Mattress Mayhem

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Judge Mathis

Judge Mathis

Күн бұрын

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@wesleychasady
@wesleychasady Жыл бұрын
You’ll save yourself a lot of heartache if you believe a man when he says he’s not ready for a relationship especially if you’re pretending to be okay with something you’re not. You’ll only disappointment yourself putting expectations on someone who doesn’t want the same.
@Peachpoc
@Peachpoc Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@kgames1748
@kgames1748 Жыл бұрын
🎯
@mahailiabrown3972
@mahailiabrown3972 Жыл бұрын
And vise versa but definitely do agree
@nbd6213
@nbd6213 Жыл бұрын
Yea idk why women have a habit of doing that. Leading themselves on & falling for “what ifs” instead of seeing things for exactly what it is
@moniquebrown7738
@moniquebrown7738 Жыл бұрын
I always say this! Why even mess with someone who doesn’t want the same as you. You’ll always end up gettin hurt. He’s also the blame, never treat a situation more then what it is.
@yasminesirencooper8543
@yasminesirencooper8543 Жыл бұрын
Ladies please understand that sex and hanging out with you doesn't equate a commitment or love. As woman who grew up with a lot of male cousins, I seen it all. I can't tell y'all how many "friends" my male cousins brought around. These men will bring you around the family, have you watching his kids, even buy you flowers. And at the end of the day you still just something to do. If a man tells you he wants to friends with benefits believe him!
@NKAB4
@NKAB4 11 ай бұрын
Ok sis I know some guy’s that need to understand this cus it’s vice versa…
@Savagesoldier357
@Savagesoldier357 Жыл бұрын
The way the court room became quiet when he thought it was funny to have 2 kids by 2 different females. 😅
@kenziemich
@kenziemich Жыл бұрын
Yeah 😂he thought he was going to get some props 😂
@Orlandoloc83
@Orlandoloc83 Жыл бұрын
Not a crime ? Crime is not paying child support
@beautyiserica1378
@beautyiserica1378 Жыл бұрын
Nervous laughter
@goodwill374
@goodwill374 Жыл бұрын
At 16.
@wadilotus
@wadilotus Жыл бұрын
His awkward childish chuckle at 1:47 killed me 😂
@Kyrah933
@Kyrah933 Жыл бұрын
I’m still stuck on why you introducing your kids to person you was friends with benefits with
@k.tmoney9915
@k.tmoney9915 Жыл бұрын
Needed a babysitter
@islandgirll2650
@islandgirll2650 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! He seems like he lead her on but then when she moved accordingly he had a draw back. However she was wrong! Never let a man tell you that He don’t want you multiple times!
@Jmarie0134
@Jmarie0134 Жыл бұрын
He was saying it but not acting like it that’s why her ass start acting crazy
@wordplay6665
@wordplay6665 Жыл бұрын
User
@MsLady-gb3gy
@MsLady-gb3gy Жыл бұрын
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@Ginaaaa555
@Ginaaaa555 Жыл бұрын
Its giving a thin line between love and hate vibe 😂
@lifeoferinr9383
@lifeoferinr9383 Жыл бұрын
Two things: 1. Maya looks crazy!! 2. It's nice to see a young man take this situation to court instead of stooping to this crazy woman's level.
@FinDom1
@FinDom1 Жыл бұрын
She’s ignorant. I hope she grew out of that.
@kattiethomas4687
@kattiethomas4687 11 ай бұрын
Me too
@fwb1012
@fwb1012 Жыл бұрын
She will be in jail with the next person she dates. She better be careful cause there will be someone that will match her crazy!
@JojosOasis
@JojosOasis Жыл бұрын
19 with 2 kids both 2 years of age by two different GIRLS?? Yeah, not worth it
@phiiphii3048
@phiiphii3048 Жыл бұрын
That should have really solidified wat he was telling her bout not settling down, red flags should have gone up in her head, 2 children that's the same age by 2 DIFFERENT women!!!! She alrdy knew wat was up
@leir2005
@leir2005 Жыл бұрын
Maybe Nick Cannon is his idol
@tonymyers6238
@tonymyers6238 Жыл бұрын
U got that say but nothing about how crazy she is wow.
@vaniahbailey3265
@vaniahbailey3265 Жыл бұрын
Lol...I am ashamed of how toxic I am. Once he said graduated, has a job and is honest about what he wants...!!! I sprinted right pass all those red flags
@undertalea2638
@undertalea2638 Жыл бұрын
​​@vaniahbailey3265 cap this lady is cra cra.
@inukoko2012
@inukoko2012 Жыл бұрын
She’s crazy smh BUT friends w/ benefits don’t do the things they did together. She shouldn’t be around his family nor watching his kids. That’s why she started catching feelings. He needs to cut her off for good.
@TopherGrant
@TopherGrant Жыл бұрын
She needs to go to a psychiatrist. She needs serious meds
@12Messenger
@12Messenger Жыл бұрын
Sex before marriage is sin. The truth Christians dont want to hear. Its in the Bible. This is a prime reason you dont give your body to person thats not spouse (not bf or fiance but wife or husband) because they can just suddenly change and there you go, they've used all your emotions, wasted your time, and used your body for pleasure to themselves. These are the consequences of sin
@mistasofly
@mistasofly Жыл бұрын
You can try to get in good with his family, offer to watch his kids, even have sex him. But if the man is TELLING you he dont want a serious relationship, you're only hurting yourself in the end. No matter WHAT you perceive his other actions to be.
@inukoko2012
@inukoko2012 Жыл бұрын
@@mistasofly I agree however we don’t know what he was saying to her behind closed doors. Also actions speak louder than words so if he really didn’t want a relationship all I’m saying is there should’ve been boundaries but either way she was out of hand and she’s obsessive.
@inukoko2012
@inukoko2012 Жыл бұрын
@@12Messenger I agree! Sexual contact can definitely make emotions fly but however that’s why you shouldn’t share your body w/ppl
@shaunlewis8484
@shaunlewis8484 Жыл бұрын
19 with 2 kids the same age, 2 baby momma’s and criminal record! Girl ruuuunnnnnn!!!!
@corneliusfarrell8673
@corneliusfarrell8673 Жыл бұрын
😅 lol he the main one need to run from her she a ticking time bomb
@sereneamani1713
@sereneamani1713 Жыл бұрын
@@corneliusfarrell8673 You took the words RIGHT OUT OF MY MOUTH
@geo745don
@geo745don Жыл бұрын
Well he did say he's a Certified Welder, So maybe he changed for the better.
@Bih1stOfAll
@Bih1stOfAll Жыл бұрын
Run indeed. I wouldn't want my sister to be with this dusty
@NRansom
@NRansom Жыл бұрын
Why you think she was with him ? Lol
@RaeScribe
@RaeScribe Жыл бұрын
As a young man myself i think/feel these brothers who think/feel they can have sex with a woman without her expecting some type of commitment/loyalty are delusional, spiritually unaware, selfish etc. idc how honest you are about your intentions. it's not right.
@noble604
@noble604 Жыл бұрын
Beautifully stated
@nethericdivine2043
@nethericdivine2043 Жыл бұрын
This!!
@gr8fulone384
@gr8fulone384 6 ай бұрын
i disagree with this. men aren’t the only ones who enter into “situationships” and don’t want to commit and that’s their prerogative. if they’re transparent about it and the other person still deals with them, i don’t see how they’re in the wrong.
@SymoneeLove
@SymoneeLove Жыл бұрын
Ladies! Please don’t agree to friends with benefits or “we just chillin” type relationship if you’re not prepared with what comes with that. He is absolutely going to date other women. When a man tell you he is not committing to you. BELIEVE HIM! He can take you out, you can even meet his family. Etc.. That does not make you his woman. A real man will let it be known what he wants and who he want his forever with.
@Alajuwon
@Alajuwon Жыл бұрын
I with and agree with what you're saying but to be fair a man should never bring a woman around his family if she just a FWB.
@saturnladee110
@saturnladee110 Жыл бұрын
And NEVER, EVER babysit his children. That is his responsibility not yours.
@khard9000
@khard9000 Жыл бұрын
@@Alajuwonif she kool and honest and you see her as a true friend then there is nothing wrong with that. You can actually care about a fwb they are human🤦🏾‍♂️
@dimviesel
@dimviesel Жыл бұрын
If she can’t have him, no one can🤪🥴😵‍💫 Wow😏
@Alajuwon
@Alajuwon Жыл бұрын
@@khard9000 I had a few fwb before I got married. I had an Italian one for two years. And I care about and she cared about me. Her father passed and I tried to be there for her in that moment. She stop me and told me "we don't need to go there, let's stick to our roles",.
@mistasofly
@mistasofly Жыл бұрын
2 things to say ladies: 1.) When a man is telling you he doesn't want a serious commitment believe him! Your sex WILL NOT change his mind! 2.) Stop having these "friends with benefits" situations with dudes and then think thats all it'll be. Us men can have sex without getting emotionally attached, yall cant! Dont do it if you not prepared to get your feelings hurt. And fellas: Leave crazy broads ALONE!
@msvee2455
@msvee2455 Жыл бұрын
Period
@phiiphii3048
@phiiphii3048 Жыл бұрын
👏🏽
@Jmarie0134
@Jmarie0134 Жыл бұрын
*3 don’t think you can change a man’s mind.!
@junkoenoshima2056
@junkoenoshima2056 Жыл бұрын
Some females can just have sex without catching feelings..it is rare though
@mistasofly
@mistasofly Жыл бұрын
​@@junkoenoshima2056 Usually, we call those women prostitutes.
@DJ-vj4vi
@DJ-vj4vi Жыл бұрын
She the type to fight his baby mamas for a relationship even though most of his time and money is spent on his baby mother and kids
@veevee4461
@veevee4461 11 ай бұрын
Yeah and you can tell by the way she walked in the court. She was looking back at the Jury like she was ready to fight them when she walked in.
@kimberlymichelle6297
@kimberlymichelle6297 Жыл бұрын
He was lookin for a babysitter 😂😂😂😂😂
@msvee2455
@msvee2455 Жыл бұрын
Just because a man has you around his children, does not scream commitment..
@Scorpiolyf_91
@Scorpiolyf_91 Жыл бұрын
He wasn't leading her on, told her upfront the situation and still got his stuff destroyed. Instead of asking like a perosn should, she just made up in her head that they were working towards a relationship. Pure nonsense.
@Jmarie0134
@Jmarie0134 Жыл бұрын
Yea well he sure was spending more time with her than a “friend with benefits” he really was using her
@shanzi9009
@shanzi9009 Жыл бұрын
​@Jmarie0134 So she shouldn't have been doing girlfriend duties on a friend with benefits salary
@Jmarie0134
@Jmarie0134 Жыл бұрын
@@shanzi9009 well duh lol 😂
@bp900
@bp900 Жыл бұрын
She thought she was going to change him
@Marc-King777
@Marc-King777 Жыл бұрын
Maybe he wasn't leading her on but having her watch his kids when he knew how she felt about him comes pretty damn close.
@kgames1748
@kgames1748 Жыл бұрын
19 n 20 looking grown af😮
@areacode228
@areacode228 Жыл бұрын
These girls need to STOP acting like every dude that they meet is husband material. Now ya got to pay! He’s not worth it.
@wordplay6665
@wordplay6665 Жыл бұрын
Popping up at the job 😂 girl stop it
@reneerenee5073
@reneerenee5073 Жыл бұрын
I wish we would just learn to leave men alone; when they don’t see the value there .
@pattiamoh1136
@pattiamoh1136 Жыл бұрын
Poor women run
@shanamitchell9326
@shanamitchell9326 Жыл бұрын
Amen, move fwd
@Sunshine134chick
@Sunshine134chick Жыл бұрын
Shawty is crazy and delusional 😂
@saturnladee110
@saturnladee110 Жыл бұрын
The craziest thing she did was watch his children for him. Ain't no way!!!
@RacieRain
@RacieRain Жыл бұрын
She's crazy. She created a relationship all in her mind. Stop sleeping around and the lines won't get blurred.
@MsBizzyRae
@MsBizzyRae Жыл бұрын
Wow!! She is the definition of CRAZY!!
@wendyscantlebury-momoh
@wendyscantlebury-momoh Жыл бұрын
19 with 2 baby mamas...i hate to see him at age 30
@tiasway
@tiasway Жыл бұрын
She is definitely wrong .... He told her he didn't want a serious relationship so that he can have an excuse to do whatever he wanted to do, at the same time keeping her emotionally locked in.
@teegreen3909
@teegreen3909 Жыл бұрын
She has to listen the devil has to warn you before he goes in
@prettybossy510
@prettybossy510 Жыл бұрын
I guess...but he said what he said...she misled herself and did a bunch of over thinking
@RoseArnold40
@RoseArnold40 Жыл бұрын
He told her he didn't want a relationship because he didn't want a relationship 🤷🏿‍♀️SHE felt like staying around. How did you just try to twist it like HE did something wrong 🤷🏿‍♀️ Sounds like You're projecting with your hypothesis on him being honest. That's crazy. Shows how some of us women really hear what we want and make up shit as we go along 🤦🏿‍♀️The man was completely honest with her. What more was HE supposed to do 🤷🏿‍♀️
@tiasway
@tiasway Жыл бұрын
@@prettybossy510 on one hand she did choose on the other hand actions speak louder than words I'm not doing all the relationship stuff with somebody if I don't want a relationship. You don't need to be around my kids you don't need to be around my family none of that especially if you're not a friend
@tiasway
@tiasway Жыл бұрын
@@RoseArnold40 shut up! Actions speak louder than words. Don't do relationship stuff and not expect the other person to feel like there's a relationship. it's very simple
@janeejackson8154
@janeejackson8154 Жыл бұрын
He thought the “ by 2 different mothers” was hilarious and the judge was like 🫤
@bigredd4630
@bigredd4630 Жыл бұрын
insecure, desperate, and crazy don't nun of these words describe her 💀💀💀 I hate seeing common cases like these a man can tell you he don't want you in so many ways move on
@susiesolangesimpson2828
@susiesolangesimpson2828 Жыл бұрын
This is a prime example of how most women (not all) can’t handle a friends with benefits situation. Yes his actions might have said he wanted a relationship to you but don’t assume. We as woman will ignore the major red flags and come up with our own conclusions. That never works out. If you want a relationship, don’t be in a friends with benefits situation.
@teegreen3909
@teegreen3909 Жыл бұрын
If it wLks like a duck it's a Duck They was together
@susiesolangesimpson2828
@susiesolangesimpson2828 Жыл бұрын
@@teegreen3909 no they wasn’t. You’re delusional like her.
@Alajuwon
@Alajuwon Жыл бұрын
Amen.
@sereneamani1713
@sereneamani1713 Жыл бұрын
@@teegreen3909 What does that mean?? I hope not what I think it means. Are you saying they had an exclusive relationship because she thought she heard and saw a duck?
@sereneamani1713
@sereneamani1713 Жыл бұрын
There were no red flags, just straight talk. In this case, she ignored plain English.
@teegreen3909
@teegreen3909 Жыл бұрын
We not in a relationship but we going to do everything that people in a relationship do
@meeksluvspink9047
@meeksluvspink9047 Жыл бұрын
They BOTH in the wrong! He should have NEVER treated her like his woman. A jump off isnt suppose to be around your family, friends and kids. She should have left him alone once he said he didnt want a relationship, knowing she did want a relationship. They young tho, so they have to live life and learn
@geoffreyjoseph514
@geoffreyjoseph514 Жыл бұрын
agreed. i learned this the hard way. i was that plaintiff guy minus the bleach clothes. The girl wasn't that crazy. so i never did the friends with benefits ever again. an older female friend said i led the woman on because we hooked up too often. she said FWB are not to engage in intimacy as often as people in a relationship. she gave me this lecture about communicating too often as well. she said if you tell her your whereabouts and making small talk and hitting several times in a week, then you changing the rules. so after that i said ok no more of this. i don't want to deal with scorned women
@eleanormcgee1507
@eleanormcgee1507 Жыл бұрын
I would think more to , I’m meeting family & kids …FWB don’t do that
@nbd6213
@nbd6213 Жыл бұрын
@@eleanormcgee1507people introduce their friends to their kids and parents all the time wym? 😂 fucking your friend doesn’t automatically equal lovers, especially if y’all both agree it’s gonna just be physical
@DuffLuv56
@DuffLuv56 Жыл бұрын
Nah....He TOLD her what was up.....she thought that 🐱 would change his mind!😌
@estellesery8378
@estellesery8378 Жыл бұрын
I'm not watching a man's kid if I'm not his only woman.
@silethaking279
@silethaking279 Жыл бұрын
@Sunshine-un2tq💯💯👍🏾
@juliusdv6657
@juliusdv6657 Жыл бұрын
Showing up to someone’s job when not asked and without notice is crazy. The only person that has that power AT BEST is someone you’re married to lol. Also, agreeing to watch their kids with no official title? Girl… She’s young so I’ll give her pass. Hopefully she learned a good lesson.
@mistasofly
@mistasofly Жыл бұрын
Stop chalking this kind of reckless behavior up to "being young." All young women dont behave this way. She needs therapy and some accountability NOW! Or she'll be 35 years old still running men away behind irrational behavior.
@juliusdv6657
@juliusdv6657 Жыл бұрын
@@mistasofly I think she got the memo towards the end. I know not all young people behave this way, but I totally understand if a young person would do something like this. Hormones, inexperienced, not having the proper emotional guidance/support. She clearly didn’t have any friends (good friends atleast) or family to check her and tell her to stop acting crazy (unless she was lying to them). Also, young people have love and hip hop and real housewives of Atlanta to show them how to behave when they feel wronged 💁🏽
@Jmarie0134
@Jmarie0134 Жыл бұрын
⁠​⁠​⁠@@mistasoflyNobody said all young women behave that way BUT as a woman that was once young you do go through stuff & learn from it what’s the problem with what she said? You were once young too & I hope you “chalk” up a lot of your bs to being young. It’s life.
@Alajuwon
@Alajuwon Жыл бұрын
Pass my ass. Come on.
@juliusdv6657
@juliusdv6657 Жыл бұрын
@@Alajuwon stop acting perfect and as if you've never did anything dumb or that wish you hadn't done. People make mistakes in life. In this case, no one was physically harmed. If she learned her lesson, I don't see what the issue is; the man sued, and he's getting his money. He made mistakes as well in his life (going to jail), and he came out a changed person so why can't she have her redemption?
@sybilwhite1259
@sybilwhite1259 Жыл бұрын
This woman has issues 😒 if a person tells you up front they don't want to be serious with you other than occasionally having sex with you believe them and keep it moving 💯
@Alajuwon
@Alajuwon Жыл бұрын
Word.
@julieannemichelle
@julieannemichelle Жыл бұрын
That type of personality is very scary. As angry as I’ve been I have never done anything like that before. I just leave. I hope she either gets help or grows out of that behavior.
@nbd6213
@nbd6213 Жыл бұрын
Exactly she has no morals to destroy someone’s property over petty bs. She needs a reality & attitude check.
@CreatorOfBeauty35
@CreatorOfBeauty35 Жыл бұрын
Right, people on both sides (men and women) need to realize that when you go into any kind of relationship that person has the right to not want to deal anymore and that should be ok with you. We need to build up our self-esteem and take some things for what they are.
@wandabellamy6120
@wandabellamy6120 Жыл бұрын
I love Doyle's sense of humor..Mess! 😂 she's giving me that Fatal Attraction Vibes same look 😂 better the bed and not you! 😂😂😂
@Bolobei
@Bolobei Жыл бұрын
Happy Tuesday, I'm here
@undertakerfanz628
@undertakerfanz628 Жыл бұрын
He's Here👍
@ToniaMac
@ToniaMac Жыл бұрын
Happy Tuesday☺️
@ddavis8988
@ddavis8988 Жыл бұрын
Be careful who you bring around you. That look he daw at his job was his warning.
@juliusdv6657
@juliusdv6657 Жыл бұрын
The look?? How about showing up??
@jennevamadison3803
@jennevamadison3803 Жыл бұрын
Hopefully they BOTH learned a lesson.
@kgames1748
@kgames1748 Жыл бұрын
Young or old You can't make anyone love you
@nursegeekful
@nursegeekful Жыл бұрын
I hope this young man do good for yourself he seemed like he got his head all right the honesty is amazing 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
@argentinacange-sanon444
@argentinacange-sanon444 Жыл бұрын
I thank my parents every day for my upbringing! They we’re CRAZY yes!!!! But I heeded their warnings and it definitely served as a protection me!! Friends dont have sex with each other! If we are just friends then we’re just friends. You are now my girl! We will shop together, be my wing man, give dating advice, fashion advice, share recipes, etc. You will become the gay bestie!
@1eaglefan960
@1eaglefan960 Жыл бұрын
Why does the plaintiff have a high-pitch voice? Like a woman?
@S333G
@S333G 10 ай бұрын
She doesn't need to be in a relationship right now.
@virtuoussoulhealer3644
@virtuoussoulhealer3644 Жыл бұрын
I can't have sex without catching feels... So I don't mess🤷🏾‍♀️
@dawnbriscoe6898
@dawnbriscoe6898 Жыл бұрын
Me either
@Alajuwon
@Alajuwon Жыл бұрын
You cant?
@frankrice9520
@frankrice9520 Жыл бұрын
Slide me them digits 😋
@kenosmith6453
@kenosmith6453 Жыл бұрын
She's crazy 🤣🤣
@tabmajor27
@tabmajor27 11 ай бұрын
Wow if she act like that at 20 over a 19 year old. I hate to see how she acts now. How she gone act when a man says he loves her and cheats.
@ElderSlimm
@ElderSlimm Жыл бұрын
Even though dude put out that he didn't want a relationship I still blame him overall. He had two other women he could have been smashing
@Jmarie0134
@Jmarie0134 Жыл бұрын
He definitely was spending too much time with her
@Crystal-Love
@Crystal-Love Жыл бұрын
I agree, he was probably spending with night with her as well.
@chaquitajohnson-qq8tu
@chaquitajohnson-qq8tu Жыл бұрын
She was real crazy😳 he made it clear to her that they were nothing but friends with benefits🤷🏽‍♀️ it was her choice to continue a romantic relationship with him. She assumed they were in a serious relationship. It was also her choice to babysit his children smh. This young man has 2 children with 2 different women at the age of 19. That should have been a red flag, but she ignored it.
@tjneverdefeated4394
@tjneverdefeated4394 Жыл бұрын
Idc what his “actions” say. A man will treat you like y’all together while continuing to tell you you’re not. Don’t get caught up in the treatment. Believe his words. If he says he doesn’t want a relationship go the other way if you want one. He will do whatever is allowed and still stick to not wanting you.
@maesams6212
@maesams6212 Жыл бұрын
Awwwwww, cmon lady!!! U need to be stronger than that!!! Dont succumb to this type of behavior for a man who doesn't want u.
@karensmith6815
@karensmith6815 Жыл бұрын
She wanted a man so bad 😩😩😭
@Darkjedi
@Darkjedi Жыл бұрын
Why did he laugh when he had two kids by to different girls like that's some cute fashionable sht to do that bs
@amberhi874
@amberhi874 Жыл бұрын
Heal the father wounds sis and find a counselor... PS.... If it's not a mutual decision to be together, then you're not together
@moreycleveland2472
@moreycleveland2472 7 ай бұрын
WOMEN HAVE THAT ADVANTAGE OF BEING ABLE TO USE HER 4 AMT LOCATION ON HER BODY AS A WEAPON/ADVANTAGE IN COURT AGAINST A MAN NO CAPPING
@mistasofly
@mistasofly Жыл бұрын
Why was she having sex with this guy anyway? She has no kids and this dude already has 2 kids by 2 women at only 19! Was she trying to be baby momma number 3? She really is crazy, she should be thanking her lucky stars she got out of that situation without getting knocked up.
@leahvance2806
@leahvance2806 Жыл бұрын
Insecurity will have you reaching for anyone, anything. Self-love comes first.
@theunit4366
@theunit4366 Жыл бұрын
This case sums up how most women “feel” their emotions are facts. In other words they are crazy. Now flip it around and have men “feel” they are owed something and just because they believe it. See how scary that is and that’s the issue with dating.
@howling_comet4994
@howling_comet4994 Жыл бұрын
Wait wait wait, so a girl you were friends with benefits was worthy enough to meet your kids??😂
@nbd6213
@nbd6213 Жыл бұрын
She was the babysitter 😂 that’s all
@BeauteefulGyrl83
@BeauteefulGyrl83 Жыл бұрын
Definitely the makings of a “Snapped” episode. Let this be a cautionary tale to men and women. Don’t lay with anyone you don’t want anything with, and definitely understand that when someone says what they “don’t” want believe it. People get so stuck on actions. A person will give you what you want simply to get what they want. Quid Pro Quo. It ain’t rocket science. Aside from that at 19, you’ll become multiple “people” before you truly find yourself. Me at 19 and me at 40 are worlds apart!
@fabioedwards241
@fabioedwards241 8 ай бұрын
Shes gonna do that to the wrong man
@royaltouchaccessories22
@royaltouchaccessories22 Жыл бұрын
So wait 2 baby mommas two kids the same age 🤔 and he didn’t get chewed out? Men need to start being held accountable. Women are not toys or something to do on your spare time.
@pattiamoh1136
@pattiamoh1136 Жыл бұрын
She is young
@SAHMshorts
@SAHMshorts Жыл бұрын
I love how he thinks it’s funny to have 2 kids 2 baby mamas at the same time. SMH 🤦🏾‍♀️
@nickiberryave
@nickiberryave 11 ай бұрын
😮he lucky he didn't get some girls to beat her up. And she's delusional. If he said he doesn't want to be in a relationship exclusively believe him. She's a bozo
@hellochely687
@hellochely687 Жыл бұрын
2 babies and an assault charge resulting in jail at 16?! He needed to keep his hands to himself, in all forms …smh
@tjneverdefeated4394
@tjneverdefeated4394 Жыл бұрын
Nobody found him having two babies by two women at the same time funny but him. 🙄🙄🙄.
@lavidaloca2344
@lavidaloca2344 Жыл бұрын
He was using her to watch his kids and in court trying to act like he bestowed an honor to her 🙄🙄🤦🏽‍♀️
@slantblant1
@slantblant1 Жыл бұрын
She should've asked the right questions. You can't assume, expect, or hope...you need to KNOW and you find out by asking necessary questions. You should've said " Well I'm watching your kids, for me a FWB doesn't do that, that's relationship behavior. Imma have to pullback until we can have a real commitment." There are some people who naturally have a meeting of the minds without needing to verbalize it, but not everyone. You gotta know who you're dealing with.
@veronicaforever01
@veronicaforever01 Жыл бұрын
He should have never bought her around his kids. He’s sending mixed signals. She shouldn’t have accepted being friends with benefits.
@jplaya2023
@jplaya2023 Жыл бұрын
Let this be a valuable lesson to you drew. Theres a reason your brother Chris eventually left tasha alone. You needed to learn from him. Cant believe you had Tanya let her in your home and she tore your things up. She's lucky Rochelle wasn't there or she would"ve slapped the DNA out of her body or Mr Julius because he would have sued her for everything!! That's $500 in destroyed Xbox $400 in destroyed Xbox games &;Accessories. $1000 in destroyed mattress $700 in destroyed bed frame $75 In destroyed door hinge $500 for a new door $4 worth of candles And 2.37 cent of Bleach used to cause all this destruction. Tragic!
@nettricegaskins1871
@nettricegaskins1871 Жыл бұрын
Years ago I dated a guy and told him up front that I did not want to settle down with him. He threatened me once on a voicemail and I took him to court the next day. Eventually, I filed a permanent restraining order on him. Months after that he was sent to prison for doing something worse to another woman. I did not play around with that threat. When someone shows you who they are BELIEVE THEM.
@BoogieDown-q5f
@BoogieDown-q5f 10 ай бұрын
He should of put her in jail. She needs that traumatic experience to make her think reasonable when she gets upset!!!!
@tannyshayearby8698
@tannyshayearby8698 Жыл бұрын
If a man doesn't want a relationship, he should keep it really light. He should not try to take advantage of all the benefits of having a girlfriend without the accountability and the responsibility. This man used her for all of the relationship benefits. That is not acceptable and that is dishonest.
@shanamitchell9326
@shanamitchell9326 Жыл бұрын
Misleading her and taking advantage of her just because you can😮
@chrisb2844
@chrisb2844 Жыл бұрын
I am so happy to be single after hearing this.
@KayB-l5h
@KayB-l5h Жыл бұрын
She just messed herself up for any serious relationship. No real man wants to deal with any thing like that. She refuses to take no for an answer. She needs to get some self esteem. Very desperate delusional and dumb.
@TheWoo67
@TheWoo67 Жыл бұрын
Pound town😂 he toke her down. Now look at her
@blackpowerpuff6155
@blackpowerpuff6155 Жыл бұрын
He isn't worth all that.
@marilynmiller9730
@marilynmiller9730 Жыл бұрын
She needs to find something to do with her life. Is she is school or a career?.And he's no prize possession....two kids by two different baby 👶 mamas is a strong hint plus he told her. Fatal Attraction! Waiting to exhale!
@shanzi9009
@shanzi9009 Жыл бұрын
He found mess alright. That woman looks crazy right now
@Moneyman1988
@Moneyman1988 Жыл бұрын
Young lady's love yourself
@kimberlywilson7453
@kimberlywilson7453 Жыл бұрын
Sweetie you felt and thought. You caught feelings. You can meet family and still be a booty call.
@Dee-cu8yr
@Dee-cu8yr Жыл бұрын
Until he commits Continue to date others Don’t get attached
@rmd4138
@rmd4138 Жыл бұрын
If he was just messing around, then a mess was just what he got.😂
@ThePrettyProfessor
@ThePrettyProfessor Жыл бұрын
She’s unhinged. I’m glad he wasn’t serious with her.
@phaldaz
@phaldaz Жыл бұрын
She 20, he 19.... I legit thought they were around 27ish. Damn
@MaryjaneLove
@MaryjaneLove Жыл бұрын
--- &&& she definitely went to his job . . Ladies we can't be popping up at theses men jobs despite the fact if he treated you wrong because uu don't want nobody coming up to your job starting mess .. 😢🤷💯
@UnFamess
@UnFamess Жыл бұрын
Instead of getting your sh!t and going on somewhere, you gotta pay him $3k 💀💀
@geminlove24
@geminlove24 Жыл бұрын
I was just listening to the audio and I thought he was a girl... 😬
@chaseabageav6511
@chaseabageav6511 Жыл бұрын
Why they look like brother and sister
@sherrillbutler6095
@sherrillbutler6095 Жыл бұрын
She wasn’t being honest , when she said he told her not to worry about the money at the moment 😮
@angelxigh
@angelxigh Жыл бұрын
I never heard so many men have the softest, highest pitch of voice. Thought a woman was suing at first
@moneka1030
@moneka1030 Жыл бұрын
Was not expecting that voice 🥴
@12tyecha
@12tyecha Жыл бұрын
He needs to get a restraining order ASAP
@koychao9512
@koychao9512 Жыл бұрын
All he needed to say he needed a babysitter lol
@ronaldmcallister3355
@ronaldmcallister3355 Жыл бұрын
This sounds like fatal attraction
@FeliciaMullins
@FeliciaMullins Жыл бұрын
Well he said what he said…..js
@trishondac
@trishondac Жыл бұрын
Friends with benefits but you let this person watch your kids alone? I understood he told her straight up what it was but people be wanting the benefit of companionship without the work. Always a dumb women to keep men the cycle going
@schemikaspears8184
@schemikaspears8184 Жыл бұрын
That heffa is crazy… hell She looks crazy!
@mrfiness
@mrfiness Жыл бұрын
This women sound like a damn fool!! Salute to this young brother, choose wisely people
@sabrinamitchell2974
@sabrinamitchell2974 Жыл бұрын
She Needs To Get A Reality CHECK ASAP, if he tells you he's friends with Benefits except it. Both parties are to young to be in a committed relationship. GROW UP FIRST. She was in her feelings.
@undertakerfanz628
@undertakerfanz628 Жыл бұрын
I like the defendant 😍😍😍 Gorgeous
@juniorstarks7494
@juniorstarks7494 Жыл бұрын
Nah fam, she ain’t it
@modernretroradio993
@modernretroradio993 Жыл бұрын
Your co-workers might think she's gorgeous, too, when she shows up at your job ... to make sure you're there. Play on, playa'.
@mistasofly
@mistasofly Жыл бұрын
Thirsty dudes like you are the reason these types of women get to run amok. No matter how crazy they show themselves to be its always men lining up to be their next victim, just because they "look good." Keep playing with these chicks you'll be the next one in court, or worse.
@QS0924
@QS0924 Жыл бұрын
That body kinda weird.
@undertakerfanz628
@undertakerfanz628 Жыл бұрын
@@QS0924 like the young people say that's a fact 😁
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