ANSWERING YOUR ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT ME

[@NazneenR1]

I think it's really refreshing that you don't want kids. Society isn't used to hearing that these days. They think because we are women we have to automatically want to bear children. It's a choice and should be respected.

[@allyrai13]

I second this well said 👍🏼

[@KaushalBeauty]

Thank you for your comment - so true 🙏🏽

[@saakshibajaj1702]

@@KaushalBeauty i love u sooooo much happy to see u 😍😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

[@ginja1109]

THIS. Thank you! And thank you Kaushal! Its true, its refreshing to hear someone else say they dont want kids. I dont either and I hate getting asked

[@Akitnaya]

I'm SO happy she feels the same way as me. Esp being a Indian woman. It's like expected of us. 🙄 Very refreshing to see.

[@AnythingWithAbeat]

When I say I don't want kids people react like I'm dropping a bomb and feel impelled to try and change my mind. I'm a British South Asian Muslim woman who doesn't want children. I'd much rather adopt if I ever felt the urge.

[@nmuqarab]

When u do these kind of replies kindly dont mention u r muslim.

[@nmuqarab]

Dont spoil the image

[@AnythingWithAbeat]

@@nmuqarab you've kindly proved my point. I don't feel like I've said anything wrong yet the thought of my preference is preposterous to some.

[@Autumn74]

Hi, I've just read your comment. Being Asian , whether South, Far Eastern or middle Eastern, having families and babies is very pivotal and important it also has deep connected cultural and religious ties. One can go really into this subject so to cut it short, is that the present generation who have grown in the west is very different than our parents and grandparents. In the west there is ' choice' something which is relatively new to our elders. Asians of the past weren't given a choice, they simply carried on with tradition and were told what to do. How many time have we been told ' when I got married, I did this and this because it was family tradition' or my Grandmother had it this way ' etc. I think growing up in the west has an substantial effect on Asians and their lifestyle choices. Slowly, with time the future generations will be living very western lives and cultural identity will become blurred if not lost but I do think they will hold on to religion. This is just my personal view but I do read what sociologists and psychologists write about regarding culture and society and that choice is a good thing. Being able to make up your mind and deciding what is best for yourself is equally important as respecting and following your culture. I have seen, first hand how some South Asians have completely lost their identity and at first are very happy and confident but slowly with time they become dissolutioned and feel lost, meaning they don't fit in with either cultures. I think I'm going in too deep here!!! Lol but it's just a fascinating subject but we all should respect eachother's others choices in life and be happy with the outcomes whatever they are.😄

[@alphafish4756]

No disrespect, but genuinely why do you not want kids? Besides the obvious it’s a personal choice or I just don’t want but what drives it?

[@MoonTsubasaHime]

When you parted your hair in two I realized the thickness of one section of your hair is more than my whole head. I definitely didn't get the desi genes for thick hair T_T

[@usagi44444]

Um... That much hair is really normal 🤔 in my country that's medium thickness. I've seen much more thick than that. 😊

[@Rad_roti]

OKAY STOP. You legit have the same life as me. My bro is also 8 years older, my first girl cousin's name is also Anjali. I'm Shook.

[@Rad_roti]

CAN WE BE BESTIES?!

[@guneetbenipal]

YES PLEASE do a video of your indian wear and jewelry organization (and where you got the storage bags for your outfits). I'm struggling trying to organize mine right now since everything is stuffed in suitcases LOL thanks and love you!!

[@umamipaneer]

I appreciate how determined you have remained all these years to maintain some boundaries on what should be shared on the online platform. Its really easy for some people to flake and share personal details or stories for clout, so your authenticity in an arena as crazy as the internet is commendable. Bonus: you look mad cute in that face mask 💜💜💜

[@kmileyhazel]

Honestly I don’t think I want kids either and seeing one of my role models that’s also Indian saying she doesn’t want kids makes me feel a lot more comfortable and supported because I usually feel so judged and undermined.

[@Gopal_Karpagam]

Hi Kaushal! You are my role model! I adore your style abd fashion sense! I am an Indian woman too, and would never want kids! Please check out my book on Amazon: No Kidding: The Childfree Choice Defended. Btw, I got fixed at 26 years old ;) Good luck, beautiful! 😘😍

[@essayee49]

I love how real you are and aren't ott like some bloggers/influencers, I love how positive you are as well and I just enjoy watching you're videos so thank you for being lovely to watch 😘😁 x

[@MarielaDavina]

I really appreciate this video, you manage to walk the line between sharing with your subscribers and keeping precious elements of your personal life private. Also, you have a beautiful smile, I can't imagine why you'd change anything about your teeth!

[@sukiatwal3762]

Mariela Davina very true

[@parnikajain3151]

I hate when people ask that you are pregnant just because the times you may gain a little weight🙄I find it disgusting. My goodness, not every married Indian couple is interested in having kids. But anyway, I can’t wait to watch during my next study break😁❤️

[@ritafaye6499]

Posting this 6 minutes in. Thank you for addressing that question, you never should have had to. Everyone!!! Women are SO much more than a walking uterus. Having children is not the only way to feel fulfilled.

[@aimeeslcx7115]

31?! No way!!! You look 23-25 (in a good way of course haha)

[@chandchohan1988]

I love the fact that u speak what u believe..... not trying to make someone happy but yourself.... u are beautiful and strong .... lots of love 💖 xoxo

[@Grace-oh3rg]

Yay for the cooking series 😀

[@ummehhanyhabiba3925]

My assumption would be you're definitely more of "Urban Decay" person than any other brand!! ❤️Anyway, thank you so much for sharing about yourself. We feel closer to Kaushal 💙💙

[@elahakaryzada5146]

Can I just say Girl I’m 30 & still not sure if I want kids I love them & they love me but I get weird awkward looks when I tell people in real life so I can only imagine how brutal online is but it’s better to know u don’t want something then regretting it all ur life. so I 👏🏻 u for this & ur right it’s nobody’s damn business what u do in ur relationship or what u want or don’t in ur life people need to mind their own business instead of thinking they’re part of someone’s life because they’re a public figure

[@Mariam-ry6um]

I wish my hair was thicker like yours 😩 it’s getting thinner day by day, don’t wanna get bold on the day I get married 😭

[@sukiatwal3762]

Mariam take iron!!

[@Mariam-ry6um]

Suki Atwal which ones would you recommend?

[@Bella13710]

Bald*

[@r.22r]

If you have any lush stores around you , i HIGHLY recommend them. I lost so much hair recently that i could see large patches of my scalp. I started using their "roots hair mask", "new shampoo bar" and "new hot oil treatment". In two to three months, i recovered completely. Do give it a try. All the best. Also , pls consult a doctor before starting any vitamins or amy supplements etc. Try to eat a good healthy diet , that helps too.

[@Mariam-ry6um]

R thank you soo much I love lush products too especially their face masks! Definitely going to try out the products that you’ve mentioned above. Which shampoo bar and hot oil treatment do you use? However, I have started to use natural based shampoos and conditioners without containing Parabens and SLS, will see how that goes. I recently starting taking vitamin D as I normally do have low vitamin D as it showed in my blood test results few years ago since we don’t get enough sun in the UK even my dermatologist said so, hopefully that will help. Thank you once again ☺️

[@deepica]

Omg I love this video!!!! You’ve inspired me to film it too!!!

[@nithiya_00]

Hey Deepica! Big fan of you, Mama pandu, papa pandu, your sis and eagerly waiting for baby pandu's arrival ! Meeru ante naaku chaala ishtam !

[@isabellamacae1]

Yesss please show how you've organized your Indian wardrobe. Love your Indian clothes videos

[@kajalkbhatia]

I get the same questions when I meet people "when are you getting pregnant? Aren't you getting older? How can you not want to have kids? Did you have a Gynaec problem? When will we hear the good news? Why don't you try IVF?". This is really my life and I choose what I want to do with it. It is suffocating when people try to put their views on others.

[@arabziana94]

This was great, thank you for sharing. Funnily enough I finally got round to purchasing your husband's book and just finished it earlier today. You're both clearly awesome people, stay shining x

[@Rosanna.989]

me and my husband don't want kids either , so , you do you!!! People need to focus on themselves and not worry about anyone else.

[@mallikak1661]

Yes I 🙋🏼‍♀️Love to see the cooking videos

[@sukiatwal3762]

mallika k what kind

[@sonaa.7473]

Kaushal! You Are the Most Beautiful Girl I have ever seen! I fall in love with your face every time I see you... you don’t have to have a lean and tall body, your positivity, your beautiful face and your Accent! Makes you the most stunning person. Love you since years ♥️ and now all my friends are obsessed with you too! Kinda grew old with you ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@angieguest8903]

This is one of the reasons you have 2.2 million subscribers...you are such a beautiful person inside and out..very honest & hardworking...you don't seemed fazed with going to events at the opening of an envelope ...And you are such a classy lady ..👍Xx😋

[@tahzeeba]

could you please do a everyday skin care routine and doesnt take much time and doesnt involve way too many products?

[@preetchanchlani6007]

the fact that u now dont care abt how ur body appearance seems a good thing i myself for so much part of my life felt conscious abt my looks n all bt yes it doesnt affect when we grow old..n i think it was also ur husband who has had this positive influence on u isnt it coz i love his posts i love to read them despitw nt being on instagram n my husband is also such positive influence in my life..u guys send good relationship goals kind of feeling🤗

[@AlexaStyleBook]

Off topic but that pink mask is something I need right now! Nourishing and calming to the skin💋💋

[@littlemissd4]

Would love you to do cooking videos! Can't wait to see how you organised your indian wardrobe. Can we have more vlogs too. Thank you for being so open and honest especially about having kids. We love you and Vex 😘

[@Philosophyoftruth_]

I like how you said it clearly and calmly I don’t want kids. Kudos to you! More woman need to live their life on their OWN terms!!!!! 💓 💕

[@shahanab2975]

Your the most genuine person on KZbin,love love love ur vids

[@sukiatwal3762]

Shahana B aww so sweet

[@shahanab2975]

Suki Atwal 😘

[@mysty09]

Your hair is so thick and long... Pls pls pls do a video on your favourite hair products and how you grow it super thick like that... Luv youuu❤️

[@nupurrajoria6702]

Yeah the pocket money thing IS an Indian dad thing...

[@Cacophony314]

There are so many societal pressures towards women having children. I had an epiphany in my early 20's, I started listening to my heart and my logic, realising that it is usually the best decision and often the right one despite what others day. Sometimes I feel guilt about my choices, like I am letting people down however, being a good mother also means being ready and making sure that the child has the best possible care they deserve and that involves not letting yourself down either. I too have 2 nephews and I feel like I have already had some experience and got it out of my system, but I guess it's nice to hear other women of Asian descent with similar decisions. Thanks for being real and saying very difficult things to a large audience 🙏🏼.

[@Rohini489]

YESSSSS FOR COOKING VIDEOS!

[@zoomzoom7444]

I really relate to you. I'm British Indian, over 35 , I don't have kids. There's no formula to life. 😘

[@lifeaffairs3253]

love it .....please do an update skincare routine what you use at night or during the day it would be really helpful ... hope you do this soon

[@misschachanaomi]

Brilliant video - honest and frank and you hit the nail on the head when you spoke about this expectation to have children xxx

[@salvitrivedi0510]

Love this chilling and pampering session kinda video. Definitely need more of this monthly from you and getting updated with you 🙂

[@percysrawvlogs]

Watching you since 2014 and admire you each day❤

[@sargampandey9508]

whenever i feel low, i watch your videos. You give so much positive vibes. I have been following you for 3 years and each and every video of yours is worth to watch❤❤❤

[@subamanoher]

Nice video content especially on the topic of having/not having children. That is a personal choice and not many people get it. I’m divorced myself with no children (by choice) but people keep questioning me about it all the time. Anyway..I think you are gorgeous and I love your accent!! Lots of love from Malaysia ♥️🖤♥️

[@pravallikadsai6534]

Would LOVE to see a CLOSET TOUR!!

[@riyapatel1649]

Hey! The hair mask you used, it doesn’t say on the pot you can use it as a overnight mask, does it work good for you when you do this method ?

[@shazzyjshazzyj7569]

Great video. I like how you make sure you don't share too much with your subscribers. You have a right to privacy and people need to understand this and be happy with what you do share.

[@waxonwaxoff2770]

What was the hair mask you used ? Also would you consider doing a what I eat in a day type video ? Maybe mention your favourite health products or snacks while your doing a getting ready video

[@haripriyakeswani5886]

OMG you’re so real and nice No drama at all Your videos give me peace

[@SamanthaJoGoes]

I'm American and my husband is from Tamil Nadu. If you're not doing anything, you're welcome to come visit when we go in January.

[@nelbinbinusha4024]

Whr from Tamilnadu dr?

[@nelbinbinusha4024]

Am also from Tamilnadu

[@SamanthaJoGoes]

@@nelbinbinusha4024 madurai

[@tirthapremkumar4697]

I absolutely loved how you want to keep your privacy and not do a house tour. Nowadays so many youtubers decorate their home just for the sake of a video and you on the other hand are passing on such a right kind of message. Fabulous. Love always ♥️

[@nabihaf1]

The bit about how you feel about your body. Preach!

[@rumitapannu5860]

Could u please do a skincare and body care video/monthly favourites and all time favourite products and clothing/style tips?xxx

[@deez4ever]

yes for the indian wardrobe!!

[@nikitashirkot9204]

It is so relaxing and fun to watch all you vedios. They are so natural and positive. Lolz. Don't we love the bits when the aunties ask when are you getting married, oh so when are you having kids. It still baffles me how people think that actually it is perfectly ok to ask such question. Best way, take it with a pinch of salt! X

[@MyaaryMae]

I truly enjoy your videos! I’m so in love with your culture and you’re such a down to earth person!! Much love!

[@sakshisehgal5861]

I am 25 and i quit my Job this Year and followed my passion for makeup and i am super grateful that i am a Makeup artist now. Kaush you were the person who made me realized 3 years ago that Makeup is my thing. Love ya Stay blessed and Happy. Loads of Love and Light.

[@taiyabazaheer9492]

I'm so happy to hear that you don't want kids. I too won't have any ,most probably. I'm so proud you said it. It takes so much courage to say this because people judge women for this so much. More power to you. ❣️❣️ I love watching your videos and I swear I don't even like anyone else's makeup tutorial any more.

[@Autumn74]

Good evening, love watching your videos! To be honest, I've not really come across any south Asian women/ men who actually say they don't want children. It's usually 'not yet' or 'we're waiting to buy a house and become financially stable'. I do think you and your husband would be fab parents! Would it be possible to just touch up on the subject briefly as to how you both came to the decision of not wanting children, I know it's a very private topic but I've been reading up on it and I believe that modern South Asians in the west are more educated or shall I say, more in touch and well informed in what they actually want in life, compared to the 1st generation of Asians who held firmly onto culture and religion and gave it their utmost priority. For some people it would unheard of making a decision like yours, there'd be furious In -Laws and extended family members. I think it's a personal but brave decision as it's already difficult for couples who cannot conceive and the delay brings out the worst accusations and snide remarks. I totally respect your views and privacy and this is just a comment and I'm trying to piece together facts and history along with culture, it's an interest I have. Best wishes 😘....p.s would you be open to adoption?

[@scarlettq81820]

is it just me but does she look and sound like naomi scott in a good way of course?

[@denijoseph3626]

It has been almost 2 years since I have subscribed ur channel and I have felt that ur so genuine and positive and I feel so happy to be a part of ur KZbin family and never regret it ...keep going

[@ashlynnkrishna2793]

Loveeee this! Please tell me where you got that beautiful custom neon sign! I’ve been on the hunt for one and that one looks amazing!😃💕

[@alishabains9336]

I know you don’t want children- but I’m intrigued as to why... I don’t want to get married or have children. I’ve seen too many families break for me to go into that. Any girls out there- I would love to hear your story

[@ArtistProtagonist]

Go on reddit r/childfree and you'll get some insight.

[@manvingill83]

I totally undertand when u say u don't want kids and people straight jump on u right up ! I face it too..and now I m just keeping silent and doing my thing .I m totally not ready although people are saying I m aging as I m 30 now. It is very stressful. It's time people let woman choose .

[@EleanorJosefina]

YAAAAS! I stopped editing my videos for this!! You’re so cute! Can’t wait to watch this video! ❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜

[@sarenasakander9615]

You are so real then other KZbinrs, thank you for being genuine 💛❤️

[@shrutipanwar8514]

kaushal u forgot to put up list of products u used, pls update 🤗

[@palak6433]

Hello mam.❤️ I wanted to ask, what do you think is the correct age to start using serums or oils on face, like I am 19 so is it okay to start using now?

[@ruheerathod1968]

I would absolutely love to see cooking videos on your channel and some fun DIYs. I really loved this video. You truly are such a gem

[@VlogSalad]

Makeup is on point by the way... (as always) 🥳

[@tehremy683]

I would love to watch your cooking videos 😍 I enjoy your makeup tutorials so omg cooking would be amazing. Cook some Mexican food 😍

[@pryanashah3460]

Totally an Indian parent or even guju parent thing. We never had pocket money but encouraged to work!

[@SuSu-in3cw]

Guys is it just me or does she remind you of Naomi Scott who plays princess Jasmine in Aladdin? Especially the way she talks!

[@kzlifediaries]

Su Su just u

[@valarmorghulis2283]

Hey kaushal could you make a video on what hair colours(not the usual brown shades) suit brown skin? Thank you!

[@justnoted2995]

Good idea to put on the pink face cream because it hides you blushing when sharing personal stuff.. :)

[@allyrai13]

Kaushal what desi Perkins video where you talking about would love to watch it? Can’t see it in your description box? Btw good on you girl, love how you can openly and honestly say how you don’t want kids! If you said that back in the day people would frown upon the idea of a woman not wanting children! Now adays a lot of couples choose not to have kids and are very happy so good for you kaushal! Keep these videos coming love it when you chat in your videos, your very positive and it does help us a lot xx

[@noraa2635]

Yep I agree. It's lovely hearing this. However it's still very frowned on, specially in the Asian community. Alot of people just don't understand why you wouldn't want kids. I've never wanted children and I'm constantly having to ignore the question and assumption

[@allyrai13]

Noreen a that is very true and unfortunately it will not change! I had one child but that didn’t stop everyone from going on and on about me having a 2nd! I ignored and had my 2nd 6 years later when me and my husband where ready! Just say yea yea and let them say whatever they want! It’s your decision in the end! Bless u hun

[@allyrai13]

Noreen a you know what makes me laugh is people judging women who don’t have a kid a year after marriage saying or maybe she can’t conceive etc etc it’s sickening! People are too forward when it comes to pregnancy! Imagine how painful it is to someone who can’t actually have children and people keep talking about them having kids! I think it’s horrible

[@ss.90]

Please list those products! I want to have them all 🤩

[@ayissah_sanudin]

I'm sorry for asking this..but what is the difference between being religious and being spiritual?..i thought these two phrases hv the same meaning..if someone asks me that question, i'd be very confused..

[@tulsiparbhu9202]

I would love love love to see some cooking videos from you! Keep up the great work x

[@riyankasarkar7456]

I stay in bangalore..if you ever visit India and plan on coming to Bangalore ..i will definately will want to meet you...💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@voguevibes6914]

My uni experience is v depressing atm.

[@dipsapatel577]

Absolutely adore you and this video is the best.... also until 7:36 I had major OCD that you forgot to put the mask on your other temple HAHHAHA

[@salmajx]

Beautiful inside and out! ❤️ X

[@andriyarose1091]

Can you please do what's in my bag segment

[@ridhimakapoor7676]

Want a video on how you organised your wardrobe and makeup! Lots of Love😇❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@nainashah4959]

Nooooooooo...plz don't do anything artificial to ur teeth...u've got teeth u can be proud of...so beautiful and so clean......don't follow the rest of the world....u r the only youtuber who still has got her natural beauty

[@anshikayadav5718]

Wow, I'm never this early

[@anuradhadasi2065]

Yes!!! Cooking vids please 😊 Greetings from Suriname 🇸🇷🤗💖

[@rumitapannu5860]

Really enjoyed this chatty video and it would be so fun to see you doing cooking videos xx

[@HB3778]

Haven’t even watched it but I know it’s gonna be real ❤️❤️❤️

[@KaushalBeauty]

love you angel x

[@HB3778]

Kaushal Beauty i love you omg !!!❤️

[@nomanchezsanchez2971]

I'm excited to try out your recipes & see your skin care update!! much love from Texas💘

[@abegum6206]

One of the most beautiful and genuine person on KZbin! One of my fav bloggers from the time I came across you! ❤️❤️❤️

[@karib4590]

Yaasss cooking videos please. I love indian food 😍

[@MLynn2242]

I’d love to see cooking videos!!! ❤️

[@sadiakhwaja1680]

Another awesome VDO as always, it’s nice to watch assumptions of u and get to know u too, keep up the good work, look forward to your next vlog❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@PriyankaRapolu]

Not having kids is kind of contribution to the society than having one!! Coz one in a million is actually a great contribution to the earth, but the remaining are just destroying! It's actually a sad truth! A wise decision KAUSHAL!!! So much ❤️!!

[@nmuqarab]

I wish u were also not born

[@PriyankaRapolu]

@@nmuqarab same !

[@PriyankaRapolu]

@@nmuqarab same, since u don't know the essence of what's going on in this world!

[@northern_angel7996]

Wow, Im really surprised how frank you’ve been about not wanting to have children. Most ppl on the net when asked the question will say ‘no, not yet’ or ‘maybe in the future’ Would you ever do a video around this topic in the future? I appreciate if you think its too personal to talk about. 😊

[@holliewilkinson2840]

Omg I just redound u and I’m so happy about that !!! Xx

[@sitalthomas252]

My husband has been asking me for like years if you were Gujarati and I was like I don’t know, thanks for confirming that. He just fist pumped me when you said guju as I am too. Haha 😂 x

[@Snisha22]

Can you give the links for all the products please

[@karishmaseyani5259]

Im gujrati too!!! And im the same i understand hindi movies but speak gujrati fluently xx

[@irenegranados7334]

I know this is random but I was wondering how you feel about the hair mask? Does it make your hair thicker/longer? I’ve never used one

[@cseghiri]

Irene Granados I used to use it when I had long hair it’s awesome.