Woman STUCK In Toxic Relationship, Watch What HAPPENS NEXT! | Jay Shetty

The most important thing you can do is to focus on becoming the best version of yourself so that when the right person comes along who values you for it, it will be worth it.
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[@SY-sp8uo]

Love yourself enough to leave the table when respect is not served anymore! 💯

[@richardfair5455]

Hello

[@Achebi]

Wow

[@artemisappollo1491]

I think this is the best comment I have ever heard! Wow!

[@lionesss06]

I needed to hear this, thank you.

[@sanji546]

Dman

[@gurudra]

The first rule of love is to learn to love yourself, if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anyone🙏

[@ajaybahure111]

Great 👍🏻

[@beautyholicmedico372]

Damn true !

[@olam7945]

That's true, I'm struggling to do it though it's so difficult for me

[@artemisappollo1491]

@@olam7945 You deserve the best! ❤

[@olam7945]

@@artemisappollo1491 tank u so much ♥️

[@joweeannazores2226]

Rushing yourself to enter a relationship without knowing the person very well, will lead you to have a unhappy relationship.

[@babymuff2000]

True

[@mitrranahendran3975]

So true

[@genevievevision2life150]

Exactly.

[@mermaidlu5125]

I believe it

[@corieking205]

U got that rite

[@nicoleonfeels]

We all deserve better than toxic relationships.

[@richardfair5455]

Hello

[@genevievevision2life150]

True that and we will find the most amazing partner🙏

[@richardfair5455]

@@genevievevision2life150 i would love to chat with you more..please give me your gmail address let me add you on google hangout

[@ebonyautumn3738]

@@richardfair5455 Whoa, chill dude.

[@intisarjaffar3211]

I need to someone talk too🥺

[@chrisconsorte7893]

I’ve been in a toxic marriage for six years. The best thing that ever happened was divorcing her and not having children. I’d rather be alone for the rest of my life before I endure that again! What a jerk!

[@crystalclimenhage7159]

Im in a toxic marriage now...am trying to fix it ny failing 😢

[@chrisconsorte7893]

@@crystalclimenhage7159 I understand what you are going through.

[@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106]

@@crystalclimenhage7159 you not gone be able to fix that by yourself. If he aint showing no effort then all hope of your marriage is lost.

[@AndreyZenperial]

This is so important because many people think they are lazy and procrastinators lacking energy but actually there is just a toxic source in your life that’s sucking the life out of you, hope this helps someone💙🙏

[@artemisappollo1491]

@@KaRiNa-pj9sb Thanks for the comment. 😊

[@nickalexandersaurel7066]

When two souls are mean to be together, nothing can stop this happen!

[@missindie4199]

💯💯

[@esthermcauley4081]

So true

[@jillwylie6767]

Nothing is Worse than living with Toxic people !

[@nordicwarrior2176]

It doesn't seem like they'll ever change.

[@herry_tyjay8285]

Congrats for you who found this comment, God be with you.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Glory be to God. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.

[@ilovegoddoyou7003]

Be so busy loving God, loving others, and loving your life that you have no time for regret, worry, fear, or drama. Amen.💕

[@charlierobles316]

but god doesn’t exist

[@paulmevans]

@@charlierobles316 as a teenager, I realised how much of my life could potentially be spent doing something that could end up being a complete waste. Wonder how many others would also regret that waste if what they believed was confirmed to not exist. I didn't want to take that risk.

[@charlierobles316]

@@paulmevans ummm I didn’t ask you

[@paulmevans]

@@charlierobles316 what, just like they didn't ask you to comment on what they said? 🤔

[@helenrose976]

Amen

[@shumilondon28]

I came out from my toxic relationship now waiting for the right one to come along. I have grown a lot and learn 😌

[@janetlopez7250]

Me too ✋

[@eagleseye6576]

Watch channel Christina lopes. She explains how to heal n fix the energy first so right person comes to you. Otherwise patterns will repeat. Heal yourself is the big word here. Good luck.

[@CIslas-im1um]

Very true. And it happens to all of us. I was in a verbally abusive relationship for years until I figured out it wasn't love, it was Stockholm Syndrome! I learned to love myself and ran as fast as I could with my kids and doggie. We're at peace now! No man needed...yet. I'm building my house and maintaining it until I see a man who is real.

[@mousumibiswas1]

I'm going through something very painful.

[@evanreiter747]

Don’t let someone discract you from pursuing your dreams.

[@enricadorsey5284]

Its scary for people who are in a toxic relationship/marriage.

[@rnlt9905]

This is so true. You should build the best version of you to attract right people for you and always remember to love yourself first.

[@vanliesbeth3988]

Right now dealing with 'jake' though not yet married. I hope to meet my 'Alex ' soon. am suffocating

[@allisontaylor1818]

Be well as am I.....got your back .....and I get it

[@ashsinha2769]

My bf was cheating on me and whenever we had argument because of him hiding phone he will make me feel bad about myself. He will find reasons.

[@ashsinha2769]

@@allisontaylor1818 how are you now? How are you coping?

[@NinaCuervo]

@@heaven120 lots of love and light to you.

[@chrystelvijzelman7017]

@@heaven120 it is never too late to meet your “Alex” but i can imagine you just want to live for yourself and your beautiful children without the drama and possible headaches a new relationship may bring along. I am also in shitty relationship at the moment feeling constantly gaslighted, manipulated and like someone is sucking the life out of me. . I am almost 36 without kids so technically still can get out but it is difficult to end sth after 6 years when you still somehow hope for a better future and scared of uncertainty and being alone again. I truly hope you’re feeling better, focussing more on your wellbeing and in a happier a place. Sending love and light your way 🌸✨💕💖

[@HappylifeMarga84]

learn to let go of the person you love...if you think the relationship isn't good anymore so quit you'll lose respect for each other

[@TakeBackYourMind997]

Dig deep and get rid of those limiting beliefs that landed you with a toxic person in the first place, then go out and find the right person. We all deserve it!

[@cskofficial]

I'd choose perspectives over motivation. Jay really gives those perspectives that people can rarely give. That evolves us all. Thanks a lot

[@rashmichauhan6378]

This is very true from 3% about 1.5% woman's are stuck in toxic relationship so this needs to be over . a woman should find her true love and God may bless her.

[@nlrgamer2331]

I am not in relationship, and never was... Still I am watching this, I know it will help me find a true life partner,,, Thank you Jay! 😊

[@IshaSharma11]

Beautiful

[@nlrgamer2331]

@@IshaSharma11 #NLRFitness

[@KUSH_Joshi]

Same here

[@mizzcrazygal]

i was stuck in a toxic relationship and he left me again for the second time about 8 days ago. now i worry about all the other girls he’ll end up hurting, it’s not fair for him to act in such ways and trap girls. i was with him for 2 years and the thought of other girls being with him like that honestly scares me

[@kaurraaj714]

Same situation

[@chaitanyareyansh6538]

It's so true "We need to be in a good space" Understanding each other & giving space is the key. Feeling happy & supportive of each other is very important. Just being true to yourself...Yes taking your own time makes a lot of difference. So I have also done the same to be the best version of myself & to let go of toxic people from your life as they drain you.

[@fakhrazarin6986]

Thanks jay for reminding us and there are endless opportunities to meet the right one we deserve

[@storybee7269]

Toxic men literally makes the woman's life a living hell and acts like being married is such a pain.

[@nafiualhassan2890]

I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days

[@user-iw5xr5ew3f]

I recently got out of such a relationship, just that he even slapped me once and pushed me twice, verbal abuse also became common. I was done! But it’s difficult to move on even after all this!

[@gitrovert]

The world would be a better place, if we would treat others the way we want to be treated.

[@Speakwithmeha]

This is something really helpful and heart touching for me...I got so many answers in just a few sentences. You're amazing👏 Jay

[@richardfair5455]

Hello meha

[@Speakwithmeha]

@@richardfair5455 Hii

[@keiheaherakiwi1611]

Finding true love takes time and patience...... never such a true statement as this.....

[@preciouspayne723]

Right but im done dating because all the guys been leaving me for another girl

[@lakshmanansambathkumar4754]

Hey Jay!!!.. Thank you so much... You have done amazing job... Even I too was in toxic relationship.. And I sacrificed, tolerated everything for that person but they doesn't even worth it..... Time came.. And i moved on... Now I am living my life very peacefully!!! I would say we all deserve something more and better life... If you are in any relationship and not being valued and respected... I am sorry that is not the right place to you..... Better you move on and focus on improving yourself rather than suffering in a toxic relationship

[@Rima27ify]

Been there and I'm so glad i got myself out of it and became a lot stronger

[@AJ-dl2by]

Liking these new style of videos. Jay isnt trying to be cheesy and rhyme words. Feels more natural, as if you were asking for advice of a friend.

[@storybysparrow]

My partner complains and blames me for every small thing that goes against his will. He is more social and want to pretend good to others. People thinks him as a perfect individual. Though he is responsible and mature person, but he gives me example of his parents and ideal couples and want me to behave like them. He has too many expectations like a girl should do this or that and expect me to do things according to him. But m bound and i cant leave him even though we fight daily. Now i have lost faith in love. I am tired of finding true love. I had 2 relationships in my past. This third is also terrible. What should i do? I dont feel like dating anyone now. M totally stressed out.

[@Syaoran201]

U should break up with him, move on

[@mari88a]

Run. Good luck 👍 you are perfect the way you are, if he compares you to his mother then he should stay with her ❤

[@burcuuzun7566]

I wish you best sister!

[@mitrranahendran3975]

I had similar issues as yours and I suffered for two months and just got broke up on Valentine’s Day. What I can say is that never please someone just because you love them always stand on what you’re feeling, how is this person making you feel like never think of you treating this person but yourself. The key is to find yourself then right people will fall into the place and even if they don’t you will be great with your own company. Suggesting breaking up because you can’t act accordingly throughout the relationship as what your partner wants to be in a relationship. At first you will be like it’s okay I can be later on, you will be like no I don’t deserve this. Make a wise choice.

[@storybysparrow]

@@burcuuzun7566 thanks

[@MkLydia]

Focus to becoming the BEST version of MYSELF!

[@indigocupcake2937]

Love yourself before loving someone else because you'll know to protect yourself

[@jonalynmostoles548]

Omg.. It reminds me of my past toxic relationship.. 😢😭 The lesson I learned from that experienced is to love yourself.. To be able to have the true happiness.

[@redrose7432]

Dont ever look down on somebody. Uneless you're helping them up

[@aayushithakur3041]

That Alex is so handsome 😍

[@HairbyNardia]

This reminds me of the relationship me and my soon-to-be-ex-husband hence why I'm getting divorced I'm so much happier now thank God I got out of that!

[@prasad3508]

Insane cinematography and story 🙏🙏

[@barbaramawinwin5287]

Thank you so much for sharing this. It’s true.

[@patriciaclark9833]

Husband or not, you deserve to be treated with respect!

[@finiteromars8685]

Hi friend, do you really need help to recover your relationship and get your ex back to you?????

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Let me recommend you to someone called baba Eseohe that helped me recover my relationship and get my ex back to me. He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Watzap him now for help.........

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[@andrewthomas8737]

Amen. I was stuck in one. I miss her, But want to move forward.

[@elizabethkamei5219]

😭 i have been through this toxins relationship. thank God's i should learn this lesson.

[@zoyajaved8266]

I will definitely get your book jay. Thanks for everything

[@saramamdouh9709]

Everyday i see how bad this world how toxic people are being alone is hard but comfortable you don't have to do anything except love yourself

[@maryloudelossantos1624]

Thank you. Meaningful, significant video. A true rude awakening in a relationship.

[@omittable]

I really needed to hear this today

[@charlierobles316]

Why is always the woman stuck in a toxic relationship how come nobody ever talks about when a man is stuck in a toxic relationship?

[@hxlistermpaul6202]

Double standards of society.

[@IshaSharma11]

✔✔

[@OfficialWimpydoll]

He actually have a video about that last week.

[@OfficialWimpydoll]

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[@juliobravo-pallero879]

@@OfficialWimpydoll I think his point was, why even have separate videos for something that affects all genders. Thanks for sharing his other video though :)

[@savagefamilyguy8876]

Huge respect from Pakistan brother. You deserve to be the biggest motivational speaker of this world. It's good to see how you blend our issues in beautiful stories and then teach us the good way out of it.

[@IshaSharma11]

Great

[@savagefamilyguy8876]

@@IshaSharma11 Thanks Dear. Much appreciated.

[@marija_james]

I'm loving these new video styles

[@NanayandClaire]

Always a fan of Jay. Love from the Philippines. Been reading your book Think Like A Monk.

[@shrutisah8639]

Really these golden words by Jay ✨

[@sophiaflorentina]

wow, this is so good.. the message at the end 💯💯

[@mariacristinaconcepcion4426]

Thank you for this informative, eye opener video 🤗😊💖

[@mariaansola1964]

Thank exactly what I am doing getting my life together things to do,things to put in place and sharing my life with God in it, thanks Jay what a blessing indeed, no toxic Relationship for me Sir. 🙏

[@bruceg.6282]

Too many men are actually like that. I was. My father was in WW2 (Normandy) and came back a heavy drinker. Yelling, screaming, abusing. Both my brother and I turned out just like him, except I don't drink. I imagine a lot of the kids from recent wars will be turning out just the same.

[@prayerworks11]

I love your veidos. So inspiring. Thank you.

[@natacha8197]

In this world we have to be carefull about people Who wants to destroy our inner peace and balance.Unfortunatelly even when it IS your own family.

[@ReduceReuseRecycle888]

Usually that toxic narcissistic bipolar type of partner appears to be a wonderful person in front of others "Wow! Your husband is great! You are a lucky woman." but no one sees the toxicity behind doors. After divorce or break up, people ask "Why? Had he ever physically hit you?" Most people don't understand what emotional abuse is.

[@priyankanaik2740]

Exact same thing is happening with me right now

[@PtolemyXVII]

I actually dated a man like this before…he was beaten up as a child with a belt and developed an alcohol problem as a result, but one of the most brilliant men I’ve ever met and gotten to know. He would always start arguments, ruin holidays, was quite moody…but also intelligent, caring and meant well. A man like this needs emotional support, a clear understanding of boundaries, and to feel like they’re always the centre of your heart, otherwise they become paranoid and hyper vigilant, often acting out and starting arguments because they don’t know how to verbalisé what they want from you. At the centre of this is a fear of abandonment, so they will leave before you have a chance to, if they think they’re going to abandoned. I was once out with my work colleagues and he had called me 15 times 😂 he was so afraid that I would cheat on him. However, I’m not the type glued to my phone so I didn’t réalisé until I checked later. He also got freaked out at the airport once when I went to purchase something and he couldn’t find me while I was queueing…he thought I had gotten kidnapped…I could go on and on… On the surface, he seemed overly possessive, jealous, and toxic, but I think he just had a lot of worries on his mind, having witnessed the worst of humanity and never fully acknowledged his PTSD, but I know I can still count on him to this day if I were ever in trouble. I thought he was very loving and sweet, and he always had good intentions, but the childhood abuse he had suffered never left him, and it would always come out when he was drinking and he would become extremely testy.

[@Berlynic]

Wow, Jay is really good at portraying these toxic relationships with a narcissist, and how narcissistic abuse looks like.

[@brettming4706]

Getting your ex back/ crush /so /spouse / third party/ shouldn't be a problem I got my love back with the help of Mr osekhametalor.

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What'sapp him.

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[@Addison8175]

Jay always making great vids!

[@vparshad79]

we both were taught by our teacher not to create divides, I love you brother always ! and what you post is amazing but I am true to you so I will challenge you if I need to !

[@somprad4362]

Great mesage Jay. Thank you

[@zanyarbaez4739]

Thanks for sharing this very meaningful

[@amyshoneye5455]

I just left that after 15yrs. Apparently I have abandoned him So therefore I have also abandoned All of my belongings aswell 🙃 2Day is the first day of the rest of my life 😊😘💖💕🙏🏼

[@uniquepersonality8324]

I'm happy for you you stood up for yourself. Go gurllllllll😉

[@ladennayoung2939]

Good video. Thanks for sharing Jay.

[@carolerbph.d3567]

Love your video, thanks for sharing a very important topic.!

[@vinojahchandrawaran3803]

Well said!👌🏽

[@RB-km3ro]

This video is very useful jay. Thank you

[@zaimariano1604]

Needed to hear this 🙏

[@IshaSharma11]

This is so relatable ❣

[@ilovegoddoyou7003]

Stay safe and stay blessed, success, happy always those who reading this 💕❤

[@yanyelu]

Thank you Jay♥️at the right moment I got ur video...at the moment when I felt like broking into pieces felt to quit... something words can't describe and I'm here it's all bcoz of me... I took decisions in my life just like that without thinking much

[@anshuljain8277]

Thanks sir 😊☺️

[@mayuridas9967]

I hope you can really read my mind Jay❤️. It's very relatable with me and I will follow your advice full-heartedly. Take love ❤️.

[@richardfair5455]

Hello

[@priestanthony2139]

Hello, bonjour, aloha, salut! (I wasn’t sure how to say hi, so I tried a bunch.) You got a lovely profile picture.

[@mayuridas9967]

Hlw

[@priestanthony2139]

@@mayuridas9967 I would love to know more about you... Why don't you give me your gmail so I can write you a direct message

[@joanieofarc2955]

Good morning everyone I was in and abusive marriage I'm glad I got out of it,, I waited too long, I'm so happy now,, I met the most amazing man and I'm healed from the past

[@danaordonez1002]

We all deserve true Love

[@sanjibdutta6794]

Wow jay...thanx for this

[@Laura-we6xi]

Great chemistry I was hoping for them to be together 🥰😂

[@jab5713]

Also remember that finding love and a true connection does not happen to everybody. Always be the best of yourself and enjoy life. Sometimes love and marriage does not happen to all even if they want to and make efforts.

[@onlinecareertrainer8030]

Thank you! 🤩🌎 “Stop chasing the money and start chasing the passion.” - Tony Hsieh, CEO of Zappos

[@yonathanzewde2575]

👏👏👏👏well done Jamie

[@mutonirebecca3017]

Thanks Genius

[@nafiualhassan2890]

I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days

[@Kirila_Sh]

This resembles more a psycho relationship than a toxic one

[@thabita1466]

Only i know for now is to chase my dreams and purpose inlife than chasing the person doenst know your value.

[@danielavallejo7306]

Thanks, this video helped me a lot, I'm almost completely over my ex, but watching these kind of videos remind me that he was not as invested as me or value me for who I was. I know there is someone who is a beter fit for me out here

[@danielavallejo7306]

@@brandon556 hello 👋

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@@brandon556 doing good, yourself?

[@danielavallejo7306]

@@brandon556 I'm from south America and I'm 29

[@parikshitKhanna]

Amazing video

[@charminbutterfly32]

Great message ❤❤❤ Very true a toxic relationship is not good for yourself .

[@brettming4706]

Getting your ex back/ crush /so /spouse / third party/ shouldn't be a problem I got my love back with the help of Mr osekhametalor.

[@brettming4706]

What'sapp him.

[@brettming4706]

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[@kawtarniza3694]

you inspire me alot sir🙏 thank you so much ,too much love from morocco🇲🇦

[@maxwellc-5085]

You are never stuck. I just broke my way out of 2 do whatever you please cause you know what is right inside

[@JohannaSimoes-di1tq]

I need more videos like this

[@kennethjoseph9309]

Thank god she stood her ground yelling at him.

[@donnageorge6506]

i can soooo relate to this

[@NYKIRA]

Amazing actors

[@ayusharyan2178]

Hi sir.....ur Great Fan.....love from India 😊😊❤❤

[@muskanaulakh4528]

My bf hurted me a lot in past emotionally but now he is changed and we both live each other a lot, but still when I think about past, i feel bad for myself and hate myself for letting him hurt me like that... i don't know what to do..

[@sisiraekanayakasongchannel5097]

This is exactly my friends life

[@nishulamba2726]

Firstly Love your self if you can't love you u can't love anyone 😊

[@fairymairah]

I wish I could put my foot down like hers 😌 !