4 dating mistakes in your 20s...while getting ready for a first date | dating for years & potential

[@s0fire_]

And another thing, be confrontational when it comes to uncertainty. Ask him when you are not sure.

[@kamsinnamani]

This. Don’t think you’re doing too much

[@lydiadaniel6298]

Don’t stay for crumbs. One minute he is nice and the next minute he says mean things. That mean side is his real side. Believe it!

[@kamsinnamani]

👏🏽

[@s0fire_]

If you are yet to talk to him about his weakness and just fantasizing about when he changes, you’re dating his potential!

[@kamsinnamani]

Tell them sis😅

[@s0fire_]

@@kamsinnamani .

[@Nice_Stephen]

Another mistake is Letting on too much information about your past hurts,traumas or family issues too early especially when you’re not sure or marriage is not in the foreseeable future cos boy! He’s gonna judge you like the Chief Judge of the Federation! If you have trauma, seek a therapist! He’s not a therapist nor a relationship coach so shut your pretty mouth🤭. Meanwhile your makeup looks so good Kamsi❤

[@kamsinnamani]

😂 good one. Thank youu

[@kamsinnamani]

Hi my loves! Y’all loved the part 1 so much and requested for a part 2 so hope you enjoy!

[@MaryAgimm]

14 years together is actually so crazy 😭😭

[@kamsinnamani]

@@MaryAgimm diabolical

[@adelineoparah]

Kamsi even whispers of marriage is not a guarantee. Some men use it to hold you down.

[@Jennifer_ozumah]

True I will I will yet no show

[@s0fire_]

Omo, I’m fine too. Your looks will not help in tough times of a relationship, so it’s beyond that!

[@kamsinnamani]

That part!

[@chiamakaenansofor]

The point about potential is a great one. There should be evidence for where he is going 🎉

[@kamsinnamani]

@@chiamakaenansofor always

[@musesounds2444]

Part 3 pleeeaaaassseeeeee!!!!

[@IniMc]

Kam is dragging my ears😂😂😂. Thanks babe!❤

[@destinyjohn5128]

I personally loved when she talked about dating to long Much love Kamsi 😘

[@Jennifer_ozumah]

Part 3 please

[@Princess44_p]

The moment you have to even bring up that topic after a couple of years of dating means you shouldn’t even be with that person. Men know what they want… let’s be very careful because the way I keep seeing women in their late 20s and early 30s being so desperate is crazy…

[@MissLulu7857]

I can't date someone for that long oh my God 😞 6 to 8 months it's ok for us to know each other .👌🎉

[@ezinneonyemara9479]

Always on point ❤

[@Asmyyyyy]

I concur. Four years is great timing

[@storiesfromthemundane]

Kamsi is really drumming it into our heads 😭😭, we'll repent ma

[@jehianeta9412]

Your videos are always educative….. I love them ❤

[@theresagarcia9255]

Standing novation for Kamsi and the sit down videos ❤. So educative. Shouting at us but in a subtle way 🤭❤️

[@KeshaDesir3z]

Men, friends can waist ur time. Honestly, someone can pretend. You just have to do what's best for ur life. Kids are a blessing regardless if things don't work out. Alot of the times we follow friends and partners and end up waisting time. Remember, life goes on.

[@Fisayokareem]

Yayyy🎉 finally grab my popcorn 🍿 ❤

[@bibianokonkwo5782]

That number 2 struck me. I’m here contemplating if I should move to a new far away state after graduation or stay in a nearer state for this man. I’ve always wanted to move to this far away state till I met this man in my final year. I know that the nearby state won’t help my future! The far away state will help me 100x better. Am I crazy??

[@kamoleballo8761]

Go to the far away state and better your future.

[@gyhiosimmian_]

This video helped so much❤ Thank you Kamsi

[@kamsinnamani]

Glad to hearr 🥰

[@Jennifer_ozumah]

A guy who was interested in me and l asked him a simple question "if you travel for my masters in the future outside the country will he be interested?" And he said NO SOMEONE WHO SAY HE WILL BE THERE .... i just dust my slippers 😅

[@s0fire_]

Except both of you have talked about it, (and there is something particular) once it is over 5/6 years. Like Omo! Infact don’t just accept to date anyone! Be intentional, date someone younger yourself getting married to.

[@yassinefall7540]

You’re literally my internet big sis! Best in advice fr🙂‍↕️💕

[@kamsinnamani]

Awww🥹🤍

[@s0fire_]

I’m going to watch part 1

[@kamsinnamani]

Yay🤭

[@sikeosezua6705]

I am already married but 100% agree with everything you said!! So on point!!

[@kamsinnamani]

@@sikeosezua6705 aww thanks for the feedback 🥰

[@sikeosezua6705]

@@kamsinnamani Thanks so much! I also want to say i am in my 40's and wish i knew what i know now but you knowing such important facts about dating in your 20's is really commendable. I enjoy your videos and learn a lot from you!! Keep doing what you do girl 🥰

[@yassinefall7540]

Part 3 pleaseeeee

[@rimayakubu]

Omo kamsi if I tell you my own mistake, you might knock me through your screen 😭🤣. Buh I'm so glad I moved on and I'm even happier cus I'm 25 and I was able to change on time .

[@kamsinnamani]

😂 no one’s perfect 🫶🏽

[@RukkyRich]

see dimple! ❤

[@s0fire_]

@@RukkyRich I was looking at that too. It’s so cute and different, I don’t know how to explain that it looks so supple in her skin.

[@ogbajiuju]

Thank youuuuuu❤

[@Jennifer_ozumah]

Yes kamsi ,l have seen kids ask their parent ...how do you even meet daddy ? Or mom?

[@mandyonunze]

I'm right on time 😊

[@s0fire_]

Your makeup🥰.

[@kamsinnamani]

Thank you🥰

[@Omotayo.Adeyemi]

Content creator🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🤎🤎🤎

[@ArohFrancisca]

When dating a man dat normal telling u dat he doesn't have heart of forgiveness or even to forgotten, know regretting, revenge, know respect, malicious, hot tempered nd lack of understanding does dat person love u or care for u even to marry u can u still be with dat can of person with dis can of life style or thinking maybe he might change i need ur advice

[@Hawaa-l1s]

I need advice y’all so I’m dating this guy for about 5 years now honestly my tired is I cant I want to settle down cause I’m tired of being in a relationship for 5 years But the problem is he’s still in school 😢that’s what is holding us back I don’t even know what to do should I wait till his done

[@Rebeccasimplydoes]

14 years in a dating relationship? Did such a female fall off the sky? No relatives to knock some sense into her?

[@kamsinnamani]

🤣🤣 my thoughts exactly! Where were her besties

[@s0fire_]

@@Rebeccasimplydoes 😂

[@Maureen_Hyacinth]

Believing in potentials is risky 😭😭

[@MaryOzah]

First person to comment ❤❤...what???!!!!!

[@s0fire_]

14 years to figure out she’s your wife? lol!

[@s0fire_]

A joke?

[@MissLulu7857]

For me 6 to 8 months it's ok to know each other 😊

[@Jennifer_ozumah]

​@MissLulu7857 6 month is okay 14 years na course

[@MissLulu7857]

@@Jennifer_ozumah 😀👌

[@oziuzoma1817]

Its crazy how some women are giving men 5, 10, 15 years of their youth and also laying in bed with these men. I don't believe in sex before marriage its one of the reasons men do not take marriage seriously imo. Even if you decide to have sex as a woman have time limits in your head, don't allow things to drag that long I can even make excuses for some people who say oh its because they started as students but its too risky.

[@Maureen_Hyacinth]

First here 🤭I need a crown 😂

[@s0fire_]

❤❤

[@lookingforjoan]

❤❤❤

[@Morgan00111]

please can you put part one link in the description?

[@Asmyyyyy]

They are not making arguments, they are deflecting and making excuses

[@life_of_zizi]

Hi Kamsi, so I want to ask a question. I’m 21 and sometimes I might be talking to someone and this one is like 23 but like he’s always buttressing on the fact that he also wants to be spoilt by his woman and just things that obviously a sensible woman should know. Should I just focus on myself and my goals ?

[@kamsinnamani]

YES🤍

[@bibianokonkwo5782]

Yessssssssssssssssss!!!!!! They way they’ll switch up on you after everything you’ve done eeh!!! You’ll be asking yourself if he loved you in the first place!!!!