A personal update: how we’re really doing

[@erinlowell2877]

Hey guys!! Thank you for sharing about better help! My boyfriend and I of 5 years broke up 2 days ago and I am for real struggling and I remembered watching your video and you told us about better help and I'm going to go on there today and sign up I just wanted to say thank you because if you guys never shared about it I would never have known about it

[@RoseA-x5j]

Hey guys! Silent viewer, been watching since long distance days. Ignore the haters y’all. The people who are calling out Sav don’t realize that a married couple is to be like one body. If you hate on Sav you’re still hating on Josh. This beautiful couple could edit the crap out of their videos and remove every clip where they say something wrong, snap at each other or argue a little but they don’t and I love that. It’s honest and authentic. If you’ve ever been in any type of long term relationship you know that these little moments are normal and part of life. We all get grace from God and he’s helping each of us to grow, it’s literally the process of sanctification. Love you guys truly. Stay focused on God and put your love and relationship first, the rest will sort itself out. ❤

[@alyceacollins]

This !! I’ve been married for almost 5 years now, their dynamic (specifically in this video) is totally normal ! Lol this is what a normal healthy married relationship looks like.

[@gracewilliams548]

Perfect

[@isabellefranco826]

Exactly my thoughts. People are odd for being ultra-concerned over this. Its totally normal and part of growing together, we're blessed they don't try to hide it and pretend everything is rainbows and sunshine like most influencers.

[@melodywashington96]

@@alyceacollinsit is normal, but it never hurts for people to recognize things you may not notice like being nicer to your partner. sometimes when my family calls me out for being snappy with my fiancé- been together 10 years and worked through so much together- I really appreciate it. of course having thousands of ppl tell you that and it not coming from love can be super annoying though. I cant imagine what that feels like!

[@jessicadaniel6345]

What an awesome week to get 2 videos!!! Thank you for being raw & vulnerable about everything! Pray y’all get home safely 🙏🏽🩷

[@matthewabanks]

Yes!!!! The podcast is coming back!! The podcast for you and for us! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Love this sitting down Q&A

[@PauletteOra]

I'm glad I came across you guys video today. Normally don't comment stuff like this..... I don't know why but you guys have been popping up in my mind for a few days and I've had the feeling to pray for you guys. 2 toddlers and a baby are a lot as a young couple and can really cause a lot of stress along with other problems in marriage and your personal life. What I would like to suggest is that you guys please keep seeking God first, Get in your bible together (consistently), pray and fast, fellowship with other believers consistently and if you need to take a break from social media please do so you can really focus on what God wants for you in this season. I've been watching you guys for a long time now and hoping and praying only the best for you guys. ❤❤

[@leahfide]

Amen sister!!! This is it!! I can see it in their body language, their faces. 3 kids in such a short amount of time would tire anyone out. I feel for them. Seeking God first is huge. He is the key to it all. If a foundation lacks Him it lacks all goodness.

[@CieraSefton]

I love you guys so much! All your tips are so helpful! When overwhelmed thats you trigger to pray!

[@laurencox6684]

The tension in this video is THICCK, I can't imagine the stress you guys are under with 3 under 3. I pray for you guys during this season in your life! It won't be this hard forevere ❤

[@kirkscott5342]

You folks are amazing. Continue to shine. Real love conquers all. You are a beacon of inspiration to everyone. Thank you for sharing your lives with us.

[@heatherexline7517]

2 videos a day apart & long videos.. YALL THE REAL MVPS ❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉 SERIOUSLY I know life is lifing and more importantly you guys have 3 beautiful babies and y'all always always deliver great content THANK YALL FOR YOUR DRIVE AND CONSISTENCY😊😊❤

[@hannah_hood]

I aspire to have the joy and family centered relationships you guys have. I literally look forward to your videos and my roommates can attest that yall are the only channel I watch. There is a friendliness and joy that comes with your videos and I am so grateful God allowed you guys to be examples on the internet ❤

[@jesusiskingofmyheart]

Savannah’s short hair is everything 🥰

[@Growinwithakua]

Josh, hang in there - sending you love and PRAYERS🫶🏾 black woman to a black man - yes, we do have anxiety but it’s not talked about lot about in our community - I have learned that you have to know your history - and our history as black Americans/African Americans and where we come from hurts - but it is a part of us, and it’s up to us to know where our ancestors were mentally - they had a brain/thoughts/feelings of their own that had to be suppressed. It’s our generation to do 1% better - how can we do better if we don’t know our history or even where to start with healing? This is something I have had to learn because I felt disconnected from myself, if that makes sense - single mom to two black boys - I’ve had to dive into me a lot more to understand and guide them. I feel like I really saw you in this video and I just wanted to give you a “social-media” hug 🫂 Savannah, just listen to him - without a response. Allow him space to feel like he can speak - also, I don’t know y’all personally - and what I’m saying may not apply to you all at all - but maybe it can help someone else✨ Hang in there Josh and Sav! I’m rooting for y’all so bad❤️

[@YMO-bU]

With all due respect, this is not just a black people thing. Every generation has become more and more anxious, with every year. It has nothing to do with your ancestors. All of our ancestors kept their feelings in way more and didn’t talk about them much at all. Some people don’t get anxious, and some do. Josh seems like he just rolls with the punches, and that’s awesome. And yeah, Savannah interrupts him way too much. Let👏🏽the👏🏽man 👏🏽speak👏🏽

[@bernitawoods472]

She’s a mess at time with that over the top valley girl /extra put on voice

[@ashleyguzman233]

@@YMO-bUfor clarity, I think she spoke in regards to AAs and their ancestors because Josh said “black people don’t have anxiety.” She wasn’t dimming the light on mental health for every other race or saying AAs only suffer from anxiety because of their history, but moreso just trying to inform Josh that AAs can definitely have anxiety and aren’t excluded from it. She was simply just helping him understand the reason for him thinking they “dont” have anxiety is probably bc it wasn’t talked about much before in AA households ❤

[@Growinwithakua]

@@ashleyguzman233 you hit it right on the nose babe❤️ Thank you for understanding where I was coming from🫂

[@judyivie2215]

She seems so self absorbed. I really wish she would let her wonderful husband speak. Josh is so smart and wonderful. He's a diamond!

[@JB11334]

Reading the Bible, listening to the Bible app, and the encounter app. Help with anxiety and parenting. The encounter app has helped so much !

[@jessketh]

Sav you are glowingggg - LOVE the new hair!!

[@kennethiavail1719]

After watching the video and reading the comments, I will agree that she did cut him off a lot which can come across as demeaning. However, we do only see a snippet of their lives so maybe this is their norm. I also wish that women listened more to men when they’re speaking about their mental health. It felt like Josh had things to share and I wonder if Savannah would have acted that way if it was her sister or female friend

[@savannahmuniz3421]

Towards the end it’s tough to watch…praying for you guys & your marriage🙏🏽

[@ninaw8186]

& I love the for us podcast! Happy for yall to bring it back ❤

[@asiadelgado3733]

Hi Josh and Sav. I am new subscriber and I think you two are wonderful. My husband and I are an interracial couple and I agree with you Josh. Growing up I was not taught about mental health and it wasnt until I was older and had my kids that I really understood mental health and am I big advocate of mental health and taking care of myself and making sure my kids know about mental health. The Lord has really helped me to be gentle with my kids. My husband is absolutely unbothered by everything and i love it haha. I am very much of a worry worm and I am like from 0 to 100 in mintues haha but the Lord and my husband have made me be more melody. Y'all are an beautiful couple.

[@melandmyleslittlejohn]

My sister has 3 kids the exact same age and gender as your 3 and thank God He’s graced you to be their parents because 3 toddler/babies is truly tough! 😅

[@renee2105]

Praying for u Josh. This girl is something ELSE!! Omg 😮

[@whyyoucare2257]

Babe youre gonna be just fine

[@josiegeorge1951]

I’m SO excited for the podcast omg I’ve been rewatching episodes reminiscing 😩🥳

[@melandmyleslittlejohn]

Another video?? Let’s go!! 🙌🏼

[@liviyaengland5055]

Sav your hair looks so good ❤

[@Tifegbadas]

Love the short hair Sav😍

[@LushonM]

I have to say - Sav has grownn sooo much.. Josh too - but Sav is glowing.

[@Shakakkdodoeskz]

Can’t wait for the PODCAST!!!

[@LoveAndTruth-n7v]

Love u guys, praying for u both to stay full of the fruit of the holy spirit. Stay abiding. Amen

[@CameronOG97]

Y’all really just winging it and it works lol. Blessed ❤

[@EileenGonzalez-m3g]

I've been in a marriage 25 yrs Shit times have been Really good and times have been really rough , we just lost our 23 yr old to a homicide , life is strange, but the Big #1 thing is both Always always keep Jesus in the center of your relationship, always keep Morals and respect for one another and you all will stay bless and strive and succeed 🙏 ❤

[@shandabaldwin]

Josh seems so annoyed, probably because Sav wont let him actually give his answer from his point of view. You guys seem like you guys are going through it . Vibe is off a bit, praying for you guys. I can attest that 3 kids is a lot be thankful for each other and always realize you are on the same team!

[@bliss4921]

Enough!!!

[@jalaward9841]

Get a life…

[@amy_janedoe2486]

Ahhhhh I'm in GREENVILLE!!!! I'm going to be SO HAPPY if I run into yall 😊😊😊 Hope yall enjoy your time here 🫶🏽

[@ninaw8186]

Yes 3 kids for us and 2 kids close is patience and learning with our babes ❤

[@carleystubbs9660]

CANT wait for the pod to come back🩷

[@Mommy_bear_diaries]

I have 3 kids too. Postpartum is so different I got postpartum anxiety and depression with my last one

[@alexia8977]

Joshhh lol im black black I get anxiety and stressed 😂 but also a single mom of 2 but I know what your trying to say I think for black men you all were taught or raised should I say to not tap into your feelings and emotions but yeah thats a whole conversation maybe you should touch on in our Black American culture especially bc black history month is coming up peace and blessings ❤ loved the vlog and realness

[@teresamariia]

Feel like we on FaceTime❤ love y’all!!

[@kybye11]

The best way to keep God at the center is read the bible. You can pray all day long and talk to God but the way to let Him talk to you is to read. You have to wash the word over you daily because its a dirty world and we need to get clean!! Praise God

[@ajandmitchgallop]

There are so many versions of the bible, what is the best to read? Husband and I are starting our faith journey together! ❤

[@alyceacollins]

@@ajandmitchgallopmy husband and I are believers, I suggest a translation that easier to read : understand. One of my favs is NLT, but ESV and NIV are great too

[@ajandmitchgallop]

@@alyceacollins thank you x

[@bonnieolson80]

AMEN!!!!🙏

[@bonnieolson80]

@@ajandmitchgallopI like to read the NLT…translation but the NASB is supposed to be the most accurate translation from the original Greek….

[@Karinawithgems]

Your hair looks so cute girl !!

[@KMScatliffe]

Ayyyeee!!! Yall are right around the corner. I’m an hour away. Are yall pulling a meet & greet in Greenville? ❤❤❤

[@XPXhumble]

Sav you need to let Josh speak without interruption and I can feel the tension through the screen

[@Lauren-zz2xi]

Everyone who is commenting something critical I swear had a conversation about something you’re excited about or been in a relationship. She’s just adding another perspective because they are BOTH answering these questions. Sometimes I feel chattier some days than other days too 🤷🏾‍♀️ she never was disrespectful or rude once

[@renee2105]

Seriously? I could give u a ton of time stamps but I don’t have the time lol smh

[@AllThings_Vee]

Sav is still in pp from the two littlest kids. Gonna have to cut her some slack for awhile. Three kids is also crazy. Like literally crazy. It’s not as pretty as it looks on vlogs. Imagine if you hit record, which moments out your day would you choose?

[@jayme11211]

Yess!! Give her a break!

[@ToniCherub]

Sav ❤ josh ❤ a beautiful couple ❤ who are just peachy perfect together ❤ your children are so blessed to have such beautiful parents ❤

[@unapologeticallyromel7096]

Love your channel ❤

[@bay0717]

Wow 2 videos back to back & 3 videos in a week, LOVEE ITTTTT🩷🩷🩷

[@Kenziemoore97]

Yayyy you answered my q 🩷 love you guys

[@rahnidavis8355]

I think the word was catalyst Josh! lol. Love yall ❤ Thank yall for sharing

[@rasheedawilliams2993]

Sav let that man talk about his mental health trust me your not the only one struggling he is too and to say look at my hair while he was talking is crazy like ew

[@bkessinger94]

Worry about your own relationship. If he has issues, he'll bring it up to her

[@renee2105]

She is so annoying-always yapping about herself-like can u just shut up for 2 seconds my goshhh

[@Pandaloverx03]

Jealous much lol . ​@@renee2105

[@kelseymcmunn5348]

@@renee2105why are you on here then? You’re replying to everyone’s comments complaining about her.

[@sophianieves7882]

My post partum was crazy c section healing NiCU for a month Baby had colic And after colic got better I had gallbladder stones Gallbladder removed all in six months

[@Lisadd17]

Hey guy's! Love ya'll ❤

[@hannah_hood]

this was so helpful!!

[@JaimieSnyder022]

Yall it does seem kind of off. Love you guys ❤. Hope everything is okay!

[@grayceslade18]

I meannn black people do have anxiety but alot of the older ones say or said “you gettin on my nerves” or “my nerves are bad”but were likely feeling anxiety. Using the word and expressing that you have anxiety is definitely not as accepted in black culture. I think that’s all Josh was trying to say.

[@grayceslade18]

I do love you guys and have been a long time supporter but I will say some parts of this video were tough for me to watch. The connection and flow between you guys just wasn’t there as much as ive seen in the past from you guys. Idk if it was the lack of editing but I really pray you guys marriage flourishes through this 3 under 3 season.

[@audrey-annebadere-longin9819]

The energy seems very off I hope you guys are doing ok ❤

[@eugenesawyer1658]

Just looks so irritated right now. I think because he was Tickling her and she hit him. Plus, she always cut them off so she can talk.

[@veneciawooding6797]

Hi Josh and Sav!❤❤

[@jasmineephelps]

for us stans rise!! we are SO back

[@jayme11211]

God only gives you what you can handle ❤

[@sashaglenn6311]

@josh not the underpit sniff at 26:12😂😂😂

[@SacredStarr]

I love you guys. God bless 🫂❤️

[@HourPointOfView]

What’s good yall!

[@bonnieolson80]

Takes about 15 months for your body to get back to normal postpartum.❤

[@chelseysimmons634]

Feel like there is a shift happening. Hopefully you guys are okay behind the camera

[@Bribeeazzzzzy]

Josh us black folks do get anxiety but we take it as we are tripping unfortunately... Sav please take more moments to chill girl…. The hair stuff after Josh opened up about his mental health was too much. Love your goofy side but I know you have matured more off camera especially with 3 kids wish you would reflect that more in your content. All the extraness can be cringe and hard watch for us viewers

[@diamondmarie5629]

I completely agree that was a very good way to say what we are all thinking

[@Bribeeazzzzzy]

@@diamondmarie5629 thank you. I haven’t watched much of their content anymore because I get so cringed by her behavior. Like they have grown and so have we as their audience we should all be maturing and growing together

[@Sanismom]

Lovd the hair 😊

[@iamnotauser93ify]

Ooof this video was off lol you could sense Sav trying to control everything.. also if you schedule the date just follow through with it like you do other things in life…

[@itskate2991]

I have ptsd from being tickled too! Several things actually. It's kinda sad!

[@saynew138]

After looking at these comments, I’m not sure I even want to watch the video. If they are having a hard time in their marriage, i’d rather just pray and hope their next video is lighter. If what people are saying in the comments is true, maybe they just need therapy to help each other listen and understand each other’s pov without interruption

[@lilshorty316]

Amazing video ❤❤

[@Terri-og2ki]

Sav and Josh just keep putting God first and you gotta let the bad comments go, but I think y’all are doing wonderful. Just one thing at a time and Savanna for your personal physical journey after having these babies back to back is just remember to eat your fruits and vegetables and try to stay healthy so you can have a healthy mental health and yeah I just put God first and he will lead your path and he will give you a plan but definitely since hubby does help and he is in it to win it with you then and utilize that you both come up with a plan and you both will do well. Take turns give time for you to take a bath and relax. And then give time to him so he can take a bath and relax and or shower and just relax and unwind and then come back together and just do what you do. You guys are wonderful parents it’ll all work out.

[@kalinastafford5993]

I feel like the person who said she needed more energy is probably doing it alone 😅 I’m a sahm of 3 under 3 and my husband works full time 10+ hrs a day… I couldn’t imagine having his help all day long

[@IsiahEmmie]

JOSH KEEP THAT INTRO😂

[@judyivie2215]

Dear Josh Your are one of the nicest guys. I hope you have me time. Sav is a bit self centered.

[@renee2105]

A bit? Lol. Omg does she even HEAR herself? Ew.

[@nancyedna]

Josh Alexander × Nike 🔥

[@bettinadaviss]

I rarely comment BUT to everyone who says she wasn’t letting him answer.. there were plenty of moments where he was able to speak freely and she just sat there.. I also saw some moments where he but in on HER comment as well. Marriage kinda works like that lol relax

[@jillrowe5995]

Savannah do a workout playlist video

[@kseniamarek9942]

Savvvvv, let JOSH talk. You’re talking over him the entire video and it’s extremely disrespectful. We know you’re there in the video…

[@virginiaburman7076]

You two seem like your nitpicking at each other way to much. It’s not fun to watch.

[@Bethany-y8s]

Thank you! That's Sav every day, all day long! It's exhausting. I feel for Josh.

[@torilane1430]

They seem exhausted in my opinion.

[@ahappyheart5400]

Well let’s see, they have 3 kids. I’m gonna ASSUME you don’t have kids. Taking care of children can be exhausting, so let’s give them grace instead of point out how they look. I’m sure they appreciate the concern but it’s not wanted. Second, marriage isn’t easy, I don’t know who said it was because it is. It’s them PLUS the children and everything else. Hard work, ALL of it. Again give grace instead of pointing out things. We ONLY get whatever they CHOOSE to share with us. Let’s not pretend to know the behind the scenes. For all we know, they TOTALLY could’ve joking around with each which is ( shocker) what some couples do. In all seriousness, let’s think before we post stuff, especially negative stuff. Ask yourself this, would I say this to myself? Would I want someone to PUBLICLY say that to me OUT loud?? They’re humans, and life with ( or without) kids isn’t easy and at times CAN be exhausting. How about we say something encouraging like, “ hey guys are doing really great, keep up the good work!”. ❤

[@Bribeeazzzzzy]

@@Bethany-y8sexactly! It’s very hard to watch almost every video

[@GentleGiant4christ]

Lord heal this marriage in Jesus name. May they overcome every obstacle and hurdle the enemy is throwing at them. Above all things help them to always remember the reason why they got married and the love they felt in Jesus name . May they conquer every battle the enemy throws at them and may they see each other the way you see them. May they never compete with one another but may their love be pure , forgiving , and filled with grace and mercy. May they always respect each other and the way the other feels in all situations in Jesus name I pray . Amen 🙏🏾

[@maryglenn7925]

Yalll pressed for no reason leave sav aloneeee

[@itsleenbean]

Black people do have anxiety and call it anxiety. Why would you even say that?

[@Kyawins]

1000% but maybe that’s his experience with the people he’s been around.

[@itsleenbean]

@@Kyawins then say that and don’t speak for black ppl as a whole, when our mental health already isn’t taken seriously

[@laylayhampton8766]

@@itsleenbeanno way you really took what he said seriously…

[@emily-catherinespearman7064]

Omg go to spill the beans and go for a walk in falls park ❤

[@Sarah-vk4qq]

Josh is very clingy lmfao

[@margaretmurphy2127]

Hey guys!! ❤😅

[@bernitawoods472]

It’s always good to be yourself. She loves to call you out . I don’t like that . 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@yemialade7]

Sav I love you but you gotta let your husband speak! You’re constantly interrupting and answering for him and it’s not cute. He looks visibly annoyed the whole video

[@igorbrice5490]

I care Josh i care 😂😂😂😂😂

[@brittany-xo5ei]

Oh I’m early early I didn’t even knowww 😂❤

[@andrewwarrendrums8969]

So early it’s wilddd

[@TheresaStallone-d2i]

My name is Theresa:) idk if you said Sharesa or Theresa lol

[@ashleymuza9533]

ohhh these comments are meannnn

[@patriciamora2915]

I’m 64 and I never had any help when my children were growing up, these younger people have so much help than I ever saw before.

[@judyivie2215]

Sav is very hyper..she speaks on fast forward. Maybe to much caffeine and sugar.

[@KaylaDe-Yanka]

speaking fast doesn’t equate to being hyper

[@larac.8797]

Nah I have ADHD and I am quick to interrupt in conversations, want to finish my thoughts before the other person is done, talk fast, get nervous and want to hold the conversation. It sucks could be an issue as well.

[@mayarochlin4336]

You chose to have kids back to back... Why do that

[@shakiahrenae]

Idk but the way Josh was opening up about his mental health and she talks over him about her hair? 😬 do you guys watch this back together and see what everyone sees? No hate, genuinely curious

[@neesh5208]

savvvvvv please let josh talk 😫 the amount of interuption is CRAZY

[@amelialezcano499]

He asks her to speak for him all the time 😂this is married life!!

[@mindylouwho80]

Telling someone what to do with their husband is Crazy !!! It doesn't seem to bother Josh so why does it bother you?

[@YMO-bU]

Agree….there’s a time for fun back and forth banter, but then there’s a time for letting someone else get their thoughts out, even if there’s some quiet moments.

[@katetomlinson1638]

Go figure I’m not hating I’m just simply trying to state it girl- I’ve not even noticed it at all and I’m actively trying to find where she interrupts, but it sounds like a personal thing that you struggle with maybe and you see the thing someone gets after you for doing type deal girl

[@veeladyleo7753]

Yea she ask if he wants to answer then she answers for him like OMG...... She should have done the Q & A alone

[@Bethany-y8s]

Sav!! Stop being so dang condescending!! You talk to your husband like he's an idiot and he's truly the sweetest, most giving guy ever! Cherish what you have!!!

[@bkessinger94]

Shes fine. Their relationship is fine. If josh has problems with something he'll talk to her.

[@waynenorbreyjr9371]

No hands in the pants!

[@BriasPretendBakery]

🎉🎉🎉😊

[@Bethany-y8s]

Definition of a narcissist. Josh sharing from the heart and here's Sav: Hey, everybody! Does my hair look cute? 😒

[@renee2105]

Omg seriously!!! She is sooo obnoxious!!! Everytime I come to this channel I can’t get thru the video bc of her narcissism & condescending attitude ugh her voice is like nails on a chalkboard