BULLIED into Working 24/7??? What "PUA" means in China 职场PUA？美国脱口秀演员教你说NO！

This week there were some instances of office bullying, including character sniping of a famous singer and a company that put tents in their offices to make workers think crazy overtime is normal.
Shout out to A Qiu for coming on the show, as well as my own cousin, Shira Appell! If you're interested in learning more about Therapy with Shira, go to ShiraAppellTherapy.com or follow her at @pilatesandtherapywithshira on Insta!

[@ww8818]

謝謝你製作這一個影片 我遇過情緒有問題的主管不斷人身攻擊跟貶低員工能力 這是我之前沒遇過的事情 權力不對等讓人懷疑自己 才了解有制度跟健康情緒的工作環境是多麼的重要 亞洲勞工加油 為自己的權益作更多的爭取獲得更公平的保障

[@y68pan94]

谢谢杰西，希望你多发一下大家已经习以为常的不健康现象，真的很有启发，给你点赞👍

[@zhaohyled]

头一次看到一个thumbdown为0的视频。

[@jesseappell6674]

这时代，这真算是个奇迹 哈哈

[@jadelightsword]

So....you still never told us what pua stands for. I'm assuming it's three chinese characters whose pinyin spelling starts with p.u.a.? But I can't figure out what they might be. Wanna enlighten us? Or is your cultural exchange persona a fake, and you actually have no clue what you're taking about, so you resort to making ugly faces at the camera in an attempt to cover up your ignorance?? (Jkjk! I'm just trying to learn from your guest today.)

[@jesseappell6674]

Hahah yes this is all for the faces :) It stands for "Pick Up Artist", but because 1) that phrase means something different in English and 2) my Chinese audience already knew what it stood for, I kind of glossed over it here and the youtube audience suffered for it T_T

[@jadelightsword]

@@jesseappell6674 wait, it really stands for pick up artist, in Chinese too? Why? More like put down artist! This defies what I know about Chinese "acronyms." For example, MM= 美眉，or SB = 傻逼。I assumed PUA stood for something in Chinese too.....

[@路哥-s2z]

Jesse, 你刚过30岁生日？按中国说，长得有点太着急了。爱你

[@JenineA]

sure I get what PUA entails what on earth does it stand for if it doesn't mean Pickup Artist ? I'm so confused

[@TennisGvy]

Haha I never understood how Chinese use "PUA" until now

[@linlinsam]

美國老師講的真好，知道如何應對了，沒錯，其實我不比他們差

[@xz7183]

杰西，你太幽默了！

[@amitofou88]

迟来的:生日快乐🎉

[@grantgaylord9490]

非常好！If you’re not already you should try to put this on 微博 as well as misc. Chinese sites like 百度好看. Also, I’d suggest you make the beginning similar to Andrew Schulz IG videos style that prioritizes immediately grabbing the audiences attention, followed by an in depth discussion of a topic with comedic bits sprinkled in, since it works best for social media apps where people are scrolling and have to decide early on if they want to keep watching or not. This social-media-centric shift, if combined with your own unique style of 脱口说 as well as your own individual attributes you already provide could make a very successful social media show for Chinese audiences. 加油！

[@jesseappell6674]

Thanks for the advice! It's up on all the Chinese social sites. Good idea about the beginnings though, I know what you are talking about~

[@josephcong4689]

生日快乐^_^

[@shipeterxi2169]

lmao

[@zhang4351]

非常有帮助！否定我的人都是坏人😂😂😂😂😂😜😜😁😁

[@Ellie-eq86q]

非常有意义的节目！！如何面对职场霸凌是要学习的！不枉费网民在微博上冲锋陷阵呼吁大家要正视这个问题，而不是对人身攻击妥协哈哈

[@misstary13]

That’s awful, immoral and degrading. And what’s more, I thought i was getting another laugh and cultural experience. Tell me you didn’t choose this subject because of your own anxiety. Are you ok? Also, kudos to your sister, I’m sure her job is really tough right now.

[@aixiangding4240]

wow....

[@John仰望十架的栋栋]

Shira 挺漂亮的，我想跟她交流学习心理治疗职业的心得和经验

[@stephenwu8781]

_”An artist’s way of getting revenge”_

[@angelahang6941]

自从疫情work from home以来，没有上下班之分，有活就得干，非常不爽。

[@ericwu8061]

沙发

[@victyra]

谢谢 Jesse，我以前一直没弄明白什么是pua。

[@bookofeye]

Wow, I’ve just realized what’s PUA! Thanks Jesse! Hahahaha

[@BoTian]

happy belated birthday Jesse, really enjoy your videos

[@longlangago]

Jesse 微信要在美国被禁了，你怎么看

[@mayihaveacupofteaplz8388]

我这么久也不知道PUA是啥看了视频才知道

[@debl5848]

Happy belated birthday, Jesse

[@默默-z1b]

最后反击那个内容。327个电话那事，不会有法律问题吗🧐🧐🧐🧐

[@Helloworldkyky]

很明顯是辭職後才這樣做，而且接下的日子都一直是病假就可以了。

[@马爷-m8i]

连续看了3集，这集最完善，阿秋那段特别好。哈哈

[@richgao1810]

Jesse我觉得你的表情可以拿来做表情包啊

[@quinnq9864]

哈哈哈哈 👍🏻

[@LionelGoh84]

I learnt new things today in an entertaining way.

[@ronhoover5490]

Jesse, this is one of your best.

[@知行合一-c4r]

嘿，杰西你表妹结婚了吗？

[@changliu3137]

北京想念你，希望快点来中国

[@xunyangful]

Super!

[@bookofeye]

Hahahaha

[@emmagic2990]

谢谢艾杰西！ 非常用心的内容！

[@sampanriver]

生日快乐

[@dunnjudy]

帥氣小弟！👍

[@АдилетМаданов-о3п]

👍

[@picofpv2447]

哈哈哈哈，好伤心

[@77qq33]

艾杰西真不错👍🏻

[@casablanca2778]

Hi Jessie, im your avid fan, very much love your show. Your such a great speaker and talented comedian, Althou you can't go back to China..Im sure Chinese people around the world still admire you， We love you!...from Philippines... 菲律濱¡

[@huewang218]

4:45 如果也叫Appell，会不会是堂姐啊？

[@miyinan]

真不错！继续！加油！