Mean Girls Bully Nerd for Being Cringe | Dhar Mann Bingo 33

[@teagannam]

As a hs senior it’s so frustrating to see anti-bullying shit sanitized to the point where it falls completely flat. Yes, teens can be mean, but they won’t call you a nerd for wearing glasses and expose your middle school pictures - they’ll call you slurs for being disabled/queer/etc and expose your nudes or haze you. Teens are normally way less rude and petty than they’re portrayed in media, but when they do get cruel, it’s way worse than these dumb tropes prepare freshman for.

[@the-postal-dude]

THIS

[@kbbandtees8112]

You put that into words perfectly

[@subservemoth]

bullying is WAY more subtle than this in my experience. it's boys going up to you saying "hey my friend likes you" but the group giggles when they walk away. its a group you're in low-key not listening/ignoring you. there's many examples I just can't think of rn but it's never been like this lol

[@mak27456]

@@subservemoth getting asked out as a prank is so cruel. one of my worst memories :/ another classic was kids taking the stopper from the bottom of tape dispensers+ leaving it on my desk so the sand would go everywhere lol

[@subservemoth]

@@mak27456 yes! it's very cruel and terrible and it happened to me often. but it's somehow also done in a very subtle way. if dhar Mann had that in one of his vids he'd do it wrong lol

[@sadsitcom]

i love how absolutely nobody in this video acts like a real human person

[@LukeLikesToDraw]

Every line was like the uncanny valley of dialogue.

[@stargurl__211]

wanna sit with us at the Cool Kids Table??

[@averytrexel]

yeah idk who wrote this “”””jarvis”””” guy but he’s so unrealistic lmao

[@yeetionary]

@@averytrexel i actually like bethany a little more than bea

[@TimWetherspoon]

@@stargurl__211 oh man can my nerd friends join? I’ve known them for soooo long

[@scepticalhyenas5750]

Jamie really got on the mic like _"im gonna HUMILIATE her by telling everyone shes SMART and GOOD AT THINGS"_

[@teodorasavoiu4664]

Yeah that Jamie character makes no sense, going to chess tournaments sounds very impressive actually

[@salem-01]

@@teodorasavoiu4664 no but fr, while playing chess definitely won’t make you automatically cool if one of the popular girls in my class played chess NOBODY WOULD CARE

[@verdrin7107]

and the 35 year old DJ just stood there the whole time

[@land_shark_maw1048]

@@verdrin7107 even the DJ was pissed

[@LaCabraAsada]

Omg! And she won first place on a national competition!? What a loser!

[@Lulittlefield5866]

I find it so funny that they’re treating chess like it’s some super weird nerd thing like it’s not one of the most normal games to like.

[@sourpatchkids351]

@@avian6026 i’d even settle for dungeons and dragons!

[@SunriseParabellum_elysium]

40k nerds here? 🤓

[@branthlysauveur359]

Like The Queen's Gambit wasn't a hit lol

[@kittycathxp397]

P sure it's even counted in a sports' competition so are sports also nerdy?Arent these stereotypical bullies into stereotypical jocks which play sports?

[@icephoenix174]

Oh, at my school it was definitely considered nerdy.... Source: was chess captain.

[@Itscody7096]

“She’s been lying to all of us” Okay she changed her look, started going by a nickname, and likes chess. She met you all like ten hours ago max. Most of them have never met her, and the only lie she actually told was that she didn’t like chess. This really needed her digging a deeper and deeper hole before this jeez

[@halffacedbone2998]

fr "oh they used to wear glasses and had acne bc they were going through puberty and liked chess they lied"

[@blueismylove3128]

@@halffacedbone2998 And guess what Bea is just a nickname! She's total liar!!

[@halffacedbone2998]

@@blueismylove3128 such a liar even though the teacher said it and she said she preferred going by bea that's crazy fake

[@blueismylove3128]

@@halffacedbone2998 Ikr?

[@coffeecatichino5332]

Mfs in kids content when the main character tells a harmless lie that has literally nothing to do with them: 😨😨😡😡

[@VeggieGirl07]

I love how their attitude is that Kyle would never go for a freshman because he's too cool to be with a freshman, and not that he's probably a bit too old to be with a freshman.

[@unfortunate_bambi]

bro is a fuckin freshmen feaster get him OUTTTT

[@BatPunk666]

Because if you ever actually been to hs no one thinks like that since almost everyone literally most likely grew up together 🤦‍♀️

[@LaCabraAsada]

@@BatPunk666 Everyone grew up dating a 26 year old man?

[@macayleangelina9892]

@@LaCabraAsada He’s obviously not meant to be an adult in-universe and out-of-universe I’m pretty sure the actress playing Bethany is also an adult. In-universe they’re both teenagers, out-of-universe they’re both adults, so where’s the age gap?

[@JarvisJohnsonLIVE]

I actually like bethany a little better than bea

[@chilly7782]

I actually like Bethany a little better than bea

[@jellosquid8096]

I actually like Bethany a little better than bea

[@peepo068]

I actually like bethany a little better than bea

[@stupidvideos1449]

I actually like Bethany a little better than Bea

[@cocoa-bird]

I actually like bethany a little better than bea

[@somanyingots814]

jarvis checking to see if the chess play was actually checkmate before the video even hit the 1 minute mark made me laugh

[@rhiannonbooby]

literally like ten seconds in i love jarvis so much

[@KakuroKing3407]

Tbh Jarvis is the only way I can tolerate the cringe I get from Dhar Mann lmao

[@honeydragon3909]

why are they still making high school bullies like its the 90s

[@v_bunny]

my high school had big groups of different types of people, but it’s not like we were separated in cliques, we very much mingled 💀 the “bullies” would pick on anyone that wanted to physically fight them lmao (or the bullies were spoiled rich kids that liked fucking with other students for no good reason and we all hated them)

[@justAnotherDayVibin]

honesty in my experience there were way more cliques in middleschool then highschool and the bullys were mean to all kinds of people

[@HenyaStudent]

they dont just call people nerds anymore, not even when I was in highschool 2010-2014 I was spit on and my stuff thrown in the trash No one made room for a single seat on the bus and I had to sit on the floor of the bus

[@COSun25]

@@HenyaStudent Geez, how terrible.

[@Toywins]

@@justAnotherDayVibin middle school was the absolute WORST.

[@TheZombifiedGuy]

The football players showing up to Homecoming with tiny toy footballs is my favorite. How will we remember that they play football if they don't carry footballs everywhere??? I didn't think there could be less subtle football references than there are in The Room, but here we are.

[@SabiLewSounds]

100% i would have been so lost lol

[@ThexDynastxQueen]

That's their security footballs. They need them in order to stay calm in public places! 😅

[@ellifsyaa]

@@ThexDynastxQueen lMFAOO

[@whimsielf3]

Speaking of homecoming, I love how early they’re having it, isn’t it the first day of school, doesn’t homecoming start in the fall or did Bethany start school late? 😅

[@TheZombifiedGuy]

@@whimsielf3 Yeah it's almost High School Musical levels of "wait, why are these things happening at the same time"

[@faygrace824]

I’m sorry, but them all refusing to use her preferred name based on the fact that they have known someone for a long time is the most realistic thing in this video.

[@NotYourBarbieGirl]

very true

[@meanjean7548]

Hit a little too close to home for me

[@froggy_guy]

Feels deadname-y, how fun! /sar

[@cosmox1x]

@@froggy_guy the way the teacher went "oh im so sorry ill make a note" after she used her legal name made me happy if only it was like that irl

[@JadeAnnabelArt]

Teaching my parents to call my bestie by his new name was the bane of the last 4 years x-x

[@certifiedbuttrface]

“She’s been lying to us she was 14 going thru puberty in middle school, now she’s like 15 and dosent have acne and glasses anymore”

[@airakorainies]

“I’m not actually who I’m pretending… to Bea” Such a missed opportunity ❤️

[@lacner]

Funny, but it wouldn’t really work based on the stupid way it’s pronounced. “…pretending to bay-ah.” (you know what that’s just funnier)

[@Kiki4meezi]

​@ablancer3582 it's not stupid. Just like the name lea is pronounced Lee uh. Also it's bee uh not bay uh

[@Abby-tt1xr]

this is a terrible reenactment of high school bullying because the only reason people care if you’re smart is so they can strategically place themselves next to you in class so they can cheat off of you.

[@lilmissemi]

I love how everyone collectively ignores the fact that being "nerdy" is in vogue now 👀

[@teagannam]

honestly I think ppl are just getting more chill and not mocking others for their interests as much. I still see ppl getting bullied for being autistic or socially anxious, which were considered the main “nerdy” qualities. It’s just… more obvious now that ppl are just being ableist lol. But if you mean wearing glasses, ig they’re trendy?? lmao

[@ashknight6696]

"everyone collectively" i think it's just dhar mann

[@inrainbows7190]

literally! everyone “popular” at my school also gets good grades

[@marnenotmarnie259]

@@inrainbows7190 when i was in high school, the "populars" were just the rich kids, and their parents could afford tutoring and stuff like that so obviously they got better grades lol (plus there was some very obvious classism from a lot of the teachers/staff)

[@Sqwidiot]

@@teagannam humans are gradually improving :D

[@Dinosaurianationazation]

The fact that Dhar Mann can pass these people off as teenagers and his audience still buys is INFURIATING to me.

[@ppas789]

Right? Dude....NO teen looks like a fully grown adult anymore Dhar! Just use the actual teens who have working for you to fill these roles!

[@jamielovesyt]

@@ppas789 I'm not saying that isnt true... But I am a junior and there's plenty of people who look like full blown adults...

[@COSun25]

It's The CW School of Casting. I'm shocked that this reaction popped up SOOO fast. This Dhar Mann video was uploaded yesterday.

[@riles_doodles]

I mean, the actress who plays Maddie doesn't look like she's in her 30s. She looks like she's in her mid 20s. Not saying she can quite pass as a teenager but still.

[@psychomanatee3459]

I mean, that's just casting for highschoolers in general, it's easier to get adults cause there's less laws you need to consider and you don't need to worry about them going to school. This is just every other movie with highschoolers in it

[@atdgehrifj3705]

Being able to see Kyle lurking in the background when Bethany was talking to her mum made it feel like I was watching a thriller

[@augusthawley5504]

dhar man is convinced that people actually make fun of you for wearing glasses after 2nd grade. some kids WANT glasses

[@that_metalhead_ace]

Exactly. When i first needed them, i was super excited to get them

[@Jkjoannaki]

Exactly, I wore fake glasses like many of us did as posers, and when I had to get them I hated them bc they make me dizzy. Most people like the look. It's usually very ugly glasses that don't "fit" someone's features that will make someone look worse, otherwise glasses make most people look much better.

[@hmalba7864]

I was one of those kids, I legit got mad when my vision was perfectly fine. Not like super eagle eyes or anything, just normal, average eyes. Which also meant I didn't need glasses.

[@Dani-it9vc]

I got bullied for years but it was literally never for my glasses??

[@JadeStone00]

I just realized that meeting a new crush at lunch and then being surprised that he showed up in my very next class is literally how I met my husband

[@hideakisorachi3953]

are you a Disney movie character 💀

[@sophieschroer42]

@@hideakisorachi3953 the only way it would be more Disney is if they got married that same day

[@Dani-it9vc]

Thats a lovely story

[@HenyaStudent]

Bingo card idea: out of touch understanding of how minors act (aka: "hello fellow kids")

[@1232catfish]

That’s basically a free space

[@kingofravens215]

@@1232catfish Facts

[@p0w3r64]

This could not be more wrong on how highschoolers act. Literally no one cares and kids being rude is much quieter.

[@dumpster-kun7132]

Fr, I said something pretty dumb once and this girl quietly said, “oh, really” that destroyed me for 2 minutes and I cringe every time I remember it now.

[@eef_04]

I think it’s hilarious that the mean girls way of ridiculing her, is by bringing up her accomplishments 😃😭😭

[@grimeydanny4214]

of everything dhar mann's written, "i miss middle school" is the MOST unrealistic sentence

[@abbsterlicious]

That was the worst times of our adolescence omg the hormones!!!! N identity crises every other month ugh.

[@Kiki4meezi]

Not for me I moss middle it was honestly the best

[@salem-01]

I’m Australian so I don’t know how this works exactly but it’s their FIRST DAY of high school and it’s already homecoming? What????

[@cb034]

Homecoming is usually later in the school year, closer to the end of football season, which iirc doesn't begin on the very first week of classes

[@SieMiezekatze]

@@cb034 you guys play futbol?

[@JadeAnnabelArt]

I'm so glad I'm not the only Australian confused. For us, year 7-10 is pretty much juniors, my school had a formal at the end of year 10, and at the end of year 12. Also love 'end of football season' when my school just had jocks vs nerds at some random point in the year.... for the record everyone cheered on the nerds and the jocks were booed, we ended up swapping to teachers vs students.

[@Dani-it9vc]

As a european who is Also confused as to how this works: Yeah

[@animefan2419]

Im Americana and when I was in highschool we didn’t have homecoming on the first day, do nawt listen to Dhar Mann his videos do not make any sense.😭😭😭

[@mlemaire109]

"sorry I didn't see you there🥺" yeah because you stopped wearing your glasses 😭💀

[@shiina29]

They can use adults because that's what high school kids look like to Dahr Mann's audience of actual children.

[@Toywins]

Jamie: "I guess you like to get good grades and pass tests or something, huh Bea?" 😒😂

[@genderfluid0_029]

I love how being smart is seen as a nerd thing that every popular kid tries to avoid when the popular girls in my middle school were either A: really smart, or B: couldn’t GAF about their grades let alone anyone elses

[@dyr234]

I start laughing really hard every time kyle appears out of nowhere 🤣

[@yeemawheaver1387]

I think both Bea and her friends had some good points. If Bea wants to stop looking nerdy and actually have fashion she can do that. If her friends want to stay like they are and play chess they can. There is nothing wrong with changing or staying the same and there is also nothing wrong with growing apart. It may hurt, but it's fine.

[@ms.blooddiamond3857]

"Sorry. The old Bethany can't come to the phone right now. Why? Because she's telling stories and changing lives😈💅🏻"

[@stargurl__211]

okay but why do people act so weird when you start going by a nickname? my sister's name is penelope, but she's been going by penny all her life, so everybody calls her penny and nobody cares. i started going by the name ami this year, and everyone keeps making up stupid excuses for why they won't call me that. i don't care if "i don't look like an ami" it's what i want to be called godammit. this video reminded me of that because nelson kept calling bea bethany when she specifically said she went by bea now. same with a lot of my trans friends, this one kid at our school transitioned way back in elementary school, and everyone uses his correct name and it's not even a question, but the moment somebody who has only transitioned recently starts going by a new name, it's a whole deal. why can't we all just call people what they want to be called? it's not that difficult

[@rin_the_wren]

So many of my friends have switched from using their first names to their middle names, and people are like "well _____ isn't your first name, so I don't have to call you it". And I'm like "well your first name isn't 'disrespectful' but I'll still call you that"

[@eldritchabomination9726]

Yea the parallels to being deadnamed, especially with Dhar Mann seeming to say "this isn't her true self", makes it easy to read as "trans people aren't being their true selves", which I will give him the benefit of the doubt and assume he wasn't intending that, but wow he should've thought harder

[@blueismylove3128]

I've also started using a nickname instead of my first name. You sound pretty young (and I mean no offense), but you stated that your sister's been going by Penny all her life. That's just how people know her. To everyone around her that's Penny, not Penelope. You simply haven't been using your nickname long enough for people to associate that with you. If your sister suddenly wanted to be known by Penelope I'm sure people would have a hard time transitioning to that as well. It's tough switching to a nickname but you need to be patient and understanding, yet firm and correct people when they call you by the wrong name. It's a different story when people openly refuse to call you by what you want to be called but generally it takes time for people to really associate your nickname with who you are. Just give it some time and be on their ass about it while also giving them a little bit of leeway if you know what I mean. Soon enough they'll call you Ami as if they've always been ❤️❤️ .

[@katiemcq]

yeah no it’s wild i’ve gone by katie my whole life when it’s just a nickname for kathryn and whenever someone finds out that my legal name is kathryn they’ll make such a big deal out of it like sure it may be a bit surprising but it doesn’t change who i am 😭😭

[@saranlinx9301]

@@blueismylove3128 this is true! irl i go by sie (since high school) and that's pretty much how people call me now. online tho i go by ryn since i do like that name more

[@bethanygarner6071]

As someone named Bethany, I cannot explain the psychic damage I took from this video

[@youdonotcare]

I love how being smart is treated as a flaw

[@msjkramey]

Lol I haven't been in high school in a long time but a good number of the "cool kids" were in AP classes with me. And I was in high school math as a 7th grader. When the older kids found out they were just impressed for a day and then moved on. I was worried for nothing

[@TalkBack17]

Right? At my high school the smart kids were the more popular ones. It was a small school, though

[@sourgreendolly7685]

humble brag okayy lol kidding, that is seriously impressive!

[@msjkramey]

@@sourgreendolly7685 I burned out in college tho. Never graduated and now I'm stuck figuring out what to do

[@DMO-DMO-DMO]

Yeah the cool jocks loved math nerds, because they could copy off of them. Lol I "helped" the class president get through Algebra III and he always remembered me fondly for it 😆😆

[@DMO-DMO-DMO]

@@msjkramey go back to a different school/degree if you're interested! I finally went back to get my bachelor's through a local college, mostly online (at age 33 oof). Lots of hard work but very worth it

[@denama]

idk why media like dhar mann think that the cool/popular/pretty girls are different from the smart ones. all those girls in my hs were geniuses lol all aps honors etc

[@DeathShiniGama]

Yep. All the popular girls were extremely smart at my HS. 😅

[@ardeiwann]

“haha smart people are so dumb” is for some reason not a common sentiment

[@baintreachas]

yeah, it’s really people doing “badly” that struggle socially, usually. Or they have nothing to do w each other

[@abbsterlicious]

100% !!!! Literally most of the national honor Society at my school was the popular kids that were mean and that cheated a lot. I was so excited to be accepted into NHS until inauguration, and I realize that there is really nothing honorable about this group. It was more just to be able to put something “prestigious” on your college application.

[@pixiebyrd]

You should just be yourself… BEA yourself. [The credits roll. There is a standing ovation.]

[@ratqueenbee]

Dhar Mann high school actors are either 7 or 27 there is no in between- they try and work around the 7 year olds by making them smart enough to have skipped some years but it just makes everyone else look even older 😭

[@maximumdinosaur]

Dhar Mann's depiction of high school is grossly inaccurate. Like wow. It's actually awful.

[@stickitydoodah]

Especially the part where anybody considered a nerd would 'miss middle school'

[@Toywins]

@@stickitydoodah seriously, middle school was TRASH.

[@SirAlexanderr]

Middle school was depression central

[@bipbipbrim]

True. When I was in high school, it was always the freshman and sophomores that bullied people. Juniors and seniors were a lot more mature and a lot nicer. And middle school was just hell.

[@kinnoyu8448]

Middle school is more like this. _Thats_ when kids are *vicious*

[@ASparkleyPenguin]

I died at the part when Kyle said "Is anyone in high school?".

[@ajaboyd4906]

I find it weird that Jamie claimed to have known Kyle since they were kids and seemed to have no idea that he played chess

[@indieoregano]

True 😭💀

[@ScubaFanatic60]

I think she just said that so Bea would believe her.

[@gooeygaster30]

"should we see if its actually checkmate" this is why i stay subscribed.

[@stellarae8257]

As someone who has worn glasses their entire life starting at age 4 let me tell you, the things that make me self conscious about having glasses and being nerdy is media like this,almost never my actual experiences. I know I might be biased but I genuinely think everyone looks hotter with a good pair of glasses lol. I’ve had plenty of dates and boyfriends, so they’re not stopping people from finding me attractive. And being nerdy was a bit tougher to deal with, but not because everyone was making fun of me for it. It was just hard for people to see me outside of that box. To any kids watching: none of this stuff actually matters. If you’re a nerd, own it, and you’ll find thousands of other people who love the same stuff that you do. People will find you hot whether you wear glasses or not. If you don’t want to wear glasses, please just get contact. You need to be able to see. But yeah, it’s okay. You’ll find your people no matter what you’re like ❤

[@Lemminboy7]

Common Stella Rae W

[@jackbrooks3302]

cant believe chat, which loves to call everything a continuity error, missed the HUGE CONTINUITY ERROR of nelson being announced as the first ever freshman in junior-level math while bea/thony is in the same class!!!

[@hideakisorachi3953]

I didn't even realize wth 😭

[@Meg_intheclouds]

Doesn’t the teacher say “oh this is Bethany so we have two freshman in this class”

[@Havarti_Samebito]

Works of fiction that portray high school as having an established and enforced social hierarchy is really bizarre to me. Maybe it's because mine was so overcrowded and underfunded, but usually people just hung out with whatever group was nearby and tolerable, and people would be targets of bullying based on someone else having a bad day and noticing they exist (and other factors like race and sexuality and such but you know). It was kind of impossible to have "popular kids" because no one was known by enough people at once to care. And kids who were assholes would be assholes to like twenty different people a day. Hell, that villain girl in the video probably would have gotten the shit bullied out of her in my school, just because she made such a scene and was being cringey, only for everyone to completely forget about it in 3 days of course.

[@girlwiththeblueglasses8284]

I absolutely love how the bingo card went from including things solely about Dhar Mann’s production to purely checking off whenever chat starts arguing💀

[@Mikayla_Games24]

The reason why we haven't been getting any bingos is probably because Dhar Mann watches Jarvis and is catching on to the game. He is changing his ways so that Jarvis gets thrown off. Dhar Mann hopes that one day he'll end all bingo games 👀

[@marnenotmarnie259]

fan behavior from dhar mann

[@rockyember]

why is kyle, who’s a senior/junior, interested in a freshman 💀 it’s giving predatory behavior

[@humanname99]

I'm a junior rn and the freshmen come off as CHILDREN even though they're only 2y younger like 😭

[@Frostingsalad]

If Kyle was someone at my high school, he definitely would’ve been made fun of for going after freshman lol

[@Frostingsalad]

If Kyle was someone at my high school, he definitely would’ve been made fun of for going after freshman lol

[@Frostingsalad]

If Kyle was someone at my high school, he definitely would’ve been made fun of for going after freshman lol

[@akiraeatsguitarpicks491]

It’s a small age gap man, the actors are probably the same age too

[@AmberAmber]

Its like you KNEW how sad I felt!! Thanks Jarvis!!! XO

[@strawberrycelia]

I felt the same, haha

[@AmberAmber]

@@strawberrycelia Huge Cyber Hugs 💞🫂🦄

[@lestranged]

I want to see the sequel when Nelson becomes a billionaire tech mogul and the mean girls apply for jobs at his company or something. The interview process includes a chess problem.

[@Jupiter-ng1yi]

The most surprising thing (to me) is this guy is the first freshman in a junior level course cause I'm taking junior level math even though I'm a freshman, but there's also like 50 other kids. What would be more impressive if the kid was like my friend (who's also a freshman) and taking AP calculus

[@neco9590]

It's quite impressive that the teacher is actually more or less the youngest looking person in that classroom.

[@alipali]

As someone who does go to high school, it's weird to sit and watch this and be like "wait these characters are supposed to be _younger_ than me?"

[@lnk2158]

The cool kids in my high school were too busy getting high and drinking to care about someone being a nerd in middle school.

[@ransomwarehouse]

currently binge watching these and laughed so suddenly i got acid reflux when the screen showed “BING”

[@PrincessMihai]

Great news! I got hired to be in a new Dhar Mann sketch as a high school freshman! It's such great news, I can barely believe it! And on my 40th birthday! Woohoo!

[@schoolhighwenttoi]

Dhar Mann is trash

[@NatalieLovesxo]

She tried so many things to try to get with him except asking him herself. 😭

[@Kokolowolf]

The comment that said "Just for the record, I actually like Stanley Ritter, the previous owner, a little better than Bea" fuckin' got me man

[@showfeetguy0171]

THAT WAS SO FUNNY im so disappoiinted that jarvis didnt see it

[@SabiLewSounds]

The way Jarvis got 50x more attractive when he wanted to check if it's a real checkmate!

[@Ranch_Dude182]

as a freshman, one of the most unrealistic parts is the fact that they didn't believe that he would date a freshman, because at least in my school, the upperclassman prey on the freshmen like they're the new iphone

[@JupiHornet1]

The funniest part of this video is how menacingly Kyle stood up at 35:07

[@sourpatchkids351]

he was ready to beat that girl up

[@JacobHillSBD]

Thought we were gonna get a real violent “what happens next will shock you”

[@thecatlurking]

That one girl's denim jacket said Trans Rights

[@luccahg]

I can't see pink, blue, and white together without thinking the same thing :p

[@Maria_745]

Why is Bea's mother picking her up from school to take her to the school's chess club? Lol

[@RuleofThehyperbolic]

how about instead of "what happens in the dark allways comes to light" you make it "a random moral phrase gets mentioned again at the end"

[@alien-rat]

Thanks for making Dhar Mann videos bearable Jarvis. You always crack me up!

[@alecbormia4523]

I'm glad these are coming back! These videos are perfect to have on in the background while doing other things and I ran out of videos to catch up on!

[@Daydream_Chaser]

One of the bingo squares should be something along the lines of "the only adult in the scene let's children bully each other" or something. I noticed it too at the end of the "Kid Uses Cheats To Get A Girlfriend" video. The only adult at the tournament didn't stop the bully who got his shoes stolen by the hacker kid from threatening to kill the hacker kid and chasing after him at the end (keep in mind both kids seem to run right behind the adult to get backstage). I know sometime the adult will just be like "stop that" when kids start bullying, but it rarely goes farther than that; as if teachers and adults in the Dhar Cinematic Universe don't have the authority to break up bullying attempts in any meaningful way.

[@Jules-916]

I just finished binge-watching the rest of the Dhar Mann Bingo series (playing them in the background while I work) so I was really happy to see there's a new episode. This series is so funny.

[@MegaKaitouKID1412]

The silliest part of this is that academic excellence is treated as uncool? At least when I was in high school, the "popular" kids kind of had the trifecta going for them? They were good-looking, sporty, and in advanced classes with lofty university goals? Like yeah, the other "popular kids" stereotypes were in play (in some people more than others, obviously even "cool kids" are three-dimensional people) but like... ain't nobody making fun of anyone for being smart.

[@DisabledDragon]

Mine too (that was like ten years ago, admittedly.) I was in classes with a lot of them, especially after I combined my junior/senior year, because they took AP courses fairly often. They weren't necessarily from the valedictorian group, but those kids weren't particularly disliked either. It is possible there was bullying I didn't see because it wasn’t the kind that gets broadcasted. I think people probably bullied the pregnant girl in my year, but it didn't look like Dhar Mann's version if they did. I mostly got harassed by a guy I had PE with every year while my teacher watched and did pretty much nothing, and there was a weird thing where some popular girls I'd never spoken to came up to me, asked if I was indeed dating this one autistic kid in their year, and said it was "cute" when I affirmed their belief, which made me profoundly uncomfortable in a way I didn't entirely understand at the time (I wasn't diagnosed with autism at the time myself, but it was still weird.) I think I missed most of the "mean girl" stuff by not going to most of middle school, though inside sources later revealed that there were rumors at the time, which he felt uncomfortable repeating. And there were the guys who all were camo and were really into hunting and extremely homophobic who I guess decided to bully one of the most popular seniors because he was a theater kid and appeared to have no insecurities about physical contact with his guy friends. I know there was a less popular theater kid who had some kind of issue with homophobia, but I don’t know what happened there. Also he was a guy probably being bullied by other guys, which can be a whole different thing, I think.

[@abbsterlicious]

I fucking love how thorough Jarvis is. This is literally so fucking cool that he made this bingo game, like when I found this a few days ago I was so happy. I have been binging since.

[@rincallinen7312]

Maybe it's just me as a trans person projecting on to this, but everyone disrespecting how Bea wanted to be referred to, treating changing her appearance/identity as "lying", and exposing it in front of people? The whole video doesn't really map onto this reading, but those parts... kinda mirror a trans experience with transphobia.

[@littlefuzzball3769]

omg i noticed that too! it may be us projecting a bit (im trans as well) but it was definitely something i noticed

[@micah1387]

My thoughts exactly my fellow transes

[@denny_boii]

omg i wasnt even really paying attention but this is tru e

[@weevilwizarddotmusic9711]

literally the same thought lol

[@minikawildflower]

Same

[@Super-MackJ]

We're at 90210 levels of oldteens

[@Super-MackJ]

These teenagers are so old they understand this reference.

[@meredithmora4131]

Why is it that in every dhar man high school video “Jarvis” is the hot football player that everyone likes.

[@speedythefish]

they reset the chess board with no pawns and then sat like npcs until bea was done talking to the cool kid

[@TakkuriHimare]

BRUH ITS SO CREEPY THIS UPPERCLASSMAN WAS DOWN BAD FOR A FRESHMAN CJSNSJSNS

[@katet8639]

Imagine thinking chess is lame... I find these bullies in Dhar Mann video so funny, they are so unrealistic and cartoon-like.

[@skogbear]

i choked so hard every kyle replay because i couldn't recover from laughing before another laugh came in. shoutout to the guy who made the stanley ritter joke because that also threw me into a fit. also i agree, dharr man u changed

[@TalkBack17]

Why are these junior mean girls so proud of being bad at math? 😂

[@BeanBoyGabe]

Twitch chat sees one parking lot and thinks it’s a confrontation

[@Mrstark1407]

Here’s a reminder that when he said “I actually like Bethany better then bea” that the Bethany he’s referring to is a middle schooler

[@JinStreams]

Super senior energy is off the charts

[@MechBlank]

“i actually like bethany a little better than bea” is the new “stanley ritter the previous owner”

[@squeezydoot]

"Production quality FaceTime" definitely needs to be on a card

[@bunnyirl]

i’m a junior and at my school the math class options we can take are pre calc or functions. We use common core but for functions i currently don’t have a curriculum- our new math teacher quit on the second week of school and we have yet to find another one after like 2 months...

[@COSun25]

That teacher sounds terrible.

[@radishfest]

​@@COSun25 it's extremely rough for teachers right now, the pay is still awful and they keep getting sick and bringing it home to their family or roommates. seeing students get sick and lose family members really gets to them. the only reason my friends are still teaching is cos they love their students too much to abandon them. good luck with school, abbey! i hope you get a permanent teacher soon. the teachers that are still there really care about y'all :)

[@ardeiwann]

functions? what type of math course is that? typically junior year would be alg ii

[@bunnyirl]

@@ardeiwann we took algebra 2 in sophomore year i believe. Also the class is called functions/math modeling and i am in the same boat as you because i literally have absolutely no idea what the course is supposed to be since i don’t have a teacher lol. i just knew i needed to pick a required math class and that seemed easier than pre calc. my school uses a weird curriculum 🤷‍♀️

[@pokaay3163]

@@COSun25 pretty judgmental considering you know nothing else other than the fact that they quit eh? People are so quick to hate on service workers.

[@elissaferguson6753]

the funniest thing to me is that the one that people pretend is jarvis is also always the heartthrob in all of the high school ones

[@calowenby1654]

Jarvis's laugh at 33:18 breathed so much life into me.

[@elisabeth6611]

the immediate sultry tone the actress playing bethany took on when flirting with kyle made me so uncomfortable???

[@zaynabhajjam9809]

At this point they’re just getting their GEDs

[@abbsterlicious]

Omg I love that one of the popular “perfect” girls has her belly out n it’s not like super toned. That is so refreshing.

[@dinowhoore]

the glasses being photoshopped on actually kills me

[@connysmcb]

Nobody would judge you for how you looked in the past. Like imagine two adults going out, but then the guy finds out that the girl wore braces in middle school and immediately breaks up with her.

[@halffacedbone2998]

I feel like if she is more interested in dressing or acting in a certain way, I think she should. It's ok to change throughout school, the problem comes if you are putting yourself or others down to be "cool" or whatever. I hope you guys get what I'm trying to say 💀

[@gracejordan110]

Yeah, don’t avoid doing anything just because you don’t want to be seen as fake or trying too hard. But don’t do something just to fit in.

[@sophiachillin]

you know it’s unrealistic because she said “i miss middle school”

[@denama]

in the hoco scene in a real highschool everyone woulda yelled at her to stfu and that no one gaf and to get off the stage

[@kfcoyote]

Ok but I love how Kyle is always the nicest love interest ever

[@theattemptedartist2308]

Bro imagine thinking that someone taking OFF their glasses makes them cuter

[@janner2006]

I get the point of the story and how Bethany/Bea shouldn't pretend to be something she's not and to be embarassed of herself and friends no less, but her two friends trying to actively tell her to go back to her old ways was kind of aggravating to me. There's nothing wrong about changing your appearance or moving on from hobbies and passions you once had. You can still be true to yourself even if you don't look or act a certain way you did a couple of months ago. Of course you shouldn't abandon your friends over something as trivial as trying to be the popular type but since it's a Dhar Mann video it lacks all of those nuances that come with growing up.

[@JinStreams]

Also, the combo of changing her prefered name and appearance kind of gave me a bit of trans vibes. Plus the way her old friends were disrespecting her changes felt a bit gross

[@janner2006]

@@JinStreams I think that's going a bit too far and seeing things that aren't there but I think trying to force someone to act a way that you find preferable because you can't appreciate their own growth is the real issue with her friends. It's like they can almost immediately tell that Bea/Bethany didn't like her old look and wanted to become someone she's not just based on her new appearance rather than seeing it as a "glow-up" or just a simple change in style.

[@JinStreams]

@janner2006 I am definitely projecting but the underlying attitude of denying someone's ability to change themself is definitely there

[@NoelGruberButBetter]

due this dhar man video made my dysphoria go brrr, like when Regina George was like "shes been lying to all of us, her name isn't bea its bethany" and all that jazz it was like oh, my life haha

[@diadorim3992]

Very curly haired of u to roll your lockets like that Jarvis. I can relate. My boyfriend says my idle animation is staring off into space and rolling my hair.

[@4crick]

aint no say she said "creep walking around the school" 😭 my homecoming was canceled over a bomb threat

[@vampyrecafe]

3:27 saving this for myself my chat was read i feel loved