Never Fight for Their Attention! Do This Instead! - Stoicism

[@grisselday905]

After recently stepping out from a narcissistic relationship, I need to learn to live again. Seven weeks of no contact, I find myself in a fog and fighting to get my emotions, thoughts, and my head back in order. I've never felt so defeated. Pray for me, everyone.

[@WinfridahMwale-u4y]

You will come out strong. It's just the process you need to go through 🙏🏾

[@cinderellamarquez7339]

He just discarded me! Caught him cheating.

[@grisselday905]

I'm so sorry! I completely understand! Take your time to heal and concentrate on you! You are worthy, and greater things will be drawn to you.

[@stylist62]

Lord heal protect restore everything that has been killed stollen and destroyed in your life, put a hedge of protection peace , touch heal your heart and mind give you rest peace and loving people to encourage you love you, 🙏🙏🥰🥰I am sorry you are suffering like this, know there is good people and your not alone. I pray God turns it all for your good, you are chosen Gods very own, you are dealing with evil, stay away, don’t react to them they like it. Start saying Lord Jesus Chris have mercy on me over and over🥲🙏🥰He will bring you through. You are not alone, many of us are going through this, I almost died of the cruelty🙏🥰

[@grisselday905]

Praise God for your words of wisdom. You are so strong! Your words encourage me. God Bless you

[@User-ts53698]

Perfect lessons for women. Need to learn to walk away from toxicity, live indepedently and treasure those who respect you for who you are.

[@d3thmasta]

@@User-ts53698 women are given and allowed too much in this world. They need to be held accountable for their choices and stupidity.

[@RealStoicEgo]

The emphasis on valuing oneself and focusing on personal growth is exactly what we all need to hear

[@MsFreegaza]

Very true my friend. Stoic principles ought to be mandatory in schools.

[@Timeless_Knowledge2]

So true. The external world is often a mirror of our own internal thoughts and beliefs

[@shawnsalmon5653]

I really appreciate your incorporating your personal experiences, and your journey of how you improved yourself. It is very encouraging and you are a great example!!! Through my personal experience, I have had some painful breakups, and after a grieving period, I began moving on with my life, growing and improving myself. Looking back on that relationship, that I just couldn't live without, I was thinking, how did I exist in a relationship like that. I would never go back to that ever again !!!

[@RealStoicEgo]

@@shawnsalmon5653 thanks, good luck friend

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all different. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've realized that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were on the verge of divorce because we had problems in our marriage, but we found a way to fix things. It was difficult, but we managed to overcome it

[@oglaskubuot]

I genuinely want to find happiness as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart right now, I can't imagine living without her; my love for her is solid. I really want her back, and I'm fully committed to making it happen. We've tried different approaches, like therapy, to fix things.

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

Moving away from someone you hold close is invariably tough, but in my particular situation, I was supported by a spiritual counselor who prevented the unraveling of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

[@oglaskubuot]

I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that this approach will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her dearly

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

Welcome... You should..She is amazing

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing your experience and insights! You're absolutely right-every relationship is unique, and what works for one couple might not work for another. It's inspiring to hear how you and your wife were able to find a way through your challenges. Overcoming difficulties together truly strengthens the bond and brings a deeper understanding and appreciation for each other. Your story is a powerful reminder that with determination, communication, and a willingness to work through the tough times, it's possible to turn things around. Thanks for being a part of this community and sharing your journey with us!

[@officercoleman6151]

Me and my accomplishments will soon be forgotten after I leave this earth. Stay humble. Live in the moment. Be kind. Uplift everyone. Tell your loved ones you love them. Speak softly but carry a big stick. Our time here is finite.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Your words carry deep wisdom and humility. It's a powerful reminder that while our time on this earth is limited, the impact we leave through kindness, love, and uplifting others can be eternal. Living in the moment and staying humble are values that resonate deeply. Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful perspective. Let's make the most of every moment we have, and continue to spread positivity and love.

[@aldegondavanrompuy6927]

I share your thoughts. Heb mezelf teruggevonden na 18 jaar onder de duim van partner geleefd te hebben. Ik ben heel onderdanig geworden door de kracht die ik ontving van mijn maker om deze horror teboven te komen. Mijn dankbaarheid kent geen grenzen. Zal vechten en bidden voor onaangename mensen in mijn leven maar ik tel met heel veel vrede en zachtheid af naar het ogenblik van volledige overgave aan onze God❤❤❤

[@ListonPinnock]

This is great to learn real good knowledge thanks I appreciate the lessons 🙏🏻 😊

[@Victor-wo5lu]

I AM WORTHY OF ATTENTION.I AM THE PRIZE, BECAUSE I SHINE LIKE A STAR. A SUPER STAR.

[@Paloma4422]

❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 stand out and shine 🌞🌟

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Love this energy! 🌟 Yes, you are absolutely worthy of attention and recognition. Keep shining like the superstar you are, and never forget that you’re the prize-radiating confidence and strength wherever you go. Stay unstoppable! 💫

[@crystalbates7743]

Energy is key, physical health is a winner

[@steadypace1262]

It makes life so much easier and it's only when you lose your health you realise how important it is.

[@victorystoic_channel]

Absolutely! Energy and physical health are the foundations for a strong and fulfilling life. Taking care of yourself fuels everything else-keep striving for balance and vitality! 💪🌟

[@elizabethtaylor1680]

I am worthy of attention and being loved by someone who is honest with integrity and character.

[@MGgamboa240]

"Its better to die hunger having lived without grief and fear than to live a troubled spirit amid abundance" I am worthy of attention😊

[@georgevolk7968]

To all reading this....may you all find what you're seeking, lend a helping hand when you can, Don't take anyone or anything for granted around you. For when either is gone you can't rewind the hands of time & time is always ticking.

[@victorystoic_channel]

Thank you for such a heartfelt and meaningful message. Your words are a beautiful reminder to cherish every moment and extend kindness whenever possible. Wishing you and everyone here peace and fulfillment on your journeys.

[@STOICLESSONSHD15724]

thanks for helpful video. I really studied alot of from this video. Stoic Philosophy is wonderful !

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@NealArt26]

I am Beyond Worthy of my FAMILY'S ATTENTION

[@prasadkumta3432]

7:02 , 16:35 , 25:27 , 20:48 , 30:05 , 27:50 , 32:46 ,video starts from

[@sabinamidjich453]

I'm not sure what just happened. This video just began will I was on youtube. I call it an act of GOD. I needed it and he gave it to me. I truely feel like my life has been saved and I Thank GOD for his BLESSING. I LOVE HIM.

[@marycloss455]

The Power Of God

[@powerfulstoichabits]

I'm so glad this video found you when you needed it most. Sometimes, the universe works in mysterious ways, and it’s amazing how the right message can come at the perfect time. I’m grateful that you felt uplifted and blessed by it. Keep holding onto that strength and faith-you're on a powerful journey! Thank you for sharing your experience, and may you continue to feel blessed and guided. 🙏❤️

[@marysaussol9192]

Thank you for your little story, it helped me tremendously, I've been following the stoic lifestyle for a while and I'm also a Christian and I was wondering if this is some kind of a conflict but I don't think it is I praise God everyday but I love the stoic lifestyle.

[@steadypace1262]

I've been listening, in the earlier part of this video a scripture came to mind "a meal of herbs and peace is better than a fatted calf and strife." In the latter part of the video another scripture came to mind "Be quick to hear and slow to speak." I am worthy of attention all empathic people are worthy of attention.🕊

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you so much for sharing those insightful scriptures! They beautifully capture the essence of finding peace and valuing our worth. It's so important to remember that true fulfillment comes from meaningful connections and understanding. Your perspective highlights the strength of empathy and the importance of listening. Keep shining your light, and know that you are indeed worthy of all the attention and love! 🕊✨

[@steadypace1262]

@@powerfulstoichabits Thank you for your kind message enjoy your new day.🕊🌞

[@anitajurkovic1181]

God bless❤

[@anitajurkovic1181]

😮

[@lindatucs2044]

I will never fight for their attention ❤

[@adabageorgewill]

Beautiful talk, very inspiring

[@emotionalsupportanimal]

I am worthy and i choose to engage in meaningful interactions with others.

[@eileenschubach8202]

I value myself and choose wisely the company I keep. I appreciate many of the beautiful qualities that others possess and am mindful of maintaining a growth mindset!❤

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing such a powerful and inspiring perspective! Valuing yourself and being mindful of the company you keep is such an important aspect of personal growth. It's amazing to see how you appreciate the qualities in others while also focusing on your own journey. Keep that growth mindset strong-you're on a beautiful path! 💪✨❤

[@moakofinotha2859]

I am worthy of attention, and inspire others on their journey!!

[@AndersonAlexander-kw4jn]

Hello friend 👋

[@time4clocks]

This channel came up in my recommends, probably because I was watching self-help videos on depression and psychology. I realized this year that I have Avoidant Personality Disorder which usually comes from a traumatic youth. The core of it is incredibly low self-worth. These videos are giving me the tools to build a new me, that has confidence and are much appreciated. There is a person I like and have been trying to become friends with them, despite my insecurities, and even though I have a crush on them, they don't reciprocate anything. The rejection is rather painful, but this video makes me realize that I don't have time to try and win people over to me that do not see my worth. That trying is a waste of my precious time. This video helped me stand up for myself and to begin believing in myself. Thank you. 🌷

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us. It means a lot to hear how these videos are helping you build confidence and find your self-worth, especially when dealing with something as challenging as Avoidant Personality Disorder. It takes real courage to work through those insecurities and face the pain of rejection, and I admire the strength you're showing in that process. Remember, your time and energy are incredibly valuable, and you deserve to be surrounded by people who see and appreciate your worth. Keep believing in yourself and taking these steps forward you're on the right path. We're rooting for you every step of the way! 🌱💪

[@time4clocks]

@@powerfulstoichabits 🌷🌷🌷Thank you!!!🥰

[@stoicsecrets-101]

True power lies not in seeking attention, but in being content with yourself. 'He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still.' Let’s focus on self-mastery and inner peace.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing such a profound perspective! You're absolutely right-true power comes from self-mastery and inner peace. When we focus on our own growth and contentment, we naturally attract the right kind of attention, not because we seek it, but because we embody a strength that others can’t help but notice. Your quote perfectly captures the essence of Stoicism. Let's continue to strive for that inner mastery and let our actions speak louder than any desire for external validation. Keep shining! 🌟

[@steadypace1262]

Well said.👍🙂

[@crystalbates7743]

The body, is the most valuable asset

[@EricMonday-f2k]

I will never fight for their attention for I am worthy for it.

[@Bernaworth]

I am worthy of Attention

[@Ella-te7fe]

Hearing "My dude, you need to stick to me" in this voice is hilarious!

[@steadypace1262]

Good video though.😁

[@Ella-te7fe]

@@steadypace1262 yes, it is.

[@angrymotorman1237]

That made me hit the like ASAP!!😂😂😂😂

[@VonMc]

To show an ex or anyone your worth, you must first recognize it within yourself. Once you truly know your worth, you won't allow anyone to devalue you. Just as you would walk away from an unfair price negotiation, you should do the same with people who don't see your value.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Absolutely, you hit the nail on the head! Recognizing your own worth is the first and most crucial step. When you truly know your value, you naturally set boundaries and won't tolerate anything less than you deserve. It's like having a priceless treasure-you wouldn't let anyone underbid for it, right? The same goes for your self-worth. Thanks for sharing this powerful reminder! Keep standing strong! 🌟

[@chloechloe4341]

I know I am worthy of the attention that I deserve. Not to be used and hurt ❤

[@rubenspascali77]

Great Content.

[@johnnywilliams2768]

Life is a journey of change.

[@VioletaVazquez-v5n]

I am soo glad that I found this channel. As a woman who is getting out of an abusive marriage and who DEFINITELY values herself, I am here to learn . I so relate to the very first quote at the introduction. From what it said I must have what it takes to be a true stoic.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you so much for your powerful comment. I'm truly honored that you found the content relatable and that it resonates with your journey. It's incredibly inspiring to hear how you're valuing yourself and embracing Stoicism as you move forward. Remember, being a true Stoic is all about inner strength, self-respect, and wisdom-qualities you clearly have in abundance. Keep pushing forward, and know that this community is here to support you every step of the way. You've got this! 💪🌟

[@Shih-e9y]

I am worthy !!!!! I don’t depend on others opinion but my own !!!

[@rebeccabivins4346]

I’m worthy of attention! I prioritize my health!

[@Warriorwoman9802]

I am worthy of attention , focusing on making a better version of myself 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Yes you are!

[@MelvinNieves-z8m]

In some situations you need to fight but in other situations you don't have to just leave

[@TheYek1988]

I’m good enough for my own self good 😊

[@T00nMusic]

I am worthy of attention and inspired to help others ❤

[@kittyamell3046]

I am worthy of love and attention

[@88luisbarranco]

I am worthy of a healthy mind, a beautiful body, and the love that I exude into the world

[@kathiekrielow]

I absolutely enjoy every word!

[@marivicchezzelalquizor2522]

I am worthy because I have grateful heart ❤️ ..... And grateful heart creates Miracles....

[@Dr.NishaRRMBBS]

InshaAllah I am worthy of Thanga's attention and everything that Allah wills in my life Ameen

[@ceemor3404]

I am worthy of attention,so are all of you 🙏🏽

[@glittergirl002]

🙏

[@UltimateStoicism]

So apparently the secret to drawing people in is to focus on yourself - who would've thought? Or is it just another way to dodge genuine connection?

[@dcny69]

No

[@vburton6855]

I am worthy of attention

[@carlanepierre9159]

I Am WORTHY Of Attention!

[@mjanestyle3634]

I am worthy of attention! 🙏

[@paulathacker9183]

I’m gonna try not to focus on this person so much and let them focus on me and give me all their attention

[@antoniosmitha.k.alordrayde3878]

Some seem to be self centered no matter how hard you try it doesn't really matter

[@godfreylesperance6633]

I'm worthy of attention, and inspired others on the journey.

[@WendySaduar]

❤❤❤❤ I've been listening, I really inspired. I love so much to listening powerful stoic. Thank you for this wonderful stoic ❤❤

[@powerfulstoichabits]

You're so welcome!

[@MsMusicfreak7]

🗣 I AM WORTHY OF ATTENTION!!!💯😌

[@BessyFontenu]

I AM WORTHY OF ATTENTION

[@maryanngonzales1104]

I am worthy of attention!! And I will respect myself ❤

[@WinfridahMwale-u4y]

I am worthy of ATTENTION and so are all of you, believe it❤

[@paulboyce4525]

You, and everyone! Everyone should enjoy life.

[@paulboyce4525]

Life is ducking GOOD!

[@paulathacker9183]

I am worthy of attention

[@ChrisRedin]

I am worthy of attention and respect and I also am a magnet for all things good and positivity

[@michellejohnson2661]

I AM WORTHY OF ATTENTION!!!! 😊

[@zabronmsonga9568]

I'm worthy from The almighty Jehovah God through Jesus christ my saviour.

[@steadypace1262]

Amen.

[@shawnsalmon5653]

Amen!!

[@carolynbaity9288]

Facts and Truth

[@cathrindettmer6534]

So true, thanks for your advices.❤👍🙏 Feeling great, looking good, permanent in my real life on earth...so many people love to talk with me, love spending time with me.After long dark times, I am coming back in high conditions + so much fun...I love ...so much...spending wonderful times with people surround me. Kicker...❤👍 Yes! Mind is the cooperation with the body...for physical health + power energy.❤👍

[@March90skid]

❤

[@Rachelbevan567]

Empaths rising....the meek shall inherent

[@LavishLife-f5j]

I am worthy of attention and so are you❤

[@TeresaArriaga-xj1pl]

Amen in the mighty name of Jesus

[@AnthonyGwyn]

I am worthy of ATTENTION ❤❤❤

[@consolataugoh9025]

Strong words

[@crystalbates7743]

The energy we bring is important

[@mchellemwambs]

The narcissist in my life is my ex. I am reinventing myself with or without him and he continues to be toxic. I must move on and. More than likely without him.

[@mchellemwambs]

I love myself ❤️❤️❤️

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing your experience. It takes immense strength to recognize the toxicity in a relationship and decide to prioritize your well-being. Reinventing yourself is a powerful journey, and whether he changes or not, you’re making the right choice by focusing on your growth. Remember, your worth is not tied to anyone else’s behavior. You deserve peace, respect, and the freedom to thrive. Keep moving forward, and trust that better things are ahead for you. 💪

[@paulboyce4525]

"Focus on the moment in hand.. you can change history with 1 right thought!🎉

[@laurafulu6183]

I am flip the script

[@patriciagonzalez6903]

Wow! I needed to listen to this video, thank you! Practical wisdom for today, not only for yesterday. "The last thing a human being should lose is their dignity", told me my oldest sister.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

You are so welcome!

[@ZapriaLacour]

I'm am worthy of attention

[@umukorostephen9792]

I'm wealthy over tension

[@susanvanness1702]

I am worthy of attention🎉

[@Towanda-xq2xg]

I AM TOTALLY WORTH MORE THAN ALL THE GREAT ATTENTION OF WORTHY PEOPLE, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, I TOTALLY ACCEPT AND STAY STAY BLESSED! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing such empowering words! 🙌 Your energy and self-worth are truly inspiring, and I’m thrilled to see you embracing your value so confidently. Stay blessed and keep shining! 💫🙏

[@MariaMarnaPenosa]

I am worthy of attention!

[@carl_299]

I AM WORTHY OF ATTENTION and every peace of mind that enhances my growth ✨️

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing this powerful affirmation! 🙌✨ Remember, embracing your worth and prioritizing your peace of mind are key steps on the journey to personal growth. Keep shining and standing in your power! 🌟💪

[@adamwarlock5286]

I am Worthy * whoosh as Mjolnir approaches *

[@cameliamatei7415]

I am worthy of attention! Thank you for the awareness. The right people should seek for my attention also, i need to give them time and space.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing this powerful affirmation! Absolutely, you are worthy of attention, and it's important to remember that the right people will recognize and value that. Giving them time and space is key-it allows them to truly appreciate your worth. Stay strong, stay true to yourself, and let them seek your attention as you continue to grow. 💪✨

[@brendafuller1806]

I… AM WORTHY OF ATTENTION 5:57

[@ShaunGilshenan]

I am worthy of attention

[@ShaunGilshenan]

I am worthy of attention

[@robinwyers]

Nothing changes if nothing changes.im worthy of love and attention.

[@intimatemigrationsandhomec61]

I am worthy of attention.

[@markherdendorf9342]

I'm onboard!

[@mellissagalgey8879]

I am worthy of attention

[@SarojSeebun]

I am worthy of attention

[@anitajurkovic1181]

I am worthy of attention😮

[@sandraandy951]

I am worthy of attention, and inspire others on their journey 🙏 ❤

[@angelinaagathangelou4315]

No man is free ! If his not a master of himself!!!♡

[@daisyschuchman4082]

I am worthy of attention!!

[@3demie]

I am worthy for attention

[@margarettemullings2527]

Believe In Yourself Keep Doing U Lets Go ....

[@aerogal31]

This is all well and good. And there was a time in my life that I went to the gym every day. I ran a mile I did step master for 45 minutes and then I swam a mile; the next day I did my routine of weightlifting. Over and over again for my twenties and early thirties when I started jogging 6-8 miles a day. I was in the prime of my life. However now in my 60s, I have serious spinal stenosis and overwhelming painful chronic sciatica. And what you are describing in this video I cannot do. I cannot even walk a mile without pain. Am struggling to find a way to bring back the physical fitness, I once had. And believe me, I was a gymnast, skier, diver, ballerina, you name it. I excelled in so many sports. But now my body is paying for it. I can’t even walk a mile without tearful pain. I will probably be in a wheelchair in a few years. But I also have no answers for my childhood to my body, such as my fractured, clavicle, compound fracture, left arm, fractured nose, and several scars on my face where my father had to sew me up on the kitchen table. He was a doctor, but decided not to take me to the hospital. I was also hit on my forehead with a baseball bat by my brother when I was in elementary school and mocked for my injury. I guess all this latter is irrelevant. But is part of being a scapegoat daughter is like.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us. It sounds like you’ve been through so much, both physically and emotionally. It’s truly inspiring to hear about your incredible achievements in sports and fitness during your younger years. I can only imagine how challenging it must be to navigate your current situation with spinal stenosis and chronic pain. It’s important to acknowledge the struggles you face and how they can impact your sense of self and well-being. Remember, it's okay to seek support, whether through physical therapy, gentle exercises, or even community groups that can relate to your experiences. You’re not alone in this, and many find new ways to redefine their fitness goals as their bodies change. Your past accomplishments show your strength and resilience, and I believe you can find a path that works for you now. If you ever feel comfortable sharing more about your journey or any tips you discover along the way, I’d love to hear them. Take care of yourself!

[@MrWhaatay]

Too much healthy stuff isn't good for you.

[@VisorLikali]

Great advice and deeply spirited

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Glad you think so!

[@hectorborrero5443]

Thank you for the info. God bless.

[@jap126-ic2dk]

I just listened to this video for the first time and I already feel transformation is taking place - Thank you!

[@powerfulstoichabits]

You're so welcome!

[@DENISEASTUNO-ow1qz]

❤Thank you ❤ ACTION

[@Rachelbevan567]

Thank you🦋

[@powerfulstoichabits]

You are so welcome

[@ruthnassanga3015]

I am worthy of attention. Trust me, I've loved this.

[@gloriawitherspoon1312]

❤ thanks for your work

[@powerfulstoichabits]

You're welcome 😊

[@BanisDengea]

I am worthy I choose to move forward

[@kiplimosolomon6783]

I am worthy of attention 🙌

[@viesntasteng1473]

I am so grateful for your inspiration message for I am needing this

[@LindseyGwendolyn-kn4ql]

I choose to surround myself with people who inspire me

[@lonnieanderson5839]

I deserve to the attention I desire!

[@chinhphan8921]

Thank you

[@powerfulstoichabits]

You're welcome

[@bestmediaug3535]

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