Judging *INSANE* r/AITA posts

[@c.rowned6293]

Omg Ooga Booga AND Dylan is in trouble in one week?? We truly are blessed

[@clqudyszn]

@@c.rowned6293 and the fact that he posted on a MONDAY??????????????????

[@c.rowned6293]

@@clqudyszn so crazy, I really think he’s changing for us

[@Literally_a_Squirrel]

​@@clqudyszn that scared me. I hope he's OK.

[@Dima-se4gi]

Dylan is in his primeee

[@c.rowned6293]

@@Literally_a_Squirrel me too

[@Abdul2604_]

The fact that there's now been multiple AITA posts covered by Dylan about new dads being upset at not being able to go on a bros trip says it all. Some people just aren't ready to be parents.

[@katiec-g3793]

Some people are never ready or deserving trust me 😂

[@Project_Worm]

I knew it sounded familiar. Thought it was wild that it'd happen twice so I was wondering if maybe I'd heard it in another one of his videos or one the Smosh team may have done.. but no, unfortunately just another shit dad.

[@jazzyethecrimefighter]

This guy turned it around in the end tho. Hope he keeps it up

[@Shrinksgaze]

I think it's something one grows into - being a parent - and that these men have to learn to put another being (their child) first. Women are confronted with this earlier (pregnancy) so it makes sense to me, that men start adjusting later and need their woman (and her wrath) for it sometimes.

[@aviendhaandreoli4078]

Hmmmm it’s almost like people post the same fake stories in AITA. lol I really enjoy the thread but so many of them feel so scripted!

[@HardonsHardon]

if a person said my wife was selfish in death i would prolly call her alot of things worse than a selfish cow.

[@jawad_ntefeh]

Hands would be thrown involuntarily

[@jawad_ntefeh]

Hands would be thrown involuntarily

[@chifsamotren337]

Reallllll

[@astrxlvoid]

exactly

[@supergeeky7529]

right? selfish cow is what I'd call her when kids were around!

[@clqudyszn]

Every time my family members hear this intro they look at me concerned… honestly i love it

[@mael60216]

my mom just asked me wtf was going on 😭

[@clqudyszn]

@@mael60216 no they’re honestly SO concerned every time 🙁

[@Cecilia-vx6bm]

sameee 😭💀

[@3elsi]

do you guys not own headphones. just making everyone listen to whatever you're listening to

[@violetnorwen8491]

I watch this in secret 😂

[@melissafischer5892]

I’m glad the new dad reconsidered his priorities because FUCK your boys trip, you can plan another one. You will NEVER get back these first few months with your kid, you gotta be there

[@-maryam_-]

Couldn’t have said it better

[@fionagallagherapologist5968]

not only that, but why do people act like fathers aren't parents as well. they are SUPPOSED to be there, that's literally what being a parent is about

[@allister21]

@@fionagallagherapologist5968 unrelated to the vid, but i love your username

[@kiosha6945]

@@fionagallagherapologist5968 exactly! I hate how normalized it is for a mother to have to ask the father of their child for help. Like it should be expected. The father should be as exhausted as the mother if he’s doing it right

[@psychokinrazalon]

I can’t say I’m really on either side because there was a third party that could’ve helped. Both parents were being a little selfish.

[@Abdul2604_]

That next 6 months joke might be a top 3 darkest Dylan joke of all time. Fucking hell😭

[@bxtchyqueen1687]

We only fuck heaven around here🤞🏽

[@ajaboyd-qu5gi]

Or not hell…hopefully

[@len4129]

meh I have heard worse

[@baggiestsheet2584]

@@len4129 "top 3 darkest Dylan joke of all time" - key word: Dylan

[@monkey-f2u]

while i agree calling his own sister a “selfish cow” is an interesting choice, his wife passed away not too long ago. and his sister (who he clearly doesn’t like already) completely disrespected him and his wife. while its still not right i could understand him saying some things he wouldn’t normally say

[@LilyEvans1996]

I’d probably be like “wow you’re a bitch.” No need to insult cows lol also I guess no need to insult bitches either

[@Vitasaurus]

Being somebody with a pretty shitty sister i'm on the guy's side, we don't know their dynamic and for me it's always hurtful when people tell me i shouldn't insult my sister when they don't know the shit she says and does to me

[@TenebraeLux]

She asked about the clothes at the funeral! Nevermind 6 months ago, the sister didn't even wait until the earth had settled over this woman's coffin before trying to paw at her stuff!

[@cherizar1854]

Nahh "selfish cow" was tame for what she deserved after saying something like that

[@user-we1pe8vl5r]

Completely agreed! We have to view it from the perspective of this being written AFTER this altercation occurred. It’s totally possible he would’ve never referred to his sister as a “selfish cow” before this but, after hearing his recently passed wife described as “selfish” for wanting to give her clothes to charity (because tf?), has this new regard for her. I also think it’s likely that this is not the first instance of his sister behaving selfishly or generally terrible, considering his wife also had a distain for her (and of course this relies on her posted behavior being legitimate) so even if he had a habit of calling his sister names like that it was probably justified, lol. All in all I think it is equally likely that either 1. the guy using the phrase is justified and is further supported by the evidence he provided of his sisters behavior Or 2. His use of the phrase actually points to a deeper issue (like the he treats her badly so she treats him badly back example Dylan provided) and he could be possibly exaggerating the situation to make her look worse Overall I think there’s too little information to tell either way and while Dylan brings up one POSSIBILITY he shouldn’t have focused on that one comment so heavily, lol.

[@ElectricHyenas]

Regarding the guy who called his sister a "selfish cow," he may not have been especially *rude* but simply *British*

[@dizzy388]

yeah, depending on the tone, it can really be nothing here lol. like calling someone an 'ass'

[@Sipu97]

Just sexist.

[@iloveRPattzxxx]

People from places like Birmingham spell it mom so could still be British

[@leahwoodcock5318]

Yah I’m from near brum and I say mom

[@zoricamihaljevic897]

I'm sorry but being "British" doesn't excuse you from being straight up mean and sexist

[@loganpaul9759]

Why would the new dad book a trip for only a few months after the child was born for just him?

[@AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult]

Because he was doing it with his buddies.

[@nicanproud]

I literally would've gotten upset just hearing him plan it. Its a fucking newborn and the wife just sacrificed her body for 9 months with a little creature taking her brain mass and bone mass and nutrients. I get he may need a break, but not for a WEEK. I think 3 nights would've been fine. But a week? No one arouns is more tired than that new mom.

[@athenajaxon2397]

​@@nicanproud yeah a compromise would be him going for the weekend

[@gavykanrepublic6699]

@@nicanproud I agree, though I don't believe the husband was doing this intentionally/maliciously. The 3 day compromise seemed like the best solution but ultimately lack of communication was the real culprit. (also that might be the most insane way to say that she "had a baby")

[@catamoralesperez4752]

​@@nicanproudyou don't get it 😢 the new dad needs a break 😭😭😭/s

[@najo3784]

you don't know how fast I clicked on the video

[@ItzRemmy_Rem]

Same lol

[@charlottebees5676]

“Cuz you guys know I always nail pregnancy posts” 💀

[@bethel8541]

Dylan finding any way he can to talk about the OC

[@macgirl1234]

Lol this was exactly my thought. I love that for him

[@butterlfly26]

„I try to be toxic in every direction so you can never really pin me down“ that’s the most Dylan thing, Dylan ever said

[@mariahwong5704]

i cant stand when people say stuff like "oh my parents are nearby if you need help"....did you ask them? are they going to be available? are they away on vacation that week? because mentioning theyre nearby without physically asking and assuring that they can come over and help is not the same as actually confirming and having a set schedule for a new mother to work with. id be ticked too

[@nyxldx]

also is the partner comfy with being around the in-laws for days??? these are important things to consider

[@-brookebugz-]

plus, its THEIR parents, the moms mil and fil. those relationships can be strained and uncomfortable, and its very different to have in-laws helping than her own parents.

[@rosepalmer6617]

Also it’s like what do his parents consider as helping, are they just going to come over and hold the baby while she cleans??? And then hand the baby back over. Or are they going to actually help. Not to mention that the in laws go home at night but the baby stays with just the mom all night for nightly feedings.

[@AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult]

yeah, coparenting with a husband is way different than coparenting with inlaws

[@Meokka]

There’s also a lot of emotional needs that in laws cannot provide

[@neerajupadhyay1134]

The fuckboy hair is back!!!!🎉

[@clqudyszn]

Hello boogies

[@maddiet8495]

Hey pookie

[@muuusii]

hi boogie

[@Maricis2007]

Heyy boogie

[@melissafischer5892]

Ooooga boooga

[@thejustinsteffan]

Its boogars

[@luca_lwls]

Nah bro "selfish cow" is the most accurate description of that sister I can think of. Imagine your wife died and your sister is just like "oh yeah that's really sad... anyway so what about her clothes now?" and then wants to go against your wife's wishes to donate her clothes bc she thinks she's entitled to them, and all of that while he's probably still grieving. Idk I feel like if I was in his situation I'd call her worse things tbh

[@PinkCatsy]

I think Dylan is picking up on how misogynistic that term can come across - particularly because of 'cow'. He could've called her self-absorbed or selfish without using cow. So honestly I don't think there's anything wrong with it giving Dylan pause. Though I'm not surprised that there's pushback in the comments

[@tesshh-f3o]

@@PinkCatsy I'm a woman and I don't see the problem or misogyni, at least not with the context presented, sure we don't know the whole story, but if the sister has behaved like that all her life then after my partners death I would also feel fed up. I don't know if you meant that the use of the word in this context is misogonistic, english isn't my first language, but if you did I feel that it takes value from the word, as in, if everything is misogynistic then it feels like it's not so wrong, again, sorry if I interpreted wrong, just wanted to give my opinion

[@rebeccaperkins2605]

@@tesshh-f3o it is misogynistic in the context of the English language. it doesnt particularly bother me by itself but its a bit of a red flag. like if someone believes in a harmful stereotype or something, it doesnt 100% mean they're racist, but it could be an indicator. If that makes sense.

[@tesshh-f3o]

@@rebeccaperkins2605 well, maybe it's cultural aswell, because other comments said that in the UK and Scotland it's a common saying, so maybe it's more of a cultural difference and that's whhy more americans get more offended than the rest of us

[@-gohu-]

@@PinkCatsy if "selfish cow" is misogynistic, then is a term like "selfish prick'" misandrist? as a woman, it honestly pisses me off when we label anything than could insult anyone who happens to be a woman "misogyny", but we don't do the same for men. i'm so sick of people trying to turn everything into some sort of hatred of women. it's not. it actually cheapens real misogyny. and completely overlooks very real and gross cases of misandry.

[@Emma-zc5jm]

Only way I can accept the husband thinking it's okay to leave for a week-long vacation if he would be completely supportive of his wife taking a week off and him taking care of the newborn alone. Otherwise he seems to think fathers have less responsibility

[@leza4453]

But that is too easy, because she never would do that. So he could tell himself, her and eveyone else that "of course she could, and he would do that". That would shift the responsibily to her again and not help her, like his half-arsed "I will cancel (if you are a bitch about it)"

[@alyssaisawesome3795]

dylan, my brother died on my birthday 4 years ago today and your videos really helped me through it at the time. the past couple years you’ve posted on my birthday and it has really brightened my day. thank you!

[@rehnaanliker5931]

Sending love your way ❤❤❤

[@alyssaisawesome3795]

@@rehnaanliker5931 thank you 🤎🫶🏼

[@helenfromboston]

Unfortunate timing, i hope you can take that as an opportunity to remember him and celebrate his life too. Wish you all the best

[@katrinaceleste1485]

oh i wanna send you a virtual hug, i totally understand your situation - for me it wasn't my birthday but a month away from it, still makes it rough. i hope you're slowly healing and doing better ❤

[@alyssaisawesome3795]

@@katrinaceleste1485 I hate to hear that you’ve had to go through a similar situation. even if it didn’t happen on the exact day as your birthday, having the anniversary close to it is still hard in itself. I hope you’ve been able to find ways to cope as well and I’m sending you a virtual hug in return. thank you 🫶🏼

[@alex-ge1cj]

4:30 "if your wife needs you, that's the #1" wow... so profound for a 23 year old

[@theangel4054]

.. that's the BARE minimum? 😭😭

[@samanthablackwell3668]

@@theangel4054i fear you missed the joke

[@bloomtilltheend]

@theangel4054i it’s literally a SARCASTIC joke? 😭😭

[@mcokayiguess3879]

He's 23,?? 😮 Looks so young

[@theangel4054]

@@samanthablackwell3668 oh ok, thought she was serious 😹

[@nancySIX]

For the wife’s clothes post, I think the guy British we call everybody a cow.

[@mathiasnkristensen]

Even if he isn't british, that term is tame compared to how she's treating him. His generous wife suffered for months before she died, and all the sister is thinking about is herself. The dude is hurt because he lost the love of his life, and she's disrespecting the dead wife because she's donating clothes to people in need. The sister doesn't show any sympathy or remorse for her actions. I see no reason why throwing around slurs should be a bad thing in this scenario. It's a normal reaction to something this hurtful.

[@theperfectflower5072]

He gets finer everytime I see him tf?-

[@danaramand7552]

Magic of forever 21 and the nose ring😂

[@puppypuddles]

We live in the same state and I need to meet him and marry him rn

[@emikookime1849]

For the first story, Dylan kept saying that it’s different if the dad’s parents are there to do everything the husband does-but Dylan’s missing the point. Physical help is great, absolutely. But her husband gives emotional support. Even if you have a great relationship with your in-laws, you’re not going to cry in their arms or get some strength from them smiling or making a quippy joke. In-laws are also people outside the immediate family, meaning there’s added pressure and effort required that you can’t just be your entirely raw self. There’s usually worries of judgement. If it were her own parents that could help, that might at least be a bit better. But 99% of the time, in-laws can’t replace that emotional support and may make the house feel like it’s not her own while they’re there.

[@TheLazyToast]

+

[@Meokka]

exactly

[@Wurmze]

Yeah it’s about the principle. If he had booked the trip before the pregnancy that would be different but they knew the due date when he booked

[@psychokinrazalon]

I’m not a woman, but I’d like to believe that a new mother could handle a week without their SO. Lots of dads throughout history weren’t there for their wives during their kids’ early years, but they still managed.

[@justicekingrivera7195]

@@psychokinrazalondo you hear how stupid you sound 💀

[@swiftieforlife5243]

For the first story, i am so sad that she even had to mention that she needed support the guy should have stayed anyway without even considering the trip, It makes me sick when men act as if it is only the mother's child. He should've taken responsibility it is his daughter too. That would make me so upset

[@nyxldx]

right? Like, i'm sorry but if "you" are overwhelmed by having a child imagine you wife who already had to deal with pregnancy + birth + taking care of a newborn. The fact that it was even pre-planned just seems selfish to me

[@swiftieforlife5243]

@nyxldx and I've heard that postpartum depression is really really bad and hard for new moms 😭

[@nyxldx]

@@swiftieforlife5243 exactly! but we hardly ever see posts about them needing a break bruh 🙄

[@mills9488]

embarrassingly early but i eat these up

[@dtjunction]

Same

[@honeylovesbee1223]

Today's hairstyle is a 7/10 It's giving Steve Rogers

[@taymo2199]

Ohhhh that’s why it was so hot. Duhhh

[@jessicalukram74]

You're so right

[@honeylovesbee1223]

@@jessicalukram74 your pfp? YES.

[@chandi_prow]

You kinda sound like a grown version of hiccup (httyd guy )😅

[@ananya7364]

thats so accurate omg

[@kactus1889]

he watched it once and some people (including me) were upset he didn't acknowledge this 😂

[@jessicalukram74]

He's Milo

[@amandaansneslaumann7818]

Im happy he reads the comments to when his takes are completely wrong. Was a bit frustrating in some videos. Good that he knows he was wrong on some of those pregnancy stories

[@feelstora3]

I agree. I really like we get to see his character development 😊

[@Nickellcat3]

he never addressed it tho? like he didnt talk about whether he thinks hes right or wrong about his opinions. not that i care its just that yes he is getting better in this video with his takes but he never confessed that he was in the wrong.

[@matthewjacobs2991]

@@Nickellcat3 I hope that's not keeping you up at night lol.. It's all just opinions and 90% of Reddit is also frequently wrong. AITA is mostly fictional writing and teenage commenters trying to sound more mature and nuanced than they actually are

[@diacarat]

there are no right or wrong opinions lol

[@gavykanrepublic6699]

@@Nickellcat3 He may not think that he was wrong and may still stand by his opinions. He's just being mature by addressing that there was a lot of discourse around certain opinions he had. I wouldn't want him to change his opinions any time he got pushback, that's when we start to lose our individuality (it's also part of his charm lmao).

[@katherinemclean1448]

So calling people a cow so casually like in the second story means they're British, Aussie, or maybe a New Zelander. I think Dylan didn't pick up on the linguistic subtleties were missed and misinterpreted.

[@thesenate1448]

Yeah but they used 'mom' instead of mum or mam. Idk about NZ and Australia but that sounds American to me.

[@anabelugiagbe1343]

holy smokes this is phenomenal timing

[@nikispade1350]

As a woman, I think anyone who asks for your deceased spouse's clothes can be called a selfish cow. I'm okay with that.

[@mathiasnkristensen]

Not even just that. She's literally disrespecting a dead woman who suffered for months because she's donating her clothes to people in need. She doesn't give a shit about her brother's feelings because she's only thinking about herself. Nothing you can say would be worse than what she did.

[@marianacampos6489]

12:57 “what a fu***** cow” HELP

[@sarahj7309]

The comment about the love note is just the cutest ❤ So nice to hear that couples are still doing those things. It really is just the little things which many people just dont seem to understand eg the OP 🙄

[@shahedakhanamshelly]

2:35 Dear Dylan, “That's what she said” is eternal and timeless. Doth not feel ashamed🤚🏼

[@kamikazeftw]

That's what she said

[@adamlewis5700]

This exact scenario happened to me (I was the husband). Our son was a few months old. We compromised and I didn't go for the whole week (just 3 days). Got some bro time and my parents helped out a bit more when I was gone and gave my wife a break so she could spend a day shopping with her friends, going out to eat, and seeing a movie. She was still on maternity leave as her company actually gave them up to 6 months (but could return earlier if desired). Also ran into the donated baby stuff scenario in my family. My younger sister and her husband were eager and excited for the hand me downs that we were giving them. My older sister also contributed a bunch. Then we found out they were selling most of them on second hand websites to make some extra money. They both make tons of money in the STEM field and live in a giant house. Was kind of shocked, but we didn't make a big deal about it, we pretended we didn't know. But we could have sold them if that's what their plan was or we could have donated them. Our town is good about posting and sharing free things to help families.

[@tardis358]

I feel like baby clothing one is so dependent on the younger sibling's financial situation. OP says they both have college degrees and full time jobs and acts like that means money isn't tight, but it definitely could be, especially with kids. But if they're well off and there is a way to get them to people who need them (not just drop them at goodwill), then it's in poor taste. But I know a lot of rich people who are stingy AHs...

[@nicanproud]

My only thing is that they literally said the stuff they had was taking up space. Meaning they weren't donating or selling or planning to use them in the future. They were thinking "instead of trash, then brother!" If not, they would've stated "we were planning on selling instead of giving it to them". But they didn't. They said it was taking up space. Also, to tell someone "i think lesser of you as a person", particularly your brother's wife, is an asshole thing to say, regardless. I think what Dylan said about the 13-year-old in the other post applies to everyone. You can discuss your boundaries and defend your point of view and yourself when you're wronged without being so rude and disrespectful. Telling his brother's wife she's a bad person for making money of stuff that's been sitting in your garage collecting dust is CRAZY. Especially when some families need cheap items and don't qualify for programs that give them those items for free. My opinion: dude in the clothes post sounds incredibly privileged and doesn't understand the difficulty even people with undergrad degrees can have. His story isn't that they're super well off and doing this like your's is. Or he would've said that.

[@youleczka]

@@nicanproud I am pregnant right now and we get a lot of stuff from friends and family. It really helps as buying everything is quite expensive. But sometimes we are offered the things we already have and we just don't accept them. It is rude just to take stuff and sell it afterwards. Of course if SiL would ask for permission that would be a different story but otherwise just don't accept and let the owners decide what to do.

[@leza4453]

Yes, bit did they sell the stuff after they used it and their kids have outgrown it? Then it is a different story. If I give away stuff and don't tell them I might want it back, then it is theirs to manage. And if they used it or did not find it as useful and have to get rid of it because it takes up space, than it is not my place to tell them if they should sell, throw away or donate it.

[@crematedfelony]

​@@leza4453this may work but keep in mind the SiL has two kids, each younger than OPs. So even if the three yo outgrew stuff, they have the 1yo. Unless it's smthn for babies even younger than that :]

[@togetherbewell]

I love how genuinely he’s giving good and level headed opinions but then also will just throw in a truly chaotic joke every 10 seconds

[@laniibearrii]

finally I don't have to keep re-watching the same 11 videos every week, now its the same 12 😋!

[@tedeibeakawaii]

Fellow STAY in the wild?! Sup!

[@laniibearrii]

@@tedeibeakawaii ayyyyy !! *does the thunderous pose*

[@alti2b]

Dylan keeping us fed and fat in anticipation for the rough winter ahead

[@amyc5437]

I feel bad for the guy who's wife died being judged for calling his arsehole sister a selfish cow.. Selfish cow is a pretty normal way to talk about someone you don't like in the UK. Its the British equivalent of calling someone a Karen. It's even less offensive if you're in Scotland :). Most people act (at some point) in a way that would provoke being called a cow. It's not a big deal at all. He isn't actually insinuating that she is a large hoofed mammal that eats grass.

[@confusedpozole406]

That might just be a cultural difference because, as someone who learned english in the USA, that insult has always come with some baggage related to sexism (basically calling a woman a fat bitch).

[@linneascameraroll]

@@confusedpozole406yuh

[@amyc5437]

@@confusedpozole406 sure it is definitely a cultural difference. A skinny person can absolutely be a cow in the UK. It's purely an insult on somebody's attitude.

[@shaniat.4085]

I think for the hand me downs, it just feels a bit grimy to accept it when you know you’re just going to turn around and sell it. It’s one thing to notice that things are piling up and you have duplicates so you sell it, and it’s another thing to take it under false pretense. It’s not a big thing, just a bit unsavory.

[@lem8540]

Yeah, the way they were given these items seems like they were given as a gift. like oh another family I know needs resources for their baby and I could help provide that. Only to find out they were just using your aid and your gifts for a sale. It would’ve been different if both families were under the same impression of “take it, it’s yours do whatever you need” but no, one thought they were helping, and the other was accepting the help knowing they were just there to be the middle man and charge someone else for it. So I understand why he was offended.

[@nix_]

But they have a 3 and a 1-year-old. So it's very likely she was just selling off all the newborn/baby stuff they got and no longer need. Especially since the OP said he and his wife gave them their old baby stuff when the 3-year-old was born/SIL was pregnant with them. I seriously doubt SIL was literally selling off items she was given the next day or something rather than years ago. The OP just sounds too self-righteous for me to think these are recent hand-me-downs.

[@soupy_cat]

Yep. It might not be a "gift," but it was a selfless kindness. For those items to then be sold is taking advantage of that kindness.

[@JSainte17]

Yes! I can't believe they called him an AH. If I give you baby stuff because you say you need it (because it would be wild to take stuff knowing you don't need it), and then I find out you're selling it, I'm going to be irritated and think you're a bad person. If you have so much excess that you can sell it, you should feel blessed and give away the things you don't need to someone in need. Which is how you got the things in the first place.

[@klara_2437]

But I think those things can get complicated. Almost the exact thing happened in my family (when I was a child so I can’t exactly say I have the full story). A lot of times, it’s difficult to say no to hand-me-downs (they basically shove it into your hands whenever you see them). But on the other hand, it definitely does have meaning. The whole keeping the clothes in the family, kinda bonding over it (idk how many cousins wore this before they gave it to you) and supporting each other through it. And in the end, some of those pieces, myb they would’ve saved as keepsakes (esp if it’s baby clothes). I think communication is key. Tell them there is meaning when they give it to them but also communicating if they really don’t need or don’t want it (the family that is receiving it).

[@princess_mj4396]

Love Dylan starting the video immediately stating the obvious, that he is the best at anything. And at the young age of 21 no less

[@Wurmze]

Can’t believe I’m older than Dylan now

[@ismeLF]

Stuff like this reminds me how American Dylan is 😅 because I be using ‘selfish cow’ at everyone in the uk.

[@PucaFlea]

Yeah here in Ireland calling someone a cow is less insulting than calling someone a bitch or other c word and even then the other two depends on tone

[@reay1864]

its a bit concerning that apparently dylan’s takes are controversial because i full heartedly agree with him like 98% of the time. i think he always brings up really good points T-T

[@matthewjacobs2991]

He's too mature for a 21 year old. All the other 21 year olds are still catching up. Almost like he has the maturity and awareness of a 31 year old more than a 21 year old *wink*wink*

[@filmfangirls9163]

Same! I honestly haven't disagreed with him and people just fly off the handle about them lol

[@filmfangirls9163]

​@@matthewjacobs2991😂

[@ani__2119]

Same lol I thought I was the only one

[@urioriari34]

Lol I think it's because he often gives some degree of the benefit of the doubt to men

[@stay4931]

"don't send me anything weird" Well...Dylan 😑

[@cmantheninja]

Guy grieving about his wife he lost: Calls her sister who is being disrespectful a selfish cow Dylan: Maybe you can, mmmmm, be a bit nicer?

[@urioriari34]

"Selfish cow" does cut to the bone. Imagine being called that to your face

[@aarOuOn]

It's not about being nicer to that person, there are some words that say something about you if they're even in your vocabulary. In the same way, I don't care if I was the biggest asshole in the planet, that doesn't give you the pass to call me the f word, you shouldn't turn into a misogynist the second someone who happens to be a woman is being a piece of shit.

[@linneascameraroll]

@@aarOuOnwell worded,

[@psychokinrazalon]

@@aarOuOnWords only have whatever value you assign to them.

[@moatrboat]

His wife died recently and the sister was insulting her and demanding her clothes. Why wouldn’t you lash out?

[@kathleen6538]

When you get married, your partner becomes your top priority. When you have kids, your child and spouse are your top priority. Period. Not a week long bros trip when you’re almost 40 years old. Also, friends and families opinions do not matter! The only opinions that matter are the wife and husband. Family and friends should stay out of it. Also, it’s his child, not his parents. He shouldn’t put that burden and responsibility on someone else.

[@Sagacypher]

What does being 40 have to do with vacationing with friends..? Maturity doesn’t equal misery 😭 Have fun with friends, but only if you can and you’re not letting your family down. Also, nothing wrong with asking family for help with your kids while you vacation… those kids are their grandkids?? You talk like they’re strangers- it takes a village to raise a child. Maybe it’s the culture I grew up in but damn where’s the family and community

[@psychokinrazalon]

@@Sagacypher Women of the past went for long stretches of time not seeing their husbands, like during wartime. They got by.

[@mastermangouste5425]

​@@psychokinrazalon Why on earth would you even bring that about?? Many women at that time had nurses still and even if they raised them completely on their own why would anyone have to lower their standards because they were lower in the past?? With this kind of thinking you might even say black people should be happy they're not slaves anymore but just live in poverty... HOW PEOPLE LIVED IN THE PAST SHOULD NOT IN ANY WAY LOWER THE STANDARDS WE HAVE TODAY We have learned from the past that such habits are nocive, so why you trying to justify bringing them back??

[@thesenate1448]

​@@psychokinrazalonYeah and children got by going up chimneys and working 10 hours +. Your point?

[@psychokinrazalon]

@@mastermangouste5425 And the person in this story had parents-in-law. Modern society truly has cushioned people. Whether you like that or not is subjective opinion.

[@marianacampos6489]

18:54 Honestly, I think the question of wether the 13 year old’s reaction was justified or not is dependent on the manner in which the adults (mostly the mom who’s house they are in) were speaking to her. If it was the case that the mother was pissed off because of her rug and was blaming the 13 year old (“she helped cause it”) then I understand the 13 year old’s response. Because we have established that this is in no way her fault and she didn’t cause this. So if the mom was already aggravated and was placing partial blame on the 13 year old, I think that the argument of “respecting your elders” falls flat. Even if she’s 13, you respect her and then she respects you. You don’t respect her and blame things on her (while removing full blame and responsibility from the parent with the misbehaved kids) than respect is thrown out of the window. In addition, Lynn had already placed blame on the 13 year old before the mother (who’s house they are in)spoke here, and Lynn was extremely rude when she practically questioned the 13 year olds intelligence (even though Lynn is the one clearly at fault), which makes it seem like the mother was taking Lynn’s side and agreeing that the 13 year old was at fault here (and not reprimanding Lynn for being rude to the 13 year old in the first place and blaming her for something that was clearly not her fault) , which I think also partially justified the reaction the 13 year old had. She most likely felt that the adults around her were insulting her and blaming her for this incident even though she was just setting her boundaries and had no responsibility to take care of the toddlers in this situation. With that being said if the mom had said “please help pick up this mess” in some respectful tone and paired that with reprimanding the mother of the misbehaved kids in some way, then I would say that the 13 year old is mouthing off and is at fault for being disrespectful. Also, “if she’s this comfortable being rude to family members…” … her family members felt comfortable being rude to her in the first place (Lynn for placing blame on her and insulting her intelligence/ developmental intelligence by saying “I thought your daughter was smart enough…” ) and also the mom for instead of clocking Lynn on being rude allowing it and doubling down by blaming the 13 year old. The 13 year old, yes, could have also behaved with more “class”.. but at the end of the day it is a 13 year old who may or may not learn how to regulate her emotions and react in a different more calm way as she grows. I am more appalled that the adults (the mom and Lynn) felt they had a right to be rude to the 13 year old. They are adults and they should know better at this point. Even if the 13 year old could have reacted differently, I think she is justified. Final point I promise. I do think that the 13 year olds mom should be doing a batter job of teaching the 13 year old to regulate her emotions in situations like these and respond in a better more respectful way while still holding her boundaries. On that we agree.

[@nnn9122]

💯

[@AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult]

Yeah, I agree. I think the family is giving a poor example for the kids all around. You don't expect 13 year olds to lash out with grace. Also, I'm not okay with the parentification of young girls and the expectation that everyone should look after your children. And the mother should have communicated straight to Lynn instead of letting her daughter "abandon" the kid.

[@annalise8229]

you said everything i was thinking

[@nicanproud]

I think Dylan was kinda agreeing with this, though. He was saying that the 13 year old was being rude and he would've told her to try again. But he was saying that because he was discussing/criticizing the parenting going on. Kinda using the rudeness to make his point that mom probably doesn't have the moral high ground she claims if she's going around calling her sister's kids brats and animals to her children. You don't say that to your kids. You say "if you don't feel like you want to be alone with the toddlers, come and tell the adults when you leave" not "don't be tricked into watching those brats". Everyone in the situation SUCKS.

[@marianacampos6489]

@@nicanproud no yeah for sure. We agree on the fact that the parenting could be better. Where I disagree with Dylan is that I think the reaction from the 13 year old was justified, even if it could have been less reactive or rude. I got the impression that Dylan didn’t think the reaction was justified. But I still love Dylan’s videos and think he’s great! I just disagreed on that one point

[@miinky21]

I don't think I will ever evolve from "that's what she said" jokes. I'm not even sure if "evolve" would be the right word. Isn't it the peak of evolution?

[@DaianaLisJagou]

The last one made me anxious because my voice goes high when I'm nervous or I need to ask for a favor or for something. I hate it, but that's just how my voice comes out. I don't do it on purpose, but it's always on my mind that it might be annoying. It's not really high, but I do sound younger. 🥺

[@lps_4_liffe]

I have social anxiety and I do this too. I don't do it to sound weird or anything like the reddit post makes it seem I'm just really nervous and insecure

[@taylorfillenwarth]

My voice does the same thing, except it happens whenever I’m talking to someone new. It’s really annoying, but I’ve learned to laugh it off since I can’t exactly make it stop. My friends jokingly call it my “customer service” voice. After I’m comfortable around the new person it usually goes back to normal. I have no clue why it happens!

[@WangxianFF7]

I have social anxiety and I do this too! Very involuntary and sorts itself out once I get comfortable

[@barboramolnarova7040]

​@@taylorfillenwarth The "customer servise voice" is so real. I have a retail job right now and I noticed when I started that my voice is higher during my shift. It gets even higher if I'm talking to someone mean or a man a lot bigger than me.

[@phil1500]

The donating thing is so silly to me. If I donate my sons stuff to his cousin's family, and they get more than they need, why in the world would I be upset they sold it for spare cash? If the idea is donating stuff to help them out with the baby, sometimes money is a lot more useful than way too many bibs, or a 7th pair of shoes. I hope they sell stuff they can't use to help fund the diaper budget or something. So ridiculously entitled to think you should be able to have input on how people use the stuff you give to them.

[@ladyt6386]

I mean, you could have got money for your own child by selling the stuff you actually paid for, but you decided to help your family out only to realise they were selling it? I totally understand a guy's frustration. I usually donate my own clothes and before I do, my aunt shows the best items to her relative (who also has worse financial position than I do), so I don't mind since she will also use them. But if I found out she was selling them off - I would be pissed, cause for real - some people in real need will have to pay for them (cause rich people usually don't buy used goods) instead of getting them for free. And he also mentioned that they both have a full time jobs with quite good income. Imagine giving the stuff you worked for, thinking they are in need, only to find out they are selling it off to make extra money. Cause if his SIL saw they have enough stuff already she should have told them that, so the families could donate them to other people in need or sell them, since they are the ones who paid for them

[@jjveal8564]

@@ladyt6386 Once you give someone something, whatever they do with it is none of your concern, unless you expect it back. And plus you truly don't know what people are going through, just because someone works a full time job doesn't mean they are living comfortably and the guy never said how much they make, so who's to say that they don't need the extra money.

[@ladyt6386]

@@jjveal8564 whatever they do is not my concern, but what I think of them after they did something - IS my concern. If he felt bad with what they decided to do with the stuff he gave them - his feelings are valid. I mean what if his financial condition is not really good either, but he decided to help them instead of selling things only to find out they didn't need that many, but took them only to earn some money

[@ladyt6386]

@@jjveal8564 and many people really want to help someone in need, not just give away things to clean up the house. In that case if they told him they really needed baby stuff and he gave it to them instead of donating (which he also considered) - that's just rude on their part not to stop him when they had enough goods already. And actually, his SIL told him it was only couple of dollars here and there, so it looks a bit petty to sell it instead of helping other people with children, like someone helped them

[@arr165]

Literally this. Once i give it away it's not mine anymore. Is just that bragging about selling it off to the people who gave it will come out as disrespectful or dismissive of the help they got. unless you like speech magician it's better not to do that

[@freyja6360]

The gloves of respect to the elders are off when the elders in question are calling a kid stupid for not doing the parent's job instinctively when it's thrown onto them without a question. I was babysitting my little cousin and nephew at 13 too, but they weren't toddlers, they were 5-6 y.o. It was a fun time, they picked up some of my interests and hobbies from me and some of them we share to this day and are best friends as adults. My cousin started as a spoiled little brat too, but he was at the age when he could already understand simple message "if you'll act this way, other kids won't play with you" etc. - he grew up to be a kind, responsible kid and then adult. Toddlers are hard to look after when you are still a kid yourself and don't have enough experience with kids this age. Mom should definitely watch her language around her daughter but the kid has eyes too. Toddlers will be toddlering, but kids who aren't parented well are easy to spot and hard to endure their company - especially for a very young teen who has her own problems. Of course she'll get emotional and snarky when the blame is put on her. Her mom though is a piece of work as well as her sister. All she had to do is admit that she told her daughter to not feel responsible to babysit her little cousins at the beginning of all this mess. She also could've told her sister in private when seeing her at first to watch her own kids and stop putting that responsibility on the younger family members. All the adults in this story suck, the kids are just kids. PS. If asking a new widower at his wife's wake to get her stuff and acting like her death was hard on you while not helping her in her last months and talking trash about her to the widowed brother isn't a "selfish cow" behavior then I don't know what "selfish" means, because to me it's beyond selfish. It's selfish and cruel. PPS. I hate when fathers act like saints for "helping" with their child or "babysitting". You're not supposed to help, you have to be a parent, it's your damn job.

[@LilyEvans1996]

32:22 the trouble is that social anxiety is so bad. I’m proud of her for even going out with a group of strangers. Maybe this new voice is a coping mechanism. My coping mechanism in college for presentations was to always hold a hot caramel macchiato while I was presenting haha. My professor made fun of me but it was the only way I’d get through it.

[@lps_4_liffe]

I have social anxiety too, I also talk higher to strangers than my people. My voice sounds higher than I think it does to whenever I hear videos of me speaking. I think even if she knew her voice raised a little she may have not noticed how high and "weird" it was

[@iulia.bianca.b]

​@@lps_4_liffe She didn't say it was because of social anxiety. She said she "was trying something new"... Sounds like a costume or something. Cringe.

[@larissards]

Dylan, he just lost his wife and his own sister is asking for her clothes and saying she was always a selfish woman. Selfish cow was still very reasonable. And even if it wasn't, that doesn't necessarily make him an asshole, just someone who isn't in the right mind because of the things they're going through and said something bad. I think if he had intended to be misogynistic he would have just called her a bitch. And it's not like siblings need to treat each other like people either. It's in the brotherhood book (just kidding, don't take seriously)

[@ayanaible-gordon7930]

Two posts from Dylan in the same week is crazy work??? What a good week!

[@TinevimboChaibva]

"You like that? Yeah you like that you naughty viewer." 😂😂Dylan is definitely trouble

[@heartzs0f1a]

For the last one I was about to defend the girl because when I get shy or nervous I talk in a completely different voice but then I heard the rest of the story 💀😭

[@lps_4_liffe]

Do you mean the part where she was acting unaware of talking differently? I wonder if she actually was doing that to be weird intentionally. I think it's possible she only acted dumb being called out by him because she was embarrassed? Idk. I have bad anxiety though and I talk a bit higher around strangers so I get it. But if she did that intentionally for attention then I could never imagine myself doing something like that

[@riiiaaa]

4:50 u could have not edited dylan over the pic and it would still be the same thing lmao

[@nacton37]

13 year old girls can be mean and opinionated. in this case, she was completely right to stand up for herself. was she a little out of line? yes. but i’m not sure that’s completely the moms fault. everyone in this story seems to be an awful influence for a child. the mom at least should’ve talked to her kid after and told her that it was good for her to stand up for herself but did it in the incorrect way.

[@darth_bagel]

The mom should’ve handled the situation with her sister completely separate of the daughter. She shouldn’t be put into the middle of adult issues! I agree that adults all seem to be not the best examples

[@AW_13_swifties]

14:45 okay but because he's a terrible person is irrelevant here. In the story he's NTA that's the only question here

[@chiarak6783]

The way I gasped seeing a boogie video posted a minute agp

[@seraaalol]

The last story reminds me of that one scene in Infinity War when everyone called out Star-Lord for making his voice deeper💀😭

[@h3fan725]

Never seen Dylan and BBNO$ in the same room just saying

[@Shablammity]

I can't entirely attest for why the last person would be faking an "anime" voice but as someone who suffers from social anxiety myself I have noticed that with meeting new people my voice naturally takes on a different inflection than when I'm speaking to someone I know and am comfortable around. I can only assume it's a masking technique to cover how nervous I actually am in social situations. I don't think the friend was an A-hole to reveal that that wasn't their real voice because I'm sure they were also taken aback but I definitely agree that they should've maybe taken them aside before rejoining the group to let them know how the other friends were thinking and felt :/

[@lps_4_liffe]

I have social anxiety too and change my voice around strangers. It's something I don't even think about trying to do it just happens. I think i might subconsciously do this because using a light airy voice makes me seem like a kinder or gentle person to avoid any and all potential conflict with strangers. I don't think my voice comes across as "anime" like in this video but, my voice does sound higher pitched irl than through my own ears. (When I hear my voice on a video recording vs when I'm actually talking). So its possible the person in the video didn't even really realize how "weird" they sounded. I think if OP knew the girl had anxiety he definitely should've talked to her privately about it and/or tried to tell his friends about it so theyld be less judgemental of her. I'd be curious if she used that voice when they first meet or when they go out to eat and stuff when talking to waiters, cashiers, etc..

[@claudiaamengualmateo6989]

I was so enjoying the video until he started saying the girl doing the voice was cringy and giving him the ick and it's embarrassing for the person they're with. I'm autistic and although I don't personally do that it sounds like something some autistic people might do without realizing trying to fit in or mask or whatever and it was painful seeing the friends response and Dylan's response honestly. I'm not saying they are wrong for feeling that way it just saddens me because we try to fit in constantly and we almost never succeed and it's obvious for everyone else but ourselves.

[@Shablammity]

@@lps_4_liffe Yeah 100% it’s something that just happens and I get EXACTLY what you mean about wanting to avoid conflict which just makes Dylan’s and OP’s final judgment so much more hurtful because it isn’t something that we consciously control unfortunately.

[@hanaz1023]

@@claudiaamengualmateo6989 This is so typical for NT people, though. They get weirded out by NDs because it's something they don't understand and can't relate to. It sucks and it's not their fault. Hopefully awareness will lead to a more understanding society!

[@no_thankyouverymuch]

Idk about y’all but 33 min is not enough. I need another 1 hour plus version of r/aita

[@LilyEvans1996]

27:32 once you give something away it’s theirs. They can sell it off if they want to.

[@JeM130177]

I don’t love the person calling the toddlers “brats” because little toddlers aren’t to blame for their own behaviour and I don’t like the insinuation they’re trying to be difficult or spoilt on purpose. However, I’m all for the 13 year old’s response. Would I have said that to an adult at 13? Well…not one I respect….but if they’re coming for me like that then I don’t think it was unreasonable. She didn’t use bad language…just called her out. You don’t deserve respect purely for being older than someone else, you earn it like everyone else. I see this a lot with videos of stroppy kids, most of the time doing nothing wrong other than being assertive in a way a small child knows how.and the amount of comments that are like “I’d get beaten if I talked to my parents like that, this kid needs to learn some damn respect and manners” etc…especially from Americans. Sure..scaring your child into respecting you is the way to go 😒. Sounds like this parent has been good at acknowledging their daughter’s issues with it and supporting her. It’s clearly not the first time, the kid is old enough to know her aunt is to blame and is apparently always getting the babysitting duties dumped on her. Good for her I say 😂

[@disabled_frog213]

I physically cannot fall asleep at night without Dylan’s aita videos playing in the background.its actually becoming a problem, I have to download them when I go camping ;-;

[@eminemfanboy12]

girl bye no parent should be going on a weeklong trip when they have a NEWBORN. ughhh

[@bunji_beans]

I went through a similar journey as you with the selling hand me downs one 😂 first thought was "she could've paid it forward and gifted the stuff to others in need" but then eventually realized that if they truly were gifts, the stuff belongs to them and they can do whatever they want with it

[@bottomlime]

She was pregnant for 9 months, gave birth and now has a newborn baby and probably is breastfeeding but HE needs a break?

[@mathiasnkristensen]

It's hard being a parent. Don't dismiss a father's effort just because the mother also puts in a lot of effort. Humans are not machines. There are always people who have it worse and work harder, but that doesn't mean you don't deserve a break.

[@invadertifxiii]

#1 No new mom is not a hole, I understand completely what she's going through. Also her friends are ridiculous, "stress over being a new dad" how bout her stress as a new mom might I add after a week of giving birth her body isn't healed yet😢

[@Karla-rf4nn]

Just wanted to say that the editing on these videos is peak. It’s really good

[@ginabell694]

I mean she was a selfish cow. He had already gone through the situation of her being said selfish cow when he typed the story. So it's not like he said that and then she revealed herself to be one

[@Jamiliciious]

The crush I have on this man…. 🙄

[@EmN-p2c]

Also, selling stuff is SO time consuming I imagine selling baby stuff won't even give you the minimum wage for that labour. Even if you give a gift to someone you need to accept that it's theirs now and they can sell it, throw it away, whatever they want

[@carveylover]

24:10 I don't necessarily think it is a bad thing to sell or donate items that were handed down to you. Once they leave my possession, they are no longer mine. I would, however, ask if it would ok if I could donate or sell the items. The BIL might have given his SIL something that was of value of importance. If nothing had any sentimental value, then I don't see the harm. Also, if the brother was going to donate them, he would have donated them and would not have given them to the SIL. The SIL also could have said, "Hey, I appreciate all the clothing we have received, but we have too much and don't need anymore." That could have solved the issue right away.

[@alex-ge1cj]

IM LITERALLY WEARING MY BOMBAS RIGHT NOW they're so comfortable and snug without feeling like my dawgs r suffocating, and also even their low rise socks don't slip down. AND they dont get looser with washing them 10/10 would recommend

[@H.P.93]

I don't view the car thing as a cute moment. The wife could have caused an accident trying to be cute and I'm sorry, the moment you put others at risk for that, you lose the right to be super upset if someone chooses not to engage. If my husband did that to me, we'd be having a discussion when i got home about putting people's lives at risk to be "cute." Maybe the husband should have acknowledged that his wife was upset, but she was so far in the wrong for doing it in the first place that i can't call him the asshole

[@oshuwareafegbai6114]

That’s what I’m saying. Like the story about the scrap paper thing is harmless because it’s within your house and it’s not something that can cause danger. We’re talking about a freeway here, making exits and such… That’s just my take.

[@aarOuOn]

A lot of people seem to forget cars are 5 thousand pound metal death machines hurdling down the road, not toys.

[@jasminetaylor4096]

I definitely agree with dylan with Lynn and the "brats" situation. Lynn was wrong for leaving her kids in the care of another kid. But to talk to your grandmother and aunt that way is CRAZY! And for her mom to condone that means she'll continously think it's ok to talk to anyone like that. Like the mom should at least say you were right for not staying with them, but not how you talked to them afterwards. IMO this is a family of a-holes

[@maryam77720]

exactly and the way the dad was referring to the kids as brat and animals??? like sure they must be annoying but they’re CHILDREN and on top of that they’re your nephew/nieces? does he have no love for them?

[@emilyross3324]

I disagree some adults believe they can say whatever they want and age doesn't give you the right to talk to a teenager however you want. From someone who has a family just like this it's hard to hold your tongue and walk away when you see constant immaturity and stupidity spew out of an adults mouth. I speak to adults with the same energy they give me but I also have boundaries. I dont believe it's okay to talk to anyone like that unless I see a pattern of disrespect like in the story and find it weird you assume that a child standing up for themselves equals bad behavior. To add I was raised in a family were I was taught to respect my elders and believe that as long as cuss words arnt thrown out, it's fair game.

[@emilyross3324]

@@maryam77720kids can be brats and annoying🙄until you spend constant time in a room with a child that believes they can do whatever they want and is constantly defended with the "but there a kid" excuse you have no room to say whoever they should be called brats or not. I obviously don't blame the kids since it's obvious there mother is to blame for their behavior though.

[@maryam77720]

@@emilyross3324 i’m not justifying the kid’s behaviour at all. they SHOULD be taught better or reprimanded for their bad behaviour. all i’m saying is that this comes across as if the dude is talking about some random kid and not his literal nephews/nieces. his behaviour sucks, his sister’s behaviour sucks so no wonder both their children are also going to have bad behaviour. maybe i’m just from a different culture but there’s a way to stand up for yourself without resorting to disrespect. hopefully the teenager would learn that in the future (from outside sources probably cus it doesn’t seem like anybody in the family knows much about it)

[@emilyross3324]

@@maryam77720I understand what your saying I was just trying to point out that calling kids brats doesn't take away from your love for the kid. I have siblings and cousins that I call brats because they act as such but I still love them and would die for them. Aswell as that I'm Hispanic and get smacked across the face for talking back but I still believe that my points stand. There's a time and place for things and as long as kids understand that they need to hold their tongue in certain situations they'll be fine.

[@xCheshirx]

The first one is as easy as asking "Did he gave birth? Did he go through unbearable pain to have the baby?" No, it was her, she's the one who needs a break, not him. Wtf.

[@ririmiddy6914]

In the story about the husband whos wife was upset that he didn't wave at her on the road, I understand the husband's a little. Especially if you cut someone off, it could get dangerous. I'm all for cute moments in relationships but I don't fault anyone for not playing along when they are on the road. Car accidents are not small things to brush off and I too would be defensive if my husband came up to me after work upset that I didn't wave back at them when I saw them on the road.

[@clairemarissa0208]

If a father promises to "help out" with a baby that's a red flag right away - it's your baby as well, there's no "helping out", it's your effing job!

[@DesAnanieva]

You are spoiling us Dylan. 2 channels, 2 videos one week. We are spoiled brats ❤

[@kyragrayc]

i feel like dylan’s gonna regret opening that email box but

[@Ninatji]

I came here to say that 🤣 I hope he shows us what he gets

[@levipeterken4020]

I'm with you on the vehement dislike of the "uwu" anime cutesy girl thing, Dylan. You're certainly not alone on that

[@luizaanderle]

A 13 yo saying that to an adult isn’t crazy. That means she has a voice, she is her own person. Why do you think adults are owed more automatically respect?? She was disrespected by her aunt, her aunt called her dumb. “She should be smart enough to know”. She’s defending herself. Yes, she’s picking up from her mom. But also, she’s setting her boundaries and fighting BACK. She wasn’t rude first.

[@das_Chameleo]

love the show-dont-tell-joke (or rather tell-dont-show lol)

[@mubarakllorente]

On the hand me downs: as a parent to a 2 year old and another one on the way. Selling hand me downs online for a few bucks is doing a great service to other moms. When you donate items it goes to random shops and places, where people have to browse and be lucky to find what they need. And often they still have to pay even though the item was donated. When you take the time to put your items online, people can easily acces your items, and people end up with (almost) exactly the items they are looking for, often for less money then in second hand stores as well as spending less time looking and within the comfort of their home, maybe even while breastfeeding!

[@OllieGalagar]

Everyone who covered the cut off story with the wife makes me feel insane. " It's not a big deal " " oh it was a cute gesture " she speed on the fucking road and could have caused an accident that is not " something small "

[@dannyrae]

hi dylan, selfish cow is a very english term and is honestly not that offensive

[@StephanieOlea]

Yes! I saw the "cow" comment and I immediately though "ohh he's a Brit innit?" haha

[@Izzywildflowerr]

i’m a brit and i was sat here trying to figure out if i was a bad person coz i didn’t think it was that bad 😂

[@dannyrae]

@@Izzywildflowerr no I’m British as well and I was so confused why he was so offended 😭

[@Grav3yardPrincess]

@@Izzywildflowerrthat makes so much sense! 😭 as a non British person it’s usually used as a degrading term lol I didn’t know it was British slang

[@kristinmartin2899]

I mean…..it’s kind of offensive with the intent behind it, he really was calling her a selfish cow…….im not British but I am Aussie where rubbing each other is the norm

[@shauryapandey7808]

My father's uncle asked to borrow my father's old bike, my father transferred the bike to his name so that there aren't any issues while using it, HE SOLD IT AND BOUGHT A NEW BIKE FOR HIMSELF A YEAR LATER, same uncle borrowed an older phone from us, then weeks later sold it to buy a new phone and was complaining to my father (not seriously like a jest) that the phone he borrowed didn't work properly so he exchanged it for cheaper new phone. I don't think my father puts a second thought to any of this but it just leaves a bad taste

[@nickwilliams2415]

Why is he assuming that she's rude to him because of how she treats him, but not that he calls her a cow because he's spent 50-60+ years dealing with her selfish bs? It's okay to be mean to people. Some people deserve it.

[@rochiiLOLJb]

Can’t believe that Dylan aged 1 year, how come he is now 21? :(

[@morganvanderford6173]

The resale of baby stuff honestly does make me mad just because it makes me remember when I gave my insanely nice bookshelf/desk to my sister for my nephew because she insisted he would love it when I was originally going to sell it, just for her to sell it a month after I gave it to her. Forever mad 😭😭

[@AW_13_swifties]

13:33 they are just a whole terrible family😂

[@YX3WQ]

first story: here’s the thing, If SHE was the one saying “I need to take a week long vacation with the girlies bc I need a break” EVERYONE would be calling her a bad mother. But if HE does it, there are some people saying “yeah he deserves a break” it’s classic sexism

[@lovebug3261]

Okay so on the forced babysitting. As a 13yo, myself, I would always get in trouble for my smart mouth even if my parents agreed with me. But I only talked that way if I had absolutely no respect for the adult I was talking to. Not because I heard poop talk about them from someone else, only if they did stuff in front of me that made me loose respect for them.

[@luizaanderle]

As a 29yo who was the “talk back” teen: keep your voice. Respect who respects you. The auntie in the story insinuated her niece was dumb for not knowing she “had to” babysit her kids, she disrespected her niece first. Adults look down on kids and teens SO MUCH, thinking they can say anything about them and not hear back. They treat kids as if they aren’t real people, they’re just meant to obey and not have opinions or boundaries.

[@mariayman77]

24:11 I think for this one is no matter what you give another person, whether it's a gift or a hand-me-down, it doesn't matter what they do with that thing because once you give it to them it's theirs and they can do whatever they want with it. If you don't like what they do with the things you give them, feel free not to give them anything else 🤣

[@KatelynWoolcock]

Ooooooo watching in film studies bc this is important 😂

[@marinaperoides4315]

18:28 OW👁️👄👁️ you don't know gen-z kids😂

[@dykevader01]

Well, 13 is either youngest Gen Z or oldest Gen Alpha, but yeah, we're both truly the generations who expect respect to be mutual and we tell it like it is. As older Gen Z (23) I know how it was to be afraid of adults who don't respect you at all and I will always defend a kid defending themselves against that

[@sophia0969]

I came here to say the exact same thing 😭😭

[@jellybeans3994]

That is a kid not properly taught how to be polite and is being snarky, which has nothing to do with which generation she is a part of.

[@CrickBritt]

​@@jellybeans3994 yes yes we get it