That woman doesn’t get second divorce the sky will fall. That woman is very tumbling until she gets second divorce. Her young husband is very tormented by this unstable her act. A peaceful family is tumbling by her actions again.
I'm really feeling sorry for your situation. Do you know, no one can make you happy not even your sprouts. Only Jesus Christ can. Have you ever try to pray to Him. You can say anything to him and He will answer you. Yes, He will. You can even Google, focus of the family. In your area. It's a Christian organization, the service is free. Maybe you can ask someone who speak Chinese Mandarin. I really think you and your husband needs marriage counseling for the sake of your four children. God love you so much, He is waiting to help you..