Thank you for another enjoyable an informative video Kaheva
@cam_ridley417424 күн бұрын
Love and marriage in Korea sounds like a nightmare….NO THANKS!
@greenman450823 күн бұрын
Wasn’t it Hemingway that said “ in love, there are no happy endings “?
@dsanford1224 күн бұрын
Holy cow there's so many processes to this , i think somebody should write a handbook on how to do this
@jasmeetsingh294624 күн бұрын
And here I thought Indian marriages and divorces were complicated😂😂😂
@vallin-o3q24 күн бұрын
😂lol
@greatkaafir747824 күн бұрын
Stupid Love Marriages Only " 😂✌️
@exploreandunravel577324 күн бұрын
In India , its the Whole Family especially Parents and Husbands giving up their lives because of the greed of Girls aka Expensive Hoo k s
@JayB-JayB24 күн бұрын
Wow!... Korean relationships are truly intricate and complicated... I guess ALL relationships are complicated in some way, shape, or form...
@bapua505224 күн бұрын
Love you
@jungheo412424 күн бұрын
@@bapua5052😅😂💕
@david2444224 күн бұрын
God bless you too! You deserve the best man who also has a great head, heart, and soul.
@kimwilliams516524 күн бұрын
1st all people mentally sound are responsible for their own actions. So no woman could "induce her husband" to "violence" so she could "receive a lot of property." These statements show how internalized sexism is inside of the hearts and minds of Korean women, not just Korean men. Domestic violence is a very real problem around the world, including Korea, which often treats it as a private family issue. 2nd child support is not free $$$ for women anywhere in the world, it's money to fulfill his duty to support the children he co-created. It is hypocritical for anyone in Korea to speak of child support as free money that women receive, but then point to the sky high cost of raising kids as one of the reasons for the low birth rate. 3rd No one should bring up a conversation about the division of property as unfair if a woman gets 1/2 of everything. Women in Korean society due to sexism are often expected to quite their jobs and devote themselves to caring for the family, husbands, kids, in-laws, their own parents, even siblings in some cases. Korean job markets make it almost impossible for women to return to the workforce after taking maternity leave, or years off for child care. So of course a divorced woman will need income from the former spouse. For example, in the case of someone trapped in a car on fire, that then drives into a lake and the fire is put out, that person is still trapped in a car in danger of drowning. For the women of Korea it's important to remember doing better, does not equal doing good. The fight for equality inside of the home and legally still is an uphill battle.
@highonimmi23 күн бұрын
in the west we cal it "pushing someone buttons'....you can make some people lash out in anger if you know how to set them off. so, yes, you can induce to violence.
@greedyreader1521 күн бұрын
@@highonimmi a normal non violent person will not come to violence unless it's a life or death situation, theirs especially
@ESPANOL-pw9vi23 күн бұрын
That's interesting. What happens to the children after divorce if the parents become enemies and don't see each other again?
@greedyreader1521 күн бұрын
Either get left with grandparents or orphanage, or one of the parent (who may try to argue to avoid custody)
@banan91224 күн бұрын
Confucius = confusion
@Ripenready24 күн бұрын
Thank you for such a concise video that is well put together.
@Linda_Ann-ex9cm23 күн бұрын
Thank you for always sharing information but also comparing the thought process between between countries. Here in the US 16 states still recognize adultery as a crime & a reason for divorce but all other states have decriminalized adultery as a reason for divorce. Instead of an at fault reason there is no fault & considered irreconcilable differences. In many ways, with adultery taken out of the divorce equation many spouses feel as if the cheating spouse is not held accountable for their actions & that within itself can be considered painful as the reason is not truly apparent or justified. I believe adultery should still be a reason for divorce even if it is decriminalized because it is what it is.
@cdcdogs496122 күн бұрын
Very interesting, thank you KAHEVA. 🤗❤️
@dealman331224 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video! God bless you
@nirathiruvasagam915824 күн бұрын
Facinating. In the west its a no faults divorce. Assets are divided equally no matter who cheated . In UK its only 3 years since no fault divorce was introduced. Much less drama.
@ThanaykhwamMai-ff4ni24 күн бұрын
Thanks Kaheva . Now l understand Korean's culture better . ❤❤
@nerdsworthpoindexter666124 күн бұрын
Great video! ❤
@user-ym8lz3yj8l24 күн бұрын
7:37-7:43 Yes it's not easy in your culture because someone takes half of the other person money, owns or wealth after divorce.. in my culture there is no division of assets or wealth or 50/50 or half after divorce... What the husband owns is his right and what the wife owns is her right, only if the husband and the wife enter into a joint project together like they contributed to it together and financed it together it will be 50/50 after divorce or she gets more if look at the percentage of the wife contribution and her financial participation in it and she will get the amount of the wife contribution and her financial participation in it after the divorce.. For example, in my culture, Husband and wife have the right to divorce.. the husband has no right to the wife money and what she owns only if the wife give him her money and what she owns by herself without he asking her so in my culture the husband and the wife have a separate bank account meaning the wife is Financially independent from her husband... the wife has the right to keep her family name so in my culture the husband and the wife have a separate family name.. anything the husband buys and register it on his wife name it becomes the wife owns for example, if the husband buys a car or a house or any kind of business and registers it on his wife name it becomes the wife owns even if they divorced. anything the husband buys for his wife like gold or jewelry or whatever and gives it to his wife as a gift it becomes the wife owns too. When they divorce the wife gets the divorce wife alimony which is 3 months and sometimes may reach one year and she gets the divorce dowry that agreed before the marriage
@SapiensKaran-rm7kj24 күн бұрын
Thank you and God bless you all!😊🙏
@jungersrules21 күн бұрын
I'm in my 50s and emigrated to the US with my parents when I was 5 y.o. I observed what is happening to my birth country from afar, and besides the technological advances and the appearance of advancement, it really hasn't modernized socially. So, for almost 50 years, Korea has not advanced in that area. Is it any wonder that it's the leader when it comes to the plummeting birth rate? And, it's still one of the highest ranking countries when it comes to suicides. I was shocked to see even young Korean KZbinrs obsessing over looks and their body. Again, Korea leads in plastic surgery. Strangers will make comment on your looks, ask you then judge you by what you do for work, etc. So, please don't be fooled by the look of modernization. S. Korea culture and society is absurdly antiquated.
@community18549 күн бұрын
She’s a great teacher! So polished in saying
@Winterowl-f2z24 күн бұрын
Lets not fall in love or marriage Again the problem is crazy heart
@PH-io4fd3 күн бұрын
I watched a video about an Australian man who married a Korean woman. She later died of cancer. He was the only one who cared for her during her illness, her family showed almost no interest in her. He claimed that immediately after that, her family started treating him like an enemy. They didn't even want to let him go to her deathbed to say goodbye to her one last time. All they cared about was money, he paid for everything, the funeral and all the ceremonies, but he was still unwanted there. In the end, they took away all his property, two apartments and money. A very sad story.
@JayB-JayB24 күн бұрын
You look great in Blue Kaheva!!! My favourite colour on you! 너무 섹시해요!!!😍
@shalomnwachineke867724 күн бұрын
God said I hate divorce. So pray first before you marry and when marry close your eyes and focus on your marriage 100 percent 🙏 I ❤ kheavas Amen
@nirathiruvasagam915824 күн бұрын
@@shalomnwachineke8677 soon marriage will be dated as more and more people believe its an institution.
@loveofanimalsinc.visaliaca850823 күн бұрын
One of my favored korean actors divorced his korean wife and married an American woman. They had an affair before he divorced. Even though he's a man, he hid his divorce from the public for a long time.
@rudolphferdinand363413 күн бұрын
My former Korean wife had her parents move to the U.S., and they both abused her when she was a little child for many years. The father died from cancer and was buried here in the U.S., but the mother instructed the ex-wife, “I do not want to be buried here but in Korea.” She obeyed. My former Korean wife left us my three daughters for me to raise. She had nothing to do with them. The oldest was born in Korea in 1972, so she is KOREAN.
@usa347924 күн бұрын
I now need psychological help after trying to understand the divorce process in Korea.😢
@jungheo412424 күн бұрын
Agreed!😂🎉
@Hector-ir8fj24 күн бұрын
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH KAHEVA!❤❤❤. YOU TEACH ME SO MUCH.👋💯🌿🤩🌹. I APPRECIATE YOU.🫂❤️🫶🌺YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL.
@gs-nt6nf24 күн бұрын
Kaheva is very lovely
@pacopeso847424 күн бұрын
Very interesting thank you
@joeburns8824 күн бұрын
When I got my divorce it was great. Best thing I ever did...free as a bird:)
@vallin-o3q24 күн бұрын
Congrats!🎉🎉
@xavierbotticelli538424 күн бұрын
KHAHEVA very beautiful and clever girl, thank you for sharing, I’ll love to know more about South Korea ❤🎉❤
@RaiderElliot16 күн бұрын
I understand the hidden message, I know now the path i will take and not go on the wrong path, thank you Kaheva 🙏 🤓💙✨️💘
@asongjamir424424 күн бұрын
New subscriber here unni☺️love From TaSoNg VloG from Nagaland ❤👍🏻
@ac13apollolee7723 күн бұрын
It's still morning here Kava. I don't nesaserlly agree holey but you are so well intention God bless you ! And Mery Crismas
@greedyreader1521 күн бұрын
You're Korean or a bystander? Is your not agreeing based on what you saw or how you perceived the dynamics?
@davidhello477724 күн бұрын
hi Kaheva!!!!!
@williamjesse835724 күн бұрын
Hello Kaheva sweetheart.. it is most wonderful to learn more from you, as for divorce i would not, never ever divorce you and would love you to my last breath... I truly love and adore you even if we are half a world apart love ❤❤❤❤❤ Will Pennsylvania USA
@himanshuarya270424 күн бұрын
Kaheva looks like an angel
@zacharikurbah635824 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this
@ravichandranchandrakesavan331124 күн бұрын
Lots of love from Tamil Nadu 🙏
@upvotecomment211024 күн бұрын
So complicated No wonder birth rate in Korea is plummeting hard 4:43 - I mean... Why does Government need to get involve in this already complicated personal life?
@nc197524 күн бұрын
What guy in his right mind wants to get married and have children. Just pump and dump.
@CARL_09324 күн бұрын
Thanks kaheva
@Chapachapihomie24 күн бұрын
Thanks❤❤❤
@RaiderElliot24 күн бұрын
We are staying together ❤️ forever ✨️💘💙💛
@JayB-JayB24 күн бұрын
Kaheva, I'm so grateful that you and I still talk to each other about our UNDYING LOVE after all these years!!😊😊 We're such a unique couple!! 😊😊❤ 🤭
@rezayaseri279024 күн бұрын
how to keep our couple's life forever? 😆
@astralclub596424 күн бұрын
Whoever marries Kaheva will be the luckiest man alive! No divorce ever!
@sureshmohan301524 күн бұрын
Same in india.
@patriciahill42196 күн бұрын
Even here in the US when a husband betrays the wife, leave you with nothing and leaves you with another woman of course you will be enemies not only in Korea
@pranavjadhav1824 күн бұрын
Confucianism and sanatan dharm has so much in common but divorce word doesn't exist in our dictionary. ❤
@JayB-JayB24 күн бұрын
Kaheva! Let's NEVER get divorced!!! Instead, let's live Happily Ever After!!❤❤😊😊
@leahquispe456924 күн бұрын
Confucius was an awful person who did more to hurt than help ..... My opinion !
@mystictraveler864224 күн бұрын
Not even close. It's the most intelligent. It's so ahead of times.
@humansvd326924 күн бұрын
Gee, looks like I'll never get married....again. No point.
@FlyingGuillotine2224 күн бұрын
mi wifee filipina...... a true healer
@SFSraptor10 күн бұрын
8:01 Oh please, tons of mothers ABANDON NEWBORN CHILDREN. It happens so often in the US that the fire department has a drop box just like a mailbox to drop NEW BORN CHILDREN. So don't ONLY mention men leaving also mention the amount of women that leave.
@razlama51159 күн бұрын
It’s same divorce culture in Nepal also
@himanshuarya270424 күн бұрын
Good morning kaheva 😊
@patches148323 күн бұрын
Marriage based on money. Female children sold with a bride price and gifts of houses, cars and money. This is the reason why marriage rates are lower in Asian counties in recent years.
@vn218320 күн бұрын
Marriage rates are also lower in the west. Ignorance must be blissful for you because only in China that the practice of bride price is being tolerated. Asia is a vast continental with 48 countries…China is not ‘Asia’!!!
@dannettepeters150718 күн бұрын
If only we could all live by the standards that we know GOD has written on our hearts.
@arthura7776 күн бұрын
Its not enough, people's mind and heart change overtime and you never know if a perfect Godly marriage fails...
@danielchung709612 күн бұрын
It is all case by case. Doesn’t matter where you are from!
@amarjyotichakma300621 күн бұрын
Is Kim jong Un still alive?
@RaiderElliot16 күн бұрын
And now we are here for this one. I will get to North Korea and the 8$ stay place. I will contact you then at the study place, you know witch one. You can be there or not your choice
@JayB-JayB24 күн бұрын
Kaheva... if I break your loyal heart by leaving you for your BEAUTIFUL sister Heya.... WILL YOU HAVE ME SENT TO JAIL??😅❤ 🤗🥰
@SFSraptor10 күн бұрын
An example of how a AMERICAN divorce works. What job in which you have invested your blood, sweat, and talent, PAYS YOU after you QUIT? Only in a divorce does a woman get spousal support for the rest of her life or at least until ALL THE kids are 18. If that didn't add insult to injury, how about paying her $500+ PER CHILD until they ALL turn 18? Killing the income in both households. Further, if that still doesn't upset you, what company GIVES YOU HALF the equity in the company, STOCK HOLDINGS, and half of the liquid cash? It's only in a divorce does the woman get: 1: Half the EQUITY IN THE HOUSE. 2. Half the retirement 3. Half the bank savings What a wonderful INCENTIVE to leave (Divorce) and not try to make the marriage work sit on your assessment and collect money.
@mikaeljas500024 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@tklims167824 күн бұрын
👍👍
@NipunotoNipunotoyeps24 күн бұрын
Hai family members
@stevengibson924024 күн бұрын
🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
@JeffKC5824 күн бұрын
You are very pretty. I'm starting to watch your videos. 👍
@markhargreaves59364 күн бұрын
How old are you ?
@Sum_YousahКүн бұрын
As of writing this comment (1/11/25) she will turn 27 tomorrow, since she's born on Jan 12th 1998 according to the famousbirthdays site.
@harshitkumar529424 күн бұрын
Kaheva marry me I will love you till my last breath & adore you like my only treasure
@Disruptor101324 күн бұрын
This video further proves why the marriage and birth rates in S. Korea are so low. Not only is the cost of living in S. Korea very high (esp. in Seoul), but men and women see each other as competitors and not as potential partners. Also, unless you absolutely want children, there is very little benefit to getting married, esp. for men. Divorce can absolutely devastate a man financially since courts typically favor women with regards to alimony and child support.
@BillyJoe-pj5xo24 күн бұрын
I love you kaheva my heart soul head
@WANDERER007024 күн бұрын
You have to break up well !? 😂
@vallin-o3q24 күн бұрын
Of course!😂
@fernandoperez124 күн бұрын
pretty lady ❤😍😍
@michaelashley285522 күн бұрын
How weird
@realMaxEffort24 күн бұрын
The U.S. has similar divorce laws, but they vary by state. In general, men have been screwed over by the courts so much that many men see no reason to getting married. For example, in a no-fault state, a wife can have a years-long affair with another man and then decide to ask for a divorce. She can get custody of their children, get child support payments, the house, and alimony payments. The husband is left with nothing and has to start over.
@kimwilliams516523 күн бұрын
It's odd that a grown man would list child support payments as part of "men have been screwed over by the courts.'' If a man doesn't want kids or to be financially responsible for any, condoms are readily available and vasectomies are effective.
@TheBub2624 күн бұрын
martial law would have been fine in the 70s korea. today? must have been feeling nostalgic?
@FPSDAVE2324 күн бұрын
Wow You are very beautiful 😘!!
@michaelashley285522 күн бұрын
Seriously ?
@colinhill496324 күн бұрын
Kaheva would never divorce you,your gorgeous, lovely looking,move to UK.xxx😍💌
@michaelashley285522 күн бұрын
YOU’RE nuts
@rezayaseri279024 күн бұрын
You look soooooooooooooooooo BEAUTIFUL today ❤❤❤❤❤
@michaelashley285522 күн бұрын
Soooooooooo
@marcushibdon241524 күн бұрын
Kaiva. Your a RARE BOUTY...😅😅😅😅
@michaelashley285522 күн бұрын
A bouty for sure
@RB-pm2ni24 күн бұрын
You are very beautiful ❤
@michaelashley285522 күн бұрын
Who ?
@alejandraparker727224 күн бұрын
There are 50 ways to leave your lover according to Paul Simon song...and then there is also murder...murder in South Korea...this according to the videos presented to the viewers by these Channels....... DARK ASIA WITH MEGAN GRAZY TV CRIME DOCUMENTARIES ROTTEN MANGO. 😢😢😢😢😢 I always found it easier just to leave while I was still in love. ❤
@nestortan404024 күн бұрын
MarryMe Kaheva I’m not going to divorce you I swear to God