He wouldn’t feel any regret if it worked out with his side chick.
@erismana2105 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, he deserves to be alone the rest of his life
@ebbypetes Жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@benb7727 Жыл бұрын
Great observation.
@Ryan-wx1bi Жыл бұрын
Bingo. He's not sorry he left his wife, he's just sad now that he's alone
@denisedevoto5703 Жыл бұрын
Nailed it.
@annemarre10 ай бұрын
If he didn't get dumped, he would never think about his wife again.
@user-si4kn9gz4o6 ай бұрын
she need to leave him
@user-si4kn9gz4o6 ай бұрын
he cheated because he wanted to.
@jayrodriguez41196 ай бұрын
He did her a favor by leaving and now she needs to do herself a favor and stay gone. This guy sounds like a codependent just needs somone all the time.
@Opinions-galore246 ай бұрын
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!
@anglophils6456 ай бұрын
I disagree. I think it's key that he realized, that if he had tried as hard with his wife, as he did with his mistress, his marriage would have worked. He did some growing and learning. If his wife ever really loved him, she'll give him another chance. Read Paul's Letter to the Corinthians, Chapter 13, on the nature of love.
@IKeepChangingMyNameOnHere2 ай бұрын
He expects his wife to help him get over losing the woman he left her for.
@JENKEN42522 күн бұрын
THAT IS SICK!
@TheeyarutSaetae-yr3bq14 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤
@masha85448 күн бұрын
In other words he expects his wife to be the ultimate rebound girl til the next "upgrade" comes along😂
@audreybuchman19725 күн бұрын
HE, was AFFECTED by THE SPIRIT OF JEZEBEL & HIS WIFE is being A TRUE CHRISTIAN WOMAN & ACCEPTING that HE MADE A VERY STUPID CHOICE & IS WILLING to work WITH HIM through THIS VERY DIFFICULT SITUATION!!!! THEY NEED TO SEE A CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE COUNSELOR that WILL GIVE THEM DAILY ASSIGNMENTS & CHRISTIAN TEACHING'S TO CHANGE THEIR MINDS & THEIR LIVES!!!!!!!!🤔🤔🤔
@SamSamEym5 күн бұрын
@@audreybuchman1972 tell me you're joking. Please, for the love of God, you just cannot be serious.
@rushdavids3 ай бұрын
The very next day after I found out my husband was cheating, with this "amazing woman who is going to elevate him in life (his words) " after 10 years of marriage, I come home the next day with him sulking, red in the face, crying and angry because she called off their affair and he tells me She betrayed him, he feels blind sided. Those words will forever be with me.
@breezeh11272 ай бұрын
Amazing how certain things said will never stop replaying in our heads. The words I got that replay are "I felt I deserved better than your body". Keep in mind this man married me at 239lbs. And I lost 100 on my own after having 3 kids with him. But it wasn't a perfect vidy. Guess hers was.
@msnawrecka97862 ай бұрын
I hope you laughed out loud.
@LeoGeminiPassyon2 ай бұрын
And you forgave him???
@heerthbvvff2 ай бұрын
@@breezeh1127that’s so true. Mine is when my ex-husband said “my dad told me when I was 10 to tell a woman anything to get the best out of her” and he looked so smug. Gave me chills and my stomach still turns with helplessness every time I remember it
@jasminehouston-burns16912 ай бұрын
Yeah, adultery seems to be antithetical to commitment. It's interesting how the predictably to-be-dumped always thinks they've found someone better.
@Cramp915 Жыл бұрын
If you are this guy’s wife, DO NOT COME BACK! The trash took itself out!
@lorrainea.285 Жыл бұрын
Make that sewer trash!!!!!
@mdooms76 Жыл бұрын
Whew great comment!!!
@kdbee6086 Жыл бұрын
Amen to that
@kdbee6086 Жыл бұрын
And you can tell with this one, if he did it once, he'll do it again!
@tabathia7633 Жыл бұрын
I love this comment. Well put. When I broke up with my lousy, no-good, Sob, he went right to his girl-fr. which was in another state. My mom saw them, didnj't know about our final Div. It was all I could do, to calm her down, she had a bad heart, and just loved this guy, well........... His final ending came five yrs. ago, court again, facing 4 yrs. prison term, suddenly he passed on, who knows why? P.S. his girl-fri, was in and out of prison, for prost. and drugs. I never did any of that, I'm clean , ready to teach I.T. to anyone who wants to learn. Thank you Lord, for letting me, be me. ❤❤
@simplybirdie6481 Жыл бұрын
His wife wasn’t sure if she was a Christian any longer, so he decided to cheat on her? What a man of God! 🙏
@aselyne5631 Жыл бұрын
Insane huh
@ambertorres4444 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, he is supposed to lead in love and love her like Christ loves the church. All he did was show that he was not a spiritual leader and not rooted in his faith.
@SuperValencia101 Жыл бұрын
You dont understand. This was why they formed religion... It was to control women... This is what he tried in 2023, cause he knows women are suppose to take him back... History proved this to be true... And thats why he is crying because he was the loser here. He cant believe it! 😂 thank god women are waking up and throwing away that book called the bible
@teresabrewer4052 Жыл бұрын
Wait, wife, you may not be Christian.. Now I can cheat on you, heathen
@tjaspire Жыл бұрын
Most people who believe they are saved have never even cracked open the Bible. How do you know what you even believe if you don't read God's word, nor do you apply it to your life? I call these folks, "name-only Christians." They'll stand before God on judgement day thinking they're cool, and then God is going to be like, "Do I know you?"
@AmethystEyesАй бұрын
Notice how much he cried for himself and talked about he was blindsided? And yet he blames his wife for him cheating! The audacity!
@shadewolfe123116 күн бұрын
Play victim, deflect blame, avoid accountability. Typical cheater mantra.
@elleb13263 ай бұрын
"You are NOT marriage material" brilliant advice
@meepzer8 күн бұрын
If you’re gonna put quotes, quote him right. “Right now, you may not be worthy of dating, or being married to.”
@thelovelylove-sk7oz4 күн бұрын
@@meepzer literally the same thing. He's trash basically
@dianemurray6550 Жыл бұрын
He doesn't want his wife back. He wants a bandaid to make HIMSELF feel better IN THE MOMENT.
@anndeecosita35869 ай бұрын
He wants place keeper. It doesn’t matter who it is. I had an ex who did that. I actually found out through digging on Facebook he had a fiancé back in Puerto Rico I didn’t know about. I thought his trips were to visit his family. Later I think she dumped him because he started showing up at my home leaving notes. I ignored it at first then I went off on him and told his cheater butt to stay the h away from me.
@kate2create7387 ай бұрын
He certain would regret reading the comments of everyone calling him out for the selfish being he is.
@bluebellcrushedvelvet7 ай бұрын
No he doesn't want a BANDAID!! Let's call a spade a spade!! He wants a fking handmaid that will also s*:ck his d^%k!!! He wants someone to love HIM but he doesn't do anything to love BACK!!
@kzfingerprint7 ай бұрын
And he will absolutely use her for that bandaid
@heatherangel97007 ай бұрын
Exactly. He doesn't really want his gf either. He just doesn't want to be alone, and will take any woman who will have him.
@runnerupcsal8241 Жыл бұрын
🤣 He committed adultery because she said she wasn't sure about her faith?! This guy is so full of it.
@CF. Жыл бұрын
I agree, he’s full of ish
@WidgetWW Жыл бұрын
I LOL’d at that part
@CyeOutsider Жыл бұрын
Well he had to find some excuse to blame his affair on her.
@alexisjankowski3281 Жыл бұрын
It wasn’t the real reason. He simply started lusting after another woman and he didn’t need much of any reason to sleep with another woman.
@mahamehanna9826 Жыл бұрын
As if his faith is strong! Committing adultery is a sin in all faiths. Besides, once a cheater is always a cheater. This man can never be trusted. His wife should go on with the divorce procedures, and hopefully she’ll meet a better man who treats her right and makes her happy, if she wants to remarry. Or she can be single, free, and happy.
@cobrasmom4 ай бұрын
So she had two men to support her and her child financially??? What a smart woman! 😂
@vanessasingh393 ай бұрын
And didn't have to lie about it, they were in the same house😂
@Peem_pom3 ай бұрын
Neither of them married her though
@Peem_pom3 ай бұрын
Honey it wasn’t only her child, one of the men was the father and was equally his responsibility to care for the child… you’re painting an inaccurate picture of a cunning woman, when all of these men are equally culpable!
@delightschwartz2155Ай бұрын
@@Peem_pomGiving props, this chick evidently had some serious game lol.
@MungoLouisАй бұрын
The side chick/work colleague, used this man to get her 'baby daddy' back. To use as an excuse "He's got a lot of debt, he needs to move in with us" is ridiculous, debt doesn't accumalate overnight, some of the debt the side chick would have known about as it was probably money spent on her and their son. The side chick choose the baby daddy with debt, rather than the boyfriend playing house, she was never really in love with the boyfriend.
@xoxo_00__003 ай бұрын
It’s almost as if ur actions have consequences
@user-ml1ki8ml1z2 күн бұрын
🤷♀️rightttttt?!!
@leviacronym6770 Жыл бұрын
I have no empathy for this "man". He hurt his wife by tossing her away, and after his side piece dumped him, he wants his wife back? Naw, man. You got what ya deserved.
@gm6034 Жыл бұрын
For real. At first I just thought he made a huge mistake in screwing up and wanting to be needed. BUT then when I heard he was dumped I like ohhhh this guy just wants his wife back because he has no one. Had his side piece stayed he would have remained with her. His wife needs to NOT take him back. But if she does, she’s a dumba**. Life is too short to waste your time on dumba** people.
@Vespervq Жыл бұрын
He’s kidding right?
@ellencox8415 Жыл бұрын
@@Vespervq no. He is the perfect representation of modern culture. Zero loyalty. Zero duty. Zero accountability. Whatever feels good in the moment.
@BrendaBaBoom Жыл бұрын
@@gm6034 🎯🎯🎯
@sueblack5794 Жыл бұрын
Got to give to him, he wasn't asking for empathy but more of "how to get his life back". He still doesn't care about the wife. He just can't be alone.
@abab9622 Жыл бұрын
She didn’t want to have kids with him for a reason. Her instincts knew.
@phalynwilliams41197 ай бұрын
Exactly! I hope the wife realizes that being rid of this failure is the best thing for her.
@phalynwilliams41197 ай бұрын
The wife is a fool if she takes him back.
@jasminegreene81597 ай бұрын
I agree. Look at how he acts when he doesn’t have his way? I hope she doesn’t reconcile.
@timehgta_smg30586 ай бұрын
@@izealliaeldridge1901 hold up SHE SEDUCED HIM! SHE HELPED RUIN HIS MARRIAGE
@Jwa-fo6nb6 ай бұрын
I wouldn't have a child with any man, no matter how much I loved him, its not worth the risk
@PJHEATERMAN3 ай бұрын
I would never cheat on my wife. Even if a super attractive woman was coming on strong and it's happened a few times. I fell in love with my wife the first time we spoke. That was 36 years ago.
@tantalize8112 ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏾💖
@kreyolLA842 ай бұрын
Right on. 👍🏾
@meganbailey65112 ай бұрын
As a single person who watches these videos to try to learn about healthy relationships, this is really promising to read. Sometimes it just seems everyone is treating each other horribly.
@lutherthompson2642Ай бұрын
@@meganbailey6511 stay single,, it's easier and better in the long run
@charlesbell5500Ай бұрын
Why were you in a position to let "super attractive women" come on strong to you while you were married?
@LisaKing58021 күн бұрын
He wants comfort from the woman he threw away. That’s priceless!
@mountainaire73826 ай бұрын
As a Christian, I'm offended that he thought the answer to a wife who was questioning her faith was to cheat on her. I can't.
@getthesensation6 ай бұрын
The cheating came first. That's why he left.
@onyourcoffeebreak24766 ай бұрын
It's still not going up to what he did so this guy hasn't learned anything.
@RB-bb2tw6 ай бұрын
The cheating tells you exactly the condition of his faith.
@davidl91556 ай бұрын
😂😂
@crazygeechee6 ай бұрын
Right. Its the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard He got dumped at Whole Foods and went to a restaurant stop to cry Shame on him
@AndreDMalan19666 ай бұрын
He'll rather have ANYONE than no one. His wife deserves better. He doesn't love her, he hates being alone.
@faithinthejourney64096 ай бұрын
Uuuufffff that was raw and hit hard …. facts!
@lorrainem82346 ай бұрын
💯
@carlel1216 ай бұрын
Exactly! He is just escaping the pain, without thinking about his ex, nothing is more selfish than that.
@sarahrobertson6346 ай бұрын
Best comment ever
@DawnSuttonfabfour5 ай бұрын
My view has always been no one rather than anyone. Works well.
@tinycatfromhell4 ай бұрын
The funniest thing is that men come online to cry about their ex-wives rinsing them of their assets and property in divorce court, taking the children away from him, etc. Like they're genuinely surprised when she files for divorce and ruins his life. You cheated on her, genius! What did you think was going to happen? I can't with men, seriously.
@darenleeper1644Ай бұрын
Sometimes, the woman cheats, and all those things happen to the man afterwards.
@manifest220329 күн бұрын
Exactly. They act as if the woman contributed nothing to the household.
@braskevful576015 күн бұрын
yes, being a mother and a housewife is a job 24/7 with no paycheck, at least in case of divorce she should get half of what man had earn during the time he speared thanks to his wife. I dont like men who wants 50/50 during dating, you wont do 50/50 in marriage, you cant give birth to half of a child...
@amandabanks17312 күн бұрын
Being vengeful isn't the answer though. So if the wife drains him to hurt him she's just as much in the wrong.
@MsAlyMonique12 күн бұрын
@@amandabanks173so? The point isn’t to be the bigger person in a situation like that. You can’t move on with without revenge or karma and it’s as simple as that.
@miaranee29 күн бұрын
This guy is sneaky 😂. The woman left him and he decided to get his wife's attention by telling her he's suicidal brooo
@hismom560017 күн бұрын
EXACTLY THIS. It's incredibly manipulative.
@penny97619 сағат бұрын
It's a common tactic with toxic people and abusers as well.
@Healedhomegirl6 сағат бұрын
Yeah diabolical!!!!!
@melaniegenuinely6 ай бұрын
He's more hurt over the mistress dumping him than him hurting his wife by cheating🤦🏾♀️He didnt even acknowledge that he hurt her smh.
@jayrodriguez41196 ай бұрын
He's a Narkie.
@Rp-pc1rl6 ай бұрын
Because cheaters are yhe appitamy of selfishness.
@nomg5636 ай бұрын
He’ll continue to attract people like him who will most likely use him and spit him out like old gum until he wakes up
@ch3rrikiss6 ай бұрын
@@Rp-pc1rl"epitome "
@Raidersmomma24896 ай бұрын
Because if things had worked out the way he wanted them to he would have never been sorry in the first place he is only sorry because he is facing the consequences of his actions
@chantalszemenyei4523 Жыл бұрын
"Because she is not a believer anymore" and then he does the most ungodly thing ever. Unbelievable
@visionarylifeministries40557 ай бұрын
That Part!!!
@monmon-vk8rz7 ай бұрын
Hm. I have to wonder if he felt like the wife wasn't being "wifey" enough. I say this bc he also mentions her having second thoughts about kids, and bc traditional spouse roles are often justified by religion. "Not being a believer anymore" in this context could mean she was turning away from the more traditional "woman" roles, or that she wanted to center her life around something that wasn't just him and potential kids. It would explain why he felt the urge to step out on and ultimately replace her
@a.r.89547 ай бұрын
100%. I heard that code too. He was frustrated with her growing independence and humanity, which is frustrating to men who see women as servants. As their patriarchal god teaches them to do. I see the cheating as rather in step with that entitlement, not some shocking betrayal of his beliefs. That being said, I'm sure his community would have had a lot to say about him leaving his wife and moving in with a single mother out of wedlock lol@@monmon-vk8rz
@suckmanutsbach7 ай бұрын
@@Ofwudann except it's allowed in their religion and not his
@dcliffy43327 ай бұрын
He's scum
@joy2thefrickinworld3 ай бұрын
He’s a narcissistic manipulator, he doesn’t want his wife back, he wants the comfort she gave him in his old life. He honestly doesn’t even sound hello le he cares that much about women, just the comfort and peace they can provide him. The thought hasn’t occurred to him yet to treat his wife well… just keep using her for his own emotional support… he didn’t even sound like he wanted to apologize
@rozaucja86122 ай бұрын
Ladies, don't EVER take them back.
@Kal-El207Ай бұрын
Lmao but ya’ll want us to take YOU back when you cheat on us with another man though right? 😂😂😂 pathetic. Stfu.
@ED80sАй бұрын
Its true. The odds are not in your favour. If they do it once they will do it again.
@raeroa79824 күн бұрын
They will just do it again
@MissusTayIor9 ай бұрын
It was very manipulative of him to contact his wife to say, "Just keep an eye on me." That was purely attention-seeking. He is selfish and still hasn't learned anything.
@lcam92418 ай бұрын
Right! Of all people to call, her? Not his siblings or parents. Really trifling (and weird to be honest).
@barbaradixon92797 ай бұрын
Then call the authorities & put him away to get lots of attention
@crazyonebyfar7 ай бұрын
Yeah he might as well said "grab your luggage, we're going on a guilt trip"
@PathologicallyIncurious7 ай бұрын
100% - screw this guy and his “hurt.” He’s not sorry or feeling bad about what he did to his wife, he’s just regretting letting a great woman go for something “fresh & exciting” 😒
@lcam92417 ай бұрын
@@PathologicallyIncuriousI love your name 😊
@limiwa Жыл бұрын
I hope his wife hears this conversation and doesn't take him back. Not once did he acknowledge the pain he caused her or act remorseful. He spoke more highly of his affair partner and how pretty she is ("like you wouldn't believe" barf). This isn't about him realizing he made a mistake and lost a good thing, this is just him feeling sorry for himself. What a fool.
@FollowPickMeekPodcast Жыл бұрын
None! Just like most narcissists, he wants her to come back to fulfill his needs and his guilt. I pray she trusts her intuition and leave this clown where he is.
@sonofhibbs4425 Жыл бұрын
Seriously well said. This guy needs to burn until the Good Lord cleans the rot off of him. Until then he’s a selfish man child.
@patymartin8568 Жыл бұрын
Love your comment. Sooo 👍 true
@MonaLisaFaceMusic Жыл бұрын
His "lowest moment" was when he got dumped by the girlfriend, not when he cheated on his wife.
@mitylene_bailey Жыл бұрын
She's listening with a giant glass of cienna and a bowl of shrimp cocktail
@sabrinagranger5468Ай бұрын
This is actually hilarious. Hope he keeps thinking about what he did for the rest of his life, and that she lives her best life.
@mrv2308Ай бұрын
I’m laughing too
@bettyfuller6940Ай бұрын
I can't imagine the shock his wife felt after her 8 yr marriage was thrown away so callously. Unbelievable.
@LittleMarySunshine4 Жыл бұрын
Leaving your wife and then using her for emotional support after you're dumped... yikes
@CrystalM1917 Жыл бұрын
Special breed of narcissist.
@djpuplex Жыл бұрын
Sounds like something a woman would do.
@yogaqueen1527 Жыл бұрын
She is a fool for being there for him
@JKNat9004 Жыл бұрын
@@yogaqueen1527Buuuhhtt, according to the state of North Carolina, they are technically STILL MARRIED. Also, who would want on their conscience that they weren't there for someone who was considering taking their own life? My only hope for this guy, who put up with craziness after leaving his wife, is that he can get his life in order, even if they continue through the divorce. I think it's good he reached out to her, and am impressed with her for not hanging up on him.
@djpuplex Жыл бұрын
@@yogaqueen1527 He's a even bigger fool thinking she cares. Look at all the comments in this section she's probably loving every second this.
@janeyrevanescence125 ай бұрын
You don’t feel regret for destroying your marriage. You feel regret that your side piece left you.
@momfromnj9113 ай бұрын
Right..this guy is UNREAL
@user-it3yf1et4p29 күн бұрын
exactly, and these men ask why there are single parent househlds
@zoelife72723 ай бұрын
"in a split second, I lost all I had." the word of God says SUDDENLY!!! the wife should not take him back. he had no problem hurting her, terminating her world. none whatsoever.
@chrismifflin3862Ай бұрын
Cheaters are a special kind of selfish. Not ever to be trusted,
@teacher9882 Жыл бұрын
I’ll be honest when a woman changes her mind on having kids in a long term relationships or marriage it’s because she doesn’t feel safe and secured.
@stephkais5613 Жыл бұрын
Yes. His ex wife saw something about him that made her not want to begin parenthood with him. She made a good call!! The man is selfish and manipulative.
@tinaa7239 Жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@niyah7139 Жыл бұрын
Leaving your wife to immediately move in with a baby mama that's not yours. Only to have her moves her baby daddy in. 😂😂 she's totally using this guy for money while she still has sex with the baby daddy under the same roof. What a fuckin loser ..🤣🤣
@daniellebishop535 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely this
@kellharris2491 Жыл бұрын
She was getting that intuition. Sometimes you just know things you can't explain with words.
@hothotheat30006 ай бұрын
He doesn’t feel regret, he feels inconvenienced.
@ladybluelotus5 ай бұрын
Agreed! That's the best description.
@GreenGrasshoppa5 ай бұрын
He just wants his maid/cook back. -_-
@landonevans8184 ай бұрын
Feel compassion for once in your life.
@landonevans8184 ай бұрын
Not saying what he did was good but sometimes you have to give people a second chance at life.
@hikerhobby12044 ай бұрын
How do you know how he feels? Thats creepy if you can read peoples minds.
@maryunsworth4803 ай бұрын
Reminds me of my ex. Left when I was 6m pregnant with our second. Immediately got on tinder and started speaking to other women. He was living his best life and acted like we never existed. Acted like I was keeping our 2yr old from him all of the things. One night he went to a concert and got a dui and went to jail. He called me from the cops phone crying begging me to help. I ended up telling one of his friends and he bailed him out. He lost his new apartment and had to move in with his parents lost everything and then begged me back. If that didn’t happen I bet he would have been in a relationship in a month. This guy only wants her back because he got dumped. Never look back
@RawrGoesTheGreenDinoАй бұрын
Why on earth did you get back together with him?
@lde2040Ай бұрын
She didnt😂 read again!@@RawrGoesTheGreenDino
@stopdragginaround18 күн бұрын
@RawrGoesTheGreenDino the way I read it she didn't take him back
@ultravioletemme10112 күн бұрын
It was kind of you to help him by calling his friend. It's more than many would have done in your shoes.
@lizzyjeanne3 күн бұрын
I seriously hope you did not take him back.
@sharonbland90613 ай бұрын
The trust is gone, he will never get his wife trust back, NEVER.
@tantalize8112 ай бұрын
It's not impossible. It will take ALOT of proving himself trustworthy until SHE'S ready to believe in him again.
@bisi19802 ай бұрын
I don't think he cares about that. He just wants to be with someone because he is lonely. Always about him.
@tantalize8112 ай бұрын
@@bisi1980 As if women aren't similar. The old cat "lady". Lol
@thetwistinside285721 күн бұрын
@@tantalize811 So, he should just get a cat.
@tantalize81120 күн бұрын
@@thetwistinside2857 Men are very simple. Whether he's in a relationship or not, they have pets or don't own any. The difference is a man doesn't boast about "choosing to be single because he has his cats". 😉
@JJ-pj7wn6 ай бұрын
Crazy how he wants to get his wife back. But then says the other woman was beautiful like “ you wouldn’t believe.” Sounds like his wife will always be the backup plan…
@kerrymillar12676 ай бұрын
Yes I thought that too Why is this still Impressing him when she moved another man in with them. Some people are crazy!
@lucianaromulus14086 ай бұрын
Wife is absolutely the back up plan. He wants her at home while he goes on the prowl. This man deserves to be single forever.
@masixchell6 ай бұрын
Right?! Like he was waiting for the cohost to co-sign and be like “ohh ok so she was beautiful - aw man that makes it all ok” 😵😵💫. He let that other woman run alllll over him. Thank God his wife never bore him any children 🙏🏽🙏🏽 Hope she’s happy and thriving without him.
@videodj3106 ай бұрын
It sounds like she was a placeholder, she was the best he could Get at the time until he found his actual type smh Now because it didn't work out with the side piece, he wants to go back to his wife
@katamadordelvalle79726 ай бұрын
He and the wife were having problems in the marriage that he fails to mention. Why didn't she want kids? He blames her changing for his cheating and walking out on her. He expresses no accountability whatsoever. He just says that he needed to work on his marriage the same way he worked on the relationship with the girlfriend while living with her and her ex. The girlfriend went back to the ex and had him move in to get this guy out. She used the excuse of not wanting to keep her child away from their father to wash her hands of her role in breaking up his marriage. I'm so glad he got dumped and in the most degrading of ways: by being cuckolded in front of his eyes. 👏
@cravensz Жыл бұрын
A very sad person. Calling ur ex wife to gaslight her by using "suicide" is a sick thing to do.
@latoshastanfield5523 Жыл бұрын
Yeah he is a bastard
@Kamingo170 Жыл бұрын
I don't know about all that but city boys we up
@mystiquevening Жыл бұрын
Yep!!
@alluringbliss4165 Жыл бұрын
He is a selfish man.
@erind2261 Жыл бұрын
The petty me would've said 'Do it!' & hung up
@amberhardy69473 ай бұрын
What a big slap in the face! I hope the wife doesn’t take him back. He only wants her back because he got dumped. He will definitely do it again
@shawnbrooks52933 ай бұрын
The audacity of people who cheat. Doesn't matter the situation all, they think about is themselves
@mamakitty6549 Жыл бұрын
It's telling that he said "I just want my life back" cause he's alone, not "I want my ex back" because I still love her. He doesn't love her... He misses the stability she brings.
@CrayolaCoffeeBean7 ай бұрын
Exactly
@YeshuaKingMessiah7 ай бұрын
He misses living in a couples world as part of a couple It’s a lonely life
@jillphillips16676 ай бұрын
Not true repentance
@mish3756 ай бұрын
This says it all. He wants the lifestyle: he doesn't love his wife and never did. It was all about status to him. This conversation was incredibly selfish on his part because it was all about him and there's no recognition of the pain he's caused her or the rest of the family.
@avirei986 ай бұрын
I feel like I've had a man date me before that very reason and it sucked because he was my first love and he was only with me because I brought him peace instability. He literally cheated on me with the girl that he did nothing but argue with and when I left him he pursued her just to find out she didn't actually want him. She just like the attention and the money. He was giving her the money that he convinced me he was giving to his mom and I told him that didn't make logical sense like she has five boys. You are the youngest. Why is she asking you for money and she is married. She has a husband like why would she ask her youngest for money that we need. It didn't make any sense but he told me I was being selfish and that was his mom and I'm being a bad girlfriend so I kept my mouth shut. Turns out the entire time I was right it was BS. He was giving the money to his ex and cheating on me made me feel like a fool because my gut told me something was wrong but he told me I was being insecure. And when I left him and I told him what could have stopped him from cheating he told me nothing. He told me I did everything a man could possibly want but there was nothing more I could have done and I didn't know how to take that because if I gave you my everything and it still wasn't enough then what the hell. But I treat that like a lesson now. Now I know a cheater is going to be a cheater no matter what you do. So you just have to make sure you pick the right person for sure. It sucks though because it makes me feel like I've become jaded because I am now a lot less patient compared to how I used to be. There's a lot of things I just refused to tolerate early in a relationship and I'm so easily kicking men to the side. As soon as anything happens. And I know that's not okay. I just don't want to be made a fool again
@Pootypatooty6 ай бұрын
He’s so sad over his breakup and not about his DIVORCE, he’s such a pathetic excuse for a man ✨
@lindamusser73705 ай бұрын
I call that kind of person a schmuck.
@landonevans8184 ай бұрын
Not all men are perfect some men have to figure it out. Jesus died on the cross for our sins and allows us a second chance at life.
@danikahholdman26094 ай бұрын
@@landonevans818 lol
@user-pd7gy2xz4l4 ай бұрын
@@landonevans818 NOPE its still pathetic. He is a grown ass man. I feel no sympathy and he is embarrasing.
@candiedconnor4 ай бұрын
@@landonevans818yeah, no. That man is still pathetic.
@azure86962 ай бұрын
John I applaud your ability to respect and not judge people..... especially when what they're doing is blatantly stupid 😂💯
@Jen-b-realАй бұрын
JOHN we know what you really wanted to say, but left it to the comments 😂😂😂😂
@MaryAX21 күн бұрын
His face says it all 😂😂😂 he wanted this blowhard to keep yapping
@user-wi7gh1xz6q26 күн бұрын
He expected her to be religious, but he is not by way of his actions. He is not marriage material for any women. Very evil for such a religious man
@gospeldva3 күн бұрын
His action are probably why his wife doesn’t want to be a Christian no longer
@jonnyd93515 ай бұрын
Oh wow, so you cheat on your wife and then the person you cheated with realizes you aren't marriage material? Who'd have guessed...
@kassassin_brahgawk4 ай бұрын
You lose em how you got em
@glynis10074 ай бұрын
😂
@spndrtwentythree52394 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@nneoma61064 ай бұрын
A 7 year marriage, too? Hope she's smart enough to walk away.
@Prettynikki8154 ай бұрын
Lol "well when you put it like that...:
@SmoochKassidy4 ай бұрын
“Keep an eye on me” implying you’re gonna kill yourself to get your ex to talk to you is a bullshit move
@mcmarin99324 ай бұрын
Thiiiisss! The manipulation is astounding. I bet he didn’t keep an eye on his wife when he moved in with the woman 🙄
@diane44884 ай бұрын
@@mcmarin9932 Yes, he didn't care about his poor wife. And I doubt he can genuinely get down in his knees, and say how very sorry he is. Because he isn't. What a piece of trash.
@ElsaLisa-oc8hv4 ай бұрын
He hostages himself to guilt trap her. Classic.
@farmhouseonthemountain4 ай бұрын
Omg, yes and I can't believe he didn't call him on that. And that's how he got her to come out. This dude is a manipulative a hole.
@moonsharn4 ай бұрын
It’s a classic Narcissist move
@TheGreenbutsad3 ай бұрын
Once a cheater, always a cheater. He doesn't deserve the second chance.
@karatekai63843 ай бұрын
Delighted, hope his wife is living her best life.
@Jami-Frankie Жыл бұрын
My husband left me for a co-worker. The pain is like surgery w/out being put under. I have zero sympathy for him.
@Rebecca-ci3zc Жыл бұрын
Same here, after 27 years. My life is very peaceful now without him.
@blueseptember2174 Жыл бұрын
Surgery without being put under...that's 💯 exactly how it feels 😢
@whendoigettosayfuck Жыл бұрын
Emotional pain is secondary to physical pain. When you are screaming in pain from a physical injury, all your emotional problems are put to the side. Be happy you were not beaten and crippled with pain for life. My surgery reminds me every day of the abuse.
@squiggleworks9 Жыл бұрын
@@whendoigettosayfuck what happened to you is completely awful but does your experience invalidate hers?
@blueseptember2174 Жыл бұрын
@@whendoigettosayfuck I agreed with her about the pain because I have been through both. Being left and a 5 hour surgery where the epidural wore off and I could feel them pushing on my organs before I screamed and they put me under. She's right. That's what betrayal feels like everday.
@SatipatthanaSakuraDragona5 ай бұрын
He doesn't want his wife back. He just doesn't want to be left alone with his thoughts and he wants free therapy from her.
@rizen94574 ай бұрын
Yesssssssssssss
@duvessa20033 ай бұрын
That sounds about right.
@DoubleA-ou7pj3 ай бұрын
And a place to live
@TheArtzytype3 ай бұрын
Emotional labour vampire
@diane44882 ай бұрын
Totally agree. Very self centred and selfish.
@abbypierce41963 ай бұрын
I’ve noticed these cheaters all sound SO similar. Their tone, cadence and way of speaking so they come off “just enough” as a humble victim. And it’s not just the shared accents - it’s deeper. Really interesting.
@annhenry31352 ай бұрын
This was done to me. He left and came back remorseful and grateful that I would even speak to him. I eventually took him back only for him to do the same thing again. The bottom line is you can be kind to a pitbull but in the end, he is a pitbull and he will bite. He needs to leave his wife alone. He has proven his nature and lack of character.
@mandyellis876Ай бұрын
Totally totally wrong analogy! You were stupid to take your cheating ex back, but I guess you learned your lesson!
@rosaliamartinez895614 күн бұрын
Why was that nessasery? She knows she made a mistake by taking him back.@@mandyellis876
@andrea6053 Жыл бұрын
One of these days I want John’s response to be “That’s what you get. Next caller.” Sometimes you’ve got to call a jerk a jerk.
@33Jenesis Жыл бұрын
Coddling people like this guy is never going to make them a better person down the line.
@georgewagner7787 Жыл бұрын
He's trying to make him face what he did.
@esmeraldagarcia2848 Жыл бұрын
😂🤣😆🤣😂🤣😂
@blackreign7661 Жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣😂
@angorachic Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@craeearc6 ай бұрын
These videos are helping me identify the red flags in weak men.
@SippenSomeTea6 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏
@heydibear10795 ай бұрын
😂exactly
@melgm0025 ай бұрын
Totally 🎉
@ashleycope12374 ай бұрын
💯
@nooneinparticular48953 ай бұрын
Right!!!
@omiyinkaogunsegun50122 ай бұрын
This cheater wanted to cheat on his wife. He just needed an excuse to do so. Once he realized the side chick wouldn't work out, now we are supposed to boo hoo for him? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@mimi_elk.76144 ай бұрын
He cheated on his wife with a girlfriend that is a single mom and accepted the father of the child to move in together them? What 😮? He should be an absolute doormat for his wife
@HollieMoodie2 ай бұрын
He should just GTFO and pay alimony and let her find someone that actually loves her. Life is too short for this nonsense.
@CyeOutsider3 күн бұрын
He didn't foresee that his mistress wasn't done with the father of her child.
@amandanicole74496 ай бұрын
In this call, he sang praises about his former mistress, then didn't show anything but indifference about his wife, but wants advice about getting back with his wife ONLY because he doesn't want to be alone. She better stay far away.
@LaciRae4 ай бұрын
i heard the opposite.
@leigha10234 ай бұрын
Isn’t that the truth
@AM-lc6hy4 ай бұрын
@@LaciRaeI heard the same thing as you. I heard him uplift his wife. I heard this man's pain for what he'd done.
@guellaliguemra23214 ай бұрын
@@AM-lc6hyPain that only appeared after he got screwed by the mistress. Where was the pain before?
@Indigo5654 ай бұрын
@@AM-lc6hyhe said she was there for him and she had it together to the point where he felt like he didn't matter. He said his mistress was beautiful. It's clear he view them differently
@karinaz87564 ай бұрын
This is a narcissist that’s trying to play victim. If his side piece hadn’t left he would still be in that relationship.
@RachelSings213 ай бұрын
Oh this 110% he’s on the hoover
@ISEEKSPACE2 ай бұрын
Truth!
@hellaSwankkyToo2 ай бұрын
y'all really need to stop diagnosing strangers on the internet. you can't list even a handful of unique indicators of narcissism//NPD based solely on this call. please stop doing this; only thing it does is water down NPD.
@LoveMuffin8002 ай бұрын
No it isn't. He said at the beginning that he knows he's the bad guy in this story. He played a game and lost. He wants to know how to handle this loss and the misery that's coming with it.
@PrettyGirlRock11152 ай бұрын
@@LoveMuffin800Yeah which is also something narcissistic people can do, there‘s different personality types with narcissists and some love playing the whole oh I did a bad thing but yet I‘m the victim because of my actions to gain empathy don‘t trust that bs.
@chriztianhusher84013 ай бұрын
It kind of difficult to feel bad for someone who caused themselves the self-inflicted wounds.
@duvessa20033 ай бұрын
He has shown his wife that she is disposable. Down the line she may decide he’s disposable, too.
@HollieMoodie2 ай бұрын
Hopefully she's smart enough to already realize this. Well, that he''s the trash, not her.
@PassiveAgressive3196 ай бұрын
The side chick moved in her ‘boyfriend’ into the home is funny AF😅😅😅😅😅😅. Karma is a b**h. Ex-wife if you are reading this? DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK!
@KimontheWeb6 ай бұрын
Amen!
@SatumainenOlento6 ай бұрын
😅😂😂😂😂 I was laughing my head off in here as well!!! 😅😂😂😂 Until I could hear the hurt in his voice. He did lost the child also 😢 I think that he really just want to have children and perhaps that was the one underlaying issue that made him to look for an another woman and family. And no, he was a BIG FOOL. Karma is a b*tch.
@meilingflesa81406 ай бұрын
I couldn't agree with you more
@hfowl29076 ай бұрын
Agree 😅
@donnaeilerman74585 ай бұрын
Exactly! What if the side chick decides she wants him back? Does he dump his wife again?!?
@nmalele0909 Жыл бұрын
John should've called him out on how manipulative it is to randomly send your ex-wife, who you left, a suicidal text to keep her in your life. This dude doesn't deserve her or anyone at this point in time
@jet4415 Жыл бұрын
What a gaslighting move!
@bekind2416 Жыл бұрын
I think so too. I understand wanting to stay neutral and be kind to him but a good way to use the platform is to hold some people accountable because they do bad things. Even though it may come off harsh
@erismana2105 Жыл бұрын
proves what a lil b*tch he is
@msthang5366 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@msthang5366 Жыл бұрын
@bekind2416 he lost all credibility to me.. I understand being kind. But this dude is manipulative and had self esteem issues that he needs to deal with, and that wasn’t address properly.
@cosmicpolitan3 ай бұрын
The best thing this man could do is leave his ex-wife alone and let her find a mature and responsible man.
@willystanford2 ай бұрын
Reminds me of ex-hubby who indignantly said "Where does that leave me?" when he came back expecting to resume our marriage after the girlfriend he left me to move in with some months before threw him out to make room for her ex. Meanwhile I had found it easier going it alone juggling job, paying bills etc while parenting only two kids and not an adult-sized third. Taking pity and taking him back was a huge mistake as leopards never change their spots so it was a prelude to rinse and repeat lying and cheating before I walked away. My advice to this husband? Apologise profusely and expect nothing in return. Let your wife have a shot at finding a true relationship. I am sure your wandering eye etc will soon find greener pastures. Or you might have a bash at truly growing up.
@pstanton2445Ай бұрын
Reminds me of an old song by George Strait, "She Let Herself Go". Great song.
@flygirl2447 Жыл бұрын
Dear wife of caller: Run away from this man-child. Run to your divorce lawyer’s office and file the papers. They DO NOT change. He’s just sorry he got what he deserved and now he wants you back because he has nothing else. He wants a pity party. Not a marriage.
@CrayolaCoffeeBean7 ай бұрын
I wouldn’t even say he’s “sorry he got what he deserved,” but rather, he’s “upset or sorrowful that he didn’t get what he wanted”
@rebelks886 ай бұрын
In NC you can file papers with the court after a full year of separation and not need to pay a lawyer.
@marvin26786 ай бұрын
man child ?
@kathleenbueter12723 ай бұрын
@@rebelks88 In the meantime, needs to steer clear of him and not have anything to do with him
@Mooches33 Жыл бұрын
As someone whose husband cheated with the most amazing ( LOL )woman in the world, who cheated on him dumped him and married someone else 2 months after our divorce was final, I can’t help but have a bit of a giggle at this. Actions have consequences dude.
@Mooches33 Жыл бұрын
@@prevaloir5362 LOL. No. I sarcastically called the woman he cheated on me with the most amazing woman in the world.
@SomeBody-ce3gq Жыл бұрын
Girl you ain't alone, I'm laughing too 😂 good riddance!
@lucindabreeding Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry. This happened in my family and it sucks. It taints every memory you share with a cheater. It poisons everything. The only perk is knowing that our cheater will never ever truly bond. His high is his orgasm mixed with the excitement of conspiring against girlfriend du jour. We found out he was a true blue serial cheater. This guy is a mess. Apparently wanted a kid so bad that he made a semi-life with a woman who had someone else's child. Good god.
@Brainjoy01 Жыл бұрын
and this is why men marry the girl nextdoor but cheat with the instagram models. instagram models have no heart, and traditional "simple" women are considered boring or unattractive. its depressing.
@Hiiamsamm Жыл бұрын
@@Brainjoy01 I wouldn't say it's just instagram models. It's anyone with more than average looks because there are more options to choose from in the gene pool. Male or female. It's basic biology at this point.
@gracesanity63144 ай бұрын
He needs a Place to live. Hense the poor wife...using her. Hope wife has standards and great self respect.
@elliebellie781629 күн бұрын
You'll never get your life back. Even if your wife takes you back, everything will have changed. You messed up dude. Own it and get over it.
@dolphinbear661 Жыл бұрын
She was correct to never have kids with this caller. The levels of fantasy.....this dude should not be a father, he's a mess
@erismana2105 Жыл бұрын
He only used that reason to cheat . Cheaters dont make good parents
@dolphinbear661 Жыл бұрын
@@erismana2105 hey, whatever it takes to keep this out the gene pool, maybe in a decade or so, after staying alone and doing ALL the therapy, it's possible he could change his entire personality and live some truth. Maybe, 🤔
@redbougainvillea Жыл бұрын
Yes, it's entirely possible his wife knew what a hot mess he was before he cheated and didn't want to bring children into it. Then he doubled down on his immaturity and turned that against her.
@erismana2105 Жыл бұрын
@@thecreativemind6675 its common sense but dead beat dads defend dead beat dads so go off
@lucindabreeding Жыл бұрын
@@thecreativemind6675 You didn't ask me, but the cheater in my family wounded his children in addition to their mother. Cheating is a character issue, and I no longer believe a parent can be a good parent while simultaneously defrauding the mother or father of their children. Cheaters put their ego & their sexual gratification before their spouses and their children.
@kadebebesis42046 ай бұрын
He’s the kind of man I pray I never meet. I would rather die alone.
@ladybluelotus5 ай бұрын
😂 same, love. I'm with you on that one.
@_AnotherOne5 ай бұрын
Man?!
@StevenP7264 ай бұрын
@@_AnotherOnecarrier of testicles
@leslietarter20964 ай бұрын
Agreed
@MalesAreDemons4 ай бұрын
@@_AnotherOneYes MAN what is he
@artsie82822 ай бұрын
After I Verified the affair of my husband of 20 years, I had him out of the house in less than an hour. Told him he has to stay with side chick to make the affair worth it. LOL, 7 years later ex hubby is still paying his dues with this side chick. I run into ex on occasion and he has stars in his eyes if side chick is not there. I just turn my head because I am happily remarried.
@krystynaa_6 күн бұрын
I love how the DR was honest in saying that the life he had is over & that he doesn’t get to run back to her & say my bad. The truth hurts & so does his actions! 🤷🏻♀️
@CyeOutsider3 күн бұрын
Yep, consequences are hard sometimes but you have to accept them.
@krystynaa_3 күн бұрын
@@CyeOutsider 💯💯
@gbarbecue2399 Жыл бұрын
Ex left me for his co-worker. At the time I was devastated, now I am beyond grateful he's gone. I wouldn't take him back if he had a winning lottery ticket stapled to his forehead.
@blueseptember2174 Жыл бұрын
I hope to get to this point of gratitude. I'm still in pain.
@spectre34927 ай бұрын
Lol
@itzyogurlEleanor7 ай бұрын
he was a problematic person😂😂😂
@XheGoLong137 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 *high five*
@phalynwilliams41197 ай бұрын
@@blueseptember2174, you will get there. It takes time. Start with gratitude and everything else will follow. It is a process.
@Beepositive845 ай бұрын
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
@Gotoworkkk2 ай бұрын
We don’t say that anymore
@diane44882 ай бұрын
@@Gotoworkkk Why not?
@Elie83017 күн бұрын
EXACTLY!!!!
@Gotoworkkk17 күн бұрын
@@diane4488 get with the times lady!
@industrialover4 ай бұрын
Yeah, how does it feel? You got dumped after one year, your wife got dumped after 7
@kadebebesis42046 ай бұрын
This is a narcissist who feels sorry for himself and has no regard for others. Wifey if you’re reading this, don’t walk away, RUN!!!!
@liba40894 ай бұрын
right! this is hovering! run, wife, run!
@joecuster69264 ай бұрын
Truth
@moonsharn4 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!
@jes6161 Жыл бұрын
You can tell he feels no remorse for hurting his wife, he still said that his side chick was beautiful ‘like you wouldn’t believe’ he’s still caught up and heartbroken over her. He doesn’t care about his wife. This man is a coward and manipulative.
@tinasapienza6552 Жыл бұрын
He got what he deserved. He called the wife because he was lonely. He chose to destroy her world then goes running back when someone else destroys his. He’s a complete POS. Dr John was very kind handling this the way he did. Honest but still kind.
@catblack4091 Жыл бұрын
Yeah that pretty much made me want to vomit!
@stayroxy Жыл бұрын
100%
@veracityhunter7777 Жыл бұрын
Yes I caught that as well
@cbase06 Жыл бұрын
Dude!! That’s what I was thinking
@ursulaapodaca803028 күн бұрын
Unbelievable.. because he was dumped by the woman he cheated with.. he wants his old life back? Why not try and work on the marriage when he had the chance. He was married only for 8 years?? He walked out before he even trying.
@sufferable2 ай бұрын
He is still only thinking of himself! He's had done to him, what he did to her. Now he wants to run back to 'mommy' to take care of him.
@Calcifurr Жыл бұрын
He left his wife because she wasn’t sure if “she was a believer anymore.” But he goes around and cheats on her like the “believer” he is. Such a hypocrite, disgusting sinner.
@jimmytwotime68757 ай бұрын
Christians, am I right?
@dallasjansen22267 ай бұрын
Comical.
@tideio6 ай бұрын
It’s a complete excuse
@kerrymillar12676 ай бұрын
And allows another woman to humiliate him by bringing another man home to live. It’s unbelievable 😮
@whispersinthedark886 ай бұрын
@@jimmytwotime6875 so right, all the men who have cheated on me were Christians...but they had the balls to say non Christians have no morals.
@katrina3560 Жыл бұрын
🤢 you cried to your wife about your girlfriend dumping you and it making you "suicidal". If it weren't so disturbing a situation, it would be comical!
@erismana2105 Жыл бұрын
He is malniptive and manipulation is a form of abuse.
@dolphinbear661 Жыл бұрын
Manipulative af
@katrina3560 Жыл бұрын
@@erismana2105 ABSOLUTELY! His phoney bologna big, sad tears disgusting. He also attempted a bit of smearing her via the vague "she doesn't believe anymore" statement. Then TF he still interested for!? He should 🪨 🪨 🦵
@brendamoon2660 Жыл бұрын
How dare he? I just imagine if his wife was my daughter or friend. After dumping her for another woman he has the nerve to call her for sympathy?
@jamessanders8895 Жыл бұрын
@@brendamoon2660I would have told him to call 911 instead of me. They have more training in that, and they accually care. 😂
@margaretrich54062 ай бұрын
It kills me how a person will just get married, then leave when things get the least bit difficult, breaking that person's heart, trust, & self-esteem, then when the next person does them the same way, they've suddenly grown up, learned the lesson the hard way, & want the person they hurt back.
@ISEEKSPACE2 ай бұрын
Did he say he wants to get his wife back? She needs to run. This guy has no idea what he wants. He's talking in circles. Very narcassistic. No way.
@anniealexander96164 ай бұрын
I've been divorced for 13 years. Last year, my exhusband called me threatening to kill himself because he caught his girlfriend in bed with a man. He did the same thing wanting his old life back.
@sophiasana23934 ай бұрын
What have you said to him? If i may ask as a sister
@bettyhappschatt34674 ай бұрын
It might be a good day to get a new number.
@mamajojo23004 ай бұрын
@@bettyhappschatt3467 LOL! A good day to get a new number! LOL! I declare you winner of these internets! LOL
@BagznBirdz3 ай бұрын
OMG what a douche! So glad you divorced him. He has no right calling you regarding ANYTHING, least of all his heartache over another woman. Good for you for saying he wasn't welcome back in!
@jauntycommander10653 ай бұрын
Mine too. Only his side chick got pregnant by another man and wanted nothing to do with him after she realized that what he had was because of me bringing home the bread and holding it down. He started losing everything. Has a new woman now and tried to cheat on her with me. He won’t change and I just want my money
@mrenae6798 Жыл бұрын
To this caller’s wife: Please don’t take him back. He never would’ve called you or this show if his mistress didn’t break up with him. This man is using you to be his emotional dumping site. If he meets a halfway decent looking woman between now and the next time you all talk, guaranteed he’d put you on the back burner again. He’s not healed and it’s not your responsibility to be available to him.
@leehalloway87877 ай бұрын
Exactly. If his side piece didn't leave him, he would be having a good old time.
@KayWhatnow3 ай бұрын
The wife deserves that on-the-knees-apology from him… but also deserves so much better moving forward. If he had actually felt bad about hurting his wife that would be one thing, but speaking more highly of the side chick that dumped him and caring more about “all he lost” in that, then in any, let alone all, the pain and confusion and distraction in his wake to his wife/hopefully ex wife… nah. As a Christian I believe in minimizing divorce as much as possible, as well as forgiveness and restoration. There’s a huge difference though in forgiving but being healthy and not letting them back into your life because they are still a wolf in sheep’s clothing and haven’t changed, vs they learned from their mistakes, were genuinely sorry and working towards bettering things (and not just for themselves).
@jameybobamey73432 ай бұрын
Yeah except she sounds like the wolf. She married him and convinced him she wanted children and that she is a Christian. Now she doesn't want children and is saying she doesn't think she is a believer. Does that justify the affair? No. But also if they could have been divorced they probably would have been. They were required to do a separation first.
@mariaturner81212 ай бұрын
Crying for himself only!! Don’t take him back.
@MadeinBrazil_NYC8 ай бұрын
This is hilarious. Trash takes itself out EVERY TIME! I hope his ex is happy and healthy :)
@hotmess96407 ай бұрын
I wish the trash sitting in my kitchen would take itself out lol
@katiavoznaya23957 ай бұрын
Exactly what I wanted to say here! ;)
@tocaanimals46286 ай бұрын
The way I bust out laughing when he said she dumped me 😂😂😂
@caitlinjohnny38286 ай бұрын
Foreal and hope she finds a real man of God to love her like the bible tells him to and that she's sure of her faith. Salvation shouldnt be questionable
@zammymynakersnackstbmoth6 ай бұрын
I hope she has the best hair day everyday and sleeps good every single night. ❤
@prettyfeet22 Жыл бұрын
He mostly wants his wife back because this isn’t working. He will cheat again.😮
@isay207 Жыл бұрын
Never felt so alone I bet his wife felt this way when he left he didn't care then😂
@sueblack5794 Жыл бұрын
A future 5 time divorcee this guy.
@abbyxiong3931 Жыл бұрын
Yeah sad but he will.
@roymercer2210 ай бұрын
Not necessarily. Conviction and redemption are real and Christ can change hearts.
@prettyfeet2210 ай бұрын
@@roymercer22 you’re right. I hope he has changed.
@fbbWaddell3 ай бұрын
I am impressed by the empathy and compassion and mercy shown in this call. I'm also impressed by the bravery of the man calling in and telling the truth. You are really doing something special here, especially for men. I know men who have been thru some things and who have done some things and have no one to go to about them. I'm glad to see that you have chosen to be that person for those you can advise.
@WilliamWiest19594 ай бұрын
My humble opinion is that this man is a full fledged Jackwagon !
@crd95517 ай бұрын
May his ex-wife meet a guy whose also been cheated on, and they live happily ever after forever laughing at their horrible exes.
@Skmskmskm6 ай бұрын
This sounds somewhat similar to my story… and I would never ever ever ever ever take him back. God delivered me from evil For Sure!
@priyankapawar19126 ай бұрын
Yes, may that women finds a good man 🌻
@lucianaromulus14086 ай бұрын
That would be a dream come true.
@meilingflesa81406 ай бұрын
Good idea 👍
@tiawarren54036 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@kikz2358 Жыл бұрын
At least he got dumped by a “girlfriend”, his wife was dumped by her “husband” for some random girl he met at work. So if he thinks what he’s going through is painful, he should stop and think what his wife had to go through.
@otiliamanuelajurj6 ай бұрын
This kind of ‘’man’’ doesn't feel any empathy or compassion for a woman.
@shiamaxwell34826 ай бұрын
It’s a good thing his wife didn’t have children with him , she can ghost him if she wants to, and I hope she does .
@thewrongshoes5 ай бұрын
He probably doesn't care about anybody's feelings but his.
@jennprescott27574 ай бұрын
Right? He obviously has no remorse at all
@rgncajun212 ай бұрын
Honestly the wife dodged the biggest bullet even if she was hurt in the process. I hope she never ever think about getting back with him
@dolorestorrez74433 ай бұрын
Thank you for telling him what he needed to hear!
@onailinekodrugi6 ай бұрын
He left his wife for another woman and he's blaming her. Isn't he marvelous?
@mrv23084 ай бұрын
I bet she takes him back… embarrassing
@AM-lc6hy4 ай бұрын
I didn't hear blaming. Guy asked a question and he gave his reasons.
@annewalden37954 ай бұрын
This man only thinks about himself .Why doesn't he try to apologise to his wife because he might learn some useful information?
@kirstyvanwell40244 ай бұрын
What a man. 💪🏻🤮
@kausha7135 Жыл бұрын
He didn't cheat because his wife was losing faith and reconsidering children. He cheated because she's smarter and more capable than him and he couldn't stand that. He wanted a damsel, not a partner. And now he still doesn't want a partner. He wants a mommy and a therapist.
@NataliaSolakian-kc1sn6 ай бұрын
He sounds like he needs to mature as a man with the Word of God. He shot himself in the foot. He needs Jesus and His Word and learn how to be a man of God.
@danabaker9963 ай бұрын
The caller giggles a lot. He acts like he’s 18. He should lead a single life, and not bear children. He’s not capable of mature relationships.
@carmennurse8641Ай бұрын
@danabaker996, he’s giggling because of shame and embarrassment, and realizing he made an ass of himself….and he’s very narcissistic!!!
@amyeastman876414 күн бұрын
The giggling, the uncomfortable pauses, his terrible voice. Just one ick after another
@ApacheMagic2 күн бұрын
‘In a split second I lost everything I had’. Karma.
@veggiesaremurder7 ай бұрын
No!!! Two adulterers in a "relationship"... and it DOESN'T work out?! Shock! Horror!
@LegendaryCS46 ай бұрын
I never feel bad for people like this. They need to learn their lessons the hard way. You knowingly engaged in a relationship that is an affair? Your fault when the immoral person acts immorally TO YOU. Cheaters like to think they’re “special” and an exception to the rule, when cheating is a personality defect, not an act of love. (Clarification “you” is being used towards people that cheat, not in regards to the person who made this comment)
@veggiesaremurder6 ай бұрын
@@LegendaryCS4 I hope you understood I was being sarcastic, lol. And yes that's called the "universal you" or the "collective you". Anyway, I couldn't agree more. I remember hearing someone say that " adultery is the most morally irresponsible thing you could do to someone". I like that. "Morally irresponsible". It's so true. You're doing something completely devastating, carelessly and premeditatedly, because you care more about your own gratification than you do about the feelings of the person who loves you. It demonstrates a severe lack of character. It's selfishness at its peak.