Meditations on Violence: Interview w/ SGT Rory Miller

[@darrylfox7286]

Great video. John I would like to see a list of the top 25 books a young poet should read.

[@WarriorPoetSociety]

warriorpoetsociety.us/reading-list/

[@johnmacfarlane5636]

Darryl Fox: the first one should be Man's Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl. In a nutshell, it is a great read on choosing one's attitude!

[@johnmacfarlane5636]

Darryl Fox without the right attitude, all of one's skills and abilities will be for nought. Happy journey Darryl.

[@dermotrooney9584]

Darryl Fox, try Brains and Bullets by Leo Murray

[@joshthediredog7372]

Have you read Hemingway’s war related novels? The Sun Also Rises. For Whom the Bell Tolls? Great reads!!!

[@williamkerry2626]

This is a 6 hour, minimum conversation, in 37 minutes. This conversation needs to continue. I personally see, at least a 6 part series. Please. Good job.

[@xxFairestxx]

William Kerry if you need 6 hours to grasp this genius, you insult him. Simple as that.

[@williamkerry2626]

xxFairestxx oh, I don’t need 6 hours, I’m just saying that there’s at least that more Genius to still flow out, and I’d like to hear more.

[@RantzBizGroup]

William, I completely agree, this was remarkable information!

[@harvestblades]

I agree a JRE length podcast/interview would be amazing as well as this guy should have a series or program.on WPSN!

[@harvestblades]

@@xxFairestxx I see your point as this is solid meat but is easy to digest in nice bite size pieces, but I bet given even a two hour long form interview/podcast could really provide a wealth of info as well as hearing some stories or thoughts on how he applies his concepts & life experiences to other aspects of life.

[@notfbi9564]

People are adaptable and the standards they’re held to are the ones that they’ll rise to, or fall to. THIS! Parents, siblings, aunties, uncles, nephews, nieces, communities, cultures.... I think this is a big part of what’s missing these days. Thank you for being on that page, you took me back when I feel I started to stray. Already purchased this book.

[@kentuckyjustice1408]

I'll admit it. This video just didn't sound like a video I wanted to watch for 35+ minutes, and put off watching it for (about) a week. Man, was I *WRONG!* This is one of the best videos John Lovell has put out, not that I haven't appreciated the content of his others. I can honestly say that when it came to the end, I wanted to hear more. Awesome interview/video. Thanks so much.

[@honestresponse6833]

Rory, guys like you paved the way for us younger guys and you're still doing it. Very grateful. "If we stand on the wisdom of those before us." WOW, awesome clip, loved the conversation. Thanks John

[@j.m.8193]

That was interesting, insightful, raw and awkward all at the same time.

[@lwstruyk]

Couldn't have described this video any better. My sentiments exactly !!!

[@bthemedia]

And hilarious at times! 😄

[@judithwake2757]

Rory Miller obviously practices and is a stellar example of what he preaches on the most personal level. His profound healthy humility is worthy of great celebration and acclaim. Thank you for allowing me to witness it. He has gone far in the most difficult battle we all will ever have. It being with our own self. Our own competetive, knee jerk reaction, fight and flight, reptilian brain, egos. Congratulations Rory. You are a Master in actuality.

[@nwmotog]

Holy crap more videos with this guy please!

[@bldlightpainting]

Grow up son! “Profanity is the common crutch of the conversational cripple.” David Keuck

[@Ogmeister]

I tried to transcribe the thing that stood out most to me: One of the most f'd up things we've done in the last 20 years is, somehow, passivity has become a virtue. Standing up for yourself is a sign that something is wrong with you. How does that even happen? ... Sometimes, when something really really horrible happens to you, you find out that you can control other people by bringing it up. The part of your brain that likes power gets that right away. And sometimes that's the only "benefit" that comes from this horrible event, and people latch onto that. I think it's compounded now because, societally, we decided that all power is suspect, that only bad people are powerful, and that being powerful is bad, which is literally insane. And that has made "victim power" one of the only powers that we can find as virtuous. So people are not only using the power of their victim-hood, but they're feeling self-righteous about it. You can watch people having little contests about who is the worst victim. The benefits of victim status (attention, power, coercion) that you are allowed to display as a victim, must be given up to outgrow the victim status.

[@rkreaden6038]

So f ing true You just spoke my mind It's really f ed up

[@bthemedia]

Great points to highlight... the woke crowd faulty obsession with Critical Race Theory is a reboot of socialist ideology, rather than social class its social identity (race, sex, gender) that is “always the victim” - simply by virtue of their identity rather than the facts and circumstances of their choices and situations that they can control (including their responses challenges). Some get stronger to fight through challenges, others give up claim they are the victim - then assert their “right” to be lifted up with equal outcomes as those who did the work to overcome the challenge.

[@impulsepdr2175]

I can't believe I haven't heard this discussion until now! This was THE BEST conversation I have heard in some time. Hope you guys consider a part 2 in the near future.

[@Dustinplays4keeps]

No way! I have loved Rory Miller for over 10 years. This was awesome to get to hear him live. I have been a fan of him and Kris Wilder and Lawrence Kane and Marc MacYoung for a long time when I was trying to bridge the gap between the dojo and the street when I started in law enforcement. Thanks for this!

[@Fightosaurus]

Humans are tool-users. Some learn to use each other as tools, including by being victims. Thank you for the real knowledge gents.

[@AWRRonin]

Hi, I'm a probation 'n parole officer in POLAND and a firearms - self defense instructor for other officers. I use Rory's books ("Meditations on Violence" and "Facing Violence") as my basic source matterial. Thank's Rory!

[@hillbillynick2000]

Thanks for this! Rory is one of my favorite thinkers on violence. Once you reach a certain age (or amount of experience) you move beyond the mechanics of a fight to a more philosophical approach. Rory is an excellent guide. Outstanding!

[@heavyhands8380]

I read that book years ago, and it is by far one of the best in terms of real life self defense. John, the fact that you had Rory on one of your videos adds to your credibility. I’m glad I subscribed to your channel. Keep up the good work John.

[@brett1567able]

roger that, i feel the same way, I've been a miller fan for some time!

[@dannya951]

Man, that predator mindset bit was profound and a little scary. Great insight, though.

[@thor7589]

Instructors/coachers on very important life topics like y’all are to far and few in between. I tend to take everything I hear from an outside source like a grain of salt. It’s rare for me to sit down and listen to someone and feel like they hold the answer to the question of what is the meaning of life, but...... you two have opened my eyes to so much that is bigger than just MY life. Thank you for passing on this knowledge to this newer generation to which I am a part of. I have recently discovered the warrior poets channel and for the past week, every day I’m on here watching and rewatching and even sharing your page to more than a handful of others. I don’t consider my self very intellectual but I am aware I don’t have the lowest IQ in the room in most situations, but there’s not one video from you I have watched that I did not take away something of importance to add to the forever expanding things of not to forget. Thank you AGAIN. “Keep on keepin on.” Were only as good as the world we build our lives around. *MASSIVE RESPECT*

[@JuliannaHolmes]

I think this is the BEST channel for mindset training in self defense/combat. Love it!

[@pendragonparties4959]

Thankyou for this John, read all of rorys books can't recommend them high enough, thankyou both

[@johnmacfarlane5636]

I have worked in corrections, including SuperMax and this man speaks the truth. I have walked the same coorridors. An attack is so fast there is nothing to react to except the blood all over the place. I went to one of the best Corrections academy in the country and the best safety is distance, as the distance is closed safety decreases proportionately. As Rory said, attacks in prison are at about 0 distance. Read and heed, this is the real deal! Great video, good Warrior Poet stuff!! One's mind must be prepared, to do so, meditation on the realities of violence and understanding it's purpose is a great place to start. Failure to do so is tantamount to seious emotional trauma. Thanks John, thanks Rory, blessings!

[@gfeliciano143]

I've watched 5 minute videos that never seem to end and I just watched a 37 minute video that felt like 5... I've been subscribed for a while and if we can get John and like minded individuals in every school I think the world would be a better place. I definitely should've lived in a different time lol.

[@DaveRoberts308]

Great interview, John. I bought Meditations on Violence a few years ago and it was hugely eye-opening. Rory is the real deal and he isn’t afraid to “go there” and talk about the deep questions, far beyond the fluffy training rituals we’ve all been through. Yea, it’s that good and “must reading” for everyone who thinks about personal defense.

[@danielmarshall4587]

8:30 Yes great answer. Then an outstanding expansion on that answer, Mr Lovell thank you for bringing this gentleman to your channel.

[@cfeigel]

Two years later, KZbin decided I needed to see this today. Awesome! Perfect timing. 22:00 Our culture has developed suspicion of power. People compete on victimhood. Needing permission to defend oneself. It's OK for good people to be strong. People are adaptable and the standards they're held to are the ones they rise of fall to.

[@jnelly814]

I love this setup and I'm really glad you're doing more "podcasty" type content because I listen to most of your content at work and don't have to sneak in watching clips. Love the work John.

[@andrewwicks8352]

Loved that book. Not a seminal work, but rather the in-depth considerations of someone who has experienced a lifetime of thoughtful violence.

[@MonteGould]

I was real hesitant to read this book. I worked 28 years in this profession. Many recommended this book outside of my former job. After watching this I'll buy the book. He's on point and speaks from my experience. I'm 57 now and feel every word he speaks... most of my friends gone and going. Good stuff

[@620ronin]

I have read most of the books this Sage Warrior has authored. I am impressed with his candor , insight and humility. Thank you Sir!

[@benwilson5893]

I could listen to Mr Miller all day.

[@joedeleon1189]

Facing Violence is the other book you need to read form Sgt Miller, John... Man, his books are what I call a wake up call from hell! First time over (I tend to read them over and over 'cause each time I find new stuff I previouslly missed...) I really felt inadecuate to defend any one, much less me. THIS GUY HAS SEEN THINGS I DON'T EVEN WHANT TO THINK ABOUT... His working habitat was the waiting-room to hell. Another planet... Another guy who has a ton of knowledge that maybe you whant to check is Lt Col. Dave Crossman (On Killing and On Combat...). Great video! Great reserch. And I thought I was the only loony out there who read that king of stuff...

[@alexbutlerful]

House to House by David Bellavia is also another great example

[@cackler119]

saw this video for the first time this evening, watched it 5 times. turned around and bought two of Rory's books. Thank you John, for this video, Thank you Rory for doing this interview

[@nickparkison977]

The amount of wisdom from this man is astounding in its reality. Thanks Rory Miller and the WPS.

[@DG-ok7iv]

That concept of giving yourself permission to use violence was really insightful and relatable.

[@kstock2478]

I read SGT Miller's book Meditations on Violence last year. It's great - recommend it highly. Thank you, WPS for interviewing him! Thank you, SGT Miller for your insights!

[@Frikzter]

More of this of this please! Don't be afraid of a 2 hour conversation, I'll watch it.

[@supersparkjr99]

I have the opportunity to train with Rory Miller once a year, and every year I look forward to it. I would urge you all to check out all of his books and trainings around the world, 10/10 would recommend this man.

[@443837449]

I watched the whole conversation and totally enjoyed enjoyed it.

[@443837449]

I watch all of your videos. A statement in this video rang a bell . We as a society have gone from honoring the Hero to publicizing the Victim. The Warrior Poet tries to not be the victim. Keep doing what you do, I truly enjoy watching your videos.

[@Humonic]

Same. More with Rory!

[@michaelblacktree]

What Rory was talking about at 23:00 is known as the "Oppression Olympics".

[@jadm110]

Rory Miller I have all your books ..and each one is great cover to cover, thank you for you time in writing

[@herbvergara1]

"....spectacular sunsets in my opponents eyes...." brings images of Musashi and Sasaki's duel on the beach of Funajima! Great stuff gentle-WP's, keep it coming

[@renrakudo]

John thank you for putting all of this out there. One of the best videos out there. This one needs to be shared as much as possible.

[@contentofcharacter]

I’ve been benefiting from Rory’s books for the past 4 or so years. I’m really glad you did this interview.

[@KainusGulch]

I'm so glad he has a good perspective on the rising generation. Not very many people give the kids the credit they need to be encouraged to do better. Potential should not be forgotten, especially by people in positions for mentoring.

[@j_bourne6496]

Good interview Brother. What he was speaking on as it relates to getting into the mind of a predator is something I suggest to all of my students. I have done it with my wife & kids as well & it really helps them understand how important situational awareness is & how predators read body language, why it's not a good idea to allow yourself to be distracted in transitional spaces, walking with confidence, looking people in the face, noticing who is noticing you, etc. This warrior has some great insight, thank you for interviewing him. RLTW

[@sfdanceron1]

This may be the best video I've seen since I've been watching youtube. Great information and wisdom. I could have been on a mountain top somewhere in China listening to the Master in a Shaolin Temple. The many Ways of the Warrior is quite profound.

[@Bubba2Guns]

Anthony White--- Agreed!

[@Wolfsangel988]

Rory Miller's work is absolutely brilliant and incredibly insightful. Thank you Rory I truly learned alot.

[@barbaralangley9179]

I've met Rory Miller several times at his workshops several years ago. He is an excellent teacher. Also think his books and DVDs are right on target. Good interview.

[@50StichesSteel]

Great interview...You can tell right away that he has thought long and hard about things, and also says things that only someone with the real world experience would know....Dont judge book by its cover man......I forget who first said this but some guy once said "The worst thing about getting old is that younger men no longer see you as dangerous"......John, you REALLY need to brush up on your street smarts. You may not need it as much in the military world, but its essential for civilian self protection. It'll help you see threats

[@ToddDinkins]

I've watched this more than once, and it seems very educational. I think this is a very dangerous man that has that under voluntary control. Congrats

[@scrider8464]

Rory Miller's insight and value is the scoop he has from bad guys, who Rory says, forget who he is and open up and tell him why they did what they did and it is scary. Rory is a Roulette Wheel of info on life and violence.

[@globalcliques]

Warrior poet society. I genuinely appreciate this.

[@kunfugunman]

i've read "meditations on violence" and it changed the way I train. I love that book.. phenomenal book.

[@angelajohnson4204]

This will show under my wife's name but...I worked 14 years in a level 5. Retired as a Sergeant supervising Segregation and Death Row. Everything he touched on proved true in my career. Thank you Sgt. Rory Miller for being able to put our world in a perspective and mindset that people can understand!! Absolutely the most fulfilling and dangerous job I had including 11m! There are people incarcerated for mistakes, however the majority are hustlers and predators. Hustlers tend to become predators behind bars. I dealt with some of the most dangerous human beings in my state, but also some of the most vulnerable [mental health]. The only people I felt bad for were the TRUE mental health sufferers. To use part of your analogy. ..if you walk into a tiger's den you'd better be a tiger yourself! My military training and bearing helped, but the biggest factor in what made me "successful".. for lack of a better term...was my mindset and understanding of how certain aspects of one's environment creates a person's world view. In my experience this is one environment where it helped being considered one of the most dangerous men in the room. [see what I did there John?] My son will be going to get his tab when he graduates in 3 years (something I wasn't able to do)! Or maybe following USMA like Alejandro Villanueva. I was a warrior and poet but never at the same time. So from an old grunt and father of a future Ranger....huah and drive on. Thank You JJ THE Albino Rhino

[@huiajoy2576]

Truly phenomenal, and authentic Rory Miller thank you so much. very earth shattering information. take care lots of love to you Rory.

[@forrestbryant6309]

Very humble man, has some grief to deal with. Profound thought though, "People are adaptable to the standard they're held to or fall to" i can apply this in my own life. Fantastic video thank you for sharing sir Sgt. Rory

[@adamprato7187]

Wow, I really like Rory. Incredibly humble and knowledgeable guy who embodies the “overlooked badass” (my words) that you spoke on in your video on The Most Dangerous Guy in the Room. Thanks for introducing us to him!

[@mauiharward4748]

Bravo Mr WP. And a big thank you to Mr. Miller.

[@tdeeb6359]

FANTASTIC interview!!!! Can’t wait to read the book. I got a lot to use with the ladies I train in firearms....especially about how to think of having to be in a fight for the first time. Thanks to Rory!!!!

[@matthewshannon6946]

Fascinating talk, John- thank you. This guy has a gift...the gift of straight talk- no bullshit. I much appreciate you going to the trouble to bring him to us. Col. Cooper is frequently quoted about those who "have seen the elephant". This gentleman surely has. Great content in your videos is a given but the ones that make you sit down and think (like this one) are valuable as a long term resource that KEEP you thinking as situations and experiences accumulate in life. Thank you, again!

[@ProbablyTooLoud]

Action-Reaction Gap. This, in the real world is a very brilliant dynamic to comprehend. The "time in the gap" is always way less than we can predict. Having a sharp instinctive/predictive reaction is often critical. Being ambushed sucks. This video interview is worth watching multiple times to extract all the great gems contained within.

[@petrahope5559]

As much as I like all of your videos, this is yet my favorite as of today. No doubt there will be other's I like better. But the insight that Rory Miller gives in this video is priceless.

[@levichristian7508]

John, thank you for this. I read this book before my daughter was born and took notes and studied it front to back. I havent come to another book that has given me so much on the subject. This is the kind of content that I am on the internet for, and I knew when I found your channel that you would provide it. Rock on.

[@macjameson1930]

This was the most educational 30 minutes I’ve spent in over a year. Thank you!

[@davehommel9456]

John more of this from your reading list please. Thank you SGT Miller for putting pen to paper!

[@brandanb9735]

I read Miller's Facing Violence sometime ago. It is perhaps the best non-fiction book I've read in years. Truly enlightening.

[@jodykemper6447]

If this was recorded in your home, please spackle the nails/screws in the trim under those shelves. Really enjoyed this. Thank you for hosting great people for great discussions and passing the wisdom on.

[@FirebaseElmira]

Rory: The source is incredibly important. Without the source,we would not have the wisdom he provides. Without interaction with the source, we're uable to assess the likelihood that he and the wusdim available is trustworthy. What you share has incredible value. Who you are also has incredible value. It's just incredibly hard to recognize that when adversary like depression ambushes us.

[@KristiGay1973]

I love his books. I was so glad to see Rory Miller on your channel. Such raw truth about violence. Please have him back for more discussions. I would particularly like to hear his thoughts about violence against women and children, both physical and emotional conditioning. So many of his points about violence ring true about predator grooming as well. Please consider this as a follow up discussion with the author.

[@Saphirefenix]

I did a workshop with Rory Miller last year - was a great learning experience.

[@davidanderson5259]

I have just enough MA and gun training to begin to understand how profound are the things Miller is saying. Thanks, John...

[@sorearm]

wow. found this by accident , meditations on violence is one of those books I've always dipped in and out of. Thank you for this.

[@lincolnclawson9259]

This man is spot on right. I trained martial arts 18 years, was a law enforcement officer 30 years and now I am a detention officer. He tells it like it is real life.

[@CrypticalMusic]

Thank you, John & Rory. You guys are awesome.

[@MARTIALCOMBATIVES]

a true martial artist and warrior, he corrected 'multiple belts' no , only 1 and didn't even want that one, belts and papers don't save you, experience, understanding, ...... aside from martial arts, just a great guy.... this knowledge is not in class, only in old guys who can pass experience and the lessons learned from actual engagement,

[@eDumke87]

True warrior poet there. Been a long time I've learned so much in one interview. He also seems to me prayer. I'm going to pray for him

[@PhotoDaveJax]

Perfect guest for the “warrior poet” theme. Interesting macro philosophical thinking. 24+ yrs in similar work btw. Stay resilient & value yourself.

[@crazypizza]

It's kinda endearing that you see how jaded and borderline cynical Rory is and John is not-so-subtly trying to cheer him up during the interview. You go, guys, both of you.

[@DonyaLane]

What Sgt. Rory was speaking about @19:45 reminded me of the Bhagavad-gita (for those who don't know, that translates to Song of God). It was spoken from Krishna to Arjuna on the battlefield during the Kurukshetra War (around 3000 B.C.). Arjuna was the greatest warrior of his time, yet, because the war was being fought between family members and friends (made me thing of our Civil War), he questioned himself and lost his confidence in JUSTIFYING his actions and even the point of his whole life! Lord Krishna (incarnation of God) wanted to serve his dear friend, Arjuna, as his charioteer into victory. But when Arjuna fell into self-doubt, Krishna spoke the Bhagavad-gita to him. It is the ultimate lesson, explaining all aspects of the material world (how we got here) and the nature of our eternal souls. There is such a thing as being righteous and doing the right thing, despite it being unpleasant. Fighting (or killing in self-defense) for what is right is one of those instances! For anyone who might want to read the Bhagavad-gita, I recommend "Bhagavad-gita As It Is" by A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada. The other publications are written by academics who miss the whole point of it.

[@gregorypitts8093]

Thanks John, I felt like we sat with Socrates for a half hour. There was so much there I’ll listen again and take notes this time.

[@davewolf8869]

"How not to drink myself to death" Where I'm at, now.

[@woodsinme]

Bet you kick ass every day.

[@darknesscomesforallofus4632]

find the strength to stay with us.. you are needed.

[@militustoica]

All I can say is... One day you’ll wake up and decide, “No more of this.” The first few weeks are hell. You’ll need a doctor’s help for antiseizure medicines. But in time, it does get much easier.

[@RhosefRho]

and the books are on there way. have Rory on again some time. there was so much good stuff in this episode i cant even process it all.

[@Bubba2Guns]

This was amazing. Both of these gentleman really laid it out honestly and clearly.

[@FailWords]

John without your channel I never would have been exposed to this guy. thank you

[@d1689-v8y]

Authentic discussion which was graciously led. Some of the questions explored evoked deep responses. Nice work.

[@RickLiebespach]

Great interview - I love Rory Miller and his material. Thank you.

[@LogicBob]

Mr. Miller, PLEASE release more of your books as audio books! I really loved Facing Violence, but I don't have time to read books for myself!

[@marklayton5374]

That was deep’ Interesting ‘ and made me think hard. Fantastic as ever. Thank you both so much. Love and respect from the UK.

[@richt7568]

Wow. This guy shook me to the core, so much truth! Great job !

[@jetman302]

This is the best interview you have done. Have him on again.

[@outtodoubt]

@about 14:00 mark...”just trying to not drink myself to death”. Jesus that hit me like a freight train. I was half zoned out goofing around at the reloading bench and that snapped me right back into reality. Guys PLEASE don’t be too proud to reach out for help. I’ve lost 4 very close friends to drugs and alcohol in as many years. 3 of them were vets trying to bury their pain. I know this isn’t the point of the video, but that just hit me pretty damn hard. Especially since there have been times I’ve envied the friends I’ve lost. Both when they were self destructing (the ones I knew about anyway) and after they succeeded. I have an amazing wife to help me see the light when I’m in the dark, but not everyone has such a life line that they know of. I promise you though, there is one out there. All you have to do is ask. Sorry for killing the mood and being off topic. Just had to say something after hearing that.

[@M29WeaselDriver]

The reason it's ingrained in people to ask permission to defend themselves is the legal element. In high schools it wasn't considered a fight till the victim threw a punch back then we were all told both people get in equal trouble because it's then a fight. There are lots of cases where the winner of the fight gets prosecuted by the legal system despite the fact that they were the one being attacked.

[@captapraelium1591]

It's even worse these days, even if they do throw a punch you're not supposed to defend yourself because violence is never the answer. It's ridiculous. I have young relatives in school and I worry for their ability to defend themselves since they live in this cottonwool-wrapped fallacy.

[@invictusbp1prop143]

Even in three short years, it’s become even worse. It’s not so much the legal element, or the dissuasive properties of punishment… I believe it’s the entire paradigm presented in a way that’s so contrary to reality. For example, kids grow up with the legendary archetype of the bully kept at the forefront of the conversation about victimization and they’re all taught the horrors of the unstoppable “bully” are far too unspeakable to discuss, so certainly not something they as a mere child who must rely on adults for protection could ever stand a chance of defeating themselves. They’re taught not only are they incapable of overcoming the mythical threat of the bully, they’d be unable to survive an attempt at standing up for themselves. They’re taught that they themselves are helpless and must always rely on their parents, teachers, school administrators or personnel…an adult…to step in, stop the persecution, admonish the force of evil which only the adult can handle, and to cower behind this adult until they can discuss how the bully was hurt, causing them to hurt others and why it’s ultimately someone else’s fault that the bully us a bully and his they must continue to be victims and just cry out for a teacher who’s able to come rescue them if the bully attacks again. They teach kids that they’re helpless, they teach them how they should be accepting and supportive of any ridiculousness others claim to be or believe, but they don’t teach them to deal with problems. They teach them that they actually can’t deal with problems…they need an authority figure to step in, declare innocence on both parts due to oppression, and proclaim who must do what in order to resolve the situation. Kids don’t learn conflict resolution at all. They don’t learn how to face adversity. When they encounter adversity, they’re taught to sound the alarm and find the nearest teacher to resolve the situation for them. So they cone up believing they aren’t capable of defending themselves, they must rely on the authority to step in and resolve conflicts…they can’t face adversity in their own…they must rely on authority to intervene. When they have problems concentrating or feel a lack of motivation or feel upset all the time, etc…whatever the difficulty they feel…there’s a pill that can be prescribed by the doctor. They have a problem, they report to the authority figure, and they are given “the cure”. No need for any change or effort or responsibility….just raise your hand and the authority figure will come give you what you need to fix it. Kids end up nearing adulthood and graduation and the real world…and they’re woefully unprepared for it. They encounter opposition or just a challenge that requires effort to overcome, and they fold. The “bully” strikes fear into their hearts, it’s the most terrifying threat to them…the “bully” was the only form of violence they’ve been anywhere near…and they believe it to be a national emergency. Everything is made into a giant ordeal, a terrible affront to them… because the world view the teachers intentionally impart on students is the pearl-clutching, couch-fainting, pacifist, anti-violence, pussy who believes that a discussion about why someone has been hurt by exposure to “toxic masculinity” is the solution for that person who is about to knock your teeth down your throat. Self defense couldn’t be further from anyone’s mind… They don’t know anything about putting forth the effort. Somethings being mean to them ahead and it’s stopping their progress so where’s the authority figure that’s supposed to step in and fix it ? They didn’t get their way and they didn’t want to work on Saturday and why does this coworker always stick them with the crap duties? Why is nobody stepping in to stop this horrific injustice? And they’re stuck. Confused. Let down because nobody’s coming to rescue them. The further into the real world they get, the more they realize they’re constantly being wronged and nobody’s stopping it. Nobody’s fixing anything or stopping all this “abuse”. They don’t know how to handle it. They see every affront to them as being exponentially more harmful and unjust and even meaningful than it actually is…they’re scared and don’t know how to cope. Obviously the whole world us against them, right? Since nobody is stepping in to help. They have no skills to deal with adversity. So some who are particularly ill-suited for taking care of themselves, they lash out in the only way they’ve seen for young people to respond when the mythical evil bullies are picking on them and nobody will step in and do anything about it…. They’ve been seeing them on tv all their lives. They know the names of the poor oppressed young people who came before them… They know people will find out they were bullied and nobody bothered to stop it… they know they found a solution…if they just follow their lead… …

[@M29WeaselDriver]

@@invictusbp1prop143 valid point. Sad really

[@dabigpitt]

Thanks for the upload, i respect this guy.

[@justicewithers8902]

Thank you, I will see myself, finally, very much in having my rights to do all that is right and needed to live.

[@ToddDinkins]

Great interview. Every time I listen I learn something new

[@rickjahndom]

Thanks John. Rory Miller is awesome, love his books!

[@VTdarkangel]

I've read Fcing Violence and it is one of the best treatises on self-defense I have ever read. He doesn't go too deep in it, but what he does cover is a good overview of what real violence is. It doesn't take much thought to realize what he is saying rings true. It has changed a lot of how I approach my own self-defense as well as what I teach my students. I can't recommend it enough.

[@toddburdick1]

Thank you John! Thank you for the great work you're doing.

[@dustincurtis9802]

Can’t wait to read this book. Thanks John.

[@joshuamarin5723]

Rory, may God bless you and heal you. I'm gonna have to watch this again to get all the quotes for my new bumper sticker company. Thank you.

[@LogicBob]

Great interview John! Thanks so much for bringing it to us!