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[@jaroffireflies]

We are super busy over here getting ready for passover! Stay tuned for Passover content starting this Thursday!!!

[@sarnobyl]

chag Pesach kasher vesame’ach! I'm getting ready for my first Passover! So excited to go to the Seder at the Synagogue!

[@jaroffireflies]

@@sarnobyl That is soooo exciting!!!!! I hope you have so much fun! Enjoy!

[@shawndavis824]

So looking forward to it!

[@shawndavis824]

I think you are amazing! But I do agree, we can’t do it all-at least all at the same time. First, we have to learn that we have to take care of ourselves in order to take care of others and all the hats we wear as stay-at-home moms. I so appreciate that you protect your children’s privacy. I look forward to seeing some baby toes-nothing as sweet as baby feet and toes! Enjoy Passover and many blessings to you and your family!

[@jaroffireflies]

@@shawndavis824 thank you Shawn! 💜💜💜

[@BabsLongfellow]

I heard a great saying once: "You can do it all, but you can't do it at the same time". Looks like you have figured that out. FABULOUS Q&A!

[@ericajensen8173]

I busted out laughing when your child voice their opinion!! That is just too precious!!!!🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@jaroffireflies]

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[@karenjohnson5634]

Great advice on “you can’t do it all”!! So many people try to tell moms they can be great at everything all the time! But it is so reassuring to hear you say you have to pick and choose. I’m like you in that I may do a lot in one area and then can’t do so much in the other areas that day. Not enough energy!! 🤪 Above all, I think the mom’s attitude is the most important thing to work on. Who cares if the house is spotless and have fancy meals if mom is angry, fussing, and yelling all the time? Mom life ain’t no joke! Hardest thing I’ve ever done! But it seems like you are doing a great job! 🥰

[@jaroffireflies]

It’s been a hard lesson for me to learn and I’m still learning! And yes you are so right attitude matters greatly!

[@karenjohnson5634]

@@jaroffireflies Me too, Chana!!!! I am my worst critic!! I have to fight the feelings of thinking I’m a failure if I’m not perfect in all aspects of motherhood and homemaking

[@LastEnchantment]

"Do you have cleaning help around the house? No..... unless you count my kids" I am WHEEZING with laughter, and will share that with my mom (who is preparing to host the extended family for Easter this coming weekend & bossing us around). It's nice to know that there are some similarities between families, regardless of religion. :)

[@jaroffireflies]

Lol yes we are not so different :) glad you got a kick out of that 😁

[@moriyahnurieli1749]

Hi! Religious Jewish girl here! Concerning the modest wardrobe question I have a few tips as well: 1. I never felt comfortable wearing shells under my tops because I don’t like how tight they are or how they look on me, so an easy alternative is to wear turtlenecks, especially in the winter months. 2. I personally don’t like how a lot of Jewish clothing stores design their modest dresses, because I feel that they’re too mature for me or too formal, so another option is to shop on Muslim women’s sites or stores. They have similar rules in terms of modesty, and it’s a way to connect the two communities 🥰. There’s a lot of “fashion inspo” posts for Muslim women that can also be fun for Jews to explore! Finally 3. This one is obviously not accessible to everyone but if you have a trip planned to Israel, consider shopping for clothes there. There are so many modest and cute little stores, especially in Jerusalem because the population there is generally more religious. Of course at the end of the day, you can find your own pieces at stores near you, it can sometimes just take a little digging. Hope this helps! ❤️

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much for sharing your tips! I’ll add apostolic Christian stores have the same modesty standards we do and I’ve been able to find a lot of clothing at their shops too :)

[@almostorthodox4071]

And here I am (a Muslim) looking at those beautiful tichels (please excuse my spelling)... The designs are unique indeed.

[@jaroffireflies]

@@almostorthodox4071 You spelled it right! Welcome :) I am so glad you are here!

[@mariailly5590]

I liked very much your answer about “ we can’t do everything perfectly “, and “ it’s totally ok”🌻

[@jaroffireflies]

💜😊

[@karenhopper1691]

I liked it very much also. We are just so hard on ourselves sometimes trying to do everything for everyone. Such a good reminder. Thank you!

[@cmgobin]

Fantastic video Chana - loved learning a little bit more about you. Also, I admire your determination to protect your children's identity and privacy. Have an awesome week!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you!

[@janithgottfried8320]

Hi Chana! My mother used to say " choose your battles ". She was a wife, mom, teacher, and my mentor. It was a philosophy I followed throughout school, work and home. I smile when I hear you say " that's okay", because I know my mom would agree! As always a pleasure to watch and learn......

[@staceyjohnson2929]

I was married at 19 to my sweetheart. This year is 26 years... and I have never felt like I've missed out at all. It's been such a glorious adventure! I totally relate to what you say about that!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks for sharing!!! I absolutely love what you had to say about that topic :)

[@queenizzy01]

I’ve been dating my boyfriend since we were both 18, now both of us turning 24 this year. It’s been great navigating adulthood together and life on our own

[@carolemckibbon4586]

Thank you for explaining the dishwasher situation. I am in my late 70s but one of my childhood memories is of a school friend who was Jewish. Her mother's kitchen fascinated me. Two dishwashers, two fridges and two ovens. This was late 50s, early 60s in Atlanta. Her mother always wore wigs except in the summer time when she wore scarfs. Pre air-conditioning. As I got older I began to understand more about the Jewish religion. However, until I started watching you, I never really understood the dietary laws that required the separate appliances, separate plates silverware, etc. Still learning at my age.

[@debra333]

Hi, sweet Chana! Your beautiful attitude of continuous learning is something people of all faiths should embrace, and in all areas of life!!

[@sabrinamoskowitz488]

You should totally celebrate your ten year anniversary!!! That's a genuine milestone. Ten years of love, laughs, kids, and all that jazz.

[@kimmykat9]

We have been married 41 years ( can't believe it ) but...we've never had a big fan fair. We celebrate being together daily so that's good for me.💕

[@jaroffireflies]

Love that so much!

[@kimmykat9]

@@jaroffireflies 💖

[@arleneg1271]

We are busy this week as well with Easter coming up. I am having Easter lunch here so Mom is making lots of lists!! Happy Early 10th anniversary! We usually go out to dinner to celebrate but that is about it. We got married young. I was 21 and my husband was 24...still going strong almost 46 years later!! It is a blessing to find the right one when you are young.

[@jaroffireflies]

46 years! Amazing!!!!

[@sahawk0709]

We married young as well. 22 and 24 although at that point it didn't seem young. LOL. 33 years ago... oh ouch, saying that out loud hurt. 😳

[@arleneg1271]

@@sahawk0709 we did not think we were young either.lol I had just graduated from nursing school and my husband was in the process of getting his PhD in physics at Ga Tech. Our first child was born two years later. I think so many young people wait to get married and then they are set in their own ways, which can be problematic. We grew up together.lol

[@lyndajones2029]

I love how you protect your children- and thanks for the clothing information.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much and you are so welcome!

[@julielanderjensen480]

So glad that you don't have the morning sickness anymore - Good for you :) I'm really happy for theese q and a's, it is always a pleasure to get to know you a little more :) I hope you all will have a fantastic passover :D

[@martaupward5992]

And btw, I imagine your sentimental followers would be happy to congratulate you in your milestone of 10 years. Happy Anniversary, in advance.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Marta 😊

[@martaupward5992]

Chana, your last answer about not being able to do it all was so helpful. As a musician, I really loved you using the word rhythm in describing what works for your family. I will be moving soon and realize that will be my aim, to discover the thrum that works for me. As always, I loved this video.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Marta! I’m so glad that all resonated with you 💜

[@itzchakbenavi]

Super wish I was a part of a Sephardic community for Pesach haha. I love the different approaches to mitzvot and yet we are all still united in so many ways. Enjoyed this!

[@jaroffireflies]

Lol most Ashkenaz seem to lol

[@amyworthington9037]

Former Southern Baptist, deconstructing currently, Seems such a common sense religion. Once you said we LIVE by the Torah, we don’t Die by the Torah, nothing has ever resonated more with me EVER. Thanks for the content.

[@jaroffireflies]

So glad you enjoyed :) Thank you for watching!

[@mags102755]

I like your answers to the questions. You strike me as a practical and accepting person.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Margaret :)

[@kristinmiller4779]

Love this I could listen to you all day. You should read books and tape them I'd love that!!

[@jaroffireflies]

That would be such a dream job!!!

[@barbarashames1372]

Thanks again for sharing. You are fabulous!💙

[@jaroffireflies]

😊❤️

[@bobbidazzler1343]

Ahhhhh. It's my wedding anniversary today. 13 wonderful years. 😘

[@jaroffireflies]

Happy anniversary!!!!!

[@kimmykat9]

Happy Anniversary !!!

[@sahawk0709]

Happy Anniversary! Have a blessed day

[@a_numbers_girl7025]

What a wonderful message. I am okay with being okay too! Love your channel❤

[@lupeaguilera8348]

Great Questions and Answers. Thank you for allowing us into your life. 🤗

[@roseyc.5846]

Hi Chana: I agree about getting married as soon as you find the "right one". I was married at 22, and, those 20+ years I spent with my husband, raising my kids, were the happiest, most fulfilling of my entire life. I love learning more about Judaism and your way of life. Thank you for sharing so much with us. Wishing you all a zissen Pesach, and, hopefully you'll share some of that, as well! Rosemarie 💖

[@heatherinparis]

Good morning Chana.....thanks for the video full of interesting answers this morning :D Always look forward to those days when I know you're uploading a new video.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks Heather!

[@Sandy_Toes_2020]

I love how you give us these beautiful glimpses into your life and teach us about Jewish life while still maintaining you and your family's privacy. Love your videos!

[@suominainen707]

I love your advice on marriage! I have been blessed to see so many young couples marry in their early 20s and mature together. It's beautiful.

[@christinab.9330]

You are so beautifully gracious with answering all questions. I’m loving learning about your religion and how you run your home in such a wonderful way. Thank you for your videos.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much for your kind words 💜

[@gailresko8315]

Another great Q&A!! Wishing you and your beautiful family a very Happy Passover. Raised Catholic and several family members married Jewish folks. Have blended traditions for all the holidays when coincide. And all the cousins thoroughly enjoyed learning. Love matzohs, macaroons and brisket- mmmmm! Glad the morning sickness is done - enjoy all the holiday goodies!

[@michaelurvoy]

Hello, Chana, I hope that you and your family are well! I cannot believe Passover is so close! Where does the time go? 😆

[@jaroffireflies]

I know right?!? Wasn’t Purim like last week??? 🤣

[@medic6809]

I really enjoyed this Q&A It was SO refreshing to hear you say "I'm ok with being ok." I need to adapt to this more. My new motto has been 5% is better than nothing. So if I can't clean the entire kitchen i'll do the dishes or set a timer for 5 minutes. If I can't do all the folding i'll sort it. I find it encourages me to start and finish something and still have a sense of closure or peace that I made improvement that future me will appreciate. Blessings to you and my prayers your hg stays away!

[@RochelWaldman]

Hi Chana! you are looking Great Boruch Hashem! Just wanna add for the viewers, in Judaism,we are always learning. I was brought up in a religious home, went to Day school, and I am still learning new things. Last night we had a shiur(class) ( on zoom) from Rabbi Zev Leff from Moshav Matityahu, near Modiin.,Israel. He spoke for over an hour (in English) on Hilchot Pesach. All things we know but we always need to go over,and study. Sometimes what we did in our parents home is not what we do in our own home. Always learning! My husband and I do have the same Rabbi as we live in a community in Israel with the rabbi leading our shul, But there can be families who will seek advice from their different Rabbi's. About the healthcare in Israel, Like you said, it's not free here. It might be cheaper than in the states but we still pay monthly.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you for sharing that info Rochel! ❤️ I appreciate it!

[@WrenMoon]

Such a pleasure to see your vlog this morning 🌞ray of light to my Monday !

[@bettymaclennan2000]

You are looking well Chana! It is great that you can keep some things private. Have a great week!

[@MediocreComedian]

Hi Chana…as always loved the Q&A. Thank you for sharing with moms that they can wear many hats and just do the best they can with each one. Moms need a huge pat on the back for their efforts because they could drive themselves crazy if they expect perfection. I have to say you do make it look effortless but your “it’s ok” attitude and flexibility is just what a busy mom needs. I’m sure a lot of moms appreciate you! ❤️

[@alixwithani8250]

Can it be it’s Passover time already and I’ve been subscribed a YEAR now?! Wow, time flies. So glad to have found your “Kashering my kitchen” and consequently your channel this year!

[@jaroffireflies]

Aw thank you so much for still being here!!!!! 💖

[@lesleywhite6285]

Hello Chana 👋🏻 Another super interesting Q&A today. Thanks so much for your sharing. I know I’m not alone when I say that I really appreciate your willingness to answer so many questions about, well, EVERYTHING! Enjoy your week! Lesley 😊

[@giuliamotta6871]

Hello. First, let me say that I truly do enjoy our brief correspondence thru the comments section of your videos. This has been another very interesting video. I have said this before but, it bears repeating. I learn a lot from you. Many blessings to you and your family.

[@debbiec4224]

Great Q & A. I love how your respect your kids privacy and that of the forth coming new baby! Caught a glimpse of the 2 oldest in the bloopers! They wized by. I always enjoy your videos. Wishing you and your family a great passover!

[@HappyGirl4666]

I agree , Chana we can’t do it all all the time. It makes people so unhappy and unfulfilled. Pick one or two things a day we can do well.

[@phyllismandelbaum5550]

Just wanted to wish you and your family a Chag Kasher V'sameach 😄. Your relaxed mood always puts a smile on my face. I truly appreciated your outlook on doing it all. Many busy parents can relate. Being "good enough" is what all of us can strive for. HaShem doesn't expect perfection and neither should we. Too much pressure and heartache ensues. I have recommended your channel to several people. Tou deserve

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@FrenchyTaylor]

I love how firm you are about your privacy boundaries. You are very wise about this, those parasociale relationship can be a bit much sometime.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you 😊

[@shaboohshoobah714]

Hey Chana, thank you for answering my question about Ladino! Ladino is essentially the Sephardic version of Yiddish - although Ladino is now almost a dead language compared to Yiddish. I myself am not Jewish, but have always been interested in Judaism and found out a while ago that I have some Sephardic ancestors who fled Portugal in the 17th century. I was so excited when I realised that you and your husband are Sephardi! I love watching your videos and getting an insight into how my ancestors might have practised Judaism as Sephardim. I have also been seriously considering converting to Judaism, so your channel really has it all for me! Thank you again Chana and best of luck for the future! ❤️

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you for the info on Ladino and your question! That’s so cool about your family history!!!

[@kimreed6733]

Thanks for sharing! You are an inspiration to all of us! 💗💗

[@jeanbroman4814]

You have a wonderful attitude about not being perfect and to go with flow of the day

[@jackiepadin3629]

I do admire how humble you are. It is very true that we can’t be the best at everything. As you say as long the children, your health is well every thing else falls into place. As long as you are comfortable and not stressed is totally fine. I have the same philosophy and there are days that I decide to do nothing and guess what, is not a major catastrophe!. iWishing you and yours good health and continuous growth in your channel ❤️❤️❤️🥰😍😘

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Jackie ❤️

[@marinamayo7994]

I really like what you said about not being able to know it all! You seem like a very peaceful and joyful person and this is a true gift to your family! Just noticed. I said know it all, I meant to say do it all!

[@angelateague5792]

I love the random kid answer to a hypothetical question! So great! The question about the gluten free challah got me thinking about the coming holiday: Do you make your own gluten free matzah for Passover? I know from TikTok that GF matzah in the store is a thing, but I imagine that like so many things GF, it's more expensive.

[@jaroffireflies]

Hi Angela! No we do not make our own matzah. We buy for our son the gluten free matzah that he needs.

[@jennysnook]

@@jaroffireflies would you consider sharing your GF challah recipe? I would love to make it 💗

[@jaroffireflies]

@@jennysnook absolutely! It’s right here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZoG4q5qDh5l9qrc enjoy!

[@annettemurielle]

I always enjoy your Q&A's so much! Wishing you and yours a blessed Passover and Holy Days!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Murielle!

[@marybee4734]

HI CHANA THANKS THE QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS WERE REALLY 👍 GREAT 🥰🦋🦋🦋🌻🌻🌻🐝

[@annettewalter2273]

I was so pleased to hear you say you feel odd having someone else in your home to clean etc. I have felt like that for ever, I am older now and Asthmatic, my dear Brother and some friends keep saying I should have a cleaner, my answer is always i would feel uncomfortable having a stranger in my home all the time. I know I shall do it for as long as I can, it doesn’t all have to be done on the same day and I pace myself.

[@leeannjohnson1808]

Thank you SO much for mentioning Kosher Casual! I am very modest when it comes to clothing and so many times, I've ordered a "large" in something that claims to be oversized and I wouldn't leave my bedroom wearing some of those things. It's refreshing to find modest, loose fitting clothing.

[@karenhill3161]

Hi Channa, great to see you again. You are looking so well and I am glad everything is going well for you. Loved the Q and A's. Happy Passover to you and your family.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Karen!

[@trishpolk640]

Just adore you, Chana!!! I wish I lived near you!!!!!

[@Janguppy]

You rocked this one. Way to be yourself 🙌💞

[@juliaforbes-nish9027]

I love watching your videos. It's really interesting. Greetings from Bonnie Scotland

[@breahnalawrence6725]

I am both in awe and in love with the esteem and respect women are held in, in your culture. Not that I feel we aren't respected within Christianity, but it seems so much more intentional for you.

[@homewithmiglad987]

I love your advice at the end about how you get stuff done. Your attitude is golden. Also, we want to go to Harry Potter world and haven't been, either! My hubby is a huge fan.

[@avocado00000]

Very informative, as usual. I usually learn something from you. I'm so happy your morning sickness is gone.

[@devorahfonn613]

Hope you having a good start to the week,hope your Pesach prep is going well also been super busy with that... looking forward to your pesach prep videos

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! You too! Hope the cleaning has been fun!

[@devorahfonn613]

It's been good.. almost done...

[@jaroffireflies]

@@devorahfonn613 fantastic!

[@grammy3875]

I enjoy your Q & A's so much!

[@cherylcalac8485]

Wonderful video, love Q&A! Bless you and your family 💕

[@louiseclark7967]

Great Q&A! I totally agree with you about the cleaning help- It would be so weird to me, and very uncomfortable! Have a great week- see you next time- Love from CT

[@aidele5757]

Im sure ive said this before, but I'll say it again. I love your attitude!!!!!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you 😊

[@almostorthodox4071]

Always enjoy your videos 💕

[@claudiathatcher5342]

Good morning Chana. I loved the video. I always learn something new during the Q&A. I'm so happy that your morning sickness is gone!! My poor niece is 8 weeks along and is sooo sick that she had to go to the hospital for an IV due to dehydration. She is saying that this baby is going to be an only child 😂. I'm sure once she sees him/her for the first time, all of that will be forgotten. Have a great week and I'll see you Thursday

[@feliciafisher3748]

Thank-you for always respecting your family's privacy and security. I like when I see helping hands and feet splashing in puddles. I think the snood is the coolest hair covering. I shaved my head years ago and wear a hat to keep my head warm ( non-jew). Please, will you tell me the name of the book you showed with the commentary and bi-lingual scriptures?

[@lindaversil1121]

Artscroll chumash

[@jaroffireflies]

Yes it’s the Artscroll Stone Edition Chumash. You can find it on Artscroll’s website.

[@jettabartholomew1118]

Congratulations 🎉 on your 10th 🌻 You should go on a baby moon to celebrate 🥂 Loved this vlog...as always 💙

[@elizabethgrogan8553]

It's great to hear of another mom who does not like Disney or similar theme parks. I've visited Disneyland Paris and it was a nightmare. I don't enjoy waiting in lines. I also think the parks push to much merchandise & junk food. I did not want my daughter to set a goal of being a princess. I wanted her to set higher standards for herself, and she has. There are so many great museums (The Natural history museum is a favourite), Galleries and places to visit. All can be great fun. I've taken her to Harry Potter exploration parks, because she was a fan from the 1st book. We've also visited wonderful countries together. I fully support your decision to not film your children. They can't give informed consent and exposure could cause issues at School. Looking forward to baby arriving safely.

[@jaroffireflies]

Love that :) Our vacation of choice is either camping or staying in a cabin somewhere to explore cool things away from our city :)

[@margaretpare8206]

I live in the states. I am proud to say I nor my children (one went as an adult). But the princess thing . After my (at the time) 4yo girl fell in love with Ariel, the little mermaid. I decided to make a conscious effort to live a Disney-free life. The idea that she would want to emulate a woman who had everything to give it away, in the HOPES of finding a man. Ugh! her worthy ness was based on the attainment of a man, again ugh! She did grow up with great values and morals and she is a VP of a very well known company. AND I have a wonderful SIL and 2 blessed grandsons

[@kristinmiller4779]

Good morning Chana and kiddos and lil guy ❤❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Good morning 🌞

[@love4daydreamer]

Love your videos and I learn so much!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Ericka!

[@kelleythenurse3283]

Definitely do something for your anniversary! We’re going on a cruise in September for our 10th. Which is probably not feasible for you with a baby but you should plan something special for the 2 of you. My twins will be about 2.5 and my mother lives in our granny flat so she just has to sleep in our half of the house and adjust her routine while we’re gone

[@jaroffireflies]

Happy ten year anniversary to y’all!

[@kelleythenurse3283]

@@jaroffireflies thank you! Normally I plan any kind of trips we take but this one he did a lot of the work! He came up with the idea and I found one that leaves from LA close to our anniversary because that’s our closest cruise port. He talked a travel agent and booked it.

[@jaroffireflies]

@@kelleythenurse3283 that’s awesome!

[@amma3536]

Take care and be blessed.

[@meluvfriends]

Wigs are the bras of head covering! 😂 cant wait to get it off at home at the end of the day heheh

[@jaroffireflies]

🤣🤣🤣

[@keahithefieryone8513]

I was a teenager in High School when the clocks were ordered to " Spring Forward" - here's Wiki excerpt ...." Grasping for solutions, lawmakers made daylight saving time permanent from January 1974 until October 1975. Clocks would “spring forward” and not “fall back” for almost two years. The thinking was that fuel consumption would go down as Americans used the extra evening sunshine for heat and light. President Richard M.".... We hated it, Parents hated it, all the kids were walking in the dark to school or to their bus stop, it was a mess and changed it back, now only Hawaii, most of Arizona, Puerto Rico, the US Virgin Islands, Northern Mariana Islands, Guam, and American Samoa (U.S. Territories) do not have DST- Have a Happy Day Chana!

[@patriciafrancis9134]

You have never mentioned this to my knowledge so I don't know if you are aware of a site called PJ's library. I learned of this from another Orthodox Mom's site. All families who are raising Orthodox Jewish children can sign up each child and then monthly each child will receive an age-appropriate book on Jewish life, customs, teachings etc. I looked over this site and felt it was a wonderful opportunity for Jewish families On a side note...What was your major in college? Art teacher, English lit, or PE are my guesses (feel free to laugh here)

[@bladetalk]

I love your videos! You inspired me to make my channel. Thank you. Please keep up the good work!!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you!

[@louisesiberry6289]

Today is our 30th wedding anniversary and no plans. My husband used to plan things, but I am like you. It is not that the date is unimportant but I am not great at those things. I am still crazy about him after all these years and I tell him so every day. To me that is more important than a once a year celebration.

[@jaroffireflies]

I totally agree with you!!!! Love that :) Happy anniversary!!!

[@sahawk0709]

Happy Anniversary!

[@louisesiberry6289]

@@sahawk0709 thank you

[@ffvvaacc]

My amazing obstetrician was Orthodox and I remember with my first pregnancy I asked her what happens if I go into labor on Shabbat, (like would there only be a skeleton crew available in labor and delivery, I didn’t want to be delivered by mo larry and curly), and she laughed and explained that either she or her colleague would be on call as normal. My first baby was transverse so we ended up with a planned c section so it ended up being a moot point. I am Catholic and both I and my daughter enjoy your channel and your spirit of love and joy and hard work.

[@MsPossums]

i have a great idea for a discreet baby announcement. just introduce the next video as a home schooling mother of 4 😂

[@jaroffireflies]

😂 love it

[@sahawk0709]

I love this idea! What a sweet and loving way to announcement the baby.

[@kimberlyberry3492]

A fun video, thank you for sharing

[@camille9253]

I caught the stomach bug and am home from work! I was so excited to see you uploaded!!

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh no feel better!!!

[@camille9253]

@@jaroffireflies thank you!!!

[@sahawk0709]

Feel better soon

[@m.c.fromnyc2187]

Very interesting video! I just wanted to add that, usually, the official Ba'al Koreh reads the Torah publicly. However, any Congregant that is called to the Torah can read his portion, as long as he is able to read it with no mistakes, and with the proper trope. Same for the Haftarah portion of the week.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks for that additional info!

[@m.c.fromnyc2187]

@@jaroffireflies As a matter of fact, the Congregants are called to READ from the Torah. Depending on the Congregation, very few of them are actually prepared for a correct public reading, and the Ba'al Koreh has to take over.

[@elizabethj.davenport8947]

I can’t tell you how much I appreciate that you don’t show your children on your channel. It’s so respectful of them and their privacy. There are other channels where it feels like the kids are being…used for the channel, and since people make money on KZbin it just feels wrong to me.

[@kellif01]

Love the q&as

[@jenniferaustin8362]

Another great video!

[@karenbrooks4189]

Yay! I don't have a toaster or microwave either for the same reasons and a couple of friends reallllyyy just can't get their head around it 😂

[@cathy2142]

Love the but thats ok😊 My daughter and I are saying that more now❤.

[@YaYa-jy1yv]

Wonderful! Thanks❣️

[@bridgwll]

“Mine is better” love it.

[@jaroffireflies]

Well 😊😁

[@annemcclelland5036]

Great Q & A. Love these type of video’s

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks Anne!

[@tracyl1368]

Been with my husband 26 years married 20 years......I know our anniversary is in May but am buggered if I can remember which day lol It's a timey wimey thing.......bit like fish fingers and custard 🤣

[@jaroffireflies]

🤣🤣🤣

[@tracyl1368]

@@jaroffireflies 😉😎😏

[@Momma_coco]

You are amazing

[@alliemac1974]

Hello Chana! I have not commented in awhile but please know that I have watched every single video and LIKED all of them! Congratulations on your pregnancy - I am so happy for you!! I do have a question for you for perhaps your next Q&A. Have you watched on KZbin, Peter Santenello's expose on Hasidic Jews in NY? If so, I would love to know your feelings about it. I know you are not Hasidic but you are Orthodox. I absolutely loved his series and I think it was groundbreaking not just for Hasidics but for all Jews and I would love to know your thoughts if you were up to watching it :)

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Alison! You’re so sweet! Yes, I have seen some of his videos. I’m so glad you enjoyed it!

[@alliemac1974]

@@jaroffireflies When I watched it I thought of you and what you have shared about your faith so much! I am in awe of your beautiful faith - G-d bless and all the best for the rest of your pregnancy. I cannot wait for each and every video you put up 🥰

[@jaroffireflies]

@@alliemac1974 thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@coryljoseph1430]

Fantastic video, absolutely you cannot do it all, great advice, that's very okay 🙏🏽

[@janetlongislandsticher]

Hi, your kids are funny passing by while you were recording. 😊 Next week is Passover, what are your favorite foods of Passover?? Mine are Matzo ball soup, gefilte fish and brisket, I don't know how to make it but we buy it from our local supermarket. Take care

[@jaroffireflies]

I don’t really have favorite Passover foods but I do really enjoy the meals :)