Jess Hilarious On Kountry Wayne Wanting Her To Be A House Wife

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[@MrScans1]

I think ultimately Wayne wanted a wife not a business partner. That's not to say a woman can't be both. His way wasn't her's. So they parted, there's nothing wrong with understanding.

[@RR-zl8pg]

I'm sorry and not to be negative but women cannot do both at least be successful at both, one is going to be severely lacking which is usually the house wife duties. I believe and support that women have the right to choose their profession or being a wife and a mom but the lie is telling women that they can do both because it never works out. I also believe that as a man you have the right to want what you want and if she isn't matching that then it's time to move on

[@jmarie5709]

Didnt he have a wife?

[@dgayle2348]

@@RR-zl8pg : they're rich, what duties she gotta do around the house when they can hire people to wipe they ass? She's being doing fine as a mom with a career thus far.

[@HOOLITHEWORLD]

Women can’t do both because a man can’t do both that’s why women file for more divorces the housewife’s of rich millionaires cheat because the husband has to maintain that money and the time to keep that money he can’t be in both places at once either you get a broke man who has time or a rich man with no time. Women still don’t understand that. You have to decide what’s more important.

[@HOOLITHEWORLD]

@@dgayle2348 Maybe he doesn’t want random people around his children or family house servants aren’t for everyone.

[@garcel1251]

“That what I wanna Dueee!” That BMore slipped out lol

[@PickHuey]

Straight up!🤣🤣🤣

[@Edmondson_Avenue]

how you know? are you from there?

[@garcel1251]

@@Edmondson_Avenue Because I spent time there because I travel for various reasons … and people there tend to put a emphasis on vowels, similar to how people from New Orleans put a emphasis on the “O” sound at the end of words… Hope this answers your question, have a great day👍🏾

[@Edmondson_Avenue]

@@garcel1251 Oh really?

[@ParentalDiscretionIsAdvised]

@@Edmondson_Avenue you dont have to be "from somewhere" to know how someone speaks due to location. Were in a day in age where you dont even have to go or be in that place to know how they speak

[@Chrissygirl-gf5tr]

I remember being vulnerable like that the first two years of my marriage. I was going to school and my husband was the only one working. I remember the debt we got in trying to make it during those years, but most of all I remember my husband also allowing himself to be vulnerable. He had his fears and doubts, but often reminded me that team work doesn’t have to be two people bringing the same thing to the table. Our marriage became more focused on how much my husband valued me waking him up to pray at night, being mindful of his favorites when I packed his lunch, or taking the initiative to keep us organized in our daily lives. Also how much I valued his calls checking on me to make sure I checked my blood sugars, doing both of our laundry, and always preparing breakfast. You can’t agree to partnership without understanding you’re on a team. We all need our partners in some ways they don’t need us and vise versa. That’s not bad. It’s a good thing because it proves why it’s important we both bring something different to the table. We are not competitors. We’re teammates.

[@aquarius4life]

Well said 💯

[@PatinaEdochie]

@@aquarius4life Right 💯

[@jamyra1615]

Exactly 💯

[@grindhard4312]

Exactly

[@mrkimble3134]

Thank you for sharing that. I will admit as a man I use to think that because I work more I should be valued more than my significant other. After reading what you wrote, I feel I should be more supportive of the person that I'm with and value thier efforts because every woman is not like that.

[@snicole1022]

I don't think there's anything wrong with what Jess or Wayne wanted. The issue is trying to force the other person to conform to your ideal only without compromise of their desires. They just weren't meant for each other because of their different ideas about the family dynamic and that's okay.

[@grindhard4312]

Exactly! She wasn't what he wanted plain and simple.

[@presidave1931]

@@grindhard4312 life is not binary.. u can want something and still dont know how to deal with everything about it.

[@grindhard4312]

@@presidave1931 👍🏾👍🏾

[@coryjackson6034]

Thats the problem why the hell is a women tryna compete with the mans role...yes there is sumthin wrong with that!!

[@Rosewave80]

@@RevealedFilms and rich!

[@bunchielove6893]

Both of my parents worked. All of my needs were met and I wanted for nothing. We as a family kept the home tidy and my dad cooked more than everybody because he was better at it. At one point my dad went back to school and my mom held it down. Another time my mom worked at night so my dad was at all of my evening events and my mom did daytime stuff (appointments, teacher meetings and lunch at school) while keeping the home. Just work together and stop listening to people tell you how it SHOULD be.

[@shauna5105]

Best comment. You have to do what works best for your relationship.

[@00ashantii]

Thissss!!

[@niknikky]

A comment actually grounded in reality and not BS gender roles and what men and women *should* do

[@deanakjefferson9278]

💯 💯 💯 I AGREE!!

[@marvelousmary7649]

Amen

[@cammiecammie1787]

I did love Jess and Wayne relationship. I totally understand where she is coming from and I totally understand where Wayne is coming from. They had strong love for one another but they are both too headstrong to be together

[@Tawknmysht]

He, as w/ most men, Get uncomfortable when they ‘roles’ they were told they were SUPPOSED 2 do aren’t needed So they have 2 adapt & learn 2 provide ‘other things’ When a woman doesn’t need ur $, ur protection, or ur leadership, what do u as a man have 2 offer Not saying there’s nothing 2 offer, but most men actually don’t know how 2 provide much else Causing self doubt about self worth, then of course there’s the projecting

[@liljerry496]

If overall the money is coming in one house why compete about it … because I wouldn’t #GetITBaby😎

[@malikthomas8452]

Yeah from what I'm hearing she just found masculine as hell if he was willing to do everything for her why not just let him be the man that's the reason that woman can't keep a man cuz she don't know how to keep a man clearly if he wanted you to be a housewife and this n**** a millionaire and he willing to take care of you what's the point not letting him do it like you can still work if you want to but I can see just from the rip that she just masking as hell and never going to have a man that's why n****** just don't usually talk to girls with a lot of money because they two masculine

[@RR-zl8pg]

@@Tawknmysht Women will always need men's protection and leadership and that's the problem, it's not projection. It's the fact that men have risk their lives to make this world so comfortable for women to the point that women really believe they don't need men SMH

[@dgayle2348]

@@Tawknmysht : this is where men learn to offer emotional support. The biggest thing I think we need to work on is finding people who we enjoy being around. If you and your partner are gifted one billion dollars each, the protection, providing, household duties, and decision making is largely taken care of. So what's left? The genuine connection you all have. When a woman feels like you're the wisest, funniest, most interesting , most caring and understanding person in her life that money don't mean as much--I've seen it

[@kejuanlynette8531]

Everybody is different, but I'd be a housewife TOMORROW if I could!

[@kayyoung9242]

Bingo me too

[@dafnenoel9825]

Right

[@Oliviagold__]

I would be a house wife but I still want my passive income! Anything can happen

[@StillAQueen]

Real Quick!😂 proof that all women have different needs

[@Feelsbylex]

Her worker mindset is being a comedian that (career) is not to be compared to slaving 9-5’s for corporate America, it’s no wonder many women would prefer to be taken care of or “ house wife “

[@BDoughly]

Idc if you a man or woman , don’t forget about YOU. Make sure YOU good !

[@cinnycincin4708]

Please let these other men know...alot of people aren't understanding she wants to be successful and have her own legacy ..whats wrong with that?

[@longbeach69]

@@cinnycincin4708 wheres the family at....

[@gardyj123]

@@cinnycincin4708 there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that but life is about choices and the trade offs that comes with that. If that makes sense

[@InternationalWood]

@@cinnycincin4708 I bet you she change her mind when she get older! You think she the first successful woman who think like this

[@cinnycincin4708]

@@longbeach69 why can't she have a career and her family as well?

[@laj4186]

Not just a worker but a woman with talent and something to offer the world.

[@1-o-f-1]

That will be single forever

[@projectdan3369]

Single and NOT FUNNY

[@1-o-f-1]

@euejebe Because a man with money don't have to put up with her bs. She acts like she wants to be the man so she can be the man and end up with someone she will have to take care of. She is getting older and she looks a mess when she takes all that stuff off.

[@Kingdakkar]

Men we gotta be better at communicating we need to have these conversations before we get into relationships.

[@EJ313]

You can't know you wanna wife her before knowing her

[@AreYouFNQRAZII]

@@EJ313 exactly these niggas trippin😂

[@TheThotWhisperer]

@@EJ313 true but you can get to know if she's the wifing type before getting serious. If she mentions hot girl summer, being flown out or says she's "independent" then we need to just leave them alone.

[@EJ313]

@@TheThotWhisperer Very true Keem. King is right as well, communicating will allow you to understand who you are dealing with

[@darionmeeks2272]

Mannnnn!!!! This the best comment on here doug couldn’t say it any better

[@ablaqdoll2303]

It’s not even about money.. like he said people are supposed to have enough confidence in themselves to love someone else and be happy for each other period…just because.. it’s called unconditional love…everybody’s so worried about what it looks like instead of just being real and allowing the other person to be authentic

[@jrob4795]

@Far7rom Love that's conditional isn't love at all. If you love, you love for what it is, not for what it can do.

[@jrob4795]

@Far7rom You say "find a Godly woman" but then contradict yourself when you say all human love is conditional. A Godly woman/man who is truly living under God loves truly, and unconditionally, because that's what HE teaches. God says that true love is unconditional...any "love" that has conditions is not love at all. Maybe you haven't experienced it yet...I suggest you buy that dog if that's the case.

[@jrob4795]

@Far7rom You said Kountry Wayne should find himself a Godly woman, meaning a woman fully committed, and obedient to God...if he does, more than likely she'll be Christian, or follow a Abrahamic faith like himself...if that's the case, they would have both been taught by their particular faith that true love is unconditional. So yes, if takes your advice, and finds this "Godly" woman, then he will have no choice but to learn to love truly/unconditionally. As for the last part, you can not prove that love is conditional. There is no science to back that. If you don't believe, or haven't experienced it, just say that.

[@jrob4795]

@Far7rom I've been to 7 countries in my life thus far, and even without that, I know that Christianity does not define everyone's beliefs...but we're talking about a Christian man, who lives, and dates in a predominantly Christian nation/world so it's a safe bet to say that the next woman he dates will probably be of a Christian faith, or raised with some Christian values. That being said, you have an extremely worldly outlook for someone who claims to be as spiritual as you say you are. Indeed, you said what you said, and it was probably more than you intended. Go in peace.

[@jrob4795]

@Far7rom I've traveled more than most people have traveled in their entire lives...but I don't see what that has to do with your static viewpoint on love? Nor do I understand why you continue to add to this discussion when your comment before last gave every impression that you were making a final point? Is it a pride thing? If you need to have the last word on this, I can accommodate you?

[@brizy___]

She spoke facts again. No matter how many men say they respect independent women I think it still bothers them because like she said he already said “I have to make more money on the tour because I’m the man”. Very much stuck in misogyny. Also gives hater vibes. Some men can’t deal with their woman being more popular or making more money then them. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@northwestjuggernaut]

No man wants that bullshit

[@kingvi3907]

Lmao nah its just with yall black females yall don't know how to uplift a nigga just down him

[@ShidTheExecutive]

Wtf are you talking about....Jess more popular than wayne sounds crazy....they just wanted two different things nothing wrong with that....idk where yall get this logic from

[@mcbthird]

@@ShidTheExecutive they really don’t use the brain god gave them. They just be saying anything.

[@kylelindsay6390]

But she doesn't make more money then him nor is she more popular so it makes sense he makes more he is bigger then her

[@SassyGirl50_]

I respect everything she said 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

[@lolabandy9577]

A real man 💪🏾

[@lelegeo7204]

she’s very passionate about her career it’s so sad that they didn’t work out

[@entertainmentclub855]

Until she’s too old

[@abbyo4632]

@@entertainmentclub855 everyone will get old..so wtf you talking???

[@krazyjnva2up2down55]

@@abbyo4632 she going to regret it is what she saying. At the moment she just another lonely female with cake

[@northwestjuggernaut]

@@entertainmentclub855 yup she will regret it kountry Wayne will be a household name

[@StephanieBeardTHELAKERGURL]

Love Jess she’s funny asf😂…especially when she team up with KW😅😂🤣… everything Jess is saying is 💯

[@shawnturner8155]

She’s funny however everything she said isn’t 100 to man with different core values.

[@ghettosex123]

Never laughed

[@Brotha.B.M.O.G]

Yooo this is so true alot of times we're ok with our relationship but because the public opinion is different we try to switch up what works for us

[@goldenchild3265]

She gon be single forever with that mentality smh

[@victorious1929]

I see her point but it comes a time people period, need to understand, they ain’t did nothing by themselves. You can’t love God but don’t wanna live the way he designed. I’m a woman, and my passion was being a housewife, a man is suppose to take care of me and I take care him. We all have lanes to stay in, now traffic is all backed up.

[@victorious1929]

@Mandy Gee wrong! Everyone has a lane and nobody wants to stay in there lane. Now traffic is gridlocked. Whole world fked up because humans can’t behave, they want it their way. ITS NOT WORKING!!! Y’all don’t have peace.

[@Lovelyharp7811]

Yes he did read the Bible

[@kdeb92968]

@Mandy Gee nah

[@Ang417]

​@@victorious1929 you should always do things for yourself, God forbid what if the husband leaves you or dies. You never know what can happen don't rely on someone to take care of you. My dad told me this always make enough to take care of yourself. If he leaves you, you have nothing to worry about.

[@SPIRITOFTRUTHEDEMONKILLER]

Some Sisters think they single because they want to be single

[@lmiller6675]

Some brothers think they’re all that , but are damaged, triggered males and not men that’s why they’re single and always searching

[@leavlymwinga1997]

​@@lmiller6675 men choose when to settle down, just cause you see him single don't mean he ain't being laid, he just don't want to show you and he could pick that one person he wants to settle down with and if she refuses, it's never an L, 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@SPIRITOFTRUTHEDEMONKILLER]

@@lmiller6675 that’s true my sister , men can’t be excluded, we THE HEAD OF THE HOUSEHOLD, so we responsible like ADAM WAS, ADAM DID NOT EAT FROM TREE FIRST, EVE DID ,BUT WHO DID GOD GO TO FIRST about that SIN? IT WAS THE MAN! Also YOU ARE NOT A MAN, so YOUR OPINION ON WHO IS A REAL MAN DONT COUNT IN GODS EYE, only the public EYE! GOD( YHWH) told ADAM TO RULE OVER HIS HOUSEHOLD…….THAT WAS A COMMAND!!

[@thotunewstildont5348]

🤣🤣🤣 most want to be. 💯

[@lolabandy9577]

We are talking about present moment… you don’t know if that Adam and Eve story is even true… WOMEN CHOOSE TO BE SINGLE AND WE CAN CHOOSE TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP.. JUST BECAUSE A MAN IS A MAN DOESNT MEAN HIS HEAD OF HOUSE… this is 2022 .. not 1920

[@bigmannysr8317]

Eventually you get tired of carrying that baggage and dead weight from the past. Serious relationships and especially marriage is 100/100 and not 50/50.

[@andreajackson3638]

I feel you Jess.... I'm definitely a worker too!!! This is me ... Why can't that be acceptable!?👍🏽🙏🏾

[@MVP_901]

Trust me it’s more than acceptable most men are looking for this but let’s be real a woman with her on ain’t looking for someone on their level they try to date up with men who are practically rich and don’t need their women to work most women don’t want to build these days.

[@forcourt2364]

Independent women make horrible wives. If you so independent than you don't need a husband

[@Stanley_Fields]

It’s extremely acceptable just not to most men who can pay all the bills! They are looking for a woman to provide things other than money! Nothing wrong with a woman making money though!

[@goldteethpoohproductions2707]

@Far7rom Can tell you got a lot of hurt in you lol. 😂😂🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️ It's ok somebody loves you

[@kingleo2636]

@Far7rom 😂😂😂😂

[@fire_management]

I love the way Jess sound when she speaks

[@joshandabradford8749]

Yes. Me to

[@fire_management]

Jess would have been like "me tew"

[@00ashantii]

When Jess said “IM A WORKER” I felt that!!

[@petebarr780]

For this interview to end on that point...I felt that. I've been trying to self council my whole life and the truth is, I could use the help. Hopefully one day I'll get it

[@qSoSmooth]

BARS🔥

[@misguidedpearls7456]

❤❤❤❤

[@chaneltaylorexclusivethoug6244]

Marriage or not I’m not putting my dreams on hold for nobody

[@cameroonbreezygoat903]

Bruh WTF I know nobody ever told you this but chances are you won’t be a celebrity and you’ll just live an ever age life. I’ll advise you to volunteer a day at a nursing to see what life’s like without family when your body starts falling apart

[@SupaBlessedAries]

Chanel good job you Never put your dreams on hold for someone else as women we have seen women put their God given dreams and talents aside because of a man or husband and then he ends up leaving that same woman who gave up her dream for another woman and then she’s left to start over at an older age 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@brickholiday1413]

All these women in the comments champion on this masculine-ass woman and this simp gone die before they pets do🤣🤣🤣🤣 Any chick that deal with this simp gone have him taking care of they children from another man and straight emasculate his ass.

[@goldteethpoohproductions2707]

@@cameroonbreezygoat903 Seek therapy you got a lot of hurt in you man smh. It's ok somebody loves you. Stop it 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

[@goldteethpoohproductions2707]

The men who got a problem with what she saying is CONTROLLING AND GOT ALOT OF INSECURITIES AND DONT WANT THEIR WOMAN TO SHINE. I tell my sister love your man do for your man but don't fully depend on him cuz when shit hit the fan you going to be ass out and or stuck with bullshit cuz you weren't up on your shit. Same thing imma tell my daughter in the future..

[@Mavrock954]

Her being as independent as she is was formed by the trauma she experienced wow

[@kayjeffs3741]

It is for most women...women have been saying this for years

[@theehardpill]

She got her father whos still married to her mom so I'm curious as to what trauma you think she went through. 🤔

[@St-Normak]

@@theehardpill you can still have trauma with both parents in ur life

[@theehardpill]

@@St-Normak I'm aware. I still trying to see what about her screams trauma because she doesn't trust anyone 100% to take care of her financially.

[@juwanbyers3401]

@@theehardpill the men she’s dated could cause trauma. She mentioned how she’s given a lot for a little. That’s trauma

[@Ayyeeeooo]

As a man that’s a provider that don’t sound like a provider that’s a control freak

[@monigurl4229]

That’s the way it sounded to me.

[@Ayyeeeooo]

@@monigurl4229 and i love Kountry Wayne & his message but just judging from this video alone what she describing is an insecure control freak .

[@diegojones2481]

I get along better with Females like Jess… But a lot of men don’t like it. Some even call it masculine… I don’t believe people should change to fit a mold… some women like to work, earn and grow in their career choice. That’s attractive to me. I could never be with anyone who I would consider a bill..

[@GiftedKG]

I’m glad you said this… because making money and standing on your own two feet is just too “ masculine “.

[@misguidedpearls7456]

Amen

[@LookItsABigBlackGuy]

Because you're weak, that's why. No man worth his weight in gold will put up with that.

[@diegojones2481]

@@LookItsABigBlackGuy 😂😂 I can tell you only deal with females with extremely low self esteem that you can walk all over.. Become comfortable and confident in who you are..

[@angel1202003]

@@LookItsABigBlackGuy nothing says man with a healthy level of testosterone and something going for himself like btching in the youtube comments about what another man likes 👍🏽

[@tommietee1226]

I think when people hear 50/50 they forget that 50/50 is not always half on everything. I personally see if u pay the rent & insurance ,I pay the bills . U pay car note ,I pay for the insurance. That's cool then cause we both got responsibility aside with what we share. The goal is always to make sure family/life is straight..

[@pollypolly2650]

I'm with you on this

[@mrsjayhoward]

There has to be balance the same way man are seeing it’s a bad thing to split 50/50 and it makes them less of a man, woman are seeing that choosing a family life over a self driven life makes you weak or a pick me. Live your truth and do what makes you happy ignore other peoples opinions and decisions.

[@sarahhmichel]

They love the world more than them selves. I can feel it.

[@kaykayglover2463]

If what you need is a partner that depends on you financially, you should be able to say that, pursue that and have that. What you should not be allowed to do is force someone into that mold. If the woman you are dealing with has a different ideology than you, you just aren't the lid to her pot. And that's okay. If everyone was able to communicate their needs like Jay and Jess just did, there would be WAY less struggle in the dating game. Way less.

[@yahrion]

that boy flipped it on her. took her around the world to bring her back to reality.

[@derricksmoke2much933]

lmao😂😂😂😂

[@FireAngelChris]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bobby4363]

They both making money now, so all is good. Wayne is making way more at this point and hires a host of actors. I like his clean comedy. Good luck to Jess.

[@hisway1995]

JESS IS JESS NOT FUNNY 🤣

[@kay22100]

I think they just weren’t right for each other. Neither of them were wrong. For instance, a man who wants me to work forever outside of the home wouldn’t be the man for me. I believe my place is in the home taking care of my kids so I married someone with the thought process and one who believes homemaking is honorable work. Gotta get with someone on the same page !

[@Mrfinedining]

Give her 10 years she’ll think differently or realize she made the wrong choice

[@jamesjackson9614]

Indeed!!!

[@TitusLennon]

Probably so.

[@riomickles5663]

I doubt it.

[@yeahriightt24]

She don’t need financial help now why would she regret in 10yrs?

[@jamesjackson9614]

@@yeahriightt24 because it's not about the money men never or ever will care about a woman's money

[@missbehaving9128]

Jess also has a son & she is his primary caregiver. She made the right decision especially not being married to KW. I’m a fan of both.

[@cameroonbreezygoat903]

Smh some of y’all too far gone

[@ndssum9695]

How is this relevant 🤔

[@Lilkswagg]

😂 I guess you don’t know how many kids Wayne has

[@ndssum9695]

@@Lilkswagg too damn many😅

[@keshacobb3458]

I'm pretty sure she made that comment because she said Wayne is very competitive. I don't want to have to compete with my man. Jess have a kid so if they ever came to the point that she became his house wife he would become controlling. Even though Wayne is a comedian, he would do things in a joking way. At some point that will get old and tired. Mine talked me into coming off the road and raise our kids and he will take of the kids. Shid I was like that's a bet 🤣. Got off the road and a month later it became MY MONEY or I PAY ALL DA BILLS AROUND HERE FOR YOU AND YO KIDS. I was like they are yours too and you asked me to come off the road. That was a learning lesson for me and took my behind back to work and left.

[@godsounddivine1718]

I'm a man but I support this type of woman a woman who's working and earning also that's what I like.

[@godsounddivine1718]

@Double N bruh listen my my mom is traditional but she had a job in banking and marketing her whole life and it helped,my own brother had a amazing job but the owner of the company ended up firing him and putting his own family In charge but the good thing my brothers wife had a career and managed to start a business and put him in charge of it and if she was a stay home wife their family would have been fucked,I've grown up and seen many women save the day when times are hard U see my brother all I need from my woman is love and respect her having a job doesn't get in the way of that. Ofcourse it depends on who u pick and your levels of communication within the relationship.

[@godsounddivine1718]

@Far7rom actually it's very hard for me to be broke I had my master's at 23, not only do i have a good job but I also have properties I inherited that I rent 😁, I was put through university by a hard working mother who had a great career so I value women earners, My fiance also works so that's that. It sounds like ur projecting buddy 😄

[@mooreaj]

@@godsounddivine1718 was your mom single just asking ? Mines was

[@luxkycharm8434]

Jay speaking some real ish . He definitely speaking from a place of understanding

[@azysrael1111]

He wanted a feminine woman, not a masculine one, he wanted to lead, not be in competition with his woman

[@frfdc56]

How can you be a successful business woman and a house wife? Those definitions don't match 🤷🏽💬

[@DBaylor197]

Nowadays there's remote work and authors. I know a "house husband" that does the bulk of the house work and child care cuz his wife is the primary caretaker for her sick parents. She's getting paid through Medicare, but he's an author and outearns her by far. Teamwork makes the dream work, but it sounds like both her and Wayne had serious control issues.

[@arianacortes2418]

The way she smiles while talking bout him 👀

[@liquidjackson7172]

Appreciate her perspective. What’s missing is our hunger to compete FOR one another rather than WITH/AGAINST one another. What’s good for one is good for the other. One life, one heartbeat, two people in love-at least that’s how it used to be/can be again.

[@machiavellisprince5986]

He wants to be put above her work but she’s not that so she won’t have a provider. She is one.

[@liquidjackson7172]

@Dead niggas have no value appreciate your response. My point is for both of them.

[@liquidjackson7172]

@@machiavellisprince5986 appreciate the response. As said before: the point is for both of them

[@lolabandy9577]

She clearly said he wasn’t willing to go 50/50 What don’t you understand in that

[@liquidjackson7172]

@@lolabandy9577 Since that’s what she said, doesn’t that buffer my point? Don’t approach with disrespect sis.

[@NUTZONYALIPZ]

Well considering the fact that Jess has masculine energy the relationship would have been weird and it was doomed from jump.. Wayne's type seems to be more soft and feminine..and that's not Jess

[@christopherclyde7791]

Precisely !!!!!!

[@td62cutboy]

Fortunately they both will get what they want🎉

[@KyxLimitless]

She’s too masculine

[@word183rd2]

RIP Kevin Samuals

[@taraphillips-bailey8305]

How? I haven't finished listening. I just want your opinion.

[@fesalatijannati5677]

@@taraphillips-bailey8305 she's aggressive and wanting to take the lead over her man, she wants to work like a man and she's rough like a man, I noticed this in her speach, her mannerisms are manly.

[@pokerlifestyle8121]

Her train of thought is why she is single and will remain single

[@Betterme4lf]

Shut up 🙄 y’all are the most neediest creatures more than women these days.

[@Betterme4lf]

Being single is well worth it if a man NEEDS a woman to sacrifice her happiness for him to feel secure and validated. Go get some mental help.

[@hemantechnology3638]

Facts💯

[@CassCream]

Bruh, that part

[@liberatedilla]

Why is single a bad thing? Why do men think that women are sad and lonely without them? Serious question, I genuinely don’t understand. Because I know for a fact that being alone and being lonely are two different things. Is it ego with y’all that makes y’all believe that women are nothing with a man?

[@Mebirduwine]

Amazing how we let social media set the standards of a relationship...yet those screaming the loudest snd setting the rules make 32k a yr at CVS and are single

[@christopherclyde7791]

I don't see the correlation.

[@niknikky]

That part!

[@JermaineWV]

I knew she was from Baltimore when she pronounced “do” that sounded like “dew”. 😂 Out here sounding like tank Davis’s coach.

[@HennaDa]

This is the most AQUARIUS thing she said: “I’m not gonna rely on your money, I have to rely on mine. And maybe I gotta get better with that. I cannot let nobody take care of me.” Bc then they hold it over your head” As an Aquarius, I gotta be independent, it’s important for me. I’m the one helping others out. I have a hard time asking for help and I think that’s bc I don’t want help. I think I can do everything by myself. Maybe I can, but that’s a lot of stress and it will start to show.

[@litmovement125]

As an Aquarius I can say that you are a 1,000 percent correct lol.

[@CoreyGreen955]

What does a zodiac sign have to do with anything? I’ve heard people say this exact thing and they aren’t a Sagittarius 😂😂😂

[@TherapyKutz]

Women love to credit a man and discredit him in the same breath.

[@wellthatsinteresting1]

I love this interview Jess is such a multifaceted woman and able to tap into so many sides of herself. Love ❤️ it

[@bluarktober]

I bet Wayne is making wayyy way way more nowww

[@lenejaia]

10 kids?!?.....not how much you make.....it's how much you keep......I'm sure Jess is investing.....has real estate, and her money doesn't have to be split so many ways

[@idleapex19]

@@lenejaia here you going off on a tangent..

[@soolthegreat1581]

@@idleapex19 rite 😅😅😅

[@JayBelafonte]

People have to realize all this is temporary. Unfortunately Wayne is not gonna always be as popular as he is now. Besides, she should 100 percent want to follow her dreams and aspirations. That’s more important to her than some temp money. Jess isn’t a housewife, she’s the partner type that wants to level up with you.

[@leavlymwinga1997]

​@@lenejaia it's not like he showed you how much he gives them. What he still keeps shows he is way better!!!

[@steph5494]

She is right for standing in her truth!

[@DLloyd-bb4wk]

On one hand, her mentality is dope. But that’s what not because it’s a mentality that we see mostly in men and we respect that. On the other hand it’s saddening to know that black love dies over things like this. Black families split and some never come to be.

[@grindhard4312]

You said a word here! Because most people are operating in fear, so are we really being truthful to each other??

[@atifking8731]

You say it’s dope but I say it’s sad bc a woman shouldn’t have the mentality of a man.

[@inyourdreams444]

@@grindhard4312 How is making sure you can support yourself and have some sort of individualism in a relationship living in fear? I once stayed at home (I'm not a mother though) and the other person was controlling, I had to ask to buy anything at all, they got upset when I wanted to go out with friends, threw it in my face during arguments, etc. As a man who's never been in that position you won't understand the level of control a person has over your life if you have absolutely no finances coming in as a housewife. If he leaves, dies or decides to kick you out, you're now homeless and stuck starting over. It's not about living in fear, it's about being rational and aware of the facts of life that things happen and as an adult woman, I need to be able to support myself. It also feels good not having to beg anyone for money to go out with friends or something small I want to treat myself to. A lot of manipulative men want housewives so they can isolate her 100% and control the entire situation. That isn't healthy love or teamwork, that's dictatorship. I won't even get started on the fact that most men making 1 income cannot support an entire family on that 1 income. I'm supposed to leave my $135k salaried w/ stock position to make him feel more of a man by being at home all day? When my career is what keeps me from being homeless if he decides to leave? It's simply a safety net. Not a sign of an uncooperative woman who can't raise a family. Does the man plan on not helping raise the kids at all whatsoever?!! There are plenty of successful women who are wives & mothers. The thing is ppl need to stop marrying/dating those who don't align with what they want. If you want a housewife, try seeking women who desire to be one. But expecting a woman with a major career to just walk away and trust that you'll never leave her stuck is not logical. *ESPECIALLY* when they are NOT married or even engaged.

[@courtneywilder3200]

black love usually works from the sacrifice the woman makes, n now knowing we can do for ourselves n make something out of ourselves we’re going that route, our parents n our parents parents operated that way but we dont have to anymore

[@gracefulbossbabe]

Do we love people less because we don’t work together, or do we love people where they are and accept that we can love one another without being a couple?

[@machiavellisprince5986]

Dude said... "What makes me a man is what I do for my family." Dude also said... "It's other people that make you feel bad if you don't make enough money." YEAH! Because you can't do for your family without money.

[@pearliegatez3227]

"At the end of the day we all human."!!! 🎯 All of the messages were needed. Gratitude 💪🏾

[@lahndee2020]

I can now see and say I understand what masculine energy is ...i can remember feeling like her but i learned how to scale it back

[@deeward5572]

Very true dear...Many women have that. Thats why many are alone

[@demetriusevans4139]

I watch these African and Latino couples work together at my job and split the bills with no problem. Only BM are shamed for common sense approaches. I ain't a bum or lame if I accept my woman's contributions to our lifestyle. I've actually LOST some good BW because I allowed public perception to push me to reject everything they tries to do to contribute to the building. The folks that I see in long-term marriages and who send their kids to college are also those who HAVE BOTH people contribute. Now, if she chooses to stay at home and maintain the home, I'll gladly pay for everything, but I'll be damned if we both are out here making good money yet I have to pay for everything while your money goes on material bs for you only. If I'm not good enough for you because of that, then let me know on day one so I can move on.

[@amused87]

they were not married....

[@abnorm1984]

BIG FUCKIN FACTS AND WELL SAID BIG DAWG!!!

[@rodp2592]

Wayne blew past her now in every sense

[@venobrown1125]

Lol she ain't selling out

[@poppnpoliticspodcast7752]

She for sure does. And so does Wayne. They not doing Madison Square Garden but they sell out comedy clubs.

[@eugenaarnold3965]

Yessss 100% right! They will throw it back in your face

[@guestguest5128]

And this is why a lot of black women are single…😢

[@dirtandsilkk]

I'm always thrown off when someone from Maryland or New York call Will Smith or Bill Crosby weak... They both from the hardest neighborhood in Philly

[@daytonwinfield4033]

too many past ex's hard to give yourself to a man when you've loved so many others it'll always be problems too much baggage to many demons

[@latoyawatts168]

💯💯💯💯

[@kayjeffs3741]

All that goes away when a man comes along and loves you properly, and is trustworthy

[@factorymadeclothingcompany]

Jess ego is bigger then her pockets

[@yvonneburns2786]

How so?, she knows her self worth, and please let's be real in a marriage it should be 50/50 all the time. Why rely on the spouses pay packet alone now that's egotistical!

[@d.harris5971]

She really thinks she makes more $ than Kountry?

[@HolyGhostBabyTV1]

Know what you want and go for it. Some gone rejoice some gone hate that's just life. There's a mate for them both somewhere.

[@NAJILife]

bro.... u gooootta have more in depth interviews like this. i pray whoever he reaches out to to come on his show, does.

[@martineli312]

Not everybody’s meant to be a parent not everybody is meant to go to college not everybody is meant to be a wife not everybody is meant to be a housewife…. You keep working girlfriend🫤

[@maatx4027]

He tried to run the oldest game in the book on her, playing the “man of the house” scheme.

[@inyourdreams444]

Exactly! No ring, no marriage no nothing plus he has 10 kids but wants her to give up her career to be a stay at home GIRLFRIEND AND STEPMOTHER OF 10? Whew chile.

[@jaeshasway]

Yep. I stopped following and unsubscribed a while back. He perpetuates stereotypes and beliefs that we need to destroy not elevate.

[@Six10demigod_5]

That's what y'all hoes be wanting tho lol make up yal mind

[@LookItsABigBlackGuy]

@@inyourdreams444 Well, women aren't virgins anymore so why marry when you can get the woman for free? lmao

[@nekneversleep]

I think y’all want everyone to fit in a mold and be the exact same. She’s a human being that wants to work , and create a legacy. There is nothing wrong with that. Some women wanna stay home. Everyone is different . Let’s appreciate everyone’s differences rather than attack someone for being different

[@MugenLord]

And she's going to be single and miserable at the end of it all. The statistics show that these kind of women end up not being happy when old age starts kicking in and the attention starts drying up.

[@koopmalverde6486]

Yeah. I hope she's happy till the end with that decision.

[@crystalrubbie9383]

it's is scary cuz as a mother you just have an anxiety that ayy shit always may not gonna be perfect ,someone can die or not be able to work no more or get fired !! it's nice to have atleast one stream of income consistently

[@grindhard4312]

You can't stop life from happening and use it as an excuse to not totally be truthful and rely on someone. Is that the relationship you want. Imagine your kids not trusting who you are as a mother simply because of fear of the "what if".

[@crystalrubbie9383]

@@grindhard4312 wtf are you talkin bout loool a mother and child bond is forever but dating somebody is not guaranteed forever

[@grindhard4312]

@@crystalrubbie9383 My bad, I was assuming we were talking in terms of being with someone forever. Like relationships then marriage. Marriage is forever if the two people choose it. But never mind.

[@erikas9945]

I’m a worker worker at all times!! I can’t depend on no one else’s money but my own!

[@CslimBlockTG]

Nah She 4 The Streets 💯😂

[@zaharaali7906]

Smh because she ain’t willing to let know nigga control her

[@vannielouis]

At least she honest . I rather not be that way they too opposite not meant for each other

[@arlun725]

She wanna be the man seem like

[@thatraspyshxt]

She wants to make her money for her and her son. Her family.

[@word183rd2]

RIP Kevin Samuals

[@pandroidigital]

That's how bmore chicks are.

[@raymondharris359]

This mentality is what keeps black women single , I respect her grind but you gotta be realistic on what comes with it. Career driven women have a tough time with long lasting relationships

[@21tyson55]

Fair. We gotta acknowledge how this mentality is bred tho and why it’s prevalent in the black community. With the father not in majority of homes it breeds a survival mentality. Most women aren’t gonna be vulnerable enough to rely off a husband when they couldn’t even rely off their own father. Thus, the cycle continues.

[@shehasevolved8596]

@@21tyson55 who wants to rely on some nigga🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 a weak mfer that's who! This ain't the dam 1800s

[@Ray-pp5qb]

People be breaking up over silly shit. They could've been a power couple. Two kingdoms coming together. I enjoyed the convo it was very mature. Dude is right, that blame shit stops progress. Blame is a roadblock to a successful relationship.

[@thatraspyshxt]

It's not silly. She isn't putting her dreams on hold for a relationship. Such is fucking life.

[@LeroyGreenGlow]

@@thatraspyshxt that shit will be over soon she’s not funny .. especially funnier than Wayne this was her saying damn I fucked up lol ..

[@jacksonsheldon41]

@@thatraspyshxt so then don’t complain about it not being good men out there

[@thatraspyshxt]

@Far7rom no she didn't. She chose herself. The fuck is wrong with yall.

[@thatraspyshxt]

@@jacksonsheldon41 who is complaining? Like seriously. Did you read that in my comment? No. So stop fucking reaching and focus on the context..that's what wrong with yall men? You don't listen and you don't fucking read.

[@nikiblackcheek6112]

Its sad that love lost to ego. It sounds like it was a power struggle over money and clout. Sacrifice comes with real love.

[@andreajackson3638]

Why do people want to tear your work away from you to love you.... #Single for Life 🧬

[@ytwizzle]

Partner

[@jondoe5305]

80% of cheating happens at the work place.

[@MS-xn8ub]

Wayne realised he needed a woman 😂

[@KeenApollo]

Yea she cool but I can tell this a type of woman I couldn't deal with long term.

[@kevinaustin5086]

I'll never understand why women equate "being the boss" into taking the character traits of a man. And get offended when men no longer see them as feminine.

[@mrredd8439]

@@kevinaustin5086 FACTS

[@alphagodvon]

Exactly!

[@keithdior1657]

@@kevinaustin5086 female rappers rap just like they male counterparts grabbing the crotch n everything.

[@bluarktober]

Damn Jess you’re gonna be single for a minute

[@idleapex19]

Whole minute

[@HURRY-UP-N-BUY]

She better buy a dog & die alone....don't no mane take a old broad with a dog seriously let's just keep it 100

[@SB-lw5xt]

She’s not going to be single for Long, she’s going to get a men that’s think they can handle her attitude and her lifestyle, and after they get the pussy from her, then they start switching up. That’s why we as men try to encourage other men to just tell the truth and don’t be dragging a women along because a men words is powerful and hurts if used incorrectly.

[@alphagodvon]

For a long time

[@brianjones4666]

a hr

[@MegaDevin76]

She will only attract a certain type of man to deal with her ego. She had a man that wanted to take care of you. She blocked a blessing because of past trauma

[@geministwin6074]

Now look who she's got ....if she's STILL with him....a 🤡

[@ZHXNEL]

How is he gonna take care of her when she makes more? This man got like 10 kids. She sad about it but she definitely dodged a bullet.

[@brittv177]

That same man you idiots are hyping up, is also responsible for taking care of 10 other children\households. Jess DODGED a bullet. Wayne was on the breakfast club a year ago saying that he had gone broke. If Jess would’ve given up everything she worked for just to submit to a man’s preference, she wouldn’t have had anything to fall back on. Please shut up. Has nothing to do with trauma, she made a LOGICAL decision.

[@MegaDevin76]

@@brittv177 you basically just proved a valid point. He also said he bacame very rich shortly after that. She would t have lost anything because whether she stayed or not Wayne had it figured out. It was already written. All she had to do was believe in his ability to lead. But like majority of women when shit get tough they bail out and try to find the next dick to ride. The man worth more than Jess will ever be with all his children. The dude after Wayne was a bum so she missed her mark because nobody will take her seriously that’s on Wayne level.

[@MegaDevin76]

@@brittv177 Jess career will be short lived because she not funny at all. She better off just becoming a industry girl and get passed around she has the body for it

[@nub_yoloprophete6389]

The crazy thing about that is that’s exactly how he seems a person that will do great for a person that’s that he is wet and people around him but it seems like he really just loves to have leverage

[@donlu6814]

“He’s bill Cosby……… before the charges 🫳🏽) LMFAOAOAOAO she wild for that

[@philipsurpris]

She wants all the benefits of a relationship without sacrificing something. You can’t be a good mother and wife while being a successful business individual because both of full time jobs. So one is going to suffer.

[@misguidedpearls7456]

Ohhhhh but a man can b good at business B a good father n husband... Listen to yourself

[@philipsurpris]

@@misguidedpearls7456 First I should have clarified individual as entrepreneur. Nonetheless, I am young and quite inexperienced personally in regards to marriage and long term relationships at this point in my life however I believe that wisdom can come from observation of experience just as much as experience had. There are roles that each individual should play. GOD created Man and Woman and they both wanted to play Man. So it's either the man falls into the place of a woman in regards to relationship dynamics, which never works because we were not designed that way, or we both fall into our proper positions Man(Lead) and Woman(Support). This is not me saying she cannot work but a relationship is a team and if you have two captains on a ship with different directions, the ship won't move anywhere. That's just the husband part. Being a good father is leading by example. Him being good at business is in itself him being a good father because he is providing for his family. There will of course be nuance because as a team you weigh out your strengths and weaknesses and make moves that compliment each other. Nonetheless, I thank you for your perspective and for myself personally, only time will tell what holds true.

[@rubyreign289]

@@philipsurpris you gave a very intellect response

[@seaserenity5971]

If Wayne wanted a housewife, he should have stayed with his housewife with 10 kids😂 what’s the point of pursing a career woman & then don’t want her to have a career?😂

[@itsmeow6615]

Love the chill vibes always

[@impactsaturdays2471]

This is a very serious topic that many people omit…I’m not a fan of titles within a relationship or roles as most would call it…However I am big on the man being the leader of the family…Nothing is wrong with a woman bringing strong value to the table financially but like he said most men cringe on that because of the lashing they get in the public eye on the status quo… I think more conversations need to be had amongst couples about how comfortable they would be in abnormal situations that go against the status quo….because those status quo’s make a lot of relationships end short or never allow themselves time to grow together to really see if their is long term substance there… I appreciate you both for being vulnerable enough to go into that topic with depth… Keep having these types of conversations because this is therapy for a lot of people whether you know it or not…👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@reedthompson366]

You can't have it all you got to put time in with both something is going to be neglected either that's work or the kids 💯

[@TiffanyNicole_]

It does sound great to a certain type of female, but I think EVERY woman should have her own no matter how much her man/husband/bf make. Let’s get this money together baby!

[@oliverlacey3765]

She aint talk about how he cheated on her. Wayne out there playing gynecologist

[@-live8659]

Men make money/become successful: “I want to take care and support a family”. Women make money/become successful: “I don’t need a man/I’m independent/I’m A boss”. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@joycharles1055]

Lmao he's bill cosby... uhuhuh well before the charges

[@user-lj1ed6nd3r]

She said that she wants to be 100 years old on a stage talking about herself. That brotha dodged a bullet

[@jamarrallen2181]

Exactly & she don’t make more money lol

[@taurusknight3110]

When did it become where two people together are comparing what each other makes in a sense that it doesn't matter we love each other. Now relationships are more like business partners than loving, nurturing unions like it should be. Of course we have to live, but love always has been and always will be the motivator for we are going to do whatever is necessary to be together. Period!!!

[@jaysofresh3482]

As a man it doesn't bother me that my wife makes more than me. That doesn't matter to me. We make money to support US and have money to do what we need and whatever we want to do together. Plus my money goes to her anyway for amazon purchases 😂😂😂😂 she definitely gonna see this love u babe😂👀 Ps. My wife is everything to me. She motivates me in everyway. Things I never thought I could do I have done because she told me I got this and i could do that. My wife is amazing 😍

[@zoehenfen6154]

Right on bro these nigga stupid out here man I want my girl to make more money

[@PhantomOfThePsy-Opera]

Your wife must be checking your comments...lol...buster

[@TeeTee_214]

Lmao love you more

[@jaysofresh3482]

@@PhantomOfThePsy-Opera buster? Yeah you know nothing about me at all so ima overlook that.

[@California-king]

Until she gets mad

[@brooklynforever1990]

Ultimately they weren’t compatible.

[@willywill3835]

She still using KW name for clout

[@anthonytrufant8058]

The question is, "Through whose eyes do you define yourself?" If you live your life through the eyes of others, you will always be at the mercy of what they think. If you only take your own counsel, you will have blind spots that will block your growth. The best way, I believe, is to learn to see yourself through God's eyes. When doing so, you can learn to appreciate your good points but also where you need to grow. Moreover, sometimes God will use others, especially family and close friends who are like family, to help us see our good points, bad points, and growing edges.