HOW DID THIS HAPPEN? INSECURE OR SHOCKING INFIDELITY! || Justice Court EP-217

[@adanneada7818]

Lord, please, give me a peaceful home, where love , understanding and unity are. Give me a man after your heart and make me a woman who is fit to run a Christian home.

[@taiwoarogundade3032]

Amen

[@Moonrich7]

Amen!

[@stanleyokonkwo2524]

This prayer is whole.

[@YANGLOVE-nb3pz]

Amen

[@kuteallets]

Beautiful prayer. Amen.

[@OtibhoEK]

This type of marriage can make any woman go insane

[@ugochiadiele5019]

What the man is accusing her, Is what the man does.

[@choiceogbiko4958]

This man has insecurity issues, and trust and he can go any lent to monitor her all round. Coming up with lies.

[@lilianefehi8632]

This kind Man will just make you run mentally insane 😢

[@ststar1]

You can tell me anything, the man's insecurity is glaring

[@Jane-zp7hy]

The ma is evil. He does not love the children. He using them as a weapon to hurt. He is alienating them from the mother. I am pained by what she's going through!

[@Michael-kf2wk]

So because your father is insecure your mother must sleep around and transfer aggression to you.

[@truereality7407]

Insecure about what? 😂 that she was unfaithful and cheats? Is he supposed to be secure and happy about the fact that he has a cheating wife? 😂 Some of you are very unwise and it shows in your foolish comments.

[@graceduerr5837]

This kind of a man will be very difficult to live with.

[@ao.6916]

@@graceduerr5837 absolutely. You cannot satisfy him. The woman was honest but since he is dishonest, he see her in that light

[@onyekwereiwobi1195]

After providing evidence??

[@Michael-kf2wk]

​@@ao.6916The woman was honest yet could not respond to the allegations. She was just beating around the question. She is a cheat and a bad mother.

[@amutasomtoo929]

@@onyekwereiwobi1195men will always be the bad person with our without evidence 🙂 Even with him bringing evidence they are st ill making the woman victim

[@ojovictor981]

you can say that again. Tough husband

[@ugochiadiele5019]

Thank you Judge Funmi for your good job. May God bless you and your Team.

[@bidemifolakedada3773]

Some days to end this year I pray that all of use we end it in good news in Jesus Christ amen 🙏

[@taiwoarogundade3032]

Amen

[@YANGLOVE-nb3pz]

Amen

[@vivienjenson2750]

AMEEEEEEEEEN🙏🏿🙏🏿🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@ibilola335]

If you have leaved with a narccist or manipulative man, you will understand this woman. A narcissistic man made me believed a certain narrative about my self, they will also make you mad whenever you respond to them eventually you will continue to keep quiet for them. I understand this woman people perfectly.

[@eccnationtv3442]

Some human beings who comes into our lives are mistake. I see this man as a typical example! May God deliver our ladies and men from such people!!!

[@jenniferdako9694]

I believe this woman because I know of a story that sounds just like this 😊.

[@femiagbana]

The significant age gap will always result in intense jealously and insecurity... any man who has not healed from his previous relationship will never feel secure in a good relationship.

[@indolilyindomitablelily7306]

You're right, I have been with a bitter man. The relationship ended terribly. I have suffered for the sins of others. He generalizes issues on women women women,😢😢😢 Bitter, insecure and a narcissist...always suspicious of me, chai I suffer

[@obanibimonifelix4531]

You're right, the age gap might be a great contributor here.

[@JulyMediaTV]

@femi, I am shocked that as a man that you are, you have this shallow and emotional and irrational way of thinking. It's so sad. Did you not hear that he provided evidence of her cheating escapades in his case to Judge Funmi?

[@femiagbana]

@@JulyMediaTV Please what is the evidence again? Why must every thing be gender conversation or related. Coming online to show signs of immaturity with your abusive comment doesn’t show that you are being objective in your thought. Learn how to constructively make your opinion and still respect other person’s opinion without abusive statement.

[@chizobaani4037]

What has age got to do with this? Has insecurity and infidelity been a function of age in the absolute?

[@Amy1234_2]

My sister, I am glad you are not with this man anymore

[@oglegbajohn7420]

This man pushed this woman out with his insecurities and he still wants to keep her, U are a bad man

[@queenetchinenyenwa7862]

Bad abi wicked He's a wicked man How can you treat a human being an adult for that matter

[@jamesnegedu8344]

Stop all this rubbish you are saying if you make wrong move you definitely been accused

[@ib6435]

@@queenetchinenyenwa7862 abeg shut up

[@akpugideon1078]

@@queenetchinenyenwa7862u are one of those girls who like to hv besty boyfriend while u are still married and when ur husband react u claim his insecure 😅😅😅

[@okonkwoemeka9374]

All I can see here is a very bad man , she is so unlucky having such as a husband, such a pretty and humble woman, seems the lady came from a poor home , the woman ought to have taken the man up

[@sethrollinswife3818]

I've been into such relationship, somehow I'm glad it on courtship,...A narcissist is a worst human to deal with as i almost lost my sanity....when i got fade up and was fully ready to quite, i had to admit every of his accusations because i was tired of defending myself.

[@chineyeokoye6075]

God continue to protect women in the hands of this kind of man. Insecurity to the core

[@davidsonessien7237]

Insecurity as u said but married women are sleeping around day by day,how can a man trust a woman that's not straight forward Insecure men as u said but married women are getting pregnant for other men,how come of the high rate of paternity fraud

[@Riverside-m2l]

❤Ah lol funny people 😂 So for the man trying to protect himself from transmission diseases is now insecurity? Anyways your name said it all, una no dey get dignity

[@Exclusivedaily]

Keep quiet

[@oghalekolo4208]

His excuses should not stop her from seeing her children.

[@ng1471]

Simple, he can stay with the children and take proper care of them for all we care . Let the woman have visitation rights so she can see her children regularly. In the end she is always their mother and one of them if not all will always remember the woman who gave them life. No man has ever experienced 9 months of pregnancy and the moment of push. This man is a very bad man. I can't spear him for one day. He has ready manipulated this woman to a break point.

[@Michael-kf2wk]

You're a fool to say he is a bad man. After listening you decided to take side. The only sensible thing you said is that she should be allowed to visit. You skipped the cheating part. If the child had died while crossing the express would you still say she's a good mother or if the pepper touch their eyes resulting in blindness. Fools always subjective in their comments. A cheating and a foolish person will always take side with his/her kind.

[@ajiboyeolubunmi8203]

A typical narcissist..... I perfectly understand this woman. My ex husband too makes up stories and manipulate it to convince people and you will start thinking maybe you are the one not thinking right You need evidences to win against them... I only leave my own case to God to judge him for every evil he did to me The 3yrs living with him was hell that I became so miserable and a shadow of myself I had to run for my life

[@ajiboyeolubunmi8203]

He also accused me of infidelity and threatened to take my daughter away from me. Thank God for my Uncle who helped me get a restraining order from a lawyer quickly before he was able to kidnap my daughter Because he didn't achieve his aim.... He doesn't provide for her welfare

[@chris-e-currency2311]

Suspension and trust issues is a sign of insecurity.

[@LuckyAbba-un1up]

On this matter, the man just wants to die early. Monitoring your partner like this is not good for anyone's health.

[@praiseohunenigbin6639]

He countenance says it all. The man appears so authoritative

[@davidsonessien7237]

Why wount he when the woman is not straight forward,that lady has slept with men noting person one tell me she can't even defend herself well

[@91filmz]

​@@davidsonessien7237 This woman can not be trusted

[@Grace37570]

@@davidsonessien7237You were there with her right?

[@Grace37570]

@@davidsonessien7237Yet all the kids he accused her of are all his, some of you mean eeh

[@AncientHebrewNeverDied]

If he could deprive her of access to her children, he did worse.

[@AntomichKornev]

this is the same thing women does on a norms and every other women sees her as a super woman.......

[@abolarinmutiullah6226]

@@AntomichKornev exactly

[@OtibhoEK]

💯

[@Michael-kf2wk]

The kind of comment you get when brains cannot think.

[@abrahamadadheaa]

Husband and Wife matter tire me... Even the Judge weak

[@otitiilesanmi4998]

😂😂😂

[@rekiyaE]

Honestly, 😂 may God help us...🙏😊

[@rekiyaE]

Honestly! 😂😂 May God help us 🙏🫶💙

[@Remyberry]

This man na mumu make this woman leave am abeg😅😅😅

[@afolabitemidayo5110]

As in, real mumu, only God knows what the woman is doing with this kind of Man

[@ebonysweetnesssweetness5153]

This man is nuts - He's more than lucky she gave him four children

[@march-tb8qp]

Baby girl pls don't cry for this kind of man abeg. Live your life and be happy

[@kemihamza2363]

The Man can plan by presenting another woman in place of the real wife, an investigation is needed. That man sounds so wicked.

[@areobolanle65]

Happy birthday to you ma, more fruitful years ahead.

[@erorayeogharandukunbrown2165]

I believe this woman because my husband does the same. There was a time I even had to tell him that I did it and he should divorce me but refused and responded that he has no evidence but keep accusing me.

[@tobimcmorris7690]

He's very insecure! Married to an apparently younger wife, who's educated and modern, he suspects her every move. As a result, he harasses, accuses and puts her under immense pressure to the point of a mental breakdown. Her "acceptances" of his accusations of infidelity, is her way of getting him of her back. Sending another man to go an enquire from your wife, the paternity of your four children, is the height of outrageous disrespect. I observed that she stutters or stammers, but has learned to successfully control it, by breathing which, breaks her speech momentarily. My experience has taught me that, stammerers would keep quiet or lash out verbally because of their handicap. An unrelenting wave of accusations, intimidations, threats and verbal violence, would provoke this verbal lashing out from her. Poor girl!

[@IsraelGideon-kq8vc]

This is why you can't be a judge 😂😂. One side analysis shows your lack of emotional intelligence.

[@Unapologeticallymandy]

@@IsraelGideon-kq8vcif you also don’t have a bias because of your gender, you wouldn’t be quick to ridicule what she wrote

[@IsraelGideon-kq8vc]

@@Unapologeticallymandy I don't give a hoot about either of the parties. Infact I have an inclination to see from a female perspective in cases like this due to the difference in power dynamics in African unions, but I will never make such lengthy one sided analysis in a case that shows clearly that both parties are very flawed with serious issues beyond what they are letting out in court.

[@tobimcmorris7690]

We're NOT judges! We're 'ordinary' folks nosing into a public dispute. Justice Funmi Osaolu will look at what the BOOK says, and judging by the preponderance of evidence, give a judgement.

[@IsraelGideon-kq8vc]

@@tobimcmorris7690 Your initial comment is an irony of your current position.

[@gretanicholla6617]

This man is very controlling & manipulative & he knows that holding her children from her is hurting her. My sista don’t let anyone I mean anyone hold you hostage in any form, shape or fashion. Talk to anyone you want, that doesn’t mean you’re having an affair with them. She has to have access to the children she brought into this world. I do believe that mistakes have been made on both sides but that is no reason to hold the children hostage from her. The two of you can go your separate ways & still has quality time with the kids, they are the only ones being neglected!

[@osas3857]

Firstly, don't ever marry a spouse you don't trust or have a complex over. Secondly, never admit to a crime you never committed. Thirdly, God help us

[@AnikeAdemuyiwa]

The man is very arrogant, narcissist insecurity and jealously😢. Just like my ex hubby,i just have to leave the marriage but today i have peace of mind and happy

[@obinao.o5819]

U will forever remain a fool, u saw a useless married cheating woman and u are here supporting evil, idiot

[@TruthIsBitter9ja]

I was surprised she never denied pouring the aggression on the kids, If she actually did. then that was wrong and unacceptable. Waiting for the concluding video.

[@achuemilian7485]

For some reasons I believe this woman

[@aallthingsbeautiful]

But what is she saying though?? just talk, no evidence, the man has pictures of her with the Samuel and also chat trail. Clearly, he has trust issues, and is insecure but she also was adulterous cos she wasn't satisfied in the marriage.

[@IsraelGideon-kq8vc]

​@@aallthingsbeautiful No mind that woman 😅

[@ayodeleoluwaseun7333]

The woman is seeing other men because the husband is always out of town for two weeks and only come back to spend the weekend after two weeks of absence. Distance destroyed their marriage, there's no way you spend two weeks in a month with young beautiful woman like this.

[@sirkippol940]

@@ayodeleoluwaseun7333so according to your reply,it seems you’re cool with a woman cheating on her man cuz he’s busy working for the family and only comes home once in a while? Na so una dey do for your community?

[@ayodeleoluwaseun7333]

@@sirkippol940 No, I'm not. I only highlight my observation. Read my comment again

[@mosesmina-q8l]

Husband and wife issues! Only God knows who is lying and who's saying the truth.

[@akpewevivian1812]

The judge is the one on trial

[@osesanusi3742]

Insecurity and low self-esteem is more dangerous than drug addiction...... This man needs help

[@davidsonessien7237]

Can that lady swear in a traditional way that she has not slept with another man since she was with the man

[@rafiushoyoye6587]

@davidsonessien7237 You are birds of same feather

[@adanneada7818]

@@davidsonessien7237 Did you hear when the lady said she didn't cheat on the man? Did you also hear when she mentioned the repercussion for infidelity in her place? Nevertheless, if they decide to "swear the traditional way" , the man too should swear that he hasn't never been with another woman even when he was still living with his wife and kids. A man that works without providing for his family, what does he do with his money?

[@ihemehelen1454]

Did she run mad then? ​@@davidsonessien7237

[@AugustineAriola]

​@@adanneada7818 Is it enough to say you're not cheating ? You say one thing but you're actions says another thing. Stop being sentimental my friend.

[@donvicaro]

The man said that he saw a chat where her boyfriend said "I am so happy with the way you kissed me just that I came early" ... No man can see such a chat and remain thesame.. there will definitely be negative reactions.. she was obviously cheating.

[@emekaukaigwe5668]

Nobody will see this your comment about her cheating because they do it for them now to be seen ...a woman is very dangerous when u find them out cheating..

[@JulyMediaTV]

Exactly my thoughts, too. She was cheating.

[@christopherotasowie1425]

Prove it mugu

[@joyonokpasa4398]

Ohh he saw a chat , and still remained married to her , then went ahead to impregnate her up to having four children, werey man

[@chidimgbor3546]

And she smartly didn't deny their was no such chat. She was actually cheating

[@princekay3149]

I may not have enough money to take care of my wife the way she deserves, but one thing I'm so sure of is that she'll never cheat on me no matter what and vise versa, we're both Christians and I love her so much.

[@acefully4703]

😂😂😂which kind comment b this

[@princekay3149]

@acefully4703 what do you mean sir? Were you hurt by the comment?

[@wilsonjackson8624]

Dey play😂

[@princekay3149]

@wilsonjackson8624 alright

[@acefully4703]

@@princekay3149not in your best interest to have this mindset infact if u want to reduce the chances of women not cheating on you then get to work improve yourself physically mentally financially don’t forget to get a white teeth while at it😂

[@keechiO]

If you never did anything, do not admit that you did no matter what because it will only make it harder for people to believe you.

[@Grace37570]

Don’t pray to find yourself with that kind of men, is easier to say when is not you.

[@truereality7407]

​@@Grace37570foolish talk. No sensible person will admit to a crime they never committed. She admitted to cheating because she was truly cheating. And the man has plenty evidences to prove it. Her own father even admitted it to her husband and she was taken to the village for three months because she became mentally unstable after she was discovered to be an adulterer.

[@kyumehemmanuel3403]

The woman’s failure to defend herself against her ex-husband’s accusations, including claims of mental health issues and committing adultery, raises significant concerns. Her silence on these matters could easily contribute to the man's feelings of insecurity. The man must take responsibility for his decision to marry her despite these red flags. It is important to question what he saw in her that convinced him to commit, knowing her past. Regardless of the circumstances, the man must accept that this is now his responsibility. He chose this path, and it is his duty to address the challenges in the relationship rather than shift blame.

[@tejudaniels3109]

How does one defend accusations that never happened?

[@ericata7350]

This woman is calm person and from what i see in her she is not the type who force talk. I truly believe her, she never cheated. The man insecurities triggered all that happened. You must trust one another in marriage and this man looks like a very lazy man, a hard working man will not have all the time on earth to be tracking wife asking which friend she made in camp and their names.

[@JulyMediaTV]

​@@ericata7350you be mumu with this your opinion. See how a matured man who is supposed to be rational, be this easily deceived by the tears of a woman. Did you not see the man provided chat evidence to Judge Funmi about the wife and the Samuel he talked about?

[@makindemary9021]

No, you can’t recognize a tired person The man appears to be a narcissist

[@JulyMediaTV]

@makindemary9021 Do you guys even know the meaning of narcissism? You just throw words anyhow. Let her address the accusations of cheating and assaulting of her own children levelled against her by her husband

[@jacob.s.olanrewaju9340]

Trust issues in any marriage are a killer! The upbringing of the couple matters. If the man has been cheated upon before or was disappointed in a previous relationship when he was single, he will always have trust issues.

[@oreoluwaadeyeye3294]

Also when growing up, he witnessed females in his family cheating or he is cheating on his wife, he will find it difficult to trust.

[@okiemuteoworogba3685]

Lord have mercy. Insecurity is a disease and this man needs a saviour

[@hawkithreesixtydegree9017]

This man is the insecure one in the marriage. If Nigerian police handle you, you will confess what you didn't do. This man might be criminally minded, like the Nigerian police.

[@ThirdOcholi]

Shut up ur wide mouth, how is this a police case, na una type dey kidnap people go Ekiti

[@AncientHebrewNeverDied]

@@hawkithreesixtydegree9017 🤣🤣🤣🤣 He has the 'aura' ....

[@nnamdinwanjie9206]

Dangerous people use emotions to lie.

[@ebubechukwu-ux5nu]

The worst thing that can happen to a woman is to marry an insecure man. I rest my case

[@danielkenny9168]

This man is crazily insecure. The man needs help. He suffered her for nothing.

[@obinao.o5819]

The worst thing that will happen to a man in life is having an adulterous woman as a wife!

[@godwinmichael906]

This man is useless. Why would you bring a third party to ridicule your wife with such an idiotic question!

[@davidsonessien7237]

You only saw that part,but dint ask questions how the wife have been living

[@kehindeonayemi6192]

I thought it's obvious it's the lady that brought the case to court.

[@msnowhere12]

Very useless

[@christiannwamadu1281]

She is guilty. She is not ready for that marriage. I can read between the lines. Ideally she should be asking for children custody but she is not. What a mother.

[@Yinksz]

I may not believe everything she said wholeheartedly but once she said that she wasn’t ‘allowed’ to have her own phone or use social media alarm bells started ringing. Judge Funmi could use having some training around abusive behaviours. She could have dug into it more. And in all fairness the woman may have serious trauma /resentment issues that she takes out on her kids. She needs to address this before she gets visitation.

[@currenttrendtv8920]

The Church asked you to separate and you left? Shame on you Mr Man

[@taiyefasan3351]

This man isn't totally wrong for his insecure actions, the woman has her faults also..

[@JulyMediaTV]

Is the man even wrong sef? The woman cheated as the man clearly provided chat evidence of her and Samuel.

[@firstcap25]

Mama I have missed you oooh❤❤❤❤

[@laraarike1716]

Only God knows who is telling lies and the truth

[@olowosokenurudeen8875]

Thank you my sister.

[@MsjennyForbes]

You made her mad 😠

[@nollywoodmovies1022]

Honestly I don't know who to believe. But here is my verdict. I hearby pronounced them guilty husband and wife of the year. Congratulations to them. 🎉

[@AntomichKornev]

the man is saying the truth, he has evidences to back up his claim, let the woman do the same, this is a court room, all that is needed is proves and evidence and not emotions

[@bluemom_teachings]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@OlalekanGbolagade]

"Hello the judge " you could see the way he was talking to the judge shows he's arrogant and disrespectful.

[@EmekaOrisakwe]

You are ewu by saying that,

[@OlalekanGbolagade]

@@EmekaOrisakwe and what are you? Op'onu ayirada

[@petmmonu8275]

Very rude. I am not even sure he was listening to the judge. But, damn, he nailed her.

[@petmmonu8275]

​@@OlalekanGbolagadeAbsolutely. People who don't know how to use words. Always abusive. You are right. That man was rude and arrogant.

[@SCh9912]

@@OlalekanGbolagade You didn’t need to even respond to the person, if we can call them that….let them prove they have a point!!!

[@MsTemm]

She didn't deny any of the man's accusations. She used stories to emotionally downplay the matter. This is not to say, the man isnt guilty too. He appears to be a difficult man to be with.

[@irewoleolalekanoladimeji3251]

You're sensible and smart

[@ericata7350]

This man needs to be handled with a strong hand. This guy prompted everything that happened in his marriage because of insecurities, suspicious. In the beginning, this woman truly loves her husband, but the man doesn't deserve her. You cannot stay with a woman you don't trust and respect, in this present dispensation you cannot cage a woman. So her love and she will submit and stay with. She did some of the accusations to leave the man.

[@Exclusivedaily]

Ur wife go do same with u

[@onuhhappiness6554]

He is a real narcissist

[@AntomichKornev]

That is a lie, you heard the judge very well, the woman has no evidence or prove to back up his alligations, let the woman do same and not with just mere words, cox the last time i check women lies a whole lot and you know it even u as a woman

[@0thi123]

But the woman too dey knack outside Sha atleast based on the mans evidence

[@philipfrancis3357]

Do you know who a narcissistic is?

[@JulyMediaTV]

Happiness, you be mumu. Ashawo dey your eyes. Woman and lack of accountability na 5 &6. She clearly cheated on him as he provided evidence. What do you people even understand by being a narcissist? Do you guys just throw words anyhow?

[@Advic77]

Never gaslight your spouse, you might regret it afterwards....

[@emekaukaigwe5668]

For a church to agree on the separation.. there more to it forget her emotional blackmail..women are good in deplaying that in court..

[@JulyMediaTV]

God bless you, you are so rational. He provided evidence of her cheating escapades clearly in his case to Judge Funmi.

[@DEverythingVlog]

“SAM NDIFREKE” 😂😂😂😂

[@bluemom_teachings]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@monicaborde5602]

I had a man like this before. The insecurity and the jealousy was too much. This kinda man will drive you crazy. I ended our engagement. I later married a nice normal man. He did not let his imagination run away with him.

[@ng1471]

😁 normall man indeed. This one is really not normal.

[@joyonokpasa4398]

😂 I can feel you my sister, some of them are really not normal, this man here is one of them 😅

[@AugustineAriola]

Continue deceiving yourself. The one you're living with now also have his problems. For any man to be insured means you're faithfulness is doubtful!

[@monicaborde5602]

@AugustineAriola Thank you for your opinion. I also see you have a good imagination. Be blessed

[@Haryothosyn]

Both of them are guilty The woman has some secrets she's hiding, and it is getting clearer more and more that she truly slept with another man while being married.

[@justsaying22]

There is no way in hell I would put up with an African man. I am so happy she is free of him. Judge Funmi makes me so angry when she sides with these men. What evidence does she need to prove that he took her kids, and she wants the court to grant her access to them. That's ALL she asked for. Its obvious he took them out of spite because she doesn't want him.

[@oxidehijabi5569]

Judge Funmi was about to pass a different judgement (in favour of the lady) up until 23:00 so decided to adjourn the case

[@chrisidjoko]

I really need to have a thorough thinking before I get married. The whole thing is scary 😨.

[@suppaprosolutions6639]

Pls do

[@davidakande3785]

Especially... Spoken to a few recently with all carefulness and even now I'm committing all to God...

[@ng1471]

This woman, continue to run for your dear life. 4 children is great to just go do what makes you happy. Simpky request the judge to grabt that you see your children and spend sometime with them. Thank your God you left this narcissist.

[@wueehke]

Once DNA was mentioned she became very quiet

[@fancytulula9537]

This man is uncouth & has no respect for the wife.

[@diyokenkiruka]

Nsukka men sha🤣🤣🤣🤣 Insecurity Yakpa

[@Abidakun]

What I hate most is when man is talking about infidelity and seeing people backing the woman just because she is a woman. As a man or woman if you ever deal with promiscuous person you won't believe anyone claiming is innocent of infidelity

[@mbahosita816]

this woman will surely be missed by her man...

[@patsonu774]

I understand her point, but you can't agree to what you didn't do....for 'PEACE' to reign. What kind of peace?

[@ogonnaokechukwu1761]

My dear, it has to do with upbringing. Some parents NEVER allowed their children to defend themselves or they get the beating of their lives. Once they say something, they expect the children to agree, and at the long run, they grow with it. If not that I am informed, and immediately I noticed that style of upbringing from my husband, I tried to address it. Once my hubby comes back and see something wrong, he would call one of them, depending on his mind, and tell the person "I know that u did this" if the person tried to say otherwise, he would beat the living day out of the person. A time came that, whatever he said, the one that he called will just be looking, to avoid beating. U can imagine that I was not there to try and talk to my hubby about the danger of such treatment, the children might grow up to be like this woman.

[@Grace37570]

@@ogonnaokechukwu1761That’s not the case, pray not to live with a narcissist

[@ogonnaokechukwu1761]

@Grace37570 Read and understand someone's statement before commenting. They are some people that no matter how narcissistic their partner is would NEVER accept that they did an evil tin like adultery. As I am, my name is worth more than anyone's ego or treatment o. I NEVER accept that such an abominable tin o

[@akpugideon1078]

Never u listen or judge a woman based on their crocodile cry 😢 Am not on any one side both man and d woman but u see women they cheat slot this days

[@samariibrahimbababila]

From all indication I can see the woman doesn't have a case. She fails to answer most of the allegation against her,I really know judge fumi very well because she always find a way to make women look right but you can see she can not even side the woman at this point but to tell her the court is governed by evidence. No wonder all the ladies in this comment section are calling this man with all sought of names no wonder,this time judge fumi couldn't even side her. Why don't you criticize the woman on her failed attempt to support her self of which the man have provided proves to all his claims but the lady couldn't even prove a single prove!!!

[@Pammy_Pamela]

My own be say make una no dey marry NONSENSE as husband's comot leave them oo cuz who una leave that animal for? 😒 I can't shout please

[@davidsonessien7237]

Are married women not worst,men are insecure men are insecure how come we have high rate of paternity fraud,if we women are good as the society sees it how come of the high rate of paternity fraud

[@0thi123]

But the woman too dey knack outside Sha atleast based on the mans evidence

[@sirkippol940]

Based on the man evidence the woman too na animal (Dog) to be precise.

[@queenchiago6625]

A man that doesn’t provide for his family and only chases after shadow, that one na husband? Her relating with other men or not shouldn’t deprive her from mothering her children. She said it plainly that she’s no longer interested in being married to the man and has the right to relate with whomever she pleases. Again, it’s her children she’s concerned about. And who told some men that they’re to abandon their fatherly roles to their children once they separate from the children’s mother? It is wrong!

[@alabaatiati4895]

I do not believe this man, how can you deprived a graduate from social media and not to talk to her people except with your permission. I think that is the worse imprisonment you can give to any adult and also wants to take all the children away from her, well I pray God to grant judge Funmi the wisdom unravel the truth in this matter.

[@onyekajonyekwelu6381]

She is not a humble wife. She only knows how to defend but the man too is not a good person. Both of them are not good.

[@moji234]

Why is she still feeling answerable to the man? They are already separated, she should stop making him to still control her. She should try and be more firm and try and end the man's control and manipulations.

[@olumideopeyemi1810]

Pardon, how is he still controlling her with all we see here..... am ready to learn.

[@reggea83]

How can a priest be making decision when a woman can and can’t see her kids! The only way that will happen is if the woman is unfit to be a mum.

[@eyongbeckly5407]

Don't marry an insecure person. And age gap between them is so wide.

[@victorezeagu1893]

Nigeria has tradition and we must uphold to it

[@donaldstanley4261]

Which tradition ?? Tradition my foot Do you think he can do these nonsense overseas He’s calling the George madam

[@FanningtheFlame]

Useless tradition that only applies to a woman . The man can sleep with as many women as he wants but the lady is not allowed to.

[@eniolorundaoluwatoyin6701]

Her ways are not through and the man's jealousy took control of him, they never communicated.

[@ThirdOcholi]

The moment someone starts by "he was doing it too and I never complained" now he's accusing me, when a woman start crying from accusations just know she's guilty

[@nnamdinwanjie9206]

Exactly! The woman is dangerous, and possibly mentally unstable.

[@hopeafonne9240]

Nawaooo, any way is a general thought but l beg to differ. There are so many that easily cry at the attempt of opening their mouth to state their case. I'm a witness. Please don't think that way.

[@JulyMediaTV]

❤❤❤ You are so correct.

[@Ewoma_OD]

What if she’s crying because she can’t phantom what she’s being accused of

[@enduranceomoroaqgbem1731]

You be mumu I hope you are not using this same way of your thinking to cross the road

[@oluwoleodetola1626]

Both of them are saying half truth 😢

[@FrankTekpehwu]

Even though I understand her plight to have access to the kids, I'm honestly finding it difficult to believe this woman.

[@pascalaigbokhan6995]

Some women are mad, how can a man restrict you from social media, or speaking with your family and your accept

[@julieryatim7802]

This man has totured this woman because of his own insecurity. His insecurity destroyed the security of the family.

[@AugustineAriola]

The woman is not living up to her faithfulness

[@julieryatim7802]

@AugustineAriola But the man did not produce even one evidence showing that unfaithfullnes. All four children are his

[@dondomoses4118]

It is well😭

[@DEverythingVlog]

Trust issues 10.0.

[@Pleasant_Media1]

I have no comment until the whole matter is concluded

[@agnesalbarka5366]

If a woman tells you she did certain things, then she didnt. A guilty woman will never agree. The man has a lot of insecurities and the woman too is not straight forward. These two need to stay away and discuss how to coparent peacefully... This marriage is not supposed to start in the first place

[@stevemortay]

This is an insecure man, listening to hearsay around and looking for fault and infidelity in your woman bcos of her past you knew about is totally absurd except if the woman account is not true.

[@byst8729]

It’s him that is cheating that is why he keeps accusing her of infidelity.

[@davidsonessien7237]

Weldon,her past indeed,do people with such past change?

[@uwakimegeorge5277]

There’s nothing to judge here, I know Nigeria judiciary system speak for those that has money, but this man is insane, why will you deprive a woman of her freedom because you married to her. Judge let man return those children to the lady and pay child support

[@AkoguDaniel]

Please grow up. This issue is not sentimental based rather evidence must be proven. Her parents agreed that because of her infidelity she developed mental instability. Maybe you're not married. Until then you will not be in a hurry to make conclusions.

[@uwakimegeorge5277]

@ please you should be arrested for two offences, you look like arm robber and you deprive someone her freedom because she’s married to you, you are an old man with so much insecurity.,get lost

[@JohnElphata]

She couldn’t even deny that she sent the son of 7yrs out to meet the father smh 🤦 she is talking about economic hardest bla bla bla.. as usual the women will senselessly support her 😅 judge funmi is smarter

[@e.u7778]

She's Guilty....moving from one point to another and avoiding the question...very unfortunate.

[@Pammy_Pamela]

You are that type of a man no doubt it this

[@AntomichKornev]

God bless you, lets wait until the whole case is rounded up

[@hopeafonne9240]

You may be right or wrong, also know that there are those who don't know how state their case. However, she's in the court to have access to the kids not to drag kids with him. In fact she is not talking of coming together.

[@e.u7778]

​@hopeafonne9240 Did u hear the allegations he made against her in respect of her unstable mental acumen? Allowing a 7yr old child cross a highway on his own....pouring Peper on one other based on transfered aggression...if these r true (which she has not convincingly denied), no child should be left fully in her custody.