Gabe is correct in the WILL YOU GIVE ME A HUG question. My guy friends have educated me about this, never let a guy hug you if you are not comfortable, and they told me the same exact reason.
@nia512811 ай бұрын
Eugh! Terrifying to tell men no tbh.
@calebmorton261111 ай бұрын
@@nia5128don’t take this the wrong way but if you are scared to tell any guy no they should not be in your life. If you see all men this way maybe therapy is the answer. 99+% of guys out there care that your yes is truthful. If you are scared to say no then your yes is not a yes. If I ever heard my one of my sisters was afraid to say no to some guy he would end up in a hospital.
@NathanM4A19 ай бұрын
As a guy, can confirm. I never asked for a hug, but as a teenager, anytime a girl did hug me, all I was thinking about was her body touching mine. The brain of a teenager is extremely simple, more so for boys. So yeah, don't think a teenage boy who isn't in a relationship with you is hugging you for any other reason.
@annalee525411 ай бұрын
I’m Indian so periods are such a taboo thing especially back then, so I wasn’t really allowed to tell my brothers about it but I did it anyways. They all now know everything about the female body because I refuse to leave my brothers uneducated about a woman’s body so he can at least understand how to go about certain situations.
@amandaprice8710 ай бұрын
Please don’t take this as rude because I am just a curious young girl…. Why is it so taboo? When an Indian man gets married do they end up being able to hear about it from their wife or is it still taboo? I’ve always thought as an American woman that it’s weird that society talks about it but men or boys don’t really feel comfortable talking about it until their older older… or married. Lol I was 25 when my dad finally was secure to talk about it with me and buy tampons… lmao I’m his youngest out of 3 girls🤣
@lifeiscool1010 ай бұрын
I think it's cuz it's "girls problem" you know....well in India people think women are impure during periods and bla bla .... anything to put women down...let me tell you now periods are pretty normal and boys do know about them here, at least boys from modern and non-orthodox families.. like my mother would never let me go to temple during periods but she would also never stop me to talk about periods in front of my brother or father rather she would allow me to make my older brother do all the work with period as an excuse..
@emilym179011 ай бұрын
Would love an episode on how you guys celebrate holidays, what traditions you guys have/have had, and talking about thing like Santa, the Easter bunny, etc. with the kids
@braxtuhn11 ай бұрын
just wanna say i’m a guy and listen to your podcast. love the relationship conversations, mental health and learning about you guys and marriage as i walk with my wife through our marriage!!
@angelavanoosten110 ай бұрын
Love that!
@alondrasoto225011 ай бұрын
Growing up, it was the cat calling at 13-14 that made me realize I was growing into a womanly body. It was the weird looks from male family members like “oh she’s changed” and even weirder ones sometimes too..
@Lyuba_Nosovskaya11 ай бұрын
Oh, that’s horrible and gross 😢 But sooo relatable
@ME-34411 ай бұрын
So sad but so true unfortunately. It was kind of traumatic and made me lowkey not like my new body as a woman because it brought on these awful gazes.
@SaraSidwell11 ай бұрын
Cat crawling is so crazy because I got cat called a TON as a teenager, and in my 20s? Like twice. It's yucky.
@lugi259 ай бұрын
Sadly the truth. As a guy, Ik it's weird, so I always try to make any girl comfortable as I can. Just know that a guy will see a body(curves) on a female and he'll asume she's a grown women.
@chanibanny11 ай бұрын
Just gonna say, that as a girl, I didn't know I had 3 holes either. Only at about 15-16 when I started using tampons, did I ask my mother how I was gonna pee with it in. So Gabe, it's ok, you're not alone😅
@krutikasoni996811 ай бұрын
31:40 I'm a girl and I 100% agree with Gabe on this. Like totally true! its what people kept talking about in our school as well. Guys definitely ask for that
@talithanicholas180311 ай бұрын
Yesss!!! Talk about the awkward subjects!! The only way they get less awkward and more normal is if we 👏talk👏about👏it👏. Go you guys for being so honest and wholesome. LOVING this SOOOO MUCH🎉
@kranae11 ай бұрын
I’m obsessed with the podcast content! I loved your guys vlogs but the podcast form is so good, feels more like we’re involved in the convo and hanging out with you guys! 😊
@victoriaparks128810 ай бұрын
The awkward half smile is so me!😂😭 I do it automatically and then regret it instantly! It's such a weird face😂
@lindseypalame43811 ай бұрын
Wholesome childhood “I just loved Disney channel” Jess and I relate more than I ever thought we would ❤😂 I loved this episode!
@RiaSmile2511 ай бұрын
Sometimes, i am so jealous of people like Jess, who can proudly say "i had a wholesome childhood". These people seem to me that they start on a very different level than me or other people with weird/full of abuse childhood. I mean our nervous systems are different, we react different as a result of trauma responses, there are so many complexes to unpack once you grow up. I try not to think that way.. but sometimes i just wish i could say that. I wish i didn't have to deal with all these.. every child deserves a wholesome childhood 😔
@elliejohnson814610 ай бұрын
I had a wholesome childhood too, but I always think about that - what you explained - when I'm with someone who I know has baggage. It changes everything! It's not an excuse to be a crappy person, but it IS a reason for all of us to be gracious and always assuming the best of others. ❤️ I wish you the best in your journey of healing from your childhood and I hope that you receive the love you deserve.
@RiaSmile2510 ай бұрын
@@elliejohnson8146 aww thank you so much! I am so so happy you had a wholesome childhood!😁 It depends on what you do yourself too whether you had great parents or not great. So I am working on it!! I am on therapy and I am trying to create my inner (and outter as much as i can) stability. I've never expected to receive kindness and compassion on YT, so you've made my day! I hope you have a great day (and life haha🥳)
@melineze36609 ай бұрын
Gosh, such a relatable comment 😢
@keisharoy44239 ай бұрын
I relate to this so much. I look at my friends who have a wholesome family relationship and feel that going to their parents is a safe space for them. It is hard to grasp that it is such an accessible reality for them, yet not for us. It's horrible to think that once you grow up, you realise you were robbed of a happy and normal childhood, which no kid deserves to go through. But, I feel as though people with these experiences become the best parents because they want to give their children what they didn't have.
@KristasVlogs11 ай бұрын
I had the same wholesome childhood as Jess! I know exactly what she’s talking about with most of this podcast!
@beautyandbrainz11 ай бұрын
I’ve experienced the “can I get a hug” in high school only. It always made me feel uncomfortable, more so if we weren’t that close of friends.
@Cro94411 ай бұрын
You don’t feel tampons when they’re in. However, if you aren’t bleeding a lot and then take it out dry, it hurts really bad. But if you’re bleeding a lot, you can tell, and then it doesn’t hurt to take out. It’s definitely a feeling when you know to take it out but also we know not to leave them in very long so we pay attention to the time. Hope this helps!
@alixg125211 ай бұрын
Although you do feel them if they aren’t placed right 😊
@castillomomma11 ай бұрын
I love you guys!!! Jess, Gabe is right on the hugging. Every Man's battle will wake you up on how guys are. Not their fault, just how they were wired. That's why I don't give men frontal hugs anymore. I do a side or keep my purse (crossbody) between the both of us
@ShuklaAayushi11 ай бұрын
Ohh I cringed so hard remembering one of these incidents! Yikes 😅 there are some guys who don't even say anything and just go in for a hug.
@nia512811 ай бұрын
I do this too
@harmankaur477911 ай бұрын
Gabe is absolutely right on that hug thing!!!
@may-collins18811 ай бұрын
ABOUT THE HUG THING : I think it depends on the guy but my boyfriend's "can i have a hug?" is definitely his flirting technique to initiate the first kiss. And when he asked me that on our first date, it was clear for the both of us that "can i get a hug?" was code for "can i kiss you?" PS : I said "no" the first time he asked 🤣
@Thatrandomguy101011 ай бұрын
Unfortunately Gabe is right about the High School guys hugging thing. Young guys need to be taught by their fathers, or other older men how to treat women properly and not think of them in such shallow terms. Sad but true.
@nia512811 ай бұрын
Happens with men of all ages
@panashemaphosa642011 ай бұрын
She's completely correct about the food sharing😊
@aalienh11 ай бұрын
I agree more with Gabe personally haha. If we're going to share it needs to be established before we order 😂
@shaunahuguley11 ай бұрын
Just here to say the cup is amazing (I also thought I would spill everywhere and haven’t yet after a year of using it). It has literally changed my life for the better 😂
@lydiejeanie11 ай бұрын
The cup is super handy, but is bad for your pelvic floor unfortunately 😢
@malisehargrove897110 ай бұрын
I loved the convenience of it however I definitely noticed a difference in my pelvic floor so I stopped using it. A big issue was the suction and it not properly breaking.
@alissajo4311 ай бұрын
JESS 🤣🤣🤣 “you brought up this question so we could talk about how jacked you are” 😝 they’re so stinkin cute!
@ditsydaisys11 ай бұрын
Gabe is 100% right about the hugging thing. Ive been told by one of my past guy friends that thats why he hugs me and other girls 💀
@Emily-900511 ай бұрын
I feel like the feeling of having a period is hard to explain, it’s not a feeling that guys can physically experience. Normally I don’t feel it but when it comes out a glob I can feel it, it feels so weird. For me I don’t change my pads if my flow is medium. If it’s heavy I will change it every couple hours.
@JohnNPL11 ай бұрын
Oh I'm with Gabe on this one. Guys definitely want to feel a girl's body when they ask you for a hug. Its because once you start viewing girls as the opposite sex every touch is a huge deal be it a handshake, a hug or whatever.
@withjoylizryan10 ай бұрын
Definitely worth trying a cup or disk! I hated tampons and felt pads were gross and using a cup makes the day easier, and I just change it in the shower. Disks also self empty while you pee!
@tanayaatre554511 ай бұрын
switched to cup about 2 years ago, and it's such a good lifestyle change. Jess you should definitely give it a try!
@kayleedrawdy-main268711 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh, defenitly would reccomend the salt mensturual cup. (Pinkish one). i prefer pads mostly too unless im swimming then i liked tampons, but i tried the mensturual cup awhile ago and couldnt get it right but watched videos and informational articles, anywho, tried it again in the c formation, and im literally obsessed with it. You cant get toxic shock syndrome from it, can wear it for 12 hours, i only do it during the day, and depending how heavy your flow is you only have to change it like 1-3 times a day, and you just rinse it off with water or unscented soap made for the cup before inserting it again. I also wet it with water before inserting it which helps, but It holds a ton! I thought i would spill it everywhere too but literally easily just pushed down and pulled it out. There sometimes is a weird suction feeling when taking it out but, i didnt leak, or have to worry about it. Then you sanitize it at the end of your cycle and can reuse them. Cant even feel it if its in correctly but theres different kinds deonding if you have a low or high cervix to see how comfortable it is.
@ShuklaAayushi11 ай бұрын
Listening to your podcast feels like sitting down with friends after dinner and having a chill conversation. Interesting questions 👍
@carolina8084911 ай бұрын
Love love your podcast I just wish the intro clip wasn’t so long and choppy. I get that it’s small clips about each topic but I find myself skipping 1-2mins just to get to the beginning of the video lol I’m not hating I truly love the show it’s just a pet peeve, idk if I’m the only one 😅😅
@amyadams587111 ай бұрын
I love when jess and Gabriel go off topic and just banter
@kranae11 ай бұрын
Also story time, this was in regards to guys coming up to you topic. I was in Barnes in noble the other day, looking around, I dropped my keys and this guy that was walking next to me went to pick them up, when I was closer to it, so it was awkward but I was like ok he’s just being nice. And then he said merry Christmas and cute keychain.. a few minutes later I’m in the Bible section, and I see him casually walk up like as if he’s looking in the same section. Within a minute, he addresses me again and says hey I think you’re really pretty and wanted to know if I could get your number. I panicked and didn’t know what to say lol so I said I was dating someone sorry. And then he proceeded to chat with me about well he figured if it was meant to be he would see me again etc.. 😳 at this point I’m trying to politely remove myself from the conversation. I ended up buying the book and left. I then went to target, it was in the same shopping complex. I was in the clothes section and I looked over and I see him! Looking at girls clothes right next to me… I immediately got weirded out and left. I couldn’t tell what was happening, that didn’t feel like a coincidence. He had to have followed me the minute I left Barnes and noble. I understand guys need to shoot their shot and that’s ok but don’t do that guys 😂
@BethanyShaw11 ай бұрын
JESS TRY A DISC!!! They’re life-changing and so much better than a cup. I am a heavy period girlie too and I only have to empty a couple times a day. In the past, I had to use the giant tampons and change them like every hour. It works like a tampon but it holds more and the best part is there is no more scent and yucky feeling in your undies. I use the lumma and it’s my favorite!! Discs are also better than cups because you can use them during sessy time. They are the best and that is a hill I will die on.
@mariapaulaortiz43711 ай бұрын
About the pee streams, I don’t know if we can make it slower, but we can definitely make it stronger by pushing and stop it for a bit by using the muscle called “pelvic floor muscle”, which controls the release of urine, and alsooo, it’s good to do exercises with that muscle like squeezing (which by doing that stops the pee streams) and releasing, so you don’t have problems when you are older by having incontinence because the muscle is weak. But don’t try to stop your pee streams every time and for long, because it’s also not really good if you do it like that
@LyndsayNJohnson11 ай бұрын
Going off the first question, I had a guy come up to me and say “we’re still good for dinner on Thursday at 7 right” and I kindly had to let him know I was married😂 felt so bad, commended him on his confidence but oof 🥴
@aroundandback11 ай бұрын
YOU NEED TO TRY THE CUP!!! Changed my life!
@babyblondiebeauty11 ай бұрын
Girls can definitely control their stream lol. My mom always told me it was good to practice starting and stopping peeing bc it would build the muscle and control for later after giving birth. 😅
@soullessnight653911 ай бұрын
Actually Gabe was right on this topic. It isn’t good to stop and start your stream. I use to do this as exercise also, I can’t remember exactly why but, it is bad for you.
@xkarenxv11 ай бұрын
I actually heard it is good for you it tightens the muscles , it’s basically like kegel exercise- which are good if you have a loose pelvic floor or just gave birth - but it’s probably healthier to do kegel exercises when you’re not peeing.
@saffronh992610 ай бұрын
Not a guy but I think you are both right about the hug thing. I think accepting the hug is a cue that they’ve gotten a step further and at the same time their little guy brains are excited for the physical element
@lazydaizy624011 ай бұрын
Gab is totally right about that hug thing 😂
@aidylweiss.11 ай бұрын
"Like a faucet sort of vibe" 😂 I'm dying!!
@abell.653211 ай бұрын
did anyone else laugh at the way jess says "tattoos" lool
@soullessnight653911 ай бұрын
How? I’m Australian so I guess it sounds completely normal to me
@abell.653211 ай бұрын
@@soullessnight6539 yeah thats why its funny to me. not used to hearing it like that with the accent
@kellycroke361411 ай бұрын
Taddoos 😆 obsessed
@abell.653211 ай бұрын
@@kellycroke3614 exactlyyy lol
@ashleymichelreads10 ай бұрын
I agree with Gabriel when it comes to the hugs
@seanpeck433310 ай бұрын
"So first of all I don't remove it when I go pee....his look of total disbelief is hilarious
@nr770111 ай бұрын
37:33 It's not that women are attracted to the financial status of a man's job, I think it's also what the job IS. Some women will prefer a man who does physical labor through firefighting or construction, others might prefer a man who's a teacher because he works well with kids, others might prefer a man who works hard by leading an organization. The financial side is a big part of it because men can show themselves to be protector by providing resources to a woman (security), but it's also the personality and work ethic that goes along with the career (hardworking, dedicated, leadership, etc.)
@alexlubbe11 ай бұрын
Also, as far as the “can I get a hug” bit, as a man, I would have to agree with Gabe. Guys say it because they want to feel the woman’s body against theirs. If they wanted to go to the next level they wouldn’t need a hug to do that.
@Armygirlsdad11 ай бұрын
I personally think on the creepy question that two guys can do and say exactly the same thing. One will be deemed cute and the other deemed creepy, and it all depends on whether the girl already has interest in the guy or not. Not sure if I'm explaining it correctly or not. Edit: I'm an old dude. Hugs have the definite benefit that Gabe stated. Jess is incorrect on this one.
@soullessnight653911 ай бұрын
Whilst I agree, guys need to understand and put themselves in the girls shoes. The same would be true if the roles were reversed. If a girl they deem pretty approaches them, they feel like they just entered heaven😂 but, if it is a girl they deem unattractive, would laugh about her to his friends once she left.
@josiediaz10833 ай бұрын
i met you guys in person a couple years back and you guys were both really sweet, i didnt think jess had a bad resting face.. this was in LA
@bliss716611 ай бұрын
As an Aussie I love tampons without applicators and when I was studying abroad in the US I literally couldn’t put a tampon in because they all had applicators and they made it harder for me to put it in. I agree with Jess, it’s so much easier just to put it in yourself
@spencerfennell667010 ай бұрын
Gabe is right with the hug part
@hunnaspain1811 ай бұрын
You guys are so much fun this episode was really fun and definitely TMI but still really funny
@alyssaschloss-p6d10 ай бұрын
Gabe is correct about the hugs. I have them do that to me all the time
@ciaramarvin299511 ай бұрын
Jess as a person who feels the exact same way with tampons I also hate the feeling of being in a “blood diaper” try a cup. It’s actually so much better!! Just imagine you’re struggling for money and needing pads or tampons they’re so expensive!!! The cup lasts like a little while and when it’s in I really can’t feel it! I hope it helps!
@aidylweiss.11 ай бұрын
This was a great episode!!
@kaylascornerr9 ай бұрын
I’m living for the Gnomie comment ahahah its got me giggling
@anestassia634611 ай бұрын
Lol my husband thought that the wings on a pad stuck to a woman's thighs!😂 Jess you have to try menstrual discs they are life changing! I hated tampons and would tolerate pads but found them still so uncomfortable and gross. Now I only use menstrual discs! Try flex cups, they are disposable discs that way you can try and get the feel of it before buying the reusable ones😊
@Kayedsouza9 ай бұрын
Gabe’s reaction at flirty guys 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@omomirokhum78811 ай бұрын
Gabe passionately explaining his stream game invention is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
@thecoldhardtruth13909 ай бұрын
as a 24 year old male, yes high school guys just want any form of physical action they can get, and yes just for a hug that's the reason, gabes right with that, high school boys that is
@asecmimosas45367 ай бұрын
As a guy on the hug thing, I think it's more nuanced than that, and I disagree with Gabe in general. I don't really ever ask for hugs from girls. The one time I can think of, in college all the guys would greet each other with a handshake and the girls with a hug. Once I was leaving a room and there was a girl there who I absolutely wasn't interested in, but I said bye to her, then thought better of it, and walked over just for a quick hug. And she sort of chuckled. And based off that chuckle I was like, oh, that hug probably wasn't necessary to complete the goodbye, and maybe somewhat unwanted. So now like, I only hug a girl when she initiates. 95% of hugs, like greeting hugs or goodbye hugs, good guy technique to not be creepy is to do like a side hug, place your sternum solidly on their shoulder bone. Zero breast contact. The very occasional hug where you hug the body is like, a close friend or relative in a really emotional moment you want to cherish in some way. But to Gabe's point I think that's too broad. Sometimes guys will ask for a hug if it's part of a pattern or practice to greet/part with hugs, not because they want to feel you up per say but because they feel indignified by the fact that you didn't think to give them a hug when you walked in, or before you left. Which is also a bad reason to ask for a hug but not solely creepy.
@ColourfulXO3 ай бұрын
Dunno if someone else has said it in the comments... But, in, Australia, we do have tampon applicators (tampax). We don't have a lot but at least two brands that I've used. Also, you can buy a reusable applicator online!
@juliao661211 ай бұрын
you neeeeeeed to try a cuppp!! it changed my whole relationship with my period
@thecoldhardtruth13909 ай бұрын
I missed my chance to ask her out, but as a fifteen-year-old boy from Australia i was way too nervous and realistically I think it was funny it never worked cos many years later, they together now, and one of you tubes best couples so things turn out better anyway
@shiracharif77397 ай бұрын
Australia does have applicators 😂 the tampax brand
@amelliawarouw648611 ай бұрын
Australia actually has tampons with applicators, not very common but we do have! The brand’s tampax
@georgiajumeaux649011 ай бұрын
As a girl, we can absolutely control the pee stream 😂
@trinitydiary13 күн бұрын
When I first shaved my legs I was in high school and I got in trouble for it and had sooo much anxiety around shaving
@soullessnight653911 ай бұрын
In regard to men approaching you. In my mind, if a random guy has the confidence to just come and approach me out of the blue, my first thought is, how many girls has he done this too. I straight away would think he is a player and not one to trust. Maybe, if he was completely awkward and you can see that he is freaking out😂, I would not see him as a player. For the guys in the comments though… I think the only time to approach a random girl is if prior to approaching her, there has been eye contact between you two. Though, at this point you need to read the air… is it a look of interest from her or a… omg why is this guy staring at me. But please, never approach a girl if there has not been any prior signal that she wants you to.
@megisalueders10 ай бұрын
Gabe talking about hierarchy and women’s attraction to men who can provide- Just tell us you’re a Jordan Peterson fan. We won’t judge you. 😜 haha I thought this was a super interesting conversation to listen to though. Appreciate the honesty you guys always bring with you. And the fact that you’re not afraid to admit the awkwardness in life. My husband and I were both homeschooled also so it resonates. 😂
@Jenny1407810 ай бұрын
can y’all do a Am I The Asshole type podcast and give your opinions on stuff that would be really fun and cool
@Blumj011 ай бұрын
Hey, I am from Germany and we have also Tampons without the applicator. And for all of you who use pads and are not really a fan - try reusable period underwear! It is not like a diaper and is less wet when it is full. Or try Cups or discs. They can stay longer and you have less mess. Also, it is more environmentally friendly and it saves money!
@nia512811 ай бұрын
I live in Europe. I don’t use tampons anymore but I preferred the ones without the applicator. I think they are made with rayon. So it expands when wet as opposed to the U.S ones which seem to already be expanded in size.
@דבורהמדינה11 ай бұрын
BRINGS BACK MEMORIES of Gabe thinking a pad is on the skin....LOLOLO
@aprillewis585910 ай бұрын
In Australia we do have tampon applicators. I don’t know what brand but I have seen them and people in my family use them
@thejefferyallen11 ай бұрын
The carnival game is genius 🔥
@emmarosefisher993110 ай бұрын
Regarding pee stream: it's controlled by your pelvic floor muscles, which are used to pee, for bowel movements, for birth, lifting heavy objects, etc. Women are more susceptible to weak pelvic floors (which can cause all kinds of problems like painful sex, pee leaks, and problematic labor. It's not a good idea to stop your pee stream (that contraction is called a Kegel) because it can cause UTIs and weaken your pelvic floor
@MandeepKaur-hg7et11 ай бұрын
Love your guys podcast 😂❤️
@hellihello23339 ай бұрын
For anyone interested, this is what I'd say about the period questions: For me it feels more like drops of blood coming out. I mainly use tampons and if you push them in deep enough you shouldn't be able to feel it at all. Jess said that it's harder to pull out when they're full but I disagree. When they're full its easier cause the blood makes it more "slippery". If the tampon is dry it's hard to pull it out. In my country the description on the box even tells you that you shouldn't put a tampon inside, if you're not on your period because of that reason.
@KytiaLamour11 ай бұрын
Hearing them talk about periods just reinforces the fact that they are really weird and hard to fully explain. Yet, we just get used to it and keep on doing it for years and years. 🤷🏻♀️
@melanyanguilar562011 ай бұрын
I’m a girl and I actually didn’t know we had three holes 😂 I thought our period and our urine came out of the same hole until like 3 months ago 😂
@lifeiscool1010 ай бұрын
I thought so too before I got my periods
@esmeraldagems94872 ай бұрын
My last relationship worked as I was the eater and he was the garbage disposal. He would eat whatever I couldn't, or the food in the fridge that I forgot about. And that was one of the very few things that worked well in the relationship lol
@adrianruvalcaba389711 ай бұрын
A very happy podcast is awesome
@camryn0411 ай бұрын
laughing so hard with the period questions omg!!
@mayaestephan434811 ай бұрын
Def gonna start using the word, “legeterian” from now on
@adrianruvalcaba389711 ай бұрын
My girl is so beautiful and happy 😁😁 we could be somewhere turkey this week
@jemimadeolinda178711 ай бұрын
This POD was legetarian
@naomikabazzi60228 ай бұрын
Lovvvee this podcasttt
@lindseylucy980711 ай бұрын
I really love this episode!
@alexisgoff85911 ай бұрын
Jess! You should try a menstrual cup or disc. I use the disc and I can’t feel it!
@szethlopen135010 ай бұрын
Gabe that pee idea is brilliant
@victoriaparks128810 ай бұрын
Omg Gabe not knowing anything about periods is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
@megisalueders10 ай бұрын
Also homeschool boys are literally the worst with the “Can I have a hug” thing. We have four boys and I’m trying to teach them that if it’s a social situation where they feel like they have to ask, just assume it’s a no. It makes the girl feel safer and doesn’t put the pressure on her to have to tell someone not to touch her.
@haleytherunner11 ай бұрын
And the ad before the video started was about periods haha
@MetBySunlight11 ай бұрын
Arent we (particularly women) supposed to stop mid pee as an exercise? Ever since i had my first baby 8 years ago i have always been told to make sure i can stop mid pee otherwise i'll have pelvic floor issues. But reading these comments, people are saying we shouldnt stop mid pee?
@rebeccaarama58911 ай бұрын
Yeah - should not stop mid stream. I was told that too but it is much worse to do that! Find some actual pelvic floor physics to follow and you’ll get some good advice. The belle method, and the bloom method are pretty good - I learnt lots and also from other accounts too (these on instagram)
@mememexD10 ай бұрын
My favorite couple ❤ love both of you! I'm a follower since 2016, that's crazy ❤
@amykent693410 ай бұрын
Actively pushing pee harder can put pressure on your pelvic floor muscles. Just be careful doing that as could completely ruin it and loose control of your bladder
@AshleyJade1810 ай бұрын
YES it is definitely easier for me to NOT use a tampon applicator.. I've tried both (in my 22 years of having a period) and i have never been able to figure out the right positioning with an applicator.. Definitely easier to just 'stick it up there'
@georgiajumeaux649011 ай бұрын
Absolutely agree with gabe about the hug thing. Guys absolutely wanna feel the body lol 🤢
@adamturley199411 ай бұрын
As a guy both of you are correct in regards to hugging girls lol.. Although leaning more towards Jess personally!
@laurasebastian603610 ай бұрын
Noo, the tampon doesnt hurt when its full, it actually hurts less when you take it out cause its wet with the blood. It does kinda hurt a bit when you havent bled much and its kinda dry. And you know when to change it cause you feel that the blood is leaking through your leg or into your panty, meaning the tampon is full, so its not absorbing anymore