The Rational Male - Rollo Tomassi

[@RolloTomassi]

Thanks Jecht, let me know if you have any questions.

[@brownerbrowner]

Rollo , thank you so much for your spectacular book...I was always knew these things through a painful experience, however , it got clearer than ever when you illustrate it as you did it so well.

[@IceColdProfessional]

This book changed my life, not just with women, but people in general. After reading it, you see Beta males for who they are like Neo sees the code in the Matrix.

[@JetSpencer]

The truth is a hell of a pill to swalow

[@yeshayahu8358]

That’s very true.

[@lancelotray]

So is this book really saying that we all should be players???

[@PalashaGabarra]

Kevin Caballero No...

[@lancelotray]

but is that what plate spinning is?

[@nihilsin3deo]

+"Entrepreneurs in Cars" brought me here. I like your content. Subscribed.

[@JetSpencer]

Thank you. I will go check out that channel. Thanks for the tip.

[@jluke7440]

The Drake Effect same here EIC is awesome!!! Props to my brother Rich from another mother!!!

[@gsx1138]

Same here. I bought the book because of EIC. Just happened upon this review, which is awesome by the way, and subscribed.

[@keysmith6493]

I love and hate The Rational Male. My days of thinking I'm Noah from the Notebook is over

[@JetSpencer]

Key Smith Yeah I used to think I was Juan Antonio from Vicky Cristina Barcelona but alas romance plays such a little role in attraction

[@mgtowbooboo8530]

lol

[@piercedbydave]

I am a "reader". I take pleasure in reading books. When I had heard of this book I immediately purchased it. I read it as soon as I got it, I couldn't put it down! I would recommend this book to any man who wants to become aware of the female imperative. This book changed my life. There are three books I would recommend as game changers that I believe every man should read. 1. The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene. 2. The Rational Male and 3. The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck by Mark Manson. As a man wishing the best for my fellow brothers, read these books and arm yourself against this female favored paradigm in which is our reality.

[@JetSpencer]

Those three books are must reads for every single man. I'd put 48 Laws of Power as one of my all time favorite reads and a fundamental teacher in the art of social prowess. I have just began reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck and will most definitely have a review on it in the near future. You have some great recommendations here. Kudos!

[@rvprsd8299]

Piercedbydave Yes brother!! I have 2 out of 3 of those books. I just need the rational male💯✌

[@fabiolito28]

I have all 3 and haven't read any yet I'm on the way of men right now

[@storetor]

Seen several revives of this book, you got the best one - both practical and informative

[@JetSpencer]

Thanks dude these comments mean the world to me

[@TonyTony-nc3fy]

I may have cracked my screen hitting the like button. Awesome video! Thanks man!

[@JetSpencer]

Tony Tony Hell yeah. Thank you !

[@brandonwarfield5611]

I just ordered this book, I can't wait until it gets to my home.

[@His_Name_Was_King]

the name of the game is the control of men....she is not ur friend..she never was...she really doesn't care about ur soul...she never did. Wake up and be free. There is no such thing as a good women...its only her circumstances that make her appear "good" ...place her in a different environment and she will change overnight..meaning she was always like that. Good girl gone bad is a myth..she was always bad.

[@eliasdeleone7059]

NEVER let that rubber out of your sight!!! It's the fucking truth!

[@JetSpencer]

I was shocked the first time it happened... the second time I realized there was a pattern. The more shocking part was that both of these girls were extremely well off (one about 50 k and the other over 100k a year.)

[@davidarbelaez4395]

Thousands of men are in miserable marriages and are terrified to walk away.

[@Onamission13]

Why? Could you elaborate? Because of choosing the wrong partner?

[@chrisclayton584]

I think you did the best summary of this book on the web. I would love for you to do the rational male:internal medicine.

[@JetSpencer]

Chris Williamson thank you. Preventive medicine is on my to-read list. A video on it will be in thr near future.

[@TheNucaKola]

I just purchased all 3 volumes of The Rational Male, and watched your video as an overview of the context of the book before reading into the details myself. Very excited to read these tomes of knowledge, in combination with my books on Stoicism, I’m ready to transform myself into a better version!

[@bregjejabra25]

Good review. Thanks from Holland.

[@4Mikes4Mindset4]

I like your edge bud. Do more content amigo

[@thabesttheris]

It took me two months to finish the book because my social conditioning wouldn't let me internalize it. I now read it everyday.

[@topspduk]

Great review. I came across your video by chance. Placed an order on Amazon straight away. Can't wait to read the book.

[@JetSpencer]

Mooshin Hell yeah. Let me know your thoughts.

[@fabbsup]

Really good review. I am almost finished listening to the audiobook version. Rollo includes a lot of subclauses and attaches a lot of alternative words at the end of sentences, when making a point to insure everything is covered. While it shows, he has an exact understanding of what he is saying, it also makes it hard to take it all in on first listen. So the book is better to be read, than to be listened to in my opinion. Your review really nailed it in a very comprehensive way. Greatly appreciated. It's really about reading/listening to red pill content over and over to actually embed it in your natural behaviour. So easy to slide back into old behaviour, when meeting women. One thing to understand the concept. But an entirely different thing to let it change you bit by bit in your daily manerism (no pun intended).

[@foundryx6697]

Essential reading for all men. Changed my life

[@bollista4577]

The red pill sometimes feels like a giant 10 ton rock to swallow, to me...

[@joefineman648]

This is actually a top quality video. I like the way you convey your points, you have a lot of conviction.

[@faizolmai5844]

I haven’t read the book yet and someone recommended it . Great review by the way

[@4Mikes4Mindset4]

Year later. Read it yet?

[@shamakiooglesby6418]

buy the book. get the audiobook. you will not be able to put it down.

[@raiderrick]

I just started reading this book on Kindle and it is a great one. Your review was clear, concise and articulate to say the least.

[@londonguy007]

Brilliant review. Just stumbled upon your site. I read the Rational Male and found it hard reading at times. You simplified it and related it to me in a language I understand. Thanks

[@JetSpencer]

I 1000% agree with you. The book is very philosophical in it's delivery and can be a little dense about how to then apply the principles in a real life scenario. Thanks you!

[@Gadearealmadrid98]

dude you are pure straight talk, I like your advice i'll subscribe to your channel

[@JetSpencer]

Fantastic. Thank you!

[@WhenPokemon]

Thanks so much for breaking down the book =)

[@JetSpencer]

crzydrgn your welcome dude

[@obadiahscave]

great video.. for any man, single or in a relationship..

[@JetSpencer]

Smith Thank you Sir

[@josuegialis8146]

Very good video! Thank you very much for sharing, book is en route. :)

[@rebelbabache]

Awesum review Mate...Thanks a ton for the heads-up

[@vvvetohin]

Thanks man! You rock! Very interesting and very impressive video! This book, I hope, will be at my short-list for self-improving. And many thanks for Rollo Tomassi, of course.

[@Foba_Bett]

Thanks for your review jecht :)

[@1970chileno]

Subscribed,,,keep up the good work,,,

[@JetSpencer]

Thank you dude

[@jbdmb]

what came first the chicken or the egg?... I mean RSD or this book...

[@valuetainer3437]

Who th fuck is rsd, the manosphere have been active since 2000

[@dominiqueblanco9560]

Rsd is only shit Business with a 98%!of men’s trying to be what they are not. For this reason rsd max lived in a deep depression

[@brownerbrowner]

This video is quite good , thank you bro...

[@theotherway1639]

This book pairs well with "The Man's Dating Decision Notebook" by Guru Notebooks. It's a guided inquiry notebook for men.

[@CHagen240]

my grandparents have been happily married for over 50 years. how does that fit into this?

[@CHagen240]

That can't be it- they're both pretty progressive when it comes to feminist ideas. Not as progressive as my parents, I guess, but they've also been happily married for over 30 years. Of course neither my parents or my grandparents are as progressive as my girlfriend and I, but we've also been happily together for over 6 years. I can think of plenty of friends and family members who are progressive when it comes to feminist ideas whom also don't suffer from the plights that you describe in this video. Maybe the frame of reference you're speaking from is too limited?

[@raysingh448]

Connor Hagen times are different now

[@PalashaGabarra]

the man for all seasons Explain why.

[@PalashaGabarra]

Connor Hagen Your grandmother isn't brainwashed. I don't care how progressive you claim she is. She was raised from childhood to adulthood in a dramatically different environment than millennial women were.

[@johncole3602]

Best video on youtube.

[@JetSpencer]

Ayyyyy ;) best? Probably not... well maybe... ok yeah totally. Haha.

[@johncole3602]

@@JetSpencer Lol

[@jamiedelorme850]

My son is falling into the same trap I did I hope this book helps.

[@bumzilla8586]

Great review I'm going to buy it ..

[@davidwhite206]

This review was dope as fuck. I just got the book, reading it now. Just wanted to see what others thought of it.

[@sheenaahmed]

Great review once again!! Also "that my genes are so valid" :P

[@JetSpencer]

Thanks Sheena

[@mso008]

I love this video. New sub here.

[@juliorr2]

Well said!!

[@JetSpencer]

Thank you

[@dmckay1984]

Hi Jecht, havent read the book yet but pretty accurate information there thx for the review ! I want to regain the confidence I had before being in my relationship, now im fully committed, and im struggling having that sex I once had.. any hint why some woman seem to lost their libido / desire in longterm relationship?

[@JetSpencer]

Scarcity breeds desire. When something is a sure thing the need becomes diminished. Also keep in mind from a strictly evolutionary perspective having the smell of you around constantly removes that "must have" factor. Make sure to continue to court your girl like you did before the relationship became official. Many guys fall into the stay at home and watch TV binge. Make sure you are continue to do the things that made her attracted to you in the first place (i.e: follow your purpose, hit the gym, and setting strong personal boundaries.) Try this and leave some feedback as to how it unfolds. Good luck!

[@dmckay1984]

Thx for the advice ! Really appreciated!

[@JetSpencer]

Anytime Dve Mk

[@TravelandBang]

Book changed my life...

[@TravelandBang]

Be careful now, Real Talk... Most men can't handle the truth or they read it and become bitter because it ruins their view on women. I used to go around and tell every dude to cop this book but I slowly realized the majority of men don't want to unplug. So now I just keep it to myself and sit back with a devil's grin as I see others struggle with women, this info isn't made for the simple minded bro...

[@TravelandBang]

Don't worry about it RZA, I currently consider myself to be "Purple Pill" meaning I am a recovering Beta Male transitioning into an Alpha. The shit takes time, it doesn't happen over night... Be sure to buy all 3 books, the 2nd one is called "Preventive Medicine" and the 3rd "Positive Masculinity". But I will be honest to say I do not take everything I read as gospel, I take what works for me and discard what I feel doesn't apply to me as a Man and you should do the same...

[@david2k86]

Will this help single men in their 30s who have no social life?

[@JetSpencer]

Please concepts hold true for whatever age you are. Focus on improving yourself and putting your personality on the line in order to improve your social skills so that you can create an environment where women are polarized to you.

[@aodh_ruadh]

You sure this isn't the rational male summary liked the video loved the book great job

[@JetSpencer]

Thank you

[@j.f.4926]

Thank you, This is very helpful. :)

[@mercedescreates]

I'm a feminist but damn if I'm not all for manly empowerment like this. Hotchacha

[@JohnDoe-sk6wy]

Who da fuck leaves used condoms on the floor of their own house/apartment/condo? Don’t you own a trash can or a flushable toilet? You want to be an alpha male? Start with being clean and having enough discipline to implement good habits and hygiene.

[@opaz6149]

Everything discussed in this video, is very sad and very true. God has an interesting sense of humor when it comes to male and female dynamics.

[@JetSpencer]

Most men would understand these principles if we were all still back in the Savannah fighting for survival but in today's age with the amount of social conditioning applied from cradle to grave we get a very flawed sense of reality. This book is a simple re-frame to what truly is rather than what we want it to be. It's not that we don't have a sense of it rather we are being reacquainted to what actually is.

[@opaz6149]

Although I do enjoy dating and getting laid, I consider myself a MGTOW. The book does seem very interesting. I will be ordering the audio version soon. Great video by the way.

[@JetSpencer]

Fantastic let me know what you think. I'm not overly familiar with MGTOW but understand the principles behind it. Everyone has their own way of dealing with things and if it brings you happiness more power to you.

[@Alphfirm]

Fuck. I need to learn about this shit, but it takes so much time, energy and effort

[@Volvo-f2y]

i am in the middle of the 2 paradigm

[@vitor2009ization]

I've seen this, it changed my life for good 👍

[@mohammeder-rabhy3949]

Ou have a good way to summarize the books

[@marcusp905]

Just got the book!

[@AronCampisano]

Solid review man, very impressive - arguably the most important book in the Manosphere, next to The Game. The sequel is also amazing. Of note - I believe the entire book (and it's sequel) is available online as a series of blog posts.

[@JetSpencer]

Aron Campisano Thank you. I've actually been reading his 2nd book as well. Will definitely make a video about it. Cheers!

[@johnbouzy84]

Dude are you secretly Rollo Tomassi?

[@solojourneyman4598]

I need this book

[@JetSpencer]

Get your hands on it (:

[@Dorxtrance]

Showing my son this, what you have said is pretty much what im doing anyhow. But he just seems lame (in the classic sense) - in everything. I hope this opens his fucking eyes.

[@mezzuna]

A girl I was riding for a few months told me from day 1 she couldn't have kids. I pm'd her about meeting up for the ride after not speaking for around 18 months. I was in a dry spot so I though fuck it. Turns out she is heavily pregnant with some dude these days...

[@loveyourself1803]

What's your best book to read ? I'm struggling daily to find reasons not to kill myself ! I have a mood disorder and I can't keep to goals or make them due to my disorder making me change interests instantly. I have a shit job and I'm looking for a new job but I don't have patience

[@loveyourself1803]

Jecht Spencer Ok thanks. I have that book and everyone recommends it. I have over like 40 books to read but keep buying more , I keep buying since I gave up drinking and smoking.

[@JetSpencer]

It takes approximately 66 days on average to break/create a new habit (of course sometimes much shorter or longer as outliars exist depending on the vice.) Try implementing a healthier habit to take over for the new one (something as simple as chewing gum) or 30 minutes of exercise in the morning could be that change. Take some time to internalize some of the books that your reading (also no one ever said you have to read the entire book... jump around if you want and lean towards what interests you in the moment.)

[@loveyourself1803]

Jecht Spencer Thanks , I appreciate it. My greatest fear is dying and not getting to read all my books. I'm so weird lol I keep meaning to buy the art of seduction to get my social skills better

[@JetSpencer]

No problem dude. That is a odd fear but I respect your willingness to indulge in some of the worlds greatest minds. Remember to use books as a compass but not necessarily a map. In that I mean that life will throw shit at you that you can't read in a book but rather needs to experience yourself in order to catalyze the change you desire. You will become better at social skills going out and chatting up five people in a day then you will reading 100 books on how to start a conversation. A lot of it is about "giving up" and letting go to get to the core of who you are as a man and less to do with adding on. Books are AMAZING but don't let them be an excuse to not take massive action TODAY.

[@karl4813]

omfg i felt completely related to everything you said in the entire video - specifically the thing about the crabs pulling each other down from the bucket. I have been doing a diet program and weight lifting for 1 month being a naturally skinny dude and making slow but sure progress, saw my friends last weekend at a party was the only one not drinking, just to see how mentally strong i would be, and guess what, this fat girlfriend of a close friend i have had for a while(who is actually an enhancing friend with positive energy without his girl) was fucking nagging at me talking about hos "obsessed" i am with "making gains" and trying to do everything for ruining my progress and making me drink myself shit wasted - i quickly figured case-closed i am fucking outta that social environment of negative energy so i left early sober. As for the rest, they just overlooked it thinking i am crazy and lost, guess they were right about that last part.

[@JetSpencer]

"The truth you speak contradicts the lie that they live." - Dr. Steve Maraboli. You enhancing yourself (particularly your body) put a spot light on her own insecurities for being overweight. The only way she could rationalize her current state of affairs was to bring you down as opposed to bringing herself up but that really is the determining factor between those who make it and those who don't. Looks like you escaped the bucket my friend.

[@Muricastuff]

I like this guy!

[@JetSpencer]

I hate him!

[@zahidulislam350]

That book changed my thoughts

[@AbstractFocus]

YOU ARE THE TRUTH!

[@JetSpencer]

Thank you Abstract

[@piemasta93]

You have a very calm alpha vibe I could only imagine how you used to be hahaha

[@JetSpencer]

Thanks dude

[@reservordawg]

Rollo Tomassi is a an alias. If you see the movie LA Confidential you will realize this.

[@davidarbelaez4395]

Gone are the days of trying to be some lame prince who rescues a damsel in distress.

[@vsonic86]

Dude you are awesome man. I will buy this book. Hook me up with more books because I'm dealing with a broken heart right now. Oh shit, I heard about the condom shit. After listen to you, I feel really good especially when you told on how to move on. Is it too late to go for more girls when you are 30 years old?

[@irvv4373]

Read the book of John in the Bible.

[@razadaza9651]

You could lose a lot of potential sexual opportunities if you don't pretend to do the wrong things like put women on pedestals and not doing what the book says, but I agree with the concepts of the book, another channel talked about it and will buy this book

[@JetSpencer]

Raza Daza Good stuff. Let me know what you think of it.

[@aposteriori6987]

This makes sense for the majority of women that have no self awareness. But what about the philosophical woman? The intelligent one who actually recognizes her nature?

[@davidarbelaez4395]

A posteriori what about her and does she exist?

[@shamakiooglesby6418]

you should read the book. rollo spends a long time going over the how despite social status/education/etc it hypergamy still is in play. my ex has a master's degree in psychology and is one of the most intelligent women i have ever met. yet when felt my SMV no longer equaled hers she monkey-branched to a co-worker. intelligence has nothing to do with it. it goes back to the survival instincts of their ancestors. women would lose their husbands to death, famine, sickness, etc at the drop of a hat. in other to survive they learned to detach and seek out the strongest males to protect and provide for them and their current or potential offspring. which is logical. however those underpinnings are still applicable today. i cannot say it is good or bad but if you want to navigate like the cavemen and conquerors of old you have to make yourself into the most capable and confident man you can.

[@caseybrown1437]

brooooooooo i looked everywhere on KZbin for a decent review of this book, so many fuckboys doing just terrible god awful reviews, thanks for making yours concise and no bullshit and just get to the point.

[@thechicanes]

Agreed. short, concise and to the point without excessive babble. Book ordered from amazon. "Gimme back my nuts, they don't belong in your purse anyways".

[@1533ramsay]

I'm waiting for the book for the men who married and can't escape the he'll a woman can put on a man.

[@Papada00]

Do you even english?

[@mikeythedistasteful]

Is this book just about advancing your sex life or is it about improving your life in general

[@JetSpencer]

It is about male and female inter-gender sexual dynamics. It is not a "dating book" per say but focuses on women's behavior and how to best position yourself as an attractive mate.

[@YZFMANIAC08]

Im doing pretty good, too bad I got burn out for 3 years straight due to overtraining, got pretty beta

[@diogenes9295]

A little habanero salsa in the condom?

[@allsam18]

❤️thank you

[@JetSpencer]

allsam18 your welcome

[@markwilliam6745]

Dude nice video but that ending is cringe

[@JetSpencer]

Thanks I think lol

[@christianalexandernoffra]

great video but it doesn't shock me

[@waltergladstone4206]

Donald J Trump has this shit down.

[@asvpshmooglez9075]

Was that molly or just some OTC red pill??

[@PalashaGabarra]

Heh heh. Funny guy. Degenerate.

[@wgjdehaan3949]

Can women have one-itis?

[@SLASHERamc]

Is this what we've come to? Fuck.

[@tommy19745]

Amen!;]

[@iroquoisplissken3583]

Seems to be based on evolutionary psychology

[@davidcadman4468]

great breakdown... but as MGTOW MONK, I'll leave the women to the younger generation... with the caveat that they should be careful, as you pointed out with the condom story...

[@irvv4373]

Jesus is da way

[@wilfredocatlin5863]

I love this shit what the fuck

[@Victoria_Denmark]

I would rather say, all the dating suggestions are fit females more Than males!!!

[@ajc155]

this is pricelss

[@BeOutstanding]

Great Content Thank You Jet No 'the one'. You are just pedal her High val man than a loyal loser Spin pla Lift look Do cour rise Dec Fram

[@keysmith6493]

I'll take the condom off because I'm on birth control #TeamVasectomy

[@screenname8833]

80/20 rule Thanks for breaking it down But you gotta train your pencil neck dude

[@zerofull6936]

Small men have a need to be constantly swearing.

[@mesleyraves9983]

I just read "The Rational Male". Did you go through a phase where you hated/disliked/mistrusted women after reading that? Because that's kinda how I feel and I just hope it's a phase. I honestly don't even want to engage in social interaction with women anymore. Why couldn't we be like amoebas and just split to reproduce? Why do we need them? There's a lesson there, I'm just not getting it.

[@JetSpencer]

That is a completely reasonable reaction. It is often the first domino because they feel like they have been lied to their whole lives. Women are awesome even with all their flaws just as men are awesome even with all their flaws. As long as you can accept the way they are and love them all the while then at least you can see the world for how it truly is while simultaneously enjoying those moments shared with a girl (or girls) you find worthwhile.