Dance Party Full of Missteps

[@MissPrissy124]

“No disrespect, I don’t talk to the help” oh he’s a sassy little bih😩🙄

[@nettyspeaks]

Super sassy in his mothers jewelry

[@Totallytatyana]

The way I hollered 😂😂

[@PrePre_]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@goddesstiva]

Rude af

[@goddesstiva]

Lmfaooo

[@MsJuicy31783]

He shot himself in the foot when he said “I don’t talk to the help”

[@kaliyahwilliams7171]

And when he laughed about the WE tv show judge was complimenting ❗️

[@masterbates7016]

Plaintiff acts like every word out the judges mouth is to him yes yes yes. Judge isn't even addressing him

[@nanchanger]

So did the judge when he failed to cover for watching strippers on TV and then thought of the wife...

[@ql688]

yep

[@ckmp]

Rolls eyes🙄 and slowly slides down my chair when judge Mathis starts to tell a story

[@ESBEAUTII]

Yesssso annoying

[@sonebone7]

lol

[@lou-annreyes2767]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@user-ki4jc7il1n]

😂😂😂😂

[@deidrapeters635]

‼️

[@ProjectShinkai]

U get what you pay for. They didnt tip, so they didnt dance that much.

[@JohnShaw33]

You sound ridiculous... If you go to the Barbershop to get a haircut, should the Barber give you half a cut/ zeek because you don't tip Genius?

[@ProjectShinkai]

@@JohnShaw33 strippers work for tips, the money you pay was the cober charge. If. He couldnt offord to tip the girls then dont throw a private party.

[@ProjectShinkai]

@@JohnShaw33 stop being broke living above your means.

[@GetIntoTheBLACK]

Thank you Chris! A man who actually understands how it works. They should’ve just went to the strip club if they didn’t have the money to tip the girls. If those men were tipping them girls would gladly be dancing and would’ve stayed longer if the tips were flowing.

[@ProjectShinkai]

@@GetIntoTheBLACK not to mention he said in court i dont talk to the help. Plus she said he tried to have sex with one of the girls. He was trying to be a broke big baller.

[@jamnj515h7]

The judge know he would have NEVER supported or encouraged his daughter to be a stripper

[@Bray_Jay]

Exactly. He ran so much interference.

[@tonysnow9688]

True statement and I like judge but exactly come on now lol

[@Tatorrella]

Just because I wouldn’t want my daughter to be a stripper or encourage that career path doesn’t mean I wouldn’t support OTHER people who do that

[@shirleyoneil5220]

True

[@markjohnson-sl9qf]

So true.

[@scottrogue946]

She was really gathering him though with that “ In Living Color” tie he had 🤣

[@Her...Own...Entertainment]

What you had said friend 😭😭😂😂😂😂

[@hornetbrown]

He does need to lose the tie while driving on the freeway. Or shred it.

[@lennellwaltonboxer]

Clown

[@peacefreedom4930]

He’s a magician for children but he’s too “ important “ to converse with the help. I didn’t realize magicians are so elitist. He has some narcissistic tendencies.

[@the4cqueen148]

Exactly! He's a jester, a fool and he's creepy. I wouldn't want him around my kids.

[@kj2540]

Agree also, never heard of him

[@bracketvilletexas]

well yes I can see that , Keep the contact sharp and to the point it's business not personal

[@carriepriegel6477]

Not all magicians are narcissists but Derek Lee def is full of himself. Whenever biz owners brag, this happens: 1) prove it 💵 2) doubt it 🤭 3) and act foolish in these cases and nobody will want to work with "your business" 4) almost all the business owners on court shows blow a great opportunity to shine. 🤷‍♀️

[@PaulPaid]

....with his extended forehead...😅

[@SpiffyPenguin]

"it's not what you do, it's how you do it. and not all money is good money." I like her. I like that there are women who aren't interested in dissuading women from doing adult entertainment and are making themselves a resource for young (and old) women to do it SAFELY. I respect this lady so much.

[@juicylanier]

YES exactly 👏🏾 shout out to her

[@taylorgreene9340]

I hope there aren't any 70 year olds trying to strip

[@Ams_5590]

@@taylorgreene9340 🤣🤣

[@mozartbabe]

I respectfully disagree. What you do does matter. It's not good to be a drug dealer, con artist, or stripper.

[@nicab5819]

Exactly!

[@sisipruitt]

The young people don’t know because they don’t watch the show because Mark my word, every chance judge Mathis gets he tells his story about his life his mama and everything else under the sun LOL.

[@nae80West]

Lol..my thoughts exactly

[@Ams_5590]

I was thinking the same damn thing lmao.

[@skorwolf2719]

Tell the truth brother

[@cynthiavaldez7127]

Exactly, cause Mathis gone talk about his life chile. 😩🤣

[@canvaskate7571]

And the older he gets, the longer and more frequent those stories get 🤣 Watch this show 10 years from now, it's just going to be Judge Grump Mathis on a 15 min rant, Doyle just standing there nodding his head along, no case even being told, and older ladies with fans in the audience eating it up 🤣

[@MissPrissy124]

Judge Mathis watching ‘Beyond the Pole’ is hilarious, but fr I’m glad he was advocating for strippers bc goofy over there was trying to play them

[@LilJessyeJBlige]

And he really is GOO FEEEEEE

[@sherring1992]

Yess when he said that I said that’s my show 😂

[@Mr.Oct___]

Advocating for strippers...yeah ok. ...Ask urself if he would encourage his daughter or granddaughter to become one. You & he are the real goofies....

[@aw5003]

I was a dancer and I am now holding a bachelors in pharmacology 💪🏾

[@purearea5142]

This caught my eye because I am currently taking pharmacology and boy it’s not for the weak. 😭 Good job to you.

[@KEESHWASH]

Congratulations!

[@erikarobinson3557]

Yasssss👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@1deep499]

You was a hoe but change your life? 👀

[@Nia_Mack16]

"I don't talk to the help"😂 boy sit cho a** down somewhere lol

[@derekleeporter3570]

When u talk to the help .lies start...

[@AnaRodriguez1231]

I'm glad she got her girls backs, this man really tries to belittle people and he cheap 😂

[@brandenvibez6051]

I believe him respectfully

[@ahairysituation9337]

@@brandenvibez6051 of course you do

[@itsdebbiecakeyoubigdummy828]

@@brandenvibez6051 A clown for a clown 🤡

[@brandenvibez6051]

@@itsdebbiecakeyoubigdummy828 Shaming tactics won't get you anywhere. It only shows that you're immature and can't come up with a strong enough discussion.

[@itsdebbiecakeyoubigdummy828]

@@brandenvibez6051 @Branden Vibez Do you know the definition of shame? That wasn't a shaming tactic lol. I was just stating facts 🤷. JM saw right through him.

[@KeyKeyJournals]

As a ex dancer, I believe this woman. People think dancers are unprofessional but that’s not always the case.

[@emsnewssupkis6453]

The looked cheap. And he was cheap, too. So they fit each other. Once upon a time, I did stripping back when it was real stripping, the classic type. You also had to look very, very 'clean' while stripping. Also, a cop was always there to insure we didn't touch anyone or strip too much, this was back in 1969, not today and there were no 'stripper poles', either. A comedian would come on stage between dances to tell jokes. Ahem. Lots of jokes.

[@peachesandpoets]

@@emsnewssupkis6453 we get it, you were a superior stripper 🙄

[@piinkam0r]

Right I wasn’t a dancer but former cam girl and have dancer friends so I’ve seen this on cheap men. He’s def cheap thinking he could get them do things

[@potentspirit3096]

@@emsnewssupkis6453 damnnnn 69?? U was twerking while my father was born???

[@teedavis8354]

@@emsnewssupkis6453 When it was REAL stripping? If anything, stripping has evolved to something very elaborate and very physically strenuous. Don't discount that pole. But you tried it.

[@kay22100]

I always cringe when they start giving JM props in the beginning lol

[@Proverbspsalms]

@Bree Yah 🤣🤣😂😂😂

[@4.carmeljwn]

He probably thought that would swing the verdict in his favor. There's always a method to the madness.

[@boobear9488]

The ones that give props never win the verdict lol

[@plasticpinkchik]

they gon ride it like a rodeo

[@cheyennebanks2308]

Neither of them had proof… so why would he believe either one of them.

[@yungmanray2939]

I was looking through the comments to see if anyone thought this too lol he went on a big rant saying "why should I believe you ?" And then blindly believes the defendant when she didn't have proof either lol

[@cheyennebanks2308]

@@yungmanray2939 judge must’ve been more fond of her I suppose

[@RumbleRish]

Most cases have little to no evidence other than the testimony of the parties. The main job of the fact finder (here, JM) is to evaluate the credibility of the witnesses in order establish the facts and come down with a conclusion.

[@Chickpea1988]

Judge Mathis tends to lean more towards feelings and not facts. If someone says something he finds disrespectful or belittling to the other party , JM tends to dislike that person. No evidence needed.

[@bryanjohnson8982]

@@RumbleRish that’s not true at all in the majority of cases they provide contracts, text messages etc. Couldn’t have a entire court show for 20 plus seasons just based off of people’s stories

[@SpiffyPenguin]

All them photos they took, I believe they were clowning. Plaintiff thought he could pay to dehumanize people.

[@piscesinadream]

He said he wanted a little person in the beginning so yeah.

[@KrisHoppz]

The judge was clearly biased in this case yet went off at the idea of his granddaughter being a stripper. Which one is it?

[@psychicladyg9415]

He did the man wrong. The man should have kept a calm deneanor as well. Mathis would turn in his grave if his grand daughter became a stripper.

[@neisci]

Nobody wants the women in their lives to become stripes. Everybody is worthy of respect, I think that was the message the judge was trying to convey.

[@psychicladyg9415]

@@neisci not everyone.

[@neisci]

@@psychicladyg9415 😂😂😂 okay maybe not ALL, however, what people do to their body it's their business, they shouldn't be looked down just because.

[@titiwest5891]

She admitted her girls leave early but judge doesn’t believe him. The girl was lying

[@printsbydavid7042]

Judge Mathis can be entertaining. His greatest flaw is that he wants to let you know how much he knows and goes on incredible tangents and false conclusions instead of hearing the case.

[@tjneverdefeated4394]

And makes emotional rulings

[@conniemoore4801]

That's why he personally can benefit from counseling and be more objective as an arbitrator👌🏽

[@nanchanger]

That's funny

[@derrickbarber9958]

True!

[@derrickbarber9958]

@@tjneverdefeated4394 yes.

[@victoriamiller7738]

He said hundreds of dollars on the floor. SIR!!!! That was not hundreds of ones. He’s clowning hard. 🤣🤣🤣 Not the help though. So now be disrespectful. 😒😒 He’s saying it’s not true but he’s being disrespectful in court. So I’m not surprised they felt disrespected at the event. 😩

[@ayisyen2009]

Wow this episode really educated me and opened my eyes to a lot of things I’ve been to several strip clubs and sadly us men and some women too demean and are very condescending towards exotic dancers I didn’t know some were that talented and had so much going on for themselves now I feel horrible for looking down on these women 🤦🏾‍♂️ I respect the defendant I’m glad she stood up for these women and broke everything down for me b/c now I have a totally different outlook on these women and I do believe the plaintiff propositioned one of the women how do you have so many pictures of these women if you were there to either promote or be a guest at a party ???? Why would you pay the balance due on the deposit if the wrong women were sent to the club or lounge ? He’s definitely lying about a lot of things and his testimony was very sketchy 💯

[@tracey7093]

I'm glad this changed your perspective! There are some bad apples but I danced from 18-21 and had two women mentor me through earning my BA degree. I wasn't smart enough with my money to buy a home (huge regret) but many girls had 2-3 homes by the time they were in their late twenties. Some women truly love the hours, flexibility to be with their kids during the day, go to school, and also it feels very empowering for people to PAY YOU to talk to them (happens more than you'd think)

[@bracketvilletexas]

oh dont get too tearer eye the stripers do approach guest for favors.

[@shayg.1012]

I'm NOT even a dancer or have EVERRRRRR been but I respect how you admitted that you WERE wrong for judging these women and that you NOW have a DIFFERENT perspective and (more likely than not) will go forward with a different approach and teach other men, and women, that they have the wrong perspective and HOPEFULLY they will TREAT them BETTER bcuz I've PERSONALLY heard horror stories!!!

[@DatActiveGuy]

You a whole clown. You taking your clothes off money and objectify yourself for money but get mad when people people don't treat you with respect? Make it make sense!

[@CliffandEarny]

He paid the balance before the dancers walked in.

[@nettyspeaks]

He better come out that closet.

[@derekleeporter3570]

Sit down really. Ur comment is ,waayyy left

[@denisegill1549]

I tjink the strippers felt like they weren't getting as much tips as they expected and decided to leave

[@psychicladyg9415]

Maybe the men were not satisfied. They were paid to do the job.

[@ESBEAUTII]

Maybe they were sloppy and smelled like fish

[@tracey7093]

He doesn't speak to the help. They dudes were definitely being gross assholes

[@gracemunich1476]

@@ESBEAUTII Yes, the men were definitely smelly and sloppy…..

[@Mr.Oct___]

ding, ding, ding....Somebody understands the hustle.

[@dimelaschey3748]

Working in a club, she’s exactly right. They definitely try it. Walk in with morals and a GOAL 👌🏾

[@sherinnagilbert4983]

"Walk in with morals & a goal"!!! I love it Ms. Dime Laschey✔

[@dimelaschey3748]

@@sherinnagilbert4983 thank you so much Mrs. Sherinna. It’s not as easy as people think. I always have to have a positive mindset going in there.

[@bracketvilletexas]

yeah they try and some do succeed.

[@dimelaschey3748]

@@someoneanonymous775 shut up. Nobody’s talking to you. You didn’t have to reply YOU’RE LOST.

[@dimelaschey3748]

@@someoneanonymous775 the holy one’s ARE THE MOST JUDGMENTAL INDIVIDUALS. That does not mean a person doesn’t believe in Jesus. Y’all kill me GO TO HELL RESPECTFULLY.

[@psychicladyg9415]

I never heard a stripper say they like undressing in front of strange men. I have heard them say they have to get blunted to do the work. Mathis knows he would have a heart attack if any of his kids got on the pole! No father wants to c his child on a pole.

[@carrietezeno6327]

Yes Indeed I Don't My Parents Didn't Aloud Us Their Daughters To Do That When Judge M Though The Man Said Them At His Grandkids Birthday Party Ooo No Man

[@JohanneBarthelemy625]

Exactly! He just talking out his butt so he can get more views

[@bracketvilletexas]

EXACTELY

[@butyoucancallmesam]

Right!

[@peacefaith560]

exactly..

[@khrisi9410]

Okay Ms "I'm in charge of the girlz "

[@sagthenaturalsiren5997]

Ronnie from the players club

[@Nia_Mack16]

RIP Ms Della Reese..Harlem Nights👍

[@christelm1695]

joseline's cabaret 😂

[@sacpase3633]

I can't believe this judge is saying this😲

[@angelaswan6350]

I know he totally was not being 💯.

[@hln573]

I don't care of someone is a brain surgeon... if they take their clothes off for money, they need to stop getting upset when people look at them in a sexual manner.

[@UloveOri]

If people want something to look at in a sexual manner then they should call prostitutes. Dancers are there to sell you a fantasy. Try that type of shit in a real club and you get thrown out and banned 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

[@hln573]

@@UloveOri that's exactly the point... the fantasy of sex.

[@hln573]

btw, no one is saying it's acceptable for the clients/customers to cross the line

[@UloveOri]

@@hln573 obviously people are gonna look at dancers in that way their there to be sexy for money. It’s different when their being propositioned for sex though. They have prostitutes and street walkers for that. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@christelm1695]

@@UloveOri some strippers sell more than a fantasy

[@ironmasc5791]

That was some bs. He completely ignored the text that was sent asking why they left at 11.30. once the judge gets in his feelings it's over for you. She gained points with the stripper empowerment story. He lost points when he called them the help. Nearly got the death sentence when he mentioned his grandkids lol. The evidence didn't matter after that

[@shalanathomas7751]

Lol that's exactly what occurred unfortunately.

[@derrickbarber9958]

Dang!

[@GoInternational2024]

Exactly Right!

[@CliffandEarny]

Right! I actually think the guy should have won, the women feeling uncomfortable is always used to skate out on delivering a full service, it’s so easy for women to say they didn’t feel comfortable or felt disrespected but got paid.

[@blinkxx3240]

Exactly, he already paid 500 for them to be there smh

[@paulettesalomon2520]

She should’ve bought one of the dancers with her.

[@andystephens9022]

She keeps going on about tips!!!! You freaking earn tips ! You don’t expect them like you septic tanks! Standing around on you’re phones is not great service and dosnt deserve a tip

[@missantonia14goldsby]

!! At any strip club !! If u don’t tip they not shaking shit !! It’s they job!

[@dennissmith7214]

JM as always was looking to give one side what they wanted before even hearing the other side that actually had evidence😒…………these girls showed up late for a few minutes and when it wasn’t a big pot like they wanted they bounced! 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@nanchanger]

They lookeded nasty too

[@scratchevans8019]

But he didn’t ask to see that “we uncomfortable” text. Where’s the evidence

[@TalkswithMellow]

He chose her side so he wouldn’t seem sexist but inevitably showed favoritism

[@ashleylawrence7406]

Exactly!

[@aprylb.3718]

@@TalkswithMellow Yes So True!! He was trying to avoid all that Hate Mail he would receive..

[@nanchanger]

These days just tell HR they made you "uncomfortable" and they'll be in trouble

[@tgordon8136]

The millennials know you Judge Mathis. It's the Gen Zers that don't know about you. We millennials grew up on you.

[@lakita619]

I’m Gen Z I know a lot about judge Mathis

[@tgordon8136]

Yall Gen Zers are sensitive....whew

[@VickeyVale]

@@ericamichelle99 that doesn't make sense. OP said "we millennials" which implies he's/she's a millennial. If you're Gen z, how have you been watching Judge Mathis longer than OP has been alive? Lmfaooooo

[@courtneynicole767]

Gen x and Boomers always get millennials and gen z confused. I'm millennial and my gen z children know about Judge Mathis because I've watched him their whole life lol. He used to be my TV crush back in the day but I'm not attracted to older men anymore.

[@tgordon8136]

@@ericamichelle99 no you're the one that didn't figure it out. The person who you are debating is correct. I am a millennial (33 yrs) and I was talking about Gen Z ..clearly I'm not referring to you as you're Gen X....so strong with your wrong.

[@Lovely_1One]

Like does he realize there is a WHOLE ENTIRE generation behind millennials who are in the teens and 20s and THAT is who he should he directing his lectures to! Lolololol!!!! We are in our mid to late 20s to early 40s right now! This convo should be for the ones behind us mostly! They’re called Gen Z!

[@newyorknewyork3782]

You're never too old to be lecture

[@GetIntoTheBLACK]

Yeah I was like ummmmm….we know you sir we grew up on you 😂

[@rodmunch7278]

P-Valley shattered my pre-conceived notion about dancers. They are mothers and daughters just trying to make it.

[@Youniquenubian9913]

And I'm waiting for season 2 🤣

[@lovelyaqua6491]

It took you watching pvalley to realize that. What u thought they were robots…

[@peacefaith560]

get real jobs like everyone else shaking your butt on stage is degrading fast money is not good money...

[@twright6231]

Where is her proof of text showing they said these things?

[@wecountingmoneyoverhere2517]

Biah said she was in Coasta Rico when the event took please. Judge shoulda said show me anything that proves that. She lied the whole case

[@twright6231]

@@wecountingmoneyoverhere2517 Yeah he didn't ask her for proof of anything just believed everything she said

[@mikequinones3069]

Damn that look she gave him when he started off brown nosing Judge Mathis 🤣🤣🤣

[@locafly]

Sounds to me like the girls did come late they got their little deposit and they weren’t making enough money in tips so they decided to go ahead and leave and go get that schmoney, elsewhere. I do think that it wasn’t right that The defendant didn’t show the uncomfortable texts, and he should’ve had maybe a witness statement or brought a witness with him.

[@GetIntoTheBLACK]

You know he was disrespectful and making those women feel uncomfortable because he was acting like that In the court room that’s why the judge had to check him. And yeah strippers make money from tips the expectation when they go to a private party is you will tip them. If they aren’t making the money yes they will most certainly leave. Idk if you been to a private party with strippers but these women are super vocal and will literally tell you if you aren’t tipping enough. He clearly believed the $200 was enough because that’s what he stated in the courtroom. These women don’t get paid an hourly wage so if you book two hours and aren’t tipping they are not about to stay the whole two hours. And like the judge did he gave that man some of his booking fee back because that’s ultimately is why is fair.

[@petalsjones]

I'm confused. How do you dance half naked and let men throw money at you and then get mad when they make suggestive comments? Make it make sense...

[@lovelyaqua6491]

Because entertainment and fucking are two different things

[@petalsjones]

@@lovelyaqua6491 Girl please. Many strippers and pole dancers want that "side" money. Don't put yourself out there as "come and get it" and then act so surprised and innocent when they try to come and get it. This isn't Broadway.

[@lovelyaqua6491]

@@petalsjones if SOME want that side money then that’s on them. U can’t go around assuming everybody is on that type of time that’s how u end up with charges. Most make it pretty obvious if they fuckin or not. U don’t get to out right disrespect people because of there occupation..there are boundaries for any job if someone says they don’t do that u don’t get more disrespect and push the issue sweets.

[@DayanaLashaee]

@@lovelyaqua6491 thank you!! Some people don’t get it obviously.. dancing is just that and that’s all . Not every dancer prostitutes .

[@CliffandEarny]

Big facts

[@JB-sl8tp]

What I want to know is whether or not these flew from Philly to Chicago to argue over $375? Weren’t the tickets 🎫 cost more than that?

[@MrChandlerjm]

Judge Mathis know that if his daughters were strippers, he wold have a fit. I don’t understand how you going on a five minute rant advocating for that lifestyle. But your life, your choice.

[@BeeetchImStacia]

So?? That don’t mean he can’t still have respect for the hustle. Some parents don’t want their kids to play football, doesn’t mean they don’t like or watch the sport..

[@MrChandlerjm]

@@BeeetchImStacia football and stripping are not in the same category to be compared. He can talk about it if he want, but for five minutes? One minute, ok. That’s pushing a Cardi B agenda. Not every woman is as fortunate to escape that life and make a great living and get married. Also, look how he jumped up when the plaintiff hypothetically mention his granddaughter in a scenario? He almost jumped down his throat.

[@YoungHaveNot]

Facts lmao

[@YoungHaveNot]

@@BeeetchImStacia don't do that sport. Sports vs popping pu55y in front of low value men?

[@Lovely_1One]

@@MrChandlerjm I TOTALLY agree with you!! He gets so cringey all the time to the point of all you hear is crickets! Like HUSH Mathis!! 🤫🤣

[@christelm1695]

He said "i dont talk to the help" 😂😂😂

[@psychicladyg9415]

He was angry, but he could have kept that to himself.

[@Proverbspsalms]

😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I don’t think he meant it that way

[@mrttamara]

Homeboy thought he was going to get a couple of happy endings for the price. That’s why they left, the tips were cheap too.

[@derekleeporter3570]

Nope. They left early and came late .had a great time with the free trip

[@jesuisvanessawilkerson7011]

Why didn't Judge ask her to show proof that she informed plaintiff of her girls complaints...? Seems like Judge was biased from the start... weird.

[@imanibmusic]

That’s right. Stand up for your girls!!

[@karendorsey4780]

It’s exotic dancers who are going to medical school, law school have businesses ! They are professional women! Entrepreneurs! Don’t judge a book by its cover! You never know someone’s journey if you don’t ask ! Thanks Judge Mathis for always being opened minded and fair!

[@andrejohnson1703]

Yeah okay, that stripping 'BS' will catch up with them in the professional world, kid yourselves..

[@sfactor7]

The majority of strippers are not going to law school and medical school. Some might, but for the rest its about the fast money.

[@Mr.Oct___]

lol....foh

[@peacefaith560]

some strippers have been robbed , raped , cut or strung out on drugs...its not glamous nor professional

[@tatianadaniel3569]

I hate that if we don't support adult entertainment, we're called horrible people.

[@lexielexie8819]

Exactly all these angry strippers in the comments. If you’re gonna put naked body parts out for anybody to see you welcome perverts and men who wanna f***

[@silverfox5030]

Um you have to have self respect to be respected woman lol

[@lexielexie8819]

Exactly

[@victoriamiller7738]

“The millennials don’t know my background” I’m 29 and amongst the youngest of millennials (cut off is about 26-27). We all grew up on judge Mathis. What is he talking about? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Being from Philly, I’m familiar with Big Show entertainment but thought they only did male strippers (off topic I know lol).

[@giveback]

Millennials are born between 1981-1996 cut off is 26-27??? how? 🤔. Cut off is 40 yrs old.

[@tgordon8136]

@@giveback She uses the younger cut off to demonstrate how old millennials are. People seem to think that millennials are older teens ,younger 20-something. So in a word she's saying even the youngest millennials are grown grown.

[@giveback]

@@tgordon8136 Oh ok right as she did say the youngest opps. 🤦

[@tgordon8136]

@@giveback lol...we've all been there

[@FER-is7ft]

Entertaining men with no clothes on...while living under Patriarchy ISN'T progressive. I don't care how folks try to spin it. Let's address the real issue of poverty which forces girl/women with little choice into this industry. Offer these same "aspiring " girls other dignified opportunities with similar pay...& watch how quickly they jump ship to get out of the stripper life.

[@lennellwaltonboxer]

I think that’s the point and that definitely the point of the show he was talking about. They are smart girls forced to use that as a stepping stone because they can’t afford school or to start a business and they can’t get loans.

[@torenee745]

Uhm.. Pell grants exist. Especially for low income. So I don’t wanna hear the cant afford school spill. And I stripped in school..

[@andreab2122]

Thought this dude looked familiar. We were on the same choir back in the 90's. He swore he was the ish back then too. "I don't speak to the help" bye Derek 🙄

[@MegaDede1212]

Sir with all due respect you only did 9 months 😆 you were not a hardened criminal

[@juantubey]

Y’all coming for the judge. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@virtuoussoulhealer3644]

In his day that was a terrible thing. But because this generation has become desensitized to the most heinous of crime what he give as a jewel is dismissed. The principle is you can turn your life around after a mistake.

[@melmel3703]

Right! I knew he was gonna throw his misdemeanor past in the mix.

[@moniquespight8667]

Yes I'm like Judge Mathis want to be known as the GODFATHER or something..I know he say he "BRAG" for a learning example..But he be "BOASTING" too much..I be wanting to say JUDGE we know you the BIGGEST GANGSTA OUTTA DETROIT...Can we hear the case he do more talking than the Plaintiff s and Defendant's..And you can definitely tell when he likes a woman...BUT ITS ALL GOOD IM STILL WATCHING..🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@hawihawi9260]

That's his selling point, his brand is based on the zero to hero narrative. He will be upset if u come for it lol

[@fatimaalsaffar8360]

I’m not sure I understand! Is the judge actually encouraging stripping and he thinks it is ok?! And how would a woman except to receive any kind of respect or sympathy if she is not giving that to herself by stripping! So confused..

[@williamlove3087]

I’m deeply suspicious about anyone that flatters with their mouth. Even the Bible tells us not to deal with individuals who are involved with flattery.

[@anisezettecarey2448]

I Hope She Never Deals With Him Again..

[@larhondalivelife]

He’s the reason why I don’t like ppl lol just dramatic and extra. Clown comedian. I can see it.

[@charnellb9157]

Judge Mathis rules with emotions sometimes. They don't have to pay them at all. 500.00 was the pay. They were late and on the phone. If your there to do a job you should not be on the phone period. I think they were mad the tips was low. You pay for 2 hrs and get 30 minutes hell know. Judge Mathis didn't have any evidence from her either. If they were texting you were are their texts.

[@PrePre_]

And they didn't get $500. When your getting dancers, you do have to tip them. They are not dancing for free. You think when you go to a strip club and want a lap dance they're going to do that for free?

[@charnellb9157]

@@PrePre_ It's implied to tip I get it but if it's not in the contract you don't have to. When you go to a strip club or club you pay to get in. You don't have to do anything else after that.

[@PrePre_]

@@charnellb9157 Which is true, I agree. But don't get salty when the women don't want to dance. It may not be in the contract, but everyone knows it's an understanding that you tip.

[@true90skid]

Nah it's called culture. In that form of business its understood that dancers will be tipped. If u ain't tipping then why would they dance for u? It's simply understood.

[@charnellb9157]

If your paid to be there 2 hrs 30 minutes is not 2 hrs period. I feel it's their manager fault to not put it in the contract including tips.It may be understood but you know how you make sure your girls get tipped put it in the contract. Also they did get tipped they just didn't like what they got.

[@taykoolie]

She was way more professional than him

[@royalblue3318]

Judge Mathis always have a story for every sentence. I think it’s time for him to retire🤦‍♀️

[@BrownBamaGirl8]

She told him off in the end. He doesn't respect women. He had a snyde, slick, smirk on his face. When JM was saying all strippers are not bottom of the barrel. Some have goals and other endeavors.

[@rubyjae6932]

The judge believed her but she had no evidence either. She wasn’t there, she didn’t present any texts or phone call records of that day showing her dancers contacted her either.

[@SS-fw9oh]

Ok, first off, I don’t know about anyone else, but no offense, I’m getting tired of the old judge wasting air time talking about himself again!! Then he’s shocked when some people don’t know his story (I would be shocked too as many times as he’s put it out there)! Okay, enough already. Yes we are all impressed that you were street guy turned judge -youngest judge in Detroit! Congrats sir! Can u give it a rest now please?

[@actualfactual1882]

Thanks for saying that....sooo tired of judge always bringing it up then we ppl try to bypass it he over talks em to get his story out. Shit getting old is RIGHT!!

[@shayshay3424]

Judge Mathis is an example.People can change they life💪🏽into the right direction✅

[@Fleefromsin]

No Christian will get away with telling God that no one is perfect as an excuse for willful sin. Sin always opens the door to spiritual bondage. Repentance from the heart begins the process of deliverance.

[@lovell123456789]

Sin ultimately involves what one believes in.

[@deputy5818]

Where are the dancers as witnesses? Why not bring them? Where are the witness affidavits from the dancers? I see all the comments but I tend to believe him. I like the judge but I see him take sides without critical information too often.

[@ashleylawrence7406]

Exactly!

[@mykaraokechannel347]

You could tell he was very disrespectful to those women based on his condescending "I don't talk to the help" comment in the court room.

[@sharonsmalls6846]

He's right I don't speak to the help I speak to management. When a problem happened in the hemodialysis clinic where I was a facility administrator, and you wanted it solved discussing it with the technicians didn't change anything. The patients knew better. If you cater an affair and there's a problem speaking to the wait staff or cooks changes nothing, you need management. He is correct.

[@streetsofgold4310]

He worded it wrong, and it came off as insulting.

[@GetIntoTheBLACK]

@@streetsofgold4310 he worded exactly how he meant it. He didn’t respect those women

[@yungnicc213]

@@GetIntoTheBLACK y would they when they blatantly disrespected him 3 times by being late on the phone and not being who he ordered

[@denisebennett6167]

I feel like Judge Mathis was wrong… The entire case on both sides was …,he said she said.. the whole case should’ve been dismissed, and judge Mathis shouldn’t have been so much on the lady side, I’m sure her women would tell lies as well, and Im sure they did leave early to get to another party to make more money..

[@mr.vibes938]

Right

[@surrender21]

Didn’t the Judge say she has witness statements? I know the judge reads them before the case

[@giveback]

She said "stupid strippers" 😂😂😂😂

[@ssmith2023]

This is where society has gone to everyone upholding an unhonorable occupation. Judge Mathis sounded as if he was describing a teacher.

[@sabrinadoctor9653]

Judge Mathis, Always keeps it 💯

[@Proverbspsalms]

No he doesn’t

[@ladyj5682]

To try to protray an exotic dancer as a respectable career or stripper is disrespectful. Judge Mathis a bet your wife won’t let u go! We need to give our girls other ways to get ahead versus using their bodies in a disrespectful manner

[@justm7097]

He don't talk to the help but he would f*** the help... LOL

[@ebrooster]

Whoooaa Chile, "I don't talk to the help" Aren't they helping yo ahh? The audacity

[@dro1101]

No they not helping him. They got paid to be there.So do your job

[@johnnythao]

I was totally on the Defendants side the whole time. A very good friend of mine a long time ago hired male entertainers serve drinks and perform routine dances at her event, but little did she know that her guests, the female ones, were talking beyond flirting with the men, causing them to opt out of the event hours before it was over, because they were uncomfortable with the guests. The Club didn't even bother to fight with my friend over payment, the owner just told her she can have it back and told her that her guests were "a bunch of b****es" for thinking that it was okay to grab the guys in their privates and lick their bodies without warning.

[@riquitataylor866]

Unpopular Opinion: This was a biased ruling- The defendant literally said that her girls were late, and then went on to talk about going 5-6 parties a weekend, but the Plaintiff was lying about them possibly leaving for another gig⁉️ JM just wanted some “hood points” for taking up for the dancers. You see his real feelings when he thought the Plaintiff was about to talk about strippers and his granddaughter in the same scenario. Stop with the foolery already. 😒

[@dennissmith7214]

Well at least you can see through his bullshit, these girls showed up late and when there were no ballers there they got on their phones and bounced……….he’s the only one that had evidence and all she had was hearsay, JM makes up his rulings who’s gonna win based on who he likes and who he talk to about his old ass good stories! 🤦🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

[@dennissmith7214]

Well at least you can see through his bullshit, these girls showed up late and when there were no ballers there they got on their phones and bounced……….he’s the only one that had evidence and all she had was hearsay, JM makes up his rulings who’s gonna win based on who he likes and who he talk to about his old ass good stories! 🤦🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

[@CliffandEarny]

Facts!

[@bryanjohnson8982]

Neither of them had evidence of anything. JM just sided with the woman as usual

[@Syik2020]

They were trying to pay in Bitcoin 😂

[@delonjuan]

How come judge let defendant start explaining case instead of plaintiffs

[@QueenKongCOB]

Where was the " We're uncomfortable" text at, I must have missed it 👀

[@Bray_Jay]

He enjoyed that hearsay, so much, to the point he didn't care to do his job as judge, to cross-reference her evidence.

[@gabrielar9611]

That’s what I said, he just believed her with no proof

[@filsonwebber1253]

He looks so animated am I the only one who feels that way

[@premesu4090]

Honestly she's talking about the tips but the girls came late were on the phone, left early and wasnt even the same girls pictured. You go to a restaurant if your waiter is late with food or drinks and on there phone are you gonna tip well? I feel like they wanted more money and knew the next party would be better. She said it was the same girls pictured they just changed there hair, and as soon as he said the girl told him they weren't the same she got quiet, so she was already lying.

[@GetIntoTheBLACK]

Well he literally stated he didn’t care if the girls weren’t the same. His exact words “they told me they weren’t the same but I was okay with that” can’t agree to the change then get upset later. He had no proof they were on the phone texting the lady stated they were on the phone looking for music which is likely. Strippers tend to control their own music when people Its a private party because even at the strip club they choose their own music but theirs a dJ at private parties they act as their own dJ. Also the judge awarded him money for them showing up late. As for them leaving early when you book strippers the tipping is a major part of it. Strippers will stay later if you’re actually tipping seems like they weren’t tipping was touching money that hit the floor which is a big no no and then was being rude and disrespectful. Strippers are not required to stay the whole time if you’re providing an unsafe environment. I think the issue is most of you think you can have a private party and treat strippers like you do when yaw go to the strip club. Barely giving and money because you don’t have it. Difference is at the strip clubs there’s usually another guy who balances out the brokees.

[@Mooe-cb6bv]

So the wrong girls can show up, stay on their phones, show up late, and then leave early, cmon really

[@jerryde2861]

The Dancers should be tipped if their dancing is worth a tip. Tipping gives incentive for a good performance. Doesn't matter if they also write books or are good at other things. Dancing was what was expected and I believe his evidence was more persuasive than her giving absolutely no evidence.

[@actualfactual1882]

Oo that's a whole fact....guess they should be tipped for showing their body foh.....theses strippers got the game twisted

[@lexielexie8819]

Exactly standing there being mannequin

[@app1mxh]

I agree!! Poll dancing should be in the Olympics. Gold, Silver, and Bronze medals.

[@NubianP6]

Did he say they wanted little women as strippers because the bachelor was a comedian? So they DID intend to exploit and demean the women based on their size.

[@blok229]

See how the judge was about to pop off when he thought he was speaking of his granddaughter? Who wants thier loved ones to be in the same room with stripers!

[@ejones9924]

I would have been too embarrassed to take this to court. Man code is to just take the loss and move on.

[@thelandballin747]

I like how the Judge kept the pics, and took them when he left.

[@nickynick_]

These millennials don’t know my background- they dont know - 😂 maaaan if you don’t stop !! 😂

[@mickeyjnone3825]

I need Judge Mathis to make up his mind. Either he was in jail for 7 months or 8 months!😂

[@Proverbspsalms]

For stealing that gum and jay walking

[@Blue-ej7rw]

I want to find a reason to have a party to hire this women's entertainers! It looks fun we can all twerk it out together

[@rondaallen7211]

just don't believe you are talking to a master's candidate.

[@peacefaith560]

you can get a stripper a dime a dozen...

[@antwainanderson4812]

Mane the judge on that bs wit this case!!!

[@deshawnmoon35]

Africa and America are two continents. How can someone be two continents?

[@streetsofgold4310]

Right, so true! I always tell people that I'm Black American, not African American!

[@muskegontribune]

Because of the history of Africans being kidnapped and brought to the West and losing their identity, it basically means of African origins, its paying homage to the source. I wonder what name is on your driver's license, I am sure it's not of the same root as your ancestors 500 years ago. Someone may ask, how come you have a slave name or speak a slave language?

[@Bee-dp3st]

🤣🤣🤣

[@sereneamani1713]

@@muskegontribune Of the two people above you, your reply will go over their heads.

[@sereneamani1713]

We are not continents, we are human beings who were born in America (not necessarily by choice) of African ancestors by origin (who did not come here on vacation),

[@Spider-Manfan555]

Thanks so much.

[@AlwaysAlicia2991]

I like the defendant

[@wecountingmoneyoverhere2517]

So did the judge

[@SkylerJuan]

Derrick you're a clown. I do t talk to the help." Great comeback 😂

[@Meechie4]

So let’s get this straight . They showed up late! Was on the phone ! Left early ! And lastly they wasn’t even the right girls .. what a joke . He should’ve easily won this

[@mariebrooks7341]

Exactly. He won. 50 dollars was enough to prove the point. I didn't care for the ex dancer and her story about all the parties they have every weekend. Why would the man lie about hearing the dancer say they would be there in a little while? One of those other parties that they have every weekend. smh Judge Mathis liked getting that story out about Beyond the Pole evidently. At least he gave the plaintiff a judgement. The defendant LOST.

[@seanwright4319]

He came to court for that 😆 🤣 😂