17 Weird Things Swedish People Do

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i talk about:
the law of being humble ?!
it's oj, not oi !
the all-mightly swedish liquor store !
how to keep badgers away ?
why the women of the north are leaving ?!
we love uniform clothing !
why are swedes scared of their neighbours ?
the brutally honest answer to a simple 'how are you' ?
why stranger danger is not a thing !
hej hej, tack tack, puss puss !
we call each other by our actual names - no mr, miss or dr here !
we take our shoes off, always !
coffee is just coffee, no macchiatos, esprosso, cortado - coffee !
the kebabizza, enough said !
feminist fashion for everyone !
card is king !
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[@den2335]

I think I’ve found my people. As soon as you said I could avoid people and not come off as rude, you had me packing my bags.

[@HanGim]

Denisse Gonzalez Welcome to Sweden! :D

[@den2335]

Moonshimmer 😋

[@emmaphilo4049]

ME TOO this is a country for me

[@boodoo-doma]

Consider Russia as an option too

[@annaignacz-hauck7612]

YES my people too!!

[@OddWomanOut_Pi81]

Country of INTROVERTS??? *checks cost of one-way plane ticket to Sweden*

[@92hikhik]

I’m a biiiig introvert ! But I got a question for Swede man !!! I ve been introduced to a Swedish guy, 35 years, (The guy’s dad is my dad’s friend) so this man gave to his son my number and told him that I was really interesting girl and that it would be nice if we can talk to each other ... etc. After 2 weeks ... the boy called me and talked to me for like 15 minutes, we mainly talked respectively about our jobs. I live in another country (far away) and I have no idea about Swede guys character ! The day after he didn’t call me back ! What should I do ? Call him ? Text him ? In my culture a girl isn’t supposed to call or text a guy until he calls for few days and shows interest ! The father calls me waaay more than the son !

[@danielgyllenbreider]

It is a bit of a paradox, that claimed introvert stuff, because we swedes are very fond of participating in various sorts of groups or hobby or social clubs (sports, games, cooking, dancing etc etc), where we love to socialize with people that share our specific interests. Many popular movements in Swedish history has always been very successful because of the swedes need to belong, such as the temperance movement or the high percentage of the people unionising. So i would say that Swedes in general are more about being outgoing on our own terms and when we feel like it. And most often we do:)

[@sarahtonen4873]

you can also move to Toronto, nobody likes looking or talk to each other. city of introverts

[@lishayost44]

EXACTLY!

[@chicago77mm]

Danishuia Adams: Me too. Let's go girl!

[@lynnrichtman6025]

I am American of Swedish grandparents. In 1997,when I went to Varmland, to the grocery store, I saw children's buggies lined up at the store. They all had babies in them. The mothers were shopping. They left their babies in the shade. How wonderful is the trust and the goodness in your country. Give your beautiful and kind people some credit.

[@JennyWinters]

You would never do that here in the USA, unless you actually wanted to get rid of your child. I can't even imagine it.

[@MrBlaxjax]

In many countries the parents would likely be arrested! It's probably not a specially dangerous thing to leave a baby unattended. I mean seriously what is the actual incidence of baby theft?! Does anyone know?

[@taxusbaccata9200]

No hierarchy? I'd love the place, because here, I'm always at the bottom of the pile. Creates alot of internal anger.

[@desmondmurphy449]

People did that here in the 50's.

[@CaptainMorganxxx]

We used to do that in England, but not since the importation of Migrants.

[@williamrgutrich7694]

I married a Swede years ago. The weird thing I found is you must refuse any offer by your host three times, before accepting when they finally ask, "Are your certain?" weird.

[@DeborahHMarks]

That sounds like China.

[@emilyeah]

Yeah, so annoying.

[@Gogopakgogo]

No it's normal in Pakistan too. We have to refuse , if we are not very close. But yes still in relatives we have to refuse, well if you really don't want to eat that because of your diet. You have to explain that you are sick so you can't eat it

[@GratDuForloradeArgumentet]

I don't recognize that at all, what do you mean 😆 If someone says here have a cookie I go, sure thank you haha

[@kiirabu197]

reminds me of Japan

[@k8tr14]

The first time I met my Swedish friend, I asked her if she lived in the same rez building on campus and she said "yes", turned around and walked away. I think that pretty much sums up Swedish small talk :D

[@TheNicoliyah]

Katrin 😂😂😂😂

[@tashaneuhaus]

Haha hilarious it’s totally like that here in Sweden

[@aznsolja84]

GREAAAAT! Cause I reaaally love small talk lol (NOT)

[@MrGravano]

Maybe she just didn't want to talk ,,

[@lunatictuna4599]

I greet people if they greet me, but i don't stop walking

[@korwl540]

Craziest thing America believes? That everyone needs to be an extrovert. It's the most tiring social imperative I can imagine. Sweden sounds great.

[@chalphon4907]

The craziest thing Americans believes in must be God...

[@cassr6965]

@@chalphon4907 we get it. You're atheist. Not what the commenter even mentioned. You people are just as boring as the Bible bashers.

[@SouthernGothBelle]

Yes! It’s like we grow up believing extroversion is the default and if you need alone time then you’re rude. 😭

[@miou-miou-]

@@cassr6965 well he or she does make a good point though.. since the majority of swedes do not care about religion.. you will barely find any christians in the cities.. a lot of muslims due to our screwed up immigration politics (same as with germany). when i say screwed up i am talking about the econimical factors. say your country increased its population by 10% with mostly refugees within a decade and you will notice the toll it takes on the country's financial system.. our healthcare, welfare, school, police and well.. name any state funded branch and you can see how they get less and less funding. so yeah, talking about religion isnt really high on the priority list and most sane individuals get annoyed when people talk about their religion all the time (as we are annoyed by most stuff).. so i would say that should factor in when it comes to moving to sweden. if you find this comment negative.. well, she did mention in this very video that we tend to speak mostly about the negative stuff.. i cannot remember when i last had a "positive" conversation with a friend because we are all annoyed by the same shit.

[@honeybunch5765]

Is that why so many Americans I have met are loud? No disrespect, I was just wondering why it sounds like they are shouting all the time, is it because everyone is loud in the USA?

[@NeonMoon87]

"Swedes don't like to brag and they dress like everyone else." "Everyone walks in the woods in Sweden." "Swedes are extremely reserved people who try to avoid small talk." "Swedes will tell you their whole life story and complain if you ask them how they're doing." "Swedes are very trusting people." People from Northern Michigan: Is this paradise?

[@heatherjacobson4416]

What part of northern michigan are u from?? I live there too!

[@BankruptMonkey]

Northern Michigan was largely settled by Swedish immigrants, so the similarity is no mistake!

[@Alan-mz3sc]

hhh keep in mind the depression and long dark winter , you one million people on anti depressive medicine , rasicm is in every level in society, education, job and even social relationsships

[@digitallfax]

Yes my brothers join us and I can get y’all a mix kebabpizza and a kebab plate y’all want some tacos too we Swedes make hella good food in general

[@svensvensson1085]

@@Alan-mz3sc alan ive seen the same comment multiple times now. What are you doing??

[@MyFiddlePlayer]

Related to her point #8: My Swedish relatives tell this joke...Some Danes, some Germans, some Norwegians, and some Swedes get shipwrecked together on an island. After a week, the Norwegians have built a shelter, the Germans are designing a boat, the Danes have brewed some beer (and hosted a party) and the Swedes are still standing around waiting to be introduced.

[@wellhelltherefellwhuman4637]

1. Be humble 2. Oj! 3. No alcohol 4. Crispy bread in boots 5. Guys generally stay North 6. Dress modestly and similarly 7. Speak cutely 8. Avoid socialising at all cost 9. Do not engage in small talk 10. Trust everyone 11. Double up words 12. You're equal to everyone else 13. Shoes off when indoors 14. Drink coffee 15. Everything is unisex 16. Kebabizza 17. Don't bring cash, use a card Seems like the perfect place for me! I'm seriously considering moving to Sweden and I feel like it's just such a nice place with a great society

[@wellhelltherefellwhuman4637]

@Erika K just another reason to move!!

[@cronehemma]

Some of these r a little excessive

[@wellhelltherefellwhuman4637]

@@cronehemma to you maybe, it just fits my personality perfectly

[@smhhelp7308]

If you do you Will NOT regret it! Well maybe on the winter But otherwise no!

[@wellhelltherefellwhuman4637]

@@smhhelp7308 that's one of the reasons I want to move! Ideally I'd move to Antarctica but it's not realistic😂

[@annabaerg3776]

Who actually wears shoes indoors? Other than slippers, she’s right, it’s barbaric.

[@palacsintacsatornaja6103]

Well i do if im not home

[@Unclejamsarmy]

Me but I’m also barbaric so 🤷‍♂️

[@basicbaroque]

Pretty much everyone from the USA.

[@Nipponing]

@@basicbaroque That's messed up.

[@magicmark1837]

Stephanie Putnam ...that's absolutely not true. Many do, but many dont. It is more common now than in the past and it also varies from region to region.

[@ericpalmer2714]

Cleanest country ever didn’t see one piece of trash on the road in a two week stay. They take a lot of pride in there land and it shows. They should be very proud it’s beuti!!!!

[@kellygreen2038]

But they can't be "proud"!! It isn't allowed!! LOL

[@janette7330]

In secret we are 😉

[@insertnamehere1792]

Kelly Green we are. We dont show it tho. Except for these 12 year olds on the internet

[@jagkommerintepaettnamnfort3087]

That isn’t really true at least not in the big cities. I would say that award go to japan

[@svensvensson1085]

@@jagkommerintepaettnamnfort3087 it's true we keep it clean becoase we spend billions just on cleaning. Ever noticed how there always seem to be a sertain amount of trash at all times?

[@matsfrommusic]

I think the reason for checking the hallway before stepping out of your apartment thing, is also about not putting pressure on your neighbour and let them off going through the polite small talk routine. It's about consideration to some degree.

[@Defunkt59]

Hmm...det kan nog stämma. Good thinking 👍🤓

[@jelenalahtina]

I am from Latvia and I was working for a Swedish company for nearly 5 years. Went to the work trips to Kista, Stockholm couple times a year. People in Sweden are very nice and veery good looking! I also liked this no hierarchy thing, it was like that in our local office too, everyone is equal and noone is bragging, super healthy environment. I also liked fikas alot :)

[@londonfroglatte]

Oh wow! It's so unusual for me to see another Latvian. Especially now that I live in the U.S. where no one has even heard of it :(

[@dancingpigmonkey]

I'm Swedish, working as a cleaner, and our clients are made up of companies - shops, offices, factories.. (no private homes). I spend almost all of my time among my clients (regulars) it's abt 4-5 companies per day, and they all treat me like one of their own. Whether it's a boss or employee. If it's someone's birthday, they be like "Hanna, want a piece of cake?". Some are like "heeey we didn't see you last week, where were you? We missed you!". I know cleaning isn't a dream job for many, but here - at least in small towns like mine - people really notice you as a person. I feel very lucky! :)

[@saad83]

That is exactly what the Swedes love to hear and not any bad thing or lets put this way a reality check about them. They are afraid of conflicts and not a good problem/conflict solver :)

[@patrikpersson9364]

Chaudhry Saad Sandhu - You’re absolutely correct, swedes are generally afraid of conflicts. On the other hand, we actually are very good at solving conflicts in general (perhaps not when comming in personal level). I do believe Sweden, compared to other countries, has been the most frequent global problem solver, in conflicts between countries all over the world. At least some one out there must think we’re good at it☺️ And reg hierarchy. Why shouldn’t we (always) treat everyone equaly? Employees should be concerned and focused on their mission, not on reducing other peoples effort, no matter if it’s cleaning or accounting or what ever. Same thing in a business team etc, everyone may use their voice and state their opinion, regardless of position. As long as everyone knows who’s in charge and makes the final decisions in the end.

[@saad83]

Patrik Persson thanks for the Response... could you please let me know where Sweden has contributed to solve world problems since they never wanted to go into any sort of conflicts ever in their history... also their weapons are also used in Afghan war escalating the war and most probably killed innocent people along with bad guys... the source is some professor teaching business in Swedish university (cannot name to shame him) saying proudly that „our weapons were used in the war“... what a professor isn‘t it :)

[@juliadahlstrom4108]

This is so true, i am from sweden, and the first thing i do when i get on the bus on my way to school i start complaining about how my head hurts and that i am tired and hate my life etc. to my friend who will respond with her problems. when we've finished talking about it we will sit quiet right next to eachother- not saying a single word to eachother. And if you get a compliment from someone you will ALWAYS answer with something similar to "No, thats not true, but look at yourself thoe" and that person will probably answer something like "are you mad? i am so ugly" and then you will turn quiet... i love my country

[@OneTrueWord1988]

Julia Dahlstrom: Such a sweet comment. I loved it! ♥💐♥

[@champagne-beige-girl-era]

I'm from Poland. I've lived in Stockholm for two months. Everything what you said is soooo true, especially the 'tack tack' and 'hej hej' thing! I found it strange but also so cute!

[@DonaldFranciszekTusk]

Pozdrawiam :)

[@loverschoice885]

yeah its used when u really dont want any contact, but still needs to show courtesy. as a swede, i stopped saying those things since its stupid.

[@kristinalofgren944]

@@romanopaso do you mean hur mår du i am swedish i live in Stockholm

[@ashishgondaliya7740]

Hi

[@Earthbound369]

"Puss puss" though?

[@thepotato9459]

I am a descendent of Swedish immigrants, about 3 generations out and I am amazed at how many things I grew up with culturally that you did in Sweden.

[@krislangley6226]

I noticed the same things about myself and my (now deceased) father! It makes sense that some behaviors continue through the generations since that's the environment in which you're raised - especially there's a parental marriage with a culturally/behaviorally similar partner.

[@seratonin7004]

same, but my family don't know as much about this lineage, unfortunately. I'd love to trace my heritage by visiting the birthplaces and local lands of my forebears.

[@MrMsdrizz]

I think I’d like Sweden. Introverted and complaining is my personality. Add coffee and equality, I’m in heaven!

[@kasandraheric1162]

Tina Driscoll lol I frickin wear earphones on the bus so I don’t have to talk to random people

[@TheNoiseySpectator]

@@kasandraheric1162 Good idea!

[@vuvuzela4570]

Yeah It’s true. Sweden is the very definition of heavenbuuuuut then it comes to speaking swedish

[@vuvuzela4570]

I mean try to say a normal name from sweden Göran

[@kilgoretrout6136]

Equality????

[@lsamoa]

Other weird things we do: - We never say "please". We don't actually have a word for it. Closest thing is "snälla" which means more like "be kind" and sounds superwhiny. We just thank straight away: "kopp kaffe tack" - In Göteborg, people spit on the ground a LOT - Snus. You're talking to a gorgeous handsome person and then some black goo pours down their teeth. Ew. - In Stockholm, people NEVER hold the door for you. Ever. - Up North, people do this thing to say "yes" that's like a short loud inhaling. Usually startles foreigners who think you are suddenly surprised by something - In the cities, one of the first thing people ask you is what neighbourhood you live and how you got that place (housing shortage oblige) - During parties, people will leave in the middle of a conversation without warning - Doors open in the opposite direction as the rest of the world - If you're with a bunch of people and need to use the toilet, you'll announce that you need to pee. Because why wouldn't you. - In the spring and summer, freshly graduated highshoolers wear all-white all the time. - We often eat pea soup and pancakes on Thursdays - We have so many baked-goods-related holidays. Cinnamon buns, semla, waffles, saffran buns... Sooo manyyyy - If you don't have an invitation to a country-side cottage on Midsommar you're supposedly a loser. People will think you have no friends and pity you. - While it's true that we avoid talking to our neighbours at all costs, if one of them disrespects the laundry room schedule, it's WAR. - First time you greet someone you shake hands. From then on, you're on hug-basis. Unless you're two guys, then you shake hands for life. I could go on for hours. Haha. We're a weird bunch.

[@ipadista]

I think laundry rooms in reasonable apartments is a mostly Swedish thing, most countries I have lived in, the norm is that there is a washing machine in every apartment when I mention we always had shared washing rooms, they tend to look at me wondering what kind of slum I grew up in... I kind of miss the washing room wars over a forgotten sock :)

[@MsRamona7]

Jeez and I thought Czechs are weirdos :D

[@fridan3567]

Marki Faux yup

[@cinnamongirl9024]

I think u are very wrong about the part that people don't hold the door open for u in Stockholm. I have never once experienced this, usually it is the opposite

[@lsamoa]

@@cinnamongirl9024 In the 42 years I've been on this planet not a single person has held a door for me in Stockholm. So I think I'm pretty spot on about this one.

[@wethepeople7629]

Swedish people are extremely nice but very strange.

[@wandafloraox290]

Persi A. Thank you!

[@leopoldoastudillo7189]

Like PHOEBEE BUFFAY!

[@anechoicsoul]

Thanks!

[@magicmark1837]

Swedes are my favorite Nordic people, by far. And amongst my top 5 favorite Europeans.

[@TheNoiseySpectator]

So much for Star Trek's going to new planets to meet strange new exotic people.

[@WorldTravelerCooking]

A second point is that while everyone goes to great lengths to avoid having to interact with eachother, when the train system breaks down, people are surprisingly friendly!

[@owl418]

Dosn't like to stand out ✔️ Avoids talking to people ✔️ Does everything to avoid bragging ✔️ Is 100% honest about "how I'm doing" ✔️ *Huh, I guess I'm Swedish now*

[@ElFahado69]

Im swedish and i do none of theses

[@smhhelp7308]

Welcome to Sweden

[@benjaminholm3374]

The first 3 are true but not the last One

[@coronavirusokboomer9537]

Last one aint true

[@creepymoon2606]

Same... I've always felt connected to this country....

[@Riververchi]

One thing in Sweden that actually bothers me that I STILL did not got used to after 9(!!) years of living here: is staring. People stare at you. In my country (Russia), staring at people considered to be a very bad manners and can be taken as an act of aggression. And in my turn: in Russia, we don't just say "Hello" to anyone, nor smile at, unless we KNOW them. Saying hello to a person out of the blue, or smiling at, considered crazy (i.e. someone with mental disability). Something that Swedes do a lot and I love it!

[@HappySwedishPancake]

Maybe you're just that good looking ;) I can't say I've noticed much staring here...I was stared at a lot when living in Japan though...

[@Aplusinskal]

Born swede here, haven't noticed people staring, quite the contrary actually =S People are really afraid of being seen by anyone, eye-contact is REALLY scary! My friends always complain that "no one ever sees them". So staring? Perhaps if you're gorgeous and meet people from other cultures, but Swedes would do anything to avoid looking at another person.. =S

[@caccioman]

Vänta när du kommer till Tyskland 😂we stare even more (and smile noticeably less). Its even called The German Stare by foreigners. I think it might have a root in subtle (or not so subtle) social control

[@innazolotova1444]

I’ve also moved to Sweden from Russia. As for my opinion people are staring more in Moscow than in Stockholm. In Sweden you can dress like shit and nobody will care about you or judge you. Maybe it depends on which part of country we are talking about. I guess in small towns it’s not much going on so people can stare both in Russia and in Sweden, only because it’s freakin boring there.

[@tallulah3922]

If you think that people stare at you here in Sweden please don't travel to Southamerica then. There people used to stare....a lot. Not in every country but in Argentina for instead. It is very annoying more if you are good looking.

[@NinaForever1]

I was born in Sweden and lived here all my life. Never heard about the bread in the rubber boots to scare away badgers.

[@CharlenePihl]

It's like a really old myth and not true. For one thing; the badger can't turn the head, so it would be hard to take a bite of the leg. I'm not sure that anyone does that, or has ever done that with bread in the boots. But yes; my grandmother gave me that as a good tip. ;)

[@nikezor1]

I was told to just try to check for any branches nearby and try to crack it for the same effect.

[@1do2likeU]

@@nikezor1 Yes, me too!

[@dennysigfalk4886]

LOL this is a big myth, imagine being out in the woods all day collecting berries, mushroom or fishing for example WITH bread in your boots??? lol just stupid

[@MiaogisTeas]

There are a few things she mentions that don't make sense. Seems like she spent most of her time in the South

[@floydfloyd3706]

I have worked with a few Swedes in my time and I find that they take things quite literally. If you say “Can you pass me the knife?”, the expectation is that the person would simply pass you the knife. However, the response is more like “Yes of course I can pass you the knife”. So they literally answer the question confirming that they have the capability of passing you the knife.

[@pauljones2510]

I'm only half Swedish but you just describe my family. But we're even worse than that. "Please pass the asparagus." Someone picks up the asparagus and passes it to someone else. You have to say, "Please pass the asparagus to me." If you ask, "Would you pass the asparagus to me," you're likely to get an answer to your question, "Yes, I would."

[@floydfloyd3706]

@@pauljones2510 Paul I am so fascinated by this that sometimes I answer questions in the "Swedish Style" just to see the confused reaction. I have derived a fair bit of amusement out of this, but I do enjoy the logic of it. Logically, the Swedes have got it right!

[@pauljones2510]

@@floydfloyd3706 "May I ask a question?" "In addition to the question you just asked?"

[@iceman812]

Haha But no way we do that unless person is disabled mentaly:-)

[@pargolf3158]

@ Floyd Floyd. To be fair though, they did exactly as you requested. Please pass me the knife would result in your receipt of the knife.

[@amywells8609]

I was a foreign exchange student years ago in Sweden, so I loved this video. A big one you missed was the weird sucking in sound made instead of saying Ja. It cracked me up. Tack tack

[@leplep404]

That's a thing that's most common in the north, it's done in some other places but it's pretty much trademarked there. (It gets worse. Sometimes it doesn't always mean yes, I've seen people almost hold entire conversations.)

[@tedlidman4251]

Det är typ ska du med till biltema

[@leplep404]

@@tedlidman4251 nej fyfan vad sant😂

[@tedlidman4251]

Saga Zetterquist haha

[@basicbaroque]

That's what I said! I moved in December and I always think they can't breathe. 😂 My partner does it a lot.

[@Dibdib35]

You would hate Ireland then, we talk to everyone 🤣🤣

[@rebeccarebekka]

Lovaine Niblock i’m swedish and i instantly fell in love with Ireland❤️. incredibly nice people and the country is mindblowing. So god damn beautiful! I wanna go back, i wanna go back, i wanna go back!!!

[@twitandoka]

Ireland has the best people

Hahaha i love that! I were in Ireland in August! It was very nice! It was a gift to my dad at his 50's birthday!

[@iainatrolli1036]

I love irish people. Haven't met one single dishonest or rude irish person. The thing is that in sweden small talk is so much more awkward

[@fadiaali1595]

I love Irish people.. so friendly and kind .. love from Dubai

[@rjohnson1690]

A rather bad Swedish trait that floated over the Atlantic with us American Swedes, is when someone makes you mad, you never ever talk to them again. I thought it was just my weird family, but mina ex-fru’s family did it too.

[@marlenekallstrom-barritt7326]

R Johnson yup. Holding grudges is an art for my Swedish ancestors in Canada.

[@fotoviano]

It takes a lot to anger a Swede. But when they do get angry, they get seriously angry, although not always with a lot of histrionics. Cold blooded. So it makes sense that it would lead to grudges. Mediterranean folks (and Finns, lol) get tee'd off by any little thing, with a lot of drama, then a minute or two later they've forgotten about it. Hot blooded.

[@rowdysgirlalways]

You have cleared up a good many quirks of my Swedish/American family that have made us seem so different. My grandparents emigrated to the US 109 years ago, yeah, I am old, but not as old as I hope to be! There was always a pot of coffee on the stove and whoever took the last cup made the new pot - even Grandpa. My whole family seemed reticent and I can see them checking the halls so that don't have to ride the elevator with someone else. There are other things too, but I have a better understanding of my Swedish family now. The American side? Not so much.

[@czegopiniondzslucha]

Since I moved to Norway and learned the language I'm using "oi" all the time - when I'm excited, surprised, amused, thankful, embarrassed or just sorry. Or when I don't know what to say. Oi! I also noticed the weird fascination with junk food combos in Norway - I went to a pizza place and in the menu there was "pizza italiano". Sounds yummy doesn't it? Tomatoes, olives, maybe fresh basil? Nope. Pizza "italiano" means kabab pizza with curry mayo sauce. Deal with it.

[@chandhand6539]

As an introvert I think Sweden is my home

[@ukrajina2022]

😂😂😂you know why people are wearing the same clothes? Because they are conformist( Kolektivist!!!) so if wont joint to the group you are going be alone🤘🏽

[@stephaniebant]

Don’t come to Australia if you hate small talk! We are the best at it! No awkward silence down here. Go to the pub anytime of the day and you are most likely going to make a friend for life.

[@5000Kone]

I do not think that the silence is awkward for the Nordics, just for the people that come here ;) Also, quite many regional differences at least in Finland. The old "tribes" are still strong. Also, Nordics are also "friend for life" type of people. Finns especially can be most easily become your friend in a pub ;) And the more we drink the more we talk XD

[@tinkpix425]

Sounds like America..

[@marymary4093]

Pubs equal small talk worldwide, don't you think? Sometimes we avoid people we know on the street or at the elevator just like Jenny described, if shy or not feeling in a social mood. But yes, when switched on, Australians are excellent at friendly small talk! We like people to feel comfortable around us. And for that reason, like Swedes, we also are modest and avoid bragging. But we don't have to put ourselves down because we can trust somebody else to do it for us if our heads get too big!!

[@johannaj1522]

Stephanie Bant That actually sounds awesome! /a swede

[@marymary4093]

Nothing to worry about, Eevee. You just smile, we'll manage the small talk. You will have a marvellous time!

[@racynemiguel]

The craziest thing about Brazil? Even with all of our difficulties we're still smiling, we make fun of our bad situation, there's a kind of joke here wich is "Even in the shit, we're still smiling"

[@nataliecantu5740]

I've heard amazing things about Brazil.

[@mrsjaynesarah1923]

Sweden sounds perfect for an introvert like me 😍

[@veranicolescu2675]

Ikr :))

[@Aplusinskal]

You'd fit right in =)

[@els1f]

I was thinking the same thing

[@amandae.6948]

Trust me it's not...

[@transsexual_computer_faery]

as an introvert i'm afraid i'll have to disappoint you. probably better than other countries but i still run into INTROVERT TROUBLE every fucking day.

[@parodycreator9955]

*Oj oj oj någon annan svensk?*

[@mirandalundgren554]

Oliwer Wallmark oj det är faktist jag

[@parodycreator9955]

Miranda Lundgren Nice im just used Google Translate, sorry haha bah driver men nice

[@parodycreator9955]

noorSubber Ok👍🏼👍🏼

[@parodycreator9955]

Pebba Nuce

[@parodycreator9955]

Emma dog Tjo

[@АнастасіяНищота-Фостяк]

"Oj!" is exactly what Ukrainians use, and exactly how we use it)) It may mean a disappointment, sorry, happiness, excuse and anything else, depending in the emotion))

[@tokodian8352]

wu

[@agylub]

My mother who was Russian but studied in the Ukraine used Oj a lot. Funny hearing it again. From an Australian perspective Sweden seems to be 180 degrees out of phase

[@Eternally_Moon]

HAHAH I totally get this! I live in sweden and have a ukranian friend who moved here a couple years back, she’s so funny. Always goes ”OJ” with a funny face when she’s surprised/shocked. Even does it when texting with me lol

[@fastfreddy918]

As a driver I’ve been to Sweden a lot of times and I always felt safe and welcome. It’s a great country.

[@erinnelson4781]

I didn’t realize how heavy the Swedish influence is in Minnesota! The only major difference is that Minnesotans will talk to anyone and everyone about the weather.

[@helenasvan746]

Erin Nelson in Sweden the only socialy acceptable topic for small talk with a stranger is talking(complaining) about the weather😄

[@HanGim]

My ancestors moved to Minnesota. We found relatives quite recently and they told us you celebrate midsummer there as well. The same way as in Sweden. :)

[@XtreamBrands]

Erin Nelson i am from Minnesota and currently live there. I have Swedish and Norweigian ancestors...only 2nd and 3rd generation in the US. Its coffee black (except to dunk donuts or cookies), immaculate hygge homes, everyone seems to want to blend in, and same thing about the unisex stuff (women are very strong and self sufficient here) i lived in NYC for 13 years what a difference! They totally don't get the strong women, hip unisex guy thing. Other parts of the US are very different than Minnesota. And its darn cold and dark here in winter but we still ice fish, sled, trek and ski.

[@erinnelson4781]

Haha, love this! So essentially Minnesota is Sweden without all the cool universal healthcare and access to higher education? 😆

[@stefangustafsson7424]

Yes, 19th and early 20th century, an estimated 1.3 million Swedes emigrated to the United States and a lot of them ended up in Minnesota and other rural states where you could farm, work with lumber and the likes.

[@PawsHoovesSunshine]

I think North India (and I’m talking about Punjabi people and people from Delhi mostly) is the absolute OPPOSITE of Sweden-people are friendly to the point of being intrusive. You meet a stranger and have a 2 minute chat and they invite you over for dinner. If they come over to dinner for your house unannounced with several others they get offended when you don’t have a full cooked meal ready (so you always cook extra here). House guests also stay for hours and hours. If you have a pimple on your forehead, you will get told multiple times by random people that you have a pimple on your forehead. Also, a lot of people get offended if you say thank you for something because you’re not considering them enough of a friend skip those formalities. And there’s a lot of stress on ‘respect’. You can’t question elders. You just can’t. We’ll also always stand to greet a teacher, or touch an elder person’s feet out of respect.

[@violetaura9007]

Am Punjabi, can confirm this is way true

[@gerallok]

ok this sounds horrible

[@uhuh30]

I will never touch an old bag’s feet.

[@PawsHoovesSunshine]

Naw you get used to it :) it’s just the result of unfiltered spontaneity I suppose (though there are days when I wanna pull my hair out)

[@toodleloo5257]

I’ve always wanted to visit India

[@RenVCWorship]

I’m a simple person. I see Sweden, I click

[@Alan-mz3sc]

hhh keep in mind the depression and long dark winter , you one million people on anti depressive medicine , rasicm is in every level in society, education, job and even social relationsships

[@mybestie5858]

Alan stop judging countries and their people. It’s rude and disrespectful. Not everyone in 10 million people is exactly like that. I hope you know Swedes like winter. Just be quiet

[@somethingbambi875]

@@The_real_fbi Jag tyckte hans beskrivning stämde väldigt bra, jag! Till viss del såklart 😉

[@historybuff5739]

In America if someone greets you by saying"Hey, how ya doing?" They really don't want to know how you are doing most of the time. It's just a form of greeting.

[@Sina-aka-potatosupreme]

In Germany it is really bad luck to congratulate someone for their birthday, before the actual date. For example, somebody makes a birthday party on a Saturday, because their birthday is on Sunday and they want to party into the birthday, don't you dare to congratulate them before it is midnight.

[@emiliaarya3614]

Sin Pre same thing in Italy!

[@marlenechauvet8816]

Not in France! so weird!!

[@sarahs9126]

Yes it's true , don't do that or you won't have German friends lol .

[@romycullen17]

same here in Argentina!

[@knapikinga]

In Poland we also love to complain!😅 And when i found out that people wear shoes indoors i was like "what? but they are dirty" Hahah Nice video, i always like to learn about other cultures❤

[@JennyMustard]

hihi, we certainly have things in common with polish people :)

[@estelledomeij4378]

Nope. If it is as dirty as Sweden in the winter, it is completely natural to take off your shoes. So, Canada and other snowy parts of the world pracitice the same manners.

[@LittleLaanekas]

I'm Estonian and we here also love to complain about everything and everyone. Also it is usually not nice to brag about yourself and most of us keep to ourselves, meaning as little communication as possible. But once you get to know us, we're very friendly and open and talk you to death even 😄😅😆

[@chrislyons6951]

@@sarahb.2080 Irish wear shoes inside too.

[@TakTylkoJa]

And if you ask poles "how are you" you will get the answer too😆😆

[@VioletDisregard23]

I have one from New Zealand: they’re so casual here that it wouldn’t be considered strange to see people out in public, like the supermarket, without shoes on. And sometimes they’re so casual you’ll even see them wearing what can only be described as pyjamas to the shops. Casual is definitely the order of the day for most kiwis. We also don’t use formal titles very much either. Uni lecturers, tutors and even your family doctor. I haven’t quite managed to break my old habits on that one though so I call my doctor Dr Di 🤷‍♀️

[@tanjaw9569]

I even saw people barefoot at the gas station🤣

[@resourcedragon]

@@tanjaw9569: What makes servos special? You drive barefoot, you stop for petrol, fill up, trot inside to pay for it. Why would you put your shoes on?

[@tanjaw9569]

@@resourcedragon because it‘s a pretty dirty place

[@dan13ljks0n]

Almost like Walmart in the US - people coming to shop in their pyjamas, or smelling like they've never had a bath in their lives, etc. People even bring pets in (even though the pets aren't supposed to be allowed). Oddly, haven't seen anyone barefoot, though I bet that happens too!

[@kikicupcake711]

my kiwi prof would teach us calculus in bare feet

[@Faidros62]

In winter when the streets and sidewalks get covered with ice we spread sand on them to avoid accidents. That sand sticks to the shoes and fall of when you go inside. If you do not take them of when you enter a home, soon that sand will be every where.

[@aishatbay6013]

In Russia, we also take off our shoes indoors & looooove to complain a lot! Besides, we value New Year much more than Christmas, in fact, we even celebrate it twice: on December 31th (which is New year) & January 13th (which is Old New Year).

[@lilyleptir]

aishat bay In Serbia too.

[@floreacakes]

That's true) And we loooove pickles - soup with boiled pickles (solyanka), salad with pickles (Olivie) and pickle juice is a hangover miracle))))

[@eazy8513]

Ты не ищещь их, они тебя находят.

[@TheBrotherbrian]

I loved visiting Sweden, even though my reasoning for going was heart breaking, I still wouldn't mind moving there. My wife wanted a divorce out of the blue, for me anyways. Tried to put it back together by flying there, didn't work out. Her name is also Jenny. But yeah, the history and nature there are top notch, people were friendly even if they did follow some of the habits you mentioned. I stopped by McDonalds and I remember the employee taking my order got super excited because she got to use English to speak with me. I tried speaking the local lingo but her English was much better than my Swedish, which seems to be fairly common there. Thanks for the video, it was entertaining thinking of seeing some of that stuff now that you mentioned it.

[@nepiahemopo1702]

Me too Mark. I use to think it was just me. But when explained, in retrospect it makes more sense. My memories of Sweden serve me well, after all these years.

[@SaganJumJum]

@@nepiahemopo1702 This might be a place for a condo/change in the future :)

[@nepiahemopo1702]

@@SaganJumJum Come to New Zealand.

[@KimAhrina11]

Local lingo?

[@HollywoodCreeper]

You are American in Sweden and you went to McDonalds.... You are so lame. Good thing no one put a cheap cheesburger under a cardboard box propped open with a stick tied to a string or you may have never gotten out of there.

[@sofialodigiani5328]

No distinction between different tipes of coffee? In Italy we are obsessed with it, we could write a book about varieties of coffee: ristretto, lungo, macchiato (caldo or freddo), decaffeinato, nero, corretto, con schiuma, senza schiuma, americano, al ginseng... But we have a thing in common with Swedish people, we L O V E complaining. Especially about politics or the economy in our country. The best answer you can get to a "how are you" is " not that bad after all" 😂

[@alexandrapanico374]

I wonder if there's a country that doesn't love to complain. I know us Brits and Poles do as well!

[@marymary4093]

Hey Sofia, apparently Australians inherited a love & respect for good coffee from our Italian immigrants. So thank you!!! I feel like we complain only if there is nothing else to talk about (to be polite). But of course, there are always individuals of every race who just love love love to whinge, eek!

[@erikaring2712]

Yes, we have a LOT of types of coffee in Sweden now, but you can still order just a balck coffee as the regular one. But personally I think coffee tastes bad!

[@emilmuhrman]

There is different types of coffee. But the best (according to me and most Swedes) and most common is still a cup strong filter coffee.

[@ravenchild7517]

Well it is different types of coffee, it’s different in different places in Sweden, in Stockholm they have a lot types of coffee, but in most smaller places they often just drink black coffee! :)

[@briandurning9211]

Thanks for the laughs. My mother is Swedish and I went to University in Sweden. We spent a fair amount of time between the US and Sweden growing up, so I can relate to the oddities of both countries.

[@batbebebe]

Hej!! My mom is Swedish, too.

[@dimitrisk.875]

"we trust society, we love having strangers in it, but we don't like talking to them, especially if they don't take off their shoes while at home, which we actually don't care cause we will never invite them to ours anyway"!! Hahaha, thank you for the insights!

[@loverschoice885]

THis is also false, we did trust soceity at one point, it the politics are now corrupted. And soceity is crumbling. Unless you live in a bubble. Its not good. Not good at all. ppl get shot every week.

[@spudde5576]

klockrent , sen undrar. regeringen varför vi har problem =))

[@maystreet8962]

In Canada, at least where I live, no one wears shoes indoors either. But there is this unspoken rule of politeness when other people come over: Canadians will sometimes insist that the visitor doesn’t need to take their shoes off. But I think it’s good manners to still do so anyways 😅

[@HelenaMoller]

May Streetxx same in Denmark 🇩🇰

[@GWSTB123]

I hate when I have to take off my shoes indoor and by the way I live in Canada ...I spend hours to plan which shoes I should wear with what . I am Syrian , and they used to take off there shoes once they arrive to someones house especially in winter but nowadays they stopped doing that ...I think the way we clean our houses is different . We clean the floor by spilling water and soap all over the place and then sweeping them . In Canada , Europe or Us is very hard to do that . So , I totally understand why in other countries they do not go around the house with their shoes on.

[@zaliaglazura]

It's because of weather. No one wants to bring mud or salted sand with snow during winter on the wooden floor and carpet. :)

[@katarzynanowak2392]

Same in Poland :)

[@sarahmckenzie3929]

Canadians: sorry, sorry, sorry , sorry. Eh? LOL But yes, as a fellow Canadian, the shoes MUST come off. I noticed a lot of people - myself included - will say “oh no, keep them on.”, but you still always take them off. Other than our stellar politeness and no shoes in the house, I can’t think of anything else.

[@irenediazroncero3085]

It really made me laugh the part: "Spanish people believe in the Christmas poo man". You're right! In Spain we don't believe at all in Santa bringing presents, instead we believe in "Los tres Reyes Magos" (the Three Magician Kings, translated) that bring Christmas presents to all Spanish children. Yet, several specific regions of Spain have their own characters that bring their presents, like the Olentzero in northern Spain and the one you mentioned, the Cagatió or Tio de Nadal: it's a trunk that is fed, given water, put into a warm place and children sing in Catalan asking for presents, otherwise they'll hit the trunk. Next morning, the trunk's "poo" are the presents! By the way, a strong difference of Spain and other European countries is that in Spain if you get to somebody's home, you DON'T take off your shoes EVER, unless you're asked to. Most of us Spaniards will feel disgusted about somebody else's feet odor...we live in a warm country. It's disgusting the footprint of the sweaty feet on your home floor. And here it doesn't rain, streets are dry and clean, why taking of your shoes? It's actually cleaner to keep them on. Also we spaniards are OBSESSED about cleaning our floors, wiping and mopping those constantly with the worst-chemicals-ever-made, so it's not a problem entering with your dirty shoes, the floor is going to be bleached however next day. It's very likely that if a Spanish invites you home and they know you're coming, it's easy to still smell the bleach, because they'll clean the whole house for your visit.

[@marialiodaki5759]

We do the same in Greece. mop all the time

[@ausosa]

The same in Italy. No one makes guests take off their shoes - it's unexpected and quite rude too. If it rains outside, it cleans up later

[@larrym2434]

I want to visit Spain, but now I'm a little concerned about the cleaning chemicals. I'm hoping to find a country whose customs cause them to NOT use the worst-chemicals-ever-made!!!!!

[@ane-louisestampe7939]

If you knew what our streets are like in the winter 😱 It snows, the snow gets very dirty from exhaustion from the cars 🤮We throw tons of grit on the roads to prevent them from getting slippery. It all sticks to our shoes. + we cover our floors with carpets to keep warm and cosy! We can't mop up huge huge lumps of dirty snow from a wollen carpet, so.... I many houses you'll be offered a pair of warm socks of even indoor shoes. My Mum knitted one-size-fits-all shoes and had a pile of them by the entrance. Peace and love

[@petr3788]

Here's the comparison with Russia: 1. No one is better than other --> Completely not true in Russia. I hate that every sonofab*** thinks they are better than you. 2. Oj! --> In Russia, we say "Ой" as an informal exclamation when you've made some mistake, but that's not an apology. 3. No alcohol --> In Russia, alcohol is sold everywhere, and even though officially you can buy it from 11 till 22 everyday, you can still buy it at night in some kiosk. 4. Crispy bread in boots --> I think Russians do not have this tradition, or it's not really well known. 5. Guys generally stay North --> In Russia, there are numerous far-distance villages, that are much like ghost settlements. 6. Dress modestly and similarly --> Not true for Russia, people here like to stand out in closing and brag with expensive (and mostly tasteless) clothes. 7. Speak cutely --> Russian can do this cute talk, but the educated/smart population thinks it's stupid, and tries to use normal language 8. Avoid socialising at all cost --> It's the same in Russia, unless it's not about having to drink in a company. Then we like it. 9. Do not engage in small talk --> It's the same in Russia. 10. Trust everyone --> It's completely opposite for Russia. 11. Double up words --> No, Russians don't do that very often. 12. You're equal to everyone else --> Completely not true for Russia. Hierarchies are extremely common (unfortunately). 13. Shoes off when indoors --> The same for Russia. 14. Drink coffee --> Russians drink a lot of coffee and of different kinds. 15. Everything is unisex --> It's not so in Russia. 16. Kebabizza --> In Russia, we don't have Kebabizza, but the entire country eats Shawarma which you can buy on every corner in major cities. 17. Don't bring cash, use a card --> In Russia, there are still places even in big cities that do not accept bank cards.

[@SpoonG]

I am Italian and here everybody wears their outside shoes indoors. Even in their own house. And I too think that it's barbaric. I just decided to buy a shoe rack for the entrance of our apartment to force my man to put on his damn flip flops when he comes home (and eliminate the shoe mayhem in the closet).

[@baransu-negociosconsciente5437]

SpoonG Here in Spain we do the same!!

[@marydecouvertes3789]

Sì ma in Paesi come l'Italia e la Spagna il clima è più permettente, in Svezia invece figuriamoci con tutto il nevischio di merda che c'è sulle strade durante l'inverno. Cazzo quanto mi manca l'Italia e le sue strade asciutte.

[@stingray650]

My American/Swedish friend and many Japanese think it is barbaric too. I could understand the sentiment if you lived near farm animals or back in the old days with horses pooping all over but now that we all have motor vehicles or bikes I don't see the big deal since the pavement is clean. If you work in an office building you don't walk around in your socks?

[@ashishgondaliya7740]

Hi

[@marthahawkinson-michau9611]

I'm a third generation Swedish-American, and I actually still do some of these things! I didn't realize they were Swedish habits; it was just the custom in my family. Especially the thing about airing out personal problems when asked how I am doing. If I really like you and respect you I will probably tell you the worst thing that has happened to me all year, meaning you might have to listen to the story about how my father-in-law nearly died from stomach bleeding in March.

[@LittleDeeNJ]

My maternal grandmother was Swedish too!

[@dirtfarmer7070]

Haha! Now I know why my friend does this! I just thought she was an annoying hypochondriac!

[@marthahawkinson-michau9611]

My paternal grandfather was born stateside to two Swedish parents.

[@shulionline]

In Argentina we curse as if it was an Olympic sport.

[@LeeCarlsson]

Julieta Daza Haha that comment made my evening! 😂👌🏼

[@katarzynanowak2392]

Poland say hi! We're in for a competition :D

[@DanilaArg]

Mate is a really weird habit for foreing people too

[@murielita7016]

Give me bigger capital letters

[@yoshisancat9120]

Jajajajaja😂 LOL

[@karlanielsen8896]

My husband and I lived in Sweden for almost a year when he was on sabbatical leave, so most of what you've said was familiar. One thing that seemed odd until I got used to it was that when two people were having a conversation the person listening at the moment would not listen quietly, but would make sounds, usually "aah" or inhale and say "ja" at the same time. We enjoyed our stay in Sweden a lot and travelled around as much as we could.

[@dorottyazsofia]

I'm from Hungary. Not sure if these things are strange for some of you, but here is what I find different than other countries. And also, I am from the capital, and there are really big differences between the overall behaviour and attitudes of people from the capital and people from the countryside, especially villagers. - moaning, complaining and overall pessimistic behaviour is quite characteristic of Hungarians, too, we can complain about everything (me included, I am sooo guilty of this) - foodwise: basically paprika and sour cream on everything. And we eat a lot of desserts made with sweet curd / cottage cheese (I do not even know the English term for these) - I am pretty sure it exists in a lot of other European countries as well, but we have an Eastern tradition called sprinkling, when guys sprinkle ladies with water or cologne (as if they are pretty flowers which need to be sprinkled not to die), and the girls give chocolate eggs, booze or money in exchange for it. - I did not even realize before I met a then-new colleague who came from another country and had this phrase as one of the first ones he learned in Hungarian because his Hungarian girlfriend and other friends used it so much, how much we use the phrase "Ne már", which is not even a grammatically correct sentence really in the first place... but you can express so many things with it :D... It can mean "noooooo!", "oh no", "you don't say?", "you cannot be serious" and "this is really bad news"... - cabbage pasta topped with sugar is considered a common meal here - we don't only have birthdays but namedays and some people can get really offended if someone forgets theirs

[@martaelisa4417]

dorottyazsofia I am half Hungarian living in Romania (Transylvania), what I personally observed: Hungarians are indeed one of the most pessimistic people in Europe, probably. I hati this attitude amongs Hungarians. An other thing: at least jere, in Transylvania everybody says "na" and "jaj". Romanians don't have the sprinkling, I thought it was uniquely hungarian...

[@MiekeBrak]

The hungarian expression Ne mar! we too have in the Netherlands, as Nee maar! It means exactly the same, and are correct words. How interesting!

[@dorottyazsofia]

I didn't know that! Astonishing!

[@csengea]

Yep. you're totally right. the only difference being is that we say "ne na" instead of ne mar :)) It's a Transilvanian thing I guess :))

[@transsexual_computer_faery]

Name days in Sweden too. absolutely ridiculous.

[@dg6718]

When I visited Germany I was suprised over why I had to wear cash on me. I never once had to take cash with me anywhere in Sweden.

[@wilhelmh9495]

”Hej gullet”? I would rather blow my own head off than utter such a phrase, but then again I’m a “boy from the north”.

[@Medietos]

Wilhelm: Yes, what she calls cute, I call silly, dumb, uneducated and lacking proper language and social skills +being emotionally immature, unhappy and inhibited.

[@digitallfax]

Shut it then ya Volvo-ridin-coke-downin-“det här är fan inte kallt manneeenn”-probably-hella-nice-fellow-nord

[@wilhelmh9495]

Depressing Fax “manneeen”? Tror du blandar ihop Norrland med Fittja.

[@thequeerkid9391]

Om ngn skulle säga det till mig (e stockholmare så hare inte på mig nu tack) så skulle jag bli väldigt förvånad kan jag säga

[@lovemylife816]

I'm half Swedish and my grandparents emigrated here. I got a huge chuckle each time you said something that framed not only my personality but that of my family tendencies, Who knew that perhaps there's something genetic or at least well-learned behavior. Being handed a compliment is like being handed a hot potato that has to be tossed over onto another - ASAP!

[@justineleconte]

When you 2 are back in Berlin, I'll invite you to a soy latte with sugar cube and everything 😊

[@bramstoker8648]

Justine Leconte officiel you have led me here, as to to Use Less and one or two others.

[@marturquesa77]

Justine Leconte officiel I found Jenny because you

[@marinaalex0510]

@JustineLeconte I am here thanks to you

[@epock11]

Soy milk? Latte means milk

[@anracingrsr1]

Fucking hipsters

[@EfratAbigailBashari]

You talking about people in Sweden dressing up the same really explain a few things about IKEA 😂

[@EfratAbigailBashari]

@@sheep1ewe We have IKEA too :) I think that in a way, it's an easy solution for cheap furniture, and you can change your Ming after a few years without feeling bad about it. But there's no doubt that it's fast fashion of home styling, and it's a shame.

[@zynius]

Swedes don't shop at IKEA. It's not available in most of the country.

[@EfratAbigailBashari]

@@zynius really? That's interesting.

[@Ciceron.mp3]

What are you on about? They have 24 stores in Sweden ^^

[@Hello-qs9ds]

Daniel Ekeroth Yeah, but a majority of them are in the southern parts

[@Kimi95B]

sooo north Sweden you say? I will think about that.

[@JennyMustard]

haha, you're not alone on that one :)

[@jodyb7784]

Really, I was just packing my furs and boots to go find me a husband🙃

[@thin_white_duke1]

JodyB can relate haha

[@Alianger]

They're not lonely though, they have each other and their snow scooters. There's also the samis to bicker with.

[@Surdeigt]

Or northern Norway😬 welcome😍🇳🇴😉

[@tommymandel]

You are proof of the "we swedes do cute a lot" bit. When combined with such intelligence and humor, it must be quite challenging to not seem special. Thank you for an informative and endearing video.

[@vickycurtin5622]

I'm from New Zealand, and we often answer a question with: "Yeah, nah"... Which basically means "Yes, no"... Totally contradictory and confusing I'm sure for most non-natives 😂

[@nikezor1]

In Sweden we've got one that actually kinda means "Yes, no". You say Nja which is just the swedish words for yes (ja) and no (nej) combined.

[@ricardmike5867]

Your right beautiful. Even in my home land we do answer that. You’re so cute 🌸..

[@anar3662]

And you also have “oi” 😄

[@vickycurtin5622]

@@anar3662 Yes! Ha ha

[@OneTrueWord1988]

Vicky Curtin: I'm an American. I visited the South Island for three months a few years ago, and fit right in with that! I've done that yeah/nah thing all my life! 😊 I absolutely loved beautiful New Zealand and its friendly, lovely people, and very much want to go back one day. ♥

[@GB-yh2wj]

Well, apart from n°8, the rest goes from acceptable to great. Sweden is a country strongly influnced by lutheranism and democratic socialism ideologies, focusing on equality, welfare, mutual trust and a proper balance between individual and societal rights. You should be really proud of yourselves ;-)

[@TheNoiseySpectator]

@Spinler Muckflitt Where in Sweden do you live, Spinler?

[@birdgirl1516]

Sanity 4 Sweden is the best channel for doses of reality. Neoliberalism has and is killing Europe. Time to swing back!!!!!

[@MariaLopez-hc2nm]

G B But ruined now..

[@tomteBreaker]

N°8?

[@marinaalex0510]

I actually relate to the n°8 the most

[@serenasteward]

In Poland people: complain, compare themselves to others ('My neighbour got a new camera/phone/car - Why is he richer than me or He must be a thief'), usually don't wear shoes at home, offer seats in public transportation to eldery people or pregnant women, almost everybody swear, drink vodka or beer, watch football games, in some regions name day is more celebrated than birthday, wear sandals or flip-flops with cotton socks, eat kebab (especially after drinking), often ask about your plans like having kids, marriage, work and personal life :)

[@beth6025]

the Ararat similar to Slovak habits

[@Jay-yn6or]

Here in Texas, we have this invasive species from California that don't wave back while in traffic.

[@chiconapeacefulpath]

Omg! I am adopted living in the states and I got a DNA ancestry test that revealed I am part Swedish. So, I searched for "what are Swedish people like" and your video popped up. I am so grateful to understand myself better, seeing as how I do many of the things you mentioned! Now I know more about the way I am and why! Also, I detest the social hierarchy here and could never understand why my fellow citizens think it's okay to act superior to others. Now I understand. Wow. God bless you, this is incredible! I am just about 40 years old and you just answered burning questions I've had for my whole life!!! Thank you for making this video!!! 🙏

[@mariagordanier3404]

Yes, my nordic side is at war with my latin side all the time! It can't be helped.

[@Nano-ideas]

i have been in sweden for 8 months, in the beginning i felt that i'm not welcomed. In the building that i live all of them are swedish. One of them when she saw me coming she close the door on my face, but when i started my sfi class, my teacher she is so nice and kind and all swedish people in my school they are nice.

[@bqualitysnake6549]

As a swede I think it's more privacy than anything, if we are on our way home or at out apartments/homes we're less likely to be open, polite and social than a public space. It could also be her not knowing if you live in that apartment or not if it was a door with a code, holding a door open can mean someone who isn't supposed to get in does get inside

[@luanaaraujo9869]

In Portugal when anyone asks you how you are doing you reply "Vai-se andando" that roughly translates to "we manage to walk", not good, but we manage. I can't explain it but it's a bit sad, like you're barely alive 😂 Also people seem to love small talk especially elders. They also love telling every single detail about their lives to complete strangers.

[@gatagatika3899]

Exactly the same in Greece!

[@kaoutermouslimhaliba7145]

Same in Spain. We say " ahi andamos", or " vamos tirando" like we are barely managing to move along in life. Lol.

[@nikezor1]

Some people say something similar in Sweden. There's a phrase that sort of means "How's it going?" which is "Hur går det?". To this some people answer "Det går.", which directly translated is "It's going.". It means you're at least going somewhere, not really good or bad I guess.

[@NoisyHill_]

Haha, kind of similar in some parts in Germany. The shortest answer is „Muss!“‘ which roughly translates to „Well you have to go on“..

[@Ana-ee5vs]

yah hahahaha tão verdade

[@worldtours3820]

Irish habits...1)We NEVER complain about bad food/service/health/... everything is 'Grand' 2) We TALK to strangers as if they're lifelong friends.If there's nobody to talk to we talk to the birds/wall/bus stop... 3) Somebody's delaying you on a phone call/talking in the street? We say "I'll let you go now (even tho it's not ME that's rambling on!), followed by "Bye, yep, bye, bye, yep, bye,bye, bye,bye" (followed by the thought 'She'd talk the hind legs off a horse'😂) 4) 'If you want to succeed in business in Ireland, GET OFF THE ISLAND!!!',meaning that Irish people are appreciated more outside Ireland than in the country. 5) Although we've a 'Fighting Irish ' reputation, we're very meek about protesting, most protest marches fizzle out as soon as a bar is found nearby.. Q for you. Nordic living v's Japan, which is better?

[@beanboozer]

I'm from Norway and we're very much the same as you described Swedish people.

[@cygne9206]

I'm from Finland and we're too! We were part of Sweden for about 650 years, so it makes a perfect sence!🙂

[@cinegraphics]

Except you still don't have so many ISISmigrants as in Sweden. Right?

[@cinegraphics]

@Nate Olson wait, I don't get it. Those people who were recruited were normal people from Norway? Or were they immigrants (or children of immigrants)? And then got recruited, got sent to Syria to overthrow Assad, then failed, and now they are back to Norway. Was it like that?

[@cinegraphics]

@Nate Olson similar things happened all over Europe, but what happened to Sweden is really sad. Their traitor politicians have decided to accept refugees, any refugees, almost all of them without papers. Eventually it turned out those refugees mostly comprised of 2 groups: Economic migrants from Pakistan, Afghanistan, Iraq, Libya, etc. And ISIS terrorists from Syria (which for some reason media call "Syrians" even though many of them are Saudis, Turks, Albanians, Bosnians, etc). After Assad kicked their terrorist ass out of Syria, hordes of ISIS bandits were evacuated to Turkey, and then sent towards Germany and Nordic countries, mostly to Sweden. Hundreds of thousands of "poor refugees", both economic migrants and terrorists, rapists, torturers and murderers came to Sweden. Among the meek, nice people. It's horrible what they are doing to them now. In 2015 they had more explosions than Belfast during IRA terrorist activity in 1970'es. Even police is afraid to go to some hoods. Terrorists sometimes even find the names of the policemen, their addresses, and attack their families. But the worst is their government, which is protecting rapists, drug smugglers and murderers, but not their own citizens. 12-year old girls (and younger) get raped, and rapists are freed, or sometimes given as "harsh" sentences as 22 days of cleaning streets. After that he's free to rape again. Their government is protecting the terrorists and not their own people. But that's not all. Leftists are now announcing they want to move 160 million "climate refugees" from North Africa and South Asia to Europe. And no doubt, based on current experiences, they will all be men. It's interesting how those "poor refugees" never take their families to safety with them. They just leave women and children in the war, or in the "climate crisis", and escape to Germany and Sweden. But while 99% of refugees are men, on TV they of course show only those 1% of women and children. To get sympathies of the audience.

[@cinegraphics]

@Nate Olson I initially thought we were talking about Norway, so I was curious whether the situation is the same as in Sweden. Because nowadays the most important topic in Sweden is the wave of immigrants in the last 10 years. This woman in the video said that "Sweden is safe" but she must be living in the far past. This latest wave of immigrants is worst than even those from 2000'es. Even the immigrants who are living in Sweden for 10-15 years are against those new immigrants. They are destroying this once great country because of traitors in Swedish government. So I was curious if something similar is happening in Norway.

[@annrrf1464]

I've had ENOUGH of London. I am moving to Sweden

[@Tidushii]

It's even worse in Sweden tho XD if you think Sadiq Khan fucked up the place the entire country of Sweden is like that man lol

[@beorlingo]

Oj!

[@rainer_uncrowned]

Oi fam London is sick!

[@rainer_uncrowned]

Alt Fit ur a dick head fam

[@20alphabet]

Yeah, if filthy foreigners raping beautiful white women is your thing, then that would be a perfect move.

[@DisintegrativeVow]

In denmark we place a bowl of porridge in the attic at christmas time for the house-elf, aka “nissen” 😂😂😂 otherwise he’ll create havoc the forthcoming year 😂 I loooove old scandinavian folklore, its soooo hyggeligt, even though most of it is pretty effing weird 🇩🇰🇸🇪🇳🇴

[@RJ-hx5nb]

In USA (Christmas tradition) the children leave cookies and a glass of milk for Santa Claus.

[@HanGim]

We have that in Sweden as well, but outside on the doorstep. Same reason though. 😊

[@transsexual_computer_faery]

rice porridge with butter FUCK YES

[@goateye7151]

I used to do the exact same thing when I was small 🇸🇪

[@kristianemilpaludan1653]

Or even wierder: We also burn a witch on a huge bonfire on st. Johns eve/ Midsommar in Denmark. That's so messed up if you think about it. But hey, at least it's a doll nowadays ;)

[@stephenresler]

When I traveled through Sweden, I was perplexed by the 'passive aggression. ' Later, I would make eye contact and say, 'Howdy, ' just for fun. I confronted a rude Syrian, and the Swedes were like Zombies sneering at my 'Viking' attitude.

[@iceman812]

?

[@GratDuForloradeArgumentet]

Haha good on you, we donät like the rude Syrians either, but most Swedes are wimps, not all tho.. like me

[@tinamontano2355]

I’m American, but I think I’m secretly Swedish lol 😂 I can relate to some of the traits.

[@weebitfluffy]

I was just thinking the same thing!

[@MymomentsinenglishBlogspotEs]

I´m Spanish and me too!!! hahaha

[@MichelleSSmith]

Tina Montano same here especially the avoiding people aspect.

[@yveeriksson6676]

I am Swedish and can only relate to a few of the examples. My experience from Sweden, Spain and Denmark is: people are individuals. It is not only the country borders that defines who or what we are. Thank god.

[@thatoneguyinthecommentswho3651]

Sweaboo (Jk)

[@sitifaizah9908]

As an extrovert that like to say hello, smile to anyone, can't imagine to live there permanently. The people look very kind though, and i love the 1st rule that everyone is equal or do anything to avoid the bragging.

[@Cherries_n_Stitches]

In Costa Rica we love to use “¡Diay!” and “Pura Vida” (yeah... that one is not just for turists) and can hace entire conversations with just this two words: - ¡Diay! (Hi! What a surprise!) - ¡Diay! ¿Pura Vida? (Hi, you to. How are you?) - ¡Pura Vida! ¡Pura Vida! ¿Vos? (I’m great, and you?) - Diay... (So-So)

[@chickennugget6233]

My grandmother gave me a little wooden plaque that has "Pura Vida" on it. What would this mean if I hung it on my house?

[@Sarah-ew2pp]

Like a thumbs up or a Tica Aloha.

[@aldonzal]

Y qué significa "Diay"?

[@romycullen17]

eso es español? what? no entendi un pomo xd

[@sabrinaevans8746]

When someone demands I take off my shoes in their house, I feel like they are trying to humiliate me.

[@hannahalexandra1419]

I’m Native American and Jewish... honest, complaining...small talk? (no such thing), bragging ? Bite me. This video is SO cute. Thank you! 😊

[@karinannamaria2514]

I actually think that we swedes are a little bit Jewish, a little bit British and a little bit Japanese. :) Sarcasms, irony and "dark" sense of humour, introverted, polite and very private.

[@marshacarlson5749]

Wow what fun. My grandparents were from Sweden. They spoke Swedish in the home. Growing up I didn’t even realize that our customs and language weren’t typically American. I’m finally going to Sweden this summer. Listening to this .... oh wow. Soooooo many things described me and my family. My grandfather used to drink his coffee from the saucer with a sugar cube he broke into 4 pieces. I remember watching him as a child Md never seeing anyone else do it. I loved this blog. ❤️

[@sykotikmommy]

When I lived with my mother, I was raised with a lot of different swedish mannerisms so it seems. Comments have been made about how I call everyone hun and other stuff like that. It's normal for me. My mother did it, my grandpa (his parents were from Sweden) and I do it. I'm sure there will be foods that I will remember once tasting and seeing, once I go there for a trip. I moved away from my mother and her side of the family when I was 12, so I only remember some, off the top of my head.

[@cinegraphics]

That's not your grandpa's Sweden. This nowadays is called Swedistan. Even alcohol is being banned so that ISISmigrants can feel at home.

[@TheNoiseySpectator]

Marsha Carlson Well, it is now mid September, so we assume you have returned from your trip. How was it?

[@marknelson3745]

My grandparents on my dads side were all from Sweden. After listening to this I never realized how many traits I have that are what she was talking about. I call everyone "Hun" even my dog lol, I love just plain black coffee, I don't give out that many compliments to people because I don't expect them from anyone else. My dad grew up in a little town in S.E. Kansas called Savonburg, all that lived there were Swedish and they had a huge Lutheran church that EVERYBODY went to.

[@EponaTrekka]

oh so lucky! My grandparents were also from Sweden! My cousin went to Sweden when he was younger to learn more about our family history. Im learning the Swedish Language on Duo Lingo on my phone.. i want to keep the language in my family :) I live in the US now. My grandparents moved here before my mother was even born. I hope you had a great trip there, and it's just cool to find another person whos grandparents were Swedish too :3

[@curlytopz274]

*take of your bloody shoes* Me: THANK YOU I'm not from Sweden but I'm one of those people

[@AimeeGertsch]

Yes! 1000 times yes! Why is this not done everywhere?

[@TheNoiseySpectator]

Well, I don't know about everywhere else, but in America , we rarely come inside *with blood all over our shoes* ! I am afraid to ask how Swedes get so much blood on their shoes!

[@emelie2377]

The Noisy Spectator We're vikings. Stuff happens during the day. 🤷🏼

[@MariaLopez-hc2nm]

Emelie well said 😎

[@cinegraphics]

Isn't it rude to ask your guests to take off their shoes and wear your slippers, which have been in use since 1995? Basically, all of your guests are sharing their bacteria in your home, while you're protected because you're wearing only your own slippers. Except, of course, when you visit someone else's home, where you also wear someone else's slippers. I find that very rude. Just because you're too lazy to clean your floor, you spread the bacteria and fungi to your "guest-sleepers" and you also may embarrass your guests, in case they have "developed" a hole in their socks.

[@jasmine0428]

Vem är ifrån Sverige och kollar// Who is watching from Sweden🇸🇪🇸🇪

[@jarilangerak9390]

I am. Not swedish tho. Dutch truck driver haha.

[@emmacarlsson9677]

Jasmine00 hon snackar ju ner vårat land... vadå inget bra kaffe?!

[@nepiahemopo1702]

I'm watching from New Zealand.

[@aranbarbosa]

Hahaha the pooping man is just another character in a Christmas representation we do with little figures to decorate our house. I think it's mostly from Catalonia, the part where I'm from (I live close to Girona, you've been there). But there's another tradition here wich is pretty weird, the "Cagatió": you have a piece of log in your house (that has a face painted on it and wears a traditional Catalan hat) covered with a blanket, kids have to feed it food scraps during some days before Christmas and on the day they sing a song while hitting it with a stick.. and it poops little presents and candy. Do we have an issue with pooping? Maybe... 😂

[@bichitochachi]

A Barbosa jajajaja mira no tenía ni idea

[@Cris-dk7du]

no tenia ni idea de a que se referia pero ahora todo cobra sentido lol muy bien explicado por cierto

[@soldomi]

Siiiii!!!!❤

[@Darvint413]

I was just going to explain the Tió hahahahaha U did it quite acurately xDD

[@arkraiss]

LOL I totally thought she was talking about Mr. Hankey The Christmas Poo. I couldn't figure out what that had to do with the Spanish though hahaha. This makes way more sense!

[@64Biina]

Quite interesting Jenny. I had no idea. I moved to Australia 18 years ago from Canada. Some of the things that I noticed were that words are shortened (medcine instead of medicine; Satday instead of Saturday); also at the end of the conversation or transaction people automatically say 'See you later'. To complete strangers! I kept thinking to myself, how do you know that we'll see each other later? I think it was the slang that took the longest to figure out and understand. But it makes conversations very colourful! When you're out walking you say hello to EVERYONE! Not in the city streets where there's hundreds of people but in your neighbourhood or nature reserve, etc.

[@lindsay_may]

64Biina Hahahhaha I love that you were so confused by see you later! I never considered that people would think that was a strange thing to say 😂

[@alisondorantes-garcia5751]

Thank you for this wonderful video! I have a best friend from Sweden and he always tells me how reserved Swedish people are and I never understood (I'm Mexican and we are super warm and a bit nosy) and this sheds more light on that.

[@wes9352]

Thanks so much for pointing out the ”oy” problem. I am an American living in Sweden and I can’t tell you how many times someone has bumped into me without saying excuse me and kept walking. It is my BIGGEST pet peeve of Swedish people. I find it incredibly rude and have never experienced this in any other country I have lived in or visited. Walking around in Stockholm can sometimes be like playing a game of chicken. Even when you have the right of way or a group of Swedes is taking up most of the sidewalk so they can walk next to each other, when the sidewalk is not big enough to do so, they would rather run you over than move for you. I keep trying to tell myself it is cultural, but it is so ingrained in me that this is just incredibly rude behavior.

[@wes9352]

Mary I definitely would not go that far. I find the majority of Swedes to be very well educated and kind.

[@marydecouvertes3789]

Well then I guess you just haven't seen through it all yet. They're really just a bunch of annoying yonkels. 🤮

[@transsexual_computer_faery]

fuck you on about Mary? I've talked to a lot of nordic people and they're mostly quite friendly - this is coming from someone who hates everyone, pretty much.

[@lochpearled]

Yeah some people are just stupid in our small streets. The absolute best is when 2 strollers come at you and think you should step into the road to avoid them rather than them not walking next to each other. Smh

[@transsexual_computer_faery]

Honestly i think the "not saying sorry" thing is that they're too embarassed to say sorry - i get that feeling anyhow....

[@claralupa5096]

The strangest thing we Germans do is never being to late

[@thalia7104]

Außer daß unsere Züge grundsätzlich zu spät kommen, Anschlußzüge dadurch verpaßt werden, U-Bahnen stehen bleiben, ohne Gründe für die nicht eingeplante Pause zu nennen, und die Busverbindungen in bestimmten Gegenden so miserabel sind, daß Pünktlichkeit kaum noch möglich ist... formulieren wir es lieber so: Der Wille zur Pünktlichkeit besteht, wird aber durch die unpünktlichen Verkehrsmittel zunichte gemacht 😉.

[@claralupa5096]

@@thalia7104 das stimmt natürlich #deutschebahn

[@thalia7104]

@@claralupa5096 😂😂😂 Genau!

[@PMMagro]

GOOD!

[@TVaz7777]

and that is why I love Germans

[@morganbenson4971]

When I was in örebro 2 years ago , I was at a football match. It was raining and I was waiting by the toilet door until it had died down a bit before going back to my seat , and there was a woman standing next to me . I think she could see I wasn’t Swedish but started a conversation with me in Swedish anyway and i surprised her when I started speaking Swedish back because I’d been learning , but the best part was that I jumped when she started speaking to me because of the not talking to strangers thing 😂

[@GratDuForloradeArgumentet]

It's not true :P some speak some don't, it's like everywehree

[@WalterJamesBlumberg]

you also have this speaking affect where you suddenly open you mouth a little and inhale which sometimes catches you off guard and is either a habit done to tell you, "yes I am listening to you talk" or "yes I am still alive".

[@hukabuktx6753]

Texas, Does anyone want a coke? I do. What kind? pepsi.

[@avalondreaming1433]

100 % true, but instead of Pepsi, it's usually Dr. Pepper

[@bownce1787]

HUKABUKtx67 The one without color, sprite?

[@charcoop2637]

Louisiana (SODYPOP)

[@magicmark1837]

My friends said I couldn’t get a 1000 subs ...East Coast...soda. Mid-West...pop.

[@MateDrinker33]

Depends on which part of TX; and yes, Dr. Pepper was INVENTED here! :D

[@interlene]

Don't come down to Italy then! LOL!!!! Exactly the opposite of all you said LOL!!

[@usafan96soren20]

Yes when I was in Denmark was a shock ahahhaha it was all so quite

[@chandhand6539]

Italy and Spain are the countries of extremely social people

[@Rafael-iw6sk]

@smadge100 what a ray of sunshine you are!

[@Broccoliii21]

I'm a mix (swedish/Italian) so yeah understand both you and Jenny and that can confuse people sometimes 💯 😂

[@alikalin3781]

@@chandhand6539 Turkey too. It's a Mediterranean thing actually.

[@kamloopscruiser874]

You’re really Canadian! 😁🇨🇦 or we are undercover 🇸🇪 Swedes! The Americans always comment on our all purpose word - eh. Most of what you said applies here too. Especially the shoes.

[@digitallfax]

Ha like I always say Canada is just a bigger sweden with shitter neighbours but ehh mate ya can cross over and come here any time even our prisons are nice and most lads are pretty neat haven’t been to one meself but I had a mate that went in for a lil and I...think his chatter rubbed off on me

[@lo-dee]

In Minnesota we say “eh” and “op” allll the time but I get made fun of for it everywhere else in the u.s

[@elli003]

Put crumbs in the bottom of your rubber boots to appease the Badgers, heh ? In Texas we wear Cowboy boots to snap the spines of Rattlesnakes. It's a game the whole family can play ! LOL

[@nomad3658]

Interesting, very simple, straight forward. In Costa Rica some things can be weird but we are very social, most of us love the environment and everyone for the most part very trusting and love to help people, lay back. The entire country runs a 10mph when it comes to get anything done because its relax time in Costa Rica so if you are used to get it done fast and now sorry not happening here, the slogan is "pura vida" which means "pure of life" and we live by it, Costa Rica is not a country is a way of life.

[@thomashom7514]

Yes, CR is where I learn Pura Vida. People will wave as we drive by. Very friendly to tourist. Spent time in San Jose, Limon and mountain towns. American dollar is accepted. Many people speaks English. CR is Latin America’s Sweden.

[@Maerchen1402]

The villages in the north totally made me think of the night's watch from Game of Thrones 😳

[@luckyDancer100]

Maerchen1402 same lol

[@raquelgarcia5046]

And the hot guys???

[@nnn10014]

It’s completely the same

[@monyauz6997]

I'm moving to Sweden. Finally, I have found a place where I don't have to say "hello" to my neighbour (as my mother taught me) and I won't feel guilty, etc. Sweden is the best country for individualists!!!!

[@lorenavivian9503]

yeah sure until people die and the smell is just too much to be ignored by your neighboors hahahahahaha

[@norwoodbuilder7529]

A NY Times article, dated 6/2/2022, states that Swedes typically do not feed guests for dinner, the article starts as follows : "A Swedish child sits at a dinner table while his friend and the friend’s parents dine on meatballs, mashed potatoes and lingonberry sauce. The delicious aroma wafts below the child’s nose, but there is no plate for him. This setting, while quite normal in Sweden and other Nordic countries, has horrified people around the world, shocked to learn that some Swedish families do not invite their children’s visiting friends to eat with them at mealtime. Instead, when it’s time to eat, a child might go home, stay in the friend’s room and play or sit at the table with the family and not eat." Is this really the case in Sweden?

[@xpqr12345]

It has been that way, but my impression is that we don't do that any more. There may be exceptions though. The reason Swedes started doing this at some point in time is probably a combination of various factors: - firstly, for most people food was expensive. Although Sweden as a country has been "rich" for quite long, the same has not been true about it's inhabitants. Thus, you fed your own family and nobody else. The poverty might not have been rampant, but few families have had particularly large margins, and since everybody gets taught this kind of thing by their parents, it can live on for a few generations even when it the rationale behind it is gone. - secondly, there has been a fear of offending others. One possible way, for a child, to offend others would have been to like some other woman's cooking over your own mother's cooking. By not giving other children food at your own dinner time, you avoid this potential offense without a problem. And since everybody was behaving the same way, nobody thought it was strange. And yes, I am Swedish and live in Sweden. However, I grew up in Spain, where this kind of behaviour would have been unthinkable, so it's fun (in some sense) to see the contrast between the countries.

[@aaronmerchant3503]

I finally found my people. My grandparents on my mothers side are both swedish but I am American. Everything you just described I have done my whole life and never realized until now where it came from as a kid I used to love drinking coffee on a saucer through sugar cubes

[@pattysherwood7091]

My mother’s family were Swedes from Malmo, moved to Massachusetts. I have benefitted from learning why my mother ( and I) are like this. I thought it was just her! I thought we were social misfits.

[@alexzingo6952]

I’m from Finland. Old ladies have same habit drinking hot coffee from saucer through sugar cubes. Shops selling certain brand of sugar cubes, that are not melting too fast.