Jess A Couple Things Pod #5 Diddy Do It?

[@shanitamorenita]

Truly appreciate the way you handled that last interview live. As a person who dealt with Trauma informed practice, you were a breath of fresh air as you created such a safe space for Bri’s ex-wife.

[@afrobutterfly]

Yes yes yes! Jessie acknowledged Daeshon, allowed space for her to express herself, and set the tone that what happened to her was serious. 10's across the board.

[@AprilT72]

Yes I noticed that, Rikki wanted the tea and Jessie slowed things down.

[@Choklatekisses1]

@@shanitamorenita 👏🏾👏🏾 I was apart of the live and I was saying “Jess don’t cry” 🥰 that was one for the books! Amazing job Jess! ❤️❤️

[@ViolaMline]

She did amazing! She put that journalism in use ewooo😂

[@dismahboomstick]

Yeah no offense to Rikki but when Daeshon disclosed she yelled something bout getting demonetized on TikTok…🥲 glad Jessie was there and super aware of how to handle that moment

[@thecadencekyle05]

I LOVED Brownies in the city. Jessie you just have "IT". I love just about everything you produce.

[@LovingFlowers]

This!!!!

[@TJTHAYAHSNDKEK]

I know when Jessie was trying to google Fetty Wap she typed " man who says 'YAAHHH BABY' " 🤣🤣

[@afrobutterfly]

@@TJTHAYAHSNDKEK 🗣"1738!"🤣

[@martikanara4940]

Whyyy was this so funny? 🤣

[@EDiena-vd2hx]

That or “1738” 😂

[@srm0520]

Being a psychologist, your story time about your former friend actually makes a lot of sense to me. Trauma- particularly early trauma, which I suspect she probably had- creates relationship dynamics that are subconscious and sometimes outwardly make very little “sense.” If I had to completely guess without knowing anything about her life I’d guess she had very early sexual trauma and so behaving as though “nothing happened” and wanting to be around or not caring if you’re around your perpetrator is something that is common for young children. They are assaulted and then continued to be cared for or trusted with their perpetrator. There is a level of dissociation. I suspect he did attempt to assault her and you witnessed her uninhibited response to that- maybe her intoxicated response- which was more authentic to how she actually felt. Once she had sobered up and slept on it, she went back to her “stuff it all down” response. She may have even felt guilt for getting upset w him and running out the night before and so invited him to the event to get back in his good graces. Early trauma wires the brain in ways that don’t align with “logical” responses to pain. They are adaptive at the time and keep us alive but often become maladaptive. I wish her well because that cycle of behavior probably means she is in a lot of pain ❤

[@naphtalieb9618]

Jessie, I love listening to your podcast on the way to college okay!!❤️ I would definitely recommend adding your videos on Spotify podcast; I think it would add an extra flair please keep this up I pray you go far with this podcast in Jesus name amen!❤❤❤

[@TheeJessieWoo]

I’m gonna look into this thank you

[@KINGDOMDAUGHTER]

Glad your church has a food pantry and you all take the time to consider the poor. Awesome. Praise & Glory to God.

[@essencepierce273]

Jessie thank you so much for being brave enough to talk politics. I know you don’t lack in speaking your truth but wanted to say it’s deeply appreciated. I hope someone is motivated to vote for Harris because of this.

[@JustSomina]

Bi-Racheal's 😂😂

[@miss.prissss]

Her saying Bye Rachel always sends me🤣🤣🤣

[@judination1]

Right! I hollered 😂😂😂

[@Juicyxcouture]

Sista I ran here, like I fell😂 and everything

[@Choklatekisses1]

LMBO

[@rashidahervin3928]

Ok seester lol

[@FiveWisdom36]

😂😂😂

[@MissKendra15]

😂😂😂😂😂 same

[@TheeJessieWoo]

😂😂😂😂😂 stop it

[@alyaklove]

Not Mike-Donalds 🤣🤣🤣

[@focuswithtati1190]

I'm here sister, I'm just loving to see how you're growing & evolving. Been here since, Lord knows DAY 1,sis.

[@shamikalouis55]

I love everything you do Jessie! One thing about me I’m going to support black womenz and I love how vocal you are about doing so. I’ll support everything you do sista ❤️🇭🇹🇭🇹

[@mellowseyez4514]

Omg on the story time….. Girl 👀. I did love Brownies in the City. I do agree, if you had two different chicks, the show would’ve been a success. I’ve been around since then. Girlllll 👀😂

[@evamichael542]

When I say I screamed when you said McDonalds doesn’t hire convicted felons!!! I was in a tunnel walking out of the train station and my scream echoed 😂

[@lungamqotsi]

I did not expect that twist on that story time, like I'm gasping for air - how you gonna break bread with a man that tried to grapes you...😲😯😕

[@afrobutterfly]

00:11:47 My mouth too small for all of that, too. 😂 But we make it work 😂

[@JinaChantil]

How the Fetty Wap song go again, Jessie?! 🤣😂🤣😭😭😭😭 🗣️”1738, eh, eh, eh, ello! Yeah, baby!” 🎶 😭😭😭😭😭

[@depressedandwelldressed5489]

The comments about VP’s race are truly disgusting. People really hate women.

[@afrobutterfly]

Viciously.

[@sagethesag7801]

Even more black women

[@saundra_janae]

This has been my biggest takeaway from this election/ it’s sickening.

[@LoveMera_x]

People questioned Obama heritaged too did y’all forget ?!

[@afrobutterfly]

@LoveMera_x not Black people and not to this degree. Some yt folks were like "birth certificate rawr" but overwhelmingly let it go. BM are raining hellfire down upon Kamala

[@lauranicoleduring6735]

I love this podcast Jess. I've been a subscriber for a few months now and girl you are so funny. And I love your jingles. Keep doing your thing and I love your personality.

[@LifeAsCheer]

I just screamed at Jessi saying how small her mouth is 😂 and having to please this man 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ShaunaDeleon]

SAME like I am cackling 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@shestayready]

Lord, TMI

[@kimmyw010]

Same though 😂😂

[@danii3734]

I’m here sessterrr! Thank you for the consistency, does not go unnoticed Jess 💜✨✨✨

[@daphneteno]

First, abaulaala Atlantic! I'm screaming😭😭😩🤣 Now Jess I remember this show and loved it but can tell there was drama and it sucked because it was actually really funny and a great concept. I think it was "Brownies in the City" and you guys launched it on Valentines Day or something. I remember you disappearing when you got the twins done and when you came back, baaaaby, I just knew, oh this about to end, LOL. Your stories be having me so anxious. Anyways, lets remember to vote you guys and thanks Jess for the content!

[@youbettercalltyrone713]

44:03 Brownies in the City was my shit!!!!!! Jessie you really put your foot into the content and I’m happy for that you are doing your own thing! You deserve it 🤎

[@andreacharles6123]

Geezos Jessica it is too early for the shenanigans!! Sis and that Big Mac talking about she just started suckin!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm screamin!!!

[@anyikamark879]

Loved this episodes queen!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@shanicewilliams5204]

5:00 I have debated this with my sister so much. She not voting for Kamala cause she feel like Kamala just started claiming her blackness and acting like she black just to get the black vote. She feels like Trump nor Kamala should get the presidency cause their entire campaign has been unserious especially with their celebrity performances, etc. I do not agree AT ALL with her and after things got heated, I realized, we can no longer talk politics in my house lol. No Kamala slander will be tolerated over here lolol.

[@Hatchin96]

Cornel West for prez!! If you want to believe those are your only two choices, just be aware you sleepin fr

[@naturallybeautiful9109]

Can you include timestamps in these videos thank you. Because I want to skip triggering things like diddy information. And the story time about that girl…

[@mariabrown6926]

There's a transcript for the video in the description, you can scroll down past the parts you're not interested in and click on the time stamp. Hope this helps!👍

[@kikihayes5059]

@@mariabrown6926yep like a transcript. I’m just realizing this

[@gangstawangsta613]

When I watched the Brownies podcast, I didn't think those girls matched you. I'm so happy you're doing your own thing now!

[@cherricasmith]

Okay couch! Loving the new look.

[@KINGDOMDAUGHTER]

Lol lol, not throwing away folks coffee and tea (their morning beverages) 😂😂😂

[@WILDANDPEACEFUL23]

I didn't know this podcast was gonna be so good. I'm not surprised because I watched your other things. Thank you for giving me extra excellent content to watch. you Are THAT girl!

[@shanellesealy2467]

Hello Jessica, God don't sleep nor slumber.

[@Majestic1]

🎶"Some fries, some frieeesss"🎶 😅

[@BadGirlMimi94]

🎶"Some fries, some friiiiiiiieeeeees"🎶 😂😂😂

[@Nunofyabizzzzz]

Jessie did you hear about the Abercrombie and Fitch CEO? I hope you talk about this. I can’t wait for this to turn into a real tv show

[@aleishianichole7949]

Love the pod, Jessie!! Thank you for sharing with us. I missed the brownies era. Can we get a story time about its rise & fall? Xx

[@littlelightomine]

Not “clank clank” for Toby!!!😩🤣😂

[@Demahevans]

I loved the Brownies podcast. But tbh I just love hearing your take on all sorts of topics.

[@afrobutterfly]

00:46:00 I remember you telling this story before. I was pissed then, too. How could she invite him!

[@raquelr8775]

That’s right Jesse PREACH!

[@nikeshad.matadeen4453]

Jessie has sung that Mary J commercial soo much, I had to find it for myself. In Trinidad so never saw it but my gosh - 😆 hilarious

[@chelliefierce]

A friend of mine recived legal advice for a divorce and the attorney said that if you claim DV but are intimate after, they consider it a reconciliation. This also factors in the start of a separation, if you are intimate, the clock starts over. This may be state to state but yeah...crazy.

[@TheeJessieWoo]

WHAT???!!!!

[@Got2BOshun]

My momma used to call early morning ‘ungodly hours’ 😂😂😂

[@MusicFeenx3]

Can’t wait to watch when I’m home!

[@crissidasouvenir1935]

I followed you on instagram before you had Brownies in the city and loved you even more on that podcast. Unfortunately, I can tell when it came close to the end. The other girls seemed not as into it as you were. Their attitudes also sucked towards the end but I can tell you were trying. So glad you found your own way in the end🤗

[@itsQueMajor]

no, when jessie sings with a quivering bottom lip, i piss myself every time

[@andreaus.]

11:07 - I fainted. 😫🤦🏾‍♂️🙌🏾😆👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂

[@Imdeepintheknow]

That chicken Big Mac might’ve taken me 45 min to finish and left my chest burning for 2 days but baybeeeeeeeee it was good. Never again tho

[@Majestic1]

I truly hope the feds have all of those signed and dated NDAs.

[@brwnsuga00]

Not his 10 stomachs!⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️

[@Choklatekisses1]

Not done dropped 4 minutes ago!!!! seated!

[@crystalrubbie9383]

Im not christian but seeing the whole church pray for her 😢 for they black sister was so beautiful 😊 i know she felt good . I hope she wins cuz booi this election is scary

[@TheSTALLIONESS]

I think Jeezy’s “My President is Black” put a stamp on Obama being black for black folks, and only a small amount questioned it. Whereas with Kamala, its a lot more uproar over it. Honestly, I dont see either one as “Black” in the proper sense of Black American. But they are both African American. I think there are nuances to how we see each other and we’re not going to all be on the same page. With that said, I don’t care if she is or not to even discuss it as a topic of this presidential race.

[@chelliefierce]

@@TheSTALLIONESS I was wondering where is Kamala's song??? Smh....

[@TheSTALLIONESS]

@@chelliefierce BM aren’t going to make it bc she’s married to a white man…

[@emj05001]

Give the members only a Brownies In The City run down!!!!

[@Tamimi1063]

Love this!!

[@justrashanda3662]

My thing is it doesn’t matter what kamala race is what matters is her views and policies what she’s going to do as president what matters is she’s not a felon ijs

[@Jada-hq2oc]

Great episode!!!

[@rosemarygordon3805]

Jess nice podcast and great advice to the young lady about have some fun 🤗🙏🏾

[@alexisbrown2109]

Jessie lmfao the damn “chu..” took me out. I’m crying

[@ShaeDaily]

Clearly the women they Love are not the ones they value, respect or want to see win. Which is why preference doesn’t get preferential treatment! 😮‍💨

[@depressedandwelldressed5489]

💯💯💯

[@suras8984]

preference is the superficial aspect of dating that only involves attraction. 50% of people have insecure attachment styles and that is going to be the driving force of any unhealthy dynamic preference or not. With regards to Kamala some people dont like what has been happening under the biden/harris administration. Some people dont agree with the mass migration that is happening or how these migrants are getting more care than veterens. Or that they stopped doing dna testing to make sure its real families coming through and not child trafficking. Theres fingers to blame on both sides and in my opinion most politicians are evil. But there are different issues that may sway a person one way or another and it may just be about choosing the lesser evil in their eyes.

[@RugbyPrincessT]

I called Fetty Wop “left eye” cause couldn’t remember his name. Lord help me 😭

[@sheilacox6708]

I’m screamingggg at who seester girl invited 💀💀💀💀 I’m flabbergasted

[@CarlissaFashona]

I remember watching you and the other girls podcast. That was around the time I started following you.

[@kardiair2]

Okay prayer cloth/quilt😂😂😂😂

[@sindycharles7141]

My new favorite podcast, indeed🤣🤍

[@jayebchillen]

Jess I need you to do a blink twice movie review

[@cherylthec]

Glad your pastor Bryant actually encourages helping the poor unlike that Henderson guy...

[@TheeJessieWoo]

SAME!!!!! I cannot STAND SHAUNIE'S HUSBAND

[@alib748]

Now​@@TheeJessieWoo we not speaking on that. We know what the Bible says.

[@ViolaMline]

20:57 😂😂😂😂 GIVE HIM THE CHAIR ALREADY

[@evettematthews4083]

She has the most beautiful voice

[@essencepierce273]

I love that you got your meet Vice President Harris! I love it!

[@essencepierce273]

They irk me with questioning her blackness. Republicans keep saying she does a fake Jamaican accent and I’m like what? No she doesn’t. She might say “say it to my face” with a slight blackcent but that’s it. My daughter grew up in the burbs and occasionally uses a little blackcent for no reason 🤣

[@afrobutterfly]

😂 🗣"He did that ish!!"

[@ariesreality]

I think when it comes to your former friend I think women often times recreate situations into positives when you don’t want to fathom what really happened

[@gemvi997]

Hi Jessie! I think you should do a live podcast event 😊

[@klairblair]

Make a plan yo vote!

[@lyd190]

10:37 Jessie I love you!😂

[@essencepierce273]

She might be used to people trying to do that to her so it’s possible that she wasn’t lying. A lot of people normalize that type of abuse.

[@bkchic8824]

There were blk people questioning his blkness. But that was after they realized that he wasn't "creating" laws that would specifically and only help blk people.

[@xsheri_]

Another great episode 🩷 that storytime was so wild and disturbing bc why would she do that??🤦🏾‍♀️ I love to give people the benefit of the doubt but some people truly move weird

[@rosebruno217]

Love you WooWoo

[@jadachoates11]

Brownies in the City was my podcast!!!! And I loved the song you created. 😂🤎✨️ I'm so glad you have your own podcast now Jessie!

[@wolfsisterhowls]

Jesse, I HAVE TO comment on your question of "Was I Wrong To Judge Her?" NO. Emphatically, you were NOT wrong. Judgement keeps us safe. Judgement is how human beings have navigated and survived for thousands of years. When you get something nasty out of the fridge and you get rid of it because it smells off, that's judgement. When you choose not to cross the road because cars are moving way to quick despite having right of way, that's judgement. You didn't take an objective, scientific measure of the speed of deceleration of oncoming traffic. You didn't conduct a scientific evaluation of a sample of the funky flakes. You JUDGED and then you made decisions based on that judgement. And that's what you're SUPPOSED to do. Let's say the girl DIDN'T lie to you. That means she brought a CONFIRMED predator into a space with her friends and exposed them to his behaviour and depravity. She put you at risk! And she happily put herself at risk too (all psychology of victimhood, trauma responses and common sense notwithstanding). You're SUPPOSED to judge someone like that. They are dangerous, wreckless and if they're not slightly delusional then they are VERY selfish. Even if nothing happens to you, your nervous system would have been shot the entire time worrying about if he was going to put something in YOUR drink, abduct YOU, if he was aware that you knew and might try to intimidate you or retaliate against you for fetching her. JUDGE HER. But let's say this was one of those rare instances where someone lies about being SAd. Let's say he DIDN'T do what she claimed and she was playing some silly game to excite his interest by running off but didn't want to tell you that so she made this whole thing up. Think about that. That's a person you don't know and wouldn't vouch for. If this had escalated, if you had pushed for the police to be involved, you would no doubt have stood by your friend and testified to his pushiness the night before. Pushiness isn't a crime, but in the context of an alleged SA it can be circumstantial testimonial evidence! Consider what she might have made you participate in doing to another human being! Now extend that to yourself...if she was lying, she was just as much of a risk to YOUR reputation. Nobody sane casually accuses people of crimes they didn't commit. So this is someone who would have thrown YOU under the bus, lied on YOU, told people tales about YOU that made you look monstrous while keekeeing and smiling in your face like she did to that man! I personally don't think there's anything wrong with Judgement. Judgement is a natural, God-given tool for survival. Judgement is what makes us safe and helps us navigate this crazy world. Don't you EVER beat yourself up for judging a person who, whether the accusations were true or not, was a risk to your safety, sanity and reputation EITHER way. Your discernment was telling you something at that point already and that's all you needed to know.

[@kendraj7435]

Not me screaming because I remember that podcast…. Lord that was a time

[@crystalrubbie9383]

We saw u front seat 😂😂 was the the seat reserved online

[@Soontobe_kylie]

loved it

[@NovaGrey1221]

Cancers sense of direction is, just go. we dgaf & we're there.

[@bertoalva480]

Puerto Ricans in PA for KAMALA!!

[@ViolaMline]

46:48 I would’ve been cussing her out until TODAYYYYY! Damn skippy we wouldn’t be friends no more cause what’s wrong with her ???? Ugh I just knew you was gone say him smh some women just be birds

[@ViolaMline]

27:32 it was MARYYYYY J BLIJE

[@seektruth5750]

The story that Jessie shared is something that I’ve experienced with someone I went to high school with. We had gotten done with school and had holiday jobs. A few days in instead of taking a cab back home, she got someone to come get us and take us home, we get in, and leave, along the way, the guy starts asking her questions about something that upset him, that involved other people or someone he didn’t approve her being with, he started slapping her around, one hand on the steering wheel, myself and his younger sister I believe are in the backseat, she is trying to laugh it off and blocking his attacks with her hands, he was really pissed. I didn’t know what to do cos her reaction isn’t that if trying to make him understand, and saving face cos I’m seeing this, I’m upset at why she’s smiling or being apologetic with him, I want to stop this but we are on the road and I don’t know him enough to try and predict if he’d get us into an accident, so I pray that we get where I can get off and be done, and we do, I step off, he is nice to me and says good bye and stuff. I don’t look back and went home really upset. The next day, I didn’t know what to say but I thought maybe she’d wanna talk it out or something, explain what happened, none of that happened, we never talked about it, if anything, a few days in, she had him as a DP on her WhatsApp, that really set me off and made me not want to be close with her anymore, I felt she was meeting herself done and accepting bad treatment. A few years later we’d go to an event and she had all these friends with her that I didn’t know were going to be there with us, but we went and as time went on, she started a fight with one of those friends of hers, a guy, he hit her back and they were seriously fighting, it reminded me of the first incident and I just told myself I will not be around her anymore cos it’s now a pattern.

[@lilshortie407]

The male celebrity was probably Dr. Dre. He was at the VMAs that year.

[@funjunk301]

Whats the name of the restaurant Jessie mentioned? I'm visiting ATL soon lolss

[@AmyTraphouse]

Seester thank GOD you trusted your instincts with that story about the attempted SA on that young lady.. you are a blessing!!! Edit: just heard the rest of the story and i got mad right along with you

[@shanitamorenita]

Trying to figure out where this dress is from.. so cute 🎀

[@AwkMind]

Serious question, if the oil had something that puts people to sleep wouldn't be risky for Diddy and his accomplices that they might fall asleep too upon exposure??

[@uniquetee8341]

Seeeeester could you please review the movie ‘Blink twice’

[@senaawl]

That movie could potentially be traumatic for her

[@Silly_u1908]

Seester,Diddy was denied bail in September. He is now appealing the court’s decision. The appellate court will review the decision of the lower court to determine whether there was judicial misconduct or misapplication of the law.

[@JesuisFlay]

Same I never this relationship is the first time. My throat too small for that

[@OGfromQueens]

Nah when the bish from bucktown tried to play in your face I was DONE!. Mind you I'm from Queens and I joined the Army in Brooklyn (Shout out to Flatbush)I was DONE with them bishes from them!!!!

[@catlady3024]

Not me getting a notification 3 hours later 😭

[@jennybarth7645]

Seesster de Montreal