Daughter Dropout | Judge Mathis

[@packshow126]

Ma'am you 1000% care about that truck😂

[@kingdee7434]

Exactly mother neglecting her daughter and then blame her daughter when you showed her everything she do you didn't teach her to be a young lady

[@kimf442]

Right!!

[@smoothlyabrasive9805]

Or a good student to study as you grow.

[@abrianaiverson8427]

Soo the mom stopped going to therapy when they told her she was the problem. Wow. I hope her children can prosper despite her parenting and apparent lack of accountability

[@anthonycox2445]

Judge Mathis either missed that part or didn't care enough to call her out on it😅

[@crissyc8260]

They both need therapy.

[@ak24553]

And some form of education. Her mom tried to embarrass her daughter by telling us she failed the GED test.

[@breeziem4988]

Not even three minutes in and I can tell who the problem is the mom wants to come across as angel and the best parent and just talking about everything wrong with her daughter

[@Victoria-y9y]

Mom look at urself kids don't forget what neglect they lived😢

[@kimf442]

Right!! 😢

[@briasworld8]

Exactly. I know firsthand.

[@lillianwilliams5510]

Mother is off herself. Surely she wouldn't expect her daughter to be the same at 17 as she was at 5 The mother didn't really try to help her daughter.

[@user-ne2df1ro5c]

I was just about to say that lol.

[@itscollysworld1389]

Lmao right a KINDERGARTEN PICTURE lady be fr

[@msarmstrong410]

I hate that I always come to the comment section prior to watching the cases, but y'all be funny asf! LMAO!

[@reeshanay6164]

Lhh this is me too 😂

[@kimf442]

😂😂😂

[@StephenowIII]

Me toooo😂

[@kingdee7434]

The proof is in the pudding this lady is a bad mother I don't care what nobody say your daughter don't just say you choose men over your kids and judge Mathis just dismissed it when that's a huge reason for the problems

[@zinziwilliams105]

I agree

[@MrLenroc82]

What???? That girl got you fooled......she a liar and a fabricator of stories. 25 in a 35 mph zone and slid out......that lie right there is sign of how she lies

[@zinziwilliams105]

@@MrLenroc82 she learned to lie from her mother lol

[@ramsesstafford4640]

Right the mother was probably 15 - 17 when she had her and probably hasn't matured much since then.

[@MrLenroc82]

@@zinziwilliams105 she could have the father's traits......

[@calmingmeadows5153]

I understand JM loves his mother but geez, why can't he admit that every mom isn't a good mom?! Every mother isn't his mother. Every mother isn't good just because they're not on drugs or physically beating their child.

[@zinziwilliams105]

I’m surprised he didn’t go deeper into that because there are plenty of cases where he does. I’ve seen him yelling and screaming at moms before.

[@blackspider1405]

Amen..

[@Toriab]

He loves making these cases about him. He takes his trauma out ok everybody else

[@TalkswithMellow]

This!

[@karendorsey4780]

The plaintiff failed the defendant. As a parent, you fight for your child. Education is a must. Regardless of the defendant did not want to do, she needed her education.

[@thebfacebetty8212]

YEP!!

[@JaNaeSmith-vk7uk]

Yes

[@MsJoviNow]

That mother is a scoundrel

[@Fluffyy808]

The mom need tutoring too😂😂jk

[@tamarahurt4676]

You not playing😂😂😂😂

[@Kee191]

No fr, lol she said she want to be a tographer. 😅

[@kishay1979]

The daughter didn't know how express herself...she doesn't have a problem with authority. JM needs to stop it.

[@Toriab]

Exactly. Because how can you tell she have anger issues when she hasn’t even did anything. She wasn’t disrespectful at all

[@Criminal.Lawyer.2024]

The mother never refuted the claim that she put her children up for adoption. Often times when children feel unwanted and/or neglected, they start acting out to get their parent's attention. Mathis did right be offering the daughter educational assistance, but he also should've offered the mother some counseling.

[@cynthiaadeyemi1746]

I think Job Corp or the military may help this young lady.

[@Criminal.Lawyer.2024]

@@cynthiaadeyemi1746 I like your ideas.

[@drelex9845]

I knew exactly what that girl was trying to say of why she had to drop out this mother ain’t slick

[@j.g.3719]

I'm glad Judge Mathis offered to help the defendant because without an education, she won't go anywhere smh.

[@MateriyaDavis]

Not necessarily. I have a college degreee and my brother who dropped out of high school started a business. His annual salary is more than mine and I'm a senior operations manager. Just depends on the will power and ambition

[@j.g.3719]

@MateriyaDavis He still had to educate himself in something to have a successful business. Also, businesses fail every day, so it's always good to have an education to fall back on. The defendant just having a part-time job with no education or trade is not stable.

[@biancawilliams748]

Bingo especially when she doesn't even have a high education. What job does she really have. ​@j.g.3719

[@tiasway]

She has attitude issues with her mother because she's frustrated because she doesn't feel like she's been treated fairly or raised properly she feels like men have been chosen over her

[@MsJoviNow]

I just passed through something similar with my daughter and it’s important to keep an open mind, go to therapy and work together. We are still working together to help my daughter be successful and deal with her trauma as well as mine. The mother saying she’s not accountable sounds like she’s closed off as well.

[@zinziwilliams105]

She also mentioned that the counselors told her she was a bad mother and I think JM should’ve explored that more. Trained professionals coming to the same conclusion is a huge red flag.

[@kimberlynoel5635]

I don't think she has trouble with attitude I think she is emotionally damaged. She's hurt from since a child. And I believed everything that child said about her mother

[@TROLLzenbergRAW]

Wanting to be a tographer is CRAZY

[@Itsme-m5o]

😂😂😂

[@getbusydrizzy5296]

SHE THE TYPE OF MOTHER WHERE ITS LOVE TO ANY MAN AND HATRED N HARD ON HER CHILDREN....PRETTY OBVIOUS

[@simonsez1787]

No child gets to this place by themselves. The mother probably wanted to sue on principle and to make an example out of taking responsibility. But I also believe everything the daughter says. The mother probably has low emotional intelligence and only knows how to be an enforcer. Likely has to be tough where they live or else the daughter could run over her. But something else was missing early on, be it in gestation or even in the mother’s relationship before the daughter was conceived. Court is where you come to collect, but they need a deeper understanding of why they relate to each other as they do.

[@KayB-l5h]

The defendant owes but I believe everything she said about the plaintiff.

[@msarmstrong410]

English, grammar, spelling, all of that IS IMPORTANT! STOP SETTING Y'ALL KIDS UP FOR FAILURE! Damn, this is embarrassing.

[@QueenAries72]

My sentiments exactly 💯

[@cynthiaadeyemi1746]

I believe the daughter.

[@skeric87]

What the hell is all that background noise sound like somebody scraping boxes across the floor

[@michaelallen4766]

She said she wanted to be a tographer! 🤣🤣

[@ldd2112]

She also said that's when she just graduated from kidney garden and everything

[@LeshaFBaby]

😂😂😂

[@msarmstrong410]

LMAO!

[@msarmstrong410]

@@ldd2112 Yoooo! That kidney garten sh*t, BLOWS MEEE!!!! Ugh!

[@demetriarincon135]

😂😂😂smh

[@_elijamal]

Sound like Geesha should have been on an IEP. Also sound like those family therapist professionals were completely right and the mom has no bearing on being a good parent

[@leeWashington-w9i]

You know what "We had A mother who did thee exact same thing, never been locked up, went to Catholic School 🎒 everyday, we went to foster care for a yr. And ended up in public school in California at the age of 10 thru 13. Me & my sister. My sister was SHOT as we were walking home from school 🎒🎒I saved her life & pulled the bullet out her arm.. So yeah stop 🛑 it with blaming kids for faults if the parents are at at fault

[@marywoods4103]

God blesssled u to know how to save your sister's life

[@leeWashington-w9i]

@@marywoods4103 Thank you, Thank you 🙂‍↕️ for the acknowledgement because our own mother didn't even say that to us,

[@rhemae3157]

Did she tell her daughter to be woman enough to pay for the same truck the mama said don’t worry about?🤔🤔

[@ROSEMOORE35]

I would of tap more into the therapist blaming the mother cause why???

[@antisocialbutterfly16]

I didn’t see the disrespectful attitude that JM saw in the young lady. That young lady seemed/sounded hurt when she was being asked questions. & a little shameful at the fact that she struggled in school and probably just didn’t want to say that so blatantly. I saw right thru the mother’s bs, the mother is the root of the problem. I guarantee all her children feel the same way about her! JM has a way of dismissing behaviors when he wants!

[@themadmillionaire]

I agree! That poor girl had no support, guidance or love and possible trauma preventing her from being able to concentrate and learn. Her mother is MESS

[@blackspider1405]

I didnt either. I dont know what he was looking at.

[@antisocialbutterfly16]

I couldn’t believe he dismissed the therapy part! But this case was/is deeper than JM. But someone needed to hold that mother accountable.

[@Powermoves1080]

Yea JM can really be a clown at times he skipped over a lot of what the daughter was saying like putting them up for adoption

[@chick-fil-agal2264]

Pray it get better mom, I went thru that for a couple years, now since 2022 she has graduated n a becoming a nurse in the navy 💙

[@Lifeislifin]

Well, if my daughter wanted to be a tographer😂😂😂 not a photographer

[@4CQueen]

😅😂😅😂 I'm dead!

[@tracijasper4716]

The daughter made a face when she said and tried not to laugh 😅

[@bethanyyates1138]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@eleanormcgee1507]

Not funny at all

[@Itsme-m5o]

😂😂😂

[@beauti89]

Did he not think that as a CHILD they barely have developed abstract thinking. It’s her MOTHERS responsibility to make sure her child is NOT stressed to the point they cannot even focus on school work. The lady thought she was slick lying out that big ass gapped tooth🙄

[@ChocolateButterfly88]

she swear she dont care about the car, delusional because why are we in court for the car.

[@MamieGlay]

I personally think there was a lot that was left unsaid by the daughter that lady wasn’t a perfect mother No mother would neglect their child’s educational pursuits

[@danadane5497]

The mom is slow and the daughter is an example of her. This is why they don’t get along.

[@nishaammandrea]

“You should be woman enough to pay for it”… smh She’s 19. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Toriab]

That lady don’t really care about them kids. Because if you have another car why drag your daughter to court

[@sybilwhite1259]

This woman is a fast talking so called mom. Why didn't someone say something about attempting to put her and son up for adoption?

[@vw7667]

The mother neglected her & wanted a child to figure it out for themselves - sad! The mother is uneducated herself

[@mrpitts15]

She definitely cares about the truck 😂

[@SxCense]

The mother failed her daughter because she didn't have the tools to set her up for success.

[@nickels8861]

This is sad, please built your children up, don't tear them down.

[@bhornannawindeedeigh5007]

I love judge Mathis! I'm happy he offered that young lady schooling. Good call, JM. Bless you.

[@Powermoves1080]

Should’ve also offered therapy he dismissed a lot of harsh things the mother did towards the daughter. JM can be very bias at times and was a bit hard on that young lady he be having his clown moments.

[@rodericksears638]

Mother said her daughter is independent just like her which is telling me she didn't teach her daughter how to get along with a man and get married.

[@ElderSlimm]

Father not in the home equal chaos

[@Kayvader]

Or can add more caos... Y'all act like a lot of fathers don't cheat, drink, and abuse... Living in the house doesn't automatically make you a good parent... Idk why y'all think that

[@veevee4461]

I think the point was that most times there's more structure in the home when both parents are in the home. Indeed, that may not be the case all of the time, but I think more times than not, that is the case. I think most times, the child gets the short end of the stick when it comes to their upbringing when two parents are not in the home.

[@Kayvader]

@@veevee4461 Jeffery Dahmer had both parents home.... Irrelevant

[@torijones1347]

@@Kayvaderpeople seem to think all the worlds problems would end if only everyone had their dad living in the house. It really would be the opposite

[@eleanormcgee1507]

@@KayvaderOkay 😂😂😝

[@MaryjaneLove]

. -&& where is the father ????

[@KayrinKae]

She gets that attitude from her momma 🤷🏿

[@thomaslake2733]

She wanted to be a tographer when she grow up 😅

[@Jonescarla1738]

You caught that 😂😂😂

[@youmakemelaugh1797]

She wanted to be a tographer???

[@themadmillionaire]

Kinnie garden

[@jacquelinecassidy7672]

I would have said walk to ur friends. I didn’t let my kids do this to me.

[@papalegbasson2447]

Mama was putting extra on 10. I wasn't worried about the car it doesn't matter. Never mind, you're trying to survive on your own with no education. I'm still suing.

[@m.r.3674]

Why do u need a car to go down the block

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

That's what I said, she should have walked down the block

[@mtoney49]

Did the mom say her daughter wanted to be a tographer? What is that? Mom doesn’t even know how to talk. I believe everything the daughter said, she wouldn’t make that up.

[@75afms]

Sounds like the mother wants her daughter to be successful so that it reflects on her as if she was the reason her daughter is successful. I've seen this time and time again. And momma can use some more education as well. I wonder if she graduated 🤔.... Difficulty learning could be hereditary.

[@tephlondandada156]

At 1:10 she wanted to be a what? 🤣🤣🤣

[@babygroot81]

Testesssss😂😂😂

[@neshaarenee7587]

Is JM wheezing?! That’s all I could hear towards the end of the episode…I know it’s an old episode but I was literally doing dishes with my phone up watching and kept having to turn the water off to search where the noise was coming from and it was his wheezing.

[@THEREALJUNEDAWG]

And she still hit her with the attitude at the end 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@moniquemonique4372]

He’s such a horrible judge. She had a bad life as a child and he’s skimming over that and putting her childhood decisions on her rather than looking at why. Such a jerk

[@ellensinclair3994]

JM acts like he knows everybody's life

[@ToysLatinasWrestling]

Geesha fine though

[@carolharris5455]

Some parents are so awful and take not responsibility for them selves

[@cheritakeene7574]

The mama said "don't worry about it" several times, daughter shouldn't have to pay. smh I'm so blessed I don't have a mother that would sue me at 19.

[@phyllissowhat]

JM thinks he’s funny talking about drug dealers but it’s not funny.

[@Raw_HoneyBabes]

Right like why glamorize it🤦🏽‍♀️

[@HellokittyLuv03]

It’s funny to some you don’t speak for everyone

[@HellokittyLuv03]

@@Raw_HoneyBabesHe ain’t glamorizing it. It just is what it is. It’s here to stay.

[@queenuthopia4003]

Then he be so inconsistent with it. Just depends on who is in front of him.

[@Kee191]

Why keep saying you careless about the car but you’re suing her ??

[@Ken-cd5vt]

Immediately i COULD TELL MAMA IS THE PROBLEM

[@user-ne2df1ro5c]

Some times it not that the person has a problem with authority or an attitude towards authority. Sometimes it's being fed up or frustrated with authority because they never believed nor listened and are always accused by authority.

[@cieraalcy7760]

The mom neglecting her daughter because of men I’m not surprised at all normally when kids are growing up doesn’t get the love and attention they need they start acting up 🤷🏽‍♀️‼️

[@rashidax432]

The mom keeps saying she doesn't care about the truck, but keeps hounding her daughter about the truck. It's one way or the other.... you don't care, you let it go! Also, if your daughter was going to make payments, but the truck you don't care about aided in your decision to kick your daughter out after you two made a payment agreement/arrangement...... don't you think her rent and newly acquired cost of living now comes first? Parents don't understand that sometimes( I was working to save up for college, but because I didn't go immediately due to funds, I got bombarded... basically punished with financial responsibilities to contribute to the house, and not small bills either. Couldn't afford school, because I had bills to pay and NO I couldn't get financial aid at the time). Hopefully the daughter will make the payments, and they can move on from this.

[@locafly]

What is a tographer? 😹😹😹😹😹😹😹

[@THAFLIGHT]

LIKE MOTHER LIKE DAUGHTER TYPICAL

[@dspenderella9671]

What parents have to realize is that some children don't respond well when there's neglect, abuse, and trauma from a poor upbringing. He garner wasn't there, so he failed her and her mom chose men, so she failed her too. I hope she gets her GED & invests into a brighter future so she doesn't fail herself the way he parents failed her.

[@chrisedickerson2526]

The planiff kept saying she didn't care bout the truck I'm wondering why the hell she brought her daughter to court. Make it make sense 🤔

[@mahailiabrown3972]

You can tell that the daughter is disrespectful because at the. Very end. When the mother is like I didn't want us to bring it like this. It's just principal and the daughter is like. Wow, why would you bring me in with an attitude on top of that, like sweetie, you didn't just wreck someone's car and did not pay for it. I don't care if you was just a baby or a girl, a old lady, a dog or anything you know, you're responsible, you need to pay it. You need. I'm tired of people, including a lot of females, not being responsible or taking actions of what they did wrong like being told. It's okay. It was just enabling that letting her be like. Oh, it's because you know your actions. You're still young. It's okay, you'll learn. No, that's enabling. I need her to learn today that the stuff that she did wrong is wrong. Pay your mama, Point blank period Yeah I don't like it so what

[@Zen_Nurse]

That daughter still has taken responsibility for HER actions. She may get it together when she actually achieves some necessary life skill as well as an education. She’ll have a better degree of understanding once she becomes a mother, until then she’ll continue to on with her immaturity!

[@StephenowIII]

I know the moma is messy.. but that hair is fire for an old show.. I feel so sorry for both of them. This generational curse needs to be broken. Ppl need to start being apologetic and accountable with the mind set to change.. thats what maturing and growth is.

[@sofantastic35]

The mother is a fast talker. I believe the daughter because all you can say is that she dropped out? Last I checked that’s not a crime.

[@Scorpiolyf_91]

The sound is off in this one...what was the point of showing an elementary school picture. Litigants love saying very unimportant details

[@phoenixjnyc]

The mom was talking about the car after the fact

[@Ms..B]

I hate how he always overlooks the trash parents in these situations, with a mom like that how is she supposed to be a functional adult when she was never taught how to be one.

[@karensmith6815]

I think that young lady will get it together I think I judge did great

[@jimmiebatts4382]

I don't care what Judge Mathis says there's fault on both sides!!!!

[@oliviaanderson6720]

The Mom needs speech classes,and the daughter has alot of pain,and anger, and tried to tell y’all old famous cheating judge that, and he brushed it right off

[@bossibunz8143]

LORD🔨C the “mother” (if you could even call her that) needs to ENUNCIATE!! I’m glad JM offered education to the daughter.

[@TalkswithMellow]

Judge Mathis can be so biased sometimes

[@TM2BOMB]

JM seem like he didn't want to give the daughter a chance all because the mom painted her to be bad. Then he went over what the daughter said about a mom. She doesn't have a high diploma the mom kicked her out and she didn't finish...

[@knightclassic1]

Daddy Issues

[@Toriab]

JM be asking dumb questions sometimes if she is saying her mom barely put food in the house why would you ask “ why do you think she did that”. You can tell be he had his mind made up who side he was on

[@dawnwells4581]

You're a user pay him back do the right thing

[@ericsimmons7716]

MATHIS: WHAT'S YOUR POINT, DAMN IT?! 9:46 ALL THAT THEATRICAL MESS, WHAT'S YOUR POINT?!

[@mahailiabrown3972]

It's funny because a lot of kids are going to be like that. Oh, you pick a man over us when at the end of the day, your parent is allowed to be happy and half the time, it's not even dumb being picked over a man. It's the fact that I don't want your parents to move on to another relationship because yeah, in your heads. What your parents should be your parents and I get that because that's how I was when I was a kid. I thought that my father would pick females over me to find out that he wasn't picking any females over me. I was just emotional and just one of my mom and dad together like it's not like people was running in and out of people's homes or people has 5 girlfriends at 1 time and like oh I was a back burner when he started dating somebody. No, not at all like. It's never really that it's just your kids always seem like it's ya way or no way and I want you to understand. Even the way that wanna be like? Oh, the mom is wrong. She's neglectful. I want you to understand that I don't have to do what y'all want me to do as a parent, but take care of you and make sure that you are loved in that your future is good enough for you to understand how the world works and know that life isn't fair. That is. My job now is if I want to be with somebody. Then that's okay, as long as I still take care of you and see how your daughter is. In this courtroom, it seems like she was being taken care of at the only time. That something happened when she put her child out after she crashed the car. But yeah, I told her about the mama's neglectful. I don't see the mom being like that phone. I see her having a hard time with her child. And her child being a pain like she's supposed to and sometimes having 2 people with strong personalities is really hard work.

[@1cheeseakamulti]

Were is the father see

[@highlander666]

They all have attitudes, the daughter is just being typical 😂 95% chance the plaintiff was a teen mom☝

[@Kerakeraa]

Judge Mathis is so bias when it’s parents vs the children. No matter what he will side the parent Smdh.

[@adrianknight1406]

I'll never understand how anyone can bring their very own children to court. Shameful

[@radonspace2098]

Depends on what the issue is.

[@RiahMunnblock]

🥇

[@naterriebracynebblett4435]

I'm here My Beloved Favorite Judge ***ASHAY ***