Being exposed to music content like this at such a young age (middle school) was so eye opening and amazing. Now in college and being able to see it again, in a new light and with new experience, is so nostalgic and moving. I’m so glad to be able to watch this and reminisce
@JJENN6 жыл бұрын
kayno vang thanks! So humbled to hear that our music can reconnect with you and our first listeners from way back when. Stay blessed.
@MsThao926 жыл бұрын
kayno vang I totally agree with you! Being in college now and working in the domestic violence field makes me feel so naive back in middle school and high school. Hearing this song again after my exposure to the field of domestic violence is just 😭😭😭😭😭
@kayno91676 жыл бұрын
Kathy Thao yes, I love that our peoples views are changing. Things like domestic violence and teen pregnancy and marriage are such societal norms within our culture, and thankfully we are seeing that it’s unhealthy and unsafe and can be toxic. The college amount of Hmong people who are starting to attend college makes me excited. Our community is growing so much and it’s exciting. Even though CSU Monterey Bay only have like 9 Hmong students! Hahah
@KooCheePow6 жыл бұрын
I was in an abusive marriage when this song first came out. I left almost 10 years ago and accidentally stumbled upon this music video, not knowing that I knew the song. Listening to it made me cry but I am now with a loving man for the last 6 years. I hope this song raises awareness on domestic abuse and violence in our Hmong communities. I hope it gives abused women, and men, the courage to take control of their life.
@kathyv2225 жыл бұрын
Gao Shin if you haven’t check out their new video please check it out. kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqbZoZWNrd1kfJI
@162playboyz4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for acknowledging the abused men out there. Men are abused as much if not more but never report nor talk about it because is not a manly thing to do. Good luck with your new life.
@number1gurudogg5464 жыл бұрын
Just bc you were abused it doesn't mean all Hmong men are that way. Thanks for the bs tho
@KooCheePow4 жыл бұрын
number1Guru dogg You need better reading comprehension skills. Where did I say ALL Hmong men are abusive? I’m not sure why your ego is hurt by me sharing my experience and having the audacity to call my experience bs. It seems like you have personal issues or you need to improve your reading comprehension.
@INTHECARWITHSAO3 жыл бұрын
I wish I can be strong like u I’ve been in an abused marriage for almost thirty years and having a hard time...I’m glade ur happy now
@you_r_my-world22886 жыл бұрын
I like how she looks so natural, no make up, nothing extra. She is beautiful just the way she is.
@kengyang67856 жыл бұрын
NeverLetGo gbVF ikr man shes fine
@caligold89786 жыл бұрын
True
@melanieyang69583 жыл бұрын
It signify a woman who has nothing but just a piece of simple clothe on her...running away from fear, from a life that she can no longer bear.
@linpk56732 жыл бұрын
I was 12… my sister was 13.. when we heard this song and promised to never end up like this… tell me why my sister lost her life to a domestic violence relationship in 2019 leaving me her 5 young babies… gosh if I knew, I’d turn back and ripped her from his arms… 🥺😢
@mariexiong98922 жыл бұрын
You’re so strong for taking care of her babies. I hope you are maintaining your wellness in all aspects, physical, mental, emotional, financial, and spiritual. Sending lots of love your way.
@yameemoua Жыл бұрын
I think I know you. Or your big sis. ❤❤❤ I’m so sorry for your loss, but those babies have such a great auntie/mom to take care of them.
@johnny0y0yang1239 ай бұрын
Plz who are you!!!! Ill support you. I don't have much. But coming from a huge family i wanna help
@MrMadafada5 ай бұрын
❤️❤️🧡🧡💔much love… Only one will know of a sibling’s love… Pls reach out if there’s anything we can do🙏🏼
@thatsusie324 жыл бұрын
To all the women out there, you are not alone you have every right to leave an abuse relationship. You do not need the elders approve all you have to do is to tell them you going divorce their son period. This is the tell the Hmong community we as women are educate and not afraid.
@Kuvyogkuvyaj5 ай бұрын
Sometimes a song is created at the right time of your life as if it was created about you, for you, because of you. This was one of them. At a time when divorce was frowned upon, I was told to “ua siab ntev.” Something alot of us Hmong women have heard 1 too many times. I finally found the courage to stand my ground and never looked back. Who knows where I’ll be right now had I not get up and left that day.
@janesoyaj6 жыл бұрын
I like how this video is focus on the woman and her pain and suffer rather than seeing a man abusing her and shit.Definitely feel the song deep inside more. This made me cried even though it relates nothing to me or do I know anyone who's going through it. Just wouldn't want anyone to go through DV!
@veeyang28106 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry are you single?
@Lee-up4bz2 жыл бұрын
Hugs to all those feeling trapped..... it's not easy, not black and white. Take care.
@urkelman14805 жыл бұрын
I was 7 when I first heard this song. At that age, I watched my brother beat my sister in law, my Dad hurt my mother. This song hits me hard every time I hear it. They are all no longer together and it’s better that way. Thanks for making such a powerful and beautiful song JJen!
@hmonglubpaj6 жыл бұрын
This song brings such a sense of nostalgia but it also reminds me so much of how our culture MUST proceed. We, as women, can no longer “ua siab ntev.” Women and men are created equal. We have every right to deserve and find our own happiness. May this song teach future generations, especially the future women of our culture, that we deserve everything we want and aspire to.
@kathyv2225 жыл бұрын
I agreed!!! I love what Jjenn stands for. They’re so different from other artist. They just released a new mv. It’s definitely on repeat.
@whachamamacallit44286 жыл бұрын
The sadness and pain every girl in an abusive relationship goes thru shouldn’t have to feel this way. Props to the strong ones that got themselves out of it.
@Eskojpuasok6 жыл бұрын
Music video for "qhib koj lub qhov muag" & "maj mam" too please?!?!
@VintiqueZero3 жыл бұрын
^^^^
@kimberlyvang17793 жыл бұрын
This brings back the vibes from your old music that I would jam out to. I loved the oldies.
@lolthaoo60754 жыл бұрын
This is so true because not many people understand what marriage women are going through. People make it sound easy but it actually hard because you don’t wanna leave the kids without a dad and you don’t want people to talk bad about you and your family. Pride is the most important thing in a Hmong Family. Not many of you will agree and that fine.
@trademark26703 жыл бұрын
RIP to our two sisters who lost their lives this past weekend to domestic abuse 💔
@i8mju7aq1w2e3sw2o9mj4 жыл бұрын
This song and actress and music video is so good!
@iamoaht6 жыл бұрын
Great song, good actress!!! ❤
@mbyanng3 ай бұрын
Listen to this song when a teen, almost 30. Still listening to it!
@dumfoojibber1075 жыл бұрын
If I were you ×6 You When you were girfriend and boyfriend, he said he will love you forever, he will not let the rain wet you He marries you to be his wife, He will love you and stand by your side By your side Two years go by Mm no You have two kids He doesn't stay with you, he goes out, leaving you waiting at night Waiting at night He hits you He kicks you He disrespect you, spits in your face, He kicks you out kicks you out If I were you, you I wont stay, stay If I were you, you I wont stay, I wont stay I want to run, but Im afraid of what people say (they say), they will say its because of me (because of me) thats why my life is this way I want to run, but I have childrens, they will have no one as their father, why is this life so depressing Friend Im telling you It's not as easy as you say There are many eyes that see, but they dont even want to help They dont even want to help
@molliethao864 жыл бұрын
Like some of the. women who've commented, I was also in an abusive marriage when this song first came out. The first time I heard this song, it hit me so hard that I could not contain my tears and sorrow because every word of the lyrics matched my life and situation. Like the girl the original song was dedicated to, I was also forced into a marriage at the age of 13 and also had 2 children. I was in the marriage for 7 years until I gathered enough courage to leave. It's been 13 years since I left and I am no remarried to a man who I never imagined could love me so much, after all I have been through. Thank you for such a powerful song, Jjenn.
@JJENN4 жыл бұрын
It takes immense courage to walk away and start anew. Thank you for sharing your story and reaffirming for people that authentic love is out there for each of us.
@clp4806 жыл бұрын
Music with an actual purpose? DAYUMMMMNNNNNNNN SON!
@collinethao Жыл бұрын
I listened to this song when I was abused and going through rough times trying to heal slowly. All the lyrics you sang was my life. Thank you for this song.
@npaujbais6 жыл бұрын
domestic violence is a serious issue in our community. often individuals who are abused do not know what to do, where to get help or blame themself for their situation. domestic violence is something we shouldn't deny anymore. thank you JJen for your voice.
@badhmongvocal242 жыл бұрын
Holy shit I got chills. Subscribing. Jjen got me in tears once again. Actress did a god damn good job, powerful mv and perfect vocals.
@starlee67656 жыл бұрын
Goosebumps everytime! There is no one like you guys!
@macymango413410 ай бұрын
Lol I was listening to music at 12:15 am and all suddenly everything went silent and I heard this little voice saying ,” mommy” scared the heck out of me !! Lol
@pkying53606 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥😍 bring it back
@707Randomfilm Жыл бұрын
I'm a guy and I love this song teach me WHat not to do in a relationship
@daoxiong70836 жыл бұрын
1st time I heard this song I cried n it made me stronger I finally stood my ground
@JJENN6 жыл бұрын
Dao Xiong more power to you. We know it's not easy. Sending you our love and many blessings ❤❤❤
@liaderyang74876 жыл бұрын
First one to comment. Lets go!!!! Thats my sister!!!
@kon-yo63846 жыл бұрын
Liader Yang bro I was about to say. Aint that Maria
@kawmikazee6 жыл бұрын
Tell her I said "what it do".
@17blueskiez4 жыл бұрын
We can be brothers in law.
@sparklelicious74 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I was strong to move on from an abusive ex. It was hard being in the Hmong community it was taboo to be divorced but I gave the idgaf attitude and survived. Be a real woman and leave an abusive relationship when you see signs. Don't let your grave be the last thing you see from heaven be that sign. God bless!
@emilycha7124 жыл бұрын
Theresan Vong sister I am with you. No longer can hold on to the idea of being a good daughter and ua siab ntev uv.
@temujinvang6 жыл бұрын
Always love you 2 sisters voice..im a close friend of your brother Doua..
@lisathor85796 жыл бұрын
I have always loved this song because it was so deep and unfiltered. I appreciate this song because it brought awareness of DV in the Hmong community. I do recall this song was dedicated to someone and I hope that individual is in a safer place today. Much love!
@xuelor36146 жыл бұрын
This is a great step forward in our Hmong community. Thank you for this video.
@BNP-HAWJ Жыл бұрын
Always love this song
@chaialoves6 жыл бұрын
Omg. My heart this brings back so much memories. This song is still good. Glad you're back!!!!!
@JJENN6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support. Feels great to be back, and it feels even better to feel the positivity from everyone. You guys, honestly, keep us moving forward ❤
@chaialoves6 жыл бұрын
Jjenn Music this song was really popular back then and to hear it again is truly amazing and makes many of us miss our childhood plus for it to be back the younger kids now can listen to what we use to listen to. I hope to see more in the future. Good luck ☺
@kouavang85846 жыл бұрын
Chaialoves
@thischic0076 жыл бұрын
Love the message. We need more awareness about issues such as domestic abuse in our Hmong community, it is so amazing you are using your platform to make this visible. I cannot wait to see more of your work and support you Jjenn!
@yellowneck923 жыл бұрын
Love jjen till death even if imma guys. Grew up listen to these two ladies.
@vangfamily32653 жыл бұрын
You make great music. Keep going! Don’t stop
@mnloser6 жыл бұрын
I feel this song. I am not currently in a domestic violence relationship but this music video portrays for Hmong women today that is going through all pain alone that their husband cause them. I hope I won't go through it in life . Thanks for this video
@BrandonMars6 жыл бұрын
I’m happy y’all are back!
@indecisiveist4 жыл бұрын
Whoever directed this did one hell of a great job!! Song is good just feel the singers are sluring some words together, but I love the message. It's so powerful.
@maiher17092 жыл бұрын
I love jjen and no love in middle school. But this new one remaKe definitely made tears came out. Life isnt easy when you feel obligated to stay for so many reasons.
@yaxa0601 Жыл бұрын
Your voice is amazing! keep it up!
@Cheecheeee6 жыл бұрын
Please continue to sing !!!
@leeher12436 жыл бұрын
Thanks for releasing this. I bought your album but I lost it over the years. Your album is a piece of art and hits the soul now a part of hmong history. Not just an album but a story. I hope you come out with another album in the future that would be awesome.
@9InchHandle Жыл бұрын
I listened to this song my teenage years because of the beat and not knowing anything about the lyrics. Now, I'm in my late 30s, I'm more experienced in life. The beat is gone but they lyrics remains as I've learned to understand it.
@nkaujmaithao89906 жыл бұрын
Very heartfelt song, words from the heart.. music from the heart..keep up the great work..❤
@ItsM00N6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful and captivating
@162playboyz6 жыл бұрын
hmong people are so pretty
@LaBelle22Ай бұрын
Thanks for bringing it back. Love it! ❤❤
@wex92105 жыл бұрын
Jjenn you the best. You need to keep writing song like this
@209missnou6 жыл бұрын
Love this music video! Beautifully done!
@LiaLo6 жыл бұрын
I seriously have been waiting forever for Jjenn's second album!. Even if it doesn't happen, I'm still glad you re sharing your previous works! Thank you for sharing this song in support to domestic violence awareness month.
@JJENN6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lia Lo for your continued support! We just checked out your channel and love your voice! Keep it up!
@LiaLo6 жыл бұрын
Jjenn Music 🙀I can't believe you stopped by! Thank you for the compliment and the encouragement!☺️☺️☺️
@4865826 жыл бұрын
Wow the video along with the new rendition of the song are so amazing! It's on repeat for me!
@kongyang90356 жыл бұрын
Always a tight ass song, brings back memories!
@maiher956 жыл бұрын
😍 I haven’t heard this song ever since my childhood!! Now listening to it and listening to the lyrics makes me cry because I can relate to this song sometime😢❤️❤️ thanks for sharing again😊
@chemecheeyang86314 жыл бұрын
Intro Yog kuv yog koj (×6) Thaum nws yuav koj los nrog Nws tias yuav hlub mus tas ib txhim Nws yuav tsis pub ntuj nag ntub koj Nws tias yog nws yuav tau koj los ua nws tus poj niam Nws yuav hlub koj tiag Sawv ntawm koj ib sab Ntawm koj ib sab Ob xyoo dhau los Koj yug tau ob tug menyuam Nws twb tsis nrog koj nyob tu hlob niaj hnub mus uasi es Tseg koj nyob hmo ntuj tos Hmo ntuj tos Nws muab koj ntaus Nws muab koj ncaws Nws saib tsis tau nws nti qhov ncaug rau koj ntsej muag Nws ntiab koj tawm Ntiab koj tawm Chorus Yog kuv yog koj Kuv yuav tsis nyob (×2) Kuv xav khiav los kuv ntshai tsam zej zos lawm hais Luag yuav hais tias yog vim kuv xwb Kuv lub neej thiaj li zoo li no Kuv xav tig tam sis lig kuv twb muaj menyuam Nkawv yuav tsis muaj leej twg ua nkawv txiv Cas lub neej no txom nyem ua luaj Phooj ywg kuv qhia rau koj Tsis yooj yim li koj hais Muaj ntau lub kua muag poob Los luag twb tsis xav pab Laug twb tsis xav pab
@MrAklauj6 жыл бұрын
Sony your Favorite!
@touchang52204 жыл бұрын
This is amazing. The video is simple and pure but it carries a powerful message.
@lovejanna36 жыл бұрын
This is deep. Keep it up. Awesome job.
@veeyang28106 жыл бұрын
how long has it been? 10 years or 15 years and my niece use to be singing this back then?
@cnl936 жыл бұрын
Everything was BEAUTIFULLY done. The editing, song/lyrics, and message. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥...................@2:19 I thought NOLOVE was going to jump in 😎
@johnyoghmoob2626 жыл бұрын
CHILI-OUTDOORS ikr kill it
@kengyang67856 жыл бұрын
CHILI is FISHING this versions way better..Original one was real cringe especially with no love rapping and talking lol and in this version jenns voice sounds way better and alot smoother.....
@babyjoker81956 жыл бұрын
CHILI is FISHING no love should do a remix
@blackwidow87553 жыл бұрын
Such a powerful message and representation with music. Amazing work and time putting this video together, go JJENN and her team.
@thaovang72076 жыл бұрын
Made me cry. The music video portrayed the song beautifully.
@tsuelee87016 жыл бұрын
Release new album
@jinlee79846 жыл бұрын
Love this song. Miss Jjenn! Please come out with a new album 🙏
@lexapiscesdragonfly6 жыл бұрын
Love this song as it brings so much memories!!! ❤️❤️❤️ Jjenn
@touvang18256 жыл бұрын
The misconceptions about domestic violence are astounding. Many believe the women are to blame because they choose not to leave, or it is just women who get abused. This epidemic is a “human problem”, it can happen to anyone anywhere. I have always been a fan of your music and intrigued by the messages delivered through your songs. Great illustration of what goes on in an abused victim’s head (regardless of gender). Thank you for going against the grain. I look forward to hearing more from the both of you!
@findingmeimo6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video and beautiful message. Watching it brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for bringing this song back.
@suathao70386 жыл бұрын
Wow!! every word resonates. Sadly, we either know one or heard about an abused victim(s). I don't typically jump onto KZbin to leave comments, but the message in this song and the music video deserves recognition. Thank you for not going in the direction of the obvious (showcasing a battered woman), this video speaks volume. I look forward to all your future work. Great Job, Jjenn.
@kathyv2225 жыл бұрын
sua Thao they have a new music video!!!! So excited!!!
@maithao65484 жыл бұрын
Very well made video interpreting the song and its emotions.
@lovelykellies29084 жыл бұрын
This version is better than the old one .
@tmxofficial91524 жыл бұрын
Loved all your meaningful songs!!!
@theenaawwsomeness1436 жыл бұрын
Love this song so much!!! 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
@xannis64436 жыл бұрын
itstheena yog kuv yog koj
@lisgirl216 жыл бұрын
Love it.. Been listening this song..
@PrincessAva108176 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️ i love you jjenn! Biggest fan here!!
@JJENN6 жыл бұрын
We love you, too!
@imayang4 жыл бұрын
A Hmong classic remastered. Love this song.
@maliboojess2 жыл бұрын
Love you JJEN. You definitely impacted my childhood !
@cheevang8686 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you're back! This song is so deep it hurts.
@charlieher20175 жыл бұрын
It's great to hear her work again...👏
@monkeybanana92696 жыл бұрын
Wonderfully done!!! Love it!!!
@jamesmoua33286 жыл бұрын
God so sick of domestic violence. I pray that the abused one have courage and wisdom to leave that unhealthy relationship.
@johncmoua2 жыл бұрын
Awesome music video. Awesome acting.
@MzCharlijoules2 жыл бұрын
More education is needed so the Hmong women are informed of their rights and resources. Also to not to feel obligated to stay because of tradition. It's your life, not anyone else. Not your husband, boyfriends, parents, friends, elders....but yours. I understand it's easier said then done, but know you're not alone and reach out for help. Be strong, I wish the ones who are going through it to take care and be careful until you find your way out. Much love💕 and hugs.
@xobeevaj16 жыл бұрын
Jjen please comeback Looking forward for new upcoming song #1 Fan here Bring me so much memories Will be on repeat!!!❤️
@Lorloveletters6 жыл бұрын
Omg, so good. Love everything, even made me cry. Super great job! One of my favorite hmong music video!
@candixiong76 жыл бұрын
An abusive relationship will forever haunt you . I was in an abusive relationship for 2 years until I end it back in 2014 with my ex husband . I am with a new man , my fiance but he have done some hurtful things things to me such as choking me , slamming me to walls and head locking me . I dont know what to say or do but this song hurt me .
@Mistercodmobilefan83783 жыл бұрын
Dang that sucks. I wanna hug u and hope u be staying strong!
@waterhersoul_5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for coming back !!!!
@iceman7636 жыл бұрын
Ahhhhhh! I remember being at the Fresno New Year back in 2005 and hearing you perform this on the stage and thought to myself.... Who is this? I need to get their CD! Nice update to a classic!
@chuaher136 жыл бұрын
I still love this song and the message
@bboytext26 жыл бұрын
Yessssss!!! Go Jjenn!!
@haleemoua4 жыл бұрын
Y'all Rock..keep it up..much love peace out
@P3RSONALANG3L6 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you girls are back. Your music seriously helped me got through so much shit back in the days. I'm looking forward to your future releases!
@StandfordDK4 жыл бұрын
Love the remake! You should remake all your old songs!! Would totally be a hit!!!
@achingcavity6 жыл бұрын
💗💗💗 love love 💗💗💗
@monkeybanana92696 жыл бұрын
Wow. The ending literally made me cry.
@Sarina_11126 жыл бұрын
I love this!
@nouxiong90915 жыл бұрын
JJEN I’m so glad u r coming back...bring it on girl we’ve been waiting.
@lilyianlee34044 жыл бұрын
Where have you been? Loved your music since forever, so touching and unique