How Would Allison Know If She Was Gay? / Gaby & Allison

[@zuliamol]

we saw Allison's mind blow up right in front of us lol

[@hayleyharris6300]

Susana Sabino SHE LOOKS SO SHOOK OH MY GOD I DIDNT EVEN PAY ATTENTION TO HER REACTIONS 😂😂😂

[@chloelynch5286]

Hayley Harris even Igor looks enlightened

[@potocatepetl]

You do realise that these things are scripted, don't you?

[@poetofthefall4413]

potocatepetl This is not a skit, the skits are the scripted ones

[@phenixroi7622]

Shariq Torres g

[@mineola_]

Allison was so quiet! All her brainpower went to processing I guess 😂

[@kohlinoor]

I mean, that is evolutionary biology in a nutshell! Stronger men with more testosterone were better equipped provide and protect a family, thus prolonging the survival of our species. Many people believe this is still true of modern women's preferences, though I'm sure it's a bit more nuanced in certain societies, if not all of them.

[@Erin-ho8qu]

sbcontt Jesus

[@tutunepan492]

It is for me....I like being folded into .....just warp me up ;D

[@kohlinoor]

I think a large part of what you've described boils down to how we're socialized, because humans learn by imitating what they see around them, for better or worse. You're right- it's not healthy at all, but it seems to be pretty instinctual in most people. It's also very confusing that we're living in a modern society, where such traditions can be openly questioned, but still feel so drawn to of our ancestors' customs. Speaking from personal experience as a bisexual woman currently struggling with how to express my femininity, there are many feminine tropes that repulse me, but that I unconsciously gravitate towards anyways. There's a form of safety and comfort in sticking to the status quo.

[@arossiter]

"She thinks women are more attractive than men" "All straight girls do" accurate af. Igor seemed so perplex but all my straight friends would say the same thing haha

[@hallecute2]

April Rossiter she said "everyone does"

[@shadebug]

5:39 April is quoting Gabby, you're quoting Allison

[@chibichocofairy]

Gaby was the one that said "All straight girls do", Allison said "everyone thinks that" Also, am a girl, and other girls are SO pretty/attractive.

[@kohlinoor]

Yeah, I guess it's weird because usually we use the word attractive to people we have at least a little interest in sexually and/or or romantically. But these days more people understand that's there's more to attraction than just physical appearance and hormones, at least for most girls. I can't speak for most guys.

[@JoodSomething]

Women are prettier yes, but I don't know about the "more attractive" part

[@theannieelainey]

I got emotional at Allison's discovery process!! Ugh! Confusion/questioning and self-discovery is so vulnerable and relatable 💗

[@distantignition]

Seriously! It's a vulnerability that everyone should walk through without judging yourself or worrying about judgment from others.

[@DeedeeDirt]

I'm really emotional about this too waugh

[@songfreak1745]

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[@noelleli4187]

"I can't even be funny right now because I am really going through something." Wow. Alison. Wow. Unlock your true self.

[@shivani_]

The episodes where they get just a little more serious than usual are always my favorites!!

[@jammydodger1]

How does no one talk about how amazing Gabby's hair is? I honestly die every time the light glistens over it

[@BrianS2464]

And her smile makes my ovaries tingle

[@TwiCaCaX]

+Brian TX yeah she has the cutest smile tbh

[@SvenicusGermainus]

Is it social pressure from straight people that is making Allison want to stay straight or is it social pressure from queer people that is making Allison think she's actually a lesbian? The plot thickens.

[@28glitter]

That's a really good point. Not every little sign means someone is straight, but not every little sign means someone is queer either.

[@charlyerose4913]

Was thinking the same thing.

[@ontariporatam666]

Excellent point

[@shabnamsingla9566]

Oh boy yes

[@ellecimz6618]

I think there are a lot of people who are also attracted to like "souls" and that's confusing, it doesn't have much definition

[@marinashutup]

KISS ALL THE GIRLS

[@kohlinoor]

YEs, Allison!! DO IT. I believe in you. ;D

[@ShaineWarren]

#LifeGoals :)

[@soph7480]

agreed. girls are cleaner than boys (stereotypically) so maybe she'll enjoy that part of girls. also their boobs.

[@DeedeeDirt]

YES!

[@roguex9469]

Xanax No, not all boys are dirty and not every girl is cleaner either. Hygiene varies, also it depends on the person not the gender. This applies to everything in general as well.

[@thebeggs4]

"Spinning Pie" as a euphemism for sex. That's gold, you've got to trademark that, Gaby!

[@poetofthefall4413]

thebeggs4 Igor said it tho...

[@Natalie-101]

Put it right up there with Naked Cuddle™! XD

[@elitettelbach4247]

Igor's comments toward the beginning were really sweet

[@juliagomes6458]

Eli Tettelbach yessss i love when igor is in it!

[@jhubeJELLO]

it's almost TOO sweet. How can he appear so perfect??

[@leydimariela6960]

WTF! This has become my favorite episode. Because of how open Alison was instead of just dodging the questions. Proud of you Alison. Whether your gay or not. Also, I love all of you ❤❤

[@tutunepan492]

she dodges a lot

[@aaronpelchat7699]

Allison's eyes were darting back and forth for half the video trying to figure out what she was feeling. My vote is ask the girl in the beauty store out on a date, BUT WE ALL LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT YOU DEFINE YOURSELF AS YOU AMAZING HUMAN YOU!

[@omgchomp]

what a beautiful journey

[@reereereena]

Allison is so adorable talking about her girl crush! Also, Igor is amazing, aw! And I get why Gaby reacted like that, it's a question queer women get a lot and we just get used to get defensive over it.

[@cammyelvy]

I think the not wanting to touch people might be an anxiety thing not a sexuality thing. I'm bisexual and DEFINITELY not on the asexual spectrum but I also do suffer from a lot of anxiety. I may have a lot of sexual attraction but when it comes down to it the thought of someone naked makes me want to cry it would make me feel too vulnerable and unsafe because ANYTHING could happen. Maybe she feels the same way?

[@glitzerfee237]

Camryn Wright that's the way I feel too! I seriously thought no one else was like that 😂 thank you

[@cammyelvy]

Glitzer Fee ha! I'm glad I'm not the only one either. I'll feel very lonely and text my friends like " I just want someone to hold me" but the moment I'm next to a romantic other that might want to NO ONE can touch me

[@GeneralRania]

Dude for real. I'm a sexual being. Flirty affff. But no way in hell will I ever make the first move. It's impossible. I feel immobilized at the mere thought of attempting to make the first move and getting shot down (EVEN WHEN I'M LIKE A BAJILLION PERCENT SURE THEY LIKE ME, I ALWAYS MANAGE TO MAKE MYSELF ANXIOUS). Getting anxious goosebumps just thinking about it.

[@pickle_spears]

"No... I like to go there" 😂

[@marisp.4280]

Hi Gaby and Allison! Can you give us weekly updates on Allison and the Earth-y store chick? Thanks, love you both (and Igor)!

[@juliagomes6458]

Jean Louise Finch it doesn't have to be weekly but we definitely need a close up of some sort!!! more info!!

[@iederwatwil]

Still shocked that they don't live together

[@Sabrina-sc1db]

Ik Willem WHAT

[@SuperDogBiscuits]

I KNOW I WAS LIKE ARE YOU *KIDDING ME*

[@clement9782]

Wow this video was like a plot twist on Allison's life :D Oh also, Igor's smile is awesome, makes me happy to look at him smiling :3

[@joojoochen]

In my experience it's a little more complicated than just who you think about. Up until I was 16 I was sure I was straight because I'd only ever had crushes on guys but I'd never had a boyfriend or even kissed a guy before. Then one night a friend of mine came out to me as a lesbian and somehow we ended up kissing and I'll be honest there were no fireworks or anything. So we didn't start dating but we got closer, looking back on it, I was falling for her but I was in denial about my feelings for a long time until a year later we were making out again but even after that night I still just thought it happend because I was drunk not because I was into girls and also I just couldn't imagine having sex with her. Three month later she had enough of me always being affectionate while drunk but friendzoning her the next day, so she said she never wanted to talk to me ever again and that I should stay away from her and that's how I managed to break my own heart. Fortunately, a couple days later she forgave me for being a jerk after I realised I made a huge mistake. By that point I had admitted to myself that I was romantically in love with but still didn't really think I could have sex with her. Despite that, we still started dating and after making out with her a lot more I was not only not opposed to having sex with her but it was actually all I could think about. I wish I could tell you we're still together but due to incompatibility we broke up after dating for a few month. That was definitely one of that hardest things I ever went through but ultimately I know it was the right decision. So now after breaking up it's kind of the opposite like before where I'm sure I like girls but I feel like I can't be sure if I like boys as well until I try. When people ask me about my sexuality I say I'm bi but I'm scared that I don't actually like boys and that I'm actually just a lesbian. That's why I don't like labels. I feel a lot of pressure to identify as something and I also don't want to ( if I actually am 'just' gay) reinforce the idea that bisexuality doesn't exist and people are just scared to come out 'fully'. But I try to just put that fear aside and just do what feels right. I don't know if someone is actually going to read this but one year ago a story like mine could have really helped me because in most coming out stories people say 'they just kinda always knew' and that wasn't the case for me, so I thought I wasn't bi but just trying to be special or just enjoying the attention. So for everyone out there questioning their sexuality just do what feels right and even if you come to the conclusion you're not queer, that's fine as well, although if you think about your sexuality a lot, there probably is a little more to it (at least in my experience). Just chill, you'll figure it out and that comes from someone who still isn't 100% sure about their own sexuality. Much love and respect for making it till the end of this long ass comment.❤

[@fallenpoet6051]

Thank you for sharing your story. I'm questioning my own identity right now and it's helpful to hear from other people who aren't sure either. Thanks.

[@klabeck1097]

Emilia Noelle It's ok to just be a lesbian. It's ok to just be straight. It's ok to just be bi. It's all ok. No pressure. I didn't consider a different sexuality until I was 19. I have friends who didn't start dating the same sex until mid 30's. I have friends who knew at 5 that they were gay. No rush. Enjoy your life. Stay open. Stay safe. 💛

[@marianam.9700]

Igor: she thinks women are more attective than men Gaby: All straight women do Alison: Everyone thinks that true though

[@davidjablonski_]

Thanks Emily.

[@itsbrittany5549]

ALLISON AT 2:17 oh my goODNESS

[@dingoesrock130]

I want that face printed out and put on a shirt

[@MBoioi]

I didn’t even see that 😂😂

[@stephaniefinkle6899]

I love how real and unscripted these are, please don't ever lose the rawness of these international question discussions! They also make for way funnier banter. Great channel

[@winiipon]

Alison doing the whole "Am I gay????" was me at age 5. This video content is gold

[@HAlC-up4hm]

But for real Alison, Gaby, and Igor - shit's complicated. It took me a VERY long time to realize my aesthetic attraction to someone wasn't the same as other people's sexual attraction. I'm 27 yo, never been kissed and just realizing I'm somewhere on the asexual spectrum (demi perhaps?). I wonder if I've never really put out signals/vibes/whatever to others or if I just don't recognize them coming from others (I'm an Aspie passing as an NT). I haven't exactly dated and I don't like touching people unless I'm very comfortable with them so randos are out of the question.

[@chrismarch4576]

I love the atmosphere so much - so calm , cozy and yet exciting ! I have no idea what is scripted and what is not , got tired of figuring that out and decided to chill and just watch... man , it's a right decision

[@SD-uz1cc]

It's such a lovely end shot, like right at the end they're just smiling and it's great!

[@DeniPencl]

Igor would find closure if Allison was gay

[@IgorIgorIgor]

It would help, yeah

[@dingoesrock130]

Yeah but then Gaby would need her own closer

[@Blaed13]

I think this was one of the best videos this channel has done. And I love this channel. It's just quietly revelatory and honest in a way that's almost impossible to script. Good for you Allison.

[@SelinaSYC]

I'm really impressed that so many people ask tough questions and you guys can always offer something very wise and helpful advice or thoughts.

[@tia_unreal5041]

Two words: Spinning pie.

[@estrellacasias]

Y'all are the group of friends that I would be afraid to talk to because y'all are so cool but I shouldn't be afraid because y'all are so cool.

[@fellforthesharks1]

I love this. What you're saying about being against all sex/genitals in general in order to write off compulsory heterosexuality and sexuality is so real.

[@sarabonilla9744]

I think this might be one of y'alls best episodes yet! Allison, I just want you to know that I love and support you through this discovery process 💖

[@phantomrachie]

No idea why I assumed your book was only available in the US. I didn't even bother to check to see if I could buy it until I saw the clarification text in the video. I've super preordered it!

[@IsiiFlores]

"I know you might be scared of unlocking something in you, but if it's your true self then you should embrace it" I think I'm in love with Igor and his beautiful soul

[@LexMcSwing]

Igor is so friggin thoughtful, i always love the eps but he brings a nice change of perspective

[@Kate5]

I'm in the exact same boat as Emily! Oh man, I'm glad I clicked on this video. I'm also older than most people who haven't had any experience in this department so it's sometimes weird/hard to think about when I'm both stressing that I haven't had any experience with either gender, and stressing about trying to figure out who I'm attracted to through all of society's conditioning. What Gaby said about her friend was actually really enlightening and gave me some stuff to think about so thank you Gaby and Allison!

[@parvathysarat]

THIS SHOW NEEDS TO BE SEEN AND HEARD BY EVERYONE. We need more subscribers.

[@rebekaha565]

I'M SO HAPPY FOR ALLISON UGH THIS IS SO FUN

[@elliot6805]

Omg Allison is questioning? I can’t believe it. I cant

[@pickle_spears]

5:49 - the end: Allison questioning everything she's ever thought about herself

[@sharrknado2747]

This got interesting real quick. I loved being apart of the journey lmao hope there's more to this

[@dsalazarm]

I AM SO MAD BECAUSE I WANT TO SEE YOU TWO ON TOUR. AND I FLY FROM CHICAGO TO NEW YORK THE DAY BEFORE YOURE IN CHICAGO AND THEN FLY BACK THE DAY TOURE IN NYC. i love this show so much.

[@gugusgigi]

I can't tell uf this is real or really good acting/storytelling. I love this chanel! And I like having Igor back.

[@shelberz1]

Awesome show today. Enjoyed Igor too. Gaby looks stunning.

[@skaultra2095]

They're so sweet. What an amazing trio of friends, really.

[@sheeps_]

Love these 3 together! A great comedy group!!! They all work so well off each other

[@catarinabakker8405]

This is giving me an existential crisis omg 😂 Never been left so confused

[@elliot6805]

I’m going through the five stages of gay: denial, denial again, shock, realization, and acceptance. I’m not at the acceptance stage yet so is she gay?

[@Mavelicable]

I think this may be my favorite couch talk yet. I'm 21 years old and I identify as bisexual but it took me a while to figure it out. As I was growing up I would have a crush on 1 or 2 boys in my class but would have close, intimate friendships with girls. I thought that was how it was supposed to go. It wasn't until I was in high school that I really questioned it. I mean I was attracted to guys physically and I wanted to get close to them, but I was always more comfortable with girls and could see myself in a relationship with a girl more easily. It's almost as if I got drawn in by a guy's attractiveness and then his personality whereas the opposite would happen for girls where I'd be drawn in by their personality and then her looks. I don't exactly know where I land on the spectrum but I feel comfortable identifying as bisexual now. This is really long but I guess I'm saying I feel for Emily. Sexuality isn't something that's so cut and dry for everyone and it takes some people years to figure out what others took only a moment to know. Anyway I'm really loving your videos these days, especially when you get a little serious on your "advice" show. Keep up the great work and I'm super bummed I can't go to your tour.

[@isabelcristinafarias2095]

You just described myself entirely, sometimes I just question if I'm capable of having strong feelings for guys as I know that I am for girls, but when it comes to attraction I'm 100% sure I'm attracted to both, everyone is hot af.

[@jasminedixon1886]

Mavelicable this is me but the other way round I never go for a guy because of looks but I seem to think almost every girl is hot

[@TheMissbambi]

im still questioning but i feel like this is me? I have realized i might like girls too but I can only remember boy crushes but I never really felt close to any boy, but I have felt very close to many girls and then I realized how pretty they were... Thought it was just a friendship thing but maybe not? idk

[@reece9746]

This is literally the funniest channel on KZbin. How has it been stuck at 754k, let alone lost 2k subscribers?

[@Sk8ForLifeKatrina]

In the beginning Allison goes from being shy about her girl crush to screaming at Gabby in 0.1 seconds. And that's how you know she really has a thing for Planet beauty girl. Daymin,

[@thecassyscorner]

Allison is so adorable every time I watch a video with her in it I get all flustered she’s just so cute

[@larissavaladao1463]

well, not only people from the USA can buy your book... I'm from Brazil, I already bought the ebook and can't wait to read it! ;)

[@jessicamoore302]

Honestly, watching Allison talk through her sexuality has helped me so much! The dynamic between Gaby knowing and Allison questioning has really helped me make leaps and bounds into realizing that I'm bi. I can't believe I thought I was straight for most of my life, I agree, society absolutely brainwashes girls with sexist, heteronormative rhetoric about sexuality.

[@Ameliagarcia290]

Love u guys are my favorite youtuber

[@jamiemichelle6711]

Allison just experienced all of my freshman year in about 5 minutes. Honestly bless her

[@kayduff5676]

Stop pressuring Allison to like girls! Lol

[@anonn9006]

Igor's promo was probably the chillest "buy the book and come out!!!!" of all😄

[@rachelheselgrave7802]

this seriously was a revelatory episode for me, so much just clicked, thank you :)

[@shadyminion]

I don't like KZbin notifications, so I literally just refresh every 30 minutes Monday morning til I see the new JBU vid

[@hhouseofwolves]

"I would never kiss my kid on the lips." "My parents do." "That makes a lot of sense." "What a great twist if Allison was queer." "Well, it would be very good for my career." "I can't even be funny right now, because I'm really going through something." God, I love Allison haha.

[@evon5124]

At this point this channel is just 80% fan service and I'm not even mad

[@HailKKY]

Allison: "I can't even be funny right now cuz I'm going through something" *everyone laughs*

[@DakotaChez]

I wanted so bad to go to your show in Chicago. I couldn't get the day off at work though and it made me so sad! I hope you guys consider going on tour again so I can get another chance!

[@greensteve9307]

The way Allison says "noooo" at 0:38 is so cute!

[@rea_keebz]

2:17 "Who do you feel like... suddenly you start going like 'what I just said was stupid'?" What if you have social anxiety and you think that after every social interaction you have?

[@fwiffo42]

Wait, Igor you never answered what number was Allison on your crush list?

[@BrianS2464]

He didn't want to crush her hopes

[@tabascosauce3168]

go home

[@yoonjinsroom8673]

it's okay Allison! You'll figure it out. Everyone has their own pace and if it turns out you're not queer then at least you know now and if you are then you have a lot of new experiences to have. We love you! ♡

[@aaronboothproduction]

Awww you three are just the greatest!

[@ghostn9ne]

This channel is awesome and I've been watching them for a long while, but I'm always facinated by the comment section, especially when there's an episode like this. While it may feel like an open and free flowing conversation, its almost entirely scripted, which is the genius of their writing. They have created such deep branding with their characters, and the acting is subtle and on point, that it seems to me at least, that many of those following the channel believe these scenarios. There is a collective amount of breath holding, waiting for Allison and Gaby to finally date, or at least Allison to move towards women. Not gonna happen, but its fun to watch the dance. I'm not throwing shade here, or attacking another's opinion, hopes or beliefs, I'm only pointing how good these young women are at story telling. Allison and Gaby, I would love to see a 22 min short film from you two. I feel something may already be in the works.

[@flordeloto944]

I don't care what Allison is, I just want her to be happy and at peace with herself. Also, I love how good of a friend Gaby is. I mean even though Gaby likes or used to like Allison, she is encouraging her friend to try and be with another girl. That is a very good friendship.

[@claireelizabeth8276]

This episode means so much.

[@DesertStars27]

Can we talk about how adorable the last frame is??? You all need to frame that for your wall or something.

[@Jayleon72]

I just wanna give Allison a hug and tell it it's all going to be ok. I felt like I felt like that about Gabby a while back too.

[@anamarsproductions360]

Woooooo early! Love you sososo much, your videos never dissapoint, 0 DISLIKES

[@cineselena]

Aw you guys :) you do what's best for you! I'll be seeing you two in NYC tonight!

[@crazyconfused7480]

“Well it would be good for my career” I was laughing soo hard

[@kennedyraven3850]

This is the greatest character arc of all time.

[@madeleinehezel5921]

okay so ik you've done a lot lately with the book and the tour but PLZ DO A PODCAST ITD BE SO GREAT

[@jujucazt]

They should do a part 2, where they say what happened with Allison's girl crush! If she asked her out or etc!

[@domd2261]

How have I only just discovered this channel?! You guys are amazing and I have a crush on all three of you 💙💜💖

[@TheOtivid]

The very last sentence Allison said put me into a coughing fit from laughing so hard. That rarely happens.

[@aubreys1675]

Gaby's face at 5:41 is "I JUST TOLD YOU QUEERS HAVE BEEN BRAINWASHED YOU ARE PROVING MY POINT"

[@fallaciousjinx]

I'm so happy that this episode discusses that the self-discovery process regarding to your sexual orientation isn't something that has to be completed by the end of puberty. I didn't realize that being not straight was more than just a teenage-phase for me until my mid-twenties. Since I've been coming to terms with being bisexual, I question myself almost on the daily if I might be fully gay - and I'm turning 30 in about 4 month...

[@dkncd]

"You were just so ready to be offended" LMAAAAAO I actually died of laughter

[@bluepalmer6908]

this episode is fucking revolutionary

[@isadorareimao7733]

"Well, it'd be very good for my career" hahahahha 6:35

[@AlasseMeneldur]

Omg! I'm living for this episode!

[@BuscettiByGianna]

“You are just so ready to be offended” lmfao I had to laugh

[@amelie6436]

EXPERIMENT ALLISON!!! I know it's scary to think about bc you have a part of the world watching, along with your family and close friends, but this is your journey, not theirs. I hate to say it bc I've been told this so many times, but if they judge you, then they aren't worth you. Don't listen to pressure and TRY IT!!

[@Captain.Basketcase]

I'm proud to say that I'm not straight because I'm bent out of shape. I'm polyamorous (which sometimes is harder for people to accept than being bisexual and stuff) and I enjoy being able to express myself in any way I see fit so long as I'm not hurting anyone and remain open and honest and respectful. I'm also into bondage and bdsm and have my own personal core values that I do not deviate from: Trust, Respect, Open communication, Honesty and consent. It took me a long time to figure out that being in a heteronormative monogamous vanilla marriage was not for me. I personally found that opening myself up to new possibilities and experiences and keeping an open mind about trying anything at least twice just to check if I actually like it or not (because as we all know sometimes the first time is overwhelming and weird and you need to do it again just to check). I love this channel and watch it all time and I truly appreciate you're humour and would like to be real life friends with you... I have bad anxiety and depression so mostly it would be not the going out into big open spaces kinda friendship more like a lets hang at my place and watch movies and toke and enjoy each other's company and laugh and play card games and stuff.

[@bellarose9077]

I love Allison, she's just so relatable

[@notoriusc]

"I ranked my top 12 crushes" "Where was I?" Allison asking the real questions!!!! Lol 😂

[@cordiexoz5031]

I love how igor sticks up for gaby it's just so cute😂😂

[@mattbrady2011]

Allison I hope you look into those feelings. Cause even if they lead to nothing you'll know at least. Anyway, this episode was super cute.

[@katiealexander7782]

That was hilarious! And emotional! Wow you guys what a great discovery episode.