The problem with 90% of the people Mark interviews is a lack of love when they were kids. If you don’t get any love when you were younger, you’re gonna have lifelong problems. Whether that’s drugs or sex work or whatever. It’s down to people having children when they aren’t up to the task at hand.
@zhivagray5 ай бұрын
Nailed it. Imo this seems to be the overall message that we should derive from his work and we should be taking this all into serious consideration. Marks podcast - Soft White Underbelly is a channel that I would implore everyone to take a deep dive on, discuss among their peers, and start making steps by whatever moral means necessary to start introducing programs or whatever we can as a collective to end this tragic cycle of perpetual, generational trauma ☹️💔🙏
@alicassidy89135 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@PamDubier5 ай бұрын
@@CT-pv9gu EXACTLY why I am pro choice and pro birth control. Imagine a world where every child was wanted, welcomed, loved, and properly cared for.
@videogameriss5 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!!!
@wickedhero135 ай бұрын
Well I was loved very much by my family. But the neighbor felt like molesting a 6 yr old for a yr and didn't say shit till I was older. Trying to get on his interview currently.. I've had a wild fn life so far.
@alaskansummertime5 ай бұрын
I honestly don't know how he does it. I recently started helping a homeless girl. Honestly in part due to being inspired by this guy. Its absolutely heart breaking hearing her stories. I managed to get her into housing and employed in only a couple weeks. It cost me less than a hundred bucks. She told me I was literally the only stranger she met who helped her. It broke my heart when she told me that.
@JoanneGreene-g4l5 ай бұрын
God will bless you.
@thevixenxiii5 ай бұрын
you’re an angel
@DS-mh5hb5 ай бұрын
🙏🏻
@aprilstardavisjewelry5 ай бұрын
And you didn’t have to profit off it so all my respect to you but nada for this man
@bellamichelle62485 ай бұрын
But he helps no one. Steals money from donations he claims to make for the people needing them. 12:26 he’s still deceiving people.
@eduenas5 ай бұрын
"You can't fix childhood", that hit me. 😢 It will always hurt... it's a daily struggle. I wish I could erase certain parts of the cassette tape in my head. I love watching SWU, makes me feel that I'm not alone. Thank you Mark...
@CatalinaFOIA5 ай бұрын
I agree 😢💔 It's easier to raise healthy children than to try and fix broken adults.
@jessekendall46585 ай бұрын
Hey I know I'm just 1 out of 8 billion, but I'm sorry. I'm sorry you hurt, I'm sorry things weren't better. We get 1 shot at life, Live, love, laugh. Jesse
@eduenas5 ай бұрын
@@jessekendall4658 thank you 🫂
@drakelessner39815 ай бұрын
the cassette tape. plays on its own. restarts on its own
@EphemeralProductions4 ай бұрын
Exactly. I’m 50 and still strongly affected by the hurtful words and things said and done to me in childhood, by my mother and the kids at school and even a few others. my self esteem is still tanked. Hard to get over.
@alicassidy89135 ай бұрын
I just finished the interview with Brian who became snowblind on Everest... I've been a fan of Marks channel for a few years. I find it interesting to learn about people and their lives. My heart goes out to most of them... This world needs a lot of love .. Thanks Joe for having him on.
@francislee7985 ай бұрын
Mark liata is a pretty bad guy I’d look into it
@hotgirlbummer5205 ай бұрын
@francislee798 his vibe is definately off . Like why does he seem so nervous? Or what is up?
@a.marvellehoneyman45605 ай бұрын
@@francislee798gossip, unless you have proof, envious much?
@susankeith3264 ай бұрын
@@francislee798Look further. He's doing a great thing.
@JeffMTX4 ай бұрын
@@francislee798go away please
@markmattingly29295 ай бұрын
Just lost my mom 2 weeks ago I can't explain my sadness! She was so beautiful in so many ways! I will never forget the impact she had on me. She accepted me NO MATTER WHAT THATS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!!
@dylanowens79025 ай бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that man. But you’re right that is unconditional love. And I don’t think many people get to experience it. It’s a really beautiful thing
@bethstubb55445 ай бұрын
❤ love to you - sending you a virtual hug.
@markmattingly29295 ай бұрын
@@bethstubb5544 thank you rough times right now!!
@YZFMANIAC085 ай бұрын
I lost my mom a year ago, it gets better but I still hurts me in my core. A mothers love is a mothers love and incomparable
@Sillypsybinista5 ай бұрын
She is always with you. There is no death of spirit. You will be together forever. Just enjoy physical life while you are here.
@tammic20165 ай бұрын
I have been addicted to SWU since I watched a video a couple of years ago. It really helped me understand why people do the things they do and for the most part it’s childhood trauma from SA and incest. It’s horrifying to imagine how many kids deal with this on the daily. I was an empathetic person but am way more so now. Thank you Mark for the work you do. Making the world understand the forgotten people in our society.
@kjrseattle5 сағат бұрын
Don't fool yourself, this is not altruism from Mark....money is made
@JulieASuh5 ай бұрын
Hearing Mark cry when he talks about how his mother loved him is so beautiful. I hope my son would speak of me that way some day. ❤
@jr42a14 ай бұрын
Depends on what kind of mother you are..
@madeleinemetalmusic4 ай бұрын
I immediately thought of my own son and hoped he will speak of me this way.
@micahlawton4 ай бұрын
It was a beautiful moment
@JeffMTX4 ай бұрын
We all do. But we fulfilled our responsibilities, even as flawed individuals. Love. You did good. Legacy really doesn’t matter (imho!) ❤
@davidhughes87954 ай бұрын
This made me cry as well. Lost my mum a few years ago, 100% know what he means and how lucky I was.
@Mikefame35 ай бұрын
Watching this for a 2nd time….only the best interviews get a 2nd watch…this is one of them
@TaraLeigh_in_Canada2 ай бұрын
❤my 3rd 👌and I agree....❤
@deborahparker1731Ай бұрын
Same
@kwpp73 ай бұрын
"A crash course in empathy" - that was the perfect way for Mark to describe his channel. That's exactly what it's been for me.
@Crow58534 ай бұрын
I have come to appreciate Mark very much. He has done interesting compelling work. Your love for your parents is so touching, Mark.
@dsmlive39825 ай бұрын
My opinion is for Mark to enjoy HIS life. Thanks Mark for all you have accomplished. Be safe and find peace and tranquility in other areas.
@autumn58522 күн бұрын
Whose life is he currently enjoying if not his?
@allisonjefferson44695 ай бұрын
“People define themselves as their lowest point” YUP. Mark does amazing work and I’ve enjoyed watching his channel for years now. It absolutely influenced my decision to pursue psych nursing.
@Idaknough5 ай бұрын
Bless you!!! This is exactly what im sure mark had in mind….inspiring us to be better!! And you are by your career choice!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@bayoubabe6698Ай бұрын
Thank you!! We need the best psych nurses! They are a huge part of the sick person’s treatment 🩷. You go!!!!!
@lizpadilla57705 ай бұрын
A follower of SoftWhite Underbelly for years now. All the different walks of life. Most interviews start with where are you from and did you have both parents in your life. That's where it starts. Mark gives all these people a voice to tell their story.
@lisamorales39144 ай бұрын
I’ve been watching Mark for about 3.5 years now. Couldn’t believe how raw yet how empathetic he interviewed his participants. Never seen anything so honest. Would you consider stories that are uplifting, coming from terrible to surpassing challenges and coming out the other side with success. Those people that should be our heroes to the next generation.
@schuler6267Ай бұрын
"There is no aftercare. He didn’t talk to me before the interview or after. He just rolled the camera and when it was done, he said it was too long. I apologized and told him to cut or edit whatever he wants. I left crying and feeling used. But that’s LA I guess." - From the interviewee of a recent episode 'Horror House'
@charliefisher40445 ай бұрын
Mark has a big heart, and I relate with being curious about people's stories. I try to give grace to people knowing they could be a victim of horrible abuse, and nobody knows it, and they think nobody cares!
@Morselconfections20155 ай бұрын
I LOVE his interview with the divorce lawyer. That man is the best relationship coach ever!!!!
@CatalinaFOIA5 ай бұрын
James Sexton ❤ Yes that interview was so amazing. There are probably 50+ different interviews of James Sexton and SWU is one of the best.
@sarkisianhavens3 ай бұрын
No, the female psychologist was the best one
@Mrmallet7772 ай бұрын
@@sarkisianhavens video title please?
@somaticspirituality2 ай бұрын
get to see his second one?
@asap71892 ай бұрын
@@sarkisianhavens nah the one wit Mary was the best one
@strindbergman4 ай бұрын
Soft white underbelly is THE best source of looking at the state of the now in the face in a unbiased and open manner. It deserves every success. It is wonderful work being done.
@pugluver10134 ай бұрын
Mark you got me with your mom!!! And yes she would very PROUD of you!! She raised an exceptional REAL empathetic human being!!! Much respect to you and keep doing what you do!! Thanks for trying to make people open their eyes to a major issue in society with perspective to mental health issues!!!!
@suzanneanderson69215 ай бұрын
Mark has this gentle way about him. I am a huge fan.
@mineuser55845 ай бұрын
He is such a caring man. He really loves people and wants to share the stories of those who aren’t heard. I love that. I appreciate that about him.
@mattparr30384 ай бұрын
100%, whenever I watch the guy, I came away feeling good. He's a wholesome fella.
@amyshell21124 ай бұрын
He’s an incredible human being.
@mollycote10214 ай бұрын
Me too!❤
@Heyoudummy4 ай бұрын
He’s the best.
@repentorperish19704 ай бұрын
The interesting and refreshing thing about Mark is he has no complaints about his life. He brags on his parents & upbringing. He does not complain about any aspect of his life. No drugs. No PTSD. No depression or anxiety. A guy who has had a very good life who can still empathize with people from the most bizarre backgrounds.
@Yes_Anastasia15 күн бұрын
Yeah, that’s the part that is wild to me. Most people that empathize with the “lowest class” of society have some personal experience with it. Whether that’s themselves, or family, they know it firsthand. Mark is like a Ken doll. Perfect upbringing, perfect career, perfect family. And he still finds a way to connect with these people. It amazes me.
@anthonyarillottamoneymayhe94955 ай бұрын
I had the pleasure of meeting Mark,a true gentleman. Also he interviewed me twice. Coming out soon.
@autumn58522 күн бұрын
You’re coming out? As straight or gay? Who are you playing in your interview? I’ll look out for it.
@eversosleight5 ай бұрын
Mark is quickly becoming a national treasure at this point. Godspeed Mark 🤍
@JessRaeEth5 ай бұрын
Do you know how many MILLIONS upon MILLIONS he makes exploiting these people he interviews?! He is LOADED.
@francislee7985 ай бұрын
Mark liata is a really bad person!
@Toonces6665 ай бұрын
@@JessRaeEthMark earned the money from a top-notch, high-paying career in advertising. Do some basic research before you make accusations.
@Toonces6665 ай бұрын
@@francislee798You need to do some research. What you say is apocryphal and patently untrue.
@ApacheChief5 ай бұрын
Mark admitted that he is exploiting them in one of his episodes. He had a good reason for it but I forgot his explanation
@charliefisher40445 ай бұрын
I think people in communities know when kids are being abused, you can tell by looking at them, most of the time. People turn their heads and ignore it.
@izzydeadyet73365 ай бұрын
I used to walk my kids to school everyday and pick them up . There were a few kids id see everyday that clearly should've been looked into.. when I was a teen in the 90s, my school was all over my parents over everything when they both worked full-time and didn't have time for the BS if myself and the school.. today I see kids slipping through the cracks right in front of everyone! If I were a teacher, and saw a kid coming to class everyday wearing the same clothes for months, I'd be reaching out to the parents! My son once had a friend that followed us home after school and I had no clue where he lived or who his parents were. Luckily the school called because someone saw him follow us home, and connected me to the dad, who took hours before he came and got his son!
@suefleming5 ай бұрын
People are afraid to get involved.
@delwynmitchell40865 ай бұрын
I got told at my work... Go listen to Joe Rogan (because I loved talk back), I never did, but I love Mark Latta, he has never drank/smoked/or drugs, he is.... NEXT LEVEL, a forgiving soul
@sitindogmas5 ай бұрын
I agree with Mark on human greed, it is the problem along with 75% of bureaucracy that are self important and entitled and completely usless
@Fred_Guerette5 ай бұрын
I understand how you feel after seeing so much mental or physical trauma. I am an ER nurse since 16 years and i feel tired mentally too. The disease of your patient transpose to your body
@Chilenitos225 ай бұрын
Loved what you said about your mum, Mark. Thanks for sharing your strength through your vulnerability 🙏🏽
@jaynemathiot66175 ай бұрын
I truly believe that offering hope and showing gentle care over a period of time will help and encourage people who are struggling, while maybe nurturing some self-belief. Admittedly there are some people who will just abuse help and kindness. I have watched Marks videos for many years now, and he is such a kind, patient soul. I have seen Mark learn - or at least show that we can't fix people. However we can walk with them in their shoes from time to time, and this is what Mark does so superbly whilst supporting their plight, raising awareness and this is very special indeed. Huge high five for this. ❤
@local84575 ай бұрын
Mark’s content has helped me realize i am so much stronger than i think. I got so close to being where most of the people he interviews are. Thank you for showing reality 🙏
@hollydavis22614 ай бұрын
🌷
@CopingWClaypool3 ай бұрын
same, Jesus has his hand on us !
@autumn58522 күн бұрын
You nearly became an actor? What happened? Did you see the light?
@nykjayde5 ай бұрын
I love Marks' work! Thank you for interviewing him!
@charliefisher40445 ай бұрын
I was on a Grand Jury a couple years ago and had to hear about a man that raped his daughter and her friends that came to visit. This man is still freaking walking around in the community!!
@WendyP19655 ай бұрын
Pure effing evil!!
@danielmeuler28775 ай бұрын
A Grand Jury can indite a ham sandwich. Why is he still walking around and not charged??
@EphemeralProductions4 ай бұрын
Unbelievable. Far as I’m concerned, the punishment they should give him, if they’re not going to throw him in prison, they should make sure the community he lives in know what he did. The shit he’ll get from the populace will more than make up for his lack of prison!
@JeffMTX4 ай бұрын
Dammit. They’re trying to destroy our society.
@rheamusic3142 ай бұрын
This episode has been nothing short of inspirational. It gave me hope to see people talking about what I'm always thinking about. Things have to change at ground level because "You can't fix a childhood". Thanks Mark and Joe!!
@cstwin59985 ай бұрын
This most definitely one of my favorite episodes
@lanceprzybyla76625 ай бұрын
It all starts at home having 2 loving parents....
@Huracan1111Ай бұрын
One is enough. Chill. Love is key. From parental figures. A Mom, Dad, Grandma, Aunt, Uncle, Adoptive parent, Older sibling etc. Just love. Knowing you are loved.
@DonnaOneil-f6e24 күн бұрын
It certainly helps
@andrewbickell82325 ай бұрын
Need more people in the world like Mark
@Chris-gr1on4 ай бұрын
Coming soon from Houston be on the look out
@florence13952 ай бұрын
Totally agree
@christineelizabeth72702 ай бұрын
We really REALLY don’t - watch the piece on him by bj investigates then come back and tell me what a national treasure you think he is…trust me he is an awful person
@autumn58522 күн бұрын
@@christineelizabeth7270lol do you even know who blow job is? lol! Did you see bam on SWU? She was on bj’s show a couple of times.
@maryjanedehanes4493Ай бұрын
Discovered Mark on KZbin with the West Virginia family who lives in Appalachia. Family extremely poor, illiterate, and history of incest. He still follows the family and helps them financially. This man has a heart of gold. He just has to watch out that his kindness is not perceived as a weakness . Good man.
@TxRepublicanGrl82035 ай бұрын
I love Mark’s videos. Some have brought me to tears. I can’t imagine the mental stress he has to deal with while doing these videos.
@stosounian4 ай бұрын
Yes to what you said, Mark, it is important for people to know about the story behind people so we learn for our own families, but also to have compassion and awareness. So much hurt these people have endured. It is heartbreaking.
@chrisellersagangstaАй бұрын
one thing i admire about mark is he never talks over the person hes interviewing he lets them tell their story with minimal questions so its nice to hear his
@gezellige_poes9674 ай бұрын
What a great interview. I have tremendous respect for Mark Laita, all that he has achieved and his thoughts/insights. One comment mentioned Mark's wear and tear on himself. Anyone pursuing extremely impassioned paths such as Mark's work with society's down trodden, will realize there are costs to one's heart, mind, body and soul. The ultimate challenge is to establish and maintain boundaries and compartmentalization to stay "on the sane side of the tracks." This could well include a point at which one would need to "retire" for personal salvation. I know this from personal experience from years of extreme animal rescue. At one point, the toll on me personally was crippling beyond repair and I had to pass the torch.
@lynetteduncan65235 ай бұрын
I’m 55 and have known since I was 8 that I was molested/abused. However I was also told I was loved, so for a child so young it’s impossible to process the abuse because children focus on whatever love they get. I have gone to different therapists/psychiatrist my entire adult life. In my early 20s a Psychiatrist who I told about abuse, told me I was irrational and prescribed me Prozac. (This Psychiatrist was a family friend) hind sight is 20/20. My mother taught me self hate. In junior high school I was given 2 dexatrim capsules and a can of Sego ( disgusting diet shake) in a can. I was 12, and had complained to my mother that someone I went to school with teased me about being chubby. Etc, etc, not one time could I understand the disconnect as a child, because I wanted to believe my mother loved me. Anyway at 55 I did mushrooms and boom I realized abuse and love are not the same!
@tomosvarijudit22915 ай бұрын
Proud of you! Wish you all the best!💖
@AtibaVV5 ай бұрын
Powerful. I believe our ancestors used to meditate with psychedelic mushrooms
@autumn58522 күн бұрын
I’m glad you knew otherwise that would be weird
@ellygarcia69862 ай бұрын
What Mark does is unique. He has the ability to build rapport with people on all levels, without prejudice. I can't imagine the personal impact these people and their life stories of pain and suffering, must have on one's psyche. Heartbreaking. He continues to give us an insight into the lives of ordinary people which is not only compelling, emotionally charged but also very awesome inspiring. He deserves our thanks because these stories can't but help make us as individuals appreciate what we have and be grateful for every little thing. Thank you.
@valgarvin60265 ай бұрын
I watched the guy who survived Gacy on SWU. He was so interesting! And I think a lot of that was Mark. Same with the French Legionnaire. Great stuff!
@beeonthyme57605 ай бұрын
I loved him too! His descriptions put you right in his inner space.
@cldflorida5 ай бұрын
Mark is a special human! Love his stories and the way he interviews and handles the people he interviews
@autumn58522 күн бұрын
Very special indeed.
@neenaj365Ай бұрын
The night stalker (Richard Ramirez) also stayed in the Cecil Hotel. Elisa Lam was the girl who was found in the water tank. Tragic for her and her family. Rest in Peace.
@joyous1011Ай бұрын
Im a recovery addict of 10+ yrs, not ALL addicts are suffering from mental health or had trauma as a child. Some just have addiction in their DNA, learned behavior maybe. My Grandmother was a alcoholic, my mother is a alcoholic, and I was a addict of opioids. I had a great childhood and no trauma just hung around the wrong crowd during a low point in my life.
@Simplyrecovery19 күн бұрын
it's so complex, I'm a recovering addict myself and there are so many unhelpful stereotypes. I truly hope your winning the fight, I'm on methadone after a treacherous 20 years of opiates started with a prescription and graduated to opium then heroin and illicit pills from India.
@joyous101119 күн бұрын
@Simplyrecovery yes I'm on a low dose of methadone as well. Thanks for the well wishes, I wish the same for you as well 😊 💪🏽
@Vesselofvirtue8 күн бұрын
Having a parent as an alcoholic is traumatic.
@angelalapiene-kurz28555 ай бұрын
Go Mark! Thanks for giving so many a voice.
@hydropeppers4 ай бұрын
Man crazy to see these 2 together. Would love a follow up down the road.
@autumn58522 күн бұрын
They’ve done quite a few interviews together, more than a dozen at least
@jenniferadamski62625 ай бұрын
I feel like not only does your channel help bring awareness and hopefully bring some sort of help to your interviewees, but it also makes people who are in or were in those same situations, not feel so alone.
@grannygoes78825 ай бұрын
18:32 so true!! I'm a retired social worker and the people I know who got clean didn't do it with treatment, they just woke up one day and decided they couldn't live that life anymore. Treatment is a revolving door and a HUGE money pit.
@BeBoppin20005 ай бұрын
I agree with you about treatment, but as a substance use counselor, I feel that if I can help 1 person in 10 to stay clean, it's worth the effort.
@akaku95 ай бұрын
@@BeBoppin2000 You would be correct in that assumption. If the organization you work for is a religious one; just make sure you check yourself consistently and regularly. Even if you feel the need not to. Doubly so, even. It's not pretty, but the main culprits of this specific issue are religious organizations.
@BeBoppin20005 ай бұрын
@@akaku9 I don't work for a religious organization. It's a private company.
@alexarcher27973 ай бұрын
I decided to get clean on my own but I never would have gotten on my feet without treatment so there's great programs out there that help if they want it. Otherwise there's no point.
@grannygoes78823 ай бұрын
@@alexarcher2797 That makes sense. I'm glad you got some good out of the programs!
@Toonces6665 ай бұрын
I think Mark is his mother’s best work in life, and that is quite a compliment.
@Jesusfreedmefully4 ай бұрын
33:42 everything Mark has done regarding his work has taught me priceless lessons.
@meavia20535 ай бұрын
Unconditional love. I think Marks momma did a mighty fine job of raising him by showing him what unconditional love is. What if everone had unconditional love. It will never happen. But what if?
@wendypoohbear65274 ай бұрын
Thats what God is for. I wish everyone could fill their God size hole w His love instead of drugs, sex, adrenaline, drama, money, etc. The world would be full of love because God is love.
@meavia20534 ай бұрын
@@wendypoohbear6527 Amen. Thank you for reminding me.
@CopingWClaypool3 ай бұрын
@@meavia2053thanks for being receptive, The lord loves us all ❤ Nothing can separate the love he has for us. We can’t change the world and quite frankly it isn’t our burden to.❤
@srslyallthegoodhandlesaretakenАй бұрын
1:19:42 Mark, I'm sorry for the irreparable loss of your beloved mother. The way you spoke about her moved me. It is the way I speak about my father, whom I also lost in recent years. How fortunate we are to have known the unconditional love of a parent. It is likely the most important relationship one can have-parent and child. Please listen to yourself and move towards work that won't take a toll on your health. God bless.
@KDBaker5 ай бұрын
Been following Mark's work on SWU for a few years. Mark - your work is SO important. Please keep going. Joe - thanks for talking with him and getting to know what's behind the curtain.
@smassey68484 ай бұрын
I have followed Mark’s channel since Covid 2020. He is a great man and has brought so much awareness to why / how there is so much mental illness. I am grateful for my parents.
@Jabo__Jabo5 ай бұрын
Mark’s inner calm is comforting. ❤❤
@michellepadilla6325 ай бұрын
100% my hubby is this way BLESS THEM ❤
@autumn58522 күн бұрын
How do you know? I mean I’m sure it is comforting in a way to be calm on the inside but is that how he describes it?
@erikliljenwall81852 ай бұрын
Mark's interview with Logan, who survived the skydiving accident was the first video of Mark's that I watched. It really stuck with me. I think about that interview at least a couple times a week. The part that I never expected was that he was so grateful and optimistic, even after what happened to him.
@wolverwolf1084 ай бұрын
It boils down to “human greed is the problem”. Hit the nail on the head there Mark. Much love brother.
@amyniemann95644 ай бұрын
Greed it’s greed, Ive said that for years
@aileenmac14 ай бұрын
But people admire the very wealthy. Musk; Peterson ; Oprah ; Trump: Andrew Tate to name but a few. It’s never they admire nurses; doctors; teachers; police officers or firefighters. It’s terribly sad. How do we overcome that ?
@wolverwolf1084 ай бұрын
@@aileenmac1 many people admire wealth because we’ve been trapped in a system that puts money above almost anything else. In my experience, lots of people admire the selfless acts of others in the form of teachers and such. It’s not as apparent if we watch tv or social media, but that’s because those institutions are captured by the same elite that want us to worship money and not compassion. We overcome this by seeking the truth, discovering it for ourselves, and putting out into the world the changes we want to see. It’s a never ending challenge because we are going against the grain of modern society. Changes are coming if we work hard together to create a new paradigm. They need to come or we will perish.
@SergJovanov3 ай бұрын
@@aileenmac1 Who the fuck admires Trump or Tate? Tate is a digital pimp that blew up on Tik Tok... He's a product of the brainless public swiping reals and eating brainless content. His stance on the world is so bent backwards that it's scary how many young people actually eat it whole and believe it. And Trump, I don't even know where to begin... It's just a sign of how degraded and unintelligent we have become as a society. If those are our idols today, I'm terrified of tomorrow...
@life_withl3 ай бұрын
Joe, I’m SO happy you & Mark connected for this discussion…. I’m a huge fan of Mark (and you too) Mark’s work is unprecedented…. 🙏🏼
@lindatabaczka58955 ай бұрын
Thanks Joe for interviewing Mark! ❤
@arlinescates13744 ай бұрын
Been watching Mark’s work for over a year. I love his candidness during interviews. He shows a side of reality that NEEDS to be seen. 💗
@InMusicCro2 ай бұрын
I haven't watched a full Joe Rogan podcast in a long time...but this one I ate.
@DonnaOneil-f6e24 күн бұрын
He is awesome
@jonsirammst5 ай бұрын
Perhaps the most important conversation ever, Joe and Mark. Thank you.
@LeslieC375 ай бұрын
I love Soft White Underbelly and all the work Mark is doing shinning a lite on a horrible reality so many people are trying to survive through. I can relate to some of those people because I used to be a drug addict. My life has been a shit show but I have realized my self worth and am fighting to work every day for the good life I feel like I deserve. It took my love for a cat who needed me to pull me out of the darkness. I have taken in many homeless cats since, its what keeps me going even though I struggle to afford it, I just continue to survive. ❤ God Bless yall 🙏🏼 I Pray for all who are broken. You do matter, you are needed, and you deserve better!!!
@aliciaobrien87134 ай бұрын
I FEEL THE SAME WAY … MY DOG TROOPER WHO IS A FULL BRED SHEPHERD ABSOLUTELY MEANS THE ENTIRE WORLD TO ME!!! 💕🐾
@annabanana37724 күн бұрын
Mark I have been listening to your interviews for years and thankyou for shining a light on this public health crisis which I think complex trauma is at the root of. Joe I recently discovered your podcast and love your interviews as well. You ask what can be done about this crisis and it needs to be addressed from every angle.Education is such an important part of making a dent . Many survivors of childhood trauma and abuse or who don't have safe parents, caregivers or homes end up with complex trauma which is very disabling.I think it would help greatly if every community or county would have complex trauma training and treatment programs including inpatient. Our communities need to do better in providing safety nets/supportive services as well for people who do not have safe stable families which seems to be alot of people. Our culture overall really lacks emotional intelligence and perhaps it would help if we can integrate this into our public school curriculum.
@johnholt21935 ай бұрын
Mark's work is important as well as fascinating . Great interview here . I'd also love it if Joe had Peter Santenello on the show sometime.
@aliciaobrien87134 ай бұрын
That would be a cool 3
@EphemeralProductions4 ай бұрын
Me too! That would be awesome!
@DonnaOneil-f6e24 күн бұрын
Love this idea
@BettaBabe2 ай бұрын
His interviews could be used as research for statistical uses in psychology. In mental illness etc. What he's doing is invaluable on so many levels.
@charliefisher40445 ай бұрын
I love how Mark loves his mother!!! I feel like my son and I have that kind of relationship. All my kids were great, even though I know I wasn't a perfect mom. They know I love them unconditionally! We are under attack by the people that hate God and family, and I'm thankful my family are still intact.
@Lauricella715 ай бұрын
I was widely anticipating these two having a “chat”. Mark, you are an amazing individual. I began watching Soft White Underbelly back in 2019. Joe, thanks for having Mark on your show! 3:42
@francislee7985 ай бұрын
Maam
@francislee7985 ай бұрын
You have to look into mark liata
@monicab75334 ай бұрын
You give people a voice and raise awareness, Mark. And show compassion with no judgement throughout it all. We appreciate you and all you do, Sir.
@ewitaonthetube5 ай бұрын
Mark is a very goodhearted man. Love him and the good work he is doing. Very interesting interview Joe 👌😍
@charliefisher40445 ай бұрын
It fascinates me that both of you grew up in big cities, and live and big cities. I grew up in rural Alabama, and now at 55 back in the woods of Alabama. I haven't ever been out of the south until May when my husband and I drove to Cheyenne, Wyoming to visit our son, he and his wife were having their first baby. It was amazing seeing places I've never seen, even though Nebraska had nothing to see. lol
@isaacthims7 күн бұрын
Dam you Mark, the amount of tears I have shed watching your interviews. I thought for sure this wouldn’t be the case during this one but you did it again with the love for your MOM! This interview is fire. Two people I have spent countless hours ‘with’ chatting together. What an amazing pair up! Like incredible. Thank you both for what you do. Real stuff matters so much and people need to see all of it to keep the human caring spirit alive.
@plumbusman3 ай бұрын
Living in Chicago and Portland over the last 5 years, seeing the vast homeless always makes me wonder "how did they get there? Why?" Most people assume "drugs" and "mental illness"... sure, but there's still a person there dealing with those issues. Homelessness, poverty, crime, sex work... they're results of drugs and mental issues, not symptoms. Laita's channel, for me, isn't exploitation as much as it is bravery to start a conversation i wish i had. It's fostering empathy and understanding, which is the best remedy to today's assumptions and hate for those who are outside the norm/ acceptable reality of current western society. Without understanding, we'll never solve anything. We'll just kick the can down the road, wasting time and resources doing what we THINK is best. Thanks, Mark! Keep up the good work, and stay brave with love ❤
@maureenwebster95994 ай бұрын
Thanks for bringing Mark to a larger audience. He does amazing work.
@autumn58522 күн бұрын
Does he? I didn’t realise. I thought he just ran than channel where he mock interviews celebrities, lol, I didn’t know he did other stuff. I’m glad to hear it though :)
@suefleming5 ай бұрын
Please be careful Mark.... I worry that someday you may come up against someone that has absolutely no conscience..❤🙏
@shannongriesinger41905 ай бұрын
He already has. Death threats, attempted extortion… I can’t recall the young lady’s name right now, but she was interviewed a couple of times alone. Mark talks about her pimp doing this to him… Wildly, after being interviewed alongside said girl by Mark.
@EphemeralProductions4 ай бұрын
Exactly. The type of persons he interviews have childhoods and lives that can foster sociopathy. I’m sure that some of the people he’s interviewed DO have sociopathy. Hopefully he has personal protection at all interviews and at home, and takes precautions to avoid stalking and blackmail.
@SpeakLife4062 ай бұрын
@@shannongriesinger4190 Her name is Asriah.
@christineelizabeth72702 ай бұрын
Then they’ll be a lot like him. 2 peas in a pod
@gabrielleandruska87403 ай бұрын
What people don't understand is that Mark is a artist, his work is beautiful and terrifying, but it's real. He's shining a light on the problems and issues right under our noses. Sure, it's going to make you uncomfortable but that is the point of his work. It's supposed to make you feel. His whole KZbin channel is a artist gallery filled with stories of life. He's doing what the rich and politicians don't do. He's going out of his way to show how life is for a good portion of your country. The things he shows in his videos is so real it is starkly different from all the other content on KZbin which makes it, unique and honestly amazing and nobody else can do what he does. Because he's an artist and his whole personality is aligned with this work. He's willing to literally risk his life for this art. He doesn't have to save the people who need the help, because that isn't the point and the people who get interviewed and photographed by him know that going in, he's truly one of the best political artists of our time. The people who don't understand why he doesn't help doesn't understand his project. Mark, truly you're an amazing person and your work is saving lives, and waking people up to the reality of what life really is. Thank you.
@TaraLeigh_in_Canada2 ай бұрын
❤well said 😊🎉 and I agree ❤
@wendywaddell-40-315 ай бұрын
Just discovered Mark about 2 weeks ago.. and I’m hooked watching every night…
@denita1104 ай бұрын
Me too. I’m fascinated
@wendywaddell-40-313 ай бұрын
I’m going to visit my daughter in LA nxt month & I’ll be looking for him… 😂 and the local story’s (Rebecca)
@LindaMarieProctor5 күн бұрын
I was born to 2 alcoholics. I was never given love. I was given beatings, yelled at, called the most awful names a child should never feel. My dad killed my cat by slamming my cat against rocks while I cried and begged him to stop; I was 12. They were strict and isolated me from others. They had me cooking and doing all the house chores by 11 years old. At 15 my mom kicked me out. I was homeless for a while. At 15 I made up my mind. I had something to prove to those 2 animals. I decided to be the complete opposite of them, and to do whatever it took to succeed. I have a career, make more money than they ever had, and most importantly be the best mom I can be. It worked. I graduated from one of the best private colleges. I have a career. I have my own business. I have a beautiful family. I work every day to heal my childhood wounds. I turned out well no one’s perfect, but I reached my goal. My parents didn’t go to my graduation, even though I invited them. They now asked me for money. My dad died two years ago of alcoholism and my mother asked me recently to move in with me and live for free. She asks me for money every single month, and I give it to her otherwise she wouldn’t survive yeah I know, a lot of friends have told me to stop. I just don’t talk to her much it feels yucky to speak to her. Yet, I wouldn’t change anything. That sad bruised up kid made me who I am today. I am grateful for everything I have and especially grateful for my beautiful children. Idea: Maybe you can interview Adults Children of Alcoholics and Drug addicts who managed to choose a better path. I think that would be cool too.
@endtimeawakening55575 ай бұрын
Most, if not all, of humanity's problems were solved in this interview. These men are sharing great wisdom that seems to be forgotten in the "modern" era.
@vicaria1194 ай бұрын
Work is his addiction. But you can't have it better than that.
@TheFrancine075 ай бұрын
The world needs more Marks in it ❤️ you sir, are a beacon of love and light for those in need.
@archanaramesh47025 ай бұрын
Honestly I feel like mark is more fascinated by these tragic stories than empathetic.
@ismanovska5 ай бұрын
I'm sure at times hard not to. But he does have a lot of empathy I think
@emoliver805 ай бұрын
Can he not be both at the same time? Is there something so wrong with that? I think majority of the people in the world are that same way. I know i am, and Id like to think im pretty decent human being.
@zlimshady24995 ай бұрын
Why can’t two things be true at once ?
@SSTillmanEsq5 ай бұрын
Same for you. Me. Everyone who has watched one or several SWU interviews.
@NightOwlinNewOrleans4 ай бұрын
You can be both…
@julieterrell19735 ай бұрын
What an AMAZING life he must lead. If you need an assist Mark- im here in Frankfort, KY- Ready to be of service.
@ransdellremediation4 ай бұрын
Mark, you're an ethnographer. A self-made very accomplished creative communicator of American cultures and the voice of this change we so desperately need. Thank you for your life's work. I'm so glad I found it. "It" will assist others in humanity.
@felixpena41385 ай бұрын
I'm excited to watch, I wonder if he speaks about Rebecca.
@winros5 ай бұрын
😂Becky
@donacatanguma5 ай бұрын
He didn’t and I was waiting for him to mention her also. Recently, Rebecca has been speaking with Cosmo on his channel though.
@winros5 ай бұрын
@@donacatanguma old news.
@CatalinaFOIA5 ай бұрын
Original Air Date: December 13, 2022
@kelleycnm373715 күн бұрын
I love you both. I can listen to both of you for hours. I am disabled so I lay and listen and it is so interesting. I have worked in prisons and in psychiatric hospitals for a while. Mark you are a natural. I love the silence you use at times during your interviews. I love REBECCA!!! I had a patient just like her. Unfortunately I watched him fail over the years due to lack of meds. They have monthly injections that could help Rebecca but i don’t think she would comply. Lots of light love!!! Kelley
@unplugged3013 ай бұрын
Just like Mark, I love how Rogan doesn’t cut his guests off from speaking
@Narcolepzzzzzzzz2 күн бұрын
Fascinating interview. Didn't know 2.5 hours could go by so fast.
@ispyroyaleyes5 ай бұрын
Joe Rogan's facial response to horrific life stories: frowning Mark Laita facial response to the same horrific life story: grinning I believe that Mark cares but I can see why he can do so many of these interviews. He admittedly does have a huge fascination with all things grim. He did do some more positive ones too, like the nudists, S&M people, hackers, and other special interest people.
@KaraFrances-d4r4 ай бұрын
How tf is S + M " positive " ??? LMFAO😂
@ReadingComprehension8X4 ай бұрын
He’s sick that’s why .
@mariafrmdaBX3 ай бұрын
He exploits people at their worst and makes money off them!! Look up Amanda Rabb. She was one of the addicts that he interviewed on his channel who is now deceased. The woman who was her conservator was also the conservator for Bam Bamgera she has this controversial new treatment that was given to Amanda, which caused her death and her conservator and Mark on his channel lied about her autopsy to everyone! If you go to the channel that surprise witness, she has a video showing the real autopsy and what killed Amanda! I don’t know how people can praise this guy for what he does and on that episode I’m talking about. He knew that the girl was lying about Amanda‘s death and proceeded to go on like it was nothing! It’s deeply disturbing to see what he’s doing. He’s not trying to bring awarenessto any of this he’s trying to put money in his pockets! Like he said, he lives in Belair and yet still has to go to Skid Row to do his interviews so that should tell you all you need to know about Mark!
@toebeans96Ай бұрын
Been looking for a comment like this. The whole Amanda Rabb story and a lot of his comebacks are disgusting. Calling someone a street urchin, or making frat boy humour responses to lighten the mood, especially to women in vulnerable moments. Ex) women upset about her weight, Mark saying that's most men's dream women, basically encouraging or making light of the very thing this women was discussing an additional struggle about. He said himself everyone exploits everyone.
@Kenderra5 ай бұрын
Can someone tell me how to spell the author Mark is talking about 10:26 because I cant find it anywhere
@sleeplessaquarius3 ай бұрын
❤ Thank you for interviewing Mark
@scoobidiboop4 ай бұрын
I’m sorry, but anyone who rapes a 6 year old should never be let out of prison.
@JennHawk5 ай бұрын
If there is no other message from Soft White UnderBelly, it is PROTECT OUR CHILDREN!
@EphemeralProductions4 ай бұрын
Not just PROTECT them. Raise them right.
@spicebombay7121Ай бұрын
As a Dr. at Aegis treatment center in Fresno once told me: "All of this addiction is directly correlated to PTSD". Warriors of the human condition exist.
@junkinjodi5 ай бұрын
Oh my God what an amazing interview!!!!!!
@SuzanneEgan-r9r5 ай бұрын
I have been watching your channel for years now & I was hooked from day one, your amazing for what you do truly inspiring, ❤️ big fan from Ireland☘️
@amberparker98835 ай бұрын
Can NOT teach empathy.. some people are MORE empathetic than others and some people just have zero at all 😢
@EphemeralProductions4 ай бұрын
Yep. The non-empathic generally are sociopaths, psychopaths, and narcissists. None of which anyone has control over “being made” to have, because it comes from how you were treated in your childhood. (With exception of psychopathy which is from an actual brain malformation).
@teresabarrett32665 ай бұрын
I love and have great respect for you Mark! Such a powerful and profound artwork you you give to this world! ❤✊❤️✊❤️✊❤️✊ PS: My favorite of your interviewees is Johnny Casper. It’s time for another interview with him. ✊❤️