Jennifer Lopez Dealing With 'Unexpected Obstacles' Amid Ben Affleck Split Rumors (Source)

A source tells ET that Jennifer Lopez has faced 'unexpected realizations, changes and obstacles' amid her rumored split with husband Ben Affleck.

[@ursula1231]

She’s deep down depressed about her marriage. Putting up a front is hard.

[@meghanmisaliar]

Exactly. She's trying too hard to prove she's unbothered.

[@Amy-466]

She might try NOT being in the spotlight for ONE day!!!

[@Born-A-Jedi-Was-I-Not]

​@Amy-466 That's the thing. She just can't. She may one day get over Ben, but she probably would never be able to live without attention from people, the media, fans, paparazzi, and everyone else that exists. Even if the attention is negative, she still seems to need it, and to want it more than everyone and everything else. That's just sad 😵‍💫😳😒

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

@@ursula1231 she feels humiliated betrayed however she brought this in herself private love letters displayed to anyone? Not a good thing when you love someone there's some thibgs that are personal and should remain private

[@blueprint0162]

Yup. She can’t accept the fact than Ben dumped her a 2nd time. She describes the 1st time she got dumped by him as her first heartbreak and that’s because she was never on the receiving end of being dumped. She was always the dumper never the dumpee. Ben was the first man to end a relationship with her so for once, she got to know how it felt to be dumped. He has done it a 2nd time and she’s angry and embarrassed. She did way too much just because she got back with him. An album/a film/a documentary/a tour. They all flopped. He made it clear he wanted a more low key relationship in the public eye this time around but and she didn’t care. She wanted all the attention like in 2002 and everything on her terms. Fact is, he was just not happy being with Jennifer and it showed. He always looked miserable, moody, and like he was trapped and wanted out and it’s because they are just not compatible. She can describe Ben as the love of her life and soulmate as much as she likes but the truth is, he is not. They had no business getting married and I don’t know why Ben even married her. I personally feel that that was a condition Jennifer had for their relationship this time around, seeing as she didn’t get to marry him previously. Jennifer is delusional. They are very different people and she needs to accept that they are not meant for each other.

[@Ariana-sc5id]

She needs to stop putting stories out there to the public if she doesn't want comments or criticism. Be private and stay out of social media.

[@rachaelbruesch6306]

Never going to happen.

[@jenniferpowers7006]

That’s what happens when you give a second chance! Too much baggage and drama.

[@lovelyshirl]

Ben looks totally miserable in all these photos. He's clearly over it all.

[@LucienneintheDreaming]

Jennifer Lopez and Bridgerton dont go together.

[@s.z.6200]

She’s ridiculous, 55 and celebrating her birthday like a 12 year old.

[@Catwoman748]

Awww, such an orchestrated facade of a fun time... must be lonely down there.😊

[@stephanieparido3790]

I am same age as her, I feel bad for her not learning and being with soo many, the saying "Your Ex is an Ex for a reason" How did they not talk about Life syle before getting back together after 20 yrs, I hope JLO finally realizes happiness doesn't depend on having a man and Love is not a fairytale

[@meghanmisaliar]

She'll never understand that.

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

She loves Ben affleck however affleck lust is not love ugh what mess

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

@@stephanieparido3790 lust not love it never lasts he lost interest

[@bambooblue74]

Step back from the limelight, live without the cameras, and find your authentic self JLo. You’ve got plenty of $$, you don’t need to be “on” every minute.

[@Amy-466]

Exactly!! Go away for a bit, give it a rest!

[@rachaelbruesch6306]

Ha! Do you honestly think you'd walk away? There's a private Ben, JLo is always craving/demands attention.

[@ShellyBomb]

@bambooblue74 ~ 💔 My thoughts exactly! Jennifer Lopez could have done things soooo much differently - like focusing on her new marriage & their blended families. However, it was endless travel / shopping / paparazzi from the get go! JLo is self-will run riot ... It seems to catch her up every time! Just sad they (she & he) didn't learn much it seems from their first attempt twenty years ago! How fortunate for them to actually find their way back to one another ... and then for it to END so heartbreakingly once again ~ 💔‼️

[@LindaBabby]

JLo loves herself​@@ShellyBomb

[@ilovelifelifelovesme773]

ben left her the first time because their relationship was too public, then when they get together the second time she straight away makes the movie Marry Me and then makes an album about thier relationship, making their relationship too public again...hhhh she always groomes her carrer of of her men. and ben is just expected to suck it up cuse she an entertainer....right? selfish.

[@KatharinaK117]

What woman with self-esteem would ask a dude ...Marry me! 😂 LMAO what a joke!

[@atinamink5290]

Ben is a very difficult man, he left Jennifer the first time because he thought she was not good for his reputation. He also did the same the second time. As if he has a reputation as a fraudster, alcoholic and gambler. Jennifer turned out to be very stupid for giving this man a second chance!

[@KatharinaK117]

@@atinamink5290 Amen!

[@meghanmisaliar]

​@@atinamink5290I agree. I don't really like either of them but he literally dumped her three days before their first wedding. She never should've forgiven him for that. And he was already starting things with Jennifer G while still engaged to JL. He's a creep.

[@itsdian1]

​@@atinamink5290 yup and also jlo listen to benny medina more than he listens to ben, benny is the one who pushed jlo to make this is me now

[@rgrateful]

This looks all FAKE. SHE IS SO UNHAPPY. She even paid dancers to be at her party. Blahhhhhhh. Chill Jlo chill

[@mykeylykey4916]

E-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g about Grandma J-loca is fake AF. She's sooooo cheezy. Embarrassing.

[@NicksFunny]

Can’t she just go to dinner and enjoy her life, everything is always so over the top. Just relax jeez

[@michelekoopman6487]

Being JLo may have caused her marriage problems, but she's stubborn so she's being JLo even more.

[@reabetsweimanmoabi7911]

Miserable people like to always make a big show 😅......

[@Senoritagata-nu5te]

Yea just go to city island to eat shrimp then go hang out at Orchard Beach for the day. Section 8 that's where they play the congas

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

Change isnt easy but can be achieved so lopez your not divorced yet from Ben just stop attention getting nonsense and if you love Ben there is still hope . change course

[@susanagonzalez9425]

The Bridgerton party probably turns off Ben even more than he's already been turned off by JLO since it's been mentioned that he didn't like her excessive and unnecessary spending. She's like a 12-yr-old wanting to make a big deal about her birthday.

[@barbaralowe3729]

She is obsessed with herself no wonder Ben could not cope

[@meghanmisaliar]

True. Imagine being married to someone who needs CONSTANT attention and validation. 😩

[@jessicajamesspeaks]

Jennifer Lopez doesn’t know how to treat people! She’s just like any other conceited artist!

[@KnicksNYanks84]

She wants to siphon more of his life energy but he has had enough

[@mykeylykey4916]

@barbaralowe3729.....translation: self-confidence ZERO --- self-esteem ZERO. She reeeeeeks of desperation. Pathetic.

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

@@barbaralowe3729 Ben made it crystal clear to her he wanted some things private she puts it all out there now consequences IF they did not file for DIVORCE hope is still there to reconcile however lets face it women if you want a nest for your man to come home to its meant for privacy peace love not a crowded nest full of paparazzi

[@liamneesonss]

Time humbles everyone she'll come around eventually

[@savedbythepreciousbloodofj7822]

God Almighty wants her to humble herself. Instead she threw herself an outlandish and lavish 55th Birthday party for herself. All about ME ME ME. LOOK AT ME. Self absorbed. I had a dream around the end of last year where in the dream she drowned in a swimming pool. Year prior in 2022, when she was flaunting her green engagement ring, I heard in my Spirit say about J Lo, pride comes before a fall. She might not have anymore time left. I had this dream around the end of last year. She made it to her 55th Birthday. She might not make it to her 56th Birthday. Unless she HUMBLES herself AND REPENTS.

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

@@liamneesonss well sometimes its too late and you lose the one you love

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

@@savedbythepreciousbloodofj7822 i did not understand why the heck she did that? I get it the man she loves is not there you dont want to be alone however sometimes you bite the bullet and spend it in private not that ridiculous outlandish costume party look at me birthday party only adds fuel to the fire

[@DiamondBodyHealing]

where are her children? doesn't she feel shame? even if you had party to try to cheer yourself up just leave it private.

[@Greenlee55]

Jenny from the block needs a reality check 😂😂

[@KatharinaK117]

Yep!

[@chrissylee325]

Thank God someone said it 😂

[@desireec.8598]

Who needs a 68 million dollar home 😮that’s crazy

[@KatharinaK117]

Like all Hollyweirdos ...

[@MariaTorres-tp7xq]

I do 😂 please send me a home even if it’s 300,000 dollars 😂

[@marriejames01]

They don’t think about upkeep and property taxes. It’s crazy!

[@Lovejoy1173]

​@@KatharinaK117🎯🎯🎯

[@devilsfavorite999]

The bigger the house the harder it is to sell

[@B-ch6uk]

This has to be humiliating for her

[@meghanmisaliar]

Right now she's in the denial phase of grief. Pretending to be unbothered.

[@MsBBBBBB]

for sure and why keep wearing wedding rings just to keep it low with the attention the media is giving them. Just announced your divorce in one blow.

[@kristinamennella8402]

She knows she is being watched. She is faking it

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

@@B-ch6uk im sorry kids or not she should nove back ti florida not be around ben this is not a good thing her children were close to A rod kids they're not close now for heavens sake move back totally away from Ben affleck those kids will find new friends

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

@@B-ch6uk honestly she is not going to be able to handle his moving on without her she should move back to florida get totally away from Ben be close to her children's DAD for children's sake

[@laurenchiappa4264]

Shreya, you might want to learn left from right. She is hiding her RIGHT hand🙄 She is holding her phone with her LEFT hand and there is no ring

[@DiamondBodyHealing]

no. Shreya is not dumb. the photo is from the mirror so you need to flip the l/r.

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

@@laurenchiappa4264 who cares about ring actions of Ben speaks volumes get the children closer to their DAD and away from Ben think about children they can make new friends like when she pulled them away from A rod childten. Move back to florida. She is not going to handle Ben moving on

[@우사민-r3c]

They rushed into the relationship, the marriage, the blended families like there was no tomorrow---recipe for disaster.

[@mstt3530]

She was too much! She’s not in her 30’s anymore. It’s giving self-centred. She should’ve stayed with the other guy.

[@MsBBBBBB]

Arod actually cheated on her. The only relationship that she has that lasted long was with Marc Anthony.

[@beckersbright]

I liked ARod too.

[@mstt3530]

@@MsBBBBBB I thought Marc cheated on her with Jada, Will Smith’s “wife”

[@beckersbright]

Oh geez. I've followed JLo for years. She always throws a big birthday celebration. Some people like to celebrate big.

[@Paradys8]

I hope they reconcile…💞Blessings!🤞🏻🌈🍀

[@jonespatterson1025]

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash

[@emmawalters5647]

amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

[@jonespatterson1025]

well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

[@emmawalters5647]

Please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

[@jonespatterson1025]

her name is Quelani Eileen Freja, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

[@jonespatterson1025]

You can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

[@korger1481]

🙄 55 year old woman dressing up like Cinderella.

[@daisicooper2]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@67italiana]

😂😂😂

[@siaahale13]

what’s wrong with a 55 year old woman dressing up as cinderella?

[@67italiana]

@@siaahale13 🤨😂

[@KatharinaK117]

😂...let her...

[@ABSG7]

She should have laid low. She put too much attention on her relationship. It’s too much pressure

[@meghanmisaliar]

Exactly. She literally made a whole movie about their alleged great love.

[@beckersbright]

This I agree. She took a big misstep with overexposure.

[@dancemaniac3868]

After multiple failed marriages it's time to look in the mirror for the source of the failure.

[@gordoncarino5876]

I know way too many women that don't stay in bad marriages, and even more women that stay in horrible marriages pretending it's a good marriage. Good for them that don't!!!!

[@stephanieyvonne9436]

Imo, they rushed into the marriage too quickly. They should have waited a long time to get married since their relationship didn’t work out the first time. This will be her 4th divorce and while I’m not a big JLO fan, I can’t help feeling a little bad for her. She is only human.

[@meghanmisaliar]

Agree. They shouldve dated for YEARS this time.

[@bolanleomoniyi5126]

Like Justin Biber said in his song if you love how you look that much then you should go and love yourself !

[@rachaelbruesch6306]

Reconciliation? I don't think so, He didn't even show up for Major Milestone Birthday. Jennifer craves the world's attention & the spotlight, that's completely different from Ben, who always seems to loathe & avoid.

[@user-it7uz6bo3u]

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash

[@susan.smith87765]

amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

[@user-it7uz6bo3u]

well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

[@susan.smith87765]

Please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

[@user-it7uz6bo3u]

her name is Quelani Eileen Freja, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

[@user-it7uz6bo3u]

You can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

[@margaretbell6697]

Stop getting married.

[@Star-hk6gc]

Isn’t Ben off doing a movie? I really don’t believe they have split. I do think she is very selfish woman. Look at her having to have the attention of this birthday party. She shows a lot of Narcissistic behaviors.

[@B-ch6uk]

He wrapped that movie up weeks ago

[@KatharinaK117]

Amen... 🤡

[@bolanleomoniyi5126]

Thanks for hitting the nail on the head!

[@user-oz7nw9sq7y]

JLo seems so needy and super clingy! Also in denial about her age, no matter how great she looks… she is still an older woman and seems emotionally stunted at around 16 years old.

[@shhhperry9852]

I’m so sad for JLo. I was rooting for their second time around love story ☹️

[@Dhammilicious]

Me too

[@Catwoman748]

You root for toxic? 😊🩵

[@shhhperry9852]

@@Catwoman748 toxic where?

[@eunicejose9326]

Me too.

[@meghanmisaliar]

​@@shhhperry9852the whole relationship was toxic . Codependency issues.

[@ellenherman9543]

Stop following her heart...its definitely not working for you.

[@leilanichavez2823]

Girl. Stop... you are in the same pool as the rest of us.... time to take that breath and be glad you still have one!

[@Djdjdhdhdhhf]

A bust down senior citizen acting 25😂

[@JoanaAppiah-j8q]

I hope they find a way in the Lord to hold their marriage together. God bless.

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

@@JoanaAppiah-j8q i prayed constantly for my marriage for Jesus to intervene my ex was like Ben looks like him also drinking rages smoking well we divorced then 2 years ago Jesus found him he stopped drinking smoking and im happy for him but asking why GOD why? I will always love him until the day I die. We live in same neighborhood but never see each other. I gave him the divorce he demanded in his rages. We knew each other since 1987 he's 55 . together apart together apart got married 2011 divorced 2019 8 years married ... I changed more patient. he changed stopped drinking rages smoking pot etc .... I miss him so near yet so far away

[@CynthiaScott-x5c]

No .. Jlo believes in Santeria

[@CynthiaScott-x5c]

Ben & Jlo do Not follow the Lord

[@mrmotown313]

Not again!

[@nicoler3499]

They should just admit it's over. It's all so weird. It's not that big of a deal .🤷🏼‍♀️

[@TiffanyMorris-ec5gm]

Jennifer Lopez looks beautiful but she and Ben needs to divorce each other

[@charlotteshaffer369]

I’m tired of all her marriages…stay single!

[@Djdjdhdhdhhf]

A granny for the streets 😂

[@cebryan333]

People grow and change in the span of 20 years it’s hard to pick up a relationship after all that time!

[@Nolanoyayo]

What is happening with them?

[@oanna1221]

I got the no more wire hangers vibe when she blew out candles.

[@donsummers5678]

Jen Is such a beautiful and empowered woman, she's living her truth.

[@Amy-466]

Then why can't she go 15 minutes without a man?

[@Tamara-dv7vo]

I noticed everybody keeps criticizing JLo but what about Ben? Why in the world did he marry her? It's not like he didn't know how she is!! Being an over the top person is who she has always been.

[@Bunny11344]

She should divorce already and move onto the next bf/finance/husband 😂

[@MsBBBBBB]

Chris Brown probably waiting for her too. CB said in an interview he had a crush on Jlo & doesnt care if shes even on her 70's.

[@br6021]

She has “commitment phobia”, and has had it a long time. She can’t COMMIT!

[@meghanmisaliar]

Not true. She chooses men who CAN'T commit

[@Marcia-ce6jz]

Wake up and smell the coffee jlo 😂😂😭

[@LemansSunset350]

she’s clearly overcompensating 😂

[@thatchick1433]

Some people aren’t for marriage and she’s one of them

[@carydaniels4352]

Jlo is better off without Ben, Ben needs to back to his life with his EX and kids he is miserable anyway!

[@aminah761]

Exactly

[@MsBBBBBB]

Jen G dont even want him back, he cheated on her with their nanny. She just wants the best for him & worried he will go back to drinking. After all he is the father of her children.

[@e.d.h.5605]

Ben needs a new hairpiece!!!

[@meghanmisaliar]

😲 that's a hair piece???

[@dianab330]

All about me,give it up

[@musestudio7075]

A bunch of old news bits. You can do better, ET. Independent content creators have been way ahead of you on this topic, and with much better presentation.

[@Buddy-tq4ly]

She needs help. They both do. But jLo looked absolutely deranged blowing out the candles on that four tier wedding cake after a week long birthday celebration. Everything is so mind bogglingly over the top. Bi-polar, maybe. Someone intervene before she cracks.

[@MareMarMarie]

She married a very talented but terrible partner. He seems like he constantly needs one or both Jens (they were BOTH seen at his house a couple of weeks ago) holding his hand and coddling him. And I like Ben and JLO both. The hate that comes from people when they see a woman celebrate and take care of herself is crazy. People even criticizing her for throwing herself a birthday party. Like what?! Why wouldn’t you throw yourself a birthday party? People do it all the time. Life is hard and is just getting harder every year, people don’t respect each other, are quick to put others down, we can’t trust anything on the internet anymore, every country is bankrupt because every government is corrupt so we are all going to end up living like Mad Max soon, relationships hardly last and it’s 5K for a bag of chips. We should all celebrate surviving another year and throw the damn party!!

[@beckersbright]

I miss JLo + ARod. ARod - and I remember the cheating rumors - seemed way more supportive. He would take videos with his phone. ARod loves the spotlight much like Jennifer does and that's a good thing. I'm sad they didn't work out. Given she gave Ben a second chance, feels she was too quick to tell ARod to bug off.

[@MareMarMarie]

@@beckersbright 100% I honestly wouldn’t be mad if she gave him another shot. He didn’t seem intimidated by her. Like the videos of them working out together, him at the Super Bowl show with her (knowing Ben was gonna be in her Super Bowl documentary) he just seemed proud of her and knew how to make her shine. Like I can see JLO being like “Ben can you please just not act out in front of the paps? Don’t slam the car door, don’t look so miserable…etc) He knows how the game works and how bad pictures create more drama .Hell he couldn’t even release a statement coming to her defense or saying 1 nice thing about her when people are calling her narcissistic for putting out her movies and album that she made declaring her love for him! It’s not like she was trying to make another holocaust or rebuild Epstein island.she literally just wanted to try something new on her own dime. He just sucks!

[@beckersbright]

@@MareMarMarie I can't see them getting back together. She made ARod look so badly after they broke up and she quickly got back with Ben. Had she given it at least 6 months AND not declared that "Ben was the love of her life" then I'd say they could talk again. If she had to choose between giving ARod (after Madison LeCroy) or Ben a second chance (after leaving at the altar 20+ years ago), she chose the wrong one. I think ARod would have been much more supportive of her and the public actually liked them together. The public didn't like Ben + JLo and then there is the whole group of people who are like Team Garner vs Team Lopez. They act like JLo broke up that marriage or something. It's sad. Love JLo but she really messed up with this one. I don't see her getting her career back after this dip.

[@MareMarMarie]

@@beckersbright yeah I don’t see her and AROD happening again either. I wouldn’t mind but I haven’t heard any rumblings of them even being in contact yet he’s only spoken highly of her. (I can’t see her with anyone after this for a while. This has to have been so hard on her. ) Her and Ben were in contact on some level because he was featured in her Super Bowl documentary so I wasn’t shocked they got back together. She never spoke out (to my knowledge) about AROD cheating herself. The housewife that he was trying to meet up with did on national tv and then JLO & AROD did basically what her and Ben are doing now and took forever to confirm their split. I do wonder what her and Jen G were doing at Ben’s house together. I like Jen G but I don’t think she’s the angel everyone thinks she is. She could be very nice but she seems territorial over Ben. She’s always around and for someone who doesn’t have any career in Hollywood aside from a Capital One commercial, the paps always know when the 2 of them are together. Like why were the paps at her church when Ben just happened to be there bringing cookies? HE called them? Or did she? I have witnessed co parenting and was a step mom at one time. My ex’s daughters mom had full custody and after his daughter was like 12 my ex and his ex only talked if it was stuff like healthcare or if they were having behavioral issues with her and she’s grounded so don’t let her have her phone. Otherwise his daughter had her own phone and he would call they’d decided what she wanted to do etc. He may touch base to confirm with his ex if it was something out of the ordinary but there was no need for them to be small talking and neither of them cared to. She was with someone else and we were married. It wasn’t bad blood or anything, it just happened naturally. I feel like Jen G gets in the way of his relationships, he’s dependent on her and she enables him. But he doesn’t want the responsibly of being in a full blown relationship (I think with anyone). He wants a caretaker.

[@MrAllysonn]

Ben affleck and garner has an agreement to not put their children on social media.

[@famf6234]

They’re totally different world after 20-years! Should have left the past behind! Keep on going JLO! You are to your fans a total entertainer! ❤❤❤

[@MsBBBBBB]

Its totally over you dont missed your wife birthday celebration and wedding anniversary. I feel bad for her, Ben pursued her from the start and tried to win her back. But she shared those private love letters that Ben wrote her.

[@TheBluebus17]

she is just a ball buster

[@antoniodg2673]

They'll be back together in less than 3yrs.

[@sheilaarnold3238]

Jennifer can surely put on a big show front: Nothing about a divorce is happy...period

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

Lopez must change this ATTENTION GETTING publicity is what drove Ben AWAY so change course lopez your not divorced yet so hope still alive

[@frithgrafton1164]

A showmance milked down to the last drop.

[@karenshaffer1265]

Where is her kids ?? U never see them.

[@beckersbright]

One was in the photos.

[@Framos16]

Always see them stop lying

[@EastSeasons]

Go to sleep j low. Ben has awaken finally

[@AlessiaBlue]

Poor Ben, now he’s stuck with this stage 5 clinger trying to latch on to his kids when he just wants her persona non grata- only 2 years and he’s stuck with her for how long while she clings to his kids now!!!! Nightmare. I hope Jen wished for some logic when she blew out those candles

[@meghanmisaliar]

And he's afraid she's going to try and ruin his reputation.

[@mariaa.932]

We so saw that coming. It was obvious they were going to divorce. I just never thought it would be so soon.

[@amandalittle8583]

Who is going to want all that drama I’d run for the hills 🙄

[@kristinamennella8402]

It was all on her not Ben Her movie showed her true colors.

[@ojoslindos1002]

She lives in a parallel world, poor thing.

[@biancalande5450]

If for better or worse she follows her heart, maybe that’s a sign she should start using her head and follow that instead. For 55 she sure acts like she’s 18🙄

[@paulinathesalsadancer2659]

Lo pretending to be a princess for her birthday… a princess with no princess

[@meghanmisaliar]

No one over 16 should have a theme bday party.

[@petalblossom96]

She's not hiding her left hand tho 🤔

[@bolanleomoniyi5126]

Mandela was kept in a cell , emotionally isolated for 23hrs every day for 27yrs he didn't die he only became emotionally stable and stronger you could have dpent your birthday with Ben , your kids and uour step children....money is not everything dear lady !

[@bolanleomoniyi5126]

Ben Was married to Jennifer Garner for over 10yrs and they have 3 beautiful children.....if this is not demonstrating emotional stability and lovability I don't know what is !❤

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

When you love someone and theirs was/ is just lust not love well its sad. I think unfortunately as ben said he regretted divorce from garner. Those two still love each other and have 3 children together. How can lopez compete with that!😢😮😢

[@bolanleomoniyi5126]

She is 55yrs old , older than Ben ,J Garner has been married about 5 times , such a narcissist....get over yourself for once ....you wouldn't die if you are not the centre of attention all the time you are very exhausting for everyone calm down and try and make it work with Ben .....you are about to crap out .....put your kids , husband and step children first for once you are way too Selfish and difficult to keep up with for even a saint do a lot of inner work o yourself ❤

[@bolanleomoniyi5126]

Jlo is the common denominator in all the her failed relationships , people should stop blaming Ben ......you are not better than every other human being. !

[@beckersbright]

Ben gets blamed because he went back poking for her. I think she loved him and he broke up with her the first time. Then boom goes back and says he's never going to leave. Then he is leaving. If he didn't want the album, etc, he should have said, "No, I won't let you do this. It's grounds for divorce." And if she did it anyway, he should have left her. Instead he waited until after she released it. Whether you like her or not, she's not changed. He should know better. Plus, Jen Garner is the opposite of JLo and still he's not happy.

[@CordeliaNaumann]

That was her right hand in her hair.

[@InnocentBystander-s7f]

I never knew or expected, that JLo was THAT far gone, with Hollywood fame. Hollywood is her crack!!!

[@StoicStud]

Entertainment tonight sucks now

[@ms.c3]

Can’t wait to see who’s going to be AFFLICK’S new victim. 🤭

[@BWT599]

She needs to be cancelled.

[@Titunka]

Why everybody hates on JLO and thinks it is her fault? We do not know. Ben is a man with issues, he is divorced man and he was dating after his divorce and it it did not work...so ...

[@bg-si2cw]

Her left hand is not hidden! It's visible and ringless 😅

[@RitaWeaver-sc8gd]

She’s looking into a mirror…

[@FianaHeidari]

This story about their issues is not juicy enough for me to believe they’re divorcing. They’re selling their house big woof!! They were caught arguing! Which married couple doesn’t? Boring press

[@dorala6866]

jennifer lopez is what she is, but ben affleck why got involved with her if he wanted a different life for him, he is a big man, not a young boy making such mistakes......

[@spacecoastaesthetics6990]

Ben is odd. Don't know why J Lo is attracted to him.

[@lostwoods5687]

She’s hiding her left hand? Lol You sure about that? Look again.

[@melissafields2083]

Who cares!

[@manamonajemi171]

The only obstacle is herself. It’s her world rotating around her. Hope Ben leaves this woman …

[@hyfmf]

She needs therapy

[@terrieakins989]

Why does she sing on her bday I would want to hear someone else not myself

[@jadehunts1467]

I feel the same way. She also sang at her wedding. It's like it's always a show.

[@tagabulodchastityobedience7292]

Happy Birthday Jen ♥️🎂♥️

[@cocodavis6775]

I hope those selfies get YOU OUT OF TROUBLE