Jordan Peterson: What To Do To Be Successful

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Jordan B Peterson (born June 12, 1962) is a Canadian clinical psychologist and professor of psychology at the University of Toronto. In this clip, he talks about the predictors of life success and what you can do about it.
Full talk "2017 Personality 21: Biology & Traits: Performance Prediction", quoted under fair use: • 2017 Personality 21: B...
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@ToriKo_ 5 жыл бұрын

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@J_parker Жыл бұрын

>“I went to an event for high-performing entrepreneurs and the question was asked of the room, ‘How many of you have achieved your financial goals?’ Amazingly, 80 percent of the room raised their hand. Then the question was asked, ‘How many of you feel successful?’ and 80 percent of the hands went down. This example alone shows that there is little to no connection between the standard measurement of success and the feeling of success.”

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@Matteo-tg2vc Жыл бұрын

I thought having more money, becoming more well-known, and having more accomplishments would make me feel successful, but it didn’t. I just ended up in a vicious cycle where I was constantly on a chase for the next big thing. The big problem is that we inaccurately chase after the things we are told that will make us feel successful. while growing up no one told me investment is key to a successful life.

@NarinEmre-dc5up Жыл бұрын

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@Smith.ash2 Жыл бұрын

Good @Matteo... We never had the opportunity to invest or know what investment was, things are more easier now than before. To be successful in life you don't have to depend on one source of income, show me a man with one source of income or don't have an ongoing investment and i will tell you how long it takes to go bankrupt. I started investing with Shermwilli trade few months ago and have made so much profits and still making more and more every month.

@AnnahKimberly67 3 ай бұрын

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@Mikeadam235 3 ай бұрын

Congratulations.

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@AnnahKimberly67 3 ай бұрын

Okay but is not luck, is all about having good investment plans most of all trading with a trust worthy expert. Watching professional trading videos and most especially connecting with the right person the digital world is full of in unreal people I met some of them during my success journey. I felt same way when I started especially when you use demo account you might be winning but when you put in real money you start losing I understand and I pass through it all. I’m very happy I’m profitable now.

@Reginamartinez-555 3 ай бұрын

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@AnnahKimberly67 3 ай бұрын

Currently i can attest to the fact that I make $18,300 weekly through trading which is more better then my monthly salary job. Trading becomes my passive income.

@gianthills Ай бұрын

success is determined early. we can just look at stats. If you were born into a stable family, you had a better chance than someone who experienced divorce as a kid. If you grew up in a single parent household, you probably didn't develop as quickly as other kids. The psychological affects of knowing one or both of your parents didn't really care, conditioned you to be alone a lot, which of course affected your ability to get along in the world as an adult. If you had a parent who helped you out in different areas, taught you to drive, to tie a tie, taught you how to fight, and so forth, you would have been ahead of the kid who didn't have any of that, because it would have given you the confidence. If you had a parent that helped you with your career, maybe your father had associates who offered you a job, or maybe your father had his own business, and you got your foot in the door early. Think of the kid who had to figure all of that out, one failure at a time.

@shresthaditya2950 Жыл бұрын

1:07- 1:49-Conciousness:Industriousness and orderliness . Set up aims and goals

@kunalgupta7546 4 ай бұрын

BEAUTIFUL!

@chocovinniecairo Жыл бұрын

Love u bro

@vmania4847 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for linking the full lecture!

@datibetanurse Жыл бұрын

godsend

@lailaalfaddil7389 Жыл бұрын

The most important thing that should be on everyone mind currently should be to invest in different sources of income that doesn't depend on the government. Especially with the current economic crisis around the word. This is still a good time to invest in various stocks, Gold, silver and digital currencies.

@susannnico Жыл бұрын

That's so true. but if i may ask, do you trade all by yourself?

@lailaalfaddil7389 Жыл бұрын

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@raphaeldouglas9361 2 жыл бұрын

Successful people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time.

@bettyshaky1836 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah! I agree with you sir.

@bettyshaky1836 2 жыл бұрын

If you want to be successful have the mindset of the rich, spend less and invest More. Don't give up your dreams.

@peterbedley2719 2 жыл бұрын

@@bettyshaky1836 People come here with the aim of chasing money more than knowledge and that will damage your progress, trust me. Chase knowledge first and I promise! The money will follow you just like it's following some of us now.

@michealdouglas8206 2 жыл бұрын

@@peterbedley2719 That's very correct sir!! And that is why most of them end up losing they money to scammers.

@christophercook7170 2 жыл бұрын

@@michealdouglas8206 Don't be in a haste to invest. Know what and who you are investing to and be sure that the person will deliver before investing.

@ProTroll69 4 жыл бұрын

Step aside Tony Robbins, we’ve found a better guide.

@sparky69withcheese 4 жыл бұрын

He's not a guide, he's Jordan Peterson.

@phillipchavez1321 4 жыл бұрын

@John Cordova and @Sparky Tunes Damn right. 👌 Although, Tony robbins, as far to my knowledge, helps out more about $(money) and Jordan is more about everything else

@j.daniel2120 3 жыл бұрын

+ Tony Robbins' community operates like a cult

@robertmendez4990 3 жыл бұрын

Except he went to rehab

@titan9663 3 жыл бұрын

@@robertmendez4990 ignorant

@amandajtycer2887 5 жыл бұрын

I'm trying to figure why I was never lucky enough to have someone like Jordan Peterson in my life... His friends and family are blessed.

@ayatollahvladimirputin3844 5 жыл бұрын

Nancy Hollo well he is a psychologist.. But if this lady goes to engineering she will meet many thirsty men

@ParadigmRabbit 5 жыл бұрын

He is in your life. You are lucky enough. :)

@Realliberal 5 жыл бұрын

Be the Female Jordan Peterson. I mean if you want to be female..or ? Have others feel blessed to have you in their lives.

@bayesianlee6447 5 жыл бұрын

There are plenty of ppl who even never know Jordan Peterson and even KZbin. U r absolutely blessed because u know him and learn from him. Blessed u r

@edmel144 4 жыл бұрын

Gilda Gottlieb Brainy in a self help way. The ‘hard’ sciences (I know I sound like a wanker) have guys brainy in a different way. Kind of like how painting artists and actors etc. have taken over the word ‘creative’ but there are creative people in all fields including accounting. ‘Artistic’ I feel is a better word but still not specific enough maybe.

@Kiyotaka_Ayanoukoji 2 жыл бұрын

yeah, it's a good program, it helped me out a lot

@funkyshade 4 жыл бұрын

I think the reason why people are so excited about Jordan Peterson's lectures is because he offers clear tools and strategies that will help you improve your life. I always feel so motivated afterwards!

@merchantgold6327 11 ай бұрын

Those are normal dopamine spikes people feel after listening to a motivational speaker

@pwnership3292 9 ай бұрын

@@merchantgold6327he's not a motivational speaker dude, it's just what he says tends to motivate people

@ranvijaysingh5002 Жыл бұрын

Family Friend Career Educational goals Plans outside the work 8:01

@berniej4141 3 жыл бұрын

I flinched when he said "MAKE A DAMN SCHEDULE AND STICK TO IT!" that really hit home though

@niloyjana Жыл бұрын

6:32

@Ham-pb7pb 2 жыл бұрын

April 1st 9:06

@johnfernandez2060 4 жыл бұрын

I love you sir!

@manuw1102 2 жыл бұрын

This man tells you the things you didn't know you needed to hear your entire life

@tclondon 11 ай бұрын

Facts!

@bigal5860 9 ай бұрын

I don’t know if this is something you might be interested in looking into I’m expanding my Health and Wellness Business The market is huge and our Company is doing very well. I’m looking for 1 or 2 people with a desire to earn additional income from home. Does this sound like something you might be interested in looking into? If so great if not no big deal or do you know anyone who might be interested?

@Shubhampb372 4 ай бұрын

That is true.

@FathimaKassim-fs2mr Жыл бұрын

Best speech for improving

@bradleysindhoo1037 3 жыл бұрын

God bless you mahn

@PinkYellowGreen2023 10 ай бұрын

Removing yourself from destructive environments is key to any success.

@tallmikeholley 5 жыл бұрын

Spot on!

@laki666ify 5 жыл бұрын

Im fiering myself:D

@hugofigueiredo6056 2 жыл бұрын

Ahahaha

@claudiamanta1943 2 ай бұрын

I’m firing the world 😂

@UmbusiZiqalo Жыл бұрын

Powerful thoughts and Insights.

@ProfessorBorax 3 жыл бұрын

I watch this video in the morning every day

@user-sl9ls9ep3j Күн бұрын

I think if you need to be successful you have to believe in yourself

@vic3451 4 жыл бұрын

6:54 Specify your damn goals.

@gusgama8464 5 жыл бұрын

1:47 Thank you for the information, Dr. Peterson! ❤

@benjordan4269 2 жыл бұрын

Where did him delivered this lecture? At Toronto University?

@millennialknowledge 3 жыл бұрын

"Success is not final; Failure is not Fatal; It is the courage to continue that counts." - Wintston S. Churchill

@user-yg1mn8do2d 11 ай бұрын

True

@bigal5860 9 ай бұрын

@claudiamanta1943 2 ай бұрын

He succeeded. He succeeded to sell my country to the Soviets. Not everything that can be achieved should be achieved.

@Living_Maximally Жыл бұрын

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." -Aristotle

@satorugojo3965 9 ай бұрын

why spoofing

@PiNKUZi 6 ай бұрын

Where can I find the rest of this lecture? Please & Ty🙏

@AntiToxic4u 2 ай бұрын

How do I test my IQ in a legit way? On top of that do I prepare for this or just take it on?

@Batvolle 2 ай бұрын

Depends on weather you want an accurate result or not. You can really boost your iq test results by doing similar exercises before.

@phillipchavez1321 4 жыл бұрын

Notes 📝: -Sources of potential motivation: 2:40-3:10

@chrisjlee2013 3 жыл бұрын

He generally teaches the discipline needed on a person to be able to be happy. There is no motivation that we’re supposed to be relying on. It’s all about setting everything up for yourself, and focus on what values you the most on a longer term perspective. Because if you don’t, you will gravitate to despair and suffering.

@prakhartiwari6397 Жыл бұрын

I want the full lecture where can I find it??

@letilove1225 5 жыл бұрын

Exercise! I always said that's what keeps me looking young and upbeat!

@dja4701 Жыл бұрын

Which lecture is this a part of?

@vahidmaz5393 Жыл бұрын

If you are high "enoralesous,"you need security, what's the word ,I can't find it in dictionary, listen to 2:55 min of the video

@soraaaa4158 3 ай бұрын

"neuroticism"

@insigniamalignia 2 жыл бұрын

How much do you have to pay to get sessions with this guy 1-on-1? Willing to pay

@ranvijaysingh5002 Жыл бұрын

8:00 schedule

@sandydelacruz2662 Жыл бұрын

Share and Like this video as much as you can. I can save a persons life.. like it did for me. Bless you Dr.Peterson, you are a force of good in this world.

@Justaguywithtruth 5 жыл бұрын

Canada...really....Canada..please..😏

@lucaslageguida3571 3 жыл бұрын

I should fire my self and find some one else to be. Soooo goooddd

@togethereasy Жыл бұрын

Bro clearly knows so much. I wish I had his knowledge. I could help more people.

@kennethporst4359 Жыл бұрын

Winning strategy: The micro processes become rewarding in portion to the GOAL....aka every time you complete a task you feel happy/Joy because you feel closer to the goal in which youl be Joyd about

@believer.4026 8 ай бұрын

Incredibly grateful for my teachers, who taught me English, that I'm now able to watch such content.

@natehelton4788 Жыл бұрын

i play modded minecraft with spaceships, im in with all the lingo😎🚬

@StoneShards 5 жыл бұрын

What is the genetic component of industriousness?

@AWayOfLiving84 3 ай бұрын

☯️🌍👣Opinions, why do we give them? One from me.🤔For knowledge to help or to deceive. How do you know if it's knowledge? What is knowledge to you? What knowledge do you prefer?

@omarhesham4461 11 ай бұрын

1-Physical Exercise. 2- Put valuable goals and chase them. 3- Specify your goals and vision your life you want to live 4- Set a schedule for your routines.

@bigal5860 9 ай бұрын

@jayputo9735 6 ай бұрын

@@bigal5860well what would I be doing for you and what do I get in return?

@da4mula885 3 жыл бұрын

Im grateful I fuckedup so early at 22 that I got such an immense pressure to improve myself, I'll never be the same person again. One lifehack I discovered and want to share is: You can use comfort as a directional tool like pressure is to air. Make your work as comfort as possible while making your breaks uncomftable (eg, pee after your break). The better you become at regulating your discomfort, the better you get at controlling yourself.

@AngTort 2 жыл бұрын

I do exactly this. Make yourself uncomfortable on purpose so you get tougher. Drive your car in the winter without using the heat or in the summer without using AC, roll the windows down instead. Get up early when you don’t have to and get a head start on your day

@joshhudson7413 8 ай бұрын

@AngTort I agree, but I wouldn't say driving in the freezing cold with your windows down is good because it makes you uncomfortable, that's just being stupid lol.

@chiraggupta2645 7 күн бұрын

thanks for sharing this idea, definitely will give it a shot

@LeBronJames-pk8ki Жыл бұрын

8:10

@maciejczech8975 Жыл бұрын

One of the best so far for Me, I have really needed to get know this concept of willful blindness when you neglect what a daily failure is. Thank You Mr. Peterson!

@majorthought 2 жыл бұрын

Myself and Jordan share the same birthday, June 12.

@karon8537 2 жыл бұрын

God bless him ! So much wisdom 🔥

@bethebossandmore Жыл бұрын

Honestly! Gotta get some anaerobic and aerobic exercises in.

@bigal5860 9 ай бұрын

@barbieblue3336 2 жыл бұрын

Wrote this to Mike Rowe Wrote this re your appearance on Tucker - I was a great student. I thought college was the thing to do. The moment I really started working after college, earning $, working full time- and I didn't really need the school for the job - I saw my 4 years differently. I didn't have student loans, but that would have made it even harder. I studied, wrote papers, worked for college organizations, worked I n office jobs on college breaks. Partied, yes. But, I didn't have $ for a house, etc. I have grad degrees. I liked school 🙂 but seriously- if I had hit the ground running with an office job atv18 or 19, in a good company, built a retirement fund up etc etc. That would have been amazing. Maybe get a real estate license . Not complaining about my life at all. But follow Dave Ransey, learn that $ matters lol. And Dr Jordan Peterson , who gives grreat life advice. Yes, computers have changed so much. I've literally seen some of my mistakes for decades. I'm so glad people are talking about this.

@dona_bose Жыл бұрын

@DanielSquires 3 жыл бұрын

The best thing is to schedule your fun first

@eonryan8491 Жыл бұрын

2:18 - best things to do with regards to conscientiousness 3:58 - goals and micro processes 5:17 - why do something 5:51 6:29 - who is it that you want/trying to be 7:36 - why try?fight? Why want to succeed

@Ambitious.Player Жыл бұрын

🙏

@bigal5860 9 ай бұрын

@Kevin-kj5th 2 жыл бұрын

I relate to this video so much. Need to improve my industrialness. It’s my worst quality out of the personalities

@oyewaleafolabi9637 Жыл бұрын

I am so glad that these lectures are available for public consumption... I would not know how to go about my life if I didn't have access to some of them.

@bigal5860 9 ай бұрын

@John-tz2tx Жыл бұрын

Never got the big attraction about success, never cared about being successful, always had a great family life with my parents, now am on my own and happy, happiness is the greatest success.

@RushilJain-si2hx 3 ай бұрын

Lets see how long that lasts. Success isn't only some superficial capitalist goal, I believe. It is the inner need of all human beings to grow and expand beyond ALL known boundaries. If you stop doing this, you are dead! God bless

@rajaskulkarni9374 Жыл бұрын

Where can I find the full video?

@HSamSarath 2 жыл бұрын

I.Q - exercise both aerobic and anaerobic exercise due to supply of exercise. Weight lifting Conscience - micro habits. Set up aims and follow that. The program that JP mentions to analyze situational awareness. How do you use your time. How you spend your life outside your job. Control bad habits Develop a vision of your life and develop micro goals to achieve your larger goal. This rewards your dopamine Have a valuable goal. Specify the long term ideal and specify what would happen if you dont move forward. Schedule your day

@TeamTriadJob Жыл бұрын

Where can I find the complete lecture?

@gurjmatharu Жыл бұрын

It's honestly so refreshing to hear things delivered in a matter of fact way - let's get away from sugar coating and putting a positive thinking spin on everything. Truth hurts and it's needed to grow.

@bigal5860 9 ай бұрын

@vtrippster 4 ай бұрын

I wish more people had the motivation and desire to search this video up and watch it

@valkaek 5 жыл бұрын

TL;DR be motivated

@theodorosmischos5776 Жыл бұрын

2023: We are not ready for you Sir.

@hugh-johnfleming289 5 жыл бұрын

If you can't find satisfaction in the task at hand you will never succeed. Happiness requires effort.

@RajBeats Жыл бұрын

The best universal & concise yet rich roadmap to success. What a breakdown!! Thank you Dr. Peterson

@bigal5860 9 ай бұрын

@handssolo7980 4 жыл бұрын

You are no longer when someone else points it out.

@breadpitt4920 10 ай бұрын

Sources of motivation if you're.. extroverted = friends agreeable = relationship disagreeable = win competitions open = engage in creative activity neurotic = security

@haileidris1459 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for writing those down.

@Mitchell227 4 жыл бұрын

If I'm gonna get more stupid I'm screwed

@Hyperiss 2 жыл бұрын

I feel you on that one

@imaginova88 3 жыл бұрын

Practical pearls of wisdom that are easy to digest and easy to start implementing for a better life. Yet only 80k views when trash media gets millions, probably the main reason the world is such a mess.

@soumillll 3 жыл бұрын

+1 Facts real facts

@eddiegarciajr6653 2 жыл бұрын

Fax 📠

@bethebossandmore Жыл бұрын

Amen. I just discovered this beautiful Toronto myself. Smh, late.

@firstclassocean2986 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ، The most important thing is Islam ❤️

@loganmacintosh6614 3 жыл бұрын

A schedule is not a prison. That just changed my life

@loganmacintosh6614 2 жыл бұрын

@@lwicultclassics did we watch the same video?

@Shafeek258 Жыл бұрын

Can you please explain the idea, iam too lazy to watch the whole vidoe 😁

@handssolo7980 4 жыл бұрын

Pick something hard. Do it. You win.

@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 4 жыл бұрын

But only if we are capable enough to beat the competiton. As peterson said to be a badass At what are doing, "having an IQ of 145 is a neccesity".

@JoSaPeMe Жыл бұрын

What about brain plasticity when it comes to improve your intelligence? Big fan of yours Jordan!

@DJSTOEK Жыл бұрын

👽😷😷🕺

@jaaleng1297 2 жыл бұрын

rewatch this video gives me chills jordan Peterson is doing gods work giving me a direction to get my life together as god intended. How can you struggle with intentions when you have someone like jordan Peterson to lecture you.

@jaaleng1297 2 жыл бұрын

Different videos like these helped my understand jordan peterson’s ideas for example kzbin.info/www/bejne/jnXbdoZvjbJkpLM

@bigal5860 9 ай бұрын

@corneliuscorleone8974 Жыл бұрын

How does one measure Success?? Amount of money?? Number of friends or followers?? How many times you get back up and fight again??

@Novilia17 2 жыл бұрын

How many successes are you talking about? Alcohol, Drugs & Compulsive behavior - between school or work and relationship, plus taking care of yourself... it's one thing at the time. When successful... somewhere... try to will power to remove or give less importance to alcohol, or drugs or compulsive behavior. That's how I see small successes all the time.

@austinwilliams4654 4 жыл бұрын

Anybody have the full link to this lecture?

@mmasteak 2 жыл бұрын

YT search for "2017 Personality 21: Biology & Traits: Performance Prediction"

@Turkiye_long-live1 2 жыл бұрын

"Success in life is not determined by how much money you have, or how happy you are. Success is instead determined by whether or not you have an RGB bathtub, and as a highly successful man myself, I have an RGB bathtub. -Dapz

@mmasteak 2 жыл бұрын

huh?

@emerlamine8184 2 жыл бұрын

We found out if you missed great education from younger ages Some list Available not only speech including hand movements help you to understand if your not lazy enough thank you everyone for sharing

@user-xx6fv4tu2q 5 жыл бұрын

So how to be successful ?

@marcl4007 3 жыл бұрын

Step 1: exercise Step 2: create a goal in your life Step 3: read books about being successful and the habits needed Step 5: implement those habits

@remembertedcruz7213 4 ай бұрын

Whatever turns your crank, man

@johnson2239 Жыл бұрын

“You could have known, but you chose not to” a lot of power in those words.

@bigal5860 9 ай бұрын

@bladehea 8 ай бұрын

For me the real question is why i have to be successful in society terms like money? Whats the point of it. I want ro be successful on living with no worries no stress no schedules no guilt. Thats the way for me

@ivymikebushmann9100 5 жыл бұрын

2nd

@CeliaTyree 5 жыл бұрын

IvyMike Bushmann Nobody cares and neither should you.

@ivymikebushmann9100 5 жыл бұрын

Isolation party thanks for caring

@madhavsingh8431 3 жыл бұрын

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@BrucePritchett 2 жыл бұрын

Very interesting video. Does Jordan actually define anywhere what "success" actually is? I can think of many men who have amassed great fortunes in the business world, but have been married several times and have estranged relationships with family and friends. Are they successful? How about the man who goes to work everyday at a warehouse, pays his bills, and has a loving wife and family? Successful? I am not discounting what he says and I believe he is spot on and says things no one else says, but I also think we need to also be deliberate in how we define whether or not someone is actually "successful". Success can have MANY facets.

@queengoblin 2 жыл бұрын

He said you define what you want that's the first step. How you define success. Success is defined by you and only you.

@Benjumanjo Жыл бұрын

You can Gerrymander the word as much as you want, but we both know what it means. Clearly you desire success. So rather than admit you may not have it; you redefine the word so that it can still apply to you. You’re in denial.