Is God Punishing Me? | 3 Scriptural Reasons For Suffering

I think it's a common question when you go through something hard to ask, "Is God punishing me? Is something I did either now or in my past causing my current suffering?" But oftentimes when we're wondering "is God punishing me," what we truly need is a correct view of His character. We need to know His heart, which will make the answer to that question clear. In this video, I'm giving that reminder of His heart, and I'm also sharing three possible reasons that scripture gives us for why suffering occurs. May these truths from God's Word encourage your heart! 🤍
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“As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear Him. For He knows our frame; He remembers that we are dust." | Psalm 103:13

[@kacinicole]

Testimony: through a time of deep uncertainty in my life, I saw God grow my love for His Word because I was so desperate for clarity, dependent on Him, and seeking Him continually 🤍 share your testimonies below!

[@paulmartin5424]

He loves you sister Kaci amen ✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏👍

[@NewCreationInChrist896]

Amen, same and why I have so many favorite sound teachings in my playlist, thank you for sharing your testimony. Proverbs 3:5-6 🙏 John 14:26 🕊️

[@paulmartin5424]

Sister Kaci your a very important sister in Christ remember that amen ✝️✝️✝️👍🙏✝️🙏🙏

[@ronhanish]

❤️ u go girl

[@DearGodPodcast]

No matter what you are going through right now, God will get you through it. We are praying for everyone reading this! ✝️

[@kacinicole]

He is faithful 🙏🏼

[@DeborahRose2885]

Thank you so much❤

[@malyyyy]

Almost there 🙏

[@Xochitl26]

Tysm ❤ I’m Christian and this motivated me and inspiring me ❤

[@meganlouiseoregan397]

Thankyou 😥

[@rich-manpoor-mancomics5814]

Thank you for posting this video. I feel so alone in my singleness, I’m 33 years young, and I long for my other half. I’m terrified I’ll be alone forever. 💔

[@femmybetts5494]

Me too

[@michaelverstraeten8272]

Me too😢

[@lucygale336]

I've gone through so so much in my life and looking back God never left me through it all ❤

[@kacinicole]

Amen - so true! 🤍

[@chinyererowland1093]

Yes me too

[@lorenzog7811]

Wow you're lucky. He's never been with me since I was born into this evil place.

[@RestfullyRenewed]

I thank God for pruning and disciplining all of us who have their faith and trust in Jesus . You've put so much into this study I so enjoyed it. Thank you for the time you spend on this.

[@kacinicole]

I'm so glad you enjoyed it - and thank you for these encouraging words 🤍

[@c.f.callier]

God has beaten back my enemies and restored to me everything that was stolen by the devil. I am so grateful for His goodness and love. Through that I have learned what it truly means to be transformed by Him and to have an ever deepening relationship with Father God. 💜

[@yeannineme2653]

Thank you, I needed to read this...I don't know how much longer...

[@c.f.callier]

You're welcome. It took over three years for me to be deep enough in God and also listening to a lot of Evangelist Gabriel Fernandes and then applying what I learned. Don't give in and don't give up. God's with you all the way!

[@chelsiterry804]

My infertility journey has brought to light bad fruit I had in me such as envy and anger and being lukewarm in my walk. I don’t know if those things would have ever surfaced without these struggles. It’s been a process pruning me but God hasn’t given up on me and I’m so thankful. Our relationship has become so much more real and intimate because of infertility and that in itself has been special. My flesh of course desires a baby but ultimately I know God knows what is best for me and I trust His plan and His timing.

[@jiefeng2946]

Don’t discourage.God’s grace is sufficient. When time is right, everything is gonna work out. Blessings Jie

[@Isabel_lena0905]

God bless you! I want to say that this word was confirmation ALL OVER. all day I’ve been crying and asking God if I have done something wrong, why do I feel like I’m being punished and so much more. And i know the Holy Spirit led me to this video as a reminder that it is all a part of God’s plan but that His love is forever and He has not forgotten me. Thank you for this word and for sharing what God placed in your heart. I will keep you in prayer my sister in Christ 💜

[@icyfire6879]

HA, I'M a Preacher's wife of 10+ years, whom has also been through many, MANY endless trails..AMA !!! I will tell you the ABSOLUTE TRUTH

[@01happykat]

About two weeks ago, I went to confession and the priest told me I'd probably have to prune a few people from my life. That pruning started Friday night. I had my suspicions about who I would need to prune, but never did this person cross my mind. I am heartbroken, but God is NOT punishing me. I know God is removing this person, so I can find something better, healthier, and full of radiant joy. I hadn't realized until Friday night that his person had completely betrayed me. Yes, God prunes for good reason. A year ago, I would've seen this betrayal another way in which God punished me, but not now. I'm so glad God has pulled me to Him and loved me enough to help deepen my faith and trust in Him and all He does.

[@TheCheshier88]

I realize now that I am the reason why I have been suffering. I am now 35 and have been messing up for so many years It’s my fault that I’m not where I wanna be in life I just hope and pray to God I’m not too late to change my life and my situation.

[@musicandpoetry_8]

I’m in the same exact situation, I’ll be 36 in two days

[@missy5473]

I am really going through it. Will be homeless beginning next Thursday, have only a part-time job that I JUST got. I don't have any answers. I'm so scared. I've been praying, but am hearing nothing.

[@Godlywoman88]

I hope you get a safe place to live. I'm having a rough time too and feel ignored by God

[@keanujooste1581]

Did you make it? I hope it's been going better with you.

[@alexsanderivan6511]

My testimony happened today, shortly after I came across this video: an old couple of friends from an old church my family frequented was in our house visiting us today. At the end of the day, we decided to pray together, and the couple started to give us farewell. For the last few weeks, I've been fighting anxiety, my mind has been heavily attacked by the enemy. God has been working on me through it all, so I've been getting better. However, the husband of the old couple, who had absolutely no idea what I was going through, asked me, in a low voice, "Are you sleeping well, brother ? Don't worry about anything. Everything will be alright. God protects you". I was so surprised but so overwhelmed by joy, because I imediatelly realized that God was speaking through him. Bless your channel and everyone watching :)

[@BudderBean]

I’m new at prayer and scripture. I love the way you calmly explain scripture to us. I actually have been questioning this very topic every day, all day.

[@june-again]

i have been dealing with chronic pain for the last year but i have not wavered in faith. God calls us to choose him in our suffering, and He has not left my side through it. thank you for this incredibly encouraging video Kaci

[@danglicous]

I Am Not Benny I Am Under My Son's EmaiL My Name Is LoreLLa Pray For Me Maybe I Can Start Ministering For StiLL Being Separated .And Pray For My Marriage And Both My Son And Daughter.

[@sjhomerenovations696]

Sometimes we go through stuff and situations but God is there with us but silent. He is there holding our hands because je is making us stronger an making have stronger Faith in him and at the same time God is refining us and moulding us and we will come out throught the situations stronger and with great break throughs

[@Healing556]

1.Does God allows it till the believer failed the test & dies? 2. Does God punish believer ? Didnt He took all the curse at the cross ?

[@devonesmall5254]

When I say “well timed”, this is absolutely well timed. God is really using you to reach us Kaci. I’m so grateful for this message today. God bless you ❤️

[@Simonsays..]

Same here sister ! ❤🙏

[@Daisy_buddy1030]

Recently the Lord and I have been going through it!! My best friend left and I haven’t seen him in over a year. I have felt the Lord place a desire for a relationship on my heart after we first met and that desire has only grown!! I have asked the Lord to take my feelings for him away if its not going to bare any fruit and the feelings have only grown but have also caused pain. Idk what to make of any of this and I’ve asked the Lord for clarity but he has yet to speak

[@TalksandRy]

Hes been showing me that loving others is one of the greatest things ever

[@teddybearaddick7363]

Please forgive me father. I'm down and depressed from a 2 day alcohol fuelled drinking binge and feel so low and ashamed, committed so many sins while intoxicated. Now my 2nd day in bed fasting and praying but sometimes it feels like he ain't forgiving me because I've done this 100 times and I'm in my early 30s. Please pray for me that alcohol and drugs have no hold over me anymore. Please God have mercy on me and please forgive me

[@slyfly4829]

I have gone through the darkest of Hell. N yet there are lives out there who have had much worse. All my suffering is situation related. It effects my mental health . There are people who have seen physical hell, death, poverty, starvation . And yet. It wouldn't be fair for me to compare to a situation I've never been in. But something about betrayal that was intentional. That gives the traitor joy, someone you loved and trusted. Suddenly becoming your enemy, trying to stab the knife as deep as they can. I cannot wrap my mind around it. And I may never understand. I see now that god removed this person from my life because God saw what I could not see. And God has now shown me who this person really is. The only thing I wish I knew is why this person is the way they are. And even more, why they try to destroy the one who held them together.

[@EmmettLBrown2015]

I'm punished every single day.. and the funny part, If I do a good deed or if I do something good for somebody, I get punished even worse right after and this happens every time

[@stacyeisner441]

2 part Question: a how can we tell when a trial has become a lifestyle ie, that we've become stuck & b how do we begin the process of getting out--?

[@Stephaniej89]

Lord I can’t go anymore I’m trying so hard

[@Bleu-en2bf]

Me too, I feel the same.😔

[@sara40975]

Don't loose hope in the LORD GOD,HE LOVES YOU,WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU,open your heart to GOD,cry to HIM,HE HEARS AND HE CRIES with you,GOD bless you sister !

[@trucyslife]

Kaci, honey you are such a tremendous blessing on the world wide web. God, thank you so very much for bringing this precious woman to the forefront of those of us who are seeking you and trying to follow your Word. She is a sweet and wonderful light that You are working through and I'm so very thankful You led me to her channel! Kaci, I've yet to see another young woman who is so rich in love for her God and the people around her. Thank you so much for your giving heart. It means the world to me and I look forward to hearing whatever it is you'll say next lol. God, please continue to bless Kaci and her sweet little family and keep them safe and protected from the darkness of this world!💖💥🙏👨‍👩‍👧

[@shantaeggleston9476]

The lord has seen me through job loss and working it all for my good to be able to share this message with others today. My fears and worries through it....weren't needed. God had me the whole time! 🙌 My faith must be steadfast!!

[@thecamelliadiaries]

i really needed this today, thank you always Kaci, God bless🤍

[@123JustBecause]

Such a great heartfelt message. I appreciate that your message isn’t aligned with the prosperity gospel but instead with Biblical principles. Thank you.

[@melanielandi5195]

I woke up at 3 a.m. and asked this question. Thank you! ❤

[@Ty_121]

please pray for me and my girlfriend that broke uo with me that we can learn through this and come back together whenever we are ready again according to Gods will God bless you all amen

[@jasnajasmine1925]

Prayed ❤

[@Ty_121]

@@jasnajasmine1925 thank you so much God bless you 🙏❤️

[@mayrain5749]

I’ll be praying for you both can you please pray for me too? My name is Bella and his name is Diego

[@Ty_121]

@@mayrain5749 of course!!! my name is Ty and her name is Gio you will be in my prayers God bless you two we got this. 🙏

[@Ty_121]

@@mayrain5749 do u have any socials or anything i can dm u on so i can pray for the specifics of the situation?

[@janet5135]

GOD WILL TEST YOU.

[@brittanyw1029]

This video was right on time and a confirmation and answer to a recent prayer. Thank you!

[@deborahrambo6565]

Thank you so much for this message. I’ve been going through some hard times and have asked why He is punishing me, When I have these thoughts I tend not to read the Bible or pray. I really needed to hear this tonight. Thank you!

[@sissi3342]

can you please make a video like this solely for people dealing with debilitating pain and illnesses? I am currently injecting morphine as watching you, I feel so lost and so broken. I am also very,very scared. Whenever I realize how scared I am, I feel so much guilt because I feel like I am failing God, so I immediately pray over the fear and ask God to rather fill me with His Peace through the Holy Spirit, but then again I am scared. I feel like I can't do this anymore, I feel like my body can't either.

[@karlaharvey2623]

Hi Kaci, I soo needed to hear Gods words thru you. I know that God is “ Pruning Me”. As the end times come, I want and am working on becoming more like Christ Jesus. God Bless You for sharing His word to us.

[@ajs-u3o]

Thank you Kaci . I am going through suffering for past so many months . Was always why God left me to suffer at the mercy of Satan through prolonged suffering. Your video made its way to me at the right time , when I am so depressed and very comforting and reassuring. Thank you so much.

[@StrawberryJamJam29]

I’ve been job searching for a better job since 2020. And phewww I still have not found one. Just keep getting treated like garbage and experiencing long-term unemployment. Got fired earlier this year and about to be long-term unemployed for a second time soon. I network, but no one helps. Everything I’m being rejected from. Retail jobs and volunteer roles too. I’m completely exhausted. And now there’s massive layoffs. 😩 I’m trying to switch industries too. All I can do is rely on God because I literally cannot do anything on my own.

[@johnmitchell7834]

Your videos bring me so much comfort thank you, how do I tell if God is blessing my new relationship. I have been looking for,for many years, she makes me very happy, And is so kind and loving. I hope I have God‘s approval , how Can. I tell

[@perspicacity89]

God bless you, Kaci. Thank you so much for these videos!

[@cha9937]

Once again, I so needed to hear all of this. Thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@itzmochawolf5188]

AMENNNNNN THANK YOU LORD ❤️🙏🫶🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@ashleys8855]

I really really needed to hear this today. I'm glad i stumbled across this video. Thank you very much.

[@rockhousecenter6003]

This is so good! A right view of God is essential in having peace in every day life.

[@triciagray3998]

I find comfort in the words of the Lord in difficult times. I find your video very helpful and encouraging in a time of need. It is nice to know there are people out there who are inspired and encouraged by God's words. I think I feel a sense of belonging and community supported by your channel.

[@nv9811]

John 3:16 shalom ❤

[@shakiyla.A_]

Your voice is soothing and encouraging, God continue to use you and bless you💞

[@Paulibelieve]

Thank you dear Kaci!

[@GodJesusChristlovesyou_knows_u]

🧡🧡For the Lord disciplines those he loves, and he punishes each one he accepts as his child.” - Hebrews 12:6

[@elizabethsummermeado]

So blessed by your videos!! 🙏💕🙏

[@rudolfberki8683]

Excellent video, thank you.

[@jimmygreenstein1432]

I hope you read this. I believe I’m being punished. I got diagnosed with MS and Hydropanyis. Really messed me up mentally. Born and raised catholic. My mom is Italian. 11yes and still going through this BS and I’m over everything and pretty much don’t care about pretty much anything now. I’ve turned into a bitter person

[@richardyoung6721]

Dear gifted teacher, thanks for taking the time to make these videos. Blessings to you and your family.

[@sophieinspires]

Beautiful video i discover your chanel today i am mexican and now i will subscribe God bless you ! praise to God, God is love !

[@xokelseyxo9238]

Thank you for this very much needed reminder, sweetest Kaci. It is so obvious that the Lord has a beautiful purpose for your journey here on earth. I hope that you are having a very beautiful, happy and peaceful weekend with your loved ones. ❤

[@itsnikkiautumn]

You worded this all so well 💕 love it!

[@pm712]

I have been fighting so long 😞 nothing has happened for me but for just especially unjust.

[@wensimm6006]

Lord Purin me! I need to represent you Lord!!

[@misskaykayRSA]

Your videos are always so timely. Thank you Kaci ❤

[@Michael_Morehead]

Let us remember, O Lord, that we are unrighteous in ourselves and in daily need of repentance and forgiveness. Let us come to you as the "Great Physician of our soul" for the spiritual healing that only you can bestow. We cannot forge our own path to spiritual wellness by man's psychological methods or by sheer will-power but only by Your Spirit. Show us our weakness, we pray, and then show us your strength in making us strong. Amen Shalom.🚦🔥✝️🩸💯💤🛡️

[@RASHASA1237]

A really heartfelt video!!! Be blessed!!! 🕊🤍

[@itskristiialy]

Needed this today. ❤

[@danglicous]

It's Me LoreLLa I FeeL I Am Suffering For ALL 3 Of Those Reasons.

[@luqicharmz]

I thought I understood the path God wanted me to take but now that I’m being led in a different direction it’s hard not to think about all the money I lost.

[@meganlonsdale8462]

So sorry to hear that. I totally understand how that feels. It can be frustrating when we think we hear God clearly but He takes us in a new direction. God sees your heart and knows you are intentionally trying to seek Him. He will be faithful. Keep going and He promises to make your path straight. Never will He leave or forsake you. Sometimes we have to be stripped of our security to grow. Praying for you❤️ you are not alone my friend

[@Z.W0lf22]

Although this is somewhat unrelated, I wanted to say thank you so much for your posts and the insight you give to so many people! I wanted to ask: Are there any specific resources you would recommend that explain more about women and their experiences/roles in the Bible? I’ve been trying to learn more lately, and I would appreciate the help! Thank you! ❤️

[@toddshamblin2553]

Thank you

[@Triebwerkstoerung]

Your personal message from God himself has arrived 📬 1 Timothy 2:11-14 & 1 Corinthians 11:5

[@MiaCarter7]

Texting my friends, happy for them , while crying behind my screen while things crumble in my own life. I’m afraid to pray because it feel like I am punished everytime I do. I think “what makes me different. Why would he prioritize taking my pain with others are going through much worse. But I am deeply hurt and I wish there was some solace.

[@keanujooste1581]

Stay strong. 🫶

[@bobhines2237]

God Bless you

[@horsehappy2791]

Call dispatch very good to meet. Bless me with so many things. A unreal times that no one else that I know of could have survived. And what he has given me. There's no way anybody would have attained that precious thing to them without being employed. But at the same time I'm going through so much pain even while I am getting close to God. And I don't understand that and it feels like now. What he blessed me with. He's taking away. And I don't understand it because I'm not being bad. I'm actually growing in my faith. Can you help me with that?

[@Bleu-en2bf]

I've been working hard, praying hard, a few weeks ago after tending to my sick sister, I nearly got struck by lightning 🌩, in my own living room. My sister saw this too. So now I'm scared to death.

[@xDiananas]

What if He is prunning me but I am totally failing?! I don’t see answer to my situation. I have lost the little faith that was growing, the hope left me too. I see no issue. I can’t even pray anymore. I don’t even know what to pray. I feel desperate

[@lindabailey2373]

Same here. I’m lost and so hurt through this storm. I’m emotionally numb, no peace, no joy, no love felt anything or anyone regardless of how hard I try to keep the faith. Tired of even trying

[@marylee2672]

Amen!

[@JennyW77]

Good video. Watching from Sweden. I must say I love the length of your hair. It’s so beautiful and long. 🙂

[@danglicous]

Maybe It's Me LoreLLa ShouLd Start Ministering To The Others About StiLL Seperated . PLEASE PRAY For Me And My Husband And My AduLt Son And Daughter.

[@jilliansmith8080]

How can you trust God when you see his followers struggle so much. My aunt never had love marriage and children. She so broken.. she can't have children anymore, and it seems if you're over 40, you're not valuable anymore.... If he would be so cruel to her, how can I trust him ? If folling him was to mean I could never have a family, why would I.

[@RHONDANORRIS-p4c]

❤

[@thekreativeculture9642]

Honestly honestly honestly feels like God is punishing me and my mother. I mean, health, finances are on the decline. And doesn’t seem to be getting better. I honestly dont know how much more i can take. And im only 28. Its so hard. Idk. Like I really dont know what else to do. Im trying to stay strong as a man but im slowly deteriorating lol

[@Gilbertlouise12]

I have a question: Could u make a video about: Is it right to make money when sharing about God and the Gospel. I was given a Prophetic Art Ministry, but because my ability to paint is a gifting and he uses me for the purpose of sharing the Gospel and bringing people to God, I feel it wrong to sell the art or make money from it. I read the Bible on KZbin but struggle with the issue of money sometimes. There is probably others who are concerned about this type of issue too. It would be good to see a video covering this topic. Thankyou for your time.

[@tammystours5171]

God will not forbid you to make money using your gift. Look at all of the Christian music artists, they are making money, we all have to earn a living. And what a blessing to be able to do that doing something you love:). Wonderful! Be at peace and God bless! ❤

[@Gilbertlouise12]

@@tammystours5171 Thankyou Tammy for ur reply. May God bless you too. :)

[@christinacarlisle1491]

Just letting you know that the verses that are popping up while you’re reading are hard to read!! I have glasses and bifocals and I can’t see the verse at all, just a blur

[@186itaalia]

I’m Nathaniel

[@186itaalia]

Are you really Nathaniel

[@186itaalia]

You can not be Nathaniel

[@186itaalia]

Jock

[@HallPh.D.]

Heavenly Father please punish us so that our nation may turn from our wicked ways and seek your grace with humility and fear.

[@desireebevineau9056]

If that’s true he needs to hurry up and get to the good part before I actually give up.

[@LieingCostsYourSoulTellElders]

Loss of knowledge of sexuality nakedness coming forever how about that

[@LieingCostsYourSoulTellElders]

Those sweet vaginas have been removed your only 2d and lack human traits cold. Just don't do like the crazies

[@lorenzog7811]

Screw that. There is no good reason to be made to suffer. God is evil period. What monster would create this torture chamber?

[@joymruss]

This is so good! 😊🤍

[@kacinicole]

I'm so glad you liked it 😊

[@marylee2672]

Amen!