Jessica Alves: This Is My First Blind Date As A Woman | DATING DIFFERENT

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Jessica Alves is back and ready to go on her first blind date as a woman. Transgender woman Jessica has been living as a woman for 3 years and has found dating really difficult. Her previous dates have been really awkward because men didn't want to be seen with her in public and preferred to be hidden away in the corner at restaurants. Jessica hopes to meet a man who will accept her for who she is. Will her date Shojon live up to that expectation? Will the two hit it off?
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[@kimzapanta91ify]

Shojon was not "trying" to impress Jessica. He was legitimately sincere with his actions but Jessica was more focused on herself. She ran the date like an interview.

[@itsinesantonio]

Yes!

[@ladyJustis]

That must explain a hoodie on a first date

[@Candicedickinsonllc]

@@ladyJustisno one wears a 3 piece suit to go to happy hour. Have you seen everyone else’s outfits on here?

[@teresacalladine7479]

I agree. I think she just likes the attention.

[@altnarrative]

No exaggeration, almost everything he said was a flex. Some were more hidden flexes. Listen again.

[@eo6637]

Jessica: There is something you need to know --- I have 7 million followers. Also Jessica: I want someone who dates me for me not my fame!

[@kezzokav5905]

*followers who are bought

[@oliverwortley3822]

he’d have like 20,000 followers if he didn’t buy them.

[@user-kd4ri6kj3x]

😂😂😂😂

[@WrecklessRinne85]

Can you guys do the obvious right thing and get this guy a DECENT DATE with a good person? He's clearly one of the good ones, and I'm pretty sure the majority of us would love to see him again!

[@onetwocue]

Youre talking about Shojun right?

[@nelly8592]

Ohh yes, I really would like to see shojon again. Very nice interesting guy.

[@Chriiiss_8]

There's two guys in this video. You have to be specific.

[@bithazhr]

@@Chriiiss_8 LMAOO. if Jessica reads your comment, he will turn into Juressica Park🦕

[@hay9623]

Wow 😮 she was so rude to him! She thinks so highly of herself and just dismissed him. And let’s be honest here she looks a complete mess. Her false lashes were hanging off.

[@sheilamaposse2318]

I totally agree with you But many people will say he (she) looks great😅 which is a lie

[@hay9623]

@@sheilamaposse2318 absolutely.

[@p4nd4licious95]

Yes! Even her hair line matches her stuck up personally

[@naughtyskyline]

also she cant move her face, and i think she wants a super rich guy (sugar daddy) of high status, to match her expectations,,,, he was been kind and polite by not asking rude questions, she wants it to be all about her,,,,,

[@adamdavis5383]

He is super narcissistic that’s why and entitled

[@JimmiAlli]

I love it “I don’t date often, my last date was a week ago”.

[@VideoInteresante2024]

LMAO

[@twilightskiesx]

😂😂

[@chrissyknowsitall5170]

Yeah I caught that one too. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rjomaois520]

Very funny. I don't even know she's famous.😅

[@JimmiAlli]

@@rjomaois520 according to her, she has 5 million followers.

[@SabaSaliba]

When you’re that fake, how on earth can you expect to have anything in your life that’s real. Her bitterness doesn’t only end in her procedures, it also in her personality, additionally this fails her.

[@alp7928]

Being a woman is not about nails and hair and surgeries and fashion. Yes! I've said it! She was super rude

[@katjaxxx7353]

the one who is rude is you

[@Zee-ob1pe]

That’s what these trans think being a woman is. They hypersexualize women. It’s so sad.

[@rebeccalavoy6655]

He thinks that he is a woman 😂🤣😅🤣😅😂🤣😅😂🤣😅😅🤣😂

[@janicenm9147]

Finally someone say it. HE is not a woman.

[@coleylatika]

@@janicenm9147 my point

[@SarahLBanks]

This was painful to watch, she was so rude to him.

[@oliverwortley3822]

the audacity of it lol

[@RestauranteBeiraMar]

she racist

[@simpleplanfan011]

Shojun, you were perfect. Asked all the right questions, fun, and charming as hell. That chocolate wrapper joke was hilarious. Jessica is weird as hell and is not ready to date because of that horrible attitude. I wasn’t even in the room and I felt the tension radiating through the screen.

[@Sunshinegirl0707]

Agree

[@mellymetanoia2851]

Wow. Jessica created such a negative atmosphere and then tried to make it seem like it was Shojon's fault for it. Isn't that called gaslighting? Don't narcissists love to gaslight?

[@EjPwned]

She’s definitely self absorbed, narcissist? Maybe. She knew where the date was going to go from the beginning. You can tell she’s vain and superficial.

[@Lanafox1020]

Real women on dates are usually kinder.

[@bugbug4665]

Agreed!! Was very uncomfortable to watch it

[@rumham7466]

Right! This is terrible. The way Jessica is even sitting while asking questions. Stiff and judging. And I feel like Jessica felt a certain way like he should have known who shw was or some weird sht like that. Or maybe looked at him like competition

[@risaandjesus]

Yup!

[@AshleyMagnolia_]

Shojun: *Doesnt ask superficial questions about her celebrity status or make her gender the subject of conversation* Jessica: “I want someone who loves me for me and not my celebrity status but for who I am as a person”

[@stephanielove2662]

She looking for a liar, a cheater, and a deceiver.

[@Brwniee95]

That’s what perplexed me! That was so backwards 😵‍💫

[@Bert_de_Wit]

It's not possible to be in a relationship with someone like Jessica. I don't think she's capable of putting focus on anyone but herself.

[@missld6856]

Yes Jessica really pissed me off on this date - she treated the guy like crap when he was treated her with the utmost respect.

[@Lanafox1020]

Real women on dates are usually kinder.

[@forreal1276]

As a straight person I would like to know I am also going on a blind date with a straight person. No negotiations. Case closed. End of story.

[@user-si4kn9gz4o]

u right........ no funny mess...

[@HagerTX]

Yep. I'd expect a true, non mutilated hetero female.

[@Mark-mu4pj]

Organic being a woman, she looks anything but organic lol

[@skunkie110]

A real organic woman is.. well, naturally a woman. This is a man who wants to be a woman. I mean, people can take hormones, have surgeries and dress as the opposite sex, but they'll always be whatever gender they were born as regardless. It's just biology. I think being trans is more of a mental/psychological thing because I don't believe there's such a thing as "born in the wrong body."

[@odeefromdawic]

Last time I checked, the nose has nostrils facing the ground. So you know that Dr had to go WAY to far in on that nose job if her nostrils are parallel to my face

[@danielprates1783]

just a deranged person w $

[@biggieshakurjones7891]

@@odeefromdawic he has a Voldemort looking nose

[@Lanafox1020]

Real women on dates are usually kinder 😊

[@fairyjewels]

She wanted him to ask what she wanted to talk about. She wasn't interested in getting to know him, she just wanted to go on about her procedures and how different she is.

[@viennam7243]

He*

[@coleylatika]

HE ,YOU ARE DISRESPECTING REAL WOMEN

[@fairyjewels]

@@coleylatika lol chill.

[@originalyou4069]

@@coleylatika 💯 exactly...👏👍

[@christopherdiaz7790]

and this is all about...ego ill,selflove, completely our of control craving for attention and being in spotlight disabled personality...without it those poor pll are suicidal.

[@oliviadanes4498]

He was really sweet and he didnt deserve to be treated that way. He was the ideal gentleman.

[@Seadeddy]

😂😂❤

[@Brooke-qm6zp]

This man clearly knew she was trans so there was absolutely no reason in him asking about it. He was trying his hardest to show he didn’t care about it honestly. He was too sweet. She seems ugly inside & out. The man she wants she is never going to get. The way she dismissed him I’m sure was because she physically wasn’t attracted to him but baby take what you can get.

[@austinwiebe3801]

Yeah, seems like it would be pretty rude from his point of view to ask “are you trans?” but for some reason that’s what she wanted, as if she’s constantly worrying if people can tell she was a man

[@itsinesantonio]

Hahahahah 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lexivivid8073]

Exactly!!! Even when she was rude, he remained polite and afterwards he didn’t speak negatively about her. He’s WAY nicer than I would have been😂😂

[@JLPerryTV]

Rodrigo isn’t even attracted to himself, that’s why he keeps going to have surgery

[@Xxelviroxx]

LOL babes, everybody with a brain cell knows jessica is a transexual

[@EjPwned]

She comes off as sweet and kind on television, but you can see how vicious and rude she can be especially when it comes to dating… jeesh, get off your high horse.

[@Lanafox1020]

Real women are usually kinder on dates.

[@ttyyte3109]

@@Lanafox1020 what are you implying?

[@winning3329]

Men's nature is to be aggressive and competitive and no amount of surgery or female hormones will change that

[@GrabinGears]

He*

[@Ljounieh]

Isn't this still television?

[@DogaF121]

“As a woman, I want to have a family, kids and look after someone… “

[@LoveLupe300]

This man is awesome! Jessica needs a therapist not a date.

[@DC45193]

lol

[@itsinesantonio]

Yes hahahaha 🤣😂😂

[@lexivivid8073]

Right, he was so nice even when she was extremely rude!

[@Deezhan]

Too late for a therpist. He should've gotte one before surgery #1, not now - after surgery #1 million.

[@jessieqk12]

@da a nothing you say is going to change the fact that they feel like a woman and it doesn’t change your life at all if they want to present as one.

[@yasminx16]

The man is a saint. I hope he got paid for this.

[@Lanafox1020]

Real women on dates are usually kinder.

[@Iloveyoursmile]

He will.

[@Nicole-fb6fr]

Yeah, he's actually a pretty decent guy!

[@sarahbasto6520]

He surely did. There are some very weird things people do for money.

[@theuniverseisme432]

They were both braggadocious

[@oliverwortley3822]

“i don’t know if he realises that i am a trans woman” LMAOOOOO, nobody can surely lack that much self awareness

[@marilynwillett804]

handsome he's a nothing.

[@datboibutters]

So many actual women look trans now with the surgeries, fillers, and filters. Can’t tell anymore.

[@MissNebulosity]

Jessica had her walls up like nobody's business. I personally found Shojon to be so fantastically charming and fun.

[@adamdavis5383]

He*

[@travism9339]

@@adamdavis5383 🏆

[@ComfyPyjamas]

@@adamdavis5383 *his

[@tj-8422]

He seems like a sweetheart & deserved a better experience. She was rude, arrogant & pretentious.

[@lottex379]

I feel like she always has her walls up unfortunately

[@kellyjohnson3120]

What a monster. He was a sweetie and Jessica was rude, judgemental, self absorbed and gross. Dates aren't going well because she is just plain nasty.

[@dianarichardson3316]

Scary looking too

[@connorchops710]

@@dianarichardson3316i know she’s HIDEOUS!!!

[@bookworm9615]

Jessica looks more like that alien from Saints row who created the Steel Port dimension 😂. I'm being serious, it/her/that whatever you call it does not and will never be a woman. This is so messed up

[@FrancisLeonNina]

@@dianarichardson3316 do I look better than MR Jessica ?

[@marysamson9228]

PERIOD!!!!

[@moosehead1183]

As soon as he said he would "over shine" her in his hometown, you could see Jessica shut down. She seems very self absorbed

[@iamme4494]

So a 40 year old person with gender identity disorder and mutilalted their body and seem like it’s painful to speak is talking down to this person.

[@adamdavis5383]

Lol they are narcissistic that’s why

[@adamdavis5383]

Gosh, this person looks so fake with the lip fillers and the Botox; it doesn’t look good. Regardless, it's still a guy, lol. Regardless of being a woman or not, you’re still that person in that body.

[@jamieturner4682]

Without the money, the confidence wouldn’t be that bold.

[@vakrumper18]

calling it for what it is

[@thatguyfawkes2328]

Lol Welcome to the leftist dystopia in which we find ourselves living in.

[@RedefiningBodybuilding]

I've been watching this trainwreck for years, back when Jessica was Rodrigo. Obsessed with cosmetic surgery then, and still is now. It's absolutely clear why Jessica is still single. The outer experience can be chopped and cut up all you want but when your spirit is ugly, it bursts out.

[@v4leriya]

I feel so sad for her that I can't even judge her, because of her many unresolved psychological and emotional issues. She almost exists in a different reality.

[@Oliviaswarden]

Exactly. If there was a third gender she would eventually need to be that to be ‘happy’

[@sunshinenday3439]

The nose.

[@startingbrandnew3055]

This "thing" is an empty plastic shell. There is no identity there, no male nor female identity. Anyone who needs millions of followers and other people talking about him/her/"it" is not a real human. Humans have a soul that doesn't rely on other people's admiration and approval. This one sadly is just a shell. P.S. I have no problem with transgenders but these kind of people give me the creeps even if they look and act perfectly normal. Sadly there are too many of these fake human "wannabee"s are out there....

[@jtarantula3390]

I feel the same about Nikita.

[@TheSarah730]

5:35 “I’m a mental health advocate” Jessica: 😐😐😐😐😐😐

[@acikoci]

The guy is so nice and sweet - and Jessica is a self-absorbed monster.

[@Bert_de_Wit]

Fully agree

[@jamesjerome6942]

She's actually gorgeous outside, but her personality...yikes, she needs to listen to herself and seriously reflect. She may be glamorous, sultry, seductive, but she's far from sweet.

[@Lanafox1020]

@@jamesjerome6942 That man is beautiful outside? That man looks so fake and plastic…

[@jamesjerome6942]

@@Lanafox1020 this lady, looks natural, she's an absolute doll

[@asmrsleep3079]

@@jamesjerome6942 literal Barbie doll

[@desireegaiter1229]

I didn't like how Jessica treated John. I felt like she was JUDGING him and not getting to know him. She treated him like she was treated in the past. Not cool

[@itsinesantonio]

Exactly!

[@f.l3450]

Agree, she was very judgmental.

[@altnarrative]

He kept trying to big himself up. It’s not appealing because it indicates that he’s in cognitive dissonance. Saying he’s The Man but doesn’t actually feel like he is.

[@Lasirenagirl]

I had second degree embarrassment watching this She threw her own insecurities onto him This actually made me trust confidence in myself When you’re confident you’re actually kinder and a better human being

[@pennypillow4445]

i want to meet the surgeons who did this to her......

[@mazwide9400]

A lot of surgeons!

[@marionhtjtlu]

*him hahahaha!

[@daydreamer9888]

Too many to count. When 1 says they won't do anymore procedures Jessica just finds another surgeon

[@EjPwned]

@@daydreamer9888 3rd world country surgeons at that

[@sharleenjj8548]

@@EjPwned 🙄

[@JumpOffHisNutts]

Well at least Jessicas personality matched her looks.

[@EjPwned]

😂😂😂

[@Whysoserious305]

Haha!! Facts!!

[@kiyobot123]

Trash

[@eugeneferguson8480]

Hahah facts are painful hope she read this

[@jetsetjayyy9572]

Jessica completely RUINED her face 🤦🏻‍♀️ the nose is botched BAD an her eyes hardly blink. Poor Shojon he tried 🤷🏻‍♀️ she wanted him to be overwhelmed by her appearance an ask all the questions she wants him to ask

[@gilliandey2490]

The nose is from a cavadar a dead body as the real one fell off .not joking

[@jetsetjayyy9572]

@@gilliandey2490 Damn 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@oimatestudy4864]

Omg she’s so rude and delusional. I’m unfollowing her on Instagram as we speak.

[@viennam7243]

He*

[@MoMo-br4bp]

He

[@xienela]

Why would you follow him in the first place 💀

[@tamzenkarma]

He He He He

[@user-zy4wv7yx1z]

@@tamzenkarma Michael Jackson?

[@78vette11]

“I don’t know if he can tell that I’m a trans woman”. What an entire mess🤦🏽‍♀️

[@maryjs4878]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@ponysoldier6770]

Can be clocked from a mile away 🤷‍♂️😂

[@Xxelviroxx]

hahahaha the delusion is inssane! hahahaha the fact rodrigo thinks he looks like a woman is hilarious hahaha. you don't need to look at the busted surgeries to clock him, just look at his hands and feet and listen to his voice hahha

[@JLPerryTV]

That’s how you know he is not a real transgender. Transgender people don’t really say they are a transgender individual unless you want to SPECIFIC detail. Otherwise a transgender woman will simply say she is a “woman”, not “trans-woman”.

[@blacksun106]

@@Xxelviroxx exactly. Put them next to the real Mccoy and the differences become apparent right away. The delusion and vanity has his top charts here. Lolol. Hilarious.

[@professionalboycottservice7872]

This is not a woman. This is a man playing dress up

[@paulcasini4759]

Spot On If Thats A Woman Im The Pope And I'm Jewish !!!!!

[@yasi.joon.13]

I felt for Shojon. I think there was a reason why Truly picked him for this blind date because he seemed so open and welcoming. However, unfortunately, as much as it has been fascinating to watch Jessica go on this long journey towards self-discovery, we got a hard glimpse at the narcissistic side of her personality.

[@z.h.8454]

I agree with your statement. This so-called woman was so full of herself, that she never gave him a chance. He was asking all the right questions.

[@thatguyfawkes2328]

Lol women

[@christianwag3015]

You meant his personality...lol

[@nemoxx96xx58]

You mean he*

[@nemoxx96xx58]

@SaffireButterfly I'm illiterate for stating a fact. He is a he! You can't change reality. No matter how many surgeries he tries to get. He will always be a man

[@vodkasmadka]

I’m surprised she can breathe….🫢

[@r.r911]

Lol

[@Xxelviroxx]

through her mouth, yes.

[@danielprates1783]

she looks like a crazy old wonan ,and shes not even 40

[@heyitsshay6058]

STAWP. 😶‍🌫️

[@gift2622]

Am surprised too🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kathleen460]

I feel bad for Shojon. You could tell he immediately was shocked and was increasingly more uncomfortable sitting there with Jessica. Man or woman they have had so much surgery where they dont even look human! I hope he got compensated for this.

[@holliethomson6147]

That poor man had a lucky escape

[@blessingncube2935]

I laughed hard yo

[@flower_7890]

He handled the rejection perfectly, didn't get upset or anything , well done to him👌

[@heaventen166]

He was probably over the moon to dodge the bullet!

[@skunkie110]

He probably didn’t think of it as a loss.

[@j.c7719]

‘The rejection’ 😂😂

[@educational1651]

Lmao.. Why would he get upset? Hahahaha

[@Heretowatchvideos123]

He was happy deep down

[@Provocateur991]

The dude in the blue hoodie was super cringe the whole time. Both dudes were

[@toolbag5465]

The hand movements irked my soul

[@damesurina2629]

"I don't date often. The last time I dated was last week." Me: *I think i dated once in my previous life* 🙃

[@fantasiazplatkami]

right!

[@chae_young2809]

Ikr 😆

[@moxievintage1390]

Lol I thought she was going to correct herself to LAST YEAR lol🤦🏻‍♀️

[@Gingermycat]

When Jessica found out what he did for a living, her response was very negative. Her saying "you didn't try to get to know me?" Was false. He clearly doesn't care about her fame or number of followers. He was trying to get to know her as a person but she didn't want to talk about it 🤣 girl I think my journey following your journey stops here

[@lexivivid8073]

Yes same! He was SO polite even when she was rude. I actually like to see more of him instead!!

[@AmaanStorm]

Yes same! I never liked her as her male alter ego. Then I tried following her journey as a transwoman and started to see a glimpse of a nicer side of her. Perhaps her vulnerability during her transitional period made her seem nicer, but now she's completed her journey, she's become a narcissistic individual who wants nothing more than the conversation to be about her. I've watched four post transition interviews with her now and it's quite obvious she loves to talk about her self. She's her own favourite subject. Every single time she has to drop in the fact she's done over 600 TV appearances (yawn) and likes to mention how many followers she has. She's the epitome of today's society that just live in a vacuous, narcissistic bubble, seeking shameless attention and self promotion. I tried to stick with her on her journey, but after this video, she's alienated a lot of people.

[@naughtyskyline]

like how is he supposed to get to know 'her' in a 10 minute scripted date,,, he was polite and asked about Brazil and her family rather than the obvious,, she wanted him to say 'ooh what operations have you had, lets talk all about you'

[@JLPerryTV]

And Rodrigo should be the last person talking because he lives off of his family and post nude pics on OnlyFans

[@Lanafox1020]

Real women on dates are usually kinder.

[@Debanize]

Jessica's date is so lovely, embracing and tolerant. A fine gentleman that many women would enjoy and respect.

[@monikel]

Shojun is a true gentleman. He said he is mental health advocate, therefore he saw "Jessicas" before. He was tactful and showed diplomacy in this uncomfortable situation.

[@katiebunny3396]

She was really mean to him for no reason.

[@ADDIE.]

She was rudeeeeeee. Talking about her followers and shows. Is she out of her mind. She should be thankful he sat there and looked at her face. Acting like it was a normal face. Which we all know is NOT. and she is complaining. Girl bye

[@gqlovalova]

She seems super vane. She can’t deal with a normal good guy. She’s needs a supermodel who praises her every five minutes.

[@namelessgrace6319]

She just wanted to talk about herself the whole time. That guy was super engaging and nice. What else do you want on a first date?!? You have to be a pretty big ahole to say what she said to him. Plain rude.

[@adamdavis5383]

He*

[@derekrobertson60388]

I can see why she is 39 and still single

[@adamdavis5383]

@@namelessgrace6319 Hes a Narcissistic

[@thatguyfawkes2328]

She? Lol

[@colleenk7140]

I’m gonna b honest I think she was disappointed because the sweet guy was not in nice clothes or looked like he had money. She definitely didn’t expect to go on a date with just a casual everyday chill person so I think that’s y she treated him differently. It’s a shame though

[@georgia8592]

I doubt the poor guy imagined he was meeting this creature she is lucky he didnt retreat on sight.

[@skunkie110]

I think you're right... she wants to be fine wined and dined with some hunky millionaire or billionaire dude on a private jet. He was too "normal" for her... or I'm sure she considered him "low class" since he wasn't decked out in fancy designer clothes.

[@setme4ree]

Or racist

[@Vasilia4]

Honestly he was dressed like a bum. He could b a rich rapper for all I care, but a hoodie, hat, sweatpants and sneakers are NOT it for me.

[@RA-wp6th]

100%

[@wobina]

That man honestly inspired me to be a better person.

[@o_0malik]

She was so rude. Get over youself. People only watch to see what new surgeries she'll get not because she has any talent.

[@jamieturner4682]

Rodrigo got kicked off big brother for sexually harassing another man. Go figure.

[@mazwide9400]

@@jamieturner4682 wow!

[@felonious_unite]

@@jamieturner4682 i thought he got kicked off big brother for saying the n word a few times while describing his sexual preference?

[@marymartino1168]

I would bet she paid for those followers on IG.

[@missfox9122]

- I have a hairdresser appointment *wears a wig

[@user-qp2cw3po4h]

I'm dead 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ralfscheidemantel3856]

Needs a psychiatrist appointment more likely

[@imbookedandverybusyhoney]

😂😂

[@RA-wp6th]

I don't get your comment, as there are hardressers that put the wigs on and style it.

[@777MAG]

@@RA-wp6th thank u, but u know what? They rag on normal females for wearing fake hair (especially BW) so I don’t know if I should defend this. I always figured maybe men like those wigs on everyone else. She has the complexion to get away with it. You know when a WW wears fake hair it’s typically an acceptable beauty move.

[@NoirOsain]

Ask about me... Talk about me... Talk about my TV shows, Instagram... Me, me and me...

[@lukaurshibara5837]

Him: "When I'm on stage, I'm the only chocolate rapper with a chocolate wrapper." Jessica: -_______-

[@pendafen7405]

I rated that line. A bit corny, yes, but quite cute and cheeky as well. At least he was trying to get a laugh and giving connection a go.

[@j.c7719]

I laughed 😂 Jessica was rude.

[@cd9400]

I thought it was a good line and definately would've giggled 😆

[@Lanafox1020]

Real women on dates are usually kinder.

[@pendafen7405]

@@Lanafox1020 Yes, from early childhood girls are heavily (and unfairly) socialised to be far more polite than men. 'Jessica' behaved on this date exactly like a rude, vain, narcisstic fuckboy male would.

[@sbradley1308]

Came here from snap chat just to confirm everyone else saw what I did. Jessica is going to be looking for love forever if she doesn't let people in and get to know them.

[@TokyoDollGhoul]

That part right there.

[@Lanafox1020]

Real women on dates are usually kinder.

[@TokyoDollGhoul]

@@Lanafox1020 That. Right there.

[@viennam7243]

He*

[@johnhareiel5118]

Rodrigo ain't ever gonna find love! Ain't nobody lining up to be with this Sh*t!

[@portiatheagent]

"I don't think he realizes I'm a transwoman" lol girl he know

[@bethanyfja]

Im cringing on so many levels right now......

[@bugbug4665]

Im Brazilian and I follow Jessica since she was Rodrigo, I never would imagine her being rude like this. Im desapointed cuz he was so nice asking about our country and her answer was so empty. “ there is never coming back” whaaat 😢 feel really sorry for him, he deserves better

[@annco9801]

you are so kind cause I still call him a him.

[@winning3329]

Unfollow that beast

[@amgooder]

She looks like she was made in China not Brazil🤪

[@Ljounieh]

Right, she's usually so sweet and kind

[@SambreakerSasaki]

​@@Ljounieh guess I was right about the fake personality to match the fake literally everything else

[@justiceformichael5556]

He is too polite. I can sense he was mortified but did not want to be rude. A straight guy ok with a trans woman? And a plastic one

[@deannaofcourse8443]

For someone that talks about others being judgemental and rude to her she sure was extremely rude and judged him from the second she met him !! Wow 😳 she was being so hateful and rude

[@chocoladrops]

If you're not happy before the transition you will never be happy after it.

[@babyblue8959]

She was rude to me on her instagram too lol.

[@deannaofcourse8443]

@@babyblue8959 why I don't get how someone who loves to talk about how everyone treated her a certain way and judged her would be so rude and intilted acting towards people maybe she's getting judged because her major attitude problem ! I hate when people expect to be treated like a queen while she turns around and acts like she's to good for people and just disrespectful sorry that she was rude to you too at least now you know what kind of person she really is

[@babyblue8959]

@@deannaofcourse8443 ye, but I said something like the doctors did you bad with the last operation, like she could not close her eyes. And I said poor doll.. maybe it came off as rude from me, but I really did not mean it that way. Then she became rude back. But also told she wants it that way. I have followed her for years beacause of it was interesting and I don't wish her the strugle she have been trough. I could have said alot back to hirt her but I did not want

[@deannaofcourse8443]

@@babyblue8959 I don't think what you said was rude you were being honest it's not like you attacked her or called her names lol she just seems very bitter and lonely 🥺 but now I know why she is this way she's rude the way she treated this blind date was so wrong she literally acted like she was to good to even talk to the poor guy

[@JadePorchett]

She’s such a narcissistic mess that wanted him to be obsessed with her and the whole date be about her! That’s not how a date works sis. 🙄

[@RoIeModeI]

@@franksanz1044She’s a women. A narcissistic and disrespectful women, but still a women.

[@Amore27]

She’s what my night mares are made of !

[@mrslove8256]

Awkward. He asked loads of questions lol she's the one who didn't ask questions! Completely gone off her but he did well in that situation!!

[@Galliano-we7xl]

Im a transwoman myself and I can tell Jessica has not found herself yet. She needs more time. Her date was a very nice & open guy, being seen with her in public requires a lot of confidence. I know it might sound rude but it is what it is. He will easily find a lady. Jessica has to find herself first. She is Very insecure…

[@johnhareiel5118]

Rodrigo gives Trans women a bad name

[@SindyJ37]

That is really good feedback.

[@RA-wp6th]

The guy was asking good questions, but Jessica kept cutting the conversation short. Then at the end, criticised him for not trying hard enough. Lol.

[@missJlove1989]

So know we know why Jessica is single. So disrespectful. Shojon was just amazing

[@sophiegolden]

The guy was cool, but she was disrespectful toward him, living him like that, she will find nobody with her attitude

[@chelseacorbin1525]

She's the type of person that wants her mind read.

[@timthorn4064]

Poor guy. He did really well given the circumstances. I hope he finds someone worth his time and who doesn't look like their face melted.

[@prettyllady]

i'm trying not to laugh because your comment was kind of mean... but what you said is hilarious! and i can't help it lol 🤣😂😂

[@lynn1823]

LOL

[@lc6504]

😂😂😂

[@ellesf1606]

😂😂

[@alicekonaduyeboah5271]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂like caramel mixed with vanilla and hot chocolate

[@viviane_casella]

"For me it's organic to be a woman". 😂😂😂 No, she didn't say that with a straight face while having that enormous amount of plastic and synthetic hormones in her body! I'm dying! 😂😂😂

[@Lanafox1020]

Real women on dates are usually kinder 😊

[@viennam7243]

He*

[@KimBlaQue]

🤣🤣

[@zoilalulu3798]

That's a pretty TERFy comment. She means it's organic as in, it comes naturally to her to be a woman.

[@keanufrance9051]

He’s

[@Sheyda-Mia]

i was surprised to hear him say"she is stunning" cos i d just be scared sitting with her! 😨 Also, she was saying "you didn't try to get to know me", well!! was he was supposed to openly ask "are you transgender, did you have 100 or 200 surgeries"? He was being a gentleman by avoiding to become intrusive probably.. and she says i dont want ppl to be with me for my fame, the guy ddint even have a clue who she was !

[@Heretowatchvideos123]

Bro was 🧢🧢

[@kerina6594]

He is absolutely fun! He wasn’t trying to impress her, he was just being kind. She was being very cold and hostile for no reason. There is no reason for her to be so up herself. He was a great guy.

[@danielprates1783]

she was so rude,than when she said " i hve a hairdress appointment" ,i wld say 2 her " of course,that wig u hve now,looks like a horse bhind"!

[@elongado6959]

But he was black. "Jessica" is known for being racist.

[@DesertVox]

SCARY is not enough to explain the feeling. It's other-wordly scary.

[@austinwiebe3801]

My man dodged a bullet with this one

[@hentsuperm2]

totally agree.....scarier than scariest...

[@blacksun106]

That's 99 percent of them. Let's be real here.

[@xristinarose2409]

She expects him to ask about her life but she barely asked him about his life

[@TheCarlScharnberg]

Are people actually surprised? Jessica is a narcissist, that much has been obvious since the very beginning. I also believe Jessica will de-transition once there is no more attention and gigs to get from this.

[@MNcoquicoqui]

🔨 nailed it.

[@ivydark9741]

I don't think she will. I think she will get bored of being a Jessica Rabbit and will want to become an elf or a mermaid or something else.

[@byekitty5153]

I feel so bad for him. She said there was "so many things he should know about her" yet when she elaborated on it she just flexed her net worth to him. He genuinely seemed like a nice guy who was interested in her personality

[@iwillbuildmychurchwithsue8975]

This dude was desperate in my opinion he doesn't need to stoop that low

[@Xammie98]

As a trans woman myself, I catch myself being a little narcissistic and I stop myself but Jessica just kept going and saying the total opposite of what was really happening. The dude clearly was asking questions and engaging, she seemed very dismissive as everyone is saying. Being a trans woman and dating a man that don’t care that your trans is rare, it’s her loss not his

[@Kingz4Kings]

Hope everything is going well with you and ur love life stranger 👋

[@Bert_de_Wit]

Good observation. And I just can't get over how she surgically changed every part of herself. She looks horrible. She should take an example from you.

[@Qupidcutie]

No one said she told him she's Trans. He even said he didn't know alot about her

[@Bert_de_Wit]

@@juicysmolliette2852 I think there's a difference between narcissist and being really self conscious. Trans women have to pay much more attention to their appearance (make-up, clothing, posture) than biological women do. This can be easily confused with narcissism. In this case howerver, yes, Jessica is EXTREMELY narcissistic. Sad.

[@Richesfam]

Gross. You and Jessiz are still male biologically. Stop living a lie. Alright Uncle Xammie and Uncle Jessic meet each other in HELL one day if not repentance being done

[@imperialgardens69]

This was painful to watch. She practically demeaned and disrespected Shojan. He seems like a really sweet guy who didn’t deserve to be treated that way.

[@moniquebarber1474]

He thinks he deserves a straight, white billionaire.

[@asmrsleep3079]

This one surprised me.... He was trying to get to know her as a person... She just wants everyone to treat her like a princess and know she's famous to get attention... I'm sorry but she needs help. He was trying to get to know her in a nice way she just wanted to be recognized for being famous.

[@Lanafox1020]

Real women on dates are usually kinder.

[@SindyJ37]

Shojon is so sweet and handsome. He asked plenty of questions and frankly he's dodging a bullet with Jessica

[@malinachainey1564]

I understand wanting and needing to protect yourself or having some walls up when you first meet someone, but Jessica was just rude the entire time to this man who did nothing but try to be kind, to get to know her, and to let her know he accepts her for who she is. I get we do not see the whole date just snippets, but that seemed like it would've been such an awkward date. Was it that she didn't like that he was also successful? Cause everytime he tried to let her know that her "status" isn't a thing for him and he has his own thing going on she just looked at him with a look of disgust.

[@adamdavis5383]

He*

[@adamdavis5383]

Gosh, this person looks so fake with the lip fillers and the Botox; it doesn’t look good. Regardless, it's still a guy, lol. Regardless of being a woman or not, you’re still that person in that body.

[@travism9339]

@@adamdavis5383 The hilarious thing is....HE thinks he looks good. This is disgusting.

[@wellok5778]

If I were to hazard a guess..Jessica wants a baller. The guy was nothing more than respectful and did not focus on Jessica's reputed celebrity status. Jessica is one who seems preoccupied with status and was very dismissive to put it mildly.

[@teresacalladine7479]

I totally agree with you. Yes she was so rude He was a nice guy Accepted her for who she has become. And that's not going to happen so often. Not everyone will be able to do that. I really believe he wanted to get to know her. He tired hard But Jessica did not care nor gave him the chance. Bigger fool her. Her loss .

[@shanecompany1239]

"Someone who wants me for who I am, not my celebrity status." LOL he didnt even ask about that or seem to care when she brought it up?

[@alanasnowdee5884]

As a trans-woman i will say this, if she keeps up with that gimmick, she’ll be eating alone with no suitors! No woman “Biological OR Trans, is too good to be a Lady!” She was rude!

[@vix_xie]

Does not want to be judged but she's super judgmental🙄

[@adamdavis5383]

Gosh, this person looks so fake with the lip fillers and the Botox; it doesn’t look good. Regardless, it's still a guy, lol. Regardless of being a woman or not, you’re still that person in that body.

[@AWKWARDCONFIDENCE]

Just like my ex, so critical but hates it if people do it to him 😒 he was a narc

[@vix_xie]

@@AWKWARDCONFIDENCE I see... Looking back at video, that makes sense. She's always been about her looks even before transitioning. She looks botched plastic. Dang... I'm not usually this mean but her attitude just triggered me

[@dekev7503]

You can't be ug1y on the inside and on the outside, pick a struggle

[@candace27co]

☠️💀💀

[@broccolihighkicks3857]

😂😂😂😂

[@dyteriaswinson8370]

God-damned can I take this?

[@PracticalPerry]

ShoJon was very polite and respectful. Jessica was hypercritical and did not give her blind date a chance.

[@conjestarmwashy]

Am worried about her health 😬 Can she even breath well

[@queenlii4334]

She can’t, just hear the way she breathe 😂

[@EvaBoglarka]

Her behavior seems controversial, she says she prefers someone who really wanna know her, but when the guy started to ask normal questions her reaction was dismissive. She emphasized how many followers she has, but it is relevant information in this context? She needs somone who is impressed by her lifestyle, not her personality? I think the guy was open to know her and respectful even if there was no chemistry as she said but the way how she left him there by saying she needed to go to the hairdresser....hmm I hope she will think about this date and how it ended.

[@anonbananon7827]

“She needs someone who is impressed by her lifestyle, not her personality” THATS EXACTLY IT!!! Because maybe she isn’t very confident about her personality either. Just a thought. You are spot on.

[@eveann5750]

In case you all forget, she was warned from big brother for using the N word

[@Lanafox1020]

Real women on dates are usually kinder.

[@viennam7243]

His*

[@MoMo-br4bp]

he. A man man man

[@ghostoflazlo]

"As A WoMaN i wanna Be A mOtHeR" Real women dont speak like that 😅😅😅😅

[@derekrobertson60388]

I can see why she is 39 and still single

[@adamdavis5383]

Gosh, this person looks so fake with the lip fillers and the Botox; it doesn’t look good. Regardless, it's still a guy, lol. Regardless of being a woman or not, you’re still that person in that body.

[@jamieturner4682]

He ^

[@derekrobertson60388]

@@jamieturner4682 It*

[@mysteriesuntold3393]

@@derekrobertson60388 😁🤣😂

[@dylanm3181]

Shojun was an absolute class act. I don't see him dating such a narcissistic and self centered trans woman. If she had just been a bit more humble. He will most certainly find a better person to date. Such a nice dude

[@RA-wp6th]

Only "a bit" more humble? Lol

[@ryuno2097]

Whether he/she was Rodrigo or Jessica, when you're a narcissist, you're a narcissist regardless of what gender you want to be. Good god he was so self-absorbed with themselves.

[@Steffililje]

She was beyond rude. Shojon was so sweet

[@Torirme17]

Okay I just watched this video on Snap. And I literally was so enraged by the way that Jessica treated Shojon that I had to see if I could find it on KZbin just so I could see if others were as enraged as me. Shojon literally said that he’s dated Trans women before and only sees love not gender and Jessica stormed out because why?!?! I don’t understand what Shojon did wrong. Like what? He ONLY asked about your time in Brazil. Normally you’d start talking about that and then go into why you moved to London, and then tell your whole story. I mean that’s at least my experience but what do I know.

[@melizapayne01]

Lol I did the same 😂 I watched this on snap and looked for it on KZbin to see if people was feeling the same way I did! Jessica was so rude!!

[@amberchamberlain3935]

I literally did the same! I needed some reassurance from the comments to make sure I wasn’t the only one thinking she was being a really rude person, who has a major stick up her arse 😂

[@Torirme17]

@@melizapayne01 absolutely set me off!

[@odeefromdawic]

Same boat, like damn we know she got junk in the trunk but she expecting to be treated 18 year old cis woman. You are trans, past your golden years, your options are already slim ho! This guy isn’t good enough for you? it’s time to get realistic… she wants the self satisfaction of rejecting someone, she didn’t even try to relate to him.

[@sarahhe7828]

u know more than jessica i can tell u that much

[@Lovelyeoiam]

“I don’t want someone to love me for my celebrity status but for who I am” bro she was literally the one who bought up her celebrity status, she was making everything about herself she was so damn rude

[@asmrsleep3079]

9:06 "Not for my celebrity status but for who I am" GIRL he literally was trying to get to know you as a person and you get upset when he doesn't bring up your fame and fortune. Seriously!? "Stop it, get some help" Narcissist right here and it's pretty sad what this world is turning into :/ she's not gonna get what she wants if she can't even understand her own mind.

[@jth1987leb]

I was really surprised to see her be this way. Rather rude. She doesn’t want to be judged harshly but she judged this guy just on the first date. If you’re not interested that cool but this was just rude

[@lexyladybug81]

you should see the shows she was on when she was rodrigo

[@numetaltradgirl]

Right? Lol. “He’s just trying to impress me” then “I have 7 million followers and I’ve been on TV a lot”

[@steph678]

Thats a man

[@Lanafox1020]

Real women on dates are usually kinder.

[@viennam7243]

He*

[@inspectorfunk]

"I dont go on dates very often." "My last date was a week ago." .......

[@rebeccathumper9128]

Your only fooling yourself if you think people don't know your man.😂

[@Dadfromtexas]

She isn’t hiding the fact that she’s transgender

[@Deezhan]

@@Dadfromtexas No, but she assumed her date didn't know. Everybody knows, just by looking. Airplane pilots flying above her head can see she is transgender.

[@queenlii4334]

@@Dadfromtexas why she want people to ask her if she’s trans? She can just talk about it and move on

[@Xxelviroxx]

@@Dadfromtexas HAHAHAHA LIKE IT COULD! HAHAHAHA

[@tbanks2633]

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