Our Second Pregnancy Loss…

[@unique_baby2501]

Isiah 60:22: when the time is right , i the Lord will make it happen ❤

[@Dee2Jaay]

Won't he do it 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@unique_baby2501]

@@Dee2Jaayhe surely will 🙌 we only need to be still & faith ♥️

[@mixyoutubeshorts630]

Amen my fav verse❤😢

[@unique_baby2501]

@mixyoutubeshorts630 same 😭🥰 so powerful

[@thisparishtv]

He lied

[@edithsgrandbaby9371]

To the few comments with the words "just try again". Please please please STOP! Destiny and Julius just suffered a LOSS of a baby!!! How horrible to say...just try again.....!!! Might as well just say get over it! It was a baby! Their baby! Its not just oh well try again. Have some COMPASSION!

[@valeriita]

Perfectly said. ❤ It's horrible to experience one PERIOD, but to have to go through it more than once, so heartbreaking. I'm sure, or so I pray those types of comments mean no harm, but there's different ways of wording it ❤

[@hildaperez7684]

THANK YOU 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 THAT IS SO SO TRAMATIZING, THEY DON'T NEED OR WANNA HEAR THAT 😢😢😢

[@rayettenicole3698]

Whoever left that ridiculous comment ( “just try again”) should be blocked. How disrespectful. Ppl are so weird

[@edithsgrandbaby9371]

@rayettenicole3698 just when I thought it couldn't get worse some horrible human made an even more disgusting comment. It made me filled with anger

[@victoriamartinez2500]

So sorry for your loss, sending prayers and love.

[@liloandstitch95210]

I have had 3 miscarriages before i had my son. He is now 7 years and ive had 3 more miscarriages after him. It never gets easy, i finally had my 2nd rainbow baby Jan 2024 and even tho the age gap is big im so thankful and greatful. Dont give up. Dont ever give up .

[@adriennet3606]

Congratulations ❤

[@michellebarron1987]

I had 2 losses in 2nd trimester over the last couple of years. Waiting for our rainbow 🌈. ❤️

[@Sandramarr_]

I’m so sorry you guys!! I had 2 miscarriages back to back one at 7weeks and one at 12weeks. I felt like not trying again It’s so hard physically and mentally. I ended up pregnant again after my miscarriage I didn’t even get a period but it was so scary each day I felt like I couldn’t enjoy my pregnancy. Thankful this time around my rainbow baby made it. I just gave birth to her 2 days ago. Don’t give up!! You will get your rainbow baby soon when the time is right god will make it happen❤️ much love!

[@clariseharrington8252]

🙏♥️

[@faith_God]

may God Bless you and your family . You were able to enjoy your first born and spoil him and give him all the attention . I still feel guilty that i didnt give my first born enough time to enjoy her . My BC failed! thats a perfect age Gap though he can be your lil helper if he wants lol 🙏🏼

[@anamedina624]

aw! Him saying “we gotta be gentle with mama” he was SO excited! i am so sorry you’re going through this. sending you guys all the love!! 🫶🏼🤍

[@CioerKieov]

We all grieve when a mother sheds tears, and I pray that God will send you the most gorgeous angel at the appropriate time. You are a wonderful mother and deserve everything that you have. Be strong, full of love, and light, mama. 🥽

[@guadalupevega6475]

When one mama cries we all cry , I hope god sends you the most beautiful angel whenever the time is right 🤍ur such a good mama and deserve it all you got this mama be strong much love and light ✝️👼🏻🪽

[@camilahalarcon4253]

when one mama cries we all cry is so real … we love you des you’re not alone

[@Highfamiily2019]

Des we love you. Praying your strength during this time.

[@Aquaair88]

I don’t even have kids and I’m sobbing

[@articareadus3422]

💯

[@kenyajeria2034]

Miscarriages are the worst. And I hate that we women go through this. I have been there and only thing that doesn’t help healing is thinking you did something wrong. I was blessed with rainbow babies (twins). You will be blessed with another rainbow baby, god bless.

[@chii_nik]

This is my exact story. I miscarried May 2023 I cried soooooo bad! People told me ‘ehn it’s okay’ no one understood but I was blessed with twins July 2023 🙏

[@kenyajeria2034]

@@chii_nik that’s so nice. Definitely a blessing.

[@paulinahuff5513]

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss, Destiny. I feel your pain I truly do. I had two miscarriages before having my rainbow baby and just had a third miscarriage last month after getting pregnant with a Mirena IUD. I would recommend having your OB/GYN look into your recurrent pregnancy loss. In my case, after the first two miscarriages, my husband and I had a full work up done and I had a hysteroscopy to examine my uterus and absolutely nothing was wrong with either one of us. I had seen a video on IG about a woman with recurrent miscarriages and she spoke about having low progesterone. When I became pregnant with my rainbow baby my Dr immediately started me on progesterone suppositories and I took them until 13 weeks and carried my precious rainbow baby to full term. It’s worth looking into. I pray that God comforts you during this time.

[@jacquelin_ort]

I am so sorry for your loss. I feel your pain I truly do, 2 weeks ago I lost twin boys and I was 25 weeks pregnant. Losing a baby is the hardest and most painful thing that a mother has to go through. It’s tough right now but we need to keep pushing for our kids that are here with us . Sending you the tightest hugs to you and your little family 🤍🤍🫂

[@I.love.music2022]

I am so sorry for what you both went through. Sending prayers of strength and comfort to you both. God bless✝️🙏

[@cinthyajaramillo1833]

“It’s like grieving someone you’re the only one that knew it existed.” That’s all you had to say to understand the pain🥺😔 May god bless you and your family always.

[@theurbancowgirlesthetics]

My three year old just came up to me and said "why is she crying?" i said , she's just sad.....he then says "she misses her baby?"........I was like whoa. So sorry for your loss, I've experienced it as well and Its never easy. Prayers to you and yours.

[@ilennemercado7830]

I’m currently going through a miscarriage right now, and I wouldn’t wish this feeling on anyone. I’ve been crying the past 2 days mourning the loss of someone i never met but loved so much. This made me feel a little less alone. I’m so sorry for your loss 👼🏽🪽Sending you so much love and strength 🩷

[@joannmatsuis]

Iam so sorry for your loss🫂 sending love and prayers

[@alexisreyes4179]

I’m so sorry for your loss . Sending you love and healing vibes . I’m here for you

[@Beccaboo94]

Sending you love ❤

[@karabomatsekoleng1506]

I'm so sorry mama. All the hugs and positivity your way❤

[@katelynnaeristevens1394]

I am so sorry for your loss 😢

[@christinescorner111]

“It’s like grieving someone you’re the only one who knew they existed” wow. I am two miscarriages and two years since the last and did I feel that in my stomach like no other. I am so sorry des. And juju as it’s a loss for you too. For whatever warped reason the universe didn’t want this to happen at the time🥺but do not think this is forever, I feel the rainbow baby coming. My condolences and take whatever time and way you guys need to grieve. As well not to sound nasty but I am very glad you have someone to lean into during this time. I was calling the father on the phone that night while I bled all over the cold hospital floor alone, and until he didn’t pick up at that late hour, I didn’t realize I wasn’t the only one. There was another woman. I lost two things that day and boy I wouldn’t wish that pain on my worst enemy, but I promise for this pain the universe will gift you. It’s very hard to wrap your head around why, and why me. But sometimes horrible things happen for no good reason. Be patient. Ily and I’m so sorry. ❤🌹

[@brittanysneed9660]

So sorry to hear that Des😢 god works miracles and I know you will have another baby when the time is right

[@lisaniespino2280]

Amen🫶🏻

[@faith_God]

Amen Trust his timing 🙌🏽

[@Beccaboo94]

Pregnancy loss is one of the roughest things to grief because its sooo lonely here. Its an uncomfortable subject for outsiders so we just isolate ourselves. You arent alone mama ❤ praying for yall

[@tonja2707]

When I had a miscarriage, I felt so helpless. I felt like my life was just leaving my body a few moments at a time. My child was wanted, prayed for, planned for & overall just my dream. I am so very sorry Des because I know the feeling. Juju, I can't say I know what you're feeling, but I know what it feels like to be in love with an idea & have it slide through your fingers like sand. You guys, hold firm & fast to each AND onto Koa. HE is your gift in this, delivered STRAIGHT from God who knew this moment was coming. I'm rooting for you two & no matter what the future holds, I'll be tuned in to watch the story of 'The Browns' be written ... one word... one chapter... one precious page at a time.

[@AbrielDelaney]

Beautifully said. Asé O🙏🏽

[@danielatavarez8616]

My heart broke seeing the title 😔 *will update my comment when I’m done watching * so sorry you guys

[@gloriareyes1051]

Me too

[@Godsdaughter1209]

Me 3!

[@wendymartinez8918]

Don’t give up! ❤ I had a miscarriage with my first and it was an empty sac but my body wouldn’t miscarriage so I had to get a D&C procedure. The days were dark but 4 months later I got pregnant again and now he’s one. Trust in god and have faith ❤

[@myrnawilliams4415]

Blessing overload !!!

[@osdileinny]

Omg I went through the same thing! I didn’t get the D&C but my body finally miscarried at 16 weeks! And then 2 months later I got pregnant with my rainbow baby! He’s about tot turn 1 in a couple days!!

[@PassionateDancerGirl]

I had the same thing I had a miscarriage, sac was not empty though. I needed a D&C and got pregnant my very next cycle with my rainbow baby.

[@stephaniecarrell140]

I haven't had this happen to me and I hope it never does but I am so truly sorry for anyone that is or has had this happen it took me 10 years to conceive my son and I've been trying for 4 years to have my second but nothing is working and I've got PCOS

[@wendymartinez8918]

@@osdileinny I’m sorry I know it’s not easy whatsoever! But I’m glad he’s about to turn one! Enjoy each moment ❤️

[@edithsgrandbaby9371]

😢😢😢😢Just seeing the title and im in tears. Destiny I have been praying for you literally night and day. Im so very sorry to hear about a second loss. Im wrapping my arms around you via internet. I love you Destiny ❤. Julius im so sorry you are going through this as well. Desr God,Please wrap your arms around Destiny, Julius and Koa as they experience a sad and difficult time. The loss of a second angel baby. Cover them lord and mah they feel your comfort. 🙏Amen Des and Julius im really so sorry this is heartbreaking. I will continue to pray for you as well as Koa. I love you both. ❤

[@MyLouAmore]

The fact that you guys muster up the courage and strength to share your story yet again means the world. I’ve never conceived nor plan on it, but just know you guys are helping those parents who have gone through your same situation and also bringing even more awareness to recurrent miscarriages. Gods timing is everything and I am hopeful that you will be a mommy of 2.

[@cinthiabonds9034]

“When you go through deep waters, I will be with you. When you go through rivers of difficulty, you will not drown. When you walk through the fire of oppression, you will not be burned up; the flames will not consume you.” Isaiah 43:2❤ Praying for you and your family mama !🙏🏼

[@mmabasothoraditladi2718]

Amen❤

[@amayarosecaribe]

my mommy intuition kicked in when you were in the hospital… i had a very strong and sad feeling of a loss. i hope you heal through this loss and when you’re ready to try again, you’ll be blessed with your rainbow baby 🌈

[@lebogangmagome6739]

Me too hey like from the last video she looked sad and wanted to cry when she said she needs to go to the hospital like I knew something might have happened 😢

[@heatherexline7517]

I can only imagine how much harder it is being a creator and sharing your life with millions of people also so it's gonna be harder because you share your life I commend you destiny for even making this video to share to maybe Help other woman going through the same thing I freaking appreciate you ♡ you have such a strong soul & this is amazing for you to be open about. I'm so sorry because the pain of losing your child isn't easy at all YOU ARE SO FREAKING STRONG AND AMAZING YOU WILL FOR SURE GET THROUGH THIS KOA WILL BRIGHTEN YOUR DAYS AND GOD KNOWS you both are the best parents and you'll get through it and will end up having other beautiful babies ᰔᩚᰔᩚ

[@Mommaof2boys89]

I lost my daughter after I had my oldest son a year later. She was 7 months old in my belly. I held her named her and buried her. It was the hardest thing I did. 8 years later I had my second son. I pray for you and when god is ready for you to have one you will don’t give up. Love you giys praying for you guys

[@c-re-yb2ki]

Sorry for your loss :( especially so late in the pregnancy.

[@jocelynellerman4329]

OMG I am so sorry for your loss seriously.. I can not imagine the amount of strength you had to have to continue on in life.. may you continue to have peace with it and God Bless you 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

[@Melissa-cu9rc]

So relatable. My little bean stopped growing at 8 weeks and it was incredibly difficult to process. Hearing you talk about your feelings brought up emotions that I’m still processing. Praying for a rainbow for you and all of us that can relate to this video 🤍

[@heyyykebzzz8620]

That's what I called my baby too beanbug lost him at 13 weeks

[@gloriajones1204]

Thank you JuJu for sitting side by side with Des, a lot of men don’t think it’s a big deal and won’t go through the pain with you. Thank you dude ❤

[@lbanuelos24]

I had a feeling that was what her hospital visit last video was, just sad that it had this outcome 😔. Miscarriages are hard, it's something I would never wish upon anyone! I suffered a Miscarriage with twins back in 2012... I was already a mama of 2 boys, but it was still difficult to get over it! You are right though Destiny, God's timing is perfect! My Miscarriage didn't make sense at the time, but a few years later it did! I'm a proud mama of 5 boys now! I know your time will come! Hugs to you guys during this time ❤

[@livvy.mcguire]

my girl 🤍😭 I just want to give you the world's biggest hug and just hold you. you have the sweetest, biggest heart full of so much love. praying for you guys 🤍🤍🤍

[@hersheyt0614]

rainbow baby coming soon, I can feel it❤

[@Louisa7223]

I think so too

[@Jessss-lo4st]

Absolutely 🩷

[@JelenaSimic-ho2dv]

Yup I got pregnant from first try after a miscarriage

[@lexxx9898]

December !

[@hersheyt0614]

@@lexxx9898 yes, I SAID THE SAME MONTH 🙌🏾

[@angie.k4477]

Im so sorry guys 😔i know the feeling I went through it myself i found out I was 4weeks pregnant on Mother's day 2021. Lost it at 8weeks. When i went to the doctor i was 10weeks. I was also bleeding. N they told me no heart beat n its stop at 8week. I cried out first baby. My husband cried for days. I saw the fetus when it came out. Its a heartbreaking experience. ❤ ever since. I just dont want any kids anymore. We're good. I hope you'll get a rainbow baby soon🙏🏻💕

[@alejandracasillas7726]

After 5 years of not being able to conceive naturally, One miscarriage and two rounds of fertility treatments, I am finally 6 weeks pregnant again. This video really scares me. Its still very early and it’s hard to be be hopeful given my previous experience. Anyways…I am saddened that you guys are going through this and I will keep you in my prayers. 💗

[@verneelabega606]

has your doctor recommended you take progesterone? i heard it helps especially when you've had a previous miscarriage

[@lelemoh4145]

You’re going to be fine sis, you are going to hold your little baby in your arms and even forget the worries and fears you had. Wishing you a safe and healthy baking session momma ❤love and light 🤗

[@kaylavuchinich4814]

I’ve had 3 miscarriages since January. I’ve never got to the point of seeing a heartbeat. I’ve never been able to carry a baby full term. I’m at the point where I don’t get excited anymore when I’m pregnant. I’m so sorry for your loss but just know you’re not alone. Don’t give up hope. One thing I was told is when you have a baby inside you even if it ends in a miscarriage their cells stay you forever. So you’ll always have them in that way. That’s given me comfort.

[@kathycontreras1981]

@@kaylavuchinich4814 please ask ur Dr for progesterone.. it'll force ur body to carry..

[@graceaiyanyor]

Oh my God, I am so sorry

[@Nunya-kb1zi]

Don't give up hunny❤❤❤

[@jelissam1831]

I can’t even finish watching this video without crying. My heart breaks for you guys!

[@osdileinny]

Omg I went through the same thing! I didn’t get the D&C but my body finally miscarried at 16 weeks! And then 2 months later I got pregnant with my rainbow baby! He’s about tot turn 1 in a couple days! I’m praying for you Des this is not easy!! The way I processed it was just reminding myself that the Sac was empty for a reason, and that God works in mysterious ways!

[@elisaguzman5178]

i’m so sorry for your loss destiny🤍 i know how hard it is to go through, i have had 3 losses and still have no child. Words can not describe the feeling of this kind of loss. it’s hard never easy, it can feel so lonely. Most important to just stay positive💗 i feel for you guys ignore those comment try again or it wasn’t the right time. A loss is still a loss and you need to grieve and that takes time. Spend time with your loved ones and stay positive💕

[@sandrandunge7627]

Sending hugs your way ✨

[@kaylas.3094]

I cried the entire time from start to finish, I felt like my best friend or family member was telling me this news💔 I’m so sorry Destiny and Julius.

[@meishabarnes9214]

😢i totally understand your pain Des. I have gone through 2 miscarriages and the doctor says i won't have a baby. Now am 7 months pregnant God timing is the best . Just for us to trust and wait upon him 🙏

[@Nunya-kb1zi]

God will.do it love ❤️ 🎉congratulations

[@joanmorales8329]

When Julius rubbed your belly saying, “we gotta be gentle with mama” it made me tear up. The both of you are such a loving couple. Sending so much love to the both of you. I still remember watching the video you posted of your first miscarriage 😔

[@laurenmae7313]

ive misscarried a couple years ago and it still breaks my heart when i think about it😔but now i have a beautiful baby boy coming next month and im so blessed and thankful to have had a healthy strong pregnancy🙏🏽❤️you just got to keep your head up and stay strong because youre going to have another baby one day no matter what you gotta keep trying and keep staying positive no matter how hard it is ❤️❤️

[@adrianatorres8533]

I truly don’t know how you even have the strength to record these videos.. my heart is breaking for you. Lord knows…you’re so strong. I admire you.

[@SvoenDiccr]

"It will hurt but it will be ok I know it will be ok" I can relate to you because I experienced an ectopic pregnancy and battle PCOS, so that portion really hurt me. I really apologize for what you're going through. Hugs and strength to you ❏‍

[@Lexiskony]

My heart hurts. what you said before going into the hospital, about how your whole life changes when you find out is so real. I sat in the shower crying for weeks after my miscarriage at only 5 weeks. I only knew for a few days but it was genuinely the hardest thing I ever went through. Thinking of baby names, looking at clothes, thinking about holding them, what they will look like, how you’re going to tell your family & friends, etc. it consumes your whole mind 100% of the time the minute you find out … then one day it gets taken from you. The feeling of emptiness afterwords is so intense. Helpless. Sad. Empty. A miscarriage is the most intense feeling of sadness I’ve ever felt. A bone deep sadness. And no matter how many people you go through it with, only you know how it really feels. I’m sorry Destiny. Wishing all the baby dust to you and your beautiful family.

[@littledesi123]

I’m in tears. Watching you cry in that parking lot, as a mom myself. I felt that to the core of my heart. I’m so sorry Destiny. Praying for peace over you tonight and throughout this journey 🙏🏻

[@cassandrahoveland8243]

I’m so sorry for your loss! Those were beautiful words Destiny about how it feels to have a miscarriage. Take all the time you need to grieve. I’ve had four miscarriages and it never gets easier and the lose still hurts the same everytime! Hugs and prayers to your family!

[@PrincessMejico91]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for strength and peace during this time and a healthy blessing when the time is right. 🙏❤️

[@befelizfit]

It’s so admirable that you share the hard parts of your life publicly. So many people feel alone and to see they’re not is a beautiful thing ❤ love, light, & blessings to your family.

[@TheFoobMan]

It’s admirable to monetize the death of a child? Yeah totally.

[@jqf284]

​@@TheFoobMando you know how many people kept commenting under EVERYTHING she posted asking if she was pregnant, assuming she was pregnant or telling her to get pregnant¿? And now she has to share that she WAS but unfortunately no longer is. That's heartbreaking 💔 they didn't share this for money tf is wrong with you? They shared this to let women know they're not alone.

[@TheFoobMan]

@@jqf284 there are ads on a video about the death of a child. So, yes, they are doing this for money. If the goal was to let women know they are not alone, ads would’ve been removed.

[@TheFoobMan]

@@jqf284 ahh yes….nothing to say to that point. Maybe you’ll think twice before blindly putting strangers on a pedestal.

[@jqf284]

@TheFoobMan lol 😆 I just don't care to argue with you that's all 😊 I understand the point of the video as well as millions of others so I'm good here & will continue to keep them on a nice ass pedestal ✌️

[@JessicaDanielleT]

Jesus ! 💔 my baby Des , my Pretty girl I love you sweet girl. My heart aches for you .., you have been through so much and you grieve your way and yes you will on God’s timing One thing for sure God is real and you have a army praying for you. Juju and Des I admire you two so much as a married couple. It might be storming now but Juju, Des, and Koa get ready for the overflow 🙏🏽🙌🏾❤️ love y’all

[@dacque23]

Destiny, I can see the glory of god in you. Thank you for being vulnerable and accepting. Your time will come and we are so excited for you to share. I pray you find comfort in this and continue being the great mother you are! God loves you, Destiny!

[@kurlicia989]

This was so hard to watch. From someone that had three miscarriages it's really heart breaking. Still waiting to be blessed with my miracle baby. I am so sorry for your loss

[@nadinennenim4185]

❤

[@marisolgarduno4969]

Aw I’m sooooo sorry to hear that! I had 3 miscarriages and 1 painful ectopic life threatening pregnancy in 2020 where I had to have an emergency surgery because one of my tubes erupted. I sympathize the mental , physical and emotional pain. I was bless with baby boys back to back in 2021 and 2022. May God bless you and your family with strength and health. You got this! Take your time girly only time will heal your heart.

[@nicolebaker3773]

Sorry for your loss. I have experienced a miscarriage and haven’t been able to get pregnant ever since. Praying I’ll get my rainbow baby soon. Ben’s trying 5yrs. Everything is on God’s timing. Prayers for you and your family. ❤

[@michellebarron1987]

Destiny…get the cyst looked at more thoroughly. Get imaging done for any other abnormal growths in or around your uterus. I had two losses and was told the fibroid in my uterine lining was not the problem but they could never tell me what the cause of the losses were. I ultimately decided to get the fibroid removed after my 2nd loss earlier this year through an abdominal surgery. Found out there was a small cyst during the surgery and it was removed as well. Only downside is any future pregnancies will require c section but it’s totally worth it for me and I’m strong. You are strong too. Advocate for yourself and your angel babies and demand answers. Praying for your strength and sending a big hug ❤

[@Justice-Martin]

she had a c section with koa!

[@mizzelleve]

Wow this video tugged on my heart strings YET again! I felt like I was reliving the 2021 experience 😢. Destiny I pray and pray for your strength and healing. I am happy you have the most supportive husband by your side ❤. God is a miracle-working God and we know the unexplained conception that Koa was 🙏🏾🙏🏾 Koa is literally a walking miracle and soon he will have another miracle sibling! I feel this is in my heart. May you and Julius continue being supportive and being that safe space for each other 🙏🏾 Many blessings !

[@JustDesiringMore]

I am so sorry for your loss. I have not been through this before, but I am a mother and can only imagine. Thank you for being so open and letting us into such a vulnerable moment in your life. You both are such an amazing couple!

[@KeyshiaAndrews]

i’m so sorry 😢 i know the feeling and it hurts & seeing the excitement on koa’s face when you told julius you were pregnant broke my heart after watching the video. i was at work and it started out as spotting then as the day progressed, it got bigger and bigger until i passed a blood clot and i knew in that moment that it was happening 😢 and even when they confirm it, it hurts so much more. praying for your family & the right time will happen ❤ god blessed me 3 months after that marriage and i have a beautiful almost 3 year old , my rainbow 🌈 baby!!

[@chloeallenkoe7521]

So sorry to you both. We love and support you through thick and thin.

[@Aikaaaaa11]

People forget influencers are real people. She didn’t have to share the is information, but she choose too. That’s why it’s so important to be kind to everyone, you never know what someone’s going through. My heart is with you destiny. I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this. Sending hugs and prayers your way ❤

[@mzshawty704]

This literally made me cry because I went through the same thing. I was 7weeks and miscarriage July 21. Your not alone. So I’m sorry for your loss. I love you guys.

[@ari-wq6rn]

wow i started watching you guys when i was a teenager. i’m 24 now and have gone through my own miscarriage. it was heartbreaking and the excitement you get and then finding out that’s all gone is excruciating. take your time and heal from this. if another baby is meant your futures i have no doubt that their souls will come back to you both.

[@ari-wq6rn]

i commented this before watching honestly and i also just want to say.. when i miscarried i was alone really .. the dad was in florida and i was in michigan. for the first time in 2 years i felt so seen and understood listening to you talk while you were in the car. i haven’t had many people or any really to talk to about everything but hearing you speak everything i felt was so touching and healing to me.

[@abigailcarlinsky9191]

Crying throughout the whole video. Broke my heart to see Julius dancing with excitement only to find out the worst news. Des you are so strong and great mom, God will surely bless you guys again when the time is right. I'm so sorry you guys😪

[@jacquelineguevara974]

So sorry for your lost God will bless you with another baby when the time is right remember God never puts anything in your path that you can not handle

[@jacquelineguevara974]

I went through this last year and it’s so hard and everything you say is very true.

[@MaryUlatowski]

My heart breaks for you. Pregnancy is the most terrifying time. Ive never miscarried so I can’t say I know how you feel. But I can relate the feeling you get when you find out you’re pregnant. There’s no feeling that could ever compare. Keep moving forward ❤ I wish you and your family so much love

[@amberlutz2303]

This is coming from a place of LOVE- 1. so so sorry mama 2. I know what you're going thru in a way.. and 3. Please next time yall are pregnant or try call your Dr asap and explain your loss history, and request blood tests asap (especially for progesterone) I wish you guys happiness and healing🥺🫶🏼

[@cruzwithang5924]

This makes me so sad to see the pain in both of your eyes. Thank you for opening up to us & sharing a very vulnerable moment in your life. 🫶

[@savannahX09]

Crying for you 😢 You are genuinely such a light. You are beautiful inside and out. I appreciate you sharing this loss. I know it is such a vulnerable, raw thing to go through. You are incredibly brave 🥺

[@cynthiasmittle1347]

I’m so sorry Destiny and Julius I can’t imagine how painful it must be to relive this trauma 😢

[@isela.f]

this gave me so many chills and makes me super sad because I went through the same thing

[@emilybee1226]

I’m so so sorry for your loss 🤍 sending prayers and love ! 🫶🏽

[@Letstalkpositive-lov]

I have lost two baby girls I no exactly how you feel .Its going to be hard but pray and cry if you of to dont keep it in and speak about it . I pray god bless us with our rainbow baby one day 🙏🙏

[@KalmarieLopez]

the way you guys are so excited and it just got ripped away from you guys i know the feeling , i’ve suffered 2 pregnancy losses as well after my first born and it’s just a empty feeling wishing healing towards you 2 😢

[@mireyavenegas3977]

"It will hurt but it will be ok I know it will be ok" That part broke me 😢cause I know how you feel I had an ectopic pregnancy and struggle with PCOS.. I'm so sorry about what your going through.. sending you strength and hugs ❤️‍🩹

[@ashleywhittington9743]

As someone who can’t have kids anymore I’m praying that you have another baby kind of what happened with koa..I hope and pray you heal separately and together..♥️♥️

[@brentandmir]

so sorry for your loss 😢❤️ sending you prayers! We love you!!

[@mirandaalicia1]

I just started bleeding and passing bloods clots yesterday I was 6 weeks and I have a 3 yr old was so excited to give her a sibling it’s so heartbreaking. I’m sorry this happened and I just wanted to say thank you for sharing because I feel so alone and so sad right now but it will get better for the both of us. God doesn’t put us through anything we can’t handle.

[@Shyyworldd]

My heart goes out to you guys! Having a miscarriage is so hard I’ve been through it. I’ve always have fertility issues it took us over a year of no protection to get pregnant.. and still I had complications but my heart is with you guys. You’ll get through this and you are strong love you!

[@alyssacannon1213]

aww baby! I’ve been watching yall forever 😭 sending loveeee!

[@claudiaguevara718]

Nooo!!! Just read the title and I don't want to watch 😭 im so heartbroken for u guys already 😭😭 there's no words of comfort. I'm so sorry this happened ❤️‍🩹

[@jenniferaba2000]

I am going through a miscarriage currently. It’s been one of the hardest things I’ve been through. This is my first pregnancy and I didn’t know how much I needed this baby until we lost it. Seeing all these influencers and people post about their pregnancy going great has been so hard when it’s all I want.

[@hagridsaurus4155]

I am so so sorry. I had the same thing happen last year. Time helps but it changes you forever. I hope you get your hopes answered in the future ❤🙏🏼

[@Zennilicious]

I will keep u guys in my prayers. I appreciate that u guys r sooo genuine with us, showing us & involving us. It also helps sooo many others to not feel alone & to know what to do & what to look for if it happens to them. It made me cry happy & sad tears.

[@Houseofduncan]

The pep talk you gave yourself broke me,praying for your strength !

[@lindseyoser3360]

I’m so sorry for your loss mama 😢 life is so unfair sometimes. I’m sending you all my love Des

[@Robifitness__]

It will happen in gods timing beautiful 😢I’m sorry for your loss

[@KayloveDrake]

I am so sorry , the pain you feel is unexplainable when loosing a baby. No matter how far along you are. 😢 I remember your first miscarriage before Koa I was newly pregnant when you guys announced your loss. Then Shortly after I miscarried . I have been blessed with a baby boy after trying for a few months after my loss. He will be 2 very soon . It’s hard to to grieve a baby while trying for a baby . I have so many mixed feeling on trying for another. You are so brave Des. I truly feel like God brought the two of you together to lift each other up. Thank you for sharing your story when you didn’t have to , but you thank you for giving me hope. I wish your little growing family the best ❤ . In due time I’m excited for the next pregnancy announcement. God bless 🫂❤️

[@vbrown5986]

Aww you can see it in Julius’s Eyes he’s trying so hard to be strong for the both of them. 😔 I pray that you have love n comfort of strength upon your lil family. He hears you. God hears n will heal you. All in his timing ♥️

[@theary5755]

Progesterone and baby aspirin throughout my entire pregnancy finally gave me my rainbow baby this year!

[@cindymarie9222]

Same with me. My first pregnancy ended in miscarriage. Second pregnancy ended with my rainbow baby & the doctor had me on both medications. My third pregnancy ended in miscarriage so when I decide to try again I’ll request those medications to see if it can help. Prayers to your family Des!! ❤🙏

[@theary5755]

@@cindymarie9222aww! Congrats on your rainbow baby!❤ I had early miscarriages until my dr decided to put me on progesterone and aspirin the moment I got a positive test. My rainbow baby, Myles was born Jan 2024! I hope destiny sees this comment and mentions this to her Dr.🙏🏼

[@Ohsoyoudani]

I’m on baby aspirin this pregnancy .

[@zuleyka20ify]

Same! Had my rainbow baby!

[@shakemabrown1113]

@@cindymarie9222How early were you able to start the progesterone love?

[@brittnihitchcock7011]

I’m so sorry for your loss❤I felt every word Destiny, you are not alone❤️I had my first loss 5 years ago and I still think of my angel all the time. Gets easier to talk about as time passes but never hurts any less on the heart. Prayers for you and your family❤️ Praying for my rainbow baby too someday

[@Chellooo__]

You are not ALONE! I’ve had 2 miscarriages. One at 18 weeks… I have my two angels with me.. I know my angel babies have seen & played with their siblings before I got to hold them in my arms…. I had one before my first child & I had another before my second… Prayers girly! Your emotions are valid! 🙏🏼🕊️💕🥺😭💋

[@sabb.2090]

my heart is heavy for yall 😢 sorry this isnt ur guy’s first rodeo. Wishing the best forward for u, jes and julius ❤ support forever the time will come 🤞🏽 god willingly

[@moniquemesidor8043]

Such a sacred moment...to share even in while grieving a loss is huge ❤

[@Blessed.1362]

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[@pablicioborges]

I'm inspired. Please spill some sugar about the bi-weekly stuff you mentioned.

[@Blessed.1362]

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[@Blessed.1362]

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[@Isabella1-l]

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[@Isabella1-l]

I started with a miserly $1500. The results have been mind blowing I must say TBH

[@Jessicanottrantham]

I just think it’s incredible that regardless of what was going on, they still managed to post content. My heart goes out to Destiny. & Julius. We love you guys and many prayers sent your way! ♥️

[@elenamoreno7644]

Last time this happened you got pregnant with Koa almost immediately, my guess is you will have that rainbow baby again soon

[@jqf284]

Agreed within the same week she miscarried she was pregnant again🤰🙏🙏🙏

[@leareyna6015]

I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for comfort for your family. May God hold you guys a little bit tighter in this time of grief. Your rainbow baby is coming and will be picked out perfectly by their angel siblings ❤

[@Thatgirlmoee_]

I love that y’all are showing the REAL ups and downs ! Showing everyone that y’all go through things just like us ! Destiny your a sweetheart and you’ll get another baby when the time is right ❤❤❤

[@liyahh.mariee8]

god works in many ways.. stay strong it will happen sending you love and light juju and des 🙏🏼

[@xoliswasandisiwe5934]

Sending y’all love and prayers !!! ❤❤

[@Carmensslife]

Im sooo sorry ❤️‍🩹 babydust soon❤️

[@mymysworld3345]

Lord I cried with you… everything is in Gods timing stay strong mama ❤️

[@mirrormirror7172]

I hold all of you women here so high. We are incredible and our bodies are so beautiful. I’m so sorry for you and juju but also all the women here sharing your stories. I know one day you will all get ur miracle babies and I’ll pray for you all tonight. Keep fighting and think positively bc one day, you’ll baby will be born. I love u all ❤

[@lindseyoser3360]

i love you guys so much ive been with y’all since day one, i’m a silent follower but you guys give me hope & i genuinely wish the best for y’all ❤

[@Moonchild.513]

Unfortunately, this is the part of womanhood no one preps us for. They tell us about the pains of childbirth. They never tell us losing them hurts so much worse! You have so many sisters in these comments, Des. Wishing so much light for yall. Your legacy is just beginning to unfold. ✨️

[@s.a.6138]

It's not part of womanhood at all, less than 20% of women go through miscarriage, most women go through life without ever having one. Young girls are gonna see this comment thinking they'll for sure go through this when it's unlikely

[@Moonchild.513]

@s.a.6138 huh? That's known pregnancies. Only like a 3rd of fertilized eggs make it to full term. I'm not about to debate stats with you under this post. It's weird and frankly callous. It is a part of womanhood that's possible and they should be educated about it. If they're young enough to think that then they should go talk to someone. Be for real