Should I Stay Or Should I Go? | KARAMO

[@yv6958]

my dad and guy friends all told me you should NEVER let a man know what you have been through at first. Because it'll basiclly show them how much you'd tolerated. they'll just be more smooth with it.

[@Queensofafrica8]

I was told the same thing

[@denise9771]

Exactly

[@lorenemoore4220]

EXACTLY!!!!!

[@justlola11]

True shit

[@justlola11]

Tell them thanks

[@kiarawilliams3347]

When she said I actually loved him Past tense 😬 it’s a wrap 😢 Good for you sis you deserve better ❤

[@adreanmims2891]

Not going to put him down he lost her u live and learn.

[@sharoncooper3709]

He doesn’t deserve her.

[@kayewinn297]

She is absolutely beautiful inside and out. She deserves so much more

[@blacklocdke5604]

25 was just the MINIMUM! Ain’t no telling how many it really is! Smh. It’s only a matter of time before he brings you something you can’t get rid of. I’m glad you’re on a journey of self love and, I hope you continue to uphold that and, not let this man sweet talk you back into your life.

[@2ndedition766]

That is why I can't allow cheating. You are putting my health and life at risk when you decide to step out.

[@aprilreed5205]

A mistake is once or twice not 25 times. He's a narcissist because he refuses to take accountability for his actions & fix the issues in their relationship.

[@lorenemoore4220]

IKR!! He said 25 as if that's an exceptable amount!!! What the world!!!

[@ramonahamm6292]

Spot on .. 25 is definitely not a mistake. It’s his lifestyle

[@treyvantekendrick]

She ain’t no better. They toxic for each other

[@AsiyaAlore]

I’ll take 1 over 25 anytime…she’s definitely better.

[@treyvantekendrick]

@@AsiyaAlore lol dude if she’s willing to do 1, you think it’s really only 1? Cmon man, a cheater don’t just cheat once.

[@Mizzshron82]

Wait he’s tired of her accusations BUT she was right!! He WAS cheating. Gaslighting at its finest. He ain’t ish

[@d0x5j0]

He doesn't need to go 90 days without a woman. He needs to just be single until he's ready to be in a healthy relationship.

[@jamesgibson3716]

I don't think this brother wants monogamy at all...

[@aprilchow-chee5281]

@@jamesgibson3716 fo sho

[@aminatakamara3903]

he's disgusting. he said he's cheated a minimum of 25 times and has the audacity to say "it's not that easy"?? All i heard him say was I potentially brought you STD's a minimum of 25 times. I am thoroughly disgusted. Girl run. I don't usually condone this behavior but i'm glad she got her other friend she's been seeing for 5 months. That man was sickkkkk 😂

[@marceloking7271]

Men and women are nasty thinking that HIV and aids still don't exist she needs to get checked

[@tibi7997]

Agree agree agree;!! Especially the STD part! My biggest fear

[@deevillarreal9475]

These all sound like Aids ain't real. I'm disgusted 💯

[@tibi7997]

@@deevillarreal9475 exactly 💯

[@lindamccants6418]

She needs to go straight to the health department after the show. And keep testing after that. This is no joke. There are cancers contraced later on in life linked to hpv.

[@rissenorman]

He's not ready & she knows that. She waiting on him to make a decision that she needs to be making for herself & that's to move on.

[@deannbrookins6571]

Ooou this the one cause I went through this

[@sisiamor3382]

Never tell them what you’ve been through in their minds it just lets them know what you’re willing to accept.

[@deejai1173]

I’ve learned that the hard way…

[@tiffanywallace1020]

@Sisi Amor those be the main ones saying I never hurt you the way the other person did....

[@tiffanywalker4437]

You just said a word there ma'am 🙌🏾

[@MrTwonetwone]

Plus we don’t wanna hear that shitt

[@shay_lah]

very good point

[@Chloeeezyyy]

That woman is gorgeous. How did she even give him a chance? Yikes. I hope she is doing better. I hope he gets help. ❤

[@finesserxo4299]

From a man is openly cheating on you and you say you’re done with him and he says you’re just “talking” already shows that he doesn’t respect you and that he gonna keep cheating because he believes you’ll always stay.

[@BNTW__]

Beautiful Woman!! I understand what you going through. I know Staying not easy, leaving not easy. But sis you have to REMOVE YOURSELF out this SITUATION. You deserve better.

[@teekay6967]

The one time she cheated translates for him as a free pass. He's going to go buck wild on her as "get-back". Some men can't take the taste of their own medicine. She might as well end this relationship.

[@karenwhite4141]

Exactly 💯 Everytime she tries to hold him accountable, he's gonna bring that up! My husband does the same thing to me over some madeup, imaginary bullish! 😒 I love my husband, but respect is out the door! Period!

[@teonadavis9634]

Preach

[@nenenikole]

As a woman if you choose to cheat, no matter how much they cheated, you are basically saying you’re done with the relationship.

[@akeemwalters821]

@@nenenikole thank u for say that but its better to leave the relationship then u talk to someone else a female low down her standard that way

[@nenenikole]

@@akeemwalters821 you basically just reiterated my point!

[@ericalevene3125]

She claims he is a gentleman yet he continually cheats on her. WHAAAT!

[@LewisGirls]

STOP telling you new boyfriends what happened to you in your past relationships. They always end up doing the same thing.

[@Uke2405]

Exactly.

[@boyeoshinaga6230]

This is not great advice. Being truthful about your past and who you are isn’t a bad thing. The man will treat you how he knows how to. Better to choose a great man instead.

[@YonUndone3064]

I agree with your comment. I also understand the original commenter's point though, from personal experience. Some males use what you say against you and do the same thing, and there is hardly any hurt quite as painful. At the end of the day though, every male is not the same. A grown, mature, man who shares similar value will not take advantage of a woman's vulnerability when she shares her story with him.

[@savannahblackhawk-mccormic4259]

True I learned that this time

[@justIvy98]

Chileeee he’s cheating right now! You can’t love someone when you don’t love yourself. That’s for both of them.

[@justlola11]

Never accept a person stepping out on you they'll keep doing it.

[@finnthehuman7159]

The way he was about to throw up when she told him she cheated ONCE after he literally confessed to cheating a minimum of 25 times 🤣🤣🤣 men are sick fr

[@KimberlyLechelleAKissOfBliss]

Minimum 20-25 times 😭💀⚰️ took me out! He couldn't handle she had a friend though! 🤦🏽‍♀️ They need to separate... He doesn't love her bc he doesn't love himself he's a sex addict! Codependent

[@giyavictoria3747]

pin this please! lol that sex addiction ain't no joke

[@sunnyblack41]

She sure does a lot financially for him.

[@chelseagordon6021]

I just love how unbiased Karamo is.

[@bkbk-rn6ny]

Tell me you’re joking….

[@kay22100]

DO NOT MARRY HIM!! Move on girl!!

[@pamelawyatt7792]

Amen

[@sydneec3343]

That man doesn’t care that she cheated AT ALL. He doesn’t even care about her. Destroying her own property for no reason. He’ll keep doing it to any woman he gets with. Wouldn’t be shocked if he’s been with men. No self control at all.

[@workoutevolutionvlog8452]

How he cheating driving a 2000 something Corolla? SIS STAND UP. It’s giving gold plated love!

[@deejai1173]

Honey, nothing and no one should make you feel “less of a woman”. You are a woman and that can’t change, you may feel certain insecurities because of his cheating, but that will remain unless you leave.

[@emanueldavis1627]

She is not gonna leave that man, she needs to let him cheat peacefully.

[@zooked-rl6jq]

Nah Karamo did that!! Dudes don't care when it's a woman holding them accountable cause they don't see women on the same level if we're being honest, so for Karamo as another man holding him accountable he can't help but start sweating, you see the difference in how he words himself to his gf and how he speaks to karamo? My point is Karamo understands what how men are and he also understand what women are trying to say so he gets to the point and drives it home👏👏👏

[@tracymitchell8280]

I'm

[@thickummms.8087]

Agreed. I love it here.

[@nourishingword8767]

Yes!!

[@perry321]

"It doesn't make it right, it makes it even"🤣🤣🤣

[@shay_lah]

most of these situations could be completely avoided if people love themselves more

[@nailahdawkins]

*This!* She's a beauty (inside and out) and he's a beast🐾❤‍🔥 . It's time for him to tame himself, because that Belle is officially going to have her (Robby Benson moment 🎞) Prince Charming happily ever after 🏰👑💞! #BeautyandtheBeast 🍿

[@staroscar7768]

Exactly I agree

[@deangelojoe1970dj]

STRAPPED.... Sister looks really nice.... It's a shame she is not getting properly loved

[@tibi7997]

"He's a lady's man", "he's flirtatious", she knew he was an attention seeker???? It's like dating a guy with an anger streak. What did you think was next????

[@freeboogie86]

I accidentally got my best friend addicted to this show!! Without sounding obsessed, I’m so grateful for this show. A quality program that offers amazing advice, interesting stories, and a kind and polished host!! I was starting to give up on “TV” and this show saved the day!! Giving you your flowers now!! 💐🌸

[@akaku796]

this show is garbage

[@badboygoodgirl]

💯

[@catherinegilbert7057]

Ditto

[@niylahjaypheonix6979]

Facts 💐 💐

[@Talonde]

this show is garabge

[@wadilotus]

What a beautiful woman. Unfortunately he's using her and he won't change but i hope she sees these encouraging comments and leaves him for good.

[@sheritamosley7391]

I literally just had this conversation with my best friend a hr ago. Baby girl make YOURSELF a priority and never change yourself or the person you are to help change someone else. And then she say she’s done it once and he acts like his whole entire heart is broke. Oh naw, chest out, chin up my dude and take it like she did.

[@brianajana762]

I think she should ask herself if she is attracted to him anymore.. Not physically, but emotionally and intellectually. He is childish, doesn’t communicate well and obviously insecure, dismissive and stupid. You’ve worked too hard to settle for an unattractive man.

[@brianwright889]

She Childish Too

[@lovelykiyah7415]

Girlll u hit this shit on the nail

[@negrospiritualsz7982]

@@brianwright889 this must be his spam

[@alexajay6896]

Man! I went through being so physically attracted to a man but the more time we spent the less and less he became to me the way he acted so maybe he wasn’t attracted to me 🤷🏾‍♀️ idk but definitely cut him off and then he starting acting like he actually likes me 😂 men are weirdos

[@lovelykiyah7415]

I’m a be honest to ladies a lot of these men be on a DL GOD knew not to have me catch one I have one in my presence it’s going down hell yall might see me on KZbin🤣🤣🤣💯🖕🔫

[@dominiquejenkins5495]

He’s a catch and let go!!!! He didn’t say 25 times he said at least 😂

[@ms.e7205]

Std are for real don't waste your time on a cheater

[@brianwright889]

She sleeping with someone else too Im surprised he doesn't have a STD

[@nnena3631]

Ladies please understand if a man says he doesn't want anyone else to have access to YOU does not mean he won't let others have access to HIM...💯 This guy did not make a statement of commitment he make a declaration of ownership...

[@jiennaloveice]

A DECISION is not a mistake

[@kishataylor7789]

Let's be clear Cheating is not a mistake it's a choice he's a loser and has no ams on changing until he really wants to and he doesn't because he knows she will continue to take him back this is so toxic

[@QueenNightAria]

I love that you didn't make him out to he the villain and let him know he has potential 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@venicesmith4525]

Idk why men sabotage the relationship then get mad when we act like them. I'll never get it 🤣

[@cookiegirl891]

Tell me about it

[@ToBTee2]

The longest he’s ever gone without segg is 2 days? So basically if she goes on vacation he’s sleeping with other women. Hell looks like getting sick is out of the question too. Very scary. I couldn’t trust a man who says that. He needs to find out why he needs constant attention and validation from others.

[@Uke2405]

Vacation? When she's on her period

[@slimtend4010]

She not going anywhere! He knows that which is why he will never stop cheating.

[@dominiquejenkins5495]

Ladies STOP bleaching and burning stuff especially if you brought it… SELL IT… that’s how u pour salt in a Wound😂

[@williamstaats7146]

Real talk word

[@wildfiregirl1556]

Facts I have never and never will people work hard for there shit blessings.

[@miystiqueskillz2233]

He's a sad case ..MAAANNN HOW IN THE HELL CAN YOU CHEAT ON THAT

[@ddoubleu170]

RIGHT! I mean DAMN! She is a brick house and has a beautiful face!

[@shataviaturner2481]

Me being a woman myself, i definitely agree, she definitely a beautiful woman that deserve better

[@catrinarollins5711]

Lady goooooo!!!!! Knowing your worth is priceless.

[@Ro-dc1su]

I love Karamo so much the way he break it down and fix it up 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@EyezofMoe]

She HAS to know that she deserves BETTER!!

[@nadine4634]

She's taking care of this man physically and financially but he still cheated on you. Is she letting him living with her? Oh no...🙃😶😐

[@shan0997]

No way in hell am I wasting good money and destroying stuff I bought. I would've been donating that stuff and getting a tax write-off, or doing what Karamo suggested if I have the receipts. Sadly, I don't think that she's going to leave him, and he knows it too. Once, or twice is a mistake, I'll even give him the three. But TWENTY-FIVE times? Nah bruv, that's no mistake.

[@karynn.7050]

I love the sincerity and the relatability in Karamo’s approach. His show is very tasteful, and he speaks life into his guests. Also, it’s refreshing to see our community classily presented, rather than parading all over stage making fools of ourselves on national television.

[@Andy-ly2li]

oh did you not see the chef pii thing?

[@traceyxxrose7454]

Oh no, you obviously didn’t see the videos exposing Karamons true character. Well, it was fun while it lasted cuz this man’s shoe is getting canceled he even deleted the video on his channel in an attempt to escape accountability and pretend like it never happened. Nah bro, you are trying to prop up someone who didn’t care about the potential death of other human beings and then you gaslit and manipulated one of these victims into being made out to be the villain. Not gonna work Karamon, we all know what you did. botulism is real 🤡 🤡 🤡

[@SG-qd8cj]

Very true!

[@karynn.7050]

@@traceyxxrose7454 Wow, no I had not heard about that.

[@truzdaplug651]

You obviously shouldn’t like this guy, he’s a Narcissis, and he attacks innoncent woman on tv

[@megalattie3824]

This man have a right tho to think she's "just talking" because she's been snooping and knowing all along that he was cheating but yet she NEVER LEFT!! Now he's not scared..She made him too comfortable.

[@ValTravels16]

To me the fact you have to ask should you stay is a RED FLAGS🚩🚩🚩🚩 to me.

[@shay194]

Cheating is a deal breaker for me. We good my dude! moving on✌🏾

[@peacelily7751]

Don’t cry over him. He is not worth your pain. Just go girl. There is better out there.

[@julyhoward5757]

It ain't over. She forgave him. He still cheating. She still stressing and crying. They probably gonna get married and have children.

[@ddoubleu170]

😂

[@brendanabbona4674]

😂😂😂😂😂😂this is so true

[@BeUr_Best]

Stop it now😭😂🤣

[@julyhoward5757]

@@brendanabbona4674 FACTS

[@deannbrookins6571]

I did but I left cause baby he ain’t worth it

[@pinkcaramel5867]

She bought him clothes and I’m assuming she pays for him💀💀💀low self esteem

[@brendanabbona4674]

Exactly 😂😂😂😂😂

[@cookiegirl891]

Right so sad

[@MontManii]

I wonder wat she do for work

[@TheRealBlackPanda]

A womans love is her strength and her downfall. If the situation were reversed this dude wouldnt be on here saying to a public audience and thousands of people, "I dont know what to do." He would have just left her, just like she needs to do with this dude. STOP emotionally investing in these men ladies, STOP. It is literally making women go crazy trying to "keep" a man or love a man through his improprieties. Im sure she has nothing to show for this relationship.

[@sunnyblack41]

They keep saying he cheated 25 times. He said,"25 times at a minimum! "

[@markussmart1372]

First off the audacity to cheat on a chocolate 🍫 Queen I’m just stuck on that

[@tonieshawalker]

I think at some point in life we need to gain a backbone and leave men like this alone. We know that red flags. No second chances. Nothing. This won’t end, he will continue to cheat. I learned my lesson with a cheater very young. I can only wish all women could learn their worth 😩

[@tonieshawalker]

Then she buying all his shit. Hell naw. I aint letting no man cheat on me. Especially if he ain’t big money. The money would help me forgive a lil more 😂😂

[@Uke2405]

@@tonieshawalker but but he said he is a provider. Or does prividing have a new meaning to bm?

[@tonieshawalker]

@@Uke2405 he can’t be providing too much if she buying his wardrobe and his tires for his car. So I’m sure he was using that word very LOOSELY

[@Mulani88]

The fact that she's brought all those clothes..proves that he provides nothing..he's the perfect example of an opportunist

[@mauricesnell5886]

This is a mess of a relationship. Kertis cheating around 25 times is a sign telling Brietta that he will never be faithful in this relationship, or any other relationship for that matter. Brietta needs to move on with her life and find a man who's interested in only a monogamous relationship.

[@theincognitochannel5542]

When tables turn I LOVE IT

[@YonUndone3064]

Your comment and your picture...it is kinda funny

[@lethalbeauties6182]

Did he really ask does her 1 time make it even to his 20+ 😂😂😂😂

[@maddismama2821]

That part! I am flabbergasted! Cuz mf what?

[@TashaBabe]

He was like 3 times then boom in a min atlist 25 that’s definitely times two 50 that lady she is beautiful nice body deserve better but she need to go get tested and cleans her soul cut all ties

[@danielle5391]

After so many times of cheating she should expect it. If she chooses to stay that's on her. He's shown her over & over again who he is. She can't keep playing victim, move on. I've been exactly where she is & I had to accept the advice that I just gave.

[@florider5517]

This immediately had me crying cause it home...... 💔 the person u love so much can make u feel like nothing

[@JESUSLOVESYOU219]

I’m so sorry dear ❤

[@lindajones5172]

We teach people how to treat us and that's coming from an old lady with the same person for 25 years who was my best friend and my nemesis and father of my two kids. Just never let your left hand know what your right hand is doing always have your own and put something up to the side no matter what.

[@vickisudler]

All of this is her fault!!! She's a provider! Girl, please....🙄

[@jamesgibson3716]

facts.....She's dumb

[@bertoliu7]

He won't change until he finds himself older and his private parts doesn't work anymore. That's when he will be looking for a woman who can take care of him. Because in his mind he thinks all women want him and his girlfriend has to accept him the way he is. And she needs to respect herself.

[@shawandahargrove1515]

That's how they do 😂 they will try to flip it so fast. He would never have thought. Clearly thinking hasn't been his strength 🤷🏾‍♀️😂

[@expressclear]

First time watching and I like you Karamo not allowing the gaslighting.

[@1234532785]

There’s so many things that I want to say, but I’ll just say this. NEVER let a grown man bring out the “mommy” in you. Buying him clothes AND tires? That’s her son, not her partner.🥲 I really hope she moves on from him. She could benefit greatly from therapy along with her self love journey. She deserves so much better.

[@Uke2405]

I got confused when he said he is a provider. How?

[@lavidaloca2344]

Wow, I never thought of it like that but yeah, especially if you're a natural nurturer, then you're going to treat your man like your son/child.

[@rashun5852]

My first thoughts when I heard that was” oh she taking care of this dude”🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️

[@kiravideos.5353]

She KNEW about 3 and is wondering if she should leave ??? And not him naming basic life skills saying those make him a catch 🤣🤣

[@courtneyj2392]

Please don’t take him back. Seriously, you a queen that doesn’t deserve this.

[@wandabellamy6120]

She allows him too cheat, he knows that he can getaway with cheating..y not?!! Sweet heart he's not only your man he's everybody's man

[@simplyclaireese]

Yuck !! Sorry but I couldn’t be with somebody who sticks their stick in others and come back to my house exposing me to all that . Bye he could go to hell

[@brittthecancerqueenempress9137]

Straight to hell ‼️‼️‼️ Just low to no class ‼️

[@dreamingbig98]

25 times???? His body count is definitely in the triple digits 🤮 she needs to get tested and he needs therapy !

[@JESUSLOVESYOU219]

(Not trying to sound condescending) Sounds like a sex addiction

[@ddoubleu170]

Baaaaaaby, Briana is FABULOUS!

[@zionsmithwalker]

favorite episode thus far !

[@LifeofDestinyB]

He needs to pick a hairstyle 😂

[@ballsonwalls6411]

she is so real

[@leahnole9771]

This woman looks like Remy Ma's little sister. The only difference is Remy Ma would never take this crap from Papoose! And honestly, I don't think that Papoose would ever think to treat Remy Ma that way.

[@melaningypsy3187]

This ninja really sat back in his chair twiddling his fingers like a Batman villain gaslighting her "Hooow are we gonna grow??"

[@stephaniecarter5281]

She's so gorgeous she came on the show ready baby but very cute

[@tibi7997]

He's a HOBO sapian. A dude who stays with women for a place to live. He's finding these other women for the next place to live in case this doesn't work out. She also IS carrying him. "I bOuGht tHoSe cLoThEs... I hElPeD bUy tHoSe tIrEs..." Giving Atlanta energy is women carrying bummy men. He's gonna cry to stay with her Also SHE needed the advice for help. NOT HIM.

[@TheDeliciousCaek]

What happened to your video with Chef Pii? I really wanted to watch that clip but seems strange it's missing.

[@carolwatson551]

Karamo you wearing that suit brother ! Sharp

[@falyntaylor6788]

This is literally the exact representation of a male who can’t take what they dish out. Always trying to flip the narrative to make them look like the victim while doing people dirty.

[@genj.2630]

I went to high school with him... I'm not surprised

[@williamstaats7146]

😂

[@mickeyj6921]

Girl! Know your worth and don't let this bumb drive you to insanity. He is a bumb because he's a narcissistic cheater and believes that he shoukd have a pass due to him thinking he's fine and being a provider. You don't get a pass for doing what you're supposed to be doing as a man! I've been in this position and I left. I was and am still better for it. I hope she finds her light again and holds on to it.

[@ChosenRellll1111]

Yessir!!!great episode karoma!!😎✨

[@shanteli5970]

Kertis ego is out of this world and needs its own room 😭😭😩. Like Karamo said she is a queen 👸🏾💖. It's sad because she was a good woman to him. Some men just never appreciate or realize what they have until it's gone. I hate when a good woman with a big heart is taken advantage of 😕. He's 33? 👀😳 He too old to be acting like this 25 women is way too much. It's dangerous, and you're putting yourself and your gf at risk.

[@brendanabbona4674]

25 Soul ties!! he needs years to wash em out😂💀

[@enhvisualz5808]

Did she really just say “ we had an intimate moment and he kept calling my name” and that’s when he said he loved you?😂😂😂

[@Jheyanneify]

Right 😂😂😂

[@annetteodanga]

😅😅😅

[@missyb40]

This! No ma'am!

[@primetime6283]

You should bring back the pink sauce video. Shows what your show is really about.

[@10lees]

A judge would’ve made her purchase everything again, cause those were gifts 🎁

[@TRISH9076]

He don’t know if he want dreads or a low cut