Saviour Complex: 7 Signs You're A Hurting Hero (Read This Psychology) - Inner Work Library [174/500]

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Jordan Thornton - Inner Work

Jordan Thornton - Inner Work

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@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
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I work with no more than twenty people per year, and am currently accepting a maximum of two new clients per month. I also manage my own inbox and do not use automated systems or employ people to pretend to be me on Instagram, which means that it usually takes four to six weeks for me to respond to new messages and begin the interview process. Although my approach takes time, I hope you ultimately appreciate my personal emphasis on authentic and confidential communication from the very beginning of our relationship. I once again encourage you to message me immediately if you want to start working together within the next two months - bump yourself to the top of my inbox, and I’ll send you some voice notes to get our conversation started.
@Julez108
@Julez108 12 күн бұрын
Infinite freedom lies beyond this matrix
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton 11 күн бұрын
Sure, why not?
@PriyaPrasad-u5h
@PriyaPrasad-u5h Ай бұрын
Really divine timing and eerie synchronicity with this talk. Seems profoundly magical and mystical, and looks like I am on the right Path.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Here for those spooky syncs - enjoy the books!
@holism
@holism Ай бұрын
Especially at 77.7k subscribers
@arpita.patnaik
@arpita.patnaik Ай бұрын
Thank you for caling out my shadow in this video! Hits a spot and I will be working on it. :)
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Hope the last few days have flowed well for you 🌲
@arpita.patnaik
@arpita.patnaik Ай бұрын
@@jordanthornton so many revelations! can't thank you enough for existing.
@gnosis555
@gnosis555 Ай бұрын
I love the underdog and helping them out. I get vicarious pleasure through their growth and joy and feel needed and validated in life. This is due to feeling worthless, unloved as a child, and a sense of guilt being born. This has been a tricky issue I’ve had to work on since age 13. Most important thing I learned is boundaries. I can help but do not identify or get entangled in other peoples karma. Develop a sense of self outside of other peoples validation. Put myself first. Seek out relations with people with equal power to me or more.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
You’re finding your balance, patiently and authentically. You got this.
@AboutForget
@AboutForget 17 күн бұрын
¡Gracias! 🌸
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton 11 күн бұрын
Thank you for your kindness, I'll put this towards the next books. Cheers.
@AboutForget
@AboutForget 11 күн бұрын
@ Lot of love from Chile. 🇨🇱 Thanks for your light. 🌻
@eileenmcgoldrick8849
@eileenmcgoldrick8849 Ай бұрын
Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏🏽
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
🌲✌🏻
@edited089
@edited089 Ай бұрын
the best thing about your videos is that their is no background music or nothing which makes you indulge in the video. Hence it creates a great sense of focus and really reduces headache . Thank you very much Jordan
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
This atmosphere is exactly what I aim towards - thanks for being here and stay steady 🌲
@Naomi-ji5si
@Naomi-ji5si Ай бұрын
I don't think I've ever: 1. Listened to a single video all the way through without impulsively starting to multi-task, but you had my attention with the accuracy. 2. Heard anyone so simply and easily explain to me the thread that ties all my early childhood experiences & adult relationships together seamlessly. Thank you for making those connections for me. The first 3 items really hit so close to home. I'm looking forward to reading the recommendations.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
This means a lot for me to read, and I’m glad my work has such an effect on you - you’ll love these books, make sure to get them 🌲
@edited089
@edited089 Ай бұрын
I just really love the idea that a guy is reading books and tells me about them .
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
That’s me ✌🏻
@sahrakim6910
@sahrakim6910 29 күн бұрын
I can't stop replying this I'm so impressed ❤😮😮
@auracristea9863
@auracristea9863 Ай бұрын
“Where your fear is, there is your task”. CG Jung - Well, in this case, where my illusions are challenged by hard truths. Thank you, Jordan! As always, you’re the voice of reason. 👍
@sahrakim6910
@sahrakim6910 29 күн бұрын
Your talented 🎉🎉 I learned a lot thank you ❤😊
@Urmitha
@Urmitha Ай бұрын
hey Mr Jordon. I felt really thankful for your content. Literally all videos felt very authentic. i felt a great sense of not been misleaded from truth
@Jacqueoldfield
@Jacqueoldfield Ай бұрын
Thank you Jordan , eternally grateful,🌲💜🌲Your content blows my mind.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Thank you for being here every week.
@sebastiangruffydd2765
@sebastiangruffydd2765 Ай бұрын
Dude, you have my full admiration. Your are the embodiment of the Golden Mean Greek Ideal. Also, you have the most fantastic male voice I have ever hear in my 72 years of life so far. You are nothing short of phenomenal. Great job, guy. Shalom.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Cheers for taking the time to say this. Will keep doing my best.
@ChristoScriven
@ChristoScriven Ай бұрын
Honestly I came into this video for curiosity, and saw myself reflected in pretty much all 7 points. For #3 it wasn’t so much about having to parent my parents, but having to parent myself. I feel like I’ve already dug into many of these points, but there is definitely more digging to do. Thanks man, you’re playing a part in changing my world 😜
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Thank you for the work that you are doing to help other people change their worlds for the best too, brother 🔥 You’ll love these books, especially facing the dragon.
@laresiaschuelke2441
@laresiaschuelke2441 Ай бұрын
This has been a tough one to find balance with for sure. 🙏❤️
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
I know what you mean, but I hope the books help you out - make sure not to sleep on these.
@laresiaschuelke2441
@laresiaschuelke2441 Ай бұрын
@@jordanthornton I really appreciate it and I definitely will be reading them. 👍
@Powderbluu
@Powderbluu Ай бұрын
i rewatched already for the 3rd time. its describing me all so well. my consciousness tries to hide the info from me. too high of ocgnitive dissonance. but i will take action for it, and read such a book. hope this video reaches everybody who needs it.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Thanks for going extra deep here. I trust your new books arrived well?
@Powderbluu
@Powderbluu Ай бұрын
@ few of them I could find on „scribd“. And the others are already on the way to my mailbox
@gailaltschwager7377
@gailaltschwager7377 Ай бұрын
Thank you, Jordan!
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Always my pleasure 🌲
@integratedalchemist
@integratedalchemist 27 күн бұрын
I think I've flip flopped between these two, been the savior to one of my parents, got grandiose, turned into a bully for a short time, burned out or at least got horribly humbled, got psychosis, turned into a victim, relied on saviors too much, healed myself, to into my own savior 😂, then to a certain but lesser extent tried to be other's savior again, had it blow up whole life and seriously humble me again without being too grandiose about it that time, but totally wind up in the existential crisis again called my 30's. Life is getting much better again, but I've distanced myself from friends that used to share the same kind of grandiosity/emptiness and I'd rather be alone and empty and feel my way closer to my own humanity, then be surrounded by my own projections/ego that I know aren't the real me.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton 22 күн бұрын
It sounds like it's been a truly significant journey for you in the last few years, I'm happy to hear of the progress so far and I'm wishing you the best in the closing weeks of this year.
@integratedalchemist
@integratedalchemist 22 күн бұрын
@jordanthornton Thanks, your videos mean a lot
@tg_5565
@tg_5565 Ай бұрын
Ahhhhh, yes. I recognize a bit of that. Thank you. Well done
@josefehoraku
@josefehoraku Ай бұрын
So good, really landed
@sburgos9621
@sburgos9621 Ай бұрын
I noticed I have a savior complex when it comes to romantic relationships. The worst part about it is that I put all of my energy into raising my partner up and less on myself and they end up leaving once they have been lifted to a certain point. My family notices this and brings it up but oddly enough my partner never acknowledges it in the end of the relationship, only in the beginning do they tell me their friends and family tell them since we started dating they have changed in a positive way. Sometimes I wonder if they even realize what happened at the end or if they think that I am holding them back once they are better.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
It’s a hard situation to be in, but it sounds like you’re finding a good balance overall. Keep looking, and you’ll find.
@stenpoldsamm9732
@stenpoldsamm9732 Ай бұрын
I think my saviour complex brought me to my job as a personal/online trainer/mentor. 🤯
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Led me to being the kind of guy who makes these videos - I can relate lol
@Ericatrue2.0
@Ericatrue2.0 Ай бұрын
I do want and have read things. I dont feel grandiose really. I just feel the need to help. My family is from a geto. So It doesn't take much to be smarter. Though I don't know for sure how well I am really understanding what I learn. That's why I watch these things like your podcast. However there is alot of things in this I do relate to.though I've taken so many hits that at least I've done something right in the direction needed to heal this aspect of myself. Thank you for your work.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
I can relate to what you’re sharing here, thank you for being a good person in this world 🌲
@carlorizzo827
@carlorizzo827 Ай бұрын
ThankU Jordan Love your thought process! Not sure where I fall on the spectrum. Re losers, ahem,... I am one. I shy away from using that term. Loss is part of life, grief likewise. Compassion, not contempt. I was a bodyworker, implicitly it's a calling to heal others' pain, to rescue. And yet i recognized i was average. I had a significant failing: my hands are deaf. They are good at putting out energy, but not receiving information. The really talented bodyworkers are like psychics via their hands. As to my legacy, I am indifferent. Life broke my spirit. I better check out the video on victim complex
@haydenkerr4151
@haydenkerr4151 Ай бұрын
Great video. I would love a video on being susceptible to addiction whether good or bad I haven't been able to find much about if one person has a higher chance of addictive actions vs another.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Check out the channel - search the word and you'll find some videos.
@Lifelover-zj3oo
@Lifelover-zj3oo Ай бұрын
Painfully relatable 🙄😬 Thank you, Jordan 🤍
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Thanks for being here, even with the pain lol
@WeRNthisToGetHer
@WeRNthisToGetHer Ай бұрын
I have this. I realize it's unhealthy and I am working on it. I don't know if I'll ever truly stop, just be wiser about who and how I help. I literally HAVE to have something or someone to nurture or encourage or I get depressed and unmotivated.
@riniraw
@riniraw Ай бұрын
Lots of profound thoughts I don't know if I'm willing to share online. This video allowed me to appreciate my journey so far, and to be grateful for it. all of it. Facing The Dragon looks fascinating.👀 I find that I gravitate towards learning more and more about cults and spiritual grandiosity. Learning about these topics feels so immersive to me it provides me with much needed dose of escapism. I wonder why that is. Yay to conscious saviors 💪🐻
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Three cheers for conscious saviours, yes 🌲🌲🌲
@NN-ht1lp
@NN-ht1lp Ай бұрын
Thank you.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
My pleasure, be well.
@allsortkv2075
@allsortkv2075 Ай бұрын
One of my personalities has the victim complex the other personality has both of them, and things have gotten stranger since I died 🤷
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
What a challenge lol
@FawkesDawn
@FawkesDawn Ай бұрын
Guilty. Thank you 🥲
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
You got this ✌🏻
@user-gd5tq7df8h
@user-gd5tq7df8h Ай бұрын
Relieved to come to the last bit, where I find myself currently. Ooff..
@dianevierra781
@dianevierra781 Ай бұрын
Thanks for thinking of the US when the hurricane hit.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Of course, impossible not to. I'm glad it wasn't as devastating as the news was predicting.
@lexuscrow1932
@lexuscrow1932 Ай бұрын
Robert Moore is full of wisdom. Came here for the book in the thumbnail.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Completely agree. He’s a legend.
@annetallegrand5656
@annetallegrand5656 18 күн бұрын
I have a Savior Complex and a God Complex, I’m also grandiose. It’s built into my DNA 🧬 look at my last name. And I was identified as intellectually gifted quite early. I feel superb I have nurturing healing powers😂I fix stuff. People too, I’ve been this way for years. I’ve been both “mommy little helper” and “daddy’s little girl” Clearly, I’m a freaking princess 👸🏽😂 ER nurse and mental health counselor 😅I’m a hero 🦸🏽
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton 11 күн бұрын
Perhaps the best of time's to explore the flip side of the story with the Victim Complex - I can relate to some of your story, and it's interesting to go into those shadow opposites.
@introvertedfeeler2215
@introvertedfeeler2215 Ай бұрын
This one hit home. Also a profoundly powerful synchronicity as I just did a Shadow Work exercise akin to 'show me what I don't want to see'. This video spawned itself *instantly.* Recognized strong shame around the saviour/victim complexes. Almost felt an urge to trauma dump in the comments; sat with it instead. The only victim complex video I see is a year ago and doesn't seem to be structured the same way. The video linked in this one is, for me at least, a livestream Q&A. What's the name of the victim complex video? Thanks. 🙏
@meshavillar
@meshavillar Ай бұрын
Hey guy, I had the same question. Saw on a community post that the victim complex video comes out on the 27th. Super interesting topic, excitedly waiting for the next vid 🙂
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Great reflections, thank you - and I trust you’ve probably already found the victim complex video too?
@Lifelover-zj3oo
@Lifelover-zj3oo Ай бұрын
with Type 1 on the enneagram as the second in my tritype: I relate very deeply :)
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Sure thing, hope you find these books good for you!
@jamesmccool503
@jamesmccool503 Ай бұрын
Actually...it's because I identify with people who life hasn't been kind to. Life wasn't kind to me when I was a kid. Sure a lot of people had it much worse. But it still wasn't kind and certainly not fair. I have always tried to help people who are in a bad spot out. I have only recently been able to see that almost everyone past a certain age is absolutely responsible for their own situation. You just can't help the vast majority people. As much as you may want to, most people are idiots and you will simply enable them to continue to be idiots with you paying for their bad decisions. I have helped very few people in life without regretting it.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
It’s true that many people cannot be helped until they’re ready… but I have hope for when the time is right.
@jamesmccool503
@jamesmccool503 Ай бұрын
​@@jordanthorntonTo be honest. My issues with always trying to help people is a mixed bag. I can see some of what you are talking about in my own life, but a lot of it I don't. I have recently started to try to really work on myself. I just wanted to say thank you for your videos. They have given me a good starting point.
@jamesmccool503
@jamesmccool503 Ай бұрын
@DanielMadeNew You can't help people who won't help themselves. That is just a fact. I have genuine compassion for most people. I have always been ready to believe someone sob story because life is hard on people for no fkn reason. I try to help people because life wasn't great for me when I was younger. If I had had someone in my life to help me, my younger years would have been a little better. I am not trying to be seen as a hero. Unfortunately, it usually ends up being me "saving" them over and over again from the consequences of their own actions. Until I eventually have to ask myself why I am even trying to help them. Most of the people turn out to be black holes of helping. It doesn't matter what you do for them. They are still going to destroy their own lives. This is why they are idiots. I have a tendency to "help" people for YEARS on end. To the point I regret even trying. If you think coming to the realization that you just can't help them because no matter what you do, they ALMOST ALWAYS screw it up, is narcissistic, then be ready to become their enabler. Because that is where it leads. Actually helping someone and being their enabler looks the same from your end. The difference is in what they do when helped. Do they continue to make the same mistakes and need your help to avoid the consequences of those mistakes over and over again? If the answer is yes, you are an enabler. You end up harming them more than helping them, and in the process, you will end up hurting yourself. I have been able to help a few people. I don't get anything from helping them other than knowing I helped someone. However, from now on, I am going to judge whether or not they are worthy of my continued help by their actions and not their sob story. All users have a sob story. That's not being narcissistic. It's just the reality of it. As a matter of fact I just found out last weekend that 2 people I tried to help for on and off for far longer than I should have were arrested because they were living in a tent doing meth. The reason I found out is because one of their children messaged looking for her younger sisters' urn because it wasn't in her mother's and her mother's baby's daddy meth tent. Her mother left her little sisters urn at another meth monkeys house. Like I said, black holes of helping. Their lives were not that bad when I was in the picture trying to keep them straight, but it was ALWAYS a struggle just to try to keep them out of trouble. Once my wife and I moved, they predictably destroyed their own lives. Being non-judgemental will have you trying to help people who can't be helped.
@jamesmccool503
@jamesmccool503 Ай бұрын
​@DanielMadeNew Trying to be non-judgemental will have you helping people who will take advantage of you. It will have you enabling people to make the same mistakes in their lives over and over again. You end up repeatedly "saving them" from the consequences of their own actions. That's why they are idiots, because nothing you do will ever be enough. It isn't narcissistic to say most people can't be helped because they won't help themselves. That is just reality. Who is and who isn't worthy to be helped boils down to what they do after you help them. Helping and enabling look similar from the perspective of the person trying to help. If the person receiving the help keeps getting themselves into the same types of situations afterwards. You are enabling them. I have actually helped a several people in my life. I am not looking for praise. I don't get anything from it other than knowing I helped them. However, most people don't actually want help. They want an enabler. Everyone has a sob story. Some of them are genuine runs of bad luck. However, most of the time, they brought their misfortune on themselves and aren't willing to change anything to stop it from happening again. It doesn't matter whether or not you believe they are worthy of your help. The end results will often be the same. With the exception that you could have saved yourself time and effort and maybe have helped someone else and it actually have made a difference. That is assuming you pay more attention to their actions than their sob story after you help them the first time.
@Prakharforu
@Prakharforu Ай бұрын
​@@DanielMadeNew Not everybody is aiming to be better. Some just want to look they are trying and internally wants to fail to justify the unfairness of life.
@KoltronZer0
@KoltronZer0 Ай бұрын
Wanted to suggest a book related to spiritual grandiosity: Cutting Though Spiritual Materialism by Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Classic! Great read.
@officialbipesh
@officialbipesh Ай бұрын
I never knew till now why I always liked side characters than Main Heroes, Failing characters and who are not able to achieve their objective
@ConnorLepp
@ConnorLepp Ай бұрын
Thanks. So the elements of this that become skillful find there place because the fantasies, compulsions, and identifications are reduced or ended? Left with, service of a gift without a need or superiority to the giftee?
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton 29 күн бұрын
Something like this, yes - have you picked up the books? They're golden.
@Xeweros
@Xeweros Ай бұрын
Damn, this video hit home on multiple points... Not sure if it fit, but sometime i could help. But i dont, i am just watching, observing. I am just curious on how they are going to solve it, suffer because of it or whats going to happen. Feels like i behave similar to some arrogant, all knowing god...
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
It’s hard for us to find the right balance, that’s for sure… we gotta stay steady 🌲
@Xeweros
@Xeweros Ай бұрын
@jordanthornton its kind of a dare if you do and dare if you dont. But in the end we need to try to make the proper decision of the situation, stand for our decision and not regret it.
@jakebailey9129
@jakebailey9129 Ай бұрын
Does it have to be magical thinking? What we are able to achieve in life is directly limited by the size of our dreams, what about the Einsteins, Jung and Teslas? Or is this closer to the archetype of the maverick?
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Great questions - the key point is dreaming with your feet on the earth. These great individuals find ways to materialise their vision, and that’s wonderful.
@Circe-wz3kg
@Circe-wz3kg Ай бұрын
Can we get video about narcissism pls?
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Sadly no, it's not a topic I'm going to make because it attracts the wrong kind of algorithm - but you can check out Sam Vaknin's work if you like.
@salivadriven
@salivadriven Ай бұрын
Wow I swing in both directions…….sometimes wildly. The victim mentality is the worst. So helpless, hopeless. My parents modeled this stuff for me; both claiming the victim of each other’s actions, not taking responsibility for the part they played. Life always seemed to happen TO them. I realise I tend to do similar. Ugh.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Sounds like a confusing environment, but I’m glad you’re finding your middle balance here. Stay steady 🌲
@meshavillar
@meshavillar Ай бұрын
Will you link the victim complex video you mentioned? The next vid that came up where you pointed was the live stream Q & A. There is one on your channel from a year ago with victim mentality in the title. Would that be the right one?
@meshavillar
@meshavillar Ай бұрын
Nevermind, I saw on the community post that the video will be available Sunday. 😁
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
It’s out now ✌🏻
@ChristoScriven
@ChristoScriven Ай бұрын
Man, where do you find these books?! Also, how do you have the time to reply to all these comments??!
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Bibliography bounce, one book always leads to the next if you follow the sources and references - been a five year process 🌲 In terms of comments, I’ve always felt it important to respond to everybody if I have the capacity - and I do have the capacity because the attention given to me deserves to be returned and acknowledged. Think I’ve left about 12,000 comments on my own channel in the last three years lol
@yinglan9606
@yinglan9606 Ай бұрын
8 billion you say 👀 📕 🍽️
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
I shall never regret these words.
@meshavillar
@meshavillar Ай бұрын
I am a fairly decent cook. While this video climbs in number of views, I'll be creating new recipes that incorporate books 😉 😂
@beckymagnolia1
@beckymagnolia1 Ай бұрын
Oh no Jordan! I'm only five minutes in and I'm seeing myself...ack! Well looks like I have another shadow friend to look at. Ha!
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
You got this.
@camgyov1262
@camgyov1262 Ай бұрын
Hello, I just wanted to ask over the course of how many years have you read all of these books?
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
5 years, to the month.
@NH-xl6du
@NH-xl6du Ай бұрын
.. well, I found my inner Loser and saved him 😇
@rshicks256
@rshicks256 Ай бұрын
✝️
@Timeless_Lea
@Timeless_Lea Ай бұрын
Oh yes… 🙁❤️‍🩹
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
🌲🌲
@saturnprince.23
@saturnprince.23 Ай бұрын
How do I fix this
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Did you watch the video all the way through? Also make sure to pickup the recommended materials - be well ✌🏻
@constanzebeck1887
@constanzebeck1887 Ай бұрын
I'm sorry, Jordan, you lost me the moment you said something along those lines "The most immature is the person who sits at home meditating thinking this is enough or they talk a big talk with their friends in the café while they don't even have a stable income..." Ehm. It might be just my "immature" view, but some of the most life changing moments happened when I talked the "big talk" with my friends in a café, and I want to see more people doing that. To inspire each other and have hope and drive to change the world, even though they don't exactly know how yet. And to choose "unstable income" as a factor of maturity... man, I expected something less shallow from you. To anyone who's meditating, having conversations with friends, not earning consistent money: I see you and I love you and the spirit you're carrying with you is so needed and valued on this Earth in these times. Keep on doing what you're doing. It is indeed life changing.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
I believe that you’ve misunderstood me and layered something on-top of my actual words and energy here - we dream, and we materialise those dreams. I want to see powerful people following through to completion.
@constanzebeck1887
@constanzebeck1887 Ай бұрын
@@jordanthornton I see that there's some misunderstanding from my side. I guess it touched a vulnerable part of mine, something that I used to judge about myself. I also want to see dreams being realized, but we never truly know what hidden meaning and impact lies behind the little things we do, I guess that's the point I felt the need to add. Next time I'll do it without putting misplaced energy on your words.
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
@@constanzebeck1887 Appreciate your warmheartedness here, be well in the new week.
@nickmcgruber7052
@nickmcgruber7052 Ай бұрын
I feel attacked
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
In the best way, I hope? Right there with you with many of these signs 🌲
@louisfifteen
@louisfifteen Ай бұрын
Is that why you're here?
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Maybe
@louisfifteen
@louisfifteen Ай бұрын
@@jordanthornton I appreciate that.
@Ponce.De.Lejeune
@Ponce.De.Lejeune 15 күн бұрын
I AM GOD THE FATHER ALMIGHTY 👹
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton 15 күн бұрын
Sure thing lol
@vinsaintmichael
@vinsaintmichael Ай бұрын
I think the savior complex is the false prophet, the second beast. 🤔
@jordanthornton
@jordanthornton Ай бұрын
Hmm - what do you mean?
@carlorizzo827
@carlorizzo827 Ай бұрын
Likewise, am curious to know what you mean. What's the first beast?
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