growing older together, dealing with arguments and why we don't kiss

[@shelleyritchie3568]

I am an 87-year-old grandmother with six grandchildren and a marriage that lasted 52 years before my husband died. The longer one lives together the more you understand each other, and, although arguments never cease, may become a whole lot easier to deal with.

[@ericfb100]

Go Cahuna

[@randolphpastoriza]

beautiful

[@ab4805]

I am a 75 years old gay man in a 44 years relationship with my husband and it get easier with time and we give each other space regularly and since we are both retired now, the personal space is very important. We do lots ot things together but still keep the personal time every day. Arguments are good and the loving after is the best. Communication is effectively key. You are doing good. I like that you are sharing your life examples with us. Thank you for this and keep at it. Oh! Happy Birthday Ryan. Long life ahead of you.

[@RobertSD26]

Hey Joe and Ryan: I appreciate your sharing with us about your life together. I am 76 years old (truly old) and with my life partner for a very happy although not always easy 32 years. He is younger than I am and our age difference has been a great gift. I value your ideas, because I find that the young can teach how to live today and the old may have perspective and experience that only comes from living. We need each other to learn to successfully live our lives and achieve the last stage of life, balancing both old age and youth at the same time in ourselves. Thanks for what you share with us here.

[@bervsky]

I truly enjoy how you are communicating with each other. There is so much respect, maturity and of course love. Thank you for staying true to yourself and giving valuable perspectives on sharing one's relationship online + coming out as a couple.

[@sophiaisabelle027]

We appreciate hearing your insights on both sides. Keep working hard.

[@teetertotter5787]

If you don't have conflict, it usually means one or both people are not being honest. That eventually blows up from built up resentment. Learning the skills of good communication and conflict resolution is so essential.

[@firespawn0006]

I also like that both of you are unapologetic. Always do what’s best for yourself.

[@TomJohnSmith]

Getting older is mostly just the process of inadvertently broadening ones perspective through the accumulation of experiences, which in turn is inadvertently measure against future, novel experiences. Over time, your perspective changes as the amount of days you have lived becomes greater than the amount of days you have left. Combined, we are lead to to adapt our approach to life, and new priorities and intentions behind the thoughts, behaviours, and expressions of our older selves. For me, coming in to my 30s was followed by a profound sense of certainty and calm I had never experienced before. I'm stoked to reach my 40s, but I'm also just as eager to see how the rest of my 30s plays out. If you get a chance, I hope you guys are able to visit the Maritimes some time soon! hbd🎂

[@weiduoduo]

Love your chat, and enjoy your energy, both of you. So you are so mature for your ages.

[@koko10900]

Happy Birthday Ryan!!! Much love for you both!

[@iancampbell168]

Happy Birthday Ryan! 38 here, feel tired more and more lol but it feels like a turning point realizing more and more about myself and learning to step back not giving more of myself then I need to. Savour the friendships you have, don’t waste your energy on negative relationships. It’s exciting when the mind shift starts and worries and concerns from the past don’t mean anything and the bigger picture comes into play. You two are very inspirational I’ve learned from you two to continue working on communication-it is oh so important! Your hard work ethic is also epic and inspiring and it shows!

[@yulin610]

Happy Birthday Ryan and love you both🥰🥰 I love how you present your healthy, sincere relationship spontaneously in the video, rather than showing us a fixed, stereotypical gay couple interaction just like you said a lot of kisses, cuddling or so, which makes everyone know the diversity of LGBTQIA+ relationships. Thanks for bringing us these unique and genuine lifestyle videos.😇

[@rhyker9597]

Now you have everyone thinking is Ryan really only 19 and is Joe a groomer 😂strum that air ukulele!!

[@liamb6070]

Love you guys and this new podcast style is so good! X

[@michaelelie4308]

Happy Birthday Ryan hope you have an amazing day🥳🥳🥳🥳🥰

[@KhumoMarkham]

Happy 19 Ryan! 💕 Thank you both for another relaxing and interesting episode

[@denniscastillo3410]

Relationships require effort and work if you want it to succeed. When I was younger I just assumed everyone knew how I felt or thought especially if they are important. Growing up is kinda nice.

[@orcablue]

couldn't agree more denni

[@thepretender44]

Happy birthday Ryan!! You are amazing. 🥳 Thanks for sharing your life experiences with us!

[@wehojm7320]

Hi guys, loved the vlog. I always learn something new about you. You're doing all the right things in maintaining a good and supportive relations ship. Communication is paramount.

[@DownieLive]

Happy Birthday, Ryan!

[@chriskim7123]

Man I love this format of video

[@sandra25]

loved this talk. Also, happy birthday ryan !!

[@MaremotoTV]

Feliz aniversário, Ryan!! Parabéns.

[@kat_as_trophy]

Happy birthday Ryan 🎂 hope the new year is treating you well! Really love these calm conversations - equally as soothing as the weekend vlogs 🧡

[@kat_as_trophy]

Also loved the comments on queer couple KZbinrs - there’s a lot buried there imo

[@vir-e8y]

Happy birthday Ryan! ❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊 Loving this content. Thank you to you both!

[@chickenwings4574]

Happy birthday Ryan!🎉

[@KingsleyAa]

always look forward to these! happy birthday Ryan

[@omar.montano]

The only KZbinr who I have post notifications on 🤗

[@RiriBlaQ]

Me too I enjoy his slow Sunday vlogs

[@popanga0994]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY RYAN! and thanks for another great vid, Joe :)

[@paulyao6032]

Happy Birthday Ryan! Love your haircut!

[@subsector8]

Happy Birthday Ryan!! May your every wish come true today, and always!!

[@noac_]

5:20 This reference killed me fr 💀💀💀💀

[@kasonpatterson7171]

HAHAH i think i’m the only one who noticed ryan doing the “i’m not a criminal” colleen ballanger uke ‘apology’

[@TheMonteNoir]

I remember when I was young, dreading to get older, because of fears of health and other things... but now I love it! Happy Birthday Ryan 💟 P.S Not y'all got these people freaking out about ryan being '19' lmaoooo

[@tsozbk]

waiitt, is he really 19 though??

[@Aomame_love]

@@tsozbkof course no

[@TheOnlyTaps]

Great watch as always 👊🏿 and happy birthday Ryan.

[@Yoshiihsoy695]

The reference he made to Colleen and her lil song 😂

[@samuelworley7300]

Happy B - Day Ryan You both are BEAUTIFUL !!!

[@MattMort]

Happy Sweet 16 Ryan!

[@jacky6632]

I think the fact that you’re not kissing on camera very often, makes your relationship seem even more authentic, natural and real, which it is. There’s nothing I find more awkward than couples kissing in an artificial way on camera. So thanks for not doing that! 🫶 also happy ✨19th✨ birthday to our precious Ryan!!!

[@ARMYforLIFE_BillyBabefan]

I think the same way about it.

[@itstvoicrush5610]

PLEASE I CANNOT how old is Ryan fr

[@rhyker9597]

@@itstvoicrush5610he is 25 and Joe is 27 it was a joke😂

[@Imetwurld_]

​@@rhyker9597oh so jeo is older. Nicee. His 1996 .

[@balladofahomeschooledboy0514]

@@itstvoicrush5610 BET YOU CAN'T EVEN TELL WHAT RYAN WAS REFERENCING IN 5:20

[@UncleBruceCT]

How many times do you say "like" in this video? Just asking. Happy birthday, Ryan!!

[@keepthepeacesharethelove7022]

Please don't or do not ever regret anything you did or do. Everything happens for a reason.

[@Mark.mp3]

19 ???

[@chickenwings4574]

Exactly what I said ?!😅

[@danatmatchvox]

happy birthday ryan

[@gonpi77]

HB to Ryan! Lots of Love for both 🖤🖤🖤

[@kamalsharma4866]

NO WAY YOU'RE JUST 19!!!!!

[@ironbark88]

I hope you keep this video and listen to it again every 10 years and reflect on what you said.

[@TheGoldenDonuttt]

Happy Birthday Ryan!!🎂

[@isthatjackson]

The air ukulele I see you Ryan 😭😂💀

[@daphnesdumpster]

happy birthday, Ryan!!🫶🏽

[@josephmathews3082]

hey yall. do you guys have any travel plans to asia like Korea or Singapore?

[@tcraigy]

Happy birthday, Ryan! Jasper stole the video at the beginning with his wagging tail and cute face popping up behind Joe.

[@teta58]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY RYAN!🥳

[@siddhirane1272]

I love Joe’s flawless skin🤩🤩

[@riitek_]

Hey i need you, can you tell me where did you buy the fanny pack from a previous video I need it

[@raulreid8294]

Happy Birthday Ryan 🎊🎉

[@camcam800m]

Happy Birthday, Ryan!! 🎉🎉🎉

[@robertbeining141]

"It's in his kiss!" Smoldering passion begins with a kiss.

[@emmanueljmd]

Happy birthday, Ryaaaaannnn!

[@ryanscottlogan8459]

Happy Birthday!☺️🎂🎉

[@lgbtARABS]

Happy birthday beautiful Ryan 💜

[@pinenkuo]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY RYAN!

[@dusdinallen3848]

happy bday!

[@sk-bt1gg]

happy birthday 🎂

[@tai8799]

R u guys going to have a meet & greet w/ur fans in NYCin Fall?

[@pearljocelynvictoria2604]

Happy birthday Ryan 🎂🎊🎉

[@PeytonBourree]

I love this style sometimes too..from the daily vlogs to this its nice to slow down and just have some coffee and chat!

[@kirstenau]

Happy Birthday Ryan! Don't worry - my father in law plays basketball in a league regularly at nearly 80, you'll be just fine :)

[@PeytonBourree]

Could you do a coffee vlog and post which ones you drink and enjoy?

[@PokhrajRoy.]

You two are my favourite ‘Men in Black’.

[@PeytonBourree]

Sorry but what is the coffee? I want to try it!

[@cathalreilly4314]

We fight too long and hard to let saver bullies are bullies in general keep us apart I will not listen to cyberbullying

[@patriciaavery9001]

@joe lee #mypeople @6:58 "Sometimes I don't even wanna communicate." Mood. lol / not lol

[@tinapiliouras4103]

Happy birthday Ryan no matter what your real age Is enjoy your lives together❤❤ i agree some of bl couples chanel where they focus o n kissing etc is done to round up subscribers remember guys stay happy and positive ❤❤

[@Imetwurld_]

They are not a bl couple. That word is for women who fetish two men relationship. They are a gay couple or a bi couple.

[@johannapuls9500]

Happy Birthday Ryan🎉

[@anitalamnio2797]

Happy birthday Ryan future brother in law. May God bless you with lot of happiness and success in life🥰 lot of love from India🇮🇳

[@GarrettWease]

Happy birthday Ryan!

[@adamjustadam]

Happy birthday Ryan! 😊🍰❤️

[@CitrusxTangerina]

happy birthday ! (:

[@brightshining]

Congrats on being 19!! 🎉 (Oh my gosh, you guys freaked me out 😆 ... I swear )

[@nafismiah8597]

Is he actually 19

[@viciousnutella]

@@nafismiah8597i wanna know too because iirc he had multiple jobs before

[@kayel743]

🎶 Happy birthday to YOU x2 🎵 Happy birthday dear Ryan 🎶 Happy birthday to YOU 🎵 Happy birthday Mister🎈🎁🎉🍾🎂🥂🎇💥💫 Wishing you good, lasting, happy years to come 💯

[@edinnes]

Happy Canada Day / Birthday!!!

[@estebanalessio1206]

Happy Birthday Ryan!! 🎉

[@michaelmetcalf2715]

Happy Birthday Ryan 🎉🎉🎉

[@user-rr5qd9fn9q]

Happy birthday Ryan ❤🎉

[@shadownor]

Happy Birthday Ryan, mine was yesterday.

[@charleshicks912]

Happy birthday hopefully you have a awesome birthday day

[@Oooorileyy]

How old honestly?

[@harvestmoon_autumnsky]

Happy Birthday Ryan

[@jger419]

Ryan, your haircut is a great! Variety is good, but I hope you keep this one for a while.

[@clemsonbloke]

Yeah that mullet looked like shit. He looks proper and nice now.

[@Commander_HW]

He looks cute with the short hair!

[@denniscastillo3410]

Yeah I think I do this too I love kissing and everything but I can't really see myself doing PDA I'd rather enjoy the intimacy.

[@kailin7936]

How is he only 19?

[@Katorri]

That's incredible, not only did you come out but btw here's my him, all at once😂

[@arthurbridges6155]

🎉 Happy Birthday to Ryan...best wishes...

[@fantasyNamerian]

Ryan is 19????

[@robertsimons806]

Hi happy birthday Ryan 🎂🎉 in joy your day by robert

[@jasonlahey1550]

Treat each other with respect and remember why you fell in love in the first place.

[@Snower555]

ryan is 19 years old??

[@wapsj9262]

happy birthday to my favourite Ryan

[@joellebrown539]

I thought yall were talkin abt u dont kiss in real life i was shocked for a min. On camera its totally ur business