Judge's Unimpressed Face as Mom Shows Up Instead of Defendant!

[@jasmineartis5754]

I really like this judge! I love that she tells older black women to stop coddling young black men. It’s not our job! I love her no nonsense attitude but she’s not disrespectful at all!

[@katherineduke3232]

And trust me..... moms coddling their sons and setting stupid low bars seems to be a constant issue all across all races also across all generations. But this mom.... this is disgustingly embarrassing that the mom showed up for her 43 year old son who has already missed court before. Even in the 20s its embarrassing but her son is just about middle aged! She is entirely responsible for why he cant get his act together. She enables him!

[@freeman0048]

Agreed, judge Hayward has become a favorite of mine. She gives it to u straight and fair. I feel like a good nickname for her is judge fafo.

[@johndonovan7018]

GA native

[@hoptoit5910]

Not just black women coddle their kids

[@Sockmonkey3940]

⁠@@katherineduke3232 parents of any race who over parent create a "helpless zoo animal" that can't function on their own.

[@marcirobins5144]

Mom, turn in your save-a-son card. He’s a grown man. Save yourself. He hasn’t obeyed you for over 30 years!

[@eura542]

no daddy, sad.

[@cindyhurd5488]

Whoa I thought he was a KID..not a GROWN MAN 😳

[@nik-at-nite]

@@eura542This is a misconception. He could have a dad but most dads aren’t going to coddle their grown sons. But the mom will do what they want to do anyway.

[@Sparky-xk4vo]

Yep!

[@losbebeast8449]

​@@eura542that's a bit ignorant to assume that, it's not a good look

[@ZooZoo293]

It would have been embarrassing for me as an 18-year-old man to have my Mom appear at court in my place, but at 42?? The judge gave this mom a good lesson. What does he have to lose if she keeps picking up the pieces for him?

[@ItsMeTracy2023]

Moms not going to change a thing

[@jerriporter5500]

EXACTLY 💯

[@bodhi1462]

Me, too. How embarrassing 😳

[@roslynhawkins1475]

Not only that, she's making everything up as she goes along. He speech is way too stilted.

[@hiyellagal]

@@ItsMeTracy2023 Sure isn't. I see this mess all the time. I have two adults son and I did not play. They are both are now successful men. Alot of these women treat their son's like their man. It's sad!

[@domoniquer.4342]

"He doesn't know how to use a computer, and neither do I." But ma'am, you're the one who put in the time and effort to show up, and it's not even your case!

[@Rubylox]

He may not know but SOMEONE in his life would know! No excuse!!

[@captainmycaptain8334]

bros 43 yrs old and his older mother somehow figured it out. this is just him not wanting to take accountability.

[@bobbyhill1013]

I bet he knows how to use tik tok Facebook Instagram and Snapchat. But didn’t know how to sign in to zoom? Lock his ass up

[@JoeLunsford99]

0:53 but he’s helping put up barns 😂😂 this had me dead

[@pshaw8406]

She sounds dumb, chances are he's really dumb, too.

[@eitherorlok]

"There's a lot of foolishness out there, ma'am." Perfectly summed up the Sovereign Citizen movement.

[@eurekamreum5458]

lmao

[@DutchKing]

Crazy part is I looked her up and she's a teacher for inmates in georgia. She's making 80k a year tho, her salaries public.

[@nadogrl]

43 years old, and his mom is still trying to rescue him?🤯

[@sadjaxx]

That is a lost cause.

[@susanrand512]

He was probably a nightmare as a kid.

[@FairyDragon9]

Knows she destroyed him through coddling...

[@FistingDemon]

the mom is probably 56

[@whoome1638]

@@susanrand512more then Likely she made him a monster

[@jenn_x.]

Mom says his age without batting an eyelash. She sees nothing wrong with coddling this whole grown man. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@rickarra1833]

And there ya go, he'll be back having learned nothing

[@Hazel.Eyed.Gemini]

After 18 they turn into boyfriends

[@lawrencelopez9839]

@@Hazel.Eyed.Gemini well that was creepy

[@Hush-puppy]

@@lawrencelopez9839it is creepy but emotional incest is a real thing. And I believe this is a prime example of it.

[@saramatthews7159]

Most black women are like this with their sons...but horrible to their daughters.

[@awilkins5827]

She should not have even appeared on his behalf.. She’s been doing this all of his life…43!!! UNREAL

[@susanengel-ix8bl]

Yes, but at that age it's past embarrassing, no way on this earth would I ever do what that lady did.

[@xyPERSON]

@@catwoman2582 Which is fine up until a certain point...like when he reaches adulthood and becomes a full grown a#! man.

[@haramanggapuja]

Another example of the need for some sort of compulsory service. Makes you grow up fast. Of course, today’s young people would make a wreck of that. Back when a dishonorable/brig time discharge meant something. Now all the ‘Support our troops’ stickers don’t mean shit.

[@PI1901]

My thoughts exactly...43, why DF is mom even there? That's crazy as hell, assuming her name is not on the docket.

[@yahira6928]

Mammy, mammying😂

[@___Bruh__]

Her patience while telling people they're wrong is very admirable.

[@luna02020]

So well put! No one is better at handling so cuts than this lovely lady! She doesn't ever get upset frustrated or impatient, with them, her demeanor with so cuts is like an adult listening to a Inc kg knock joke by a kindergartener, then proceeds to disarm them by them with the succinct law. Amazing woman🎆.

[@AnEmptyNest]

I’m 42, and our ENTIRE generation is tech savvy! We were the jump off! Analog and Digital generation!

[@MattHelmSA]

Not everybody lives on these devices. I have a prepaid phone that I am currently using for Internet service and I do not have internet or computers, tablets or Wi-Fi in my home. I don't need it. I don't desire it. 19 year old son and I go out to play, he doesn't need it or desire it.. I have enough skills on a computer and the internet to get by but that's very limited and minimal

[@nateclipps]

@@MattHelmSAIt’s not the 90s anymore, you don’t have to use a device for majority of your life to understand how to use it. Tech is at its most simplified state right now, even toddlers and dogs know how to do basic tasks on it. No one cares about the way you and your little son lives.

[@marathongirl27]

Your generation was not the “jump off”. My brother is 42. I’m 57 and first used an Apple PC at age 13 in Berkeley, California.

[@iamastrangeloop9204]

⁠@@marathongirl27 yes, but how many ppl got to use an apple computer in Berkeley CA in the late 70s/early 80s? I would think not an entire generation.

[@meliisonthemoon8130]

@@marathongirl27I would consider you apart of that generation tbh

[@maxxfatal]

If he's 43 that means he was born in '80-'81. So, he grew up around computers, there's no reason his ass doesn't know how to use the internet 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@Yah-Yah733]

I betcha is ass is on Social Media looking 👀 for IG models 🤣🤣

[@briantaulbee6452]

A 7 yr old knows how to do this

[@mzglo7588]

My kids were born '88 and '90. They were experts before they started school!

[@obsessedwith_christmas]

Right??

[@Januaryjenkins]

I need all of you (minus the first reply) to stop acting like everyone had computers in the 90’s-early 2000’s. Especially the one who said their kids were born in 88 and 90 🤣. I was born in 92 and didn’t touch a computer until 3rd grade (my class and the 4th grade class we moved to were the only places in the school with multiple computers, so no computer labs at that time). He was pretty much grown in the timeframe I stated earlier and likely poor. What SHOULD be the reasoning he and his mom are full of sh*t is because learning it isn’t hard and we know damn well that fool has some type of smart phone and has had one for the longest. Guarantee he has no problem posting idiotic things on Facebook 🙄

[@Enoughalready20237]

First Mom needs to stop enabling her son. 43 years old and can’t get himself to court is insane. Does she wipe his butt, do his laundry and still feed him? Pay his bills as well? I bet she does!

[@jellysofa]

lol she probably does

[@cynthiamgrooms8195]

I have No doubt she does it All, EXCEPT doing his prison time, which she probably Would do if it was allowed. But the excuse being he doesn’t know how to do zoom?!? I’m 63 years old,& no genius when it comes to All the Internet stuff, but had ZERO ISSUES getting on my 1st Zoom call. So I have to wonder if that Fool can Read, bc Anyone who can read Very simple words, can get on Zoom Without Any “hiccups”. Wonder what her excuses were for him Not showing up on previous dates!?!🙄 She Clearly can’t run his Sorry Arse’s life, as well as she somehow Believes she is, & If she doesn’t quit her mess, she’s gonna land Her butt in prison for a Host of applicable charges for running interference for a Criminal!!! Yes! She Ruined him, but He has had Plenty of time to Grow Up, & get away from, or even nip her suffocating Control as an Adult MAN does, but he’s playing Best of Both worlds,& failing at That miserably!!! Wonder if there’s any Mini Hims running around-a pray Not, bc they don’t stand a chance ‘tween these two, & whoever would be Ignorant enough to crawl in a backseat or bed with Him.

[@KevinSamuelsPowerBottom]

It's not that he can't. It's that he does not care. These women keep standing up for their forever-babies even that ish only applies to animals!

[@lawrencelopez9839]

getting to court has been the most accessible than it has ever been thanks to video calling and he still couldn't show up. All he had to do was wear something nice and connect online.

[@Mizzshron82]

She probably does. 😂😂😂 she’s Barbra The Builder

[@abbiereynolds8016]

I thought the son was going to be like 18 or something, when this foolish woman said he was 43 with no shame I almost threw my phone in frustration🙄

[@jessicaaudate]

I couldn't even finish the video. I paused at 02:28 and went to the comments

[@abbiereynolds8016]

@@jessicaaudate It's the Darrell Brooks situation all over again. Mommy and Grandma coddled him and coddled him until age 44 and look how that worked out for him?

[@jessicaaudate]

@@abbiereynolds8016 omg. I had to look him up. Boy does that bring back memories!

[@jworth7203]

I burst out laughing. What a dope! And his mom needs to LET GO OF THE RESPONSIBILITY!!

[@gimpinainteasy]

I was giving him the "I am a dumb 20 yr old.."

[@YamiNoSensei13]

I love how this judge talks to sovereign citizen types. She lets them know "nope, doesn't work that way" while still showing respect and compassion.

[@cleopatra1633]

And at the end no serious consequences. Its a joke.

[@Da_bear-ij9gm]

I’m not really seeing the respect here

[@cleopatra1633]

Respect for what? @@Da_bear-ij9gm

[@Phoenix8492]

The judge seems to understand the art of telling someone that they have been the victim of a scam-being fooled into believing sovereign citizen’s rights-without accusing the person being scammed of stupidity.

[@reginayfavors]

My mom took me to the interview. I was high school age. However, she didn't go into the interview with me. I had to do that myself.

[@iamamish]

"county-sponsored Uber" Something tells me you don't get to leave a review at the end of that ride

[@patriciarobledo3954]

Absolutely ADORE this judge! She's so down to earth, speaks plainly, there's no confusion, gets to the heart of the matter. I wish other judges would watch and learn from her. Terrific.

[@hoosierladyus48]

Yes, she is a very sweet judge and lets people know how it is, but in a respectful manner.

[@Nah1980]

Love her as well ! Top tier judge

[@gabrielhughes8221]

Exactly, there's no excuse for he not showing up in court. It's not the Grandmother,mother, wife nor girlfriend responsibility to speak on the behalf of any man's. Stop babying these so called man's who act like little boy's. A Real help a mother can do for her children's especially when the child is adult. Hell the mom will give out their advice by saying get your s**t together and taken responsibility for your own damn actions. There's no hands out around here. That's how the women's in my family members is like.

[@msbadkittie]

i adore her, too! she’s very intelligent, no nonsense and reasonable. anyone in court that has her as their judge is very lucky.

[@majortom7038]

I absolutely love this judge. She has great patience, no nonsense and explains things so well.

[@alexisbaldwin6356]

“It’s lunchtime and I haven’t eaten yet. When my blood sugar gets low my anger goes up.” I love this judge 🤣🤣🤣

[@dangdeionn]

😂

[@ariaflame-au]

There are studies that confirm that

[@LadyBugPicnic12]

Hangry

[@mcnamaraky]

​@@ariaflame-auI was about to say this. Studies have shown hungry judges usually give slightly harsher punishments. Hence they try to do a lot of sentencing after lunch.

[@melyndaduh3501]

Well, I think I'll just bring a bologna sandwich and an avocado toast and a pick of drinks for my Judge date.

[@kdh255]

I love this judge. She does not sugar coat anything for anyone. The mom of the "whole grown 43 year old adult" acts clueless like it's not his job.

[@louisehicks3285]

This is a genuine authentic judge. And she should have her own show.

[@Dr.Sharron]

I guess she will be handling her grown-man son's business from the grave. These clueless mothers misinterpreted how to be parents.

[@comparedtowhat2719]

@@louisehicks3285 I agree vehemently with the 1st sentence to your comment but disagree with your 2nd sentence because the justice system is not and should not be entertainment. She does not need a show.

[@louisehicks3285]

@malinstella6965 Many "judges" truly want the limelight. Of those many try to get shows. Of those, most are not worthy of our time. She is authentic. Therefore, if there must be judge shows, it may as well have someone genuine vs. one that wants a show.

[@professorroundbottom438]

I was shocked at parents turning up at job interviews for their kids; this is another level entirely. 🤦‍♀️

[@koop2.1.5]

Damn; that’s a real thing

[@captainmycaptain8334]

excuse me what??? Lol! how does that work!

[@professorroundbottom438]

@@captainmycaptain8334 It never does, much to the disappointment of both the applicant and the parent (seems like it's always the mother), but it has happened. I don't understand it either. I guess it's kind of in the same vein as parents who write their kid's college application essays.

[@gracehaven5459]

​@@annamarielewis7078what does her weight have to do with anything exactly? I understand the flip-flops but the comment on her weight seen frivolous and discriminatory

[@nawtyshygirl6468]

He is simply saying F the courts, it’s not hard to make a connection on zoom his mother is an enabler.

[@kathyjaissle6791]

We will provide a county sponsored Uber…. 😂🤣😂. I love this judge!

[@YvonneMelvin]

And it has Blue and Reds lights and they flash and sometimes has a siren. 😂😂

[@notme2day]

Party lights and a sound board system are installed on all county sponsored Ubers so friends, family and neighbors can watch you get a special set of silver bracelets. They don't do that for just anyone... only the truly special people get these invites. 🤣

[@Kelz_X]

9:00 Ms Janvier? I need you to brush up on the cases. You seem ill prepared on a regular basis 😂 Judge Bryant take note of Judge Hayward. No theatrics- just facts and common sense. Plus all that hot air Bryant spews, & not hold a soul in contempt, is a waste/raised Bryant’s OWN blood pressure

[@scotthewitt258]

That made me laugh so hard!

[@lacigreystone621]

​@@YvonneMelvin 😂😂😂😂

[@Kodak718]

Tech savvy?? If she could come on zoom why couldn't he have sat there with her?

[@gardengate1339]

Exactly!

[@henrysmith180]

The first mother sounded surprised that she was able to figure out Zoom

[@melyndaduh3501]

Everyone knows that he could top her 20 X over in his computer knowledge.

[@SuprousOxide]

Because he ignored the fact that he had a court date and went out to do something else instead

[@LaurenOliviArt]

EXCUSES that’s why. Sorry but 40+?! That’s just crazy

[@clarencejacksonjr.]

All I have to say regarding the 40+ year old man is: RIDICULOUS. If he's old enough to do the crime, he's old enough to face the court.

[@louisehicks3285]

RIDICULOUS

[@krissyp4715]

Agreed. I mouth dropped when she said 35 bc I was expecting 22 but when she corrected herself and said 43!!! NOPE. Even worse

[@healingandgrowth-infp4677]

We don't even know what he's in court for N there are disabled or undiagnosed disabled or psychologically affected adults n they are more likely to get into situations like these due to their Impairments whether known or not

[@sash7831]

@@healingandgrowth-infp4677lol he just didn’t show up cause he doesn’t care. The mother would have mentioned if he was disabled. He just wanted to hang out with his friends building something. He going to end up in jail.

[@animalian01]

The fact that he has a job at a friends house doesn't get you out of court,and sending your mother doesn't get him anywhere. He is 43 ffs he isnt a kid

[@ursmellyma]

If you believe he was actually building sheds at a friend's house, I have a bridge to sell you

[@maryellis7622]

He may be a Grandfather.

[@AdmRu432]

As a 40 year old black man that lost mom at 18 and had to become Grown Overnight, just two days before Christmas.....I Love This Woman, Reminds me of my angel 💯🔥🙌🏽

[@shantimattie9916]

The mother of that guy who attacked a judge in court did the same thing, along with his sister. “It’s not his fault”, “The system let him down from day one”, “He can’t understand all of this”. He commits crime after crime and the women in his family plead desperately for mercy on his behalf. It’s a mom thing, I guess. My mom wouldn’t let me get away with any of this mess.

[@LimeG0ds]

yeah i assume it has to do with continuing to see your grown children as the child that they were when they were young, so they have a need to defend them. The truth is, some people just go down a dark path, and you can choose to push them in the right direction as a parent or you can choose to protect them from their own actions.

[@shantimattie9916]

@@LimeG0ds I kind of miss the days when, if you did wrong, your mom applied the switch, your dad applied the switch belt, your aunties and uncles had a turn, and your grandparents came over and gave the lecture that made you really cry.

[@buggiebuild1]

@@shantimattie9916facts,not abuse, just a firm correction of the bad behavior,then harsh realizations of accountability from all the family,that’s a lot of love/guidance that can help the future 💯✌🏻

[@baileyayyy5085]

lmfao it took you literally 48 hours to get to "beating children is good actually" seems like your mind was fairly made up before watching this @@shantimattie9916

[@StupidButLearning]

At that age my mom wouldn’t even show up. She’d say this is your mess, you clean it up.

[@milliejeanvgc]

The gentle parenting of this judge is aspirational.

[@cleopatra1633]

Its not her job. She is not handing out any serious consequences. Its a joke.

[@powoodworker1751]

Aspirational? It puts liquid in your lungs?

[@DGolden247]

⁠​⁠@@powoodworker1751 Here’s what the dictionary says: Aspirational- “having or characterized by aspirations to achieve social prestige and material success” Aspiration - “a hope or ambition of achieving something;” can also mean “the action or process of drawing breath” but in this case OP is using the former definition of this word.

[@milliejeanvgc]

@@DGolden247 thank you. 🙏🏻

[@TheCozyGameress]

When you're trying to be a smart ass but reveal how stupid 🤭you truly are @@powoodworker1751

[@ScubaFanatic60]

I love her. She doesn't demand respect like another judge ( by constantly repeating herself) just quietly telling them how they need to act. Major respect.

[@Nah1980]

Agreed. Bryant gets on my damn nerves 😂

[@ScubaFanatic60]

@@Nah1980 How did you know lol

[@royaltee72]

@ScubaFanatic60 It could only be her! Ma'am!!! *in her voice. 😂😂😂​

[@Kelz_X]

(Cough) Bryant 😂

[@ScubaFanatic60]

@JANDJREACTIONS I agree.

[@Andrew-wv7qp]

"You're in that 20 stupid phase" I really like this judge, she's considerate, has a good sense of humor and does not suffer fools gladly.

[@cleopatra1633]

Your stupid phase is in your teens. He should have faced more consequences.

[@mooglerae32]

"When my blood sugar drops, my anger goes up." So very true!

[@LucySkyDiamond]

So instead of going to court, his over the hill ass went to go build a shed?! And what did mama think her showing up would help?!

[@Emolga6274]

😂

[@joshjordan1486]

Over the hill is 50, atleast make sense with the joke.

[@Shannonbarnesdr1]

@@joshjordan1486 nope 40 is the top of the hill, at least we used to have over the hill parties for folks 40th, store used to sell merch that said happy 40th over the hill etc. etc.

[@nb-user25]

Has a sovereign citizen EVER been successful in court or with the police????? You’d think that would be shared amongst the sovereign community along with their silly non-laws?

[@ShatteredPulsar]

A movement like that doesnt attract the brightest people lol

[@sissy4506]

I Love when they say I'm traveling not driving😂😂😂😂

[@PenskePC17]

I doubt it, but a lot of the videos are older and just show the initial encounters with police, when these people were first coming around in the early 2010s cops were just often confused and declined to arrest them for things like driving without a license on the spot. Other SCs see those videos and think of them as a win, but what they don't see is the Notice to Appear that usually came in the mail later 😂

[@FaithandNova]

The ppl in the sovereign community lack common sense. It needs to be studied 😂😂

[@onewayturtles]

​@@FaithandNova Scientists have tried, but they keep having to stop because their IQs drop too quickly.

[@MzYumYum]

43 😭😭😭 and I bet when she need help with things around the house his azz is nowhere to be found.

[@Emolga6274]

😂

[@quantum_immortal69]

That Barrett lady is a nightmare. I can only imagine what an ordeal she put her ex through, when she treats the court like that.

[@kayskaht2052]

Exactly! That's what I was thinking! 😬

[@marcrose3403]

😂😂😂 I know her personally… I dealt with her for 8 months. I stopped talking to her. She tried to reach out to me. She’s very entitled n have anger issues

[@ssxsrubicon7352]

Hope this judge becomes more popular we need more like her

[@allisonwilson312]

I love this judge. She has such a calm voice and manner. So professional.

[@marciamartin5559]

Yes she isn’t yelling or being mean but she makes her point

[@chucksl21]

Shout OUT to this judge! She settin em straight out here!

[@moniquegmail10]

Ok!!!!

[@cleopatra1633]

Where is the punishment or consequences?

[@Claudia-lq3ns]

This Judge is growing on me very quickly and is my new "Judge Bryant." I appreciate her no-nonsense approach, especially with parents coddling their criminal and entitled children.

[@henrysmith180]

At least this judge doesn't repeat herself as much

[@cleopatra1633]

She is not giving them any serious consequences. Free to go, again and again.

[@MoxHex]

​@cleopatra1633 it's because these are for minor crimes.

[@needtoknowbasis3499]

the sweetest judge I've seen

[@nonya8966]

What kind of man sends mommy to amswer for your consequences? So typical with them. "Call my Mommy" 😂

[@devinbond2457]

How old is mom? If he's 43, how old is she? She looks good for her age.

[@gteixeira]

Probably 56, looks accurate.

[@dudeguy9081]

Teenage pregnancy moment

[@benx6549]

​@@gteixeiraShe looks younger than you

[@spikespa5208]

She didn't know his age right off. 43 was probably grabbed out of thin air.

[@Britt3334]

@@dudeguy9081black ppl don’t age like bananas like you all do. Yall look old at 25

[@UnicornTears12]

There's no phone-a-friend option for court 😂

[@Shannonbarnesdr1]

lmao ! exactly ! i never thought id see a mom show up in place of a teen much less and 40+ year old MAN !

[@gena4638]

So much second hand embarrassment for this mother trying to appear for her son to save him. 😳 This could be one of the reasons he's in and out of jail at 43 years old.

[@kaloveshoran]

i thought she was gonna say her son was about 19 - 24, but she said 43?! omg

[@blehbleh1260]

Even when she initially said "35", I immediately made a face. And then corrected herself to 43?? And still hiding behind mommy ??

[@guccideltaco]

When the mom corrected her son's age to 43, I gasped out loud! He's old enough to be a grandparent, and operating this way!

[@DarcyCarmen]

How do we get this judge her own channel and podcast?

[@dogmom4710]

Her live streams are at Clayton State 304

[@MScoachDANI]

@@dogmom4710Ran to go subscribe 🏃🏾‍♀️

[@michaelzabala4850]

They should have put her as Judge Judy's new replacement when she went on to Judy Justice. I always enjoyed watching Judy for her no nonsense approach, but this lady is just as good as well.

[@cleopatra1633]

The no consequences approach is a joke@@michaelzabala4850

[@jtomyour2096]

This Judge is at the Top of her JOB. MUCH RESPECT

[@FabFergie]

I have 2 boys who are toddlers…God please don’t let me turn into this type of mother 😩 You can love your kids but you can’t baby them. This is horrible smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@roslynhawkins1475]

You won't as long as you see them as your sons and as capable human beings. I'm a mother of 2 sons who are now 28 and 26. Both boys are on their own and my oldest is married. Both boys were always taught that actions have consequences and that I would be there for them as support but if they do the wrong thing, they're on their own. My sons have never had any negative involvement with the law. I also raised them alone. I have friends who coddle their sons, do basic things that they should be doing for themselves and let them live at home rent and responsibility free...kind of like a boyfriend who's a bum.

[@saramatthews7159]

Just please don't be like majority of black women who coddle their sons.

[@mkb7013]

I have two boys. One 27 one 18. I’ve been a single parent for 20 years of the oldest one’s life and all of the youngest one’s after my husband passed away. I have ALWAYS approached their upbringing with their future spouse in mind as well as their future employers and coworkers. I want them to add to other’s lives, not take away.

[@roslynhawkins1475]

@@mkb7013 I totally agree with you! I always say the last thing I want to do is make my son some woman's headache.

[@ANYHOO0]

The fact that you even recognize the possibility is a good indication that you won't screw the up too badly!

[@anneamus]

This judge is GOLD! God bless her!

[@The_ScapeGoat]

I love hearing judges like this speak. It Restores faith in the system

[@hopefultraveler3543]

Judge Tammi Long Hayward is an amazing judge!

[@PHlophe]

she is MOOD lol! at 8:35 she siad *Miss Maam, see what we are not going to do is talk to me like i am crazy and that you don;t have no sense. when my blood sugar goes down, my anger goes up*

[@vercoda9997]

Kudos to the judge. She was polite and kindly to the mum, while being blunt and direct. She treated the mother with respect, even while being unimpressed by her son. That's the mark of a decent, sensible human being.

[@setapartaay925]

A real one, this Judge is. Need more like her👏🏾💯

[@wage0048]

"Well, ma'am, what address is he working at right now? I can send someone right away to help him with tech support."

[@luna02020]

Omg I just got her.meaning when you restated it😆😆😆

[@blehbleh1260]

That would've been awesome. I would love to see the mom's reaction to that 😂😂😂

[@quiltqueen4318]

Her making excuses is EXACTLY why this grown man keep making excuses. He's grown. His mother is an enabler🙄😒😳

[@Trillary_Banks]

43??!!!! Just trifling.

[@Aj-cs6cw]

I LOVE Judge Hayward. Warm, understanding, patient, but takes no nonsense. I bet she's fun to work with too!

[@scotthewitt258]

Her reaction when the probation officer apologized because the defendant was being uncooperative, and he thought he was bothering her was so on point.

[@kimmaried.7313]

This judge is always so kind and didn’t need to speak to this mom but still did.

[@SpiridonPrime]

“I don’t want to hear excuses. I want to see results.” - SSgt Me

[@druelia9485]

Woah, this judge is so kind hearted and speaks so gently, even when being firm. ❤

[@NicklePickle426]

"We will provide county sponsored Uber for her!" Translation: Keep playing games with the court & I'll send the Sheriff to come pick you up for an all expenses paid 3 week vacation at our finest local jail! 😂

[@spoileddiva]

“County sponsored Uber” 😩😂😂

[@danrussell3439]

This is an excellent example on how a Judge should carry out its duty. This judge is great. Firm with compassion

[@cleopatra1633]

But weak with actual consequences.

[@gtw4546]

When I first started watching, I thought the son may have been 18, 19 years old - someone still learning how to deal with life outside school. When she stated his age I was blown away!

[@barbarossa1780]

“Working at a friend’s house.” So, drinking and doing drugs. That checks out.

[@DK-qj7cr]

Judge said, “I’m not here to be challenged.” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽☝🏽☝🏽

[@HeyMsVal]

I saw this comment just as she said it. LOL.

[@leese.23]

"If he doesn't have enough gumption..." My mom would have said the same thing! 😊 Can we clone Judge Hayward? Like seriously. Wow. Door-to-door identity theft!

[@notme2day]

County provided Uber was the best descriptive I've ever heard from a judge. That. Was. Awesome.

[@oh2button]

"...we will provide county-sponsored Uber." This is one fantastic reason why it's fun to watch Judge Hayward!

[@thecaptainsnark]

This is an amazing interaction, honestly. Someone else may have belittled her, but she showed immense compassion and empathy for how genuine and polite this mom was.

[@marlat.4221]

This Judge is awesome and she doesn’t hold back. We need more Judges like her.

[@PHlophe]

she does not beat around the bush . when she started " See what we are not going to dooooo " felt that

[@cleopatra1633]

She does hold back on real consequences. She is a joke

[@candim3812]

I don't recall having seen this judge before, but she is terrific! We definitely need more like her. - C

[@susanengel-ix8bl]

I love this judge, no nonsense, but she's kind and firm.

[@ccarbone3561]

Well put!

[@serious7179]

I love this judge❤

[@donmaduro5262]

He's not tech savvy but has no problem with video games, IG, Twitter and whatever else Mommy pays for.

[@hoosierladyus48]

It was very nice seeing this Mom not disrespect the judge. So many women are disrespectful, especially when it comes to their kids, whether they are grown or not.

[@sexytrinny52]

The mother did disrespect the judge by showing up to defend Grown Man Child. What kind of foolish and foolery is that.

[@hoosierladyus48]

@@sexytrinny52 You know exactly what I am talking about.

[@Ksb88]

The love for our children runs deep but we are doing them no favors if we don't teach them to accept accountability.

[@cowel8734]

Facts. Love isn't just giving them what they want, its about loving them enough to say and do the harder things that rarely get appreciated like punishing and holding them accountable

[@sorbabaric1]

And grow up to be an independent responsible adult.

[@Alexa-uk8lj]

There is nothing loving about infantilizing a child their entire life which is what this woman has done.

[@CW-rh4jz]

He was not a child 😂

[@sherridanj]

The second lady, From the background I assume she is a teacher at some level. She's teaching young impressionable children how to function in life. This is really scary that she allows herself to be manipulated into thinking that what she is doing is right . I hope she gets herself together if only for the sake of the children

[@alisong2328]

She could be an assistant.

[@AmysAttitude]

It isn't a teacher's job to raise your children. Keep that in mind.

[@cleopatra1633]

Exactly.@@AmysAttitude

[@lionessrising]

@@AmysAttitudeas a teacher thanks for saying this. Teaching and raising are 2 different things and as a parent , if any teacher has more hold over your child than you do, then you have failed as a parent. We use a curriculum to teach.

[@sherridanj]

@@AmysAttitude Agreed BUT make no mistake....teachers have a major impact on our children's day to day learning and are a great influence on their thought process

[@aytviewer2421]

This judge is awesome! I love her wisdom and the straight forward analogies she dispenses. Reminds me of my grandmother, God bless her soul.

[@keressabeverage2622]

First time I’ve seen this judge, really like her and the way she communicates! Atta girl!

[@Richard.Atkinson]

I’ve watched dozens of judges dealing with sovereign citizens and this judge dealt with the nonsense in the most skillful way I’ve seen. Other judges should use this as a script!

[@hakojo]

I had the same thought. The way she spun it as “you might have bad information, let’s clarify” was very tactful. Probably won’t work on everybody, but well done.

[@Hayday.1979]

This judge is great! Absolutely love her, and all her “you kiddin me?” Faces! That momma looks SO INCREDIBLE for having a 43 year old son!! What a complete ass… bench warrant status, bail revocation on the line, still has the opportunity to appear via zoom, and STILL doesn’t show up?? Nah, momma, let that dead weight GOOO…

[@1luckyccmom]

Nothing makes me happier than to see people held to account.

[@onoT-n6c]

This poor judge having to deal with these dense people.

[@xxcelr8rs]

The cost of missing all the court dates is astronomical. Waste of Jury time/money. The notices sent to witnesses/and cancels at short notice. Lawyers, court staff don't care. They love it, they still get paid huge.

[@PI1901]

Lol. The judge's face at the start of the video, as mom gave excuses for her son, is a WHOLE vibe!! 😂😂😂😂

[@antheairenedevilliers1657]

This judge is just wonderful honestly!!! She just nips all the BS in the BUD!!!!!😂

[@marcc8837]

County sponsored Uber......I love it. Perfect Your Honor !!

[@radrew684]

aka the poe poe

[@marylott7577]

😂😂😂

[@ritadell8090]

@@radrew684I’m on the floor 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Sunset553]

That poor lady in the first case. She wants to make a difference so much.

[@msch3891]

🦸🏿‍♀️ She wants to save him always.

[@rebeccamontague9811]

Awesome judge! She has delicate balance between "no nonsense and respectfulness".

[@deborahbaker1092]

I think your thumbnail title understated how great a clip this is! 😅

[@CourtCamTV911]

I hope this title sounds better. Thanks for pointing it out.

[@deborahbaker1092]

​@CourtCamTV911 Aww, Thanks. I hope you didn't feel as if you had to change it...YT algorithms and all😊. Thanks for listening! I meant that even the subsequent clips were great, not just the mama's boy clip... (she's had a few in the past few weeks). You have a Sovcit, a contemptuous defendant, etc. Thank you for the great compilation.

[@CourtCamTV911]

@@deborahbaker1092 You were right. It was underselling a bit. Changed title is performing much better. It's always a balancing act. If you oversell it, people accuse you of clickbait.

[@bodhi1462]

I love the judges posture and look on her face in the 2nd one lol. That's hilarious ❤

[@bobbiec2829]

Love this judge ❤

[@goddesswomon]

“Barns or something” 😂

[@Socratic199]

I like this lady. Respectful, direct, patient. Educating people as she does it. Ima send some digiflowers. 🎉😊

[@scottlafferty6448]

If only all judges were like this. Wonderful woman.

[@PHlophe]

Lafferty, cute pic you've got there awwww . it is low key cute that he's got sparse hair like you right now , like y'all look the same.

[@jefflovespigs]

I’ve heard this judge say this more than once, and I love her for it all these boys getting coddled out here by their moms and what not needs to stop needs to be like it used to be tell your kids no and mean it and follow up with discipline if needed. discipline however, the parent just shutting these kids up by giving them a tablet giving them back their screen time not telling them that they are wrong when they are. It’s horrible it’s really bad.

[@attitudeproblem6462]

This been happening _long_ before screen time. That fool was in his 40s…😒

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

What do you mean "how it used to be"? When? When this guy was a kid tablets were not even a thing.

[@oRealAlieNo]

My mom coddled us and beat the living daylights out of us. I been tied up and throw in a closet. Lol not for long like 5mins but a eternity in child times. Lets just say i was a demon in child form.

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

@@oRealAlieNo No wonder you were a horrible child given your mother was a violent and abusive thug.

[@denalowry8710]

What does this enabler not understand?

[@nb-user25]

What the judge was trying to tell her went right over her head.

[@readytobenaturallyme3580]

​@@nb-user25it actually went in one ear and out the other. Im sure her family and friends have told her the same thing this judge just told her and she ignored them just like she will do this judge. Sad but all too true.

[@Sunset553]

She does not understand that her son will get through his life when he faces the natural consequences of his actions.

[@JaBaiter]

Judge: "Where is he?" Mom: "He's working at a friend's house" Lady your son is getting high, playing video games, and eating doritos. That isn't any form of work.

[@lisaperry5999]

Probably alcohol involved

[@petergmred2005]

Gumption-now that's an underused word.