"Minimalism isn't about living a boring life detached from reality. It's about rejecting society's version of reality and living a more focused, intentional life on your own terms." Joshua Becker, 2022 Soooo profound, thank you very much for this eye-opening quote and the whole video 💕
@lyndseywilliams36182 жыл бұрын
1. Remove one box of clutter 2. Clear one surface 3. Save $49 a day 4. Go for a long walk 5. Turn off notifications 6. Remove one obligation 7. Make up one game with kids 8. Wear your favorite outfit 9. Turn off TV one hour earlier than usual 10. Do one thing you love today
@Mbooher65 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!!!
@andrewbrendan15792 жыл бұрын
The section about not having a lot of toys for children reminded me of how I used to play with multi-colored wooden Playskool building blocks. Did I hever have fun with those! I had a wonderful time making buildings with them, some would be considered fantastical. My mother even took a picture of me with one of them! What a great way for a child to be imaginative and creative---and nothing had to be plugged in or re-charged. I also had a great time drawing with a pencil on the pieces of cardboard that kept my father's shirts in the right shape after they were done at the cleaners. I also drew on the backs and in the margins of obsolete or surplus forms that my father sometimes brought home from the insurance office where he worked. I drew and drew and drew with a pencil and later a pen and had so many hours of pleasure.
@SharonAnnMenefee2 жыл бұрын
Played with wooden blocks, plastic soldiers, drew on computer paper (backside) that my mother brought home from work. Walked to the library. Kickball in the local schoolyard. Simple times.
@HerCupOfSIMPLE2 жыл бұрын
I was also very glad he mentioned that! My kids are the happiest when in nature, building all sort of things!🤗
@jennifershaw47562 жыл бұрын
I bought my two year old grandson colourful wooden blocks for his second birthday. I had hoped he'd love them after remembering the little boys in a kindergarten classroom I had worked in, trying to get into the wooden block "centre" as often as they could. They were a hit. We play with them every time I visit. The simple toys that use imagination are best. I never buy my grandsons anything that requires batteries.
@JustinHonaker2 жыл бұрын
To anyone who is caught up on, "There's no way I can save $49 per day!" That was a simple fact. People spend on average $18,000 per year on non-essential stuff. That comes out to $49 per day. Therefore, if you are average, you DO spend that much and you COULD save that much instead. If you spend less than the average, then you will have less to save. He's no prescribing the amount, but the principle. Consider this: Most people spend a LOT more than they think, especially on non-essential stuff. Do you KNOW how much you spent last month on fast food/eating out? Or entertainment? Track those purchases for a month. Most of you will be very surprised by how much money you are wasting on junk. Once you've done that, figure out how much you actually could be saving each day. Prepare to have your mind blown.
@janetstonerook45522 жыл бұрын
My grandkids have far too many toys! When I visit, we like to play a game to calm down. We all lie down and close our eyes and go for a trip in our minds through guided imagery. We all are going on a journey to different settings and we meet amazing people and creatures and face challenges in our way. They love it because it's all their individual creation and they subconsciously learn a lot about themselves. They always are in a better mood afterwards.
@michelesusanne12 жыл бұрын
3 C's to contentment- don't Compete, Compare, or Complain.
@NLY1WAY4U2 жыл бұрын
This is great!
@lisal35162 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@alicecarroll20072 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@loriflaherty2630 Жыл бұрын
😊
@Instransigent2 жыл бұрын
Your videos are always calming and provide an oasis from the multiple distractions of modern life. I really appreciate that you don't have adverts on your channel, which split the stream of attention and present the brain with the clutter of irrelevant information. Thank you.
@GiGiWellness282 жыл бұрын
My husband and I have actually decided not to watch TV unless something we must watch. This has definitely helped us to communicate more in depth instead of wasting time in switching between channels 😊
@chloeruegg23522 жыл бұрын
Joshua, Just wanted to tell you that you’ve made a big difference in my life. I’m living a more simple life and loving it. I always listen to your videos at least twice. Never want to miss anything. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us all.
@Authorthings2 жыл бұрын
I thought you were kidding about $49 a day, but then I thought about what we USED to spend every weekend (about 250-300) on stuff (I was still working and we both had a stressful job so we spent money to "have fun" because work was so bad), and I can definitely see how that happens to people. I was eating through my savings too. Some of the stuff was needed, but a lot of it really wasn't. That was a year ago and about a month ago we stopped going out to eat completely. We're saving so much now. I wish I could figure out what I love to do. There's a lot of things I somewhat enjoy but I don't know what I love doing. Thanks for the great video!!
@StormZaara2 жыл бұрын
Becoming a minimalist helped me prioritize my health , less things to care for more time for me . Which resulted in weight loss finally 💜 it’s an overall amazing lifestyle
@sandysmom1002 жыл бұрын
I'm basically doing it alone cuz my family is not really on board .But it has taken me 3 years and I'm still working. Have to take care of things in between. I don't think anyone here who is starting their journey , should rush, just take your time .And it will all come together .If we rush we have more regret I. The end .Even this weekend I have another 8 bags going to charity on Monday. You're so correct Joshua , I've found this on my journey , not only that I learned so much about myself !! A very interesting journey indeed.
@crazygreenlady79072 жыл бұрын
I'm travelling alone with this too, so I guess that means you and I are not alone! It's been years for me too x
@poliver123452 жыл бұрын
Just decluttering daily for a short period is a good idea for me...Declutter 1 box/bag daily/ clear 1 surface, table/counter top/ night stand/ put $49.in savings * I like this as I am female I prefer Long Walks in nice weather.6. Turn off messages on cell...Eliminate one obligation you don't enjoy 7. Fewer toys does not apply 8. Wear Favorite outfit & evrything hanging in closetis your favorite 9. Turn off TV does not apply as I dislike commercials...Time is Precious! 10. Do 1 Thing You Enjoy Daily! Thanks Joshua!
@paularuotsalainen89542 жыл бұрын
I stopped this video and went for a walk. I think I try some more minimalist habits. Thank you Joshua! 😃
@yvonneb23272 жыл бұрын
I think some people have at times made the mistake of thinking minimalism is going around in sackcloth and ashes instead of quality not quantity in life .
@virgierutledge30042 жыл бұрын
Our local Thrift Store and food for poor is volunteer. They need you stuff. We dropped off some cash today. So many are really hurting and it will get worse. Pay it forward.
@rstores12 жыл бұрын
Hi Joshua, just finished "Things That Matter" Awesome book! Stays true to what you have been teaching in your videos and blogs all along. I would highly recommend this to all your subscribers. Blessings, Ralf
@01Paulsgirl2 жыл бұрын
Great ideas, as always, thanks! One additional thought from your prodigy, the Minimal Mom, about noticing the difference in a declutter room our cleared surface: Take before and after pics and refer to them when your brain adjusts to the new look and it feels like no progress has been made after all. I was shocked at how different things actually were when I did this. In just a short time, I'd forgotten what things *had* looked like and felt defeated. The pics reminded me of how far I'd really progressed.
@cristinas43982 жыл бұрын
The exact same thing happens to me. And I had only 2 little photos of the way my house was during the years of illness, but I lost that phone and the photos. I still wonder after cleaning if I actually got anything done
@01Paulsgirl2 жыл бұрын
@@cristinas4398 Though I have a long way to go still, I've found that I have the ability to make things that matter a higher priority than cleaning and my home is still functional and not nearly as chaotic, so it's imperfect but also improved. I'm betting of you think about it, you will notice differences was evidence, too. ☺️
@tiashadae11432 жыл бұрын
Just finished your book on minimalist home and your new book came in the mail yesterday, thank you for the wonderful content 😃
@monikakrall39222 жыл бұрын
Since I buy only what we need and I use lots of free sources too and recycling, reusing etc. we can afford to buy higher quality products or more organic food on half price as I created a routine on when, where, what to whatch out for....so actually we are living better with less :)
@chrissybagwell7692 жыл бұрын
10 Things You Can Do To Test Out Minimalist Lifestyle 1.) Remove 1 box of clutter today. 2.) Clear off 1 surface in home today. 3,) Don’t buy anything nonessential and put $49 in savings account today and tomorrow. 4.) Go for a long walk today. 5.) Turn off all notifications except phone calls. 6.) Eliminate 1 obligation from your life today. 7.) Make up 1 game with your kids. 8.) Wear your favorite outfit. Own fewer clothes and wear your favorite outfits. 9.) Turn off your TV 1 hour earlier. 10.) Do 1 thing you love today and do more of what you love.
@sevasxtra082 жыл бұрын
My library ordered your new book and I put it on hold and I'm reading it now. I shared some words with a friend and it brought tears to her eyes. A wonderful read so far ❤️
@barbaramcintyre8213 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your help with becoming a minimalist. I can see it is work in progress. I have been clearing my home for 5 months now and can really see the difference. I keep watching you and following you for more inspiration. I still have a long way to go but the further I am clearing out the clutter the more I want to continue. Our local charity shop is getting used to my weekly visits. It feels so tidy and I am now able to look after what I have remaining without being overwhelmed.
@fblm6402 жыл бұрын
Thank you Joshua! Your channel has been my favorite minimalist inspiration. I revolutionalized my bedroom after watching your earlier video. Now minimalism has become my lifestyle and probably a life-long hobby. Resonating with you that Turning off apps notifications is such a life-changing move!!! I even turn down business opportunities where I don't feel my passion.
@chrisk40538 ай бұрын
Hi Joshua. I cleared my bathroom counter from everything except a dispenser of hand soap. It feels so good in the morning not to be bombarded with clutter if hers of creams etc. thank you for your videos. Wow even this simple change is huge😊
@gloriayouchisonbrown77342 жыл бұрын
Thank you,you have that peaceful happy smile when you speak That started me on the road to becoming a minimalist
@laina-brown2 жыл бұрын
We are working on a non-essentials savings freeze. We are counting up the number of days we go without buying something we don't need. We have gotten to 17 so far!
@susano74562 жыл бұрын
Congrats! You’ll be amazed at how much money accumulates in your bank account! We did a 30 day freeze and it was astonishing, and we aren’t even big spenders or shoppers.
@sweet_lilly_arts10792 жыл бұрын
Great idea! 👍🏻
@alanbirkner19582 жыл бұрын
My youngest child is 41. We made "play sets" from cardboard boxes. Another boy was over playing, later his mom called to say her kid wanted a homemade Star Wars cantina play set. My older son built a castle for his boys with cardboard. I'm 72, when I was a kid, we had far fewer toys. I had a doll, my friend had a doll, and we had some clothes. We survived. Tina, Al's wife
@anjanasreshta2 жыл бұрын
Yes, the changes you mentioned creates an impact for sure 😎.Finally I decluttered my kitchen utensils today, all other areas of decluttering am following as a daily habit. Photos alone I need to do. Turned off social media notifications. Sleeping early and started hearing music (for limited time) which I love 💚
@blessedforever332525 күн бұрын
The biggest difference in my life is smaller and more streamlined wardrobe for myself. It’s wonderful!!
@sweet_lilly_arts10792 жыл бұрын
Yes! That's what minimalism is all about. The more I bring it into my life, the more I see and the more time and peace I find. It's incredible. The things we already have and don't realize it.
@LazzarrusLong2 жыл бұрын
07:28 - 7:40 - Yessir! NAILED IT.
@JohnsDeb2 жыл бұрын
Just downloaded “Things That Matter” through Audible!
@tanyajohnston82622 жыл бұрын
I bought your book through audible because I was going on a long drive journey this last week. I listened to your book as I drove. I love your book ! Wonderful, inspiring information and stories. Thank you so much. Now I want to buy the paper copy of the book so I can highlight and write in it. I have to wait for next month to budget for it.
@dbartz55102 жыл бұрын
His paper books are the primary books in my office. They look great, and I reference them often.❤ I love the new book!
@punjabitikka2 жыл бұрын
Is it available on Amazon
@dbartz55102 жыл бұрын
I bought it at our local Barnes and Noble. Amazon did have it for sale, not sure if it has sold out or not. Hope this helps.
@romyhistorillo97572 жыл бұрын
Most of the advices you shared Joshua are already on going, but there are still takeaways from this video, which are: 1. Removing bad habits that don't generate good impact to my life. Because I used to be knowing my direction in life, but in the spur of the moment I changed it into bad habits when I started going back to the office. So I have to figure out how to start over again to recoup. 2. I am going to do what makes me alive and happy, which is reading self-help book. I will also consider reading the book that Joshua created--"Things that matter". 3. I am going to start exercising tomorrow and right now I am going to have a long walk home. I used to walk home with an earphones just to lose track of time and get home early. hehe Those are the things I have took from Joshua that could immediately applied and I will see if it's working or not. Thanks so much for sharing valuable content, Joshua! :)
@CindDJo2 жыл бұрын
Joshua, I absolutely love listening to you! I'm working on making my life more meaningful because of your inspirations. Thank you for sharing and helping me have less regrets and lead a more intentional life.
@brendasparks62342 жыл бұрын
Thank you. My extra hour tonight of less TV is going to be writing down all these steps. PS, ordering my book today. God Bless. Hope your friend Bob is doing well.
@dbartz55102 жыл бұрын
You will enjoy the book, great purchase!
@144Donn Жыл бұрын
Every time I listen to J Becker, my house\apt gets cleaner and more organized if not emptier. As with health or whatever discipline we wish to instill, we require a "strengthening" coach. One who can continually inspire us to take it to the next level because one never stays put. I think even Joshua stated this once. So, onward we go in organizing and thinning out our possessions.
@MGrace-161802 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us, love the new book!
@danicegewiss8622 жыл бұрын
I have been decluttering my extra stuff. I'm donating 6 dresses to charities today. I rarely wear dresses. I saved my most comfortable complimentary to me dresses. My living room feels so much more comfortable now. I can actually get in my closet. We cut way back on our spending. I do have more time. It's nice.❤️
@Tom_NYC2 жыл бұрын
Just finished your latest book on Audible and felt like it flew by! Wonderful writing and narration. Each chapter had important lessons on how to focus on what really matters in life. Will be recommending to everyone - thank you for your work.
@elizabethgaldamez17292 жыл бұрын
Thanks for using video titles that summarize your topic. Helps me decide whether it’s the right time to watch your video without having waste time trying to figure it out.
@piperlani2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for changing my life for the better!!!
@blessedforever332525 күн бұрын
I ordered the book and really excited to get it. I’m ready for a more meaningful life!!
@sandrahickey35939 ай бұрын
Thanks for this. Im gonna clear off my dining table and an area of my kitchen counter ASA. Turning TV off is a good habit too. My hubby is really bad at this, background noise.
@kennethbailey98532 жыл бұрын
I thank God for you Regularly
@JoshuaBecker2 жыл бұрын
You are very kind, thank you.
@sonny50682 жыл бұрын
Thanks Joshua! I always look forward to watching your videos. They’ve helped me on my path to decluttering. Keep it up!
@bonniehafeman9757 Жыл бұрын
My daughter tuned me on to your blog. Thanks. You are appreciated.
@sifa14532 жыл бұрын
Hey, greetings from Salzburg(Austria)🤗, your new book is on my birthday- wishlist. Love your channel🙏
@stinaljungstrom86912 жыл бұрын
So much thoughtful inspiration in just one video! Thank you so much! 💕
@VickyHafler2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all the ideas. Just starting your book.
@ruthhatt38562 жыл бұрын
Great practical advice. thanks!
@keekee87602 жыл бұрын
Great video, thank you for sharing.
@steevevatzguitartraining41852 жыл бұрын
Beautiful. Many thanks for sharing such values. So matured and loads of wisdom with so well put together video production out here. Thank you
@annaalm182 жыл бұрын
I like most of those tips. However, a recommendation to put aside 49 Dollars daily will not be suitable for many of us, in fact it hurts hearing that. Many people have to LIVE of much less than that, me included ...
@username000092 жыл бұрын
That wasn’t a literal recommendation- it was just a way of saying to monitor your spending and stop unnecessary spending, which will benefit you both on your journey to minimalism and savings.
@donnaschafer25652 жыл бұрын
I understand your sentiments about living on much less and not being able to afford the $49 a day however many people could afford to put the cost of a coffee or a pack of cigarettes or a package of chips into a similar fund. Don’t let that $49 stop you from understanding/using the principle of what Joshua is suggesting .
@cindynielson42312 жыл бұрын
I was a little bogged down, just the pep talk I needed! TFS 💯👍
@kathycooper95772 жыл бұрын
Bought the book. Having a really hard time not underlining!!!
@goodenoughgirl81022 жыл бұрын
For me it’s more like a journey to being more and more intentional. And with that also being more and more my true, authentic self (and discovering more and more exactly who that really is Bcuz that’s the big thing...so important to really know who we are...or at least be actively pursuing that aim...and not remain so lost or confused about that). TV lol. I only use it late at night as a “narcotic” to put me to sleep. And it’s not even really TV. It’s usually YT reruns of Forensic Files. 😅😅 I guess we’re all different tho. It knocks me out every night like clockwork, so I can’t argue with that. But also I’m not much of a TV person anyways. Music is my thing and I can’t at all listen to it right before bed or I’ll get too invested and wind up staying awake for more. 😅😅
@margiehaack48362 жыл бұрын
I have found your videos helpful and hopeful. I've been sharing your videos with friends and family. Your videos are a blessing. Thank you.
@nadianoorzad78462 жыл бұрын
So glad I found your channel. Loved your videos.♥️
@Cathy-xi8cb2 жыл бұрын
Many, many, people surround themselves with objects to avoid feeling the pain of their lives. They think that facing them will be to painful, that they would be faced with the decision to change jobs, partners, etc. It is LESS painful to complain about clutter than to face the mess of your life.
@FisherOfMen7052 жыл бұрын
I listen to all your videos on 1.5x speed, simply so I have time to watch even more of your content...is that more minimal or maximal? Haha I don't care, whatever it is it's wonderful and it's working!
@amandasymon43632 жыл бұрын
More focused intentional Life 👌👊
@ellew.31002 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. It's a reminder to live life with focus. I'm listening to this video over and over again. :)
@michelleg19052 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video Joshua!! Loved the message and the way you transmit it 🥰
@aleithea27152 жыл бұрын
Superb video. Your videos are much appreciated.
@norahdenovan86582 жыл бұрын
Thank you Joshua, you have been a great help to me to get started& get on with the decluttering& it’s ongoing, but not stressfully now 🙏❤️
@beavadakkoot2 жыл бұрын
2 years ago I stopped all notifications on my phone except the most important ones (whatsapp and Instagram for work). Never looked back!
@Lougan44 Жыл бұрын
Joshua I think this was one of your best talks! It spoke to me motivationally and was very much what I needed to hear!❤
@sandy-rr1by2 жыл бұрын
Been getting rid of books. Culled contents of 2 floor to ceiling book cases, down from 6 to 4. Used to read all the time, not so much these days.
@amberrand25242 жыл бұрын
I was excited because I thought your wife was going to be in this video. Would love to see her more on your channel.
@JoshuaBecker2 жыл бұрын
I wish she liked speaking more too.
@jerushacarlson2 жыл бұрын
I came across a video about “minimalism” several years ago where the person speaking was like “we can’t have too much color, so everything has to be white.” So many negative statements were made, I was impressed the person choosing minimalism in that video was treating their choice to live with less like a disease rather than freedom.
@jennycervantez18422 жыл бұрын
I’m loving your new book!
@rhonda44212 жыл бұрын
This was EXCELLENT
@WildKraftyAotearoa2 жыл бұрын
Great video!!! So looking forward to buying and reading Things That Matter, feeling a bit desperate as I can't seem to find anywhere in NZ/New Zealand that can get it shipped here any sooner than July😪😪. I have considered audio book but a physical book is best for me as I like to re-read areas I am working on (actually I will re-read the whole book several times).. I also get sleepy with audio only. Ahhhh, maybe I could do both, Audio book now and physical book in July 🙄.
@username000092 жыл бұрын
Have you looked into services that will receive items for you in the US and then repackage them for you (to eliminate that common wasted space in the box) and ship them to you? I don’t know what they’re called, but I heard about it on another channel.
@WildKraftyAotearoa2 жыл бұрын
I haven't heard of that before, thank you so for sharing a possible option!!!!!!!!!
@ktrudy1 Жыл бұрын
I have done all of these. ❤❤❤
@valerierogers96092 жыл бұрын
I am so busy... I need to watch the butterflies 🦋 twice as long 😉
@ameliahanson2 жыл бұрын
Loved this video, so inspiring 🌟
@hyggehope2 жыл бұрын
Excited to read this!!
@20032003felix2 жыл бұрын
Hi Joshua,I am a big fan from your Channel,Felix from Switzerland 👍
@paulsalerno63622 жыл бұрын
Love minimalism
@therichbuddha32772 жыл бұрын
Really enjoying the book!
@blessedmamags77962 жыл бұрын
I'm enduring a massive scale Rapid Purge, for purpose of Relocation from Houston TX USA..... I'm thrilled with the success.... BUT I'm still scared of that word "minimalism" .... I can't live with bare walls, no decor, and only 5 shirts lol 🤣🥰
@username000092 жыл бұрын
Not every minimalist fits that description 😀 I once read a summary of different types of minimalism. I think domestic minimalism described those who still had things that were helpful in living comfortably in and maintaining a home. It seems so silly to even “need” those definitions, but I also see the point.
@JustinHonaker2 жыл бұрын
Did you not notice the decor on his wall behind him?
@lesliewhite3882 жыл бұрын
love the wall decor. Where did you purchase it? looking forward to seeing you in Houston!
@JoshuaBecker2 жыл бұрын
Can you make sure it’s warm in July for us?
@luna74532 жыл бұрын
thank you for your advices and channel
@odezamae2 жыл бұрын
I finish your book. And i really enjoyed it! Only thing is i wish it was longer. I was like that’s it? Please write more book. For now i will re-Listen to it again (Audible)
@valerierogers96092 жыл бұрын
Maybe it's a minimalist book for minimalists 😊
@odezamae2 жыл бұрын
@@valerierogers9609 that made me laugh 😂 could be. Great book!
@SB-qn4st2 жыл бұрын
Liked before even watching, because I know this is gonna be good! 💁
@daughterofmyabba4 ай бұрын
Fantastic video as usual ❤
@anamisidro84532 жыл бұрын
Beautiful. Thank you.
@genevievepeters15022 жыл бұрын
Best video. So many helpful tips
@Rafiq_sherazi2 жыл бұрын
Your talking style is rock Mr Joshua
@lindawinters62852 жыл бұрын
Recd your new book -- WOW WOW WOW!!
@pegeggeggleston43152 жыл бұрын
Hi Joshua - great video and words of wisdom. After living in the same house for 30 years, we have a lot of work ahead of us, but like you said, we are doing it one box at a time. Even the few things we have done so far are making a difference. Thanks for inspiring us and continued success. Love PegEgg
@cd28882 жыл бұрын
I would buy your book…but I don’t buy books…I go to the library.
@Memo-xr4nu2 жыл бұрын
Totally Agree With You if in doubt throw it out : )
@lovemyfamily8807 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate your minimal use of words. Too many words cause me to tune out, or just move on.
@Bitachon2 жыл бұрын
*I feel like book should be available in ebook only due to living an minimalistic life.*
@JoshuaBecker2 жыл бұрын
Books should be read in whatever format benefits the reader the most. That's the point of reading.
@angelasnodgrass66212 жыл бұрын
You should think about doing audio books. I love them. Your books as audio books would be awesome!
@JoshuaBecker2 жыл бұрын
My book are in audio format. They can be found anywhere audiobooks are sold - narrated them myself.
@angelasnodgrass66212 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@maryk5842 жыл бұрын
I listen to you and follow you on you tube. I do not have any subscription . I have been noticing your white coffee mug, I have that in black. Time to replace it. Where did you find it? I have been a minimalist for years who never new that is what it’s called Have not been successful in bringing my family in to it, have not stopped trying