Jonathan McReynolds hides his girlfriends.

The Monday Casual crew talks about why a lot of men don't rush to make their relationships public.

[@rasheedahmalone7723]

Don’t put anyone on your social media unless he’s your hubby. PERIODT!

[@starr4evr457]

YES PERIODT!! Agree 100 percent!

[@joliegeo8277]

I agree with you

[@2436golden]

I know what you mean, but I am old school. Everybody that I truly care about and love already knows he's my husband. If they don't already know, then it's not their business and their knowledge of my marital status is not a factor in my life.PERIOD!

[@renah6249]

Right 🙌🏽

[@judithmarcellon8205]

@@starr4evr457 💯💯💯

[@feliciafoxworth1]

You're single, until ur married.....periodt!

[@ashleyjordan661]

I was this type of woman years ago. I couldn’t understand why my then boyfriend (now husband) wouldn’t post me on social media. It’s a privacy thing. I didn’t get that. I do now. When you post certain things on social media, it’s like giving people an “All-Access” pass into your private life. They feel comfortable asking things that should be kept between that couple.

[@JackieleenVerdejo222]

Man...I am not even on Instagram and Facebook anymore...way too stressful! I just watch my favorite videos on KZbin from time to time :-). This was a great conversation! Kerfuffle is my new favorite word! :-D

[@n.b.0212]

Same. Free from the blue screen for 5 years.

[@shantemoore6265]

Never was on it.

[@Passion84GodAlways]

This is an unexpected but appreciated gift to receive on Sunday mo'nin'! 😁👍🏾 "I choose PEACE ☮️ over a POST!" 🙏🏾

[@colaynewilliams8115]

I didn't post my husband on social media until I posted our wedding picture the day after we got married. Nobody even knew I was dating. It allowed us to really focus on building and growing both individually and together. Our relationship was by no means a secret at all in real life, but I guess I just never understood the fascination with announcing every single stage on social media. But hey, that's my opinion 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@naturallymenow]

Build in private ❤️

[@steppyd1981]

Same here except I didn't post our pics, just changed the status. I don't put most of my biz on social media. I prefer my privacy 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@ItsChristyLove]

​@@naturallymenow Yes! Celebrate in public (when YOU'RE ready)! 🎉

[@ussinebony6656]

Mr. Snuffleupagus. Until 1985 for your information because Chiefly British Informal. a fuss; commotion. With your wife and girlfriend like me on here as your privacy

[@ussinebony6656]

From the portal I remember you was scarfin me with own engagement jonathan mcreynolds

[@joyhobbs5083]

The word is discretion. Social media negates that.

[@emiliakahenge]

I always say “I will never embarrass myself by posting someone who ain’t posting me, especially early stage just cause of excitement” ah ah ah his hands on my story to allow people to know I’m taken is enough 😅😂 even if the relationship is secure, people always want forbidden fruits 🥺

[@shantemoore6265]

And "people always want forbidden fruit"! 😅

[@gloriamccoygl]

Exposing who your dating on social media brings bird watchers and investigators.

[@kellikay6590]

😂 I enjoyed this video. I won’t post a man unless he is my husband. I will be in a relationship for years and still your not posted 🥴 I love my privacy.

[@mieyattamalone]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂You all are having too much fun with this topic🥰

[@kellikay6590]

@@mieyattamalone 🤣😂😂😭🥴

[@memeaw76]

When I got married 2yrs ago is when I deactivated my Facebook page my only social media page! Both me and my husband agreed our marriage is no one's business! PeriodT! You're not going to share my husband photos! And that's our business...

[@latashagalloway5655]

Yes indeed, we are all single until married in the site of the Lord our God !

[@reginadavis1028]

Social media is an interesting, intrusive, annoying world I'M SO INTENTIONAL NOT to be a part of! Great segment yet again guys!

[@kaysheryl]

Man I’m not putting anyone on my social until we are married 😂 Communication is key in all of this and if we know each other family and friends and where we stand in our relationship social media is not needed. I would rather have a genuine relationship with my boyfriend’s mom verses a surface relationship with her and tagging her in all my social media post.

[@mickeyimmanuel]

I'm mad I didn't know about these vlogs before. You guys are doing a great job. I thoroughly enjoyed this discussion. Very insightful.

[@xavianthomas9646]

Lol "Dee" that's called a rebrand!!! take it to the potters house I can't..... I'm done😭😭😭😭

[@lashannawilliams7721]

To each his own. Every couple is different. However please note, that women love to be claimed in public. How would you accommodate her wants compared to your need to remain private? I agree with another Sis.. Yall really needed the womans perspective on this. We are in deed apples and oranges but there is a need to know how we all think and come to a middle ground..

[@royalqueensoffaith.]

Jonathan should just tell us if there is anyone so that some of us crushing should stop.. Lol anyway as always, I did enjoy the conversation and did laugh alot

[@tembelihlechifamba1790]

That's where I'm at in my life right now

[@maritzajackson8534]

😆you would stop crushing just because there's someone special in his life??? Why? Not sure it would matter, for some...or maybe it's just me.

[@royalqueensoffaith.]

@@maritzajackson8534 it won't seem right.. That fact will kill the crushing

[@reginadavis1028]

@@royalqueensoffaith. because YOU have what too many DON'T about others relationships, RESPECT!! A DYING BREED!

[@justtia1031]

@@reginadavis1028 sooo true!!! I want to know as well…

[@2436golden]

Privacy is something that is not appreciated until it is lost. I love my privacy.

[@26nubianqueen]

You all would benefit from a womans perspective in this conversation.

[@mieyattamalone]

Rigghhtt

[@MrBUZZBEE1]

Women it would be pointless to give your perspective...

[@praisemywaythrough579]

True

[@NopeNotToday26]

@@MrBUZZBEE1 Why?

[@briannaje5419]

My first time watching Casual and I was cracking up! 🤣🤣 Yall was speaking truth. My husband and I just got married in May of this year and we pretty much eloped to Pastor's office without telling anyone. Didn't even tell our parents until the day of. We felt led to just go and do it while at the same time... some people were also having too many opinions on how, when, where we were getting married. It was just TOO MUCH. Sometimes, you gotta do it and tell folks later. I remember when Dee was getting married! He was the worship leader at CLC and it was so nice how Pastor Jerry honored him as he went to be in ministry with his wife.❤

[@oreo6060]

They make very good points!!! My momma always taught me to keep your personal affairs on the down low, and she especially applies that to social media presence. While a new relationship is exciting, social media can be really toxic and bring in bad vibes. Only post if you ready and committed, and if you both agree. Once it's out there you can't take it back!

[@graziadiseiyeorji1128]

"I'm a child of light", the same way I instantly clarify with my friends as well 😂😂

[@jasmynetheflower2542]

Yall need y’all own morning show lol I would listen to it everyday 😂😂

[@daejones0789]

That part, being on the different pages. I like the use of the “produce section”.

[@SunshineIzDivine]

I'm not on social media, I've deactivated all of my accounts so no relationship in the future will be online. I found the interesting that you said that relationships are branding for women. I believe it's because society brands women as unruly, unsafe, "Jezebel". So when you brand yourself with a partner, it's like saying "Hey I'm a good girl, and here's a man to prove it!" Men are trophies in as much as women are trophies for men, it's just for different reasons. It has been my experience (may not be everyone's truth, okay we all live different lives) that female singleness is often seen as a threat, or a problem to be solved.

[@Joce-bl7qi]

@SunshineIzDivine “female singleness is often seen as a threat, or a problem to be solved.” This!!

[@hanabae_]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 facts sis! Facts!

[@moriah9132]

True

[@Mainamusicc]

This is loud!

[@mssunshine3450]

I'm old enough to be y'all Mom....but these episodes are hilarious and enlightening at the same time🤣🤓

[@DrCareyYazeedTV]

The produce analogy. I’ll never look at apples and oranges the same again😂🤣

[@catherinekahugi3365]

The title is so calling. 😂😂. Can't wait 💃💃💃💃

[@jackiebracken2804]

Hey Johnathon I'm Jackie 57 years old from Louisiana my mom is deceased but she have family in Chicago, I'm anxious to watch on June 6,ummm girlfriends that would be interesting to tune into but really I really think we are cousins I posted this to you but I seen a lady on your video I'm not lucky I'm love you had a white t-shirt on I'm assuming she was your grandmother she looks soo much like my mom, her maiden name is Greene she had a sister named Maggie Greene my mom is Susie don't want to seem like a crazed fan but still a fan ❤ I love your music and the message it gives, just wondering continue blessings to you

[@krystalchandler6091]

You guys... Mondays with this 4 is like overhearing the conversations of my brothers and guy cousins after dinner. Silly and Off! Love it tho!!

[@MissShennill]

"Peace over post". Conversation is good yet sometimes it needs to be short and sweet which can be more impactful on the psyche. Blessings and much anointings of peace on each of you.

[@sheilahgloria3832]

I don't know how I stumbled upon this video, but I loved every second of it!!! :)

[@gayvettebruce5235]

I am from the old school. What God put together? Let no one seperate! That includes " Social Media". I need not prove to whom I adore on social media! I Love Face to Face. And his face only! So I have have been married for 15 years. And social media did not give me knowledge to continue the journey. God Did! Just giving the truth in my life.

[@shontajackson8539]

It's no one's business privacy is best ❤️

[@one4truth236]

People should stop treating early dating like a relationship. We get exclusive too quick and end up getting hurt in the process. I do believe that honesty should be foremost from the start and you should be clear with your intentions from the first conversation.

[@s.tucker6685]

I like what Leon said "PEACE over a POST". Right on Leon! 👊🏾👏🏾👌🏾

[@70terrance]

Love you Men talking about life and telling the truth great channel keep doing you. Love it

[@JustMepi]

Stumbled upon this greatness- great convos 'n' imma stay 😂

[@emrowe]

kerfuffle noun, informal ker·​fuf·​fle | \ kər-ˈfə-fəl \ plural kerfuffles Definition of kerfuffle : a disturbance or commotion typically caused by a dispute or conflict

[@debbier957]

Solid convo. Y’all are good vibes.

[@joansmith6920]

It's nice to see you fellows having fun! Great guys! Thanks for the women who created this opportunity.

[@sabriamason955]

I’m with Jonathan unless we getting married I’m not positing nobody !

[@yakimapolius3872]

I respect these 3 reasons. As a young woman myself I have learnt this lesson. Half way down the isle sounds good to me! After the honeymoon is even better. I'll say this about reason 2 though...if you ain't done in the streets, let that be known! Don't be out here dating people and you know very well you ain't ready to be exclusive.

[@carlapinto3126]

The guy had a scepter on the way to the altar 😂😂😂? Hilarious! Thank you for the transparency. I was thinking about this same topic recently and after hearing y’all’s perspective, I am willing to keep it a secret until my king is ready 😂.

[@maritzajackson8534]

Thank You and Thank God for all that you do put forth for public consumption. Keep personal things private, it serves as a protection. Not everything is everyone's business, for sure.

[@crescentcitygirl1006]

Excellent conversation Men Of God, my advice is for your relationship status to always say in a relationship with Christ, and communicate to potential partners that your social media is to spread the word and love of God. Let God's will be done 👑

[@productofaprayingmom]

😳 patiently waiting. I’m already laughing 😆

[@Nompumelelosibiya2456]

😂😂

[@kaysheryl]

They keep me in tears 😂

[@NUTZONYALIPZ]

What are you waiting for? No simpin but your profile pic is nice

[@chassityg.1643]

Insightful.... definitely enjoyed this podcast. I appreciate the difference in perspective from a man to a woman.

[@victorynwachukwu]

It was a wonderful conversation. I love it. I really enjoyed myself 🤣🤣.

[@MsPaigeygirl]

I really enjoy listening to you guys ❤️❤️❤️

[@JamesSmith-pt8dy]

Hey .. everyone Moniee-Mon, is watching thanks for the info. Keep doing what'cha do best God bless you 🙏🙌❤💖

[@melaniebryant4849]

Make sure you ask questions an communication on all levels

[@princess_siafa]

This was so much fun to watch!😂

[@teachthem4ever]

Oh, no! My OCD won’t let me be great. You switched the tile positions 😭😭😭

[@michelewynn4680]

Very Good Topic!!!💜

[@countyourmiracles.7734]

I loved this podcast. I felt a part of it.

[@melaniebryant4849]

Waiting on my Boaz God has for me not just settle for less

[@Sleeknotchsolutions]

Great conversation

[@emecooksday1368]

Jonny gave a truth, people thinking for you and giving pressure deciding if the lady is fit for you or not and also if the man is fit for you or not. Public do not have the right to tell you what fits for you. Lol. In Jonny's voice, I will post a picture of her hands , not even her face ,10 more seconds to the ceremony. That was a great message crew

[@joelnshimirimana]

😂Steal kill and destroy!😂

[@josephramirez452]

Nice convo there biggest fun of McReynolds from Nairobi Kenya💯

[@marywilson6354]

Wow this got deep really quick and real for me great conversation young men.♥️♥️♥️😂

[@kazdro9176]

first time I've watched one of these. I could listen to this lot laughing all day :D

[@andyteechannel3634]

That's some good 👍🏿👌🏿 discussion 6ou guys had... I'm a worshipper as well, and these questions helps me out to be careful out there...Kudos to all 4 of you guys 👏🏿👏🏼👏🏾

[@kaylaserieux1428]

“HEEeeeEeeE🎶” 🤣 love it. 🤔 Also, what you would do if-after you post the picture of her hand mid aisle walk-she leaves you at the alter?

[@Jesmelia]

To the last point that was made @ 19:43: I think if women want validation about their relationship, it would be from people who care about them. Because emotional decisions can be extremely dangerous, we need to make sure our commitments are also logical. But posting on social media to be seen as “relationship goals” is probably more associated with either excitement or insecurity than women as a whole.

[@lmitchell9001]

"I create music for public consumption..." Now that's a word!

[@janegeorge7759]

Oh you just said it, you are the son of the LIGHT 💕

[@jeremynswana]

from "#BlackLove and #PowerCouple" to "Hot Girl Summer and God using singleness to bring you out of brokenness"🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@latashagalloway5655]

I really...enjoyed this topic! Privacy matters so....much and May God provide all of your needs !!

[@bishopressadorableHRH]

This is a real good topic . Realistic issues of our today's life .

[@rashadlynes-theaviator3205]

Interesting perspectives!

[@sheisstrongpodcast]

I laughed my ribs out on this entire video. But so much to learn here. Dont post until it's permanent sis.

[@nqobilemabobole7020]

😂😂😂Thoroughly enjoyed this! God bless y'all🙏🏽

[@wilandaellis1479]

Make sure both parties on same page. I remember when my now fiancé wanted to define what we were. I had him friend zoned, he wanted more. He changed status to in a relationship. We were together for year before posting anything. Still maintain privacy though…sooo wished y’all had a lady as part of the convo.

[@sophiasmith288]

That's a lot of work!!! That rebranding thing. Put up then have to delete🙄

[@MissShunquita]

Y’all are funny! I love these type of relationships with friends/people when you can be yourself and it’s centered around God.

[@akyedzie2366]

I enjoyed every bit of this discussion 🔥😂 #peaceoverpost

[@abbya444]

I realy enjoy these videos

[@bford3977]

This is so on point. I'm old so I TOTALLY don't understand the need to post your relationships on social media. I heard a young woman say that it's serious when it's 'Facebook official'. Really? For all the reasons you mentioned, keep those relationships private. Work on the relationship between the two of you. Not you, her and social media.

[@mssunshine3450]

I agree 👍🏽

[@jacksonmlay5039]

Real talk ! Fellas

[@jackiebracken2804]

Excitedly😊 waiting 😁🤭!!!

[@ashleystarksmorris3340]

Get the ladies on here! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@PriceLove]

Why do I think this is just to get our attention? Don't look like there are any hidden girlfriends but it is likely a thought people have, looking forward to hearing what this really is all about

[@101stunning101]

Rumor has it, it’s Loren Lott.

[@bishopressadorableHRH]

Rebranding is a whole lot of work my brothers.

[@feliciafoxworth1]

Just because u post the good parts of ur relationship doesn't mean that you have to post the bad parts. IG story or Facebook story is just that, part of the story.

[@katharine1285]

Agree

[@julietNll]

My fingers are crossed🤞👀👀

[@delesewilson429]

Wooooooaaaaaaa.... we this on a shirt Jonny: Peace over Post. That's my position to social media in a nutshell! Thank you Leon

[@renah6249]

I love you guys together funny/cool😊 In Johnathan voice: Lord Help Me Maintain 😂

[@mabelasuquo1873]

This makes a whole lot of sense.

[@janegeorge7759]

I love your boys;. Please would like more of this chat show Blessings

[@RoseMorgan7]

Good stuff.

[@gloriajohnson5265]

This is good!

[@davidisliving]

2:22 Jonny coulda put that song with the fire run down right there! It was begging.

[@intenselyfavored]

ALL MY FLESH DIED when I saw that picture!!!! LOLOLOL

[@xavianthomas9646]

"KERFUFFLE "!! ok ok dee be the phone hander😆... I hear ya and the motive really is yall wanna be properly aligned and not having Instagram Trolling you. I couldn't have said it better myself 💯💯

[@jiritmwagokum4937]

Child of the light..yeah

[@miltonmartin8189]

We need to stop comparing and measuring ourselves among ourselves, it is not wise. Somethings are meant to be personal and private.

[@delesewilson429]

Damn!!! For some reason I thought this one was for today! Sigh.... this is gonna be a long wait

[@oasismarley9386]

Just the thought of Rebranding is stressful 😪😪