Ask Me Anything #7: John Answers Your Questions

[@reneeantwi-boasiako3974]

@31:25 "Trauma is your body reenacting something in the present that happened to you in the past" so good ❤

[@Wealthofhealth_CD]

Ways to increase my ability to trust people better? The older I get, 48, I realize I walk around not believing people or trusting what people say or do.

[@JessRana]

Test it out with loved one’s, say the weird thing and purposely put yourself out there. See how it goes. Start small

[@JohnBalcony]

By submission

[@thedarkstar7045]

Let your guard down the more you get to know people. Try not to take EVERYTHING someone says seriously

[@costi101]

Why would you trust people? 😅

[@francestaylor9156]

No risk, no reward. You have to risk being a little vulnerable to see if the person reciprocates. Your judgment is a barrier between you and others.

[@estellegirl29]

Reading through these comments i got to realise people have hard lives. I'm so grateful for my easy one 😢😢. Stay strong everyone.

[@jenniferhirst399]

Thanks for being a bit vulnerable and sharing some personal information in this podcast. I loved you all already, and this just nailed it for me. Dr. Deloney, you change lives daily. You give people long awaited advice and answers, hope and closure. Chris Stapleton does the same through music. So, here’s to you and Stapleton! Rock on! Mom of three boys who listens to you daily.❤

[@mariselavelazquez4682]

Loved this episode, felt like I was having coffee and getting to know you all better. ❤

[@reneeantwi-boasiako3974]

@47:27 Dr John on protecting children "you can't play defence by prevention and have no conversation" 👏🏿🔥

[@apriltownsend8463]

I love these. They're not heavy or anything like that, they're just fun.

[@reneeantwi-boasiako3974]

@44:06-47:17 "I can, so I don't have to. I get to, and I will" that segment on healthy masculinity was soo good and necessary 🥹❤️,thank you so much Dr John

[@caitlincassandra]

John explaining his tattoos was so sweet 😊

[@aly-marie]

I like this episode!! It’s just interesting to just play out these ideas. You should do something like this again!

[@seresam7345]

45:03 I’m listening and absolutely do care! thank you for teaching me how to regulate and manage my emotions🤘🏻

[@reneeantwi-boasiako3974]

Thank you for all you do, Dr John ❤

[@wordskibroski1268]

John. How can I like myself. I need to live a better life.

[@basildestiny]

My neighbor was in fact mowing his lawn on Christmas Eve. It was in the 40s here in East Tennessee. 🤣 I'm pretty sure he was also in fact hiding from his family.

[@viewfromhere57]

After the kids opened all their gifts that I stressed over for the last 2 months - he helped by collecting the trash/wrapping and immediately went outside and had a yard day (Hawaii) and I knew exactly why 😂. Been married 19 years, I know this man like the back of my hand 😅

[@BeingLifted]

Love it! For me and all my siblings, a cardinal is Mom visiting and a Bluebird is Dad.

[@lissettementado]

Happy 1 Million! 🎉

[@DevHazy]

I’m 35 I saw counting crows last year ❤❤❤❤ highly recommend

[@amydaniels6442]

Yes for Patience!! 🤘🏻🎸

[@JamieRedlands]

“I Was Wrong” is a great song. Really hit me personally too

[@churrymurray]

Like the concept and content of this show :). Gurl, same, same, same on a lot of the things u said about early years, bands, songs, front men, etc 😊😊

[@katydid6920]

I would like to know why food addiction is an acceptable addiction and every other substance addiction isn't.

[@JulieeEliz]

🤯🤯🤯 True!! I never thought of that before… 😊🎯👍🏼

[@KM4me]

That's a really interesting question

[@mikeprata2976]

Probably because people aren’t pawning off Grandma’s jewelry for a cupcake

[@katydid6920]

@mikeprata2976 people hoard food from their children.

[@michellebreedlove2711]

The "I can change him" is a CONSTANT theme in just about EVERY romantic movie. Ever. That has existed. It's all a lie.

[@monicafamalett855]

"Seven boxes of farts" LOL that's a new one... 🤣

[@marialicemorgan19]

Buddy Guy. I was fortunate to see him in a small club in New York a few times. Wow just wow

[@flashthecorgi2053]

LOVE AMA’s. The banter between John, and Kelly is just the BEST!!! ❤😂

[@JohnBalcony]

Shut up

[@lorrieholsten2521]

My fav band I'd pearl jam. Then queen. Even flow and bohemian rhapsody. Favs. But yes guns n roses patience. Definitely 😊

[@SouthBayTri74]

Social Distortion is also my favorite band. John picked a great album! It’s arguably their all around best album. I’d add Don’t Drag Me Down and Down Here w/ The Rest of Us to his list.

[@jameswalker7628]

Nice gojira shirt 🤘

[@apriltownsend8463]

Exactly right, Kelly. Why would you want to "delete" anything related to your life? It made you who you are. Granted, if there's a picture of the two of you from like yesterday then yeah we may have a problem. But you looking through my phone for something and a memory pops up from like 2014? Why would you get mad at me for that? That was 10 years ago and I likely haven't seen him since.

[@BeingLifted]

It's not only women trying to change men. A long time ago, I met a guy and we struck up a conversation. He was impressed that I was leading a full life and starting a small business. After dating for a few months, he first accused me of cheating because of the amount of quart beers accumulating in my make-shift returnables bin. I told him that they were all his and reminded him that he promised to take them back for the returns because i didn't consume anything in returnable bottles. He didn't want to accept that they were all his.. (He was a great guy AND an alcoholic.) Once we got past that, I reminded him what he initially said he liked about me and told him he needed to find a woman who could give him 75% of her time. In response, he asked, "Why can't you do that?!"

[@nathanieljaymedonahue1892]

13:19 - I think we as a society should act with virtue and honor prior to the wedding day so that there would be no need to shy away from hurtful and harmful past behavior. Live in the present, learning from the past, preparing for the future.

[@louie480]

I just got beat my girlfriend and she’s blaming me for everything. She’s 35 and I’m 25 unfortunately I met her online and I still love her

[@janelleg597]

Get out. She doesn't love you.

[@lorrieholsten2521]

Run don't look back! It's not love! And speaking from experience it gets way way worse!

[@cheebsgod]

Omg white light white heat white trash album is awesomeeeeee!!! I love when the angels sing and I was wrong!!

[@jessicanear1562]

Enter sandman is my ringtone and alarm for the last 6 years and my bf now hates it, it’s still my favorite lmao

[@may.b.7050]

I was in an abusive relationship and left my partner after he strangled me. We were together for six years. However, I sometimes find myself missing him and wondering if we could get back together in the future. Am I being foolish and unreasonable to think this way?

[@chernagast6754]

This is a trauma bond. Research trauma bonding and learn how to protect yourself by healing yourself.

[@may.b.7050]

@chernagast6754 thank you

[@002wpatrick]

I was in an abusive relationship years ago. What snapped me out of it was when I went to a battered women's support group and one of the women said that "he doesn't love you if he abuses you". It took me weeks of being in denial over that, until a lightbulb hit me that she was correct. I left him and never looked back!

[@JulieeEliz]

@@002wpatrick ✨♥️🙏🏽♥️✨

[@janelleg597]

❤ no. But it is extremely dangerous. He has shown you who he is. He won't be any different than before

[@vio144]

OG Pantera would be amazing 👏

[@louie480]

My girlfriend stole my car and I just got a dui . I’m about to let her come back to my house . What do I do to not be in love still and put my foot down ? 24 male . She’s a 35 native chick . We have alcohol issues too . WHAT AM I DOING ? 😭😂

[@OCUSABJJ]

@@louie480 You’ve commented three times in this video. You are obviously in an unhealthy relationship. Don’t let her come back to your house and go to AA to get sober.

[@monicafamalett855]

Take the car keys away from her

[@OliviaHarrington-t5n]

Thank you for your videos! They are always so unique and high quality. You are an inspiration!⚾️🐍🖤

[@SarahSaharahDJC]

The masculinity part 👌

[@lukedavies4732]

Whenever I hear the question of 'what healthy masculinity looks like' I always go straight to Aragorn from Lord of the Rings

[@reneeantwi-boasiako3974]

👐🏿❤️

[@filipefigueiredo9847]

When in doubt, I simply ask myself "what would Clint Eastwood do in this particular situation?"

[@ashleybaugher8021]

The funny thing about that Micheal Scott Photoshop scene in the office was that actress was his real wife and those were his kids too. He photoshopped his characters face over his real face hahah.

[@kimberlyferrer4968]

How to not expect something? Is there not a baseline of exceptions from family, kids, partner?

[@lorrieholsten2521]

Oooh metallica the unforgiven 2 and nothing else matters

[@CHrisPetE056]

😂you’re so mean to Kelly. First timers might think you are just awful. Of course I get it. I love that you guys love the same classic rock. I mean it’s not classic rock for me, I think classic rock is The Eagles. Lynyrd Slynyrd. Aerosmith. LOL. I’m Gen X but just barely. 1989 I had been married two years. 😂😂😂😂 I’m loving this question 🙋🏻‍♀️ show. Thank you.

[@calebslawncare]

I’m in Thomasville Georgia, and was in fact mowing while listening to this. 🫶🏻💪😂

[@musicbrazilian7065]

English it is not my language can you please write the name of the songs & bands mentioned in this video besides "Patiences"?

[@reneeantwi-boasiako3974]

Social Distortion - when the angels sing, I was wrong Guns N Roses - patience, paradise city, mr Brownstone, my Michelle, rocket queen Metallica - whiplash, enter sandman, Pantera - walk Queen (freddy mecury) Karl Hendricks Journey (Steve perry) KISS Avett Brothers Turnstile Mumford & Sons 85 DMC

[@reneeantwi-boasiako3974]

Run DMC George Strait

[@reneeantwi-boasiako3974]

Counting Crows Black Crows

[@JulieeEliz]

Paradise City

[@musicbrazilian7065]

@@reneeantwi-boasiako3974 I really apreciatte it, I looove music!

[@xmar7]

The tension between John and Kelly lmao

[@cassnappedit]

Y'all came for my neck as a single 30 yr old woman in the beginning 🤣🤣😅😅

[@kaligator224]

Is Kelly his sister? He's not very nice to her...

[@NinjaFrog-nr3bs]

With the masculininty, I think I have found myself not really knowing where to draw the line on what to learn and what not to learn. I don't know how to hunt, I don't know how to do martial arts or defend myself I don't really know how to do much on a car, I can change my tire, and air it up I can do some plumbing after some youtube and some electrical work my dad has taught me Should I be learning all of that? Am I not masculine? How do I learn what I need to do to become a better man I am so scared I am not doing that, and I want to I just am not sure how

[@AndiAlexander1]

It’s the plot of every romance novel. Incorrigible rake meets innocent but outspoken beauty. There are rumours he’s actually a bad guy, but it turns out he’s funding an orphanage or whatever. As soon as they meet he can’t even look at another woman. They overcome whatever obstacles, get married and live happily ever after.

[@louie480]

This girl I’m dating said she can’t get pregnant but she supposedly can still and I’ve only known her for about 3 months . Do you think she’s taking advantage of me since she’s older ?? Please answer tonight 🙏

[@Gotoworkkk]

Why would you want to have a baby with someone you hardly know??

[@musicbrazilian7065]

You could be using her as well. I read all your messages. Violence and alcohol leads to jail dont allow her back into your house and dont make babies with her for your kids will suffer.

[@JulieeEliz]

@@musicbrazilian7065 🎯🎯🎯💯👍🏼

[@KM4me]

,,,,, it's sad that you can't trust her or don't know what the answer is. But I would use protection just because of you know diseases out there and people have things that can pass along and then you pass along and. So if you really care about her you have to work that part out but I would definitely make sure you use protection

[@msr.6661]

Do I kick my son out when he turns 18 to go live with his dad? Or wait til he graduates in May.? He continues to sell drugs, vape, use thc, drink, socialize with people I don’t know while on probation after being in juvenile detention back in February possibly facing 20 years in adult prison if he gets caught again! I’ve taken away the car, installed blocking apps on his phone. Done tough love. Stripped his room. Put up cameras and security alarms on his bedroom window. He Continues to buy and find burner phones and use social media apps we’ve banned from the beginning of cell phone usage. His father does not follow through in discipline and boundaries we set for him. My son just started a clothing business with a Pakistani in Pakistani without my knowledge but his father knew. His father let him go to a concert on a school and work night on dad’s parenting night.

[@reneeantwi-boasiako3974]

@msr.6661 I'm so sorry 🙏🏿❤️please inform other trusted people (family, school staff, if he's employed - his job), his friends. Also consider contacting local authorities/police, the business in Pakistan could be a scam and if may be in danger. I wish you all the best 🙏🏿❤️

[@Ziggy_MI]

Go see Joe Bonamassa live. Incredible guitarist.

[@JoelWende]

Question one…it comes from Romcoms. They’re always the ass dude who changes for love.

[@carmenchapa1]

I really hope you (Delony) leave the Ramsey business soon. You are so much more empathetic, tolerant and accepting than what he represents. You will resonate exponentially with those who need to hear your message when you separate from his woeful emotional ignorance.

[@flashthecorgi2053]

Delony has been with Ramsey for 5 years and NOTHING about his character has changed. He’s just the BEST! Delony working for Ramsey has done nothing but bring good to people across the world! 🥰

[@carmenchapa1]

@flashthecorgi2053 I agree that he's stayed solid, but there are more out there who would listen if he separated from Ramsey. I won't share any of his stuff until he does. I refuse to support anything associated with that guy.

[@flashthecorgi2053]

@@carmenchapa1 I’m sure that’s true in some cases but did you see the recent survey they put out where they asked and over 50% of the Delony show listeners didn’t even know he was associated with Ramsey at all? They just listen to this show!

[@steyyyjspapa]

!!I am at the beginning of my "investment journey", planning to put 385K into dividend stocks so that I will be making up to 30% annually in dividend returns. any good recommendation on great performing stocks or Crypto will be appreciated..

[@AlbertEischted]

As a newbie investor, it’s essential for you to have a mentor to keep you accountable. Ruth Ann Tsakonas is my trade analyst, she has guided me to identify key market trends, pinpointed strategic entry points, and provided risk assessments, ensuring my trades decisions align with market dynamics for optimal returns.

[@jamiejohnson-d9i]

I managed to grow a nest egg of around 120k to over a Million. I'm especially grateful to Adviser Ruth Ann Tsakonas, for her expertise and exposure to different areas of the market..

[@AlbertEischted]

I don't really blame people who panic. Lack of information can be a big hurdle. I've been making more than $200k passively by just investing through an advisor, and I don't have to do much work. Inflation or no inflation, my finances remain secure. So I really don't blame people who panic.

[@jamiejohnson-d9i]

Without a doubt! Ruth Ann Tsakonas is a trader who goes above and beyond. she has an exceptional skill for analysing market movements and spotting profitable opportunities. Her strategies are meticulously crafted on thorough research and years of practical experience.

[@steyyyjspapa]

how would you recommend i enter the crypto market? I am also looking at studying some traders and copying their strategy rather than investing myself and losing money emotionally. What's your take on this approach? and How can i reach her, if you don't mind me asking??

[@harrietbaker4484]

We think we can change it as women because we as women were raised to make everyone happy and so we learned to tap dance to create an environment mental of manipulation to get the man to do a thing. That is my opinion.

[@lorisutherland7728]

I think that women think they will change him thru love. But they don’t understand man thinking.

[@YvesUrsy]

Thanks for the breakdown! Could you help me with something unrelated: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). Could you explain how to move them to Binance?

[@JL-nb3dh]

I love your advice John, but I disagree with your thinking that women thinking they could change men is a recent phenomenon. It's been happening for thousands of years. There's an old saying that women marry men hoping they will change and men marry women hoping they never will (change). I believe that thinking is becoming less so since women have more choices as they are becoming financial equals with men.

[@JohnBalcony]

Why do u only care about females? Not men

[@estellegirl29]

This isn't true nor fair to say to John Delony. He shows love to everyone.

[@estellegirl29]

This isn't true nor fair to say.

[@flashthecorgi2053]

Dab shut up! Dr. John has literally saved a man’s life on this show by caring about him and asking that further question of if he was going to hurt himself.

[@Gotoworkkk]

Totally agree!!!!

[@JohnBalcony]

@@Gotoworkkk 👑

[@Luna14Smith]

Is Kelly a professional in the psychology field? Otherwise she shouldn't been giving advices...

[@flashthecorgi2053]

She’s not giving advice. She screens calls to see the validity of them and make sure there isn’t prank calls and sends them to Dr. John who then you see takes them on the show. Any other time she’s giving her experience or an opinion on a topic which is much different than professional advice.

[@JohnBalcony]

Why u love simpin?

[@jamiesb2638]

“I’m the one, I’m so amazing that he/she will change” becomes, “Obviously I’m worthless because she/he wouldn’t change for me” 😬 We are placing our value in the response of others, unrealistic expectations of change. And, that’s not how our value or people work 😅🥲