our experience dating men for the first time, creating work life balance, why we left our hometown

[@justjoelee]

hey folks! would love to hear your feedback on this new format for the channel. I'm just getting over a cold so pardon my nasally voice, also definitely have to work on my mic placement and mixing better. Let me know your thoughts! 🤍

[@TheOnlyTaps]

It's a dope format. Definitely feels podcast-y like Ryan was mentioning 😂 but only in essence of having the mic setup. Otherwise it just feels like a regular q&a/discussion style video that would be included in like a vlog.

[@jonah9449]

Yes it think it is great but working it into the vlogs would be awsome

[@jaes9812]

Loving it! Have a segment where u share something new or what tv shows ur watching right now.

[@brettdarling1178]

Love it! Always interesting to see your channel evolving! We would like to know for a future “2 Guys with Mics” How did you two meet? Who made the first move? It’s very different when it’s two bi guys trying to feel each other out and see if the other is interested. Love you guys! Keep up the great work!

[@rebecavc2071]

I love this. And I'm exactly how you are, Joe. I need notice to prepare myself before any unexpected event. Sometimes it's inevitable, but when I can help it, I'll rather plan ahead if I have to socialize. If I'm going to do something by myself though then I'm really spontaneous.

[@TheMikester307]

I lucked-out in early 2008 meeting my future husband in the comments page of a You Tube video (no kidding!) We lived across the country from the other so we e-mailed each other every night and got to know each other over the two years before he was able to move out to be with me. We married in 2016 and we were very, very happy for the fifteen years we knew each other until he passed away recently! It is wonderful to hear your story! Enjoy it all, guys!

[@parathink]

What a wonderful story. Sorry for you loss, but you were lucky!

[@matsaidso]

Joe is in his podcast era! ❤️

[@justjoelee]

not a podcast but...if you prefer listening here you go 😂 open.spotify.com/show/3Nu1VAJI1QqpDWG1FIUUWZ?si=ee5e4cd5623c4c80

[@hungrylance]

LOL

[@joaqueen]

dude ikr!!

[@YourvitamineD]

it's 2 guys with the mic

[@matsaidso]

@@YourvitamineD but 1 channel

[@RiverMark]

For some reason I loved your (negative) reaction to calling it a podcast, but I enjoyed this podc... I mean... new format. It seemed more intentional and discussion focused than a typical Q&A. I enjoyed the interaction between the 2 of you, I liked seeing Jasper walk back and forth in the background, I found your update on making friends (using Bumblebee, etc.) and the idea of "infiltrating an established friend group" and then making friends individually within that group interesting and useful, and for reasons unknown, I found Ryan's reason for liking you and liking to be with you heartwarming. Overall: A+

[@kieranthiara3262]

Do y’all ever feel like when making friends with coworkers, in Ryan’s case, there is that initial hesitation on whether or not it’s worth coming out to this person? I often feel like I have two versions of myself being the worn version and the outside of work queer person and trying to blend the two as I become friends with coworkers can be challenging

[@miurtouissi1093]

I'm a lesbian and feel that way too. When I first started working where I work I didn't know how the people would react (there were a lot of older professionals i didn't want to feel judged) so I mentioned that I wanted to take some time off to see my bf.. since then I've learned that they are the most accepting people out there, but they still refer to my girlfriend as a boyfriend since I haven't corrected them yet. Its horrible but I feel double trapped, because I lied first and because I don't want to be the lesbian of the office and come out. I feel you

[@brettdarling1178]

I think it’s difficult, because, you don’t just come out once in your life, you come out all the time when you meet people. Your sexuality doesn’t define you. If someone asks me I tell them, but I don’t greet someone and follow up with I’m gay, just like a straight person wouldn’t come up and say, I’m straight. Now that I’m married it seems to come more naturally, I think as you get older you don’t seem to care as much what other people think, even in a work environment. Work should feel like a safe place, if it doesn’t then it may be time to seek a different place. If you lied to fit in, it’s easy to back track and tell everyone after that you didn’t know what the reaction would be, or play it off that they misheard and that your partner is the same sex as you. Either way, if it is a safe work place, they will understand and accept you for your work ethic and not your sexuality. That isn’t why you got hired. You got hired because you were the best fit for the business. 💕

[@palesaint0778]

I have been working half a year with some of my favourite people, seriously couldn’t have asked for better coworkers we even go out sometimes, I trust them with anything, I know they wouldn’t care about my sexuality but I just don’t feel like I have to tell them? I’m not sure, I just don’t see it as something important and the fact that they have never asked me just makes me love them even more… I’m not uncomfortable I just don’t think it’s important and the topic hasn’t come up yet lol.

[@LaughOLott]

Please make more vids like this. Like go deeper into conversations about dating and advice for dating in the LGBT community. I find you guys both have a lot of wisdom and interesting insight on those types of topics.

[@parthosahahehim955]

Okay the boyfriend’s voice is so so so smooth. Can listen to his voice forever

[@harvestmoon_autumnsky]

16:20 is where Joe tried very hard to convey he knew what Ryan was talking about, even though he really didn't. But yeah, moving away from home is important for a lot of people. I felt like no one gave my resume a second look until I moved to Seattle from San Francisco. Even though it was very very hard to be far away from my family and everything I knew, I look back on that as the most important time of my life.

[@lman5637]

I enjoyed this Q+A segment, and also no lie detected when Ryan said ..."They would only ever want me." 😄The banter, the vibes it just worked.

[@yuie__s]

You know, I just genuinely love you both together, there's like a thousand of words I wanna put down, but at the end, love's all that matters, and I see it blooming in each and every video you make together, Thank you, you both really mean a lot to me

[@tstieber]

I'm only an occasional viewer to this channel but love reading comments like this! It's cool that ppl take a chance on putting their authentic selves out there and that it makes a positive impact on others

[@jaes9812]

Loving this new format! You guys make me wanna visit Vancouver even more!

[@MementoVivere.]

I think the conversation on introversion vs extroversion is easier once you know the definitions of them. They are less about your social interaction and more about where you get your energy from.

[@juliaschuurmans_]

I had to say it, Ryan has a great 'podcast' voice! Would love more videos like this

[@leoloveslemon]

I hope the two of you many years of happiness. I met my first love in the Marines in 1978. We were together for 12 years. Left up to me we would still be together. Always hold your relationship as sacred!

[@n.d3217]

12:36 yes.. YES definitely it should! i relate to you guys so much and im grateful that you share it with us.

[@KeltieOConnor]

Loving this format ❤

[@pikapikapikachu6679]

What a lovely couple! Wish you guys all the best❤🧡💛💚💙💜

[@williamgraham6352]

Always love hearing you guys' thoughts on random topic so I really enjoyed this new format! Keep it up!

[@joelfelix3914]

I LOVVE LOVED THIS EPISODE. this was my favorite episode I’ve ever watched from you guys. I love that you guys cover an array of topics things us fans have been wanting to know. watching little glimpses of your daily life is fine and we get some small conversations about certain topics but it’s more of a tease. looking forward to this new direction you guys will be going in.

[@theedraye]

I’ve been feeling really unsatisfied a year after graduating uni cus i’ve been stuck in the same house, same city, and same environment that i’ve been wanting to move away from it. Like my current work is okay, the pay is minimum cus I am a fresh graduate but I’m still not satisfied with it. Hearing you guys speaking about experimenting and self searching, this is what i’ve been wanting to do and its kind of reassuring that what i’ve been feeling is very valid.

[@tohasstudyroom9884]

I don't usually comment on videos but I gotta say I loveeee this format!!! Its so cozy and so nice to hear you guys just sit down and talk about different topics. I really enjoyed this format cant wait to see more of it, I would really love if the videos were longer too (I would love for this to become a podcast👀👀👀). I need more long form content😭😭. Your videos make my day and make going into Monday more bearable, thank you.🤍🤍

[@tstieber]

I agree, but I will say I personally hate being just a listener and prefer jumping into a conversation. I want to take some of these topics and bring them up with friends to share experiences and opinions.

[@Mel-tb4ue]

I just came across your channel yesterday and I gotta say I absolutely love your vibes. Currently going through a bit of a rough patch (struggling with my thesis and also simply the upcoming changes that graduating will bring) and just listening to you is very soothing, somehow. I will try to be less shiddy towards myself! Thanks for your videos, keep up the great work. Looking forward to watching the rest of them!

[@x10xiii13]

Love this new format! A huge opportunity area though is the sound / mixing quality. More of this type of video, Joe! 👍

[@ndumisosibiya7088]

This was actually a great podcast I think you and Ryan should do more of these

[@byronlobos]

I'm loving the casual sense of conversation. It's like I'm visiting and hearing your chats in your living room :)

[@leroy2784]

I enjoy this, having you guys sit down and share thoughts occasionally is great. Love listening to them.

[@Anitafilmsvideos]

Loveee the new format!! Would be cool to seee more videos in this format, especially to watch when doing some low level activities...

[@LaMonicaHill]

it's my birthday today *(early valentine's day child)* so I'm spreading the love and I'm enjoying the vibe of you guys

[@Abhi-qr5ex]

Love love love this video, I absolutely love it, we need more videos like this

[@nooklife]

Love the new format! But Joe you should look up mic positioning for your audio because Ryan’s audio sounded more clear.

[@nadine2763]

it’s just so wholesome and nice to listen to you both :) you got such a great energy, if you ever wanted to do a longer podcast format, i would be the fastest subscriber

[@RamessesIX]

It's probably mostly true that we just want to see the two of you. So sane, thoughtful, cute, and somehow reassuring.

[@Javier-hw7lz]

really love what you said about your work-life balance

[@juanitamaria5499]

Love the new format. And yes we only want Ryan as a guest hahahaha.

[@FinnForFood]

I love this format so much Just 2 guys with mics

[@mjohnson9563]

it is always a great idea to mix up your content and adding this podcast to your mix is a great idea. the whole coming out thing is life long but back in the 1990s before the internet and smartphones everyone went out on a regular basis and thus it was pretty easy to meet new friends out and about. Those new friends would introduce you to other friends and so on and it really did not matter who you were. Sadly those days are mostly gone. Also, moving to another city will mean needing to meet new friends and thus it makes moving more of a challenge these days. It is very exceptional for two guys to just hit it off on their first time dating but if you guys are really into each other than it is a great thing.

[@dusdinallen3848]

starting off with an SNL skit 💀 13:50 giving 'it is your birthday' energy lol - love the channel!

[@kat_as_trophy]

love the conversation style format

[@stevenzheng2527]

This was so refreshing to watch, something new to the channel! Looking forward to the next one :)

[@jakelizama6173]

I love this podcast-ish segment! How do you guys handle confrontation between each other? How do you know when to step down or take a break and revisit later?

[@Musabbinumair2000]

Love the new format and hope it evolves to podcasts!!

[@TheOnlyTaps]

Great watch as always and dope discussions. The housing crisis thing is definitely one thing that stops me from moving to Vancouver coz i could technically move but I don't think I'm in a comfortable position in my career yet to make that move. Those rental prices would be eating into my paycheck a lil more than I'm comfortable with lol. And so true about the meal prepping thing and bulk cooking. Meal prepping has been a god send for me not only for just making me have less things to do after work on weekdays but definitely helps stretch some foods like the examples you gave when you can bulk cook some meals and just have them prepped for Mon-Fri and basically do that every Sunday so I only really find myself cooking extravagant for like Saturday and Sundays.

[@IanOh]

I always consider hearing Ryan's thoughts a privilege bc I'd assumed he was shy. 😂 PS. Saw him playing basketball once and he was killing it!

[@IanOh]

PPS. I think the game he was referring to was the same time I saw him at The Y!!

[@adriansantos583]

I loved this type of podcas… (Q&A) style video. 😅. Thank you for the great content as always! Love these types of sit down videos. ❤

[@milliwaki3631]

More podcasts please!! 😍

[@juliette7550]

Thank you so much for talking about the theme of social anxiety that I asked about, it really does mean a lot to me. I can tell that Joe and I are literally the same when it comes to that, I get extremely anxious around new people and need someone to tell me about plans they want to include me in at least couple of days in advance. Lots of hugs for both of you, you're doing a great job! 🤍✨

[@luvee258]

I love this type of videos! I usually listen to your videos then watch them a second time to watch the vlog parts, through this type of video format I can now just listen…but I’ll still watch again ;D Love ya videos joe! Keep it up, fav part of my Sundays!

[@zonzz]

Love this 👏🏻 please do more in the future, maybe even just one or two topics per video?

[@damonmorris5874]

Hey Joel and Ryan, thanks for making this video. Thanks for letting us get to know you two as partners and see another side of each of you. I really enjoyed it!! Hope to see future videos like this one👍. On another note Joel really liking your hair this days love the curls!!

[@j.l.5095]

Loved this format! You guys are awesome 🥰

[@kwametomlin]

omg a podcast

[@annabelapurva-madhuri4861]

The housing market here in Sydney is so bad too💔 You guys should definitely more of these!

[@m_aarrcc]

YESSSSS! I am in love with the vibe!

[@iArTiizT]

Love this type of content! Please continue :)

[@MJames095]

Love this format! Would be great if they were longer ❤

[@bethany5559]

could you please do a video on your acne scars and what and given the most improvement xxx

[@wehojm7320]

Entertaining vlog. We got to get more about you two. Thank youfor sharing things about yourselves.

[@christianjanusz7945]

Love this formattt

[@william7505]

12:45 is my favorite

[@_.mon._]

Soothing video ✨ Would definitely listen to more of these kind of videos. Ok a suggestion/question for the vid "When you put so much effort for a particular thing..but it doesn't show in the results".

[@moonamoona6838]

Awesome to see my favorite KZbinr drinking my Kenyan coffee

[@XiaoGou469]

Yes! love the new format. love the calm vibe

[@BryceCorsi]

Joe, I would love if you did a podcast. And I love two guys with mics!😂 I love the new setup, whether you do a podcast or not is absolutely up to you!😌

[@tooch-is7in]

Really enjoyed this vid. The new mics sound great. ❤

[@Mrdwil482]

Loved the new “podcast” you two are AWESOME!

[@inyourface127810]

Can any straight guys confirm they love watching Joe's videos. Very nice quality

[@mav.wreckk]

I need this sessions in Spotify!!!

[@jfrsnd]

another great video joe!!

[@aroshirandeniarachchi7657]

Belessshiddy podcast LESGOOOO!

[@miguellehman6951]

Thank you Joe and Ryan..liked the new format and the ease with which Ryan spoke ..interesting topics too..dont forget to include Jaasper somehow..lolxxxx😍😍♥️♥️🤗🤗🐶🐶

[@jacobv666]

i need this kind of podcast on spotify!!

[@hlumelojubase1972]

We loveeee this new format.

[@ObakengLÁUD]

Loving this "two guys with mics" setup btw😂...love you guys❤

[@Anto-wd9rm]

Great Sunday vibes, chill and relaxing!

[@NiguelAngeloArevalo]

Love listening to you both!

[@jpmzd8586]

I am so much smitten with this adorable and sweet couple, particularly when hearing Ryan talking to Joe with this very caring and soft voice… However, Ryan’s definition of “extroverted” takes on a humorous twist. He claims to be an extrovert, yet remains silent around those he doesn’t know or finds uninteresting. This sparks a series of satirical analyses. Firstly, the so-called “extroverted” nature of Ryan boils down to selective interaction, limited to people he finds interesting(I guess attractive). It’s quite amusing because genuine extroversion should involve easy communication in various situations, not just cherry-picking favorites. Alternatively, one could jestingly point out that Ryan’s version of “extroversion” is merely a selective process, where he chooses those who meet his standards while dismissing the rest. It appears more like being choosy than genuinely extroverted.

[@fredfernans]

omg loved this format! definitely should cotinue with it. very cozy/calming as always! thanks guys!

[@mouglieisaac1726]

Its a podcast Joe! Enjoyed it!

[@moonkael6969]

U guys should do more, love you guys

[@popanga0994]

BEST PART OF SUNDAY 💖💜💙

[@diracvicount5711]

Petition to have more kissing scenes in your vlogs

[@joaqueen]

THIS!!!

[@otokomai019]

Love you both! Hope we can meet you guys personally. Love from the Philippines 😘😍

[@aboutmefelipe]

I love this format :3

[@beanasebastiao]

BLOND MY FAVORITE FRANK OCEAN ALBUM IN THE BACKGROUND.. 😭❤️

[@cherray50]

Love this set up

[@kristiandelacruz8148]

This format is really awesome! I love this intimate settings 🙌

[@MichaelEspiritu]

I can do totally relate to almost all the topics you both discussed :) particularly Vancouver being lgbtq+ friendly, and making friends. I think we reach the age when we become more particular with who we meet and engage with. I think as we get a bit older, we really value how we’re gonna invest our time into other people/friends. A lot if people (if not, all) have already established relationships and maintaining those. Thanks for sharing, I really value your posts. It’s hard to filter what’s legit content full of substantial posts social media but yours definitely is valuable 😊. Maybe next post, what do you guys keep on your freezer/fridge :) perhaps in support to a healthier lifestyle? I only have a small freezer but it would nice to know what I should keep and discard haha. 😊

[@BritneyBliss098]

Love this💖

[@AntonioPerez-ix7dj]

I loved this podcast format and honestly you guys opening up about being gay made me feel so seen

[@starwars60]

Loved this! 🫶🏻

[@jacquesleriche_]

Really nice change in scenery. Enjoyed it Joe

[@kirasou]

Ryan's mike sounded great! Joe's would sometimes get less clear sounding.. this aside i would love to see/hear more of this new format! have a good week c:

[@jeffreymlotek8147]

I am no expert, but I believe it might have something to do with the positioning of the mics. Ryan’s was positioned more in front of him and there was less incidence of sound drop off as he moved his head compared with Joe’s that was more positioned off to the side so when he turned to his right toward Ryan the sound dropped?

[@kirasou]

@@jeffreymlotek8147 yeah, that might be it! my point still stands tho

[@larryjones558]

This is nice. I also enjoy going with you about the city. Thanks for sharing.

[@tcraigy]

Thanks for the vlog . It was nice to mix things up. I know ypu already addressed the mic placement. I was wondering 9f anyone else heard mic buzz. It showed up near the second half of the video. It also might be my TV.🤷‍♂️

[@MusicalMichi]

We only want ryan in the podcast. He‘s so right! Lots of love from Germany to you two.

[@briand.8271]

good morning from nashville!

[@michaelcoyne1264]

Hey - you guys are cool, keep creating x

[@tjdomerny4847]

That you guys made it through pando together, you are solid.

[@cameronmack5077]

Best video to date!

[@BetsyBigNose]

I liked this "2 guys, 2 mikes" long form video. Maybe more information about Vancouver the good and bad. Where should a tourist go in Vancouver that are overlooked for example?