Hello Counselor - Kai and Lay of EXO, IU, K.Will! (2013.10.28)

[@portolo]

I'm not an EXO fan but I must say that this kiddo Lay has a very sexy look, his eyes are kinda sleepy-lost

[@ryi1726]

true

[@exoohsehns1791]

Did you stan exo now

[@wenjaellay8609]

But truthfully he's a pure and innocent baby💖

[@milkycloud.]

YUP! HE IS WELL-KNOWN FOR HIS LOST LOOK XD

[@savannahjones2544]

Lol his brain is kinda sleepy-lost

[@lizcrowe1234]

CAN WE TALK ABOUT LAY THOUGH HES SO CUTE AND POLITE JUST SITTING THERE.

[@florenciaparodi2280]

+Lizzie Crowe he's such a bias breaker>.

[@rizajoyce1748]

+Lizzie Crowe i keep on watching coz of LAY......

[@chanyeolpark1575]

+Florencia Parodi ikr aissh

[@cindyshi2476]

+Lizzie Crowe ikr

[@Unknownplanet9]

angel

[@jacqueline8153]

Omg, when kai said "I don't think there is a concern. They're in love" was too cute and mature. Also, he was obviously getting upset while the mother and sister were calling fat to the girl. Kai really cares about people, that's why I love him 💞

[@hskdtrqsngfd5404]

Yackelin Carrillo when is this??

[@emmzi2826]

@@hskdtrqsngfd5404 1:16:13 when they ask if it's a concern

[@262.8.7]

Truuuuueee!!!!! I was about to comment on that. Also, during awards shows, he would always do this L symbol to thank EXO-Ls. I mean, other people might not see and appreciate that. He cares a lot, our Kai ♥

[@itz_meh_bat2208]

That's why Jennie dated him. Krystal too!

[@anamikasingh265]

Jongin's expression at 52:14 and Yixing's expression at 54:40 speaks loads.

[@sindhuinala51]

Omg kai and lay are so adorable, do you see how mad they get when they talk about the girl who's family thinks she's fat

[@olayaromano2045]

no i cant see it, they were just quite, where were they mad?

[@emberenitasolo7028]

@@olayaromano2045 52:14 and 54:40

[@HeyLila78]

Yea, they looked dumbfounded and even said, she's not a celebrity. Because celebs have that pressure put upon them. The thing is, cultural standards are shaped by celebrity culture and the media now, too. It's a pervasive toxic culture.

[@lazyajhumma9656]

I am mad too disgusting

[@Sohinig823]

To be honest according to her hight she is a little fat but its okey... not everyone has to be perfectly fit... its very important to be fit but their are people who simply can't loose fat easily, not even after trying hard... so we should keep our physical health in mind but not get sad or depressed...

[@xlilmizchattygalx]

54:40 Lay and Kai are literally showing my reaction like wtf you're her mother how DARE you say that she's not pretty URGHH some people don't deserve to have kids SMH

[@xlilmizchattygalx]

and what annoyed me even more was when they were like, your younger daughter is actually pretty, some men might even prefer her more than the older daughter and then the mother shook her head as in "what this trash no way" smh smh smh what kind of parent are you?

[@ptuladhar9557]

I also noticed that too....Kai was really frustrated, she don't have little bit also guilty on her face :/ how could she be called mother, the thing I hate most of Korea & Korean people are they judge people by their out looks :/

[@xlilmizchattygalx]

Prati UKiss Kissme It is very annoying how they tend to only care about the looks I mean that girl is beautiful I don't know what the mother was thinking urghh

[@ptuladhar9557]

exactly small daughter is beautiful but don't know what's wrong with that mother's eyes :/

[@Anonymous-ve7pi]

Fadumo Hussien I had the same reaction as Kai but what i LOVED even more was the look Lay gave the mother!!! i started cracking up x'D

[@MissTargetChic]

The first guy with the "older face" had such a great and fun personality. He was so charming! I hope he was able to find someone

[@GopherCakeStuff]

He was adorable : )

[@nifty127]

I felt bad for him..everyone was just laughing..

[@nati.g6178]

4:03 I bet at that time no one would have thought EXO will be world stars who keep breaking records now! 'Next generation Korean wave stars' - The person who did this caption should become a fortune teller cos EXO did what's said in thst caption!!!!

[@rukhayaridha5568]

💯💯💯

[@monsterbaek1648]

Theyre really popular since wolf growl

[@star1mbb546]

I feel like most Koreans can be very shallow because they dislike tanned or darker people and people who have a lot of weight are judged too.. honestly this type of mentality has to change

[@CaramelChristian]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@jahajahai6204]

Agree.they have lots of great things but their shallow thoughts on looks is unacceptable.

[@vannymarquez3077]

but the thing is, westerners are the same towards pasty fat people. every country has its beauty standards and no matter what, we will bash what we dont like. that is only human nature.

[@yesaquestion]

I'm going to drop kick him if we get chicken ikrrr though. People in my country did the same too. Come to think about this, everyone has their own flaws. Not everyone born to have a pale skin. Not everyone born to be skinny. It's up to us on how we look at them. We are not perfect.

[@whatreallymatters571]

I SNATCHED JHOPESCHILL So you are making excuses for irrational behaviour? Beauty standards are made and is isn't in our instincts to bash people, it's all learned behaviour. If it hurts other people than it should be stopped. Also white skin is praised in America as well so your comparison doesn't really hit the mark.

[@oliviahom3089]

The younger sister is not fat or ugly at all. She's cute and has a face that can make people feel at ease. The mother and sister on the other hand, look mean and I wouldn't want to talk to them. Looks aren't everything, even Kai and Lay know that from all the disapproving glances they were giving the sister and mother. I also thought it was adorable how Kai and Lay both stood up to help the youngest daughter when she slid down the slide.

[@yangabanga9827]

I know the older sister seemed overly arrogant with herself, the mother seems to be self concsious about the whole thing. The younger sister is a person I would love to hang out with, and she has a kind, welcoming and beautiful face and body type. Why is the family body shaming her? They're just jealous I think, shes beautiful in all ways

[@srishtirathore5073]

Yes! Would never wanna meet such looks oriented insecure people.

[@KkKk-oy6rn]

Yes you are right and a true and good mother would never treat her daughters differently

[@xo_seoul_xo5638]

At the point where the young Pretty girl was called "fat" I would've lost my temper. 1. A mother shouldn't fat shame their child! 2. She was born from her genes so basically it's the mothers fault. 3. She's not Jesus so she can't tell her daughter what to do for the rest of her life. 4. Why would she even bother to say mean stuff like that to her daughter. 5. The sister came dressed as if she was a superstar or someone died but she came looking pretty. 6. It's not right to point out things someone doesn't like in front of 100's of people just to get a hold of their side 7. They raised her so they should give her advice from time to time 8. Why do they only point out the bad stuff and only like one or 2 good things about her 9. Nobody is perfect so if the sister and the mother want to be perfect they aren't real 10. Ik the mother was worried due to weight but being 45kg at 161cm is really skinny and u should way a lot more than that 11. Who does the sister think she is to fat shame

[@xo_seoul_xo5638]

12. The sister ain't a actor or a Kpop idol so why should she bother pointing out things on other people maybe she should look at herself and think before she says things. If I had to rap battle her i'd make a Diss track If you think you have perfection you're looking at the wrong reflection! If you think you're fat and not pretty ur looking at it the wrong way coz no matter what,perfection is looking at the wrong reflection, ur beautiful no matter ur size it's not the look that counts it's the thought that counts To the "pretty" sister What goes around comes around and gets at ya... U never know when it'll blow... It's better to let it go.... Being pretty isn't always the best coz in the end ur just like he rest... Ur only giving your self a test... This is a poem... But guess what, to everyone listening to u... U owe'm their loyalty.... Take the L!!!

[@cosmari245]

Same! I would've totally made a goal to diss her 1000 times. What an idiot. Poor girl.

[@xo_seoul_xo5638]

+RainbowKelly Ikr

[@cosmari245]

I really feel for her. She shouldn't have to tolerate such bitches. A wonderful person like her doesn't deserve those idiots. She's beautiful. Her sister is beautiful too but I'm sure she'll grow up ugly one day and I'm sure fate has bad things stored for her because she has done some shitty things. Meanwhile, the sister known as "fat," I'm sure, will grow up unexplainably stunning for she has an amazing heart.

[@xo_seoul_xo5638]

+Sarah Huynh Why would she make fun of her in front of other people that the poor girl might like meaning the celebrities and the fact everyone she knows gets to see... Her mum and sister are starting to mentally bully her....

[@jerwome1275]

the younger sister has a much better personality at the end of the day too and personally i think shes prettier

[@__SHABIRARAHMADIANPUTRI]

I want to curse her older sister

[@shenglalic5795]

thats true! thats why i admire Jung Chanwoo when he stood for the younger sister and constantly telling her that she is pretty

[@tanshanisse7220]

the girl doesnt put makeup liker her older sister do, so obviously she wouldnt be as"pretty" as her sister. plus, i think the girl actually looked much prettier.

[@rinichawngthu7988]

yes true.And she's still growing ,there would be more changes in her features ahead.

[@unhiwt234]

True

[@johnsbananamilkshake]

and like a human and not like a doll...AND way more *HEALTHY*

[@johnsbananamilkshake]

and that sister has a concerning underwight - she should go see a doctor

[@ferry3783]

I don't really like the older sis Younger one was really cute

[@neeenssss]

jongin looked so disgusted with the sister and mother of that girl honestly same

[@NR-vf2tk]

OMG HEY DIL

[@neeenssss]

+Nikhila Ravi (nikkinotminaj) AYYY

[@morgan3263]

Yeah I noticed that, I was like "oh man he looks pissed." And for good reason, cuz I was getting pissed at them too

[@anxious681]

godhyunjin I know right! That girl is gorgeous!

[@olayaromano2045]

wasn't he laughing?

[@yumREDvelvetCUPCAKES]

aw when the girl's older sister told her to turn around and look at her but the girl looked unsure and glanced at K. Will, Kai, and Lay and Kai looked so comforting and supportive for her

[@Ash_on_paws321]

Jongin looked so disgusted during the younger sister's concern. Imagine if Xiumin was on for this one, he would've snapped....he's been the victim of unnecessary body shaming before too. So have I.

[@moniesworld8468]

I hope everything is alright

[@santiagosizums9954]

This is what exactly i am thinking

[@pavitrarupa8716]

I was thinking about kyungsoo's reaction.... He would've killed them by his stare alone

[@ahsokatanothequeenherself8941]

I dont know why they dont snap regularly during the worst ones- Am i the only one thinking about that?

[@joysongcayawon4048]

jongin looked so disgusted?? what do u mean? no he's not! HES ANGRY

[@katluver09]

I can understand kai's reaction even lay not liking it... I mean they have a member in their group that has image issues... xiumin... lay begged him to stop dieting... so I bet they were angry at the mother and sister... if boys with no relation can support a member that was literally slight more chubbier then this girl... why can't her mother and sister...

[@orgxiii4ever]

Awww..I love the body positivity that Jongin is sharing. He's such a sweetheart honestly and I'm so glad to have him as my bias since forever.. He's been teased because of his skin color so he knows what it feels like and acts. Yixing is also a sweetheart & against racism.. Kyungsoo supports equal rights between women & men.. exo is full of such kind,amazing,smart and beautiful people❤

[@istanexo-ls8860]

Nguyen Tran Who do you think you are to tell them to shut the fuck up

[@kaikaur6144]

54:40 The look Lay has on his face helps me regain confidence in humanity. People, especially mothers, shouldn't judge their children for their looks. Lay's expression has "why" written all over it. The younger sister is beautiful and honestly, I thought sshe was the skinnier sister when she went down the slide... I hate stick thin or really bitchy skinny girls. I personally gained A LOT of weight in only a month so I can relate to how the younger sister felt. Being judged like that every single day by someone you care or cared about is hurtful.

[@kaikaur6144]

Srry dude if that's how you read my message but what I meant to say was that the mother shouldn't have said those rude things about her daughter, especially in public. The skinnier sister also said some things about her sister so I guess I just took some of this personally.Srry again.

[@Lara-rm3gs]

I can't help being skinny. I eat like a fucking elephant but I have a metabolism on steroids.

[@luciefischer3034]

정하루 I

[@havemarcie]

This moment is the best part of the video for me as well.

[@aokosakano3037]

정하루 no. They are helping her. Being fat is not ok. If nobody told her she would continue to be fat. But for a westerner who thinks fatness is healthy that might be hard to understand

[@anamikasingh265]

49:18 I love how Kai supports her.

[@meganwilliams5583]

I would give anything to look like that girl, she was amazingly pretty. I could even tell that IU, K.Will, JongIn and Yixing thought she was pretty even though they didn't explicitly say so. I admit her eonni was also pretty but in a different way. If that girl is fat then what am I?

[@dancer4life__30]

You are beautiful inside and out just like she is ♥ You are who you are and that's the best person to be.

[@aidamorales2213]

When they asked the people to vote for who was prettier, I'm almost sure that the four of them voted forma the young girl

[@CookieYaoiness]

35:45 Girl: Sometimes I want fried chicken Kai: *nods I know dat feel

[@qianlin123]

Kai knows the feeling because he is a chicken maniac..xD hahahaha...

[@stfhaniexD]

+qianlin123 He's not! Sehun's chicken maniac, Luhan is maniac and kai is just chicken XD

[@narararamammily5386]

CookieYaoiness Onew and Kai understand that feeling.

[@sleepingmaniac4863]

Stf P omg them and shinee's leader onew would be best friends.

[@ItsNessaTho]

Lmfao honestly Kai was me asf at that moment 😂😂😂😂

[@49Cadence]

I'm sure that the older sister is crying because people think that she's mean, not because she feels bad. And I smiled so hard when Kai said he envied the love of the last couple *-*. And Lay's cute face after the "Dhatou" thing xDD

[@apaipeace]

2020 just want to see Lay again in Korean show

[@jaenhyun5708]

tbh this is my first time watching this episode HAHA 7 years later but who cares

[@apaipeace]

@@jaenhyun5708 Better late than never

[@josabetquitain5974]

Same ghorl

[@jaenhyun5708]

@@apaipeace right

[@hakkishalei6538]

do u know some other korean shows that lay appeared on?? recommendations pls

[@holy6704]

They think that Kai and Lay were only good at dance. You gotta know that Lay is a Music Genius. He can make song at anytime on any situation. And Kai.. He's basically a dancing machine gifted by god. THEY'RE LEGIT GOD'S MASTERPIECE. (and just sayin, they're not even my bias, not a big big fan of exo, but they deserve props)

[@Serenitious]

IKR. Their roles as dancers are way too heavily emphasised, even though they're good at dance. Agree with the part about Lay's gift for composing and writing lyrics though. All the songs he composed for EXO and himself are amazing

[@julesv_]

The girl's BMI is 20. The healthy BMI to have is between 18,5 - 24,9 and she is within those numbers so she can't be considered fat. Obviously beauty standards are different in each culture but the fact that the mom and sister think it's "a really big problem" makes 0 sense. It doesn't affect her health, it's only a matter of esthetic and if she is happy the way she is, then let her be. They say they are SO worried but they are making her feel bad about herself and those types of insecurities are very hard to deal with, I know from personal experience. Now that poor dog, he is overweight and I seriously hope the owners take better care of him. He might look pitiful when we wants to eat but believe me, he will look worse when he can't even walk. A healthy and outgoing dog is a happy dog.

[@XxGalacticIntrovertxX]

Jimcrv The only problem with that is that they want to rethink the whole BMI thing. it doesn't take into consideration someone's frame, genetics and proportions. This means that BMI can not be used to measure the health of everybody, Asian people tend to have a different frame compared to western people, this means that you can only use a BMI that is specified towards those type of body shapes and frames and they wouldn't exactly be accurate when using western BMI.

[@julesv_]

Gem Miyavi Fair enough but even taking those things into account, do you consider her overweight to a point where it might be unhealthy for her?

[@XxGalacticIntrovertxX]

not at all do I consider her to be unhealthy or overweight, I'm just saying that even comparing outside the BMI she would not be considered overweight anyway. most of the time doctors consider obesity to excess skin and fat, which can put a stress on your heart. I just mentioned the BMI thing as in some cases BMI puts people as overweight when physically they are not...

[@julesv_]

Gem Miyavi What I meant is that even though BMI does not take everything into consideration, it still is a streatch for her family to say such harsh things I guess we ended up saying the same thing though xD

[@rebeccayin5832]

I agree with you! The poor girl doesn't deserves any of this!!

[@andreanayelyrodriguezsanch3814]

Kai and Lay are really nice people, they helped the girl that was called fat when she came down and you can tell they are not happy at all with her situation like 58:39

[@Naamy19X9]

53:42 almost missed that moment. Like Lay, I also think the younger sister is prettier.

[@aminah7993]

damn I didn't even realise he pressed it lmao I agree tho

[@funnyvanessafunny]

Thank you so much for pointing that out!

[@cancer7161]

The last score was him

[@dehinayadav1111]

Thanks for pointing that out. I hadn't noticed.

[@Celeyo]

This episode just reminded me even more of how much I like Kai. Not just because he's super pretty to look at and all, but because he seemed like a person I'd like to hang out with

[@leomuja1478]

The sister was only worried about looking bad. She didn't feel sorry for her sister at all.

[@chelseabondzanga5922]

that's what i got from it. like you should be more worried your sister's going to hate you not random strangers

[@SUNSANDCATS]

Leo Muja I thought the exact same thing. And did you notice that they didn't even apologize to her for what they said. Ugh

[@88ひびき]

+Lyly.B Arianator not only that, look at their blank faces as she was crying. they felt nothing, seriously nothing and i can tell this only means that the bullying will continue.

[@maggienoodle]

Exactly. Towards the end, the sister and mother made it seem like all they cared about was the younger sister's health and happiness. Bullshit. That change in focus only happened after the crowd strongly empathized with the complaint.

[@notintoyou101]

Yeah, I get the mom and sister are "concerned" for the girl. But c'mon, do you really need to say these hurtful things to make her stop eating that much? If they are truly concerned about her weight and health they could've approached her in a nicer way. She's not fat and she is very pretty. And she seems to have a nice heart.

[@marthar4370]

I literally despise that mom of the "fat daughter"...it kills me to witness her blatant favoritism and how she teaches her older daughter to be cruel as well...I get the importance of managing yourself and trying to better yourself...but she does not deserve that beautiful child of hers. From a mom of two handsome sons.

[@tannishtha6228]

YES!!! How can parents discriminate between their own children, that too on the basis of looks is beyond me. I can now tell how oppressive the beauty regime must be in Korea :O That woman does not deserve such a patient child

[@TanyaT100]

She doesn't realize that she's creating a bully.

[@ferry3783]

I hate her literally

[@blisshere77]

@@tannishtha6228 True

[@01strawberryfig]

literally kai and lay should just straight up start roasting everyone together

[@christineyu3609]

Unicorn lay is a different person when he dances.

[@Serenitious]

Offstage = a cute and lost sheep Onstage or when dancing anywhere = sexy beast fml

[@limph8019]

Serenitious YASSS

[@antiirdys5032]

I love Kai's reaction in 3rd story. He is really kind person, really a man who understand everything with all of his heart. I am in love with his personality ❤

[@kwanv3rse]

53:42 lay was the 109th vote and I agree with him since I think that the younger sister is really pretty and has a nice personality

[@Lizzybear29]

The older sister upsets me. She just wanted to make sure she doesn't seem like she's the pretty snobby type. I could see her hesitation when Kai asked her what she thought.

[@honey2848]

it annoys me how everyone makes fun of yeongja for her weight when where I live she's considered a normal healthy weight

[@fragglettofrog4883]

Exactly!!

[@Leafylea]

Same!!!

[@lolotjam]

I don't care realy but it's not a healthy weight

[@bunnysunny3359]

I would agree with normal, but it's definitely not healthy. But being shamed for that is unnecessary.

[@saishizuki2371]

that's thin in my country and she would be hospitalized...

[@pafbadz101]

I'm proud of Jongin in this. I noticed he's so quick to be on the rescue with girls being called fat and stuff. If you've seen that program where the MC implicated that the girl dancing to EXO's Overdose was fat Kai immediately said 'stop' while the other members were just laughing. He's my bias because of small things like this, he's empathic though he has more room for maturity but that beautiful soul really does show,does it not? #HAHA #WHYAMIBEINGDRAMATIC HAHA

[@aquafinner1505]

+anthonevel bado What girl danced to EXO's Overdosed? the one which had the concern or the MC?

[@pafbadz101]

On their Guerilla Date ep. watch it

[@aquafinner1505]

anthonevel bado Okay.

[@EssenceEtienne]

Lay too. In this episode while everyone was laughing about the MC being able to keep shaking her body even though she stopped moving. You can tell Lay didn't think it was too funny because his laughter never seemed genuine and it didn't reach his eyes.

[@ebonyloveivory]

+anthonevel bado Yassss Did you see his reaction to the mum at 52:14? and throughout the 3rd concern when the camera pans to him? He's so freaking done and pissed off I swear.

[@SCARB88]

52:13 jongin had enought of these bishes (the mom and the older sis)

[@sanchankim87]

HE REALLY IS SO CARING

[@nancyy4409]

The mom and older sister, I've never wanted to slap anyone more then those two bitches! 😡😡.

[@khansafilandra9299]

It's out of topic but i envy the girl who yixing helped to stand up

[@distrixtnyne9002]

same here

[@mochi9043]

too! yixing is best!!

[@mochi9043]

I meant me too

[@vavaiva4080]

i wish i can go to Hello Counselor, so the guest (an actor or idol) will help me to stand 😂

[@alexandriagonzales3406]

same

[@autumnlatulip9786]

I teared up for that girl whose mom and sister were rude to her. Thats absolutely awful. Family is supposed to help you, not put you down. But it made my heart happy when you can tell kai was shocked and upset about it

[@monica-td1oi]

kai is just amazing and thats why hes my bias

[@alisonlim3300]

me too :(

[@eleennabelle978]

me too..

[@kimchode]

I thought i was the only one who teared up...glad i'm not

[@rainasayson30]

Kai looks so frustrated about the girl's "fat" problem. How could a mom do that?! Fucking hell.

[@abbyshim7122]

Ikr? He's so polite though lol and so is Lay. Btw, love your username. My ultimate bias in EXO is Chen but Kai seems to be wrecking that these days...😻😂💕

[@g7ornever236]

His mom taught him well 😂

[@ivanacutiepiez5720]

+Jennifer Chen hahahahha xD

[@andreanayelyrodriguezsanch3814]

+EXO Chen ikr? they are both like that, I love their personalities

[@maeve_zahra]

I was frustrated, it make me love Kai a little bit more that he does too because you know Kai is not one to do a reaction but he smack the floor just because he so frustrated. His mama really does raise him right

[@sophia6296]

Kai and Lay are too handsome huhu EXO danceline together. I remember when all of the worst EXO dancers were guests in Hello Counselor hahaha

[@prudencechan655]

was it the one with kris chanyeol and suho?

[@stankaleido]

@@prudencechan655 its chen chanyeol suho

[@shrishtitiwari7717]

Girllll!!! I'm here just after that video 🤣🤣🤣🤣I was kinda looking for this comment 😅😅

[@cookytatachimmyjeon1563]

It's happy together

[@shrishtitiwari7717]

@@cookytatachimmyjeon1563 actually it was both...on hello counselor it was Kris, Suho n Chanyeol. And on happy together it was Suho, Chen n Chanyeol.

[@sophiag4368]

I can't believe the mother and sister had the guts to talk about the girl like that.....humiliating your own daughter about her body shape on TV seems incredibly cruel to me.

[@npcimknot958]

Sophia G ya making her show her ass..I can see a jealous sister a mile away.

[@mercyaden2605]

Lol, the look on Lay's face when the younger daughter said her mother doesn't think she's pretty!!!! He's got this look like, "WTF WHAT"

[@diedev7865]

i'm disgusted and surprised That a MOTHER is able to say such mean things to her own daughter! she is 1. 64 and 55 kg? well i'm 1.70 and i'm 78 kg And my mother does the exact same thing! when i ask her why she always says these things she responds with : ''no guy if ever gonna go for someone with your body type'' and to be honest i almost developed an eating disorder. now i've accepted myself and my flaws. and if people don't like me because of my weight. then that says more about them then about me. the last time she was saying these kind of things to me I responded saying: if a guy only likes me because of my legs i don't want to date him because its about who you are inside and if you only date people because of an appealing body type you're honestly to superficial to be taken seriously

[@kellyip9283]

You go girl! ^^

[@bashem424]

Blue Gill Who cares about looks? I mean, we'll all get old and get wrinkels.. so in the end, the personality counts:) Sure looks may be important, but I would rather choose someone with a good ass personality over apperance, than someone with appearance and a shity personality:)

[@diedev7865]

Blue Gill off course its a combination off both but people who prioritize appearance are really superficial. i once read an dutch article about a boy that only wanted to date supermodels ... He got supermodels because he wasn't ugly himself but when he took his new gf to a dinner with his parents he discovered that his Gf couldnt distinguish cities and countries ( she thought that Paris and France were two seperate countries) he was really embarassed and was like: ''do i really want pretty but empty eggshells'' or do i want someone who i can actually have intelligent conversations with me? he stopped only dating supermodels and instead started looking for someone who had a beautiful personality he is married now and thats just one example

[@cree_VI]

Diede Venderbosch sometimes people are ugly gnome. I say the same, that if a guy don't like me as i am, then f**** off, i don't need such a person by my side, cause those kind of people will betray you any time.

[@cree_VI]

Red Gill not all people like you, there are many normal ones

[@christinejoyguzman2714]

2 dancing machines in 1 frame, our Lay sheep and Nini Kai.

[@biggiemary9528]

Kai's expression about hearing that the younger sister is being treated differently and harshly was like "SHE IS YOUR DAUGHTER FOR PETE'S SAKE". Woah ! Kai suddenly replace D.O as my most loved exo mem :*

[@biggiemary9528]

*upon hearing* Sorry :)

[@xo_seoul_xo5638]

52:14 Kai looks really and pissed off at the mother who's curved like her oldest daughters hairline

[@anamikasingh265]

😂😂😂 I died laughing. This comment deserves more love.

[@Bobby-kp1vk]

Bruuuh WTF, LMAOOO

[@livlaughloveanime]

Kai and Lay are such angels I'm proud to stan them

[@baediary]

I'm still rooting for the younger sister. She's beautiful and kind too. Hope she's doing well now.

[@kafalotofeao462]

Kai: "I actual envy you, because you're inlove"

[@azjeffs]

I seriously cried listening to the girl who is supposedly fat. Even though her family torments her she still defends them and loves them. She's seriously so beautiful, inside and out.

[@alondrarojas420]

23:29 Lay omg that was adorable

[@m..3812]

right 😭😍💀💀

[@bloodqueen1184]

3:47 Now you know why Kai and Lay are the best dancer in Exo Lowkey dancer sehun

[@tasneemshariif8788]

Omg I love these two 😍😍😍 Lay is so sweet and polite When these two dance ❤❤😍😍😍two best dance kings of EXO Both so cute and lovely ❤❤❤😍😍😍😍

[@ivanacutiepiez5720]

In the thirt consern(the one the comments are only about hah) when they told her to stand up and show how tall she is,and her sister said "turn around,and look at her butt ,something like that",and she looked at exo because she was shy and kai looked at her and nooded like "its okay"...so cuteeeee ...kyaaa

[@ivanacutiepiez5720]

+Ivana Cutiepiez he is such a kind and a nice person...i think im in love

[@DxMariLuvaxD]

+Ivana Cutiepiez i saw this and thought it was sooo sweet

[@ivanacutiepiez5720]

Mariam Qureshi i knowww.i love himm

[@michelle8202]

OMFG IKR. I LOVE THEIR PERSONALITY SO MUCH LUKE THEY CAN MAKE ANYONE FEEL GOOD AND POSITIVE ABOUT THEIR BODY

[@Mavh2023]

49:17 "Turn around look at her butt" ..You can see that the girl is embarassed because Exo is there and then Kai is like "It's ok it's ok" So cuuuuute :)

[@youcanstay8793]

+melissitavera96 she's really modest, nice, considerate and pretty tbh, i would love to be friends with her any day =)

[@kaisooisfuckingreal8715]

chill out people. I don't know y but I was sooooooo jealous

[@stuckinewyork]

He is so fluff ugh he kills me so much.

[@whatever_bn9882]

SO CUTTEEE

[@aleilyyy]

49:18 the look on Kai’s face omg. He was so annoyed and seemed to tell her to turn around so that she could prove them wrong .

[@hAiSuMiYuMi]

I could definitely tell that Kai was pretty frustrated by the mom and sister @ 54:41..But omg Serim is so sweet. She still defends and is not bitter towards her mom and sister even after all that they said to her :( Their standards of beauty is so messed up though, and the amount of hurt they inflict upon their own family member is horrible.

[@gunibajaj9176]

Lay is surprisingly sober in this one xD

[@Kael096]

Ahahaah

[@emperorhwang4364]

that and high free ( kind of)

[@hikariuchiha977]

what does that mean? sorry I'm new to exo...

[@Kael096]

anushka977able​ There is a fandom joke... We jokingly say that Lay is always high af - even tho he is obviously not - AHAHA Because he often has a "lost" face... Watch EXO showtime and their interviews and you will understand! Also EXO on crack here on You Tube... Basically edited funny videos with a looot of fandom jokes!

[@hikariuchiha977]

베네데따 smile ah ok i understand that actually makes a lot of sense as i watched their weekly idols and he had this cute puppy dog lost look on his face (which immediately made me pay attention to him) thanks a lot!! I'm looking forward to watching all them and finding out all the fandom jokes :)

[@Misskpop27]

You can tell kai is pissed off at the mom and older sister like he is so annoyed with the people who criticize looks and think that's everything...

[@Ginger2004]

I love how iu tried to hype the first guy and support him to be more supportive

[@giahantong7948]

THAT MOM AND THAT SISTER OMG IM SO ANGRY My little sister is not very skinny, so my family tends to say bad things about her. But me, I'll protect her.

[@renna8679]

Gia Han Tong aw good for you :)

[@katelyn6840]

If I was the girl in the vid I would have already left the house to be honest! I don't think the mom and sister understand that these hurtful comments could lead to suicide

[@terelumz860]

her mother and sister might be so mean but it's not all about her beauty and body figure.her mother & sister are just concerned to her health. They just wanted her to be healthy and eat more veggies than fattening food.

[@theskaterdude90]

that girl is gorgeous wtf it's always the pretty girls who r insecure

[@menwoolover1]

It's not that she's insecure, it's that her family are telling her that she is pathetic because of her weight and eating habits

[@theskaterdude90]

menwoolover1 true

[@justahuman9273]

+menwoolover1 right! :) i think so too, i'm glad that she's still managing to feel comfortable in herself, with this much critisism she has to deal with.. and at that, from her very own family x_x

[@jeeyunhan7171]

do u know the sisters insta?

[@dawaul9885]

No wonder they are two of those great ballad singer: IU and K.Will. And in this episode.. I really miss Lay and Kai perform together with Sehun when Exo has concerts

[@harishmithagowda6250]

lay and kai are such gentlemen . they helped that girl up .

[@jeraldinelao986]

The mother and the sister are more pathetic than the girl! How can they just always say she looks pathetic with whatever the little sister was doing? I'm also on her stage and ever since I started high school I've been gaining weight (which every female goes through in puberty) and both my parents and my older sister have no problems with it . They only encourage me not shame me for my body. Its not like she's some celebrity that she needs to have a strict diet to keep in shape. She's beautiful the way she is.

[@samihalol7728]

once you jongin you cant jongout I like your username so much❤️❤️

[@aokosakano3037]

once you jongin you cant jongout omg we asians are sick of westerners barging in on our culture and preaching that “fatness is ok” and “everyone is beautiful”. Nope fatness is unhealthy and unattractive and deep down everyone knows not everyone is pretty. Some are attractive and unattractive. Unattractive people must deal with the harsh reality and stop lying to themselves. Why aren’t there land whales in Asia? Cuz we have people to look out for us to keep our weight in check. Your parents are encouraging you gaining weight? Lol please don’t spread your toxic mentality to Asia.

[@amiyaclark0672]

aoko sakano how you know the commenter isn't Asian???

[@aokosakano3037]

+ big miya peach if she is asian she should know. its ok to be fat, but not ok to demand that people see you as attractive despite being fat. that is what is happening in the west.

[@amiyaclark0672]

aoko sakano I fell asleep reading your explanation, next

[@horanstylesxx]

I totally want Kai as a boyfriend now. He seems like the type of boy who would just laugh and play along if I did something wrong, or accidently burp. He seems like a really great one, and would also be the type to accept a girl how she is.

[@0Zsofia0]

I think the same :)

[@fatmaklnc4062]

I want a boyfriend kai

[@iRockYouRock67]

He seems like he is the kinda guy that will buy you tampons and pads when you run out. A total keeper.

[@cutiepiechansung7153]

He also doesn't look on skin color too, thumbs up for that. Nowadays, male (esp handome male idols) tend to look at perfect korean beauty standard (pale skin, small face, skinny body). But not Kai, he's the type that looks the heart & personality. I'm 100% sure, out of the 2 sisters, he'll definitely choose the younger sister if he had to choose.

[@trash4taymusiccovers793]

krystal is soo lucky haha. but then again kai is lucky to have her too

[@ankowaitingfordo4067]

You could see here that Kai is really soft, he seems like a sweetie even though I don't know him

[@kowsar1228]

K.will looks like Daesung so much

[@muellan9221]

ikr

[@Cris-kb7pe]

+I stole Jimins jams and also he looks like taemin

[@justahuman9273]

+I stole Jimins jams i thought i was the only one! xD

[@alinahuang]

That's exactly what I thought

[@alurania]

His voice also sounds like him!

[@lovingpink345]

I'm sorry but I'm really pissed off right now. That girl's mother and sister are so rude! It's not like she's fat or obese, she's at a nice weight and looks healthy. Telling your own daughter that she's ugly and her older sister looks better than her is NOT caring. People (especially teens) commit suicide everyday because of bullying, and to be bullied by not only your sister, but your parents as well and have to live with them everyday is not good. I feel so bad for her :(

[@Giri93067]

that's because you're probably american or something. truthfully, the girl said she understands her family is concerned about her, because they want her to eat healthy. things are not always like in the west, their culture is different, they don't act like spoiled brats and go kill themselves over stupid things like americans do. and if cancer was running through their family, the mother is true, the girl should pick a more balanced diet, otherwise it would be very dangerous. all they have to do is tone down a little bit. we can't judge them just by being bystanders. you can be thin and have an awful health, trust me.

[@lovingpink345]

Giri93067 You don't get cancer from eating unhealthy. No matter if she eats healthy or not, it's not going to stop her from getting cancer, it may reduce the chance, but it won't stop it. If anything, her eating unhealthy will lead to diabetes. I do live in the U.S but even if something like this is considered 'stupid' in your opinion, you don't really know how bad it's effecting her on the inside, and neither do I. I also do know that you can be thin and be unhealthy because I have a younger brother who is very thin but is more unhealthy than I am. I am actually considered healthy whenever I visit my doctor, but my brother tends to not be. The girl's mother and sister should just leave her alone because she is not even the slightest bit obese. They way they are treating her isn't something a loving family should do. They're making it seem like just because she's thicker than her sister, that she is unhealthy which is not true. I am half Korean and my father's side of the family moved over here from South Korea not too long ago, so I know that the culture is different. But not everyone is the same, some people are more sensitive than others. I am a pacifist and I believe there are more nice and better ways to handle things even if it's something as trivial as this. And I'm sure we both can agree that teenagers all around the world (even in Korea) kill themselves because of bullying. Which, is what her mother and sister are doing to her.

[@Giri93067]

lovingpink345 eating unhealthy can get you cancer, cancerous cells divide tremendously fast in acid environment(in your stomach), which you get from eating pizzas and hamburgers like her(my mom died of cancer, I know a lot about it). all I'm trying to say is that both parties have faults and rights. you can't blame the mother, she wants the best for her child in her own way, she's probably so extreme because she is scared because her mother-in-law and sister-in-law both died of cancer. but I also agree that she should try another way of convincing her child. as for the bullying, let's leave it like that. I really think we are a weak generation, we exaggerate everything and see life as a mere joke, when others want to live so bad a few years more. there are cases where people do have problems. but some are just a huge call for attention.

[@lovingpink345]

Giri93067 I guess we all can agree that the mother should calm down in the way she's trying to help her daughter. And true, some people are really just calling for attention (I usually try to not pay any attention to them though). It's just because I don't like seeing people hurt which is why this bothered me so much. But nobody experiences life the same way and we have differnent experiences, so our opinions and how we take in situations differ. I'm pretty sure almost everyone can agree that our generation is messed up and too many people take too many things for granted. I hope my comments don't sound too harsh. I've had friends tell me that I sound like I'm mad whenever I type over the internet.

[@RennTorakWolf]

Giri93067 fwi, just to say even though this is a month old, Asia has one of the highest rate for suicides in the world. Japan is in 10th, South Korea is in 3rd, China is in 6th ect.

[@cozyworld8358]

i became a Xingmi because of this episode. just keep falling under Yixing's charm.there's no exit... 3 years and still counting. oh how the time flies...

[@britcooper6885]

I feel so bad for that girl😢

[@e.n.d3329]

Brit Cooper I do too but it makes sense, since their family has health issues and the girl says unhealthy without restraint (8kg in a few weeks is really not that great unless you work out) but yeah feels bad

[@Rachel-zq4vu]

54:41 Kai is smashing the pillow like, "I wanna hit someone but it would be so wrong" then we have Lay next to Kai like, "Really bitch? Really now you call yourself a mom? Judging you so damn hard"

[@vampireh5]

totally XD

[@Rachel-zq4vu]

+Helen Chiu Lay.jpg

[@IIMwieMandyII]

+Rachel Kinigstein i felt like kai in that situation

[@thewallflower9867]

Rachel Kinigstein and then there is lay who is like "wtf is wrong with that mom?!"

[@peachsuns]

you shouldn't judge people by His/Her looks. even your own daughter? she's choosing between one of them. Honestly I would run away from home if I was her. you're lucky that she is patient.

[@tashacope4663]

They're lucky she was nice and sweet enough to try to defend them too! I wouldn't defend my family if they said things like that to me.

[@nuages8915]

Yes people think running away from home is a good option, what will you do then ?

[@Kysar25]

+Nya get a job then a apartment and then a boyfriend

[@nuages8915]

Kyle Martin You think getting a job is easy ? Especially if you still didn't finish your studies, also working in a coffe shop or such won't help you much with rent and paying the elecriticity, water and the internet. And what will the boyfriend help you in ?

[@nuages8915]

***** If you were serious i woud've explosed lmao

[@rubikapearls1950]

Lay my babe . "Fighting" awww sexy ass boiii (he doesnt like being called cute anymore but still can't get over this cutie pie "

[@jblee9263]

50:40 Kai being stressed out is relatable. Mom shouldnt treat their kids like this.

[@lovermafa]

if only heechul was there

[@anamikasingh265]

Would've screwed everyone lmfao 😂😂😂

[@linosrose1549]

I came here after watching the ep with Super junior👌😅

[@kannoughada4315]

seriously though ! when did being underweight become something to brag about , the older sister is very much underweight , she has no right to comment about her sister's health status ! I mean it's perfectly normal for a 165 cm girl to weight 55 kilograms , it's a healthy weight for her ! tsk .. such ignorant people , she doesn't even know the basics about being healthy and she dares to torment other people with her wrong twisted opinions !

[@tenzinwangyal9271]

I agree the younger sister is perfectly fit, but i think the elder sister's concern is valid too since its about her constantly gaining rapid weight to a point where she becomes obese in the future.

[@kannoughada4315]

Tenzin Wangyal I think that being a little bit overweight( from the big sister's point of view ) has little side effects on the girl's health compared to the harmful side-effects those torments and hurtful comments will have on the little sister's mental and psychological health , which will also affect and degrade her physical health ! it's essential to be mentally and psychologically healthy to maintain a good physical health status !

[@tenzinwangyal9271]

touché but what's to stop the sis from becoming obese in the future since it was mentioned she has been rapidly gaining weight for some time now. That said I do think the harassment should be stopped in favour of a more friendly approach. I just wanted to point out that the elder sis may have not harboured bad intentions despite the route she took.

[@tenzinwangyal9271]

touché but what's to stop the sis from becoming obese in the future since it was mentioned she has been rapidly gaining weight for some time now. That said I do think the harassment should be stopped in favour of a more friendly approach. I just wanted to point out that the elder sis may have not harboured bad intentions despite the route she took.

[@tenzinwangyal9271]

touché but what's to stop the sis from becoming obese in the future since it was mentioned she has been rapidly gaining weight for some time now. That said I do think the harassment should be stopped in favour of a more friendly approach. I just wanted to point out that the elder sis may have not harboured bad intentions despite the route she took.

[@maia9985]

Listen girl, you are gorgeous, so don't let your sister, your mother, or modern society tell you otherwise. As long as you happy, I think you are beautiful. NOT fat.

[@maia9985]

She should probably eat vegetables though.

[@igotyouallday9483]

+Maia Bird 😂😂😂😂

[@jessicatang5986]

+Maia Bird aish I see you everywhere

[@maia9985]

Jessica Tang lol I guess I'm a big fan :-D

[@user-ih1xx7gw1k]

When Jongin said he envies the guy , I knew he is the one who loves being in love.. He loves Kyungsoo way too much... Kaisoo Saranghae

[@EXOL-xg2ev]

Yeeeeees kaisoo 😢😭💞🐻🐧

[@KristysEdits]

The last guy is so very cute omggg

[@ysabel6831]

I really love Kai and Lay's reaction in here, specially Kai. He can't hide the irritation 😅😂😂😂

[@pluto-td9ng]

"Honestly I envy him. They're in love" THEN KAI WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFEEE

[@thelei7345]

Kai and Lay is so cute.weareone EXO

[@zoey4812]

I cried when the daughter was on. When I was between the ages of 16-18 I hated how I looked so much I stopped eating and was severely anorexic and bulimic. It got so bad I ended up in a hospital and in a coma from severe malnutrition and starvation. This is NOT something people should take so lightly, it's a serious problem young girls and even boys battle with all over the world.

[@mozziemichele]

+Zoey Hansen i agree! people should understand emotional pain can be as bad as physical pain :( hope you are feeling better now

[@zoey4812]

mozziemichele​ thank you. Luckily I've gotten help over the years and have been able to get better, but it still kills me when I see things like this being taken so lightly.

[@jinalee1860]

+Zoey Hansen people really need to be aware that body shaming should not be allowed whatsoever. I was and still am insecure of my weight and rolls but I know that it isn't everything about me. I hope you find confidence in yourself as well :)

[@hillygoody]

Kai was so pissed off at that moment. So was I! But then when I kept watching, I found they might be really worried about Serim's health... They just didn't know how to do it in a nicer way... Sometimes words hurt more than a knife... P.S. Though Lay always talks very little in Korean shows, he is really cute!! His unique ability of being like daydreaming makes him even more adorable!

[@jiheneygstan1679]

54:40 LAY describes exactly my feelings !! that mother is really being bitchy i get she's worried about her daughter but that's NOT how to make her lose weight !!

[@olayaromano2045]

she didnt even need to lose weight

[@haninothoney4018]

44:12 it's cute anyway the way Lay talked about how he's called Datouuu :3

[@exois9223]

I just saw the clips from a movie when he was very young and he is really really cute there ❤️

[@theluxuryoflife5076]

for that girl topic, it would be nice if they invite Hwasa, Soyou and Hyolyn sistar. i bet they support the lil sis and slapped words to the sister and mother face.

[@RiRi-ku6xz]

🤚😊🙋‍♀️👍👍👍👍

[@iloveyoufor10000years]

I love Kai's reaction to the third guest (the girl saying that her sister thinks she's fat). He looked really frustrated. I love him even more ♡

[@agustin5855]

am i the only one who think that k.will look like daesung ?

[@mounikathota2266]

me tooo

[@aikochu7098]

you're not alone, and they have beautiful voices too ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@jahajahai6204]

me tooooooo

[@cosmari245]

Nope! I think so too! VIP here!

[@Enigma_Enigma_]

he sounds like him too

[@wonniex.]

Who cares if she's pretty and skinny if her personality is so ugly? tf imagine having a conversation with a person who has that kind of mentality. Nope, sign me out ✌🏻

[@yariilaboriigiirl]

Oh How I wish Jessi would've been in this episode 😤

[@wannursuhailah6813]

ok 지민 Me too!! She would've probably killed the mom and the sister tbh. I don't think she'd let them go easily.

[@mesomac4509]

I agree in the sense that jessi would cuss them out though what confuses me bout jessi is that she's VERY skinny, she doesn't strike me as the type to care about being so skinny

[@teishaguillem5195]

Wan Nur Suhailah smh

[@ThemedNumber02]

I couldn't stop laughing with the older sister started crying when she started to talk about eating the vegetable on her pizza and hamburgers.

[@caroldufrechou9670]

Am i the only one who can't stop looking at Kai? His smile gives me life, no joke.

[@DefineMorena]

Same 😭😭😭

[@havemarcie]

IKR his eyes are sooooo deep and his smile lights the room definitely brighter than my future

[@patriciaalimbuyao5868]

I hope they weren't too harsh on her. Those words might scar her for the rest of her life. And her mother saying that the girl doesn't seem like her daughter; isn't that going too far? Furthermore she expressed her (the girl) feelings verbally and the mother seems to refuse that those harsh words aren't hurting her daughter. I get that she was concerned there was no need to be harsh to her or embarrass her in front of her friends.

[@babyyneekyy]

Genuinely the younger daughter is prettier. They're hyping the older daughter up way too much.