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@mweber5554 жыл бұрын
My squad leader told me the trick to being married is....when you are home, you have to be home. Take care of the kids and such. Have to be there and present because you aren't home a lot.
@katg95073 жыл бұрын
Good advice my dude
@Sara_The_Feral_Housewife2 жыл бұрын
100% facts. My husband and I call this " being fully engaged".
@angelacross22164 жыл бұрын
Brutally honest, brutally true.
@ghosthacktube3 жыл бұрын
My advice after 20 years in the service is this. Don't live in military housing, make friends in your local community, go to the gym and take classes that you love. When your spouse is home take classes together. My wife and I do crossfit together when I'm home. Have your parents visit when your spouse is deployed. When your spouse is home, make the most of it and take vacations. You will never regret traveling together.
@Scientist_Salarian3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t get married until I was 35. Best decision of my life. It freed me up to go hard and fast at a lot of my personal goals for a good 10-15 years. In turn, that provided my wife and me a mature personal and financial foundation from which to become a very formidable team.
@ridewherever4 жыл бұрын
Jocko should have been wearing an Echo shirt.
@bimscutney12424 жыл бұрын
Ha! That’s gold.
@spethmanjones29974 жыл бұрын
Haha then they would be the _Dichotomy of Leadership._ GET AFTER IT.
@jimgood19493 жыл бұрын
As a young officer, one of my first battalion commanders told me “you will be part of your family longer than you will be part of the Army, always remember that.” The mission comes first, but make sure those who love you know why you are doing what you do, and make sure that they feel loved and know how special they are to you, even when you are away. It is darn hard to make that work, and probably better in Tier 1 and Tier 2 units to just wait until retirement before you try to have a marriage, let alone a family.
@zbennett17203 жыл бұрын
Amen bro. Love Jocko, but nothing is more important that relationship with God and your family.
@patty78044 жыл бұрын
My husband is not SF but 26+ years in the military this advice goes to any military wife. 100% when your husband gets deployed Murphy will show up. You have to be able to handle it. By it that means everything. At least today you have Google and KZbin if you don’t know how to fix it. Also know that any event, holiday, birthday etc assume they will not be there if they show up be happy but NEVER assume that they will be there including the birth of your children.
@chriswilletts36214 жыл бұрын
God bless you and your family.
@patty78044 жыл бұрын
@Mikeyy12 C.Lennz Thank you.
@alexecheverria89714 жыл бұрын
What do you mean Murphy will show up?
@adoptedsharkdoodoodoodoodo99894 жыл бұрын
Alex E I think she means Murphy’s Law...
@adoptedsharkdoodoodoodoodo99894 жыл бұрын
Thanks so so much Ms. Patty, bless y’all!
@user-nk3re4dj5h4 жыл бұрын
I don't have a wife let alone a girlfriend. I'm not in the military I work a regular 9-5. Yet im here.
@brodiebriggs57594 жыл бұрын
i dont even work a 9-5 i just go to school and im here as well bro lmao
@elijahhickey45734 жыл бұрын
Me too bro I'm still in school and only work part time, yet I wound up here somehow.
@SomeGuy-sj1ly3 жыл бұрын
I think you meant to swap gf and wife there bud lol
@nicblank093 жыл бұрын
U sound sad
@user-nk3re4dj5h3 жыл бұрын
@@nicblank09 I'm not. You sound like you're projecting.
@SwissMarksman4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your Cervix
@jaketaylor29234 жыл бұрын
I’m dying haha
@kenbuck22934 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
@SomeGuy-sj1ly3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@anna94k3 жыл бұрын
Omfg 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kenbuck22933 жыл бұрын
Fuck that’s a legendary comment
@MrJJacks73 жыл бұрын
So many guys in the Ranger Regiment married attractive women that were completely useless by themselves. I hated being left behind on a deployment because they would call Rear D to get help doing basic tasks or complain about not hearing from their husband that was obviously busy. Also saw some of them at bars without their wedding rings. Choose your spouse wisely
@latsnojokelee64343 жыл бұрын
Yeah, a lot of guys like the trophy, but trophies can be pretty useless.
@lukasg90312 жыл бұрын
Find a traditional women
@natalienapalm75102 ай бұрын
The hardest part is feeling like number 2. Thank you for this.
@segueoyuri4 жыл бұрын
this "I'm not a team guy" show a great thing about Jocko's personality: he understands easily where he's mistaken and fix it. No vain pride. Awesome. I'm heading that way.
@everblvck52034 жыл бұрын
Man, im no team guy, but i really appreciate jocko and echo, these podcasts can be applied to many areas in life not just the spec force world.
@jonathanjuillerat98313 жыл бұрын
This is so true for over the road truck drivers as well.
@mid.nightrunners81573 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't want jocko to yell at me, im pretty sure I'd cry 😂
@מיכאלמרטיןבנדיקטוס3 жыл бұрын
Jocko has a superb wife. Respect women like that.
@MajesticDemonLord3 жыл бұрын
This is one of Jockos bravest episodes yet.... Talking smack about his Wife's cooking.
@yawenclaudio57563 жыл бұрын
Scarier than CQB in Ramadi
@mykolarubashewsky72913 жыл бұрын
@@yawenclaudio5756 Ramadi: Explosions, terrorists, gunfire, death...no big deal At home: angry wife...also known as instant death...some say it’s worse than dying in combat
@yawenclaudio57563 жыл бұрын
@@mykolarubashewsky7291 So scary
@gracielou_flattbush222 жыл бұрын
The guy I’m dating is wanting to join MARSOC and told me about this. And the fact that it’s at least 6 years and he doesn’t want to subject me to this lifestyle. I so appreciate his consideration and at the same time I’m fighting wanting to be with him anyway. This is very eye opening and good to examine in a non emotional way.
@dmar41943 жыл бұрын
His wife has saintly patience.
@gking4074 жыл бұрын
It’s easy to see from afar, but independent people really need to take a long look at themselves before involving others, and especially children, in their pursuit of excellence.
@platanitoconpolloyarroz30053 жыл бұрын
Bingo.They all know it but don't think it would matter
@perilouslambasting68163 жыл бұрын
Oh man, can't even express how well you bullseyed that nail
@CDArnoldMusic Жыл бұрын
Feeling a bit of this conflict now. I want to go further, but it feels like there's an element of selfishness that I feel I can't let win. I feel my spiritual commitment to my spouse is equally, yet uniquely, deep when thinking about the potential depth of fulfillment in being among a group of people who want to do more for others and themselves on a different scale. Tough decisions and it seems only the individual can assume the risk and determine what is truly worth it. In the end, there won't be too many things that we can consider to have truly mattered. For anyone making these decisions, thanks to you and your family for your sacrifices.
@melissapadbury289 ай бұрын
I assume none of you are military. Jocko is not talking about excellence in business, he's talking about war. Life and literal death. His discipline and excellence, brought his guys home to their loved ones. He's an excellent example to his children. We need more Americans and Dad's like him.
@annalynvang55162 жыл бұрын
As a wife of a SF guy, I agree with Jocko, it’s not easy. You have to be able to be alone and do stuff on your own. I’m a single parent most of the time, but when my husband is home it’s so nice to have him around. You have to understand and accept that his work is priority, and you get to hold down the fort when he’s away. And after he returns from deployment you have to give him time to readjust to being home, and to being a husband and father. There have been times where he’ll talk to me like “one of the guys” and I’ll remind him that I’m his wife. He’ll adjust then we move on. I’ve thought about divorce a few times, not going to lie, but it just didn’t seem like the right answer. My girlfriends always ask me how I do it, honestly it’s because I love him and I admire his love for his job. I, also, understand that it’s because of him doing with he’s doing I get to be home with our children, which is where I want to be since they’re still little. It’s always sad to meet other SF wives at a gathering and then to hear that they’ve since divorced and are in a nasty custody battle, this is common. This type of marriage isn’t ideal for most people.
@kate81342 жыл бұрын
Hey! I know this comment is old but I wanted to ask, do most wives stay at home with the kids in SF?
@yestrech Жыл бұрын
Hi ma'am! I'm on LDR with my military bf. I do my best to understand and not act/ be needy. My problem recently is I keep looking at my phone from a notif/ txt from him and I don't like that about me. He posted on socmed yet have yet to open my message. How do I not stress about this? He and I are dating to marry. I appreciate any marriage advice. Thank you in advance! :)
@semperfiddle37803 жыл бұрын
Important topic.. probably best delivered by your wife. Not disagreeing with your stance, but it's the delivery. There are a lot of SO newly weds who could learn and share in their way... coming from an old marine whose son is going on 10 years on the teams and on his second marriage this is an important topic. Would love to hear your wife's story of survival... and kudos to her for doing so... much respect.
@rkreaden60384 жыл бұрын
Something about clogging and calling the plumber didn't sound right to me 😂😂
@pickolascage12834 жыл бұрын
Not many American females can handle that lifestyle... some love the romanticism at first, but believe me, it's fleeting among most.
@mgway46613 жыл бұрын
It’s gotta be similar to being married to a rockstar too
@pickolascage12833 жыл бұрын
@@mgway4661 lmao almost.. biggest differences are a lot less stressful job, and it's much easier to find a replacement, even if it's only for the weekend.
@Fireclaws103 жыл бұрын
It must suck. It’s basically signing up for a husband who’s going to be crippled, dead or mentally scarred. It’s not about “handling a lifestyle”. It isn’t a lifestyle. It’s barely a marriage. Same as a senior surgeon, lawyer etc (except they don’t have the danger). Never home, always working, no time for family.
@pickolascage12833 жыл бұрын
@@Fireclaws10 if it were easy, everyone would do it.
@latsnojokelee64343 жыл бұрын
He also didn’t mention screwing around and cheating on their wives that leads to a lot of divorces. Howard Wasdin wrote a book about being a seal back in about 2000 and he was pretty honest about the fact that the guys screw around a lot. His wife eventually got her revenge by having a baby and he was at the hospital watching it being delivered and realize the baby was a completely different color than him.
@J3anGrey4 жыл бұрын
This is very eye opening, thank you
@weilongrey3 жыл бұрын
Bravo. Your the center of the world. The barrels waiting.
@anthonyfiducia3 жыл бұрын
Wow! I am not selfish on this one, my work, my mission is most important. Thank you
@huntermcgovern60714 жыл бұрын
This goes for first responder spouses too. I work through weekends, birthdays, holidays, and I know that if I had a spouse who was constantly bugging about it, it would prevent me from putting my all into what I love. It's nothing personal, just something that comes with the territory.
@platanitoconpolloyarroz30053 жыл бұрын
U are true
@AQUAPHREESH1933 жыл бұрын
Must be hard considering the state of the world right now 😩
@Irond3vil24 жыл бұрын
If I was in active duty I'd stay single. Who needs a wife and kids to worry about when in combat? "THE HEATER ISN'T WORKING AGAIN, YOU'RE NEVER HERE"
@kenbuck22934 жыл бұрын
It is a good point. But we all need that
@ark13494 жыл бұрын
True
@terminalfilms80743 жыл бұрын
Well it gives you a reason to keep fighting even when you think the end is near.
@vagabond84603 жыл бұрын
The battle ain’t worth fighting if there’s nothing to fight for, and you don’t have to be married to pursue a relationship with a woman while in the Special Operations. But it’s hard man, it takes a strong woman, no, a strong person in general to have that mental fortitude.
@latsnojokelee64343 жыл бұрын
There are guys that don’t get married until they get out so then you end up with a 40 something-year-old guy marrying a 20 something-year-old woman so he can have children. Which sounds great for the guy, but for the woman, when that guy turns 50, he’s probably going to be in the VA hospital half the time with injuries and operations and she’s going to be practically a nurse.
@GabrielleDaly3 жыл бұрын
LOVE this! My fiancé is in training right now this was very eye opening! Thank you:)
@Fireclaws103 жыл бұрын
As SoF guys, you probably shouldn’t make the decision to get married until you get out. That kind of life isn’t for basically every woman, and basically unfair for them.
@celiamould6 ай бұрын
Somebody give his wife a medal! God bless her.
@TheLordReverend4 жыл бұрын
I definitely brought and in a new way bring stuff home from work and have treated my better half like one of the guys. Very good food for thought and insight guys thanks.
@mrbritisher97484 жыл бұрын
Let's be honest most women like the idea of being with a military man but when the rubber hits the road it's not what they want!
@mgway46613 жыл бұрын
Yeah but they don’t ever learn that fact the easy way
@cowboy43783 жыл бұрын
I mean, if I was a woman and my husband was in the military I’d probably divorce him, being married to a laptop I get to speak to once a week.
@davidnelson77193 жыл бұрын
@@mgway4661 Out of curiosity, what is the easy way to learn that? I think most people here need to realize there is a difference between being a Seal and just being an Alt Right a-hole.
@chloehennessey68133 жыл бұрын
@@davidnelson7719 The easy way is asking yourself. Alt right? Who uses those words? Most folks here are just right leaning. Family, love of country, love of God, right to bear arms, freedom of speech. What’s alt right about that?
@davidnelson77193 жыл бұрын
@@chloehennessey6813 Most folks here are just regular dude. Everyone once in a while you get someone who is on the "all women are evil" band wagon. The misogyny is the tip off of a deeper problem. That problem leads to the alt right.
@robintherunner87094 жыл бұрын
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her” Ephesians 5 : 25 NIV
@robintherunner87094 жыл бұрын
How ironic.
@soundgarden88853 жыл бұрын
Nope.
@fmpairsoft90393 жыл бұрын
True that! Memorized that verse!
@lizzybennett18139 ай бұрын
I think 'putting each other first' means for both people - 'each person should put the other person first, rather than putting yourself first'. And then, of course, the job is the no. 1 priority.
@chars87724 жыл бұрын
I know this is from one of your early podcasts, but as a civilian, I would be interested if you had anything you would add or change to this response, if asked today and after being out of the military for a bit. Legitimate questions, with a 90% divorce rate within that community, the lifestyle itself seems antithetical to what one would need to have a successful marriage; at worst a simply stable one. As someone who has no knowledge of this world besides what I've learned on the growing genre of Navy Seal podcasts and books, I would be curious to know Jocko's thoughts on the the most common "non-job-related" contributors to divorce. - With the lifestyle and lack of proximity to anyone except your Teammates, what are the infidelity rates of either the TEAM guys or their wives, and how does the community deal/view that? - For the guys that make it through with their marriage intact, what is the rate of divorce after they leave the Teams? - What kind of relationships do these guys have with their kids (either while still married or post divorce)? - Given the "friendly" abuse among your brothers/friends as part of the culture, does that translate into actual abuse at home? - Given how insular this world seems, how is the transition out of the military? I know marriage is difficult when not faced with any of the challenges required by the job these guys do, so I imagine the job and lifestyle exasperate existing problems, or weak marriages. But, if what you're saying is true, then you and your wife are among the exceptions. Thanks for sharing this snippet.
@parmsidhu25414 жыл бұрын
Under 1k views. Keep up the good work sir! Love the podcast and I want to ask you what should I pursue: SEALs or Rangers? I’m in college right now and I want to be a doctor in the future but also serve in spec ops. I am inspired by Johnny Kim to do this so please let me know
@GodWolfofWar4 жыл бұрын
Decided for yourself
@kristianmedders37734 жыл бұрын
Look Into pararescue
@punapirate59074 жыл бұрын
Get some and good luck on that path.
@parmsidhu25414 жыл бұрын
Leroy Brown thank you sir for the advice. The reason I want to be part of the military is because along with becoming a doctor, I’ve always wanted to be in the military as well. So there’s that but yea I’ll consider that too. Thank you for the input.
@parmsidhu25414 жыл бұрын
Krishy I did look into them. I like their role and I’ll even consider them but how long is there training ?
@tbone0074 жыл бұрын
I have two friends that are former Army Rangers and they told me something that I always wondered if it is true. Is the fastest way to a young navy seal to do something is to say “I bet a Army Ranger could do it.”, vice versa to a Army Ranger “I bet a Navy Seal could do it.”. Is it true?
@benshapiro71474 жыл бұрын
from Army SOF in Korea. 5:00 quite funny its really the same here in my country haha
@bettermanchannel7704 жыл бұрын
Direction, discipline, communication and virtues
@sageagbonkhese40914 жыл бұрын
Military life and married life were never meant to coincide. Which is why they rarely work or its always on edge one step from divorce.
@ironpig7013 жыл бұрын
Didnt realize how high divorce rate was in the SEAL's. I know America is 50%. 90% is a big rate. This is great advice for military. This can also be applied to many of us in civilian world. Worked on the road doing 4 10's so home on weekends. Had guys on grew who would call home an hour plus every single night.
@marylagua50793 жыл бұрын
I’m fully aware of the military life. You just need to give full support. It’s not easy being in the service.
@chloehennessey68134 жыл бұрын
Don’t know about marrying an SF soldier or SEAL. I mean I’m thankful we have men that are willing to do it. But I don’t like the thought of him being gone for years at a time.
@jackmaxted56834 жыл бұрын
Better to be entirely honest with yourself, then pretend you can do it, potentially leading to a messy situation, imho
@odinzraider5914 жыл бұрын
Its not years. Typical SOF deployments are 90-120 days. Because of the op tempo its shorter rotations. RA deployments are 9 months.
@shotguncleric4 жыл бұрын
@@odinzraider591 only nine months!@? BACK IN MY DAY...
@odinzraider5914 жыл бұрын
@@shotguncleric Yea. Back in my day it was 15 too. Lol. But times have changed, brother.
@DeviousToster2 жыл бұрын
He gets this really wrong, woman who divorce those men are doing those independent even more then if they stayed married. They are not just metaphorically alone, they are alone. They just don't want to be married and be alone at the same time. It's not about can, it's about want to. Most people want to be married, to be married in the more regular sense.
@chinookpreparedness49494 жыл бұрын
In your last podcast, you recommended doing jujitsu with your wife. Can you and your wife demostrate some basic/self defence techniques?
@bettermanchannel7704 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥
@E_Munny7 ай бұрын
Need a part 2
@brianpm20103 жыл бұрын
Patrice O'Neal would be proud of you Jocko. Thank you for your service.
@twoonthewall3 жыл бұрын
Never in the military but love these podcasts. We are a family of doctors/surgeons I saw my mom support my dad in his profession. Like he would come in late and the first thing out of his mouth was I need to get changed and head back in to the hospital in 30mins. She would never bitch or get pissed, she understood that is the job, she would say go shower ill fix you a plate of food. My own marriage didn't work because she couldn't accept the patients came first. For example she would be pissed for the day if I was called in at night because the call woke her and i was making noise getting dressed in the dark ( she banned me from putting on the light) even though she would be back asleep in 5 mins! Luckily we didnt have kids and we separated pretty amicably. There is a reason so many surgeons are married to nurses!
@jaykingsun70933 жыл бұрын
A lot of people can't handle not being first priority.
@CptBeardo4 жыл бұрын
Lay that chicken in some Soy Sauce the day before cooking, you´ll never have dry chicken again.
@dereksolano2421 Жыл бұрын
How do you put each other first if you have to put the military first? Realistically, we are bound by a contract with the military. We can’t just say “no”. I work 10 plus hours a day. Knock out errands on the way home, get home and knock out to-do list tasks, cook dinner, try to show some affection, and then go to bed and wake up and do it again the next day. In between deployments and courses and training, and PCS, we try to go on the occasional trip or adventure. In the end she feels lonely and that the world revolves around my work. In all of this, how can we put them first, or make them feel first? It just seems like a nice thing to say but is unrealistic.
@Thefree_mandecker3 жыл бұрын
Little do pppl know, Jocko is telling you everything he loves about his wife and how she treated him while he was in the teams. THIS is how it works.
@fauxbro19832 жыл бұрын
Jody is knocking at the door
@b8theartist5174 жыл бұрын
“ jujitsu goals”😭💀
@shellmalm59882 жыл бұрын
Abuse. Husband. Marriage. A mirage? I'm really struggling. :( Thank you for your videos they are awesome though!
@YouTubeUserAlbert3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Jocko, for describing the least emotionally fulfilling relationship imaginable 😅
@montieluckett70363 жыл бұрын
It's one of those jobs where the wife is the Mistress and the job is the Wife.
@mariorodriguez2194 жыл бұрын
I wonder if there’s an unspoken truth about them fooling around
@latsnojokelee64343 жыл бұрын
That’s very true that they screw around a lot. Get Howard Wasdin’s book on being a SEAL.
@Flashjump4 жыл бұрын
she goes THE DISTANCE 🤣
@OkOk-vj9db4 жыл бұрын
Avoid the Jody
@panosm.80414 жыл бұрын
What do you mean? Do I have to watch the Jody podcasts to find out?
@OkOk-vj9db4 жыл бұрын
@@panosm.8041 Jody is military slang for the guy that steals your girl from you while you're away in the military. If you join you will hear about Jody a LOT.
@bettermanchannel7704 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥
@TheLordReverend4 жыл бұрын
So few do
@SherinChibi4 жыл бұрын
This is gold.
@annachristie3775 ай бұрын
I grew up with a dad who thought his job was far more important than his family biggest mistake he ever made
@robert7044 жыл бұрын
It's tough with the wife and kid, year 7.5
@DylanZapf-dm4mh3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for your service.
@aking84773 жыл бұрын
If all you got was an "I'm not a team guy" in response to that, your wife might be cooler than you. Lmao
@nikog25752 жыл бұрын
All the SF hopefuls sending this to their wives. >being told "I'm not a team guy" for the rest of their lives. 😂
@Xinthisis4 жыл бұрын
Great topic
@x2pm2 жыл бұрын
I disagree about the not checking in everyday? Yes not everyday but once a week can be too much for the woman. I think 3 times a week is a good balance, because usually lots of woman wants reassurance. no doubt. its in the nature, they can do their thing independently but it’s nice to know that the significant other can check in every now and then even if its a brief 20 mins call. this is usually caused of divorce cause its rare for woman to expected to have that once a week communication. majority will be okay if they understand and balance it out to three. you need to compromised at both party cause everyone has different boundaries and learn to respect each other if you do care
@saritamcintyre14522 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all the advice I am going to be a spouse soon to a navy seal soon and it's hard
@yestrech Жыл бұрын
Hi ma'am! I'm on LDR with my military bf. I do my best to understand and not act/ be needy. My problem recently is I keep looking at my phone from a notif/ txt from him and I don't like that about me. He posted on socmed yet have yet to open my message. How do I not stress about this? He and I are dating to marry. I appreciate any marriage advice. Thank you in advance! :)
@theprosico40924 жыл бұрын
I'm not a special forces wife or a woman for that matter. Why am I watching this?
@OkOk-vj9db4 жыл бұрын
Why not?
@ratagris214 жыл бұрын
Good advice for any marriage.
@larryapl4 жыл бұрын
To learn something. Always take advantage when you can learn somethin
@patm41194 жыл бұрын
Lol
@MajesticDemonLord3 жыл бұрын
Jocko and Echo's Forearms?
@Nyngarra4 жыл бұрын
Who is the JP they are talking about?
@digitt24 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson
@chars87724 жыл бұрын
I think he’s referring to JP Dinnell (sp?), another Team guy. This excerpt is from one of Jocko’s early podcasts. He had JP on and they talked about his marriage somewhere around broadcast 43-47, I think. That was an interesting listen because JP doesn’t seem to take Jocko’s approach to marriage. That said, I don’t know if it was the same while he was in the Teams or if it changed when he got out.
@nelsoncalde3 жыл бұрын
Now that’s a wife
@BearTow3 жыл бұрын
Basically both spouses have to put the job first.
@avikurtach28034 жыл бұрын
Hey Jocko I know the Mrs doesn't want to come on but if she can give her side of this topic in some other way it would be worth alot to me and I'm assuming other people. Tell her I said please?
@christianhenson6924 Жыл бұрын
In other words wait until your out.
@casualsmasual43333 жыл бұрын
Girlfriend: "my boyfriend wants to be a Seal, but, I want to change him, do you think our marriage will work out?"
@yujuti84163 жыл бұрын
If a person could be 100% independent emotionally, s/he doesn’t need marriage. That’s my humble opinion.
@ryan77753 жыл бұрын
you know nothing mate
@claudetterain22432 жыл бұрын
is it the same for female navy eod?
@samgrey56924 жыл бұрын
Jiujitz
@hyattstorey2717 Жыл бұрын
ALFA defense… Commando Theo SaTCom Strat. ALPHA ECHO Theo Defense Strat.
@EckRD2 жыл бұрын
Easy. Don't get married if both of y'all are busy and cant see each other frequently. The BAH- etc may be enticing, but the problems of cheating or finding an interesting person is there.
@trex58784 жыл бұрын
3 gallons of water
@kimhesketh20163 жыл бұрын
It might be best for these guys to wait until they are older and closer to the end of their time in special forces before they marry. By then they will have more wisdom and have cut down on drinking the kool-aid.
@nightfighter74524 жыл бұрын
Advice for being single and alone?
@kenbuck22934 жыл бұрын
Get after it
@KagedTyrant4 жыл бұрын
Join seal team lol
@nate72494 жыл бұрын
First mistake is getting married. The divorced laws are stacked against Men.
@al.16684 жыл бұрын
How is going to work and hanging with the guys "just because" the same thing?
@T13-o7u Жыл бұрын
Best advice. Don't get married as an active fighter.
@kirillfedtsov4 жыл бұрын
Words sound dumb when you don't know the original meaning
@humanrightsadvocateforendo57534 жыл бұрын
ECHO
@Yellowmellowbromod3 жыл бұрын
Ha! The amount of americans who can relate to this are very smol.
@docb18442 жыл бұрын
90% divorce rate means 90% of wives can’t stand the experience of not being #1. They expect us to demonstrate sacrificial love but they can’t hold themselves to the same standard. Men and women are different. Nuff Said
@kale64674 жыл бұрын
Wowh
@annachristie3775 ай бұрын
I'd say the biggest thing that soldiers need to do is not cheat on their wives That's a far bigger problem than oh they're always at work😂😂😂😂😂
@tigerstriker4 жыл бұрын
🙏💯
@liamvieques98503 жыл бұрын
I only clicked to see how long it would take before he said some out of pocket shit about women. I didn’t have to wait long.
@extremeteam48493 жыл бұрын
good !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
@mark3473473 жыл бұрын
Wow Jocko where the hell did you find such a wife?
@aronpye49314 жыл бұрын
If you can’t put your partner for life first then you shouldn’t get married