Hi guys, thank you so much for watching! Hope you enjoyed this video and picked up a few things. Please feel free to drop other red flags you think we should be aware of as well😅 don’t hold back lol
@Janederryo3 жыл бұрын
When he puts himself before you 🙃honestly you are speaking my mind. I am still at the first point. You are supposed to check up , remind me
@Korlu3 жыл бұрын
“You teach people how to treat you”
@bella-rue3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Your 20s help you to set the pace for the type of woman you want to be. Some men will try to destroy you and then play innocent. Have standards stick to them and don't ignore red flags. Your time is precious so walk away from nonsense. Love this video ❤
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
You said it all❣️
@RoszyPeterz3 жыл бұрын
The 20's series is actually so good.
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that🥰
@jennaystrawberries21123 жыл бұрын
No cap
@Thatgirldivineee3 жыл бұрын
The dislikes are from men with these exact qualities and pick me girls. Unfortunate.
@ChisomUtazi3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Geal_films3 жыл бұрын
“I will not pretend to pay “ energyyyyy🔥🔥🔥🔥
@munarellatv3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with all the red flags especially when he is not offering to help it's like what's the point .what are you here for? you can't be useless sir, kindly make yourself useful or get lost😂😂
@iamsibo42283 жыл бұрын
😊😊😊😎😎😎
@giftsegatlhe19343 жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂
@lisaekemita1803 жыл бұрын
I turned 20 a few days ago Kamsi is finally talking to me 😂
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Welcome😂
@yunushalimah84613 жыл бұрын
😂
@christianahfrancis3 жыл бұрын
Tell them sis😄... My ex, at first "she's so confident" then later she's too outspoken, I left his ass and met someone better two weeks later and we're still together (more a year now) and he still respect me for being confident, he loves it
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Lol energyyyy! Sis after 2 weeks?!🙆🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️😂
@christianahfrancis3 жыл бұрын
@@kamsinnamani yes oo, no time to check time
@ighoogieva3 жыл бұрын
Don’t complement me by putting other women down 📌📌📌🙌🏻🧡
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Yesss✨
@PhebianL3 жыл бұрын
Omg!!! Money is such a sensitive topic for me. I actually find myself paying for everything without being told. I guess I’m not trying to allow you have an opportunity to diss me with money talks. Or I’m too comfortable paying for my things.
@simiogungbemi52153 жыл бұрын
First of all the HAIR🔥🔥🔥😍😍..this topic is needed..left a toxic relationship of three years, it was hard but I knew it was time to leave
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Wow love that for you🤎 someone better is coming
@AestheticallyCookie3 жыл бұрын
The hair is laid to perfection ✨
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Thanks boo🥰
@Cherryojukwu0013 жыл бұрын
“Any small things ya laughing” Oh my goodness this video oozes my present self in everything. God helped me with confidence that I say my mind and they say I come off rude or disrespectful. Bruhh, I’m teaching you how to treat me. Don’t be stupid, please. Keeping quiet pays nothing!!! Know your flipping worth oh chim😂❤️❤️ Thank you so much Kamsi, let me go right on to share the link of this video 🤗❤️
@TiffanyO73 жыл бұрын
We teach people how to treat us. And I can relate to that 100%
@Amandaali3 жыл бұрын
I totally love this video, men a born chasers if he wants you he will chase you relentlessly
@Amandaali3 жыл бұрын
Are*
@JasmineOmisore3 жыл бұрын
Why does it look like you knew what I went through 2 months ago😭 you spoke straight facts bro 😭✅
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Wheww guess I was in the spirit lol sorry you went through that love x
@Janederryo3 жыл бұрын
Being nice doesn’t take you anywhere - kamsi 2021 😂🥺
@tianantese64513 жыл бұрын
Seriously the "block him" cracked me up 😂😂😂 Indeed I am the price. Thank you for sharing this
@PhebianL3 жыл бұрын
That’s true. We tend to take advantage of people that are laid back
@JosephineAlagba3 жыл бұрын
‘Whoever imitates the date, should take the bill’ Girl, you took the words right out of my mouth’ I don’t even know why this is even a thing to argue about. For me, i think it’s insulting. Definitely a 🚩
@Quisha3 жыл бұрын
Lmao she said “pretend ... but be acting well” 😂😂😂 I’m for it !!!
@vero90003 жыл бұрын
I loved this video, "We teach people how to treat us." I needed this reminder. Just found your channel and love your 20s series.
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank youu and welcome to the fam ❣️
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank youu and welcome to the fam ❣️
@Ms.A_O3 жыл бұрын
Kam Kam, preach👏🏽! Let them try any of those rubbish near me, I will SHOCK them. It's a good thing that I have never experienced these shenanigans, but let someone try to insult me like that first... Women should understand that they are the fre*king price, Queens👑👏🏽. The audacity of some people😒
@tomisinojeyinka74993 жыл бұрын
I totally enjoyed this video. I wish I saw this when I was younger I condoned bullshit. Now I don’t send any guy, no more nice girl if you misbehave or step wrong I check you. No time. Ps I’m enjoying ur chitchat videos well done girl 👍🏾
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
It’s never too late hun, at least you learned from your mistakes...some people never do and thank youu ❣️
@WonderfulLalaLand2 жыл бұрын
I love this video so much ❤️, honestly I've been managing rubbish. Time to level up😩
@ChiagoziemEzeigwe3 жыл бұрын
I totally enjoyed this video.. the lateness part and split the bill part.... You said what you said! If you initiate the date then settle the bill bro! It doesn't even have anything to do with feminism.
@chinenyekalu92013 жыл бұрын
I feel like I'm one of your youngest subscribers..I'm just 18 and thanks to you I'm knowing somethings I'm meant to know before i get to my 20's.. Btw I love you Kamsi
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Aww you’re on the right path hun🤎🤎
@deborahobasohan93303 жыл бұрын
Me too I will be 19 this year by July 8
@IhimCharis3 жыл бұрын
I'll be 19 by October 🥰
@blossomslife60163 жыл бұрын
The fact that you put a pic of Lori Harvey on most of your thumbnails is actually funny 😅
@puritymike3 жыл бұрын
Kamis is making me fall in love with rings 😩 Being nice with this men won’t take me anywhere 😄😩 This was too good to watch..thanks for the Advice Kamis.. Needed it 🤎🤎
@mercyezeanah73253 жыл бұрын
Your hair and makeup is on fleek Just left a very toxic relationship. Wasn’t easy though but had to do what was best for me.
@Janederryo3 жыл бұрын
The beginning is when you have the power - kamsi spitting knowledge
@thelmaiyagba36533 жыл бұрын
"Argue with your grandmother" 😂😂😂
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
😂 like don’t stress me😂
@beautytajj3 жыл бұрын
The facial expressions tho😂😩abeg
@SimaSambo3 жыл бұрын
I liked the video when she said "you are very stupid" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 yasss siss!! Split the bill my ass
@oizabeida93683 жыл бұрын
“I am the PRIZE!* thank you for this Kamsi 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️
@ajelvis43553 жыл бұрын
It's the 'he is not even pretending well' for me 😂😂. As in, he's not even trying!!!!. Preach sis 🥰. And honestly girl, you look amazing 😩❤️.
@evansdesire40313 жыл бұрын
Like how can you ask me out on the first date and you’re telling me to split the bill like who born you?!😂😂
@joytorty62003 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣💔
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Madness😂
@thehunted3163 жыл бұрын
he doesn't need to tell you to pay, you need to pay without being told. That's the right thing to do. Naija men have spoilt y`all.
@MissTracyyy2233 жыл бұрын
@@thehunted316 look at this one abeg gettat 😂😂
@Missimaaa3 жыл бұрын
My rule of thumb is honestly I’m not riding or dying through any mans mistakes or shortcomings because especially in my twenties, every man that is after me/with me is here because they are at least 90-99% comfortable and happy with what they see or clearly my own shortcomings are not bothersome to them. Men are very intentional and about the women they want to be with so I can’t be here collecting all these red flags to convince myself that there’s a better chance. BOY BYE
@DiveDeepwithTiffah3 жыл бұрын
I agree that it’s important to tackle red flags immediately!
@emmanuellaoffiong77513 жыл бұрын
Block his existence! Sis👏👏👏👏
@DarleneLiz3 жыл бұрын
Truth be told. What Kamsi is saying is true most especially when she spoke of being too nice
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Being nice doesn’t pay sis✨
@nkiruprisca50233 жыл бұрын
Wow how is it that I’m doing this already...but girl I had to go through many mumu stages And ever since I stopped looking past red flags ,the end result I get with guys totally took a spin, I started being intentional about what I want and made it clear in my mind and I started attracting more intentional people whilst chasing the rest with broom😭😂😆
@thepeacyunique2 жыл бұрын
I actually came back to this video to REMIND my Royal self of my worth
@isabellaeweka18712 жыл бұрын
The last two points really hit. Every video is a gem sis😍
@Becomingsally3 жыл бұрын
The hair colour suits you perfectly.
@blessingayadi68303 жыл бұрын
Sis! ur video jus did so much to me rn,i used to be ur kinda girl,buh people always call it pride nd all dat,nd because of dat,i changed,nd when I changed,i began hating what was becoming of me.Babe tnks for dis video,I'm back to d real me!
@winifredchukwuemeka13513 жыл бұрын
I really love this series 🥺. Also, the number of “perioddtttt” I screamed during this video because you were just on point. Thank you Kamsi❤️
@PhebianL3 жыл бұрын
Let him walk!!! Preach sis!! Can’t believe I’m so pumped in my 3rd watch 😂😂
@ogooachu3 жыл бұрын
We definitely need a part 2. You're getting used to the braces
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Lool ouu would love to do a part 2 and yes I have 😊
@ivyola80353 жыл бұрын
Feels like I'm listening to my strict older sister lmao. Love this video 😂❤
@yunushalimah84613 жыл бұрын
IKR!😂
@HotgirlVivss3 жыл бұрын
Before now fr Kamsi I'd say I'm too much or I set so much standards but hearing most of what resonates with me from you, I feel secure. My male friend tells me I demand too much and I felt it was true but no that's a lieeeeee o!!! I love what I'm hearing.
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Ha glad you saw this o sis🤎
@yeseniatapia52843 жыл бұрын
The "block him." 😂 LOVE your videos!
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
😂😂 thanks love❣️
@its.Lamide3 жыл бұрын
its the straight direct insults on the guys for me....'you are very stupid" this kamsi is lowkey subtly hilarious.."nice girl, you'll be laughing ki ki, everytime ki ki...'"
@symplyade50353 жыл бұрын
Insecure people find self confident people arrogant!! Argue with your grandmother Love you kamsi
@chiikahh27403 жыл бұрын
Hair ✅ Makeup✅ This topic✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅ And I said what I said You rock girl✌🏽 Need me some makeup lessons tho 😂
@ChilotamOjukwu3 жыл бұрын
Hi Kamsi, I loveeee this video. A red flag I personally can’t stand is when guys aren’t spiritually aware. As a Christian, I cannot stand it 😭 Imagine being with someone who can’t pray or doesn’t understand the importance of God. Conversations around long term things would be so hard and they may not even be able to join or share their faith with you. Banky and Adesuwa’s relationship is an example of couples being spiritually aware. I just can’t settle for anything less 🤕.
@olawaletomiwah6973 жыл бұрын
Honestly ehn.. I love you for this. People started calling me hard to get. I'm like "Boy...you're just not on my level!!!"
@KENECHIJACOB3 жыл бұрын
Cant keep my eyes off the hair!!!😍
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Thank youu 🙈
@thatghanagirlritana60703 жыл бұрын
The don’t offers help when you need it part is very KEY 🔑 👏 Like if you can’t at least offer to help or like kamsi says “pretend but pretend well to be interested “ then what are we doing ? So I’m just gonna chill when you need me or want to see me , I’m just going to up like a robot and be with you when you want but you can’t at least be invested in what concerns me ? Na! Red flag 🚩
@namipezamwale25123 жыл бұрын
Girl😩....well spoken
@perpetualfond3 жыл бұрын
This is the most realistic advice I’ve come across. Through your words, I walked through memory lane. This would’ve really helped me when I was getting into my 20s. I love how you say that in the beginning is where you have all the power. It’s so true. You are amazing, thank you for the content you provide! 💕
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
🥺 thank youu
@perpetualfond3 жыл бұрын
@@kamsinnamani 💕
@gloryceeyeditingacademy13 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video 🙏🏾 I’d like to add this, situations where it’s just you bringing up topics/gist for discussion🙁 Flee for your life sister 😌
@moremiarowosegbe76653 жыл бұрын
When u mentioned the time stuff I’m actually the one guilty of dat 😭 I take him for granted and let him wait for mins 😩
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Girll you need to change that
@Janederryo3 жыл бұрын
Oh Kamsi 😂you be acting nice gurl kikikiki 😂😂😂my chest
@bisolaamuda3 жыл бұрын
SIS!!! You didn't come to play on this video
@hafsatyahaya55912 жыл бұрын
Wow! This channel is saving my life
@preciousnze75563 жыл бұрын
I'm feeling what you're saying but that hair damn!! too beautiful. Please where do you get your hairs from like?
@symplyade50353 жыл бұрын
Need this makeup look tutorial because girllll
@PhebianL3 жыл бұрын
Littt!! The ads were so distracting in this video lol. I legit had to watch this again (totally worth it) to get all the gist uninterrupted. Kamsi you're the absolute best with advice!!
@mercy_oderinde3 жыл бұрын
This just spoke to me, especially the whole “nice girl” thing and oversexual attitude..... you hit it right at the spot ✔️
@blessingerinfolami95713 жыл бұрын
Thanks for reminding me, been to nice all the time doesn't work.
@derasspace91573 жыл бұрын
I love this girl!!👍🏽. Please do more dating videos. I literally love you and your dating advice. You’re so wise and blunt , straight to the point. Your dating advice is actually really good
@sarnaroy90303 жыл бұрын
I know she said she calling out men, but damn why she call me out too 🥴🥴😂😂 don’t worry, I’m glad I watched this video, now I’m gonna go fix my shit 😂😂
@nenyenwa233 жыл бұрын
Girrrrlll!!!! I need your Confidence 🥰
@lauraspoonie35573 жыл бұрын
It's true you know. Let things be known from the get-go 🗣
@Jennidoko3 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, I LOVE YOU. I am in my mid-twenties but I've been very foolish acting the nice girl all along and it sure has not gotten me anywhere with these men sha. thanks for sharing these tips.
@priscaobiegbu63303 жыл бұрын
Spitting facts 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯💯❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
🙈🤎🤎
@sifonudonyah55812 жыл бұрын
I love you kamsi, I've watched plenty of your videos and I've really learnt a lot from you
@Divine_19003 жыл бұрын
Preach!!!.. thank you so much for this video..I really needed it now!.👌🏽.. by the way, you came wearing red hair and spitting red hot fire!😍😁
@jadedprecious3 жыл бұрын
About the 2nd point some girls actually like these nonsense compliments
@NusrahMagaji3 жыл бұрын
The 20’s series is lit
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Love to hear it🤍🤍
@agboglory80533 жыл бұрын
The best one yet. U've spoken well Kamsi👍💕
@Stories.Acrozz.Africa3 жыл бұрын
Oginidi 🔥 The 4th point is so spot on! Edits: Kamsi it would be nice to have a playlist with the "20's Series" Title on your channel. Love the vibes that comes with it. Like it has an entire message of its own! Dope 👌🏻
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
True babe. I’ll do that❣️
@jessicaokwelum11443 жыл бұрын
I remember waiting for more than an hour on a first date, I was so pissed at a point I asked myself what I was doing there so I left, I don't like nonsense at all
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
A whole hour?? You’re really patient 😂🤎
@jessicaokwelum11443 жыл бұрын
@@kamsinnamani first of all, I'm so honored that you replied, secondly I'm not that patient anymore 😂
@kendrajumbo3 жыл бұрын
The haiiirrrr❤️. I feel like many ladies tolerate a lot of obvious red flags that I can't even relate with. Nice video KamKam.
@bridgetemafidor233 жыл бұрын
It's the hair for me! Not a fan of colored hairs but girllllllllllll, you rocked this so well!
@kamlotzy3 жыл бұрын
You are so right 🙌🏾🙌🏾 like the bill thing Is crazy 🤮🤮
@EllatheFlutterfairy3 жыл бұрын
Girl you hit the nail hard, thank you girl
@The.Morayo3 жыл бұрын
First,your entire look is on point💫😍 I pray the right person locate me asap.
@kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын
Lol amen ❣️
@adaezenwaokolo54563 жыл бұрын
This was a really good video ❤️✨ no one should be managing men!
@preshlamosi3 жыл бұрын
Good girl won't take you anywhere.. Kinda realized recently guys like it when you always show them you don't take shit
@u__oma3 жыл бұрын
This is so accurate 💗💗 not the grandmother 🤭🤭 - love from a Nigerian KZbinr ✨
@PhebianL3 жыл бұрын
Omg!!! I’m like this I just know that it’s not worth it or not gon’ work. Thank you sis!! It’s definitely not pride 😂
@adesolaamoo3 жыл бұрын
You give me Asha Christina vibes in this video. Love etttt!
@millyonette3 жыл бұрын
I love the fact that I don’t skip Kamsi’s ads.❤️
@tressiene3 жыл бұрын
i love your youtube channel so much, you are amazing. i admire your consistency, your drive and your aesthetics. one of my favourite youtubers on this app.
@lidyaabiy79313 жыл бұрын
I just love this girl talks men👏🏽👏🏽🙌
@___tselaju3 жыл бұрын
The 5th is really a big one ..its irritating sometimes And then I just like being nice but it’s not helping Thanks so much for this ❤️