💜

[@trishpolk640]

Thank you, Chana!!! You are amazing ...and such a great mama and wife!!! I am not into New Yrs either, but if next yr your kids wanted to go crazy at 12:OO, let them. Do it at 12 noon!!!

[@jaroffireflies]

😂😂😂

[@keahithefieryone8513]

That's funny you tried crochet and couldn't pick it up, I tried knitting and just fumbled but i'm the Crochet Queen LOL - love your upbeat self!

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh how funny! Lol seems not many folks do both lol in my experience at least

[@dreaG45]

Good morning Chana. It’s a freezing snowy day at my house so I’m going to sit here in a warm place and watch your video. ❤️🤗 A meetup would be really cool.

[@jaroffireflies]

Stay warm! It’s cold here too today but not bad considering:)

[@tamarfischer283]

You did such a great job in this q&a. I hope it gets you another 1000 subscribers ( yes I feel like I an your bookkeeper).

[@jaroffireflies]

Aw thank you 😊

[@janithgottfried8320]

Chana, if we would meet, I envision a stack of books next to each of us and a lot of book swapping going on! As always a pleasure to watch and learn....

[@jaroffireflies]

Yes! All the books!

[@sabineottala3588]

I loved hearing about your parenting ideas; your children are lucky! If you do another q and a, I would like to know about Jewish marriage preparation and if there's a process within the religion to discuss your values as a couple and how you envisage married life together. Does the community or family offer advice about how to choose a spouse and be happy together? I'm also curious about your motivation to convert - did you feel drawn to living a traditional orthodox life, or was it more of a theological conviction? Do you think you'd have chosen a similar lifestyle if you hadn't discovered Judaism?

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! There are classes brides and grooms take before marriage, it’s a one on one class as far as I know to learn about Jewish laws about marriage plus marriage in general like relationship stuff. I’ve always been drawn to a more traditional life, so while I converted reform I came to Orthodox Judaism from there :) There is no telling what I would have chosen had I been born into this! Of course I’d like to think I’d be here :)