Stop Gaslighting Me And Unlock Your Phone! | KARAMO

[@socool245]

Never let a man tell you more than once that he don't want you

[@EMM1908]

‼️‼️‼️

[@israelcoleman7876]

My grandfather told me this when I was younger. Always stayed with me

[@deloresevans4235]

Period

[@kazb4496]

Run 🏃‍♀️

[@Callherlele]

He never said that he didn’t want her

[@sarcastic_truth]

The saddest part is him saying he stays with her so his daughter doesn't have a broken home. A broken home is any dynamic that is toxic and untrustworthy. Two people “staying” together for the sake of a child but abusing another in the process is broken. IMO

[@snigglestraggletheatre1749]

Cheating is not abuse as long as they're not physical you do whatever to be in the same house with your kids fool !

[@sarcastic_truth]

@@snigglestraggletheatre1749 cheating on someone is not emotional abuse? What would you call it, since you seem to be an expert on abuse?

[@snigglestraggletheatre1749]

@@sarcastic_truth look victim bich it's not abuse.Dont have kids and stay single ! Keep it pushing

[@sarcastic_truth]

@@snigglestraggletheatre1749 Oh wow! I've never suffered from abuse but based on your level of anger toward a stranger shows that you may have. Be blessed.

[@snigglestraggletheatre1749]

@@sarcastic_truth thank you ! Now keep it pushing

[@dianalogan6185]

She see all the red flags but still want prove 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@betterwithwinebetterwithwi2359]

(Proof)

[@dianalogan6185]

@@betterwithwinebetterwithwi2359 thanks for the correction

[@jeanmiller1925]

Her sister wants prove her sister called karamo

[@Lovelyliberianleo]

Fr

[@jalisajohnson9277]

He done called her annoying one too many times

[@kiera6288]

@@bfields112 he's weak

[@wandumazgabu7252]

She’s annoying af….. the way she comes off

[@Samanthas1]

@@bfields112 her annoyingness is in response to his lies… maybe?

[@kiera6288]

@@Samanthas1 don't mind him. That's the same dude who said he would have punched her in the throat because she's too masculine

[@NELL_SCORPIO]

​@@bfields112 ding ding ding ding 👏👏👏

[@angeldiannah8306]

He said he didn’t want her 20 times and she still didn’t hear it 🤦🏾‍♀️😩

[@bianca2011d]

Because he didn't say I don't want to be with you. She will not see it

[@teresa_chosen]

1 🚩 isn’t enough sometimes they need 40 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@barbaracarley3601]

She made me so exhausted. Wake up Girl!!!!! Geesh!

[@nikkiallday8167]

She can’t hear cuz she never be quiet

[@akbasg]

@@bianca2011d you seem like you will be in this type of situation... Clarification is not only saying word by word "I dont want you"... He made it very clear that does not want her and the child is the reason why he is around ... He has the door open for new realtionships... Please don't be in such a situation

[@lindawilliams429]

She knows exactly what's going on. She just refuses to see it!! Both of them need to walk away from each other.

[@tamiko_8369]

For real!! Man 🙄

[@iamkenithia1446]

He literally is screaming that he don’t want you.

[@laquishasm]

I spent 20 years in a relationship with a man like this... When I finally left and started to heal I had to hold myself accountable for completely ignoring the facts, signs and disrespect that was right in front of me... I was fighting for a man who was only fighting for himself.

[@petersonkimani1195]

The guy is telling you, I don't want you, at all. Make your choices.

[@1234532785]

…….I’ve never seen someone be so in denial about the person they’re “engaged” to. He’s been acting single this whole time, she’s SEEN proof and she still wants clarity??!???!! I really hope she wakes up and leaves him. Sis if you’re reading this, there is a MAN out there that will never have you crying yourself to sleep. I promise once you wake up, you’ll be so glad you chose yourself and your child. You wouldn’t want your daughter being treated that way.

[@deidramanson444]

I’m reading ❤

[@ebonyjones2246]

@@deidramanson444 I wish I could talk to you ❤️❤️❤️

[@jasminegreene8159]

@@deidramanson444 sis, stand tf up!!! 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@innikkac]

That man is living his best life tearing you down!

[@jamesgibson3716]

Sad to see....

[@Vdub481]

Sad ain’t no way to explain but u said it right

[@alexjones28]

She's tearing her damn self down.

[@innikkac]

@@alexjones28 😂 yea.....you right!

[@period8705]

She's allowing it

[@Ilikefrogs..]

People spend so much time shaming single moms and not enough time shaming men who emotionally and physically abuse their partners and children. This is what that kind of societal shaming does. It forces women and children to stay in toxic, potentially dangerous situations.

[@agray7474]

He’s definitely a grade A LOSER…HOWEVER, she’s choosing to be with a LOSER which means she values a LOSER over herself and her CHILD! Maybe she needs to be shamed in order to WAKE UP! That child could be damaged as a result of their relationship. I’m sorry, I’m all in favor of shaming her because this child is involved. His low class character goes without saying…

[@tremonsprings7]

How did he abuse the kids?

[@jeanp1323]

@@tremonsprings7 this relationship will affect the kids in the long run. I'm sure the little girl sees her parents fighting, her mother crying and when she gets older she'll probably understand the lies her father tells. Eventually, when it'll be time for her to find herself a partner, she might end up with someone as distrustful as her father...

[@uwilberforce4628]

Truth

[@babieatiti7259]

@@tremonsprings7 by not being faithful and appreciating there mother,that takes a toll on the mother's emotionally, physically and mentally and hence she can't take care of the kids properly,because she is also human,that's how.

[@NerlandeBeauty]

Girl respects yourself. You shouldn’t allow anyone to disrespect you like that. Love yourself sis. Please and thank you!

[@Vanett77]

I hope when she gets home she watches this episode and it finally wakes her up because right now, her blinders are screwed on tight!

[@kelipeterson5231]

“The biggest lesson I have for you is to figure out why 1 red flag isn’t enough. Why do you need 40?” -Karamo Geesh! He nailed that in that whole statement.

[@nneoma6106]

Period! 👏🏽

[@autyyx]

she thinks by exposing all his bs that he looks bad, not realizing that she looks silly knowing all these sneaky things. she seems like a smart girl, leave him in the dust. No man should be able to tell you he’s “ leaving the door open b/c you’re annoying “ .. absolutely NOT. take off the rose colored glasses babes

[@vernissiegaines6589]

Lord Jesus, you can't make men do right or make them treat you right. Learn to love and respect yourself put God first everything will fall in place.

[@MsMarilyn1234]

She needs to love (and chose) herself, the signs are so clear

[@theempressspeaksunapologetical]

She's gaslighting herself point blank period

[@ilikepickles9568]

Exactly

[@sipstea9794]

No he’s gaslighting her she just feeding into it and holding onto false hope

[@latonyafunches9991]

@@sipstea9794baby HE TOLD HER.

[@BlakeRenn]

She’s definitely an “As long as he comes back home to me”type. I DO NOT FEEL SORRY for this foolery. He is blatantly telling her that their time is up, and she’s indirectly begging him to reset the timer. Self Esteem can not be purchased. After a while, she’s not the victim, she’s the fool.

[@shereelewis2251]

🎯

[@jazzyjae8777]

👏🏽

[@latonyafunches9991]

That was very ignorant of you self esteem is a mental issue just bc yall might see it she doesn’t u can’t wake up one morning and have high self esteem

[@blxckdixmonds]

she kinda annoying me too, but she didn’t deserve to be lied to & cheated on 😭

[@jazzyjennshighway]

Lmbo 😂I said same thing… she overtalks everyone & just plain annoying , her voice got on my nerves … I saw what he was talking about . Jesus take her mouth

[@GIRLY4293]

Like she never shuts up. Like girl hush.

[@jazzyjennshighway]

@@GIRLY4293 she kept talking more than Karamo 😩

[@DONTASKMYNEIGHBORCUMMEIGOTTHET]

Girl she aggravated me too 😂😂😂😂

[@erica-5198]

Is it really a lie at this point?? He has pretty much said he doesn’t want her.

[@fernquez2216]

This dude is cold 🥶. He's gaslighting her, so bad.

[@kiera6288]

from jump he was gaslighting her

[@KimontheWeb]

Honeymoon phase was his love bombing you, he’s a narcissist and does not have the capacity to love you. Chose yourself and move on.

[@childofgod8365]

The woman is stupid to wait on him

[@amandachristine2046]

I just can't feel sorry for her because she saw all the signs & he straight up told her he doesn't want her! She can do better!

[@suzieq9578]

She’s not gonna leave. She already has her answers, but she doesn’t want to leave. Hopefully she finds the strength or gets fed up enough to walk away.

[@ghoulwhodied]

"Figure out why 1 red flag isn't enough and why u need 40" Powerful!!

[@laura4495]

Yeah, that comment was deep

[@roselandebazelais8236]

She had more than 1. She just pretending she wants to see more,so she could secure her sister. She could find a million red flags,she ain't going nowhere.

[@chroniclesofangie2762]

Wait... she caught him cheating numerous times,she doesn’t trust him, she knows it’s not going past engagement, he admitted he wants to sleep with his ex, he’s very open to his cheating scandals to her -it’s time to leave💔 And the crowd’s just clapping at the weirdest moments💀

[@allbymyself4927]

His behavior has literally driven her crazy, hence the reason for her behavior. She’s annoying??? However, she speaks to him like he’s her son. She doesn’t know what to do? She wants him to love her?? This is so sad.

[@georgia1191]

Good point !

[@mioshichaffin4870]

Man… I remember when I used to sit up and argue with dudes like this. Right, wrong, or indifferent. I would see alllll the signs and still ignore it. Everything was their fault. I thank God for growth. Ain’t shit worth arguing and exuding this much energy over. Crying and fighting does not make them love you… and going through their phone only to see what you already know only creates a new unhealthy habit. Glad I grew up

[@mznamohamed]

no mother chooses to be a single parent, but some mothers need to start choosing their kids over and themselves over their men

[@impactfully5714]

She is not his type. He is holding on for the convenience and benefits, but he does not feel like her, much less love her. He knows she has self-esteem/confidence issues, and he breaks her down. She needs an awakening YESTERDAY.

[@teresa_chosen]

She got her answer when he scrubbed his phone. She just don’t want to leave him alone. Most times you know the truth before you come to a talk show

[@LauraSunga]

Self love is so important. When you know God's love and self love you can never settle.

[@autyyx]

I know someone’s going to comment “ Don’t let a man tell you twice he done want ya “

[@opulence_prime]

😅😅 girl. I’m tired of seeing it too.

[@2ndedition766]

😂😂😂😂

[@Chase_Dapremont777]

Coming from a person who’s ex is just like him, sis for your health, please leave him. He’s the type that’ll want you to have 3sumns and still cheat. You can’t change him. Believe people when they show you who they are.

[@sweettexastee]

This was a waste of airtime and resources! She said if his phone is squeaky clean, he cleaned it before they got there so why did they come! Also, he will never find peace of mind lying about having a child and otherwise!

[@TewasaSonko]

HIS OWN BLOOD DAUGHTER‼️ That’s just WICKED‼️

[@wadilotus]

This man is driving this woman crazy, literally. He clearly doesn't want to be with her but she doesn't want to hear it.

[@tanyadunn3767]

She’s driving herself crazy

[@flovelaceproed]

No one deserves to be cheated or lied to. The truth is so transparent; however she wants to continue this relationship. Her constant going on irritated and triggered me. I found myself telling her to shut up as I watched. I wouldn’t want to live in that home.

[@Myztic71]

I saw and heard him say that he didn't want to be with her multiple times, but she was not looking or listening. He's not even trying to hide it at this point. IMO, if it gets to the point where you feel you need to follow someone or have their phone unlocked, the relationship is already over because the trust is gone.

[@adayahowens9442]

The fact that he’s trying to explain how he feels and she only cares about if he’s cheating is enough for me… like yes girl he’s cheating he’s doing him and if I was her and I didn’t leave I’d def give this relationship some space and do me

[@ShortNSweetTay]

You say you not insecure, you smart, sis. The smartest thing you can do is RUN!!!! 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️💨 The narcissistic personality is heavy with this one!

[@brownskin220]

He doesn't want to be with you anymore babe, and he's most certainly cheating. There will be no confusion when someone really loves and want to be with you. You will know without a doubt.

[@iniscodugo4654]

Everyday quarrelling in front of your daughter is more terrible than a broken home

[@pheonyxjohnson5966]

She’s known him for so long that she is Comfortable and we don’t know what she has been through in life. Alot of times when a man seems good outside people like family pushes you to stay with him especially if you have children together.

[@kiera6288]

very true especially the older generation will tell you a piece of a man is better than no man. I disagree

[@enhvisualz5808]

I swear the audience will clap for anything

[@Yo-ey4ue]

😂😂

[@brown27407]

🤣🤣

[@georgia1191]

Lollll 😂

[@LaricolaHD]

LMFAOOO

[@Armelleee]

Its a show...im sure there are rules and they have too. If they were just quiet it would be awkward no 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Blonde50]

She didn't even have to come to the karamo show to get the answers that she needed, because it was already there in plain sight. Karamo was right about telling her to take the blinders off.

[@passion2dope]

When they say “im with you all the time how can i cheat” means he cheating lmao.. all that social media and texting calling whatever is emotional cheating.. smh

[@teneviac]

She has all the proof she needs. She just doesn't want to leave this man. She will endure this hurt until SHE'S tired. She has to get fed up before she'll leave.

[@LB-rn2pg]

Don’t let him tell you more than once that he don’t want you

[@joypierce230]

She's hurt...I feel sorry for her and pray she finds the strength to leave him!

[@lakeishahoward6563]

Sis doesnt want to believe what it is .Shes not gonna leave him shes fina put up with his mess.. But sis if u stay u can’t continue to play the victim…Your stronger and smarter than that….

[@shawnda8317]

She keep saying the home is his peace - BABY - no it’s not! If you acting like this on TV, I can only imagine behind closed doors. Not saying he’s innocent, but good LORDT!

[@deidramanson444]

Right because you seen 15 mins of me so you got it all figured out. Makes sense.

[@shawnda8317]

@@deidramanson444 Exactly, and that’s ALL I needed to see.

[@Lunaparshae]

@@deidramanson444 look up what feminine characteristics are and ask yourself do you have them cause you’re very masculine.

[@Lunaparshae]

@@deidramanson444 I’m sorry you’ve been with a narcissist, you need to heal and get therapy so that you don’t attract more narcissistic men.

[@itsallaboutjayy1012]

@@deidramanson444you need healing god bless you

[@ramonahamm6292]

Sis he don’t want you . There is no clarification you need. He is showing you daily YOU ARE NOT THE ONE. You are the problem here , he’s telling you , you’re not listening !! And all that I caught you l, your lying, I have receipts talk is truly just noise. Leave or let him cheat in peace ❤️ I pray for your healing

[@kukuakukua]

You are staying with such a man because you don't want your daughter to grow up in a broken home. Sis you know damn well you ain't staying for that child, you are using the child as an excuse to justify your insecurities. Your child is better off coming from a broken home than living inside one. Move on with your life ,he ain't changing today or tomorrow. You have to look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you deserve better.

[@GIRLY4293]

He doesn’t like her at all and clearly doesn’t want her. Never let a man tell you twice he doesn’t want you.

[@lynncdaily6741]

I’m learning not to allow a man to have full control of my life

[@savannahwilson7982]

He’s so checked out. He’s only there for his child and that is more damaging than leaving. Go and still be active but showing the child toxicity isn’t worth it

[@ddoubleu170]

He was never checked in

[@TrinaWitDaRedLips]

If she doesn’t know her own worth, it sounds like they need an open relationship. She’ll learn it then. He’s operating as if he’s in an open relationship 😮

[@joyhudson5674]

She don’t deserve this ! She is gorgeous ! He don’t respect her. She is a queen. She does not need this stress. You are beautiful and you deserve to be treated well. This man don’t want you. And you don’t need him. There is another man out there that will love her the way she needs. I just can’t get over how beautiful she is 😍😍😍😍😍

[@eshaandthingz]

That man told her in so many words he is done and over the relationship. And she to aggressive for me she's like a tom boy. I wouldn't wanna be around that masculinity either

[@U9us]

The crazy thing is she knows she’s being gaslighted but she still stays in hopes it’ll stop. It won’t stop! I guess her hopes on this show was to get him to stop and stop cheating. He’s not going to change. For her or anyone that’s who he is and he’s going to stay and keep doing it cause she allows it. Her fussing at him is just a minor inconvenience to him.

[@aadyahmelton3653]

That what I can’t understand! You knew all this why even be on that show

[@FinDom1]

She’s annoying but it’s because she doesn’t feel safe and that’s his fault. He’s embarrassing.

[@marybrown5992]

how honest you want him to be dang....she crazy

[@akbasg]

He doesnt want you lady ... He is just there because he feels like you the type to punish him with his children

[@treywavvy5646]

He couldn’t even keep a straight face😂😂😂😂

[@deronreed2945]

Gurl he's just not that into you.

[@tiffanybrown1644]

He told you that he don’t want you how much more clarity do you need.

[@faithn8279]

This is sad....He dont want you honey.....Too much energy wasted on nothing..... Love yourself lady!!!

[@petaljoa8734]

He is right to do what he is doing .. she is too possessive and stresses him out so he have no other choice but to go and find peace somewhere else… just move one my dear leave her with her miserable insecurities ..

[@Bellydaughter]

he loves her but I can see why he's annoyed. but the bickering is annoying she ain't let him talk once.

[@j.d1780]

Girl you need to run🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀Please don't look back....

[@reginaharrigan7454]

She doesn't own him and sis can't stop a man from cheating

[@beryl804]

I don't even see the need for opening the phone, she has says it all

[@trebiensouth652]

What Judge Lynn Say…. Something Like Umm “Never Let A Man Tell You More Than Once He Don’t Want You”. This So Sad Man.

[@barbaracarley3601]

The TRUTH. Wake up lady.

[@asiarandolph8713]

I don't understand why people go on these shows knowing the truth and to ”find out” the truth just to stay... It's weird

[@celestineallen5148]

Leave this man alone. You are smart, intelligent and hardworking. A child cannot make you be in this toxic relationship. Jamar bye 👋

[@sallysson]

What's crazy is I'm not sure if thinks we believe him or if he actually believes himself 😮

[@doclittlejohn3261]

This is classic Narcissistic Personality psychological Abuse and gaslighting, I pray she finds her strength to leave, it is not probable he will never change, the beginning was the Love bomb web he used to get her hooked, this is a hard relationship to leave because the psychological trauma changes to the physiology of the brain as well as the hormonal changes (effects dopamine, serotonin, Oxytocin [trauma bonding} cortisol norepinephrine fight or flight) , not to mention it affects the self esteem and self worth, because they need a energy source to feed their esteem and that is the host or person they are in the relationship, they sick their energy dry (energy vampires).

[@WhiteOreotastic]

You can tell he messed her up and when she gets angry he smirks he loves hurting her. She needs to know the love she can give herself is enough. Love yourself.

[@affirmationqueen7006]

He’s right she is annoying. The man saying he don’t want you. He’s coward to say it! She’s to weak to accept it. Let it go!

[@liljuice9223]

I agree

[@sunshinestar6530]

His body language says everything. Lady.. He Does Not Want To Be With You!!!!

[@anotherlevel-e3121]

THIS IS WHY FATHERS ARE SO IMPORTANT! WOMEN NEED AN EXAMPLE BUT MOST FATHERS ARE NOT PRESENT

[@saida4292]

1st time someone tells you they don't want you best believe them! Never make excuses for their behaviour

[@terricastaples852]

Honestly he's a narcissist and she's his victim at the moment, I hope she gets the healing she deserves 💯💪❣️

[@MiamiKia]

Exactly

[@Ryahthegoat]

“Your not a tour guide” took me out a haha WOOOOOO😭🏃🏽‍♀️

[@elizabethprouddolllover641]

It's amazing how so many women know the red flag and still put on blinders.😋 You can tell she the type that only listens to respond and only listens to herself

[@Contessa_Savannah]

When she said she had no closure, that was her way of saying she still wants this and is in denial that it's over. That just revealed her addiction in the toxcity of the relationship and for that she has to hold herself accountable as why shes suffering.

[@jessicatobias9371]

Gas light at its best !!!

[@sarahwangari8461]

She is in denial. Sis, he doesn't want you. Come on. It's time to move on.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@cocochante6685]

She said she was smart. Honestly, she’s young, naive, and she’s trying to save this toxic relationship. The honey moon stage only last like two years, you will never get that back. She’s not ready to let him go. He will continue to cheat and lie about it until she chooses herself.

[@NessiWorld205]

Girl stand up he doing it in yo face and you still stay how your daughters gonna see you they deserve a strong mama

[@corneisharatcliffe8053]

I really hope she watches this, he told her she's not listening

[@deidramanson444]

I did like 3 times

[@corneisharatcliffe8053]

@@deidramanson444 don't let anyone make your decision not even your sister although she has your best interest at heart and not even me, but co-parenting isn't as bad as you think. I wish you the best!

[@deidramanson444]

Thank you❤

[@therealrenaissancewoman]

Ladies...when you keep cool you avoid confusion about who is the real fool. Always stay calm. It throws off their strategy.

[@beryl804]

Exactly, why does she need to collect 40 red flags

[@Hadiswife]

I see why he feels the way he does. She is too much....he doesn't want her and she refuses to believe it

[@babiiluv7931]

She not leaving right now. She in denial and wants him to love her the way she love him. He won’t leave for convenience. She has to be the one to leave this bozo for good regardless of the child. Just co-parent in a healthy space and leave dude TF ALONE. The nagging is just a tip of the ice berg. I don’t believe he wanted the relationship at all. Ever.

[@U9us]

When he said “I feel like I’m getting gaslighted” I died 🤣 boy bye

[@florencechiponde5628]

I really hope she left him 😔 and found someone that deserved her

[@prettydreams5916]

" I just want clarity ", how much more clarity does she need when the truth revealed itself multiple times.

[@childofgod8365]

People hating on him...why? Listen to this woman please? Nobody is making her stay but yet she is here loud ...and all crazy. He tells her, I wanted to sleep with the ex...she tells her tell me the truth....lol she should watch this....

[@theshyevelyn]

100% the man is tired,i think he needs to move in.

[@Fineeeaddiction]

I can’t believe I was this girl once… I hope she finds her worth & chooses herself! ❤️❤️

[@jjohnson8596]

She didn't have any proof of any cheating yet she's steady accusing him of cheating. That would drive any man away. I know from experience that women will have a dream or "colorful imagination" and make up story. And start believing her story or dream. Once she convinces herself that it's true she'll do anything to prove it including destroying her relationship