When both are committed, secure, respectful, and trustworthy there's usually not a jealously issue.
@memyselfi18283 жыл бұрын
I love the way Jay looks at you.
@karong70173 жыл бұрын
Me too. From what I've seen... Jay's been consistent with that since they 1st posted up. He shows his love for her in his eyes & most importantly his actions. Respectfully disagrees and makes clear concise points. Jay never talks over Rasha nor shows aggression towards. Seems easy to talk to l. Honorable since he seems to be a large, fit man who at 1st sight looks a bit intimidating.
@bryanlinville58563 жыл бұрын
How could you not look at a black woman like that, they're beautiful!!
@Celestivity19763 жыл бұрын
Yep. I love that too. I noticed that. It's a beautiful thing
@taylornorth36373 жыл бұрын
Rasha you are absolutely gorgeous! Your husband is a lucky man.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u🥰
@AbenaAsamoa3 жыл бұрын
She is very gorgeous and has beautiful skin too. She has beautiful eyes
@africansnowqueenqueen32963 жыл бұрын
Perhaps his behaviors contributes to making you feel secure. Good husband!
@Imlejj3 жыл бұрын
I like that “you can see beauty and not be lustful.” Great topic
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🥰
@iamme98223 жыл бұрын
I think that was the most tasteful and well explained quote from them, based off of respect for one another. And I think it makes in difference in the long run as well. If your partner can imagine themselves with someone else, where else or what else could that thought lead to.
@dalehoward37043 жыл бұрын
You're such a healthy couple☺️☺️☺️ May your love thrive forevermore ❤️
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u❤️🥰
@beverlysanders67933 жыл бұрын
I love the way he looks at you. That man is in love.
@tamzyl12503 жыл бұрын
Rasha, your just like me. When you know you know. Trust is there until you break it with me, once it’s broken I can’t go on in the relationship. I lose respect for my partner.
@IAmQueen543 жыл бұрын
She looks so beautiful with her very short natural hair...You two make a lovely couple tho 💞
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks ❤️
@margocrenshaw49443 жыл бұрын
First lady Rasha, from a woman's point of view I think it's a beautiful thing when your mate makes you feel that secure that you don't feel jealousy to the point you're questioning, doubting or bickering with one another. That's a wonderful feeling when your man doesn't give you reasons to feel that type of jealousy. But you can feel jealous of JAY he's a handsome devil inside/out😊. Much love. GOD BLESS you both.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Margo for watching and for your input on this topic!!🙏🏽❤️
@1kemakeem3 жыл бұрын
Trust and respect make jealousy less of an issue in a relationship. ❤
@beverlympowell3 жыл бұрын
I love how she laughs so hard and all he does is look at her and presents this smilish grin💕
@DorothyRHall3 жыл бұрын
You guys are so cute together. Yes, the volume is low and yes your husband is fine! Smile!
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u🥰❤️
@carolewarrenrealtor3 жыл бұрын
Love the term "the island" 😊
@SimpleeChelle3 жыл бұрын
You two are so great together..
@Lolamich3 жыл бұрын
"Why was he coming to help?" LOL. Both of you make me laugh. I really enjoy your videos.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u🥰
@cynthiareeves87073 жыл бұрын
Well i had to turn my volume all the way up.. If that helps.. You guy are are a Gorgeous couple.
@75skittles183 жыл бұрын
No need to be jealous. Either they will stay or they will go. You both have good personalities .❤
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u❤️
@julesfans51903 жыл бұрын
I love you guys, you're mirroring me amd my husband just laid back and beautiful kids well mannered, what more can you request of God. Good health amd blessing to you all
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much!! God bless!!🙏🏽
@reneeplatts89893 жыл бұрын
This was a very respectful conversation.Great job keeping it real.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u🙏🏽🥰
@ALS-qu4sd3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love the way he looks at you!
@sonyabrown79503 жыл бұрын
Very mature and healthy perspectives. You two communicate well. That is so key in a relationship.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u🙏🏽❤️
@Celestivity19763 жыл бұрын
I honestly feel it goes beyond feeling secure in yourself. A person should create a partnership with someone who does not cause or plant reasons for insecurity, or doubt, or second guessing. Some people want their partner to be jealous, and that is very unhealthy to deliberately do things to cause jealousy in the other person.
@ms.queendiva3 жыл бұрын
Both of you are blessed to find each other and build build a great and respectful relationship
@ck5153 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful couple I just love them
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u🥰
@haydeejohnson82903 жыл бұрын
YOU BOTH make eachother feel secure!!! You broke the code! God bless you both❤
@duckysmom97003 жыл бұрын
Gurl.......I feel you!!! I think me and my hubby share the same experience
@Mz_Kia793 жыл бұрын
Relationship goals, you guys are awesome
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u❤️🥰
@moeanthony93083 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. All great points
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!❤️
@crankiemanx84233 жыл бұрын
I can see why he is jealous,she is beautiful.but she is devoted .
@Elenita4083 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love the way your husband looks at you!! True love ❤️
@janicehenry47963 жыл бұрын
Lady, you are like me, I agree with you.
@spring79703 жыл бұрын
I love the maturity in your relationship and I like watching your videos.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u🥰
@seattle69393 жыл бұрын
Best couple conversations on KZbin 👏🏽 Your both beautiful natural people 🙏🏾🙏🏼
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you🙏🏽🥰
@florencekimondo16813 жыл бұрын
You look good together....Enjoy yourselves guys.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks🥰
@latashathompson35493 жыл бұрын
God bless your marriage, family and entire life.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u🙏🏽❤️🥰
@drjrwalton3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful and realistic discussion between two loving and mature people who understand how to enjoy each other, from an honest and mature place with a great sense of humor. Appreciation of others from a mental and physical aspect that is respectful. And, can laugh. It is refreshing listening to older couples offer pearls of wisdom.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and for your words 🙏🏽🥰❤️
@kerimabrown54043 жыл бұрын
It’s nice to see the trust you have in each other. This limits that jealousy aspect in your relationship. Men will look, but you are secure within yourself & your relationship.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u❤️
@NYCDISNEYGIRL3 жыл бұрын
I love the love between you two. I hope to have the love and respect that you have for one another one day! Continue to be blessed!
@tonia33713 жыл бұрын
This was a great topic. I’m the same way Rasha. Unless you give me a reasoning then it’s on and popping.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Not on and popping Tonia😂😂
@tonia33713 жыл бұрын
@@SheSaidHeSaid yes all the way and bells 🤣
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
@@tonia3371 🤣
@nicoleferrell15793 жыл бұрын
Y'all are funny 👀👍😂😂😂 y'all have a healthy relationship i hope!!
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Yes we go through things like anybody but we definitely try to keep things in perspective and love to laugh and joke!!
@durrere19733 жыл бұрын
I have been married too long. The only thing I would be jealous about is if my husband is doing something for a woman that he doesn't do for me. Otherwise, if a woman can pull my husband then by cuz I am not fighting for someone who wants to go. See yah.
@lavallarogers76853 жыл бұрын
Rasha and Jay I agree with the other comments and I will say it again i just love ❤️ the way you two look 👀 at one another you can truly tell the both of you are really in love with one another and the both of you have a lot of respect for one another may God keep blessing you and your beautiful family. Happy New Year 🎈 and yes the video was good could hear you loud and clear.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!! Glad volume was good!! 🙏🏽🥰❤️
@cecilemuntu54013 жыл бұрын
It is okay to be jealous of each other But it must be a healthy one. It's an evidence of love❤💗💝💖
@darlajohnson85343 жыл бұрын
The volume always sounds just fine when I time in! I always enjoy your videos never too long for me. Thanks so much for sharing your views on jealousy..... it was very informative and funny as well! I just love you all so much! ❤️👍🤗❤️☮️
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Glad the volume was good. 🙏🏽❤️
@junehoward39233 жыл бұрын
You guys have what everyone is looking for! The love, trust and chemistry just radiates out of you guys!
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u❤️
@whatsnikicooking60863 жыл бұрын
I absolutely looove how you both love and respect each other. 💖 May God bless your unity. 🙏🏽 I’m binge watching all of your videos.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much🥰❤️
@tyhint12513 жыл бұрын
You’re a beautiful couple! I appreciate the openness and sharing of your experiences.
@acilicia3 жыл бұрын
No probs with volume for me-good discussion! I felt all of it hahahaha. Y'all are too happy together to be worried about jealousy... but I'm going to concur about that "line" though.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Glad the sound was good!! Thanks for watching!!🙏🏽❤️
@mygirlcheech853 жыл бұрын
Guuuuuuurl...you love his little jealous ways. Im the same EXACT way with my man.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@ROLLWITHLIZ3 жыл бұрын
Hii your wife looks so beautiful 😍her skin is glowing thanks for sharing..
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank u🥰
@berlindaburnett65833 жыл бұрын
Omgooodness, I love your topic and I love you guy's relationship , it's almost like I am see my relationship in y'all's relationship . Its awesome to be secure as a woman in your relationship and allow your husband to be himself. Blessings to you and family 🙏🏽💜
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and for sharing with us!! Stay blessed!!!❤️🥰
@mariaelenasantiago33133 жыл бұрын
Watching you makes me feel I could hang out with you both. Love your honesty and chilling. Keep up your love for each other.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ❤️💜
@jackiehazel12503 жыл бұрын
Love this conversation, and how real y’all are, and soo true, you gotta have trust and love conquers all
@glindaconard35543 жыл бұрын
You guys are Spot on💯 if you Love someone and want to Risk it, be a fool. The dog though 😂😂 am so weak. And I have told my boyfriend before, hey look at her, if a person looks nice or is beautiful, look but not lust. And again she do have a light up the room smile🤷🏽♀️and I can tell you guys will be together Forever 💪🏾❤️
@jeanettescott81533 жыл бұрын
I’m like you sis, not a jealous person and yes your guy is handsome. Just stay secure in your skin.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you❤️
@shantel71073 жыл бұрын
The volume and topic were great. I like to believe I'm not a jealous person and think like Rasha, but I've never been placed in a jealous situation. lol
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@bettiesally64862 жыл бұрын
it's about respecting each other keeping that communication flowing I just luv u guys because you guys are real much luv to you guys
@SheSaidHeSaid2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much🙏🏽
@kelleyhinsch243 жыл бұрын
Great Couple!! I feel the Love.. 😍😍
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!!❤️
@jacquil35953 жыл бұрын
Walking in confidence is the BEST part of a good, healthy relationship. 🙏 Be Blessed.
@sharonburns22283 жыл бұрын
Love the video...I can hear clearly
@pastorterrymckenzie99743 жыл бұрын
I can hear it but it's definitely still low volume for sure
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!!
@tatyvaughn90973 жыл бұрын
Love the confidence girl, I see you 😎
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
😘❤️
@leahharris41313 жыл бұрын
I Love Jay's voice and how attentive he is to Rasha.😇
@ROLLWITHLIZ3 жыл бұрын
Tbis was so entertaining to watch Jay keeps getting on your nerves by being so funny 😀😀love you two keep the videos coming cos i keep going back to watch the old ones lol
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
We will!! Thanks for watching them!!!!😘😊🥰
@angelamartin62113 жыл бұрын
Great video !! I enjoy watching you two y’all are funny as well .
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u‼️❤️
@samuelwilliams80993 жыл бұрын
A very good morning from the Lake of Konstanz in southern part of Germany. I am smiling the entire time while watching this episode. From my assessment, the answer is going to be 50/50 . Ha ha ha.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Good morning!! Hope all is well!!❤️
@speway3 жыл бұрын
It's "take a look, it's in a book, a reading rain...".
@stephsinger51633 жыл бұрын
Yes! This was a suggestion I made for a topic! So important to address . Some jealousy is flattering some is scary. Take a look it’s in a book reading rainbow! Great video as always . Rasha I love your security . Your fine guy not going anywhere . He looks at you with love. You are a beauty too ❤️❤️❤️ checking passwords is so consuming . I never check my mans phone I never ask for passwords unless it involves something I need to access. I know people who are OBSESSED with what their partner is doing or not. Ugh . ❤️❤️❤️❤️ People also need to respect both of you and check their comments . We all can appreciate a good looking person but keep yourself in check . Respect one another. I’ve had girls ask me how I got so lucky and got such a handsome husband , can you imagine how that sounds??? Window shopping fine , as long as nobody buys anything ! We are all human and can appreciate good looking people . ❤️
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Window shopping!! That’s it!! 🤣🤣 As always Steph we appreciate you watching and for the support! I know we can’t always keep up with who suggested what but thank you for the suggestion!! Was definitely a great topic!!🥰❤️
@reneeplatts89893 жыл бұрын
"Loving this, you guys are funny in a good way Lol.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😂
@amariewalenda38013 жыл бұрын
I love to see ya together it reminds me of my parents 💪👍🗽
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@loisbrown93253 жыл бұрын
I think that's beautiful; Communication is the key. For me, trust comes over love. No faith, no love! Yes, your husband is handsome, but you aren't sucking on a soup bone your damn self. #melaninpoppin Women don't usually look, but like sis said, in our mind, Daymn!! 😆
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you and thanks for sharing🥰❤️
@carolewarrenrealtor3 жыл бұрын
Being secure in yourself is key as is having a partner who also gives you a sense of security within the relationship. Love, communication and friendship strengthen the bond. You guys are cool...love that.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your thoughts on this!! 🙏🏽❤️
@coleenfarquharson30093 жыл бұрын
You two are such a sweet couple..I just love your vibes..anyways I wish for you a happy new year, give my love to your children too💯👍
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Happy new year!!
@soniaboyd96133 жыл бұрын
Volume was OK, wishing you and your family a happy new year. Looking forward to more videos next year ❤🎉🇯🇲🇬🇧
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Happy new year!!🥂
@HeidiSP5293 жыл бұрын
Thank you..the volume is much better on this video💚
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear!!
@keepingitrealwithchinell75653 жыл бұрын
I can see the balance in this relationship!! Introvert & extrovert at its best!!
@stellaketu53213 жыл бұрын
I can tell both of you are very confident people. Jealousy is sometimes a result of insecurities.
@eleazaratkinson79843 жыл бұрын
Beautiful down to earth couple.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks ❤️
@deanagriffin18763 жыл бұрын
U 2 have a dynamic chemistry! The respect that u have for each other is what makes it work. God put u 2 together😘!
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
🥰❤️❤️
@AlaskaCandi3 жыл бұрын
You Folks are wonderful, many of us should learn from you!
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank U so much🙏🏽🥰
@elainehargrove67543 жыл бұрын
I’m like Rajsha, get your 3 seconds and turn back 😂😂 . The volume was high enough!
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@nahmastay74973 жыл бұрын
Now that we got that out the way.....ooooh Girl, he fine! 😂 Rasha you’re absolutely stunning both inside and out and your position is much like my own. I’ve mentioned in other comments that I will be divorcing a man with a lot of personality issues and on the topic of jealousy, he would do something called triangulation with females in his life. Pretty much trying to create situations where they would be jealous of one another. Jealousy and causing ppl to be jealous is an illness. Leave that mess right over there. Great vid and the sound was better on this one
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🥰😊 We appreciate you sharing with us your situation and views. Hope all works out best for you!! And yes jealousy is a sickness, an illness. Avoid negativity at all costs!!
@nahmastay74973 жыл бұрын
@@SheSaidHeSaid thx for the well wishes. Very much appreciated. God is in control and we learn from everything we go through. May your family be blessed.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
@@nahmastay7497 your welcome!!
@levellamontgomery22343 жыл бұрын
The sound is good for me. Great video
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Good to hear. Thanks!
@nettiedoss37113 жыл бұрын
Keep sharing more couples will benefit from what you guys are sharing. I’m so blessed to Glenn from your wisdom
@angelafranklin22673 жыл бұрын
Yes Jay is fine, no doubt. Your love is deep and trust is real. God bless you both. I'm JEALOUS hahahaha ☺☺☺☺ I love y'all. Rasha you talk and laugh just like my Aunt Barbara!
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you🥰❤️💜
@jacobnorris61443 жыл бұрын
Y’all are so in love
@FatgirlMickey3 жыл бұрын
When you're spirit is telling you to start looking into a partners private stuff it's because you're partner is giving u a reason to not trust her. Ive been cheated on by 3 different people and I knew it without catching them in the act.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Great point!
@AngeliqueW13 жыл бұрын
You two are too cute. Yes, J would look much better without the beard ...BUT... since the Mrs. likes it, that’s all that matters. Take care!
@bryanlinville58563 жыл бұрын
Great vid Jay & Kasha. What people have to realize is if you think your partner looks good there's gonna be other people think they look good. My wife and I really don't have any issues in the jealousy area..just don't let me run into Tika Sumpter, Lord I'm in trouble!! Well ,Jay & Kasha be safe and God bless
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 I feel ya Bryan!! She is fine for sure!! Appreciate ya watching!! God bless!
@memyselfi18283 жыл бұрын
24, 36...that water is a brick house. Lol
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
I know right!!!🤣🤣🤣
@kendriahall59833 жыл бұрын
Awesome video, cheers to 2021!!
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Cheers🥂
@jenniferslocks79813 жыл бұрын
Just found yalls channel, Bravo to your wife, a real woman, secure in her own right. Love it! Shes right, if your man wants to go then he can go. I feel like if my man ( dont have one right now lol ) but if a man of mine leaves, I feel he wasn't there to begin with & I'd rather lose someone than beg them to stay. You want someone to WANT to be there, not have to be there. Anyway, loved the video Oh & the man can be a little bit jealous because it's kinda flattering, not necessary,I but kinda nice. ✌💜
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much for watching and for sharing your insight on this. 🥰❤️
@belkislorenzo95783 жыл бұрын
Omg, I like the way you guys are very open and sincere. She is for real. God Bless your marriage.
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you🙏🏽❤️
@roseannepryor15423 жыл бұрын
New subscriber! Love your videos!
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank u for subscribing 🙏🏽🥰
@justicelove47453 жыл бұрын
Love the honesty and transparency you guys are awesome 🙏🏼💕
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Justice!!🥰
@aleciaaustin30183 жыл бұрын
I really believe that for any healthy relationship there has to be a little bit of jealousy... Not to be disrespectful or anything, but to know that the person you are with values you to not want to lose you, God says he is a Jealous God, but once there is respect and communications then Jealous won't be an issues!
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! Great points!
@nucreature29483 жыл бұрын
Rasha.....gurllll, lol....you know we black women talk without talking! If looks could kill..... Some of those looks you give Jay when he's trying to justify, let's me know....you were taught well. I can tell you are not a jealous person, but also...You are no fool! IJS....Respect is the matter of concern, and I love how both you and Jay have mutual respect for one another and know each other's motives so well and can laugh about it♥️
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! Gotta keep each other on point! Lol.
@saleemahfareed47903 жыл бұрын
Good evening from long Beach California 😎
@SheSaidHeSaid3 жыл бұрын
Hey Saleemah👋🏽👋🏽
@spring79703 жыл бұрын
Rasha I agree with your view point. I am similiar.
@zayidm32183 жыл бұрын
This is good. From this video I have learned that security in relationships comes from not losing yourself. The ability to still be an individual even in a partnership. In the midst of being “us” each can still be a “me” and trust each other if that makes sense.