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@unknowngirlhehe91664 жыл бұрын
I really want to se 24 hours with millie bobby brown
@unknowngirlhehe91664 жыл бұрын
*see
@loumax89854 жыл бұрын
Dear vogue, we don't want to see people applying skincare on top of their foundation.they have like almost everything done and turn off the filters please.we need transparency, otherwise want's the point of these videos.we are not dumb.
*"I hope one day I can play a character that I actually look like."* That made me tear up a little
@tifanylately58974 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@Hello_vickyy4 жыл бұрын
i can see her playing on "insecure" or maybe "the chi"
@BarefootPsalmist4 жыл бұрын
Awwww, bless you. It really was quite moving. 🧡🧡🧡
@DestinyEkwueme4 жыл бұрын
Meee toooooo. Black girls understand how you can go you entire life not knowing what your hair looks like 😔 because people don’t care to see it
@alextroy92024 жыл бұрын
Destiny Ekwueme not me
@thebonniemonroeshow37084 жыл бұрын
Black girl hair is soooo emotional. Like... it is NOT a game. I felt her so hard when she was like, "Why am I crying over conditioner?" It's just that way sometimes. If you know, you know. We're a sisterhood, and we feel you. :-)
@janeddooee4 жыл бұрын
I’m white and I’ve cried over my curls too. It feels like it will be a lifelong journey to figure them out. And why do we put so much of our self worth into our hair?
@allisonm1274 жыл бұрын
Curly Crew Honestly , I’ve found that a lot of white people just don’t know how to deal with curly hair. I bet if you grew up with me (I’m biracial) , you would’ve loved your hair haha.
@janeddooee4 жыл бұрын
Allison M I would give so much to even have a friend with curls! The white society offers so little support for them!
@Tabby094 жыл бұрын
I'm white and finally, 2 years ago I stopped straightening my hair. Ignore my profile pic haha that was back in 2010 when I straightened every single day. When I stopped straightening, I notice all my defined curls were gone. I was shocked to find how upset this made me. All my life I was told that straight hair is the most beautiful...every girl I knew straightened their hair. After a few months of not straightening my hair and not blow drying it, all my curls returned. I comb it with leave in conditioner after I shower and let it air dry. I love and appreciate my natural curls. All my white friends straighten their curly hair but one. My hair is so much thicker. I live in Florida with extreme humidity. My curly hair loves humidity haha makes it more curly. Embrace your curly hair. Curly hair is beautiful and don't let anyone tell you different!
@carlosandmuriel4 жыл бұрын
I really do feel her...with every fiber of my BEING....this pandemic has helped me embrace my curls.....I'm going to a natural centric stylist so that she can cut the rest of this relaxer out of my hair......I cannot WAIT!!!!
@daydreamerdest4 жыл бұрын
Her crying over her hair brought tears to my eyes. I’m so glad she is loving her natural hair because it’s gorgeous!
@bananabarnett4 жыл бұрын
isn't it just! i thought she looked beautiful with the hair I've seen her with on tv and movies but her natural hair is just so much prettier AND its who SHE is. i feel so bad that so many different people have been made to suppress their culture and natural beauty, I'm glad she was able to show us her beauty in all of its glory!
@dreamsdocometrue334 жыл бұрын
My hair has made me cry many times throughout my life. I totally get how she was feeling.😭🤎
@amirhalynch31034 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful, y’all. I also starting crying because I too have curly hair and learning to love my hair after straightening it for YEARS has been a truly intense but fulfilling experience. Us curlies gotta stick together!
@bananabarnett4 жыл бұрын
I have no idea if this is weird to say to strangers on KZbin comments but imma say it anyway 😂 I’m so proud of y’all for not letting society erase and suppress your natural beauty. My aunts recently embraced their natural hair and it was so empowering to see. I was once embarrassed about my Jamaican heritage but, especially over the past few months with BLM, I have become so proud of my heritage and I really hope that this movement will truly change the world for good so black people and all ethnic minorities can flourish and be their true, authentic selves. BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!
@mikaylamc88404 жыл бұрын
Daniel Barnett it’s not weird at all and thank you so much, it means a lot
@dallaslyndlee3 жыл бұрын
I don’t think she’s crying over hair, but moreover, identity. To come out and embrace your hair, especially when it’s not accepted in society, is an emotional process. It’s accepting yourself, and it’s saying you don’t care what others say anymore. She’s taking care of herself and her hair; that’s what it’s about.
@peter7129 Жыл бұрын
She's completed her circle for self love
@its_vlkxtyz Жыл бұрын
It’s def not over hair it’s because she was getting emotional about all the abuse she was facing
@brosef5033 Жыл бұрын
Lmao hair is not accepted in society😂? Please. It’s 2023. The fact tht privileged Americans cry and whine about hair and call it oppression is baffling to me. Americans are ao out of touch with the rest of the world. While yall are offended because a white person wore braids but called them french braids over box braids, there are people starving and dying. While yall cry because a stranger on the street accidentally used the wrong pronoun, there are children being sold into slavery. People are opressed all over the world. Kat Graham is not one of those people. Get over yourselves.
@fkdkidie11 күн бұрын
@@its_vlkxtyzthat's a lie. Black women all over the world feel like we have to hide ourselves because of our hair textures. She can be crying about the abuse but also about the fact that she's embracing her natural hair texture and learning to love it
@Destiny_Echols4 жыл бұрын
“The African afro texture is not something that Hollywood has ever really embraced.. So I hope that one day I can play a character that I actually look like..” dang.
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
Says the woman who lives in green contact lenses and got a massive nose job lol
@leslie2264 жыл бұрын
r0bz1985 why you hatin on every comment ?
@mansooraabdulshakur51224 жыл бұрын
@@r0bz1985 how do u know what she got and even if she does so whatt f off
@hungrychat73044 жыл бұрын
@@r0bz1985 So you're proving her point....stupid
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
@@hungrychat7304 that makes no sense
@Emilia-eq5nn4 жыл бұрын
Why is nobody talking about Kat? Talk about her! She literally just cried in front of camera because of the struggles she's had with her natural hair, and loving and accepting it. This is her first vid like this and she is the most genuine celebrity I have seen! All of this is so genuine, I came here cuz I saw Kat's face, but now I have such a deeep respect and love for her.
@Maria-xu4vd4 жыл бұрын
I’m so used to calling her Bonnie that for a second I was like who’s Kat😂 but I agree!
@mamifall78194 жыл бұрын
you are right
@TheWonderGirl234 жыл бұрын
I mean this is the real hair journey for many black girls and women or mixed girls and women. Personally, I was blessed to be raised by my black mom who knew and understood how to do my hair which is 4C curl pattern through time, effort, knowledge, and the legacy of life skills my grandmother passed to her. Even that wasn’t enough just in my immediate family all our hair textures are so different even though we’ve had similar hair struggles. But the pride we have through our hair by loving it, accepting it, growing with it, and working with it is priceless. It’s a everyday process and sometimes you have those bad days where you wrap it put it in a bonnet and call it a day. Lol. I’m glad she showed this side of her, I never thought to think during Vampire Dairies she was using sew ins and wigs (it makes sense) but in my opinion her natural hair is beautiful and makes her look younger.
@thebodysuitlady65914 жыл бұрын
So true
@thebodysuitlady65914 жыл бұрын
@@Maria-xu4vd me too
@auroraseyets85163 жыл бұрын
"I hope that I one day can play a character that I actually look like." That was just so deep.
@Abi-zv4jc3 жыл бұрын
@r0bz why are u so horrible surely you have something better to do
@himetilsits19363 жыл бұрын
@r0bz yes u are right,why 😩?
@himetilsits19363 жыл бұрын
@r0bz yes is true, she is insecure and wish to look more like a white woman 😌
@adeyemoifemade78323 жыл бұрын
@r0bz you see you are miserable now stfu and stop being annoying and commenting the same thing
@Jessicaro3 жыл бұрын
then she should apply to play a black girl with black hair. what is the problem? she knew they would ask of her to wear a wig i doubt nina in the vampire diaries wanted to keep her hair in that same style for all those years. it is a role you play a job you get payed for people need to stop acting as if she hadn't a choice.
@navya3vedi3 жыл бұрын
Her actual real hair would have complemented her role in the Vampire Diaries. She has such beautiful hair! She's so pretty naturally! Would love to see her in a role that would respect her natural self! ALSO VAMPIRE DIARIES WOULD HAVE BEEN NOTHING WITHOUT YOU! YOU ARE A STAR!!
@paulabdul45053 жыл бұрын
She's doesn't even wear her hair like this! She wears nothing but wigs to this day!
@isabellamurungi43663 жыл бұрын
Yessss❤️🙌🏾
@shacks292 жыл бұрын
@Diamond James She still wears wigs to this day more than her natural hair...
@Sarah-di7vx2 жыл бұрын
@@shacks29 do we blame her??
@kaylanawilliams69372 жыл бұрын
@@shacks29 Look at the roles she still to this day is playing and what they require of her. It's easy to sit on here and say someone is wrong when you aren't in their position or have a job like them
@chidimmambbahoffor4 жыл бұрын
She's like "why am I crying? This is so stupid." But am over here crying too cos it's so touching to have a caring friend.
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
No she's right it's stupid to cry over hair. Kim there's people that are dying
@chidimmambbahoffor4 жыл бұрын
@@r0bz1985 yea its stupid to cry over hair but hair isn't what brought her to tears actually. It is her friend who could think abt her future situation and contributed to it by making life easier for her.
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
@@chidimmambbahoffor if she went to hair dressers she could easily asked for tips. I guess she's a stupid person
@chidimmambbahoffor4 жыл бұрын
@@r0bz1985 Don't be hateful. I know we are all going through things. But don't take yours out on her. Pls
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
@@chidimmambbahoffor this has nothing to do with me. Kat is a stupid person for not asking hair dressers who are hair professionals for advice while she was already there.
@avanicole39014 жыл бұрын
when she said “i hope one day i can play a character that i actually look like” that made me so sad. she is so naturally beautiful! she doesn’t deserve to have to change for others, especially something that she can’t control. i love her hair so much. she deserves so much better.
@avanicole39013 жыл бұрын
@r0bz definition of privilege
@stefansalvas18543 жыл бұрын
@r0bz ok and u insecure person if that’s what’s makes her happy let her be I know you wouldn’t say this to madison beer who’s had eyebrows lifts lips plums but you still call her natural beauty stop hating on her if this what she likes to do u idiot commenting on every reply.
@eunikemanurung47793 жыл бұрын
@r0bz it's really funny that you think you're really doing something with these tremendously ignorant comments. go watch content you actually like and care about ffs
@eunikemanurung47793 жыл бұрын
@r0bz just like no one asked for your irrelevant ones you cretin
@brittanyg47813 жыл бұрын
@r0bz ur literally so obsessed with Kat that ur under every comment, it’s funny yet sad, just say ur soooooo in love with her that it hurts and go
@kinara50863 жыл бұрын
She cried over hair, this is why diversity is important to be showcased on tv and social media, and celebrated. So that lil girls grow up beleiveing that theyre not ugly but beautiful.❤
@zyond.50363 жыл бұрын
@Lisa crawford no such thing as “good hair” in the way you’re using it. Healthy hair is good hair. Having looser curls patterns or straight hair does not mean you have good hair.
@Kedesh143 жыл бұрын
@Lisa crawford girl bye
@DiamondJazelle933 жыл бұрын
@Lisa crawford You sound so ignorant 🙄
@jacquelinehilliard91193 жыл бұрын
I think she's also crying because of her journey with those racist people on Vampire Diaries
@Thatbitch_933 жыл бұрын
Yes yes!!!!!
@yaldahsamadi78463 жыл бұрын
the worst part is the fact that she felt stupid about crying over her hair becuase thats what society has taught her. This woman does not deserve that. Poor Kat, i wish i could hug her. :( Her hair doesnt make her any less beautiful, i think she is one of the prettiest girls out there. Nothing can change that.
@coralxaffinnity3675 Жыл бұрын
As someone who has the same hair type as her, i love this comment sm
@hjaida97794 жыл бұрын
No ones gonna talk about how she is literally glowing she is so beautiful
@greertheodore47994 жыл бұрын
Yessss!!!
@synthiasadio34634 жыл бұрын
Wait...... ok I talked bye imma go say some more
@ashantiboo4 жыл бұрын
frrr
@shavashapowell75474 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@jessicamavila24174 жыл бұрын
Vous en pensez quoi si les gens commencent à faire ces genres des vidéos ?? 🤦🏽♀️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHilgYCqgdiIjqs
@camillasabatino95744 жыл бұрын
The fact that I’ve never seen her natural hair before on the vampire diaries is kinda crazy...
@micahwilliams13324 жыл бұрын
I realized that when I last rewatched it. She may have had braids once...
@Anakin7374 жыл бұрын
Micah Williams Don’t bother clicking on that link above, it’s literally just some stupid song which has nothing to do with Bonnie’s hair on tvd.
@RosePetal2224 жыл бұрын
same
@micahwilliams13324 жыл бұрын
fandomheart thanks. ThT was random
@nyakechnyangi70034 жыл бұрын
i saw this and thouh the same...I wish she could have worn her hair on the show
@lusekosivenathidiki39844 жыл бұрын
"i HOPE THAT ONE DAY I PLAY A CHARACTER THAT I ACTUALLY LOOK LIKE" felt that!
@jessicamavila24174 жыл бұрын
Vous en pensez quoi si les gens commencent à faire ces genres des vidéos ?? 🤦🏽♀️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHilgYCqgdiIjqs
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
Says the woman who lives in green contact lenses
@hummingbird41294 жыл бұрын
🗣 Volumes
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
@@hummingbird4129 when you play a character you play someone else you are not playing yourself. I don't think she has to worry about it tho cause she does not get any acting roles anymore 😂
@barsharsathe96884 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/l4mpmqptgbB-orc please watch
@Alina-st5vj3 жыл бұрын
I love Kat’s transparency in this. As a black woman I completely feel her and when she cried I cried too! It’s deeper than just hair.
@diopfifi49372 жыл бұрын
It's absolutely deeper than hair.
@bethanyflarrety465610 ай бұрын
@diopfifi4937 Her real hair is gorgeous I would love to have seen her afro on tvd, all hair textures are beautiful ❤
@lonexmo16054 жыл бұрын
It hurts me to see how society has affected black girls throughout the years. Everyone should be able to embrace their natural beauty.
@jessicamavila24174 жыл бұрын
Vous en pensez quoi si les gens commencent à faire ces genres des vidéos ?? 🤦🏽♀️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHilgYCqgdiIjqs
@eyecolor96484 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@aanyamallick77474 жыл бұрын
Yass girl. I'm black, but I'm also Syrian/Indian. And it's hard enough putting my hair in one. That's why I love having someone cornrowing, plaiting and styling my hair for school/events(But I can also comb my hair but it's really long and have so much body). I was born and am living in Jamaica and it's so hard finding products that are good for my hair type,so I experiment ALOT, all of my siblings have different hair types. My older sisters hair is more afro, and a bit curly(kinda like 3c), she couldn't manage it so she choose to cream it🤣. My mom is Syrian/Chinese so her hair is wavy,have body and really long. Also, guys try onion, coconut oil, eggs and avocado in your hair, it's great and healthy
@marym14764 жыл бұрын
If only we knew.
@lonexmo16054 жыл бұрын
It’s Makaela Shes mixed with black. Her dad is black... well America Liberian which have African American Ancestry. And her mom is Jewish.
@lisa-minniezondi31184 жыл бұрын
When she started crying when she spoke about her hair, I FELT THAT. Crying while doing your hair is a different kind of pain. Especially for women who have 4C type hair.
@arp55464 жыл бұрын
Minnie well at least her hair isnt 4c. I know the struggles of true 4c. 😑
@biscoffology4 жыл бұрын
@@arp5546 would u say its 4b??
@haircrazygirl4 жыл бұрын
It's too bad she didn't have help getting to know her hair as a kid.
@queenblessyy4 жыл бұрын
She definitely has 4b
@knotalie4 жыл бұрын
@@queenblessyy her hair is probably 3c just because you could see her true curl pattern when its wet... i know a lot of people who thought the had type 4 hair because they only really paid attention to how it looked in its dry state hahaha
@natesoto69544 жыл бұрын
When she cried over finding a product that works for her curls... I felt that
@redglasses334 жыл бұрын
been natural 2 years and have yet to find a product for my hair. May give that conditioner a try
@Gem-n-life4 жыл бұрын
Sweet Fee -As much as it pains, don’t keep buying a lot of products. I could open a salon with all of my hair care products (I probably use 10 products right now). Journal your hair care, step by step with the products you use. Try to use the same products, in the same order for a month. I know you’ve heard it a million times, and I am honestly still trying to find the right balance, but water is the most important ingredient to your healthcare. Try to find a KZbinr, with your hair type, porosity, density, and length, to watch. Take care and stay Be-You-Tiful.
@DanieB3224 жыл бұрын
SAMEEEE
@feliciarondon54864 жыл бұрын
Me toooo
@ToyaRR4 жыл бұрын
@@redglasses33 hi check out Afope Atoyebi's youtube channel. Search her name along with film forming humectants. I too had extremely dry hair for a few years. Afope speaks on what I found out through trial an error - film forming humectants is the way to go. My go to is sea moss jell (a film forming humectant). I melt it in warm water, let it cool and use that as a moisturizer and then seal it in with oil or grease. Hope that helps.
@hushdolll51123 жыл бұрын
The way she cried about her hair hit me SO HARD as a 15 year old blck girl who’s still learning to control her hair :)
@chamham67343 жыл бұрын
Don’t say control sis. Say embraces, our hair doesn’t need to be controlled or tamed. 🥰
@thekims62712 жыл бұрын
Hey , why is it like that ? What's wrong with hair ? Is it because it's too curly?
@teafallbliss34092 жыл бұрын
@@thekims6271 Because white dominated cultures invented the modern concepts of race to justify racism, and decriminalize everything preceding the 3 pronged global slave trade. East asians were called yellow, natives/mid-east were called red, Africans/Jamaicans were called black while the now called "race" with the most blood on their hands ironically were called white to symbolize narcissistically incorrect purity which Hitler was a fan of.
@hi-wl7ly2 жыл бұрын
ugh yes, trying to get it tobstay dowm for school is such a struggle :(
@nehaverma65082 жыл бұрын
Your skin is beautiful I hope I also have same...
@cambriajolika4 жыл бұрын
This was one of the realist Vogue episodes in a long time. Her vulnerabilities showed right through the camera lens and the struggle is real especially dealing with natural hair with people of color. Societal norms and especially working in entertainment have white washed the perception of beauty. Kat should know and always know that she is beautiful.
I hope she reads these comments. They're so encouraging
@canaldazany4 жыл бұрын
only black woman understand how powerful and spiritual it is to start owning and using YOUR hair. I got emotional with her. Its powerful
@AB-yk2pq4 жыл бұрын
White people can have curcly hair
@babydijonay55944 жыл бұрын
@@silentsubscriber4019 who is use to wearing it since birth and that hair type is accepted.. black women are programmed as a child to adjust their hair texture or cover it up
@jessicamarie64484 жыл бұрын
@@silentsubscriber4019 What about them? We’re talking about black women because we are black women.
@JLDReactions4 жыл бұрын
@@silentsubscriber4019 Most Middle Eastern women don't have type 4 hair. It's not uncommon, but most definitely not the majority. Type 4 is the least accepted by society because like most things, anything associated with blackness is seen as inferior.
@itzclo4 жыл бұрын
@@JLDReactions thank you. i swear the "what about me" train is NEVER late
@simplyshama4 жыл бұрын
Feel like every black woman can relate to this video. Especially when she broke down. It's so much more than hair. It's identity, culture, societal "worth". Very refreshing to see a woman with type 4 hair on Vogue
@serenaperez37304 жыл бұрын
i love this comment so much
@laylacore29594 жыл бұрын
Exactly used to straighten the shut out of mine but now I’ve learnt to live and manage it
@andriaalves54664 жыл бұрын
I think every girl who has curl hair I'm withe but my mom and graph are black But my father and his family is withe So turns that I'm like really with But my hair is curl and it's really difficult deal with the power of this. Because I'm to lasy too
@sweetlilangel7144 жыл бұрын
I cried with her because trying to find the right product, learning about your hair, also wasting your money in the process takes a toll.
@marissastrong52094 жыл бұрын
Yonique Waisome I dmed you on instagram 😁
@Heartcore903 жыл бұрын
After this video, I did a bit of a dive on her past. She is a super hard working girl. All these mistreatment stories really shocked me. I always thought she was the most beautiful girl on TVD. Really a pity what she had to endure. I don't know if she would ever read this, but we are rooting for you Kat!
@Heartcore903 жыл бұрын
@r0bz _ I don't have Instagram :) But I would think there is still a difference between wanting to wear them and expected to wear them, no?
@lokunmisanyaolu27162 жыл бұрын
Honestly she is just so beautiful
@UGOOMERO4 жыл бұрын
“I hope that one day, I can play a character that I actually look like”. Smh... Whew, that hit me so hard. My hair is the exact same! Very honest, very beautiful. I toast you ! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@msprettyyoungthing204 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@starj17644 жыл бұрын
Sameee
@caitmonroe17184 жыл бұрын
her character in cut throat city is 😍😍
@jadaslays95914 жыл бұрын
“I hope I can play a character that I actually look like.” That qoute hits hard
@folakemiawosoga4 жыл бұрын
I cut my hair after 4 years of being natural😪kzbin.info/www/bejne/nZTXfIRugt5_ZrM..please show me some love and support 😭
@rahafray4 жыл бұрын
True it does
@jadalawes31064 жыл бұрын
Bro Jada’s my name
@jadaslays95914 жыл бұрын
@@jadalawes3106 broooo sameee ahhh loll
@Milanomani4 жыл бұрын
Very powerful
@ssnow084 жыл бұрын
when she cried and apologized.... NOOO you don't have to apologize! Tbh the shows she's been on should apologize to HER (looking @ you, TVD)
@florentina95474 жыл бұрын
Foreal man , they did her dirty the entire show over
@1diva2dbone3 жыл бұрын
r0bz Her eyes are naturally green/hazel so stop lying and she has shown her real hair but always straight and pressed flat never her natural kinky coils. Stop the hate!
@Joker-iq2dk3 жыл бұрын
@r0bz so body shaming is ok?
@Joker-iq2dk3 жыл бұрын
@r0bz thata he natural nose you weirdo
@Joker-iq2dk3 жыл бұрын
@r0bz And it doesnt matter if she still wears wigs sometimes.
@rinoa78963 жыл бұрын
Watching Kat cry brought me to tears, you can really see the pain in her eyes with what she’s had to deal with over the years especially the mistreatment during TVD. Her hair is absolutely beautiful! What an Amazing, strong women inside & out. Wish all the best for her got a lot of love.
@kimsasha16074 жыл бұрын
I love how honest she’s being about Hollywood acceptance even on vogue she should have been on her before so many other ppl she been main stream actor for so long.
@tifanylately58974 жыл бұрын
Amen
@LILaw-db9yr4 жыл бұрын
Her story is TOO familiar. I attended an all-female, historically black college and I, along with so many of my sisters had to go through that same moment... we never had to deal with our natural hair, alone. What a real and relatable, raw moment.
@Serenityblu234 жыл бұрын
I'm debating on going to hbc or going some place else. I feel I would be viewed as different by my peers. I not that's not the case I just feel like that
@kelli244 жыл бұрын
Serenityblu23 feel the exact same way!!
@Serenityblu234 жыл бұрын
@@kelli24 i thought i was the only one
@kelli244 жыл бұрын
Serenityblu23 nope! i’ve lived in a predominantly white neighborhood growing up & once junior high & highschool hit diversity began to increase & i began to hangout with different types of people, including my first all black friend group, it was really nice to have people that looked like ME but i still found it hard to fit in with them & felt like i COULD be myself but NOT myself in a way & felt judged. but, i have the same concerns i really want to go to a hbcu to have that experience, representation, & just be with people that had the same struggles as me but found myself hesitant due to not wanting to be judged :/
@KB-sj8hb4 жыл бұрын
Serenityblu23 go to an hbcu
@priscillalynn13304 жыл бұрын
Her crying talking about her experience with her natural hair is something many black women can relate to🥺 Kat’s such a beautiful person
@ericakm4 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@alexandrajohnson15804 жыл бұрын
Yes, I just wanted to hug her and let her know she's not alone.
@bribrebri4 жыл бұрын
Yep!
@Khem_72 жыл бұрын
I really empathized with Kat's emotions during: 4:41-5:10 - I don't think those who were not born with highly textured African/Afro-textured hair will really grasp how much hair care is a big deal in the Nubian/Black community internationally. So thank you for highlighting your hair care routine and being vulnerable Kat, much appreciated!😊💫
@AnaleiaKate3 жыл бұрын
People don't realize that she wasn't just crying about her hair, there's something deeper 🥺
@kelly__90563 жыл бұрын
The ✨ *racism* ✨she had to go through as an actress. I don't know when we will get accepted to be our natural selves
@deadchannel36103 жыл бұрын
Exactly, i hate when yt's said like "it's just hair." Hair is your crown, it can tell so many stories. Thats why they chopped off native american and korean hair so they would lose themselves.
@sapphire28253 жыл бұрын
It was racism she had to experience working with Hollywood they did her dirty and she is still thankful
@STEPHIEoficial3 жыл бұрын
Yeah RACISM
@brookejohnson82893 жыл бұрын
@@deadchannel3610 exactly our hair is a big part of us and our culture!
@selamdestaaa4 жыл бұрын
This woman is being so stunning whilst also being so vulnerable. How refreshing. :)
@tahiyath70494 жыл бұрын
amzn.to/2Fst3e5
@samarabigdream99834 жыл бұрын
😍
@a.d.w83854 жыл бұрын
The most disrespected yet most valuable character on tvd was Bonnie Bennet.
@olavihekandjo29284 жыл бұрын
If she was made the most valuable, then how was she the most disrespected?
@calmeshera41314 жыл бұрын
I agree, she literally saved the world. She deserved better. To me she was the strongest witch and female character in TVD. Followed by Caroline
@queenofsheba10004 жыл бұрын
Truth
@opaquea24484 жыл бұрын
I want her to produce her own show and get better treatment
@Nikksinterlude4 жыл бұрын
Niyah R you sound like you haven’t watched the show.
@angelwingz6223 жыл бұрын
I cannot believe this is the first time seeing her natural hair texture. ❤
@paulabdul45053 жыл бұрын
The reason it's your first time seeing it is because she still wears nothing but wigs. She's full of sht and doesn't wear her hair thisbway
@keepingitnatural76013 жыл бұрын
She doesn’t even need the makeup. Just absolutely beautiful.
@thecuantocabronshow50723 жыл бұрын
Exactly, i saw no change
@cry57703 жыл бұрын
She doesnt wear make up because she needs it. Stop with this mentality.
@josieallen65223 жыл бұрын
YES
@gracedean29573 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same. She is gorgeous with make up or with out the make up.
@pattyoficial5673 жыл бұрын
She's Amasing.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@AshleyBunni4 жыл бұрын
the fact that she’s crying as she reminisces about realizing that her natural hair is beautiful just shows how much of an affect black women’s hair in specific has a huge impact on our lives and how the standards of society can really take a toll, ESPECIALLY on black women.. 😞
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
Oh shut up
@barsharsathe96884 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/l4mpmqptgbB-orc please watch
@Chris-zq5ew4 жыл бұрын
r0bz1985 what is wrong with you
@ninobk1964 жыл бұрын
@@r0bz1985 This is so rude...telling people to "Shut up"?? Such a lack of respect. I hope you can find a better vocabulary to express yourself and learn how to be respectful to other people.
@shitwipe4 жыл бұрын
r0bz1985 go listen to your mariah carey playlist
@rosalia34684 жыл бұрын
I hope this doesn’t offend any black women at all but it makes me angry to see that black women can’t show their beautiful natural hair! It’s so unfair. Black is beautiful. Your features are absolutely gorgeous, your skin is angelic and so so glowingly gorgeous. Your hair is so freaking perfect. Don’t let anyone ever tell you different.
@djshockafrica43304 жыл бұрын
Thank you dear
@CaraDowneyeroticromanceauthor4 жыл бұрын
No offence taken... thank you love!
@mirandasmith85014 жыл бұрын
No offense at all.
@carima75954 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right!I am black and proudly rocking my natural hair. I hope more of us embrace our natural crown!
@k.c.45144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! This comment makes me feel so much better about being black, we need more people like you in the world!!! Much love ❤
@elisabethwaldron3192 Жыл бұрын
Watching this almost three years later… her testimony still hits hard, she really showed the world the struggles of learning to love your hair as a black/biracial woman❤
@MixedChick1 Жыл бұрын
she is mixed not black
@kaileighmosley9317 Жыл бұрын
@@MixedChick1she literally said black/ BIRACIAL. key word, BIRACIAL
@MixedChick1 Жыл бұрын
@@kaileighmosley9317 It's just biracial woman not black/biracial woman!.
@destinygallien670611 ай бұрын
@@MixedChick1yes she said it correct as black/biracial woman because being biracial means you are two different ethnicities, for example white and Asian, Mexican and Indian anything. She said Black biracial meaning she is biracial, and her other side is black
@mayc30514 жыл бұрын
My husband and I always talk about how she was literally the most beautiful one on Vampire diaries!! She is stunning!
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
Uh Elena says hi. But she didn't age well tho. Oh Stefan says hi as well
@fabianacarrascoguzman68034 жыл бұрын
@@r0bz1985 i don't see why we have to compare bonnie and elena🙄
@5verse4634 жыл бұрын
@@fabianacarrascoguzman6803 don't pay attention to them, they're replying to every comment about Kat and being disrespectful.
@AlmeGonzalez4 жыл бұрын
Agree and Hayley is one of the prettiest one too
@Lawlifelost4 жыл бұрын
I feel Ian was more beautiful and stunning🙃🙃🙃
@SummerRenaissance4 жыл бұрын
I always wondered why they put you in these “horrible” wigs on TVD. Sis, Kat, all of us black girls can relate to the depth of the natural hair journey and we appreciate the honesty. I hope you’ll be able to do more roles that allow your natural crown to come through. Glad you’re wearing it with your head up high, Queen. We love you ❤️
@creolito96004 жыл бұрын
The only god wig was season 4 with the bang, the rest was not it
@_.1jaliyah2114 жыл бұрын
The only one I saw that was good was when she was with enzo.🙄🤦🏽
@angelinahilton86744 жыл бұрын
What hair product did she use?
@JJW10284 жыл бұрын
Omg i know. They made me mad when they put her in those bad wigs. There was only like one good wig
@yamondiholmes84864 жыл бұрын
_.1jaliyah ** yep
@crystalbgood8314 жыл бұрын
I'm really saddened by the fact, that I NEVER knew this is what her hair really looked like. In all of TVD I cannot believe they never showed her real hair even once. It also makes me sad that her mother never tried to educate herself on how to take care of her daughters hair. I'm happy for her that she is embracing her natural hair. She looks so happy and beautiful :)
@616burberry4 жыл бұрын
I always admired how beautiful her hair looks on vampire diaries .. until now , I didn’t know it was a lace. I’m happy a lot of black women are embracing there natural hair . I’m glad she loving her natural hair and embracing it
@HoneyHoney-yf6nd4 жыл бұрын
Fact
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
She always wears wigs even now. Check her Insta all wigs
@jasmentea74444 жыл бұрын
Super off topic but I love your pfp
@crystalbgood8314 жыл бұрын
@@jasmentea7444 if this was meant for me, Thank you! It is one of my many obsessions 💜🥰
@beatselekta4 жыл бұрын
My ignorance is showing... I had no idea that her hair on TVD wasn't her own. I almost cried with her when she got emotional about never being able to show the hair she was born with.
@CR-ce5lf4 жыл бұрын
It’s not ignorance, so many people just never focused on her hair because they were more into the characters and storylines. We have to start being open, understanding and accepting of those who don’t look like us and have empathy because our situations are totally different.
@beatselekta4 жыл бұрын
@@CR-ce5lf You're so right. Thank you for responding to my comment :)
@iansomerhalderfanpage59753 жыл бұрын
Hi Emma
@keriilouis64573 жыл бұрын
@@iansomerhalderfanpage5975 make some content .
@breekwhal3 жыл бұрын
You thought her hair was naturally straight?
@alinacepeda94444 жыл бұрын
You can almost feel that her hair and her blackness in her career life and personal life was a huge obstacle for her as she grew up. When she started crying I almost felt how frustrating it must have been for her over the years, bc I went thru the same thing realizing my blackness and embracing it. She is so stunning and I love her
@n.latricia33304 жыл бұрын
When she cried over her hair I felt that so bad, it’s so hard trying to tame my hair and finding the right product is such a relief for natural hair.
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
I cringed. Crying about hair? Stfu!
@lifegoeson10074 жыл бұрын
My hair gets dry easily so, I try to just use simpler products and increase my water intake
@nyah0644 жыл бұрын
r0bz1985 so glad no one argued with you because they saw the ignorance and knew not to even waste there time but I write this hoping you get a clue god bless you
@mariahstankey4 жыл бұрын
@@r0bz1985 Bro shut up she has feelings and i would cry too! :\
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
@@nyah064 I said wtf I said.. 😒
@tenisiadavis54353 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. My heart goes out to her but I’m so glad she’s embracing and accepting of her own hair. Young girls need to see this
@dominiqueboyer33074 жыл бұрын
It really isn't "just hair", and this is so great to see on such a large platform so that other girls can watch this and find the beauty in their natural hair. The entertainment industry needs to do a better job representing black women in our natural state. Love Kat Graham!
@tahiyath70494 жыл бұрын
amzn.to/2Fst3e5
@travelingfromwithintanzani80054 жыл бұрын
You are definitely sure😘
@taigangahagan7684 жыл бұрын
My god this woman is naturally gorgeous I swear she looks like she hasn't aged since her role as Bonnie bennet !!
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
The show only ended in 2017 it was not that long ago
@lifegoeson10074 жыл бұрын
eatjinskookie yeah but, some people don’t age that quickly, good genes and taking care of theirselves 😐
@TheRealSiahA4 жыл бұрын
black doesn’t crack
@daughterofyah62094 жыл бұрын
@@r0bz1985 a lot of her cast members have aged
@avad16314 жыл бұрын
r0bz1985 u are replying every comment negatively 💀 like boy please
@American_Boy4 жыл бұрын
Her hair is GORGEOUS 😍
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
No it's not. She doesn't seem to think much of it either putting it away in a housewife bun
@alz2sxi4 жыл бұрын
@@r0bz1985 HER HAIR IS GORGEOUS WETHER YOU AGREE OR NOT. Also, why are you replying to everyone’s comments, you seem not to have a life. Anyways, have a good day.😘
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
@@alz2sxi if its so gorgeous why is she still wearing wigs in all her insta pix?
@alz2sxi4 жыл бұрын
@@r0bz1985 It’s her preference, the fact that she wears wigs doesn’t take away the beauty of her natural hair; what she puts on her hair is none of your business. And please stop, your replies sound really dumb. K bye✌🏼
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
@@alz2sxi it's her preference to wear wigs get a nose job and wear green contact lenses so she should stop crying and being a baby. She's fake
@DiscoverywithBecky3 жыл бұрын
All love to people like Rachel Lee, who help others embrace who they truly are!! Much love to Kat on this journey of finding out how fun her hair really is
@YO-vv8ee3 жыл бұрын
Who’s Rachel lee?
@fifthstr4 жыл бұрын
It’s not just hair. IT HAS NEVER BEEN JUST HAIR.
@arianaamores71474 жыл бұрын
Bonnie the Bennett witch Exactly it’s just hair it’s a blessing to feel beautiful comfortable and manageable in you hair and skin
@blackkatt7774 жыл бұрын
When they right in laws and rules about your hair...no, it's not just hair.
@alextroy92024 жыл бұрын
blackkatt777 exactly when you can get kicked out, discriminated against bc of your hair it’s not just hair
@wairimurommy52304 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who's never seen her real hair? I love her even more especially for showing her vulnerability. 💛
@hamiyed22454 жыл бұрын
her what ??? what do you mean by "her vulnerability" ? she has a nice hair. why does it have to be a vulnerability ?
@wairimurommy52304 жыл бұрын
@@hamiyed2245 You clearly did not watch the video.
@98tam4 жыл бұрын
hami yed please rewatch and listen carefully.
@Isabelm0rriss4 жыл бұрын
@@hamiyed2245 exactly i agree, she has lovely hair how is it a vulnerability. It may make her feel vulnerable since she never shows it but its beautiful
@wairimurommy52304 жыл бұрын
@@Isabelm0rriss First of all, can you just look up the meaning of the statement “showing one's vulnerability”. Secondly, no one said her hair is a “vulnerability” smh.
@kachetcrenshaw63924 жыл бұрын
To all the interracial parents out there especially those who have biracial kids with a black person please try to learn how to do kinky hair. It is important for your child to grow up learning about their hair. So they won't have to go a lifetime depending on someone else to know how to because at the end of the day those people won't always be around. That part of this video spoke volumes to me. Kinky hair isn't a "societal beauty norm" here in America but it is BEAUTIFUL and if you learn how to take care of it it will in turn flourish. You'll be fine Kat!
@CybrV-14 жыл бұрын
if you have a biracial baby with a black person and you can’t handle their hair that should be child neglect. hair is so important to black people and these moms should make an effort to educate their kids on it.
@libragoddess982874 жыл бұрын
@@CybrV-1 i somewhat understand. I just don't think it's child neglect if parents let other people do their children hair if they know how to. Yes they should educate themselves but it's still not child neglect in my eyes. My mom who is black btw would let people do my hair until i grew up and started doing my hair myself.
@brittanydoss17994 жыл бұрын
Latifah Maarbach I get what you’re saying but h they don’t even bother. It should be mandatory. Kats mom didn’t even try.
@hellopolishedox77364 жыл бұрын
@@CybrV-1 I understand what you're saying, but black hair isn't a monolith. My mom has a completely different texture and need than mine. Styling? No problem. Care? Not entirely, but didn't kill my hair. Stylists that know what they're doing can give a better idea of what to do and what not to do.
@brittanydoss17994 жыл бұрын
Rhiza Cope this is about biracial kids tho so stay on topic. I
@januckey1 Жыл бұрын
I cried with her. Being “alone” with your natural hair can be overwhelming even for black women who are use to taking care of and managing their own hair, but for someone who has never had to face or deal with it themselves, to do it for the first time and realize you will be ok is very emotional. Kat is beautiful and I hate that she was treated so poorly on TVD. She didn’t deserve how they treated her and I hope she is happier than she has ever been.🥰
@brittanylight15494 жыл бұрын
Watching a black woman get this emotional over her hair made me realize everything I've taking for granted as a white women in the united states. The power of black women in this country inspire me to be a better woman, person, And friend. My heart aches for the struggles these woman go through that I will never understand. God bless everyone.
@princessjas134 жыл бұрын
Reading this made me emotional thank you and God bless you too🙏🏾
@noku._.4 жыл бұрын
Thank you carry that you because black girls have days where they wake up and feel completely ugly at the age of 9 because of their hair I'm an example but I'm learning my hair's happiness weaknesses and strengths may God bless you
@briannamcgill72024 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your words
@tarunikaramesh634 жыл бұрын
I like that even tho u r a white woman u understand her struggles its really good ☺🙂🙂🙂
@holyghostgirlb4 жыл бұрын
💙💙💙
@angelab30764 жыл бұрын
She’s so beautiful. Not even just looks.
@Breezy11harvard4 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@bombshellbunni4 жыл бұрын
True!
@suziebelieber73634 жыл бұрын
Yes
@carolliz4 жыл бұрын
I didn't know her but she got me in this video. 👏👏
@briankrishna17363 жыл бұрын
She is crying 😢 because she is finally able to embrace who she really is and it’s beautiful to see her walk into her power in front of all of us
@catherinegilmore27093 жыл бұрын
So beautiful; inside and out. I cried when she cried. I didn't know she went through all that on TVD and it broke my heart for her. So happy she sees her beauty like we do. I hope she's still rocking her natural hair.
@linzym.nunezc.12074 жыл бұрын
OH MY. This is why I ALWAYS say: hair is not just “hair”. I hate that most people minimize the fact that your hair is a big thing, it really matters. When people with a “softer” usually straight texture aka the one everybody want you to believe is the “best one” say that I shouldn’t worry about my hair I just wanna cry cause they don't know the EFFORT it takes for me to accept my natural hair when there’s a whole world telling me that I should change it’s natural way or how I treat it/style it. Quarantine was game changer for me, like everybody, I had to deal with my hair by myself. Since I was 6 my mom straightened my hair EVERY WEEK. Hence why I thought that was my destiny, to keep on straightening it till I die. Which is sad af cause once It gets wet (like every time I went to the beach) I just didn’t know what to do, literally. I've felt SO bad when i see how other girls just "do nothing" and their hair looks “good” while I have to struggle to feel ok, I stopped taking pictures of myself cause of it. And a friend of mine, when I was in high school made a joke about my hair that till this very day I haven't forget. I couldn’t handle it. So 2 months ago I made my mind up and decided that I can grow and rock my natural hair. Saddest part is that my fam don’t agree with it cause they think I’m gonna look “different”. I’m gonna prove them “different” and natural are beautiful as well.
@maureendehayem71764 жыл бұрын
Oh girl, sending you so much love it takes courage to do what you did!! I truly hope that you will learn how to do the right things for you hair and prove them wrong. Keep going!
@Monkee1014 жыл бұрын
🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡
@ESgirly884 жыл бұрын
I feel you! Let´s prove them :) natural hair can be soo beautiful when you take care of it properly. Now I like my natural curls way more better than straight hair ! One thing that changed my life was finger coiling and creams :) I´m wishing you good luck !
@Amanda-hq9of4 жыл бұрын
good for you!! just keep with it! it’s a long haul to grow out the damage, learn to care for it properly and put effort into it, that it’s easy to just quit and start straightening it again, but who wants to look like everybody else? it’s overrated. I’m sorry you don’t have support! And I think some people don’t realize how long lasting their words can be, because they forget probably just as quickly as they said it but the one it’s directed to carries it with them long after. Just try to rationalize that it was probably more about her own insecurities than anything about you and keep doing you, girl!
@Miya-pz1xh4 жыл бұрын
You got this despite of what everyone say and your family❤️❤️. Our type of “different” is beautiful and we can’t allow society to tear it down . I whole heartedly feel that you would look beautiful with your curls and I don’t even have to see you, straight hair is sooooo over rated and played out and as long as you know you look beautiful with your natural hair then no one can’t tell you other wise. I give you my support if no one else does ( not that it matters) ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
@rihannaali19903 жыл бұрын
Even Ian known how Kat was treating really bad. Julie planned on making a season 9 but Kat said season 8 was her last season lan announced he wasn’t coming back either if she left, he left. He wants her to have strong story arc. Not just dead and dead all the seasons.
@peachydreams7683 жыл бұрын
What do you mean what did I miss who was treating her bad
@OCR4613 жыл бұрын
Yes honestly that series is very not so poc oriented
@leviackerman25553 жыл бұрын
It’s actually disappointing how people treat each other
@Heavenbound11243 жыл бұрын
@@Klynker exactly I was shocked she carried Vampire Diaries
@evelynmucio42073 жыл бұрын
Nina also didn’t want to come back for it
@solenemankou81514 жыл бұрын
I'll never forget Julie Plecc for what she did to her character. Bonnie Bennett deserved better and so did Kat!
@jasminecrutchfield82164 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@jessieesours87624 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Crutchfield what happened?
@adore76684 жыл бұрын
@@jessieesours8762 her bf Enzo died at the end of tvd...so she didn't get a happy end...ppl are being over dramatic lol
@kellymorgan9174 жыл бұрын
I know. I feel the same. They did her so wrong.
@mariama124 жыл бұрын
Dynasty The Gemini exactly! She was constantly pushed to the side and for someone to simplify it as “her bf died and people are being dramatic” lacks so much nuance. the trope of black characters being used as a stepping stool for their white friends is lazy and tired. Bonnie B deserved so much more!
@duenisme2 жыл бұрын
5:24 noo omg im literally in tears 💔she didn't have to apologize for crying we all love you the way you are Kat
@sairathealchemist4 жыл бұрын
When she cried about the conditioner...I felt that
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
Corny. Crying about conditioner? Kim there's people that are dying
@alz2sxi4 жыл бұрын
@@r0bz1985 oh hello there, we meet again, this is like the 20th time you are replying to a comment negatively. It’s ok to be bored and not have a life, what isn’t ok though is for you to be spreading unnecessary toxicity.
@thecoolest58134 жыл бұрын
@@alz2sxi period
@alz2sxi4 жыл бұрын
@@thecoolest5813 yasss💅🏽😂
@r0bz19854 жыл бұрын
@@alz2sxi I'm sorry who are you? I have no idea
@cerysevans87263 жыл бұрын
It’s really sad they didn’t let Kat embrace her self. Although it’s just hair, it has way more meaning than that.
@kokobrown0073 жыл бұрын
@Ayaan Misbah Yes!
@iheart_c4ts113 жыл бұрын
Agreed she was the best actor, character and she was honestly the prettiest on the show she literally treated her like a dog on the streets
@hangezoe2763 жыл бұрын
@@iheart_c4ts11 RIGHTTTT I LOVE HER
@KanadeLapis3 жыл бұрын
why are you guys lying about her hair being "beautiful" when obviously it's not?
@pinkpilatesprincess35663 жыл бұрын
@@KanadeLapis fr lmao
@Panay20113 жыл бұрын
Don’t apologize Kat, Julie should be apologizing she treated you bad through the years of Tvd. That racist woman does not deserve you
@hehebug31033 жыл бұрын
I agree I’m so glad the cast stood up for her
@rafiaamin55603 жыл бұрын
@@hehebug3103 specially Ian he said he would leave the show with Kat if they killed Bonnie
@Darkwaifu3 жыл бұрын
Cast Except Matt And Alaric They Racist Asf👁👄👁
@misssyk20043 жыл бұрын
@@Darkwaifu right, stupid selves
@acidocianidrico3 жыл бұрын
Wait, what happened? O_O
@annalena72783 жыл бұрын
She's a such a queen! It hurts to hear how much she had to go through... her natural is so beautiful, just like her.❤
@danim59404 жыл бұрын
as a black woman, I hope she knows we understand how she feels and we are with her in her hair care journey. you go sis !!!
@katelyn25233 жыл бұрын
Why bring race into everything? While woman and other race go through this to but ok.
@katelyn25233 жыл бұрын
@Queen Nikki same with every other race.
@danim59403 жыл бұрын
@@katelyn2523 black women have never be able to wear their hair naturally because you’d not be able to get a job, be called nappy headed, bullied, etc... plus, scientists never made hair products for black women mainstream. get an education of black hair & the affects society had on it before you tell me not to bring ETHNICITY into it. you don’t even know the difference between race & ethnicity. stop talking to me.
@weirdasff3 жыл бұрын
as an Indian , I never knew a thing like this existed.... There are many girls around me with this type of hair, no one never bullied them or anything, they never felt insecure either. I had no idea ppl would bully others because of their hair. I personally find this type of hair very beautiful. I cant believe there's a beauty standard for hair too, omg this society is effed up.
@danim59403 жыл бұрын
@@weirdasff yes it’s so crazy how we all experience different things in life & how we appreciate other cultures & lifestyles but some people just can’t accept others differences.
@glowlikegold4 жыл бұрын
this representation is exactly what we need more of, so many black women struggle with their hair everyday & seeing a routine like this shows that our hair is beautiful & it matters. thank you, do more!
@OliCampify4 жыл бұрын
GOLD. She’s not black, she’s biracial. She even told you silly black lady.
@hmmmm27514 жыл бұрын
@@OliCampify she still seen as black when someone looks at her they consider her as a black women
@capricoxo2344 жыл бұрын
Olivia Richards her hair story is more relatable to other black women than it is to white women, even if she’s biracial, you stupid lady.
@whyask46944 жыл бұрын
Olivia Richards “silly black lady” are your serious? People see her as black.
@Queen.Abolarin4 жыл бұрын
Olivia Richards olivia hunny don’t be stupid
@sweetelixirofficial4 жыл бұрын
When she started crying about her hair I wanted to give her a hug 😭😭
@tahiyath70494 жыл бұрын
amzn.to/2Fst3e5
@broomhilder2 жыл бұрын
It warms my heart to see someone so comfortable and happy in their own skin and hair! Loving yourself can be tough, but you are making amazing strides and I couldn’t be happier!
@rosarioolakajubilin5123 жыл бұрын
She looks so innocent, pure and excited about showing what the afro hair means to her. It was beautiful seeing her crying because not all black women know how to deal with their hair so I'm sure many of the viewers will relate to those feelings. I'm so proud and happy for her 🥰!!
@Zara-dq2tu4 жыл бұрын
Her crying shows raw emotion and that the fact natiral hair NEEDS to be seen as an everyday thing. No black person should hide their curls/coils in order to be approved. Natural hair is beautiful
@GabriellaGabrielle4 жыл бұрын
She’s BIRACIAL NOT BLACK. Respect her race.
@saigie39084 жыл бұрын
LaBelleNoire literally I’ve met so many biracial ppl who claim to be black and say they’re black
@kaylabayla31064 жыл бұрын
LaBelleNoire , plz shut up...
@Jas68924 жыл бұрын
@Lia Keysgarner its not disrespectful, but tbh he race is biracial not black. I can see how that person would think its disrespectful tho, because their dishonring the other half of her.
@lisa-fs7em4 жыл бұрын
LaBelleNoire in the eyes of the law and the world, she’s black, all biracial ppl are black😻👍🏾.
@esraareda51424 жыл бұрын
When she started crying I couldn't hold back my tears, sucks that she felt like that about her natural hair, she is gorgeous
@shabbyLaw4 жыл бұрын
It wasn't supposed to be a sad moment. This was her breakthrough in her journey. Nothing sad about it.
@ggghffg16764 жыл бұрын
JustS it was sad to the person who commented
@shabbyLaw4 жыл бұрын
@@ggghffg1676 Clearly, and they clearly had a surface level interpretation.
@Kristendgraham Жыл бұрын
I absolutely loved Kat on the Vampire Diaries. She was my favourite character on the show. I love seeing her embrace her natural hair, such a beautiful woman.
@SableEllen4 жыл бұрын
Bonnie Bennet deserved better! who else is rewatching the Vampire dairies right now?! PS: Love that Kat is rocking her natural hair, whew! such a beauty. We're all on this journey with you girl! sending love and light your way
@reptilian_04 жыл бұрын
Meeeee I was binge watching it yesterday
@Sleeping_Spirit4 жыл бұрын
I re-watch it so much that I literally know some lines word for word 😂🤦♀️
@robertdallas48994 жыл бұрын
I'm obsessed! it never gets old
@reptilian_04 жыл бұрын
Robert dallas yessss
@bluebird48154 жыл бұрын
Omg me
@kathleenjames80424 жыл бұрын
omg. the fact that she cried over finding something that made her comfortable with her OWN hair shows you how hollywood and media condition black women to feel like they need to fit western ideals to be beautiful.
@KanadeLapis4 жыл бұрын
i don't think it has anything to do with Hollywood, society has glorified straight hair for way too long and not to mentioooooon black women do like to hide their real hair all the time, they're just as guilty.
@gwenlambouths37544 жыл бұрын
K' Lapis I’m sorry how are black women guilty for covering their hair when you literally just said society is more accepting of straight hair. She had to hide/alter her hair bc her own mother did not find her hair worthy enough to educate herself and her daughter to love and care for it. How would you expect young girls to grow up in that society and then easily accept an attribute that they’ve been conditioned to loathe??
@anisaa88034 жыл бұрын
Gwen Lambouths just shut up lol all yall do is whine give it a rest for a day geez
@KanadeLapis4 жыл бұрын
@@gwenlambouths3754 I know what you mean, i meant women buying wigs and wanting to have straight hair instead of understanding that every hair type is beautiful is also a problem.
@SavvyGirl7514 жыл бұрын
K' Lapis they are told their hair is unprofessional. They are forced by society to cover it or treat it.
@Tyra_Rose4 жыл бұрын
This made me want to cry because I feel like a lot a black girls went through this at one point! Props to her for her growth in accepting her natural hair. 💛💛💛
@iloveunique074 жыл бұрын
Cry girl. I did. I can completely relate.
@shanicefenton20222 жыл бұрын
Her personality is as beautiful as she is!! I'm so surprised at how real and sweet she is! I love her so much more now!!🥰 I never watch beauty routines; I just watched hers to see how she would be... she did not disappoint 👏🏾! Proud of you my sister!! Keep on embracing your natural hair🥰🥰
@Ginaisspeaking4 жыл бұрын
"I hope to one day play a character that I actually look like." WOW. That really touched me
@danielledukes73444 жыл бұрын
I’m bi-racial & I FELT the tears when she was talking about her hair...like felt it y’all.
@tatyanamoore56334 жыл бұрын
What she mixed with? I never knew she was.
@kgl_22204 жыл бұрын
Miss’ Tyy her dad is a bit of liberian and her mom is white. so basically black and white
@tunzlunz4 жыл бұрын
I be wondering where were your black cousins and aunties when you bi-racial babies were growing up? I have a biracial niece and every time I see her I style her hair. It’s how we bond.
@yasmimemiranda4 жыл бұрын
I felt it too, because I've been in this position for so, so long. I cried with her. It's not just hair, it's culture, it's who we are and we struggle to accept ourselves because of the way society makes us believe we're less worth. My mom couldn't deal with my hair either.
@tatyanamoore56334 жыл бұрын
Yasmim Miranda it sucks that society try to make us feel less than what we are. Like we have the most beautiful hair.
@vanessacleophat91174 жыл бұрын
this is the REALEST and most HONEST interview I have ever seen on here. they need to bring people like this especially with natural hair.
@saraluisa85653 жыл бұрын
Dude, she's so pure, so cute! She's finally free! She deserves the word😭💜💜
@visulie3 жыл бұрын
Her hair, her eyes, everything oml. so stunning
@visulie3 жыл бұрын
@@naydd9459 wym, contacts? regardless she still has beautiful eyes
@나은서-b1s3 жыл бұрын
@r0bz she’s wearing contacts now, but she does have dark hazel eyes
@catherinesmith57933 жыл бұрын
lol k Not u assuming what they meant 😂 I didn’t even notice until u pointed it out, I’ve always loved her eyes bevause of their shape size and the way they just look. Colour isn’t the only way eyes can look pretty
@goddess33873 жыл бұрын
@@naydd9459 Her eye shape is beautiful and theyre a perfect size in my opinion. You must be a pale person
@Raytherealestt3 жыл бұрын
@@naydd9459 bruh those aren't contacts. That's her real eye color.
@meleghiusana-maria27954 жыл бұрын
she looks like she just started playing Bonnie bro how does she look so good 10 years after
@thehashslingingslasher64673 жыл бұрын
Its like they always say... Black don't crack
@atiyakarim25303 жыл бұрын
@@thehashslingingslasher6467 she looks even better😍
@mol-lenie20563 жыл бұрын
@Too Cool For Cardi they never said she was old-
@botlemooa85023 жыл бұрын
@@thehashslingingslasher6467 l0
@Marie-mj6jb3 жыл бұрын
Omfg so true!!
@jennistone87404 жыл бұрын
She was straight up one of if not the most talented actresses on TVD. Seeing her be this vulnerable made me love her even more. We need to uplift each other. I am white but I want to see more diversity on my screen! I would watch the movies, watch the tv shows! Hollywood, get this right!!!
@Vitaluv4 жыл бұрын
The hair situation probably also reminds her of the trauma she experienced in that show.
@zahaanaz61233 жыл бұрын
Shoutout to kat's hairstylist rachel for helping kat find her confidence 💘💘💞
@shamah-fm8vz6 ай бұрын
What was the product that she first put in her hair during the video ❣️ I also wanna use it ☺️❤
@TheDailyDanny4 жыл бұрын
not gonna lie, i teared up a lil when she said "I hope one day I can play a character that I actually look like."..
@naori.13834 жыл бұрын
Me too 🥺
@britneyvalaco96474 жыл бұрын
same🥺🥺
@heatherwarner8653 жыл бұрын
Aw. I'm crying with her. That the crew of VD underappreciated everything about her show just how crappy the business is and how self-esteem and self worth harming it is. Ian Somerhalder threatened to quit the show if they killed off Bonnie which shows how much of a class act Ian is in sticking up for his friend.
@Maya_k3 жыл бұрын
Omgggg I didn’t know that. He is awesome 👏
@thekims62712 жыл бұрын
I didn't know that !!!
@caryntonh10374 жыл бұрын
I’ve been a fan of Kat for a while and just never knew that she had this hair texture. I felt often times that I just couldn’t relate so I’m so happy that she’s on this hair journey like so many of us right now.
@ellax3254 жыл бұрын
Ikr, she was on TVD for years on I never saw it as anything but straight.
@SpoiledCancer4 жыл бұрын
Exactly bc she's never done a role without a bogus straight weave
@deem13210 ай бұрын
love this woman so much, wishing her a lifetime of joy! she deserves.
@deasiaalston87513 жыл бұрын
As a black woman I completely understand the way she feels. It can be very stressful at times on knowing what to do with your natural hair and embracing it. And especially in the tv industry there isn’t many hair stylists that know how to do black people’s natural hair bc they want you to fit an image that doesn’t represent curly, kinky, or coily hair textures.
@brookejohnson82893 жыл бұрын
Im 14 years old and I hate having my natural hair out because it stresses me out so I always have it done, braids/twists/etc…. I love it but sometimes I wish my hair wasn’t so hard to deal with
@chocolatebuttface78733 жыл бұрын
@@brookejohnson8289 i know how you feel its so hard to maintain and the fact I have 4c hair im so insecure about it but when I do braids my scalp is so itchy like idk what to do
@musumukeicy81573 жыл бұрын
What is the name the her conditioner??
@yaldahsamadi78464 жыл бұрын
ok but isn't anyone gonna talk about how young she looks for her age. she is a queen!!
@loverslove72534 жыл бұрын
I mean I’m not really surprised, most black/half black people age pretty well cause of melanin.
@jade60924 жыл бұрын
Lovers Love True My mum hasn’t had a proper skincare routine for almost 2 decades and she has no wrinkles
@ЗояШараева4 жыл бұрын
How old is she?
@Lll199974 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm no she just looks 30 to me haha
@98tam4 жыл бұрын
Зоя Шараева 30 or 31 I think? The comment confused me because she’s young lol.
@zeretherhavourn97344 жыл бұрын
A lot of biracial women have the same experience especially when the mom is Caucasian but shout out to the beautiful biracial girl who learns to love and embrace and nurture their crown.
@lilmonster16073 жыл бұрын
Y’all get so much privilege go cry somewhere else
@jj56433 жыл бұрын
Stfu, just because someone might be considered “more privileged” than others doesn’t mean they don’t have there own struggles, don’t belittle someone else’s experiences just because you “feel” like you have it worse.
@Fatima-hl2qg3 жыл бұрын
@@lilmonster1607 just cuz she’s biracial doesnt mean she doesn’t have struggles. Stop trying to invalidate a black woman struggle cuz natural hair struggles are real.
@Fatima-hl2qg3 жыл бұрын
@A H ok yea we can’t call her completely black but natural is hair a struggle that mixed people and black people have to deal with. Yes most of the time they have a looser curl pattern which makes it easier but if you don’t know how to take care of it, you will struggle. I don’t usually force them into one catagory as well but in this instance, I can
@immerbeach54773 жыл бұрын
Not all biracial women have her hair texture . Loose thin hair is very easy to do
@sarahnatalyaxo3 жыл бұрын
Aww Kat, you are not alone! So many of us have struggled with our curly hair... you're so beautiful inside and out, hair or no hair, curly or straight. Thank you for being so honest with us and for sharing your tips. Just beautiful! x
@JR-oe6dw3 жыл бұрын
Her getting emotional was personal to me as a person who is black. Our struggle is one that others can't understand.
@taysexotics4 жыл бұрын
My daughter is biracial with 3C curls and I have made it my mission to learn everything I can about her hair so she doesn’t grow up feeling this way. Absolutely broke my heart when she cried! 😭😭😭 Kat, your hair is beautiful.
@MissRhinestone4 жыл бұрын
You’re striving to be the mom your baby deserves. Go mamma!
@Ash3aKosh4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to learn that’s so important it’s really not just hair it’s a part of her 🥰
@padmere4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing that. Hair doing is mother daughter bonding time. When your mother can’t do your here is like rejecting alert of you.
@wellwellwellhowtheturntabl27394 жыл бұрын
you're amazing
@Jason41974 жыл бұрын
Casablanca Durant this advice is sooooo relevant. And parents of mixed children should be educated on this like serious education!
@courtneydeann2384 жыл бұрын
As a black woman* with 4c hair, I completely relate to this.
@itskviukmakeup58303 жыл бұрын
She is amazing ! I admire her so much ! She is so humble, so pretty, so kind to her fans ! Such an inspiration ❤️❤️ Such a cutie