4 Feminine Qualities Men Find WILDLY Attractive ⚡️

[@iammartinamihajlova]

Just as we are telling women to be more in their feminine, we should start preaching to men to become providers in stead of just wanting to be with us casually without any obligations or responsibilities, because in today's society most men don't strive to be providers they just want to hook up without any obligations, and we end up having to be more in our masculine energy in order to provide for ourselves, and on top of that deal with un-grown man children that just want to keep things casual. So we as women should definitely stop accepting that kind of behavior from men and instead DEMAND from them to grow up and become healthy masculine providers AS A COLLECTIVE, so that we can be more in our comfortable feminine energy. Thank you.

[@hopefull61256]

This is what lacking in our era.... there are very few masculine men around.

[@ashleypulido2042]

That’s right

[@fitwithbrittany2706]

Women have trained them that’s ok. That’s why this support women boss babe stuff is nonsense. These women who casually sleep around ruin men.

[@fitwithbrittany2706]

@@hopefull61256 because there are few feminine women for them to be inspired by and fight for

[@Rudelherz]

Men have been told, they are toxic when they tried to be masculine the past 20 years, now the are the way feminists told them to be. Which ist really sad for the feminine girls among us. However, a few good are still around. I got a wonderful one. ❤

[@jm8837]

#1. Actually take care of yourself. Physically, mentally. #2. Lightheartedness. The ability to slow down and enjoy things in life. #3. Not Forcing relationship to happen. #4. Invoke the hero's instinct.

[@Ana-rb7ws]

In regard to #4, don’t force anything. If you force or fake invoking the hero instinct, things will likely fall flat on its face later. It’s better to be yourself, and if he feels attached to you and wants to be your hero, that’s great. If not, that’s okay too.

[@samiira4581]

Thank you so much 💓

[@DarkFoxV]

The short version you wrote is better than the very bad advice the video tangents through. #4 is pretty sexist BS tho. Yes, everyone likes to feel useful/wanted. But also, cherish your guy. Get them flowers, or chocolates, or take them on a date, whathave you. Guys love that. That guy will think you actuallya re a keeper. #3 obviously don't force things to happen, but don't be passive/passivee-aggressive either. Guys absolutely hate that, and it's the worst. Talk to them, ask about their feelings, be respectful and Assertive. Guys also absolutely LOVE being asked out. #1/2 are just general life advice.

[@aylin7716]

@DarkFoxV I’m not sure about your point 3. Not that I wouldn’t show I love my future husband. I just think it wouldn’t be the actual thing that would make a masculine man(/my future husband) AcTuAlLy happy and satisfied. I have heard from masculine men that they like presents that would help with problem solving or have a sentimental value (why I’m not so sure about the flower part, chocolate might work who wouldn’t like chocolate 😆). And when it comes to taking him to dates, that comes naturally in relationships when you hang out with each other. But I still think deep down doing these that you mentioned wouldn’t be as valuable as other things a feminine woman could do which is using more feminine energy to “spoil” him - doing things he wouldn’t do for himself. Not sure if you are a girl or not… 😂

[@lisaluckman]

Thank you❤

[@mehmandst.94]

My father never had enough support and protection for his daughters and his wife, my mother had to accept many responsibilities, We also grew up completely independent, but in reality, We suppressed our need to have a man to do some things! Since we separated from my father, I realized how much a wounded and immature man can take away a woman's femininity, and sometimes I cry because of this.

[@taylor1741]

❤️

[@razannasser5534]

It’s so great you are aware of this !

[@mehmandst.94]

@@taylor1741 ❤❤

[@mehmandst.94]

@@razannasser5534 thank you💚

[@mehmandst.94]

thank you all for your support💜

[@judiplouffe7456]

“Feminine Energy is an Energy not a Look” Speaks volumes.

[@IreneWilliams-od8gl]

Ikrrrrr

[@DarcyPaige-hs4yx]

Good advise to take yourself, all good stuff.

[@OZ01209]

I think it's all encompassing and different for everyone. - "a look" doesn't have to mean physically beautiful. Like she points out, it's about making the effort to take care of yourself. For some women it's just fixing their hair and light or no makeup. Some like a lot of makeup, lashes, and nails. - to each their own. Find your own feminine.

[@kairinaminemix]

3 is so true. I thought this man I had a crush on was shy and might not have the masculine inclination to pursue because of this. So I almost confessed and asked him out first. But my feminine instincts told me to relax and be patient. “If he likes you, he’ll say so.” Surprisingly sooner than I thought, he did, and asked me out on a date. Even shy guys can be pursuers and very masculine. Let the guys pursue, let them lead, because if they don’t, it’s highly likely they’re not that into you.

[@heavendly]

I expected a ,,now he‘s my Hausband“ at the end of your Commend

[@breadoyle]

I think it is ok for a woman to ask a man out because even masculine men who like to pressure can be shy and unsure

[@DarkFoxV]

Yeah, most guys really like to be asked out. It shows you're interested and guys generally don't like games. it doesn't mean every guy will say yes, obviously. and it might be good to simply talk about each other's feelings. but yeah, asking guys out is the most feminine thing. @@breadoyle

[@aleksaola0619]

I asked my bf first and he is the most masculine man i have ever known

[@lillierose5304]

Yep. The same rules apply to every guy.

[@kam.26]

A weak woman can’t do things for herself. An independent woman can do it on her own. But a highly evolved woman can do it on her own but is confident enough to allow and appreciate when men help. And hell it’s a lot more fun to have a partner in life!

[@Himmiefan]

Well said!

[@lin3378]

I love this

[@sweetsimpleslowlife2709]

I used to struggle with accepting help from others especially men because I felt that if I allow someone to help me then I will owe them something in return. Now when they offer to help I gracefully accept it and move on with my life. If I’m able to return the favor I do and if not I don’t dwell on it. I just go with the flow and let life happen. We don’t owe anything to anyone. Be kind and be gracious and smile often. 😊

[@Lunarbell1]

Can’t stress how attractive it is to a man when a woman can cherish something that he does for her without the usual energy of ”so what you did this for me?”

[@cateramoore2668]

“Feminine energy is an energy, It is not a look.” Yes! I agree with this 👍🏾

[@stephenbennett5240]

As a man, sometimes I enjoy seeing what advice women give. 99% of her advice is spot on. The only thing she might have misinterpreted was that women should not push the relationship forward. Trying to make the guy happy and pursuing him is very attractive. Now don’t get this mixed up with forcing the relationship. That’s different, that is not how to go about things with men. Let him lead, but do show him how much you care.

[@888agatha]

wow tks, love this

[@mers6420]

Thank you for sharing this. i thought when pushing is not attractive at all. I will take that advice

[@DC-nw3uc]

So I have a question for a guys perspective.. I'm already married. But I don't feel like my husband is the hero. He doesn't lead. And it feels like I'm constantly forcing a lot of our relationship (intimacy is amazing though). I think I'm not letting him lead a lot. And I've definitely let myself go just a little bit. But part of it is because I feel depressed at this relationship dynamic. I do want to please him and I try but it feels like I can't get it right. I also used to be very playful and lighthearted but I've suppressed it because I seemed to cross a line too many times and upset him. Or he would treat me like I was being silly an immature. He's a good man. I don't want any hate on him. I just want some advice for me.

[@stephenbennett5240]

@@DC-nw3uc This is a hard one. Most men, like myself, like women to be lighthearted and fun. I think men tend to be a little more serious and they usually like the playful side of a woman to create that ideal dynamic. I’d say be yourself and see where it goes. Let him lead and keep trying your best. Also, a little communication never hurt anyone. That would be my advice to you. Sorry if I wasn’t much help.

[@thelacycottage5826]

​@DC-nw3uc Read Allie Duzett's book "Magnetic Feminism". Warning though, it feels old fashioned at first. Just Keep reading. I've seen huge changes in my husband.

[@mindy561]

You have encapsulated and summarized what my man has said to me repeatedly. My wounded feminine is sooooo deep it has taken me a really long time to let these concepts drop into my body. I had a damsel in distress mom who was single and my masculine is over developed as a result but I am feeling more and more feminine each day.

[@missmouth84]

I couldn’t agree more with this! My marriage almost broke down due to my masculine energy. My mum was a single parent & I filled the male roll growing up.

[@mindy561]

@Scorness you can relax, you are safe, youve got you :)

[@Magicisreal66]

Now, keep in mind- she said in the beginning of this video, (healthy men). But here's the caveat are you mad ladies need to know- The reason this world is so deteriorated and so incredibly dysfunctional, and a total mess- (just look at the ones that's been running and ruling for thousands of years now) . And it goes by the name of the (patriarchal Regime) not one single Divine masculine "real man" amongst them! And it has its Origins directly from the biggest lie and Fabrication ever told to the human race. "MAN (AKA, MEN) WAS CREATED IN THE IMAGE OF GOD, AND WAS (HIS) GREATEST CREATION. AND THE WOMEN, WAS CREATED FROM ONE OF ( HIS RIBS)- This was the catalyst that allowed him to become completely arrogant and a narcissistic sociopath, with a double standard mindset, and a belief system, that was taken out of the pages of a sadist handbook! Very few people are willing to admit this, and I know exactly why! And I don't give a damn what their excuses are cuz, the world will not heal without this being brought into the light- completely and totally once and for all!! And the women that are reading this, needs to know why there are so very few (TRUE DIVINE MASCULINE) "real men" in the world!!

[@barbiec4312]

Me too, at 62 years old.

[@mindy561]

@@barbiec4312 You''ve got this. :)

[@katiekaboom7747]

I love your bedroom as your background! Also love that your content gives us permission to be unapologetically feminine. 🥰

[@JillzGuerin]

💖💖💖

[@taylort726]

“We’re here to live, to enjoy, to experience, to feel” I love that. Sometimes I think that feminine energy is all about resistance because we also have to present ourselves with value, but being well-practiced at having boundaries means that you can implement them with grace and wait until the very moment that a boundary is crossed to address it and be positive about the fact that if you have that boundary, then you will be fine alone or with a man that will respect it and letting go of that attachment to the man fulfilling your needs in that moment as a mature relationship and distinction between treating the man you’re dating like a parental figure, which is unconconscious and a turn off

[@melissaschenk2649]

Dear Jillz, I watched your video and as an older woman I would just like to add something to your valuable input; instead of a young woman trying to discipline herself to have these qualities to make a man feel more comfortable with her as a woman, she might want to look for the man that brings these qualities out in her naturally. We are only meant for one person and if you have to force it, you will spend your entire life either forcing it or having your partner say, "you totally changed since we got married." And that would be true. That isn't fair. What he is looking for is a true mate who he naturally brings feminine qualities out in and she should be looking for that man that does that for her. When she is dating she should ask herself, "Does this nice young man make me feel like my best woman? Or am I putting on a show to make him like me?" If he is really bringing out the best in her, she should tell him and if she is not feeling her total best with him she should remain friends with him and introduce him to her other girl friends. Maybe one of her friends will find their life partner in him? He wants the girl who responds to him not he girl who attempts to be what she thinks will get her to her goal. She should be looking for the same thing. Marriage is for life. Find the man that brings out all your feminine beauty and make you feel like the most beautiful woman in the room not one who is responding to your disciplined approached. I do think your advice is great! I just think it should be what a man does for you not the other way around.

[@joyousbird9229]

This is a brilliant comment, thank you !!!!!!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I totally understand what you mean! My best relationship yet, was the one where the man brought out my femininity and I just felt my best Woman with Him ❤️ And vice versa 😊 it was very easy bringing out his masculinity and making him feel like a gorgeous man…. We just clicked and no one was pretending , not for one second 😇 Thank you for making me realize that, your comment is wonderful ❤️❇️

[@StellaChilinharova]

Dear your comment is what should be said first. No amount of bettering was working until I started asking myself these questions. Is he actually good for me?

[@dharmadharma3960]

Great point

[@olgagrinchak5029]

Brilliant comment, agree with every point😊

[@nanyonjosandra1892]

For sure it's the best idea every woman needs to know

[@CrazyYoTuber]

Men nowadays think in our feministic era this implies that women are becoming men.. So I when I start to embrace feminine energy I get told "handle it by yourself. you're a feminist" . To be in your feminine energy you need a gentleman, but this type of behavior is so rare. Since everybody seems replacable the need to invest effort into a woman has become so rare. I really get more support by my girl squad than by men by just being myself.

[@e.h-v.8070]

You are right to an extend. Don't give up! Notice how during the introduction she says "helathy masculine man" If you encounter a man who is not attracted by your feminine, polished and vibrant self, don't try harder! Don't blame yourself, don't fret! He is either homosexual, either psychologically not ready for a woman, both are not your fault and none of your business😅. Just save your energy for the helathy good man.

[@lilacflower4471]

thats not what being a feminist means lol im a feminist and id still really liked it if they helped even tho i know i could do it alone doesn’t mean i should have to

[@menikersantos236]

Don't give up

[@rimees]

That because those men you interact are in their feminine energy and not their masculine

[@CrazyYoTuber]

@@lilacflower4471 That's totally true! They think being feminist is kinda about becoming a man.

[@sarasullivan9361]

Yes! Being light hearted and playful is very attractive.

[@keepingupwithfrancine]

I recently started watching your videos I just say they are literally teaching me alot, I was once in a relationship with a guy that didn’t have much and I felt like I demanded love from him Because most of the financial parts I took care of it, it was the worst mistake of my life, thank God I left him ,and ever since I’ve been receiving the best treatment from man even though we aren’t in romantic relationships but they value me alot

[@krystanicoleeee6022]

Love this video! I really love how you mentioned your friend who does not wear makeup but takes very good care of herself! THANK YOU because I dont wear makeup a lot AT ALL and I am so tired of women acting like women who do not wear make up everyday are less than or just lazy or not showing a man out femininity like LOL I literally invested in skincare and take care of myself (while still having moments where I enjoy myself too!) soooo thank you for mentioning that part!

[@greciardz360]

Same girl! I’m into natural beauty. The only makeup I use is lipstick and that’s it, lol. I love my eyebrows, my natural color in my skin and hair, love to see my skin as it is with my freckles or reddish-pinkish cheeks. But I do take care of myself by doing exercise, eating more healthy, drinking enough water, being more positive, priorice my mental and emotional health too… and so on. I do love choosing my favorite clothes to wear, in fact my favorite style is girlie like dresses, skirts and stuff, lol. Sometimes I thought that I wasn’t feminine enough just because I do not know how to use more makeup and I do not feel like I’m being myself, but thanks to this exact example she mentioned I feel better!

[@lttlod1]

This is so great!!!! I've watched this 4 times today, no joke, while meal prepping and doing laundry haha! I have been so hyper independent for so many years that this feminine energy is so new to me and I absolutely love it! I know my person is out there and I'm going to draw him to me with that energy. I have had so many friends over the years who have told me to go ask a guy out. It just felt so uncomfortable to me. They said that's how they got their husbands, they initiated a lot. Now, years later, I see why they are not that happy due to mothering and demanding from their men like you said. The guys are all in their feminine or wounded masculine, I see it so clearly. I know I want and crave the healthy masculine!!!

[@karabomoalusi8810]

❗ ❤❤❤

[@sigadiouf4527]

I am very happy to learn from you, I am 38 years old woman who went through a nd now doing in depth inner work to bounce back in life...still single without children , although it is my biggest dream I life.

[@JillzGuerin]

Happy you are here ❤️

[@Radianty_Ella]

May all your dreams come true, Siga! 🌹

[@ciulacandreea5593]

You totally got this! You can have a family! Stay on the path ❤️🥳🫵🏻🍼

[@II-fd2pr]

Damn u fucked up im sorry

[@janiesuper3222]

Having been on both sides, in loving relationships and also single I've let youtube reflect back this hero idea that I never thought about before and I can explain it now. It's about letting a man being involved in your life. It's not about letting him pay or do chores It's about opening up to what you need and give him opportunity to step in but not expect it.

[@kristofergray6138]

Any women watching this in the Middle Tennessee area? This is solid information. I am learning how to be a masculine man and it encourages me that there are women learning to surrender to the feminine. Keep up the good work ladies. This work is important and affects us all in a great way.

[@MartineCarlsen-tr4ec]

People who try to be "Feminine" or "Masculine" are the exact OPPOSITE... The most attractive people is people who dare to BE WHO THEY ARE, people who don't give a shit for stupid videos like This!

[@888agatha]

👏👏👏

[@arrow2380]

​@konohonwoanataniageyouit's all about looks at the end of the day...

[@Himmiefan]

Just don't interpret this as the woman must be submissive. Being feminine and a doormat are two different things just like being masculine is not the same as being a jerk.

[@z_j8054]

Jillz...iam 21 now...iam learning lot of things from you...thank you so much...I want a older sister like you ❤

[@taslucky1439]

This hair color looks really good on u :) it suits u so much

[@mariiechan1323]

Hi Jilz, i looove your videos in general! and they have helped me so much! i was in an abusive relationship for almost 6 years and still recover from that. since september 2022 i‘m getting more into my feminine energy and attracted a masculine man without even trying. yesterday we had an open talk about our dynamic, which i already told him i like so much, because i can be in my feminine and he can be in his masculine. he told me he never new he wanted to be the leader in a relationship and never felt the need to protect and provide so much and that he usually never feels anything, but since we date he can connect more into his feelings and that‘s why he‘s so attracted to me. and it‘s all because of my femininity and his masculinity. i am unbelievably grateful for you opening my eyes about this topic! and i am so happy and grateful to be finally treated the way i deserve it ❤

[@hx.7lo]

I love her soft voice, it is incredibly aesthetic 🤍✨

[@jassielpeguero3373]

You've been an angel in my life. I was always in my distorted masculine energy before. Your channel, actually opened my eyes. I ruined a possible relationship with such a gentleman in the past, and I always wonder what it was... till a friend in common told me that he went scared of my energy and my behavior as a woman. He feared that, eventually, I will turn out to be another frustrated lady with a feminism complex. It broke my heart to heard that... I tried to learn from her how not to be such of a masculine... because, in the inside, I did felt as a feminine lady...also, I noticed that I just attracted the kind of men, that did not allow me to stay in my feminine energy, but the other type... *So, thank you so much to be so versed and clear on this topic darling*.

[@eggegg8181]

You just reminded me I need to be less serious and be more playful. It’s something I really struggle with at times. I find it difficult to truly let go and allow myself to feel positive emotions

[@prachiroy3871]

hey jillz...i'm from india and i wanted to say i love your aura...you are such a ray of positivity everytime i look at your channel i can just feel it ...i'm a scorpio but i must say i really appriciate how you cancerians are always willing to speard your nurture and positive aura around the world...i love you guys! thanks for being there my fellow water sign.

[@JillzGuerin]

Aww thank you fellow water sign!! 💙💙

[@binitapandey5400]

I'm scorpion, too. I have noticed that our zodiac sign is highly independent and sensitive of other's energy due to high intution power. So, it's really difficult for me to trust any man find him reliable enough to submit myself. Do u have similar feeling, or is it just me? However, high sex drive makes it hard to stay unbothered with no man in life. 😂😂 Such a huge trap, i feel. I have even ignored my gut feeling awaring me of dangers, to get into a good relationship blaming my intution to be overthinking. 😂😂 Ugh. Tell me views, if any of the other scorpion find it relatable. Bye..

[@musical_0713]

​@@binitapandey5400 yes, I'm scorpion too.. And it's tough to surrender to a man..... And often I attract relationships that ends in bad terms...... We are hyper independent and it's like yes I can do everything..

[@prachiroy3871]

well...i am a scorpio sun but my moon sign is in pisces so i look scary and intense but i'm very romantic and sensitive in my relationships but as being a scorpio i rarely talk to any guy ...and i am a big introvert but i guess i give that warm empathic vibes because of my pisces moon but still i'm a bit unapproachable and yes as you said independence thing thats on top of my priority in a relationship...i want my partner to accept me for who i am that's it!

[@OllieSmiless]

Agreed. Jillz has the most feminine and warm energy all around her. As a cancerian myself, I so love that about Jillz.

[@hey-hi-hello]

I thankfully just had your channel come up on my KZbin suggestions and I’m so glad! Coming from a childhood of no feminine figure to teach me or explain these things to me or exposure to feminine energy in this way, I took on a survival approach and found my way to receive love is by being of use and earning my love by serving and doing things and not being able to surrender. This is incredibly hard to process because I’m realizing how masculine I can become when I am fearful. It’s easy to retreat to survival mode and masculine energy when that is what you have had to be your whole life. I’m so excited to see how I transform by applying these things. I am in a 6 year relationship and noticing my masculine tendencies coming up and it happens gradually over time then you realize you’re so masculine and so much time has gone by neglecting your femininity. I appreciate these!!!

[@annas.6125]

#1. Sayangi diri - jaga diri, kebersihan, pakaian, luaran, pemikiran positif. #2. Ber - riang gembira, gurau senda secara matang. #3. Hubungan natural tanpa paksaan. Mengalah kepada keadaan. Biar maskuliniti pada lelaki bekerja untuk dapatkan perempuan. #4. Jadi penerima tanpa mendesak mengharap, suarakan keinginan dengan memberi lelaki pilihan2 yang ada. Biar dia usahakan tanpa meminta-minta.

[@robertmiller6444]

I can definitely concur with the last one. Just the other day I was thinking back on a date I had been on a while back. We were walking in public and there was a guy trying to sell some stuff. As we walked, he continued to approach and follow my date. It was in an odd circumstance and quickly becoming quite uncomfortable. I casually slid in between my date and that guy and escorted her away from the situation. That moment felt so incredibly hot for me to be her protector in that moment. And I agree it can't be something that we are asked to do. Yes, part of it is the implicit being expected to do a thing. But also, it takes away the other part of the masculine which is to see a problem, identify the problem, and solve the problem. Using the preceding example, I saw a situation brewing, I saw the need to take action, I took action. So, to be asked, has an emasculating effect, suggesting that we are not capable of being in our masculine to see and to provide a solution to a problem.

[@day-dreamer1313]

Thanks for adding this perspective.

[@bammargerat6561]

Ok but what if you weren't capable because you were distracted at the time: do you blame the woman for asking you to come get the guy away from her, or do you just let her keep walking? Asking for help when no one is 100% secure in their gender roles can mean life or death for a woman in particular if something is happening that only she is aware is happening around her because of intuition or whatever: should she say nothing and wait for you to notice on your own circumstance and suffer longer to protect your ego, or should she speak up to be helped sooner, *even if* you were going to take action anyway, if not a second later?

[@1twistedcpl6575]

So you protected her from a vendor...and you thought it made you "hot?" Did the vendor have a knife, or a gun? Or just a sales pitch? JC

[@DC-nw3uc]

​@@1twistedcpl6575 Knock it off.. he's perfectly right here. Yes it's hot to be a protector in any small or large capacity. A woman sees it as hot too. Or at least she should. Even in a tiny low stakes situation like this.

[@KatzeMelli]

number 4 is so true. I proved to myself i am boss bitch whatever. My boyfriend is a feminine man and i am definitely a tomboy but i also enjoy being girly. WHO CARES! But i had to unlearn a lot of this behavior of not accepting help. My relationship has improved dramatically when we both actually seeked therapy. I learned to soften and actively ask for help, not only from my boyfriend but in general from the world around me. Involving my boyfriend in my decisions or just in random tasks makes my boyfriend feel needed and capable and therefor strengthend his position in our relationship. He on the other hand learned to be more assertive and speak his truth, a quality he struggled with a lot. He learned in his work place, with his friends and family to actively set boundaries and that helped me also understanding how i can be a better partner for him. I feel a lot of problems come from the misconception of trying to fight for eachothers stance in a partnership. It should not be a battlefield but seen more like teamwork. Anyway. Healing our identities in general is vital to thrive

[@malihanekmal3489]

I would like to say to everyone that all of the 4 qualities that’s mentioned in the video is totally accurate. I personally tried this for only 2-3 days and I am already seeing that I am getting attracted to my Hubby. Which I never thought that one day I’ll learn something so practical in a short KZbin video. Thank you very much my dear and sending lots of love 💕

[@suzanadsuza4819]

You described each quality so eloquently !

[@aayushpandey2424]

Caution : hero instinct is a dangerous weapon , so use it in a limit like let him add some value to yr life , him paying for date , open door , helps u tie your dress it's fine but don't let him manipulate u , like starts judging yr dress , starts to point out yr insecurities , etc . That's the point to say : THAT'S IT.......❤

[@paulettemusicqueen1282]

Lately I’ve been realizing that I’ve taken on my masculine energy for practically the last decade 😭💔 so far gone that My feminine energy needs resuscitation and ICU care 😩. At least we’ve started the process through your videos and other favorites on YT. I can’t wait till she’s healed and out and about and free. Thank you for sharing always 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Nat_Cat]

Great video, Jillz! Btw I'm currently reading a book called "The Comfort Zone" that is making a similar point but not so much regarding feminity but rather explaining how to get out of "survival mode" (which I think is an important step in one's feminity journey) . What's being taught there is a great addition to your message and I highly recommend it :)

[@JillzGuerin]

Omg I just purchased the book! Thanks for the rec 🥰🥰

[@becoming_kara]

Jillz! Wondering what your thoughts are on living with a man before marriage ? Thank you!

[@xTashleyx]

I've been on the hunt for clean perfume, so glad you got sponsored!

[@user-nm6dr4uy3d]

I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that it's ok to enjoy life even if you're not where you want to be yet. I think this is the simplest and most effective form of manifestation. We have the right to be happy and fulfilled whether or not we have the external validation and achievements that we crave. Every woman is valuable as she is.

[@sydnicrow7650]

I would say that if they are *healthy/mature* mascs, asking them to change their behavior won't scare them away. If they feel pushed away by the request to change their behavior they are not healthy/mature, and if they have repeatedly failed to make the requested change they are not healthy/mature.

[@tumeesh3001]

Your voice is so calming 🫠

[@luropodaai]

Feminine Qualities Men Find Wildly Attractive 1. Takes care of oneself - mentally and physically 2. Lightheartedness and maturity 3. Does not force things; comfortable and confident for who she is 4. Invokes his hero instinct; receives but doesn't demand

[@wabi_sabi4930]

I appreciate the way you express yourself with such clarity and compassion. Very helpful content, thanks so much for sharing your beautiful feminine outlook on life.

[@natalie8517]

Recently an amazing woman within me began to emerge, the woman I have been waiting for all my life! I am so happy she is here so we can dance with this beautiful beautiful life! It’s wild and wonderful to stumble upon your channel! I don’t even know how I got her BUT 🍑 I resonate with all you say ! Sending you my love, you are a gorgeous woman!

[@emmaroberts7809]

I'm in love with all of your videos! I found them right when I needed to. I have been looking and seeing how much my mom wasn't going about love the right way. But thank you for jillz to be the mom or big sister I never got

[@Channel09099]

Thank you for this! Could you do a video on how to fitting into society and worklife while embracing feminine energy? I work as a teacher, and the environment is super stressful, and definitley a hustle culture here as well

[@sharma3226]

Devi how beautifully and intuitively you live and keep your femininity. Whole world need to seek your guidance on how to be a masculine man to be honest i deserve to have woman like you. Love from India ❤

[@krithigaperumal]

You're absolutely amazing! 💫 Your videos have helped me solve "why is this happening?" and "why am I doing this" questions in my relationship. You have helped me to figure out a lot of things that i was struggling with for many months! Thank you soooooo much❤️ and never stop making more videos! Love from India! ❤️

[@Nisa-rs3gk]

11:29 You are a beautiful woman . It is very easy for you to love yourself. In order for me to do what you say, you must first be beautiful. If you're not beautiful, try as hard as you want. Men don't give you 10% of what they should give you. That's why I watched it with some laughter and some sadness. Because you are either not aware of yourself or your guard is really high. If the first one is, it is very easy to love yourself after a few nice compliments. If it is 2nd, a good man will definitely enter the life of a beautiful woman. Naturally, a trusting relationship heals you.

[@sambrewster3889]

Wow - wasn't expecting a pep talk but well done. Love it

[@souna5468]

I used to judge videos like these because I don't love the idea of doing all of this for a man instead of yourself, I'm still against centering our self-perception around a man's view on us, or to reinforce having an internalized male-gaze! However this video doesn't give such energy & it emphasizes the importance of self-love as a foundation, and you're creating a safe place for women to have emotional needs without making it seem desperate & I'm so here for it!!🩷

[@missg8183]

I just ordered a perfume, thank you, it is actually so hard to find nice scents that are cruelty free and not bad for you. ❤

[@michaelyoung8509]

To the divine feminine goddesses that are reading this: do not worry about what other men and women are doing or not doing. Work on being the healthiest, happiest, and most authentic version of you and you will attract the men that have developed their sacred masculine. Do not waste time with men who live in their boyish version of themselves. There are plenty of us out here that have prepared ourselves for our queens. We will find you.

[@Nai-09]

You literally have the most normal take on femininity, which is so helpful. 😅

[@leslieirizarry444]

Amazing tips even for someone who is in a relationship, or even for someone who’s already been learning to care for themselves. Thank you!

[@SiljeMeum]

So I can absolutely appreciate Lightheartedness and ease as a beautiful feminine quality, but as a single mom I still have to turn on that "Get things done-GO!" mode, and it's hard to turn off some times.. I can't just clean, tidy and play all day, I still have to to the organizing, the yard and the upkeep. Life is so busy.. I DO work on trying to take more breaks though, the adrenaline life is toxic when you can't turn it off.

[@marialaura7326]

Also don’t forget being a good woman to the man. And helping him, like cooking for him for example, that’s one of the tips I used to conquer my husband🥰Things like that are important too. Very good video, nobody talks about these things anymore.

[@mimish3315]

Ok pick me we don’t want any advice on how to be a doormat 🙄

[@smollilbean]

​@@mimish3315cooking for your partner is not being a doormat at all. The same can be said about a man when he buys expensive gifts for his women, that is also not being a doormat. I get that many woman feel burdened by cooking and chores but there are still healthy relationships that exist where women actually cook for their partners out of love and not obligation.

[@Ritarou]

Dear Jillz, I'm so grateful to have found your channel ❤ I'm in a period of my life where I found the urge and finally the energy, maturity and opportunity to heal my feminine side 😇 I watch your videos a lot and it means so much for me to have someone resonating with all these things I'm going through.. you are so beautiful inside and out, you have a very pure vibe that I find really inspiring. Thank you 🙏 🌹 love, Rita from Hungary

[@freedivetribe9684]

Amazing video, love how you speak about intention of the energy behind your actions… showing up in this way is everything! Thank you ❤

[@srishtiiiiiii95]

i am so grateful to land up on your page

[@NainArun]

1. You should look beautiful because you love and respect yourself 😽💕 2.light heartedness+ maturity 3.MOST IMP. Do not force!!!! (Dont force someone yo stay the ine you meant for you will vome to you) 4. Invoke his hero..❤

[@manishamotivates]

Totally makes sense, and loved these tips. Plus, you look so elegantly enchanting. ❤

[@Luniafitnwellness]

I would love if you could make a video explaining more about how to ask a man to get things done without sounding demanding

[@vanf906]

I'm loving watching your videos! As a Christian, I see a lot of the things you say are totally related to the values we learn from God.

[@DivinelyFeminine5]

You're so beautiful and magnetic ... I'm letting myself be more feminine through your help so thank you so much.

[@LaughingLead]

More great advice, Thank You for generalizing it instead of making it seem like we need to physically change ourselves to a certain alter ego

[@TativonYoga]

Always look forward to Sundays to get a dose of feminine energy content. Thanks SO SO SO much xx

[@wyladellacope9498]

Tend to your garden and let the butterflies come to you. 💫

[@julg7996]

Well said sister, thanks for guiding us younger sisters :)

[@kimberlyjean2248]

Rather than DEMANDING that men get back their desire to provide for women again, we need to INSPIRE this in men. The feminist movement has created the collective mindset that women don’t need men and that masculinity is toxic, and as a result , men’s natural desire to provide for and take care of a women has literally been pushed and shamed out of them. But the more feminine we become, which includes showing our desire for and appreciation of men and their strong/protective/provider energy, the more masculine men will become. They naturally will do this, but we as women must first show them that it is safe and desirable to do so.

[@thewell-beingnook]

First of all thanks for choosing to work with a clean brand like dime. Second of all, all of your tops are so romantic and feminine and I love it.

[@noshinnanziba2647]

You made me calm down. I'm not gonna push things anymore from now on. Rather I'll let things happen naturally. If something is meant to be, it'll happen without me pushing it alone.

[@jounerie_]

OMG , when you said , "feminine energy is an energy , not a look" ... I gasped for air .

[@erinsymone1645]

Has anyone else moved away from their "masculine" energy but yet is still not really seeing or finding any kind of feminine core within themselves? I spent years in my masculine, toned that down a LOT, but I still don't feel very feminine? Is it possible some people are just.... "in between"? I feel like when I don't force anything about myself, that's kind of where I end up. It's very lonely here - everyone seems to be at one polarity or the other.

[@PlayshotKalo]

Everybody has both feminine and masculine. But men tend to have more vasopressin receptors than women so they bond more through accomplishing tasks together or accomplishing tasks for you. And women tend to respond more to dopamine for bonding because we have more dopamine receptors. But men still have dopamine receptors and women still have vasopressin receptors so nobody is 100% feminine or 100% masculine

[@Anna-Maria79]

Thank you Jills 💕 Your channel is giving me hope! 🌻 I am not comfortable to show exactly how feminine I am to the world and to men, because of bad experiences. I have had boyfriends and met men that were very triggered by my femininity and wanted me to stop being so dreamy and sensitive. I am interested in spirituality and I love animals, nature and romantic things, but I have recieved so many negative comments from men about this. How I should toughen up, don't believe in fairytales etc. So I have a hard time believing that men can respect the softer sides of a woman. Even though I know it's the case with a man who is comfortable in his own skin. Apparently I have only attracted men who felt the need to bully women.

[@Sarahhenderson11]

Get rid of them immediately when they start that talk because these men don't love YOU how you are. They should be a turn off to you. I've been there girl - attracting critical men who didn't like my hobbies , this and that about me etc. But you need to change the energy around. If you own these things on an energetic level their criticisms will feel pathetic to you and you will laugh. Another factor is astrology ..you sound like you could have some pisces planets in your birth chart ( based off your description and who you've attracted and what you like). If that's the case, you'll attract men with Virgo ( Pisces opposite sign). We attract opposite signs to us, as the universe exists in the energy of polarity. It's just that people with Virgo energy or planets can be very critical to the Pisces type like yourself - but Pisces type people can energetically accept this criticism more so than others can. However, Pisces types need to learn boundaries with others. PS. Even if you aren't a Pisces star sign, the sign will likely be in other positions in your chart.

[@Anna-Maria79]

@@Sarahhenderson11 Thank you Charlotte 💕 I haven't dated or had a boyfriend for some years now. And I no longer tolerate guys like that. But I hesitate to meet someone new, because of previous experiences. It's funny you mention astrology. I'm a Virgo with four planets in Virgo, so I am very self aware and critical of myself, and maybe that's why I meet men that match that energy. But I also have my South Node in Pisces, so I do have a strong influence from that sign! 😊 I definitely need to work on loving myself and set boundaries. I grew up in a dysfunctional family, so that doesn't come naturally to me.

[@Sarahhenderson11]

@@Anna-Maria79 much love to you! Virgo energy like you say , it's very self critical. Problem is the more critical you are of yourself the more the men are going to return that energy back to you. It's going to be very difficult at first, but owning your flaws at a deep level will mean these men can't break you down like they used to. Watch for that - if it starts out with him criticizing you ( even small things) this will escalate. Roles in relationships are established early! And don't really change. Having strong Pisces myself many men were critical of me in past relationships but I accept myself now so I won't stand for it anymore. But the good news? Your south node is in Pisces. For the first half of your life you learned some hard lessons of this sign ( being naturally too self sacrificing, giving, enmeshment, lack of boundaries etc) but as you get older you will take on more the energy of your north node in Virgo - it will be easier for you to put these men in their place and set your boundaries early on. And sure you attract who you attract, but if the energy is getting better for you these men in future can take on more the positive energy of Virgo ( rather than the negative of it) ...helpful, grounded, mature, reliable . 😀

[@Anna-Maria79]

@@Sarahhenderson11 Yes, you are so right. Self love is key. Thank you for taking the time to write. Astrology is a very helpful tool when it comes to understanding oneself. Sending love 💖💫

[@valiaudet3415]

R u Pisces? You sound so normal

[@amarillot.t4376]

Wow I have always been that person that was never looking for anything and always in my own world. I also have to admit I did have a bit of internalized misogyny since I loooked down on those girls who always talked about boy and had crushes and liked k dramas etc so I was never one that was interested in being In a relationship. that doesn’t mean I didn’t attract anyone it just means my heart wasn’t in it. I have met someone and all of that inexperience is just dawning on me and all the sudden at 21 I feel like I’m not worthy of being loved because I don’t know how to be a girlfriend let alone a good partner. Conversations like this always seemed like pseudoscience/childish but now I know the wisdom that comes with listening to a woman who wants to love herself and who wants to love a man. So thank you for that.

[@almamarisoul]

This was so good! Love the deeper examples!

[@unknowngirl369]

1. Take care of yourself, you can't fake the energy 2 .stop being too serious be light_hearted,its a feminine trait ,while being serious, harsh and hurry is masculine energy (have fun, don't take it seriously) 3. Not forcing anything, let it happen by itself.stop being desperate and start to attract

[@Becky44-e7g]

Dime beauty works! It transformed my skin. Literally won’t use anything else. I didn’t know they had perfume- will check it out.

[@JillzGuerin]

Ahh yay that’s amazing! Definitely check out the perfume! My favorite 😍❤️

[@stephenholmgren405]

"Dont force anything." - Allan Watts

[@OllieSmiless]

Nice capsule for femininity, Jillz. As I listen to it, a part of me feels inspired for all the possibilities, while another part of me is sad as to how much of my femininity has been lost due to life's unfoldings. My dad is a self-absorbed, arrogant aries while my mom is a nurturing and soft pisces = match not made in heaven. Watching their dynamic my entire life didn't help and having to step up for mom made me more a problem-solver and part protector. Trusting life and accepting all the greatness has been tough, to say the least, but I intend to make it happen (how masculine of me lol).

[@sulusu4812]

We receive when we make love, literally receiving him, so not only is the act /art of receiving sacred, but as women we need to allow that in other ways in our life too.

[@MONEYM723]

You made this so clear, easy and straight to the point. Thank you.

[@denisekk2165]

This is the first video that I’ve watched of yours. It’s a breath of fresh air, love it!

[@getbetteratit-1.0]

Thank you, it makes a lot of sense. I really needed to hear these truths spelled out for me like this :)

[@rainsounds4792]

Okay! I'm not gonna hold myself this time and I gotta admit that you have such beautiful n hypnotizing eyes

[@mitsubachi6865]

I was about to vent saying that these tips were nothing but superficial tips such as : remain f***able and look at life with the mindset of an 8 year-old. But you brought it with common sense and intelligence. Well done.

[@MaryGaiaRose]

There is a huge difference between human realm , human experience feminine masculine dynamic and how we spiritually evolve in divine union..beyond human consciousness

[@giuliaserafini4901]

This video couldn’t came at a better moment! Thank you sooo much!!!

[@catherinetighe7813]

Spot on Also don’t give it away too freely. It doesn’t keep men. Have standards without being cold. Mystery is a turn in

[@kingstonstreet3726]

Just found you and I have been working on my femininity

[@maureencabrera7029]

as always, love your insights as this resonates in my Being. Hearing from You - puts words in my natural sense more, that I thank God for this giftedness as it sure is making my life stability to the familty and my four young adults. PRAISE and THANK GOD for the beauty it has created being married for 35 yrs - with absolutely certainty - it is from THY ALMIGHTY GOD. not just referring to my giftedness in Feminine Energy but also by husband's Male Energy - or the natural giftedness bestowed upon - in his and our lives. The flow of these energies, the Yin and Yang, with The HOLY TRIUNE GOD in this marriage is what makes life bautiful, worth living. No Perfection in this journey but striving and living the best version of ourselves we know how at certain periods in our lives. love watching your videos subscribed yesterday. You are so gifted in the ability in expressing it so naturally, gifted in receiving all these insights as you nurture yourself and express it for the world to learn this soul healing nuggets of wisdom in today's world. God bless you more. You radiate beauty and sharing these wisdom makes you even more beautiful coz it is from within - YOUR BEING.

[@R0cky-th3-d0g]

Very helpful tips, especially number 3.

[@evanneofficial]

Wow the information is this video is so on point!! Well done!!

[@mara-00000]

I love your videos, and your energy is so magical and relaxing

[@Ionicessence]

This is necessary right now as the world seems to be navigating and determining their own sense of masculine and feminine energies

[@DarcyPaige-hs4yx]

Thank you so much for this great advice. I definitely have to work on a couple of them. I'm in a great place because of the positive things I do that you touch down about. All great stuff!!! Thank you for sharing.

[@TanyaJackson-z5m]

I really like your hair....and your fashion style...I'm going to get my hair styled next week as I haven't had it done for 6 months....maybe a little natural color lipstick and blush....but I'm not a makeup lady but it's nice to wear a little bit 😊 great video

[@termehaslian1891]

This is a GEM!! THANK YOU this is exactly the video I’ve been needing : ,)

[@corliakoorsen277]

The day I finally had it with men, later that week I met my husband 😮 and we've been together now for 25 years of which we have been married for 23 years 😊