Hello Counselor - Kim Youngok, Baro, Jinyoung [ENG/THA/2016.12.19]

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- Ep.303: Featured in this episode are a daughter who rants about her father’s unfair treatment because of his extreme affection for his other child, a woman who finds her alcoholic sister and her extreme drinking habits absolutely worrisome, and a wife who goes frantic about her husband who is crazy about foot volleyball.
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[@kwells1111]

For the first concern I'm sooo glad the oldest daughter was able to expose her dad like that. He kept makes excuses to justify how he treats her and I hope everyone who knows them saw this show and tells him how horrible of a person he's been. Just one day of "okay" treatment of his daughter is not going to makeup for the cruelty he's been putting her through for years. I hope he spends the rest of his life feeling guilty about this and loves her the way she should be loved.

[@brittanywallace3382]

kwells1111 I don't know man they had a long separation, he might just honestly not like her or love her as much he can't help how he feels. I think though as a parent he at least needs to try to care more or pretend too.

[@kwells1111]

brittany wallace I don't think seperation justifies his reason for treating her that way tho. He geniuinely has been using that excuse to make sure he only has to care for one kid instead of two and my heart just hurts for her. Like all these years all he had to do was try, but he could'nt even do that..Agreed tho, I hope he actually tries to be a "parent" this time around.

[@MultiRosy1995]

i agree with kwells1111, I lived in Nigeria away from my parents from when I was 13 and just moved back to the U.S. and I'm 21 and my father never treated me the way that this father treated his daughter and I lived in a different continent from my family.

[@codycat6]

MultiRosy1995 that's different. you were 13 and had obviously grown up with him and from 13 you're on your trip to adulthood but those years before 13 are or should be the most important to parents in my opinion

[@mclara3760]

Roblox B2STboys It does not change anything at all, I was separated of my parents from 4 to 8 yeals old and they had to see me 2 times per month, and my sister lived with them. They always threated me just the way they threat her until nowdays. It's only a excuse that people with a little fucked up mind do.

[@louisegreig3915]

The dad in the first concern us so awful. He has a perfect daughter but he treats her wrongly. It's gonna cause emotional and mental problems for the daughter. If I where there I wouldn't have been able to contain my anger.

[@rimshakayastha6850]

He was just being sadistic there. I and my little brother have an age gap of nine years and yet my parents treat us equally so age difference should never be the issue. Well, I do get scolded instead of my brother sometimes but that's a given. In this case, it just looks like the roles have switched; the dad is immature and says whatever's on his mind while the daughter is the mature one.

[@alexk.02]

i mean i have a 14 year age gap with my sister and there is times where i am treated unfairly but then i tell him straight up that i understand cause she is younger but he needs to understand that he had two kids and he needs to take care of both and treat them both semi fairly

[@almostatami]

Louise Greig She's such a strong girl too. He treated her like crap and she still loved him. Wow.

[@1125oboe]

I agree that this issue has nothing to do with age gap. I'm older than my brother by over 7 years and I've never been told I was a bother or that I was annoying. And what I don't understand is that usually it's the dad that dotes on his daughter, yet in this case he's so rude and thoughtless. Doesn't matter how awkward your relationship is with your daughter you don't push her aside and refuse to acknowledge her efforts or existence. I applaud her for not simply giving up and not bothering to form a relationship with her father, because that's something I would most certainly have done

[@briad.6634]

No kidding, I would have lost it. The worst part is that he can just admit all these things in front of celebrities, a live audience, and millions of TV viewers without even looking bothered. I seriously worry how this girl will have to continue to grow up, like I doubt he even feels compelled to change. I really hope the other people in her life can support her so that this doesn't do lasting damage on her future relationships/actions.

[@leacross]

that father on the first segment is so cruel to his daughter, I would have given up being his daughter if I were her. Honestly, that girl is an angel for withstanding her dad.

[@ayen3919]

IKR?! the way the daughter looks on the father is soooo loving. damn, if i was the girl i would never talk to him anymore. like 'bruh k.fine' and focus on my mother and grandparents

[@zzzchannel5407]

Kari Lopez if i was her , iam gonna ask for 3 million won and made a little company by myself, run from house and give some of the money only for my mom and my sis.. ill play hard to get too with my father bcs he does that to mee.. iam so jelly to her bcs she is so kind hearted ugh but unfortunately iam suchh a rlly different type from her

[@emackenzie]

zzz channel 3 million won is less than $3k, you're gonna need a lot more than that lmao

[@shabnamparveen4599]

I know if I would have been his daughter I would have just stopped asking for his love after so many times and wouldn't even come on this show what should I resolve and beg for his love when he doesn't love me as a parent u dont beg ur parents for love they love u naturally but he dosent and I would have stopped caring about him and focused my attention and my love for mother and grandparents and would have stopped talking to him forever and the would have just left the home and earn money and give it to my mother nothing for him and would have played hard like he did so frustrated by him and I dont think he will change or stop favouring the younger child bcz he so used to favouring her and by doing this he himself is spoiling her and making her a brat

[@thatamazingprocrastinator]

I would be a rebel kid and move out of the house ✌️

[@Julia-fp7kx]

"You're hiding your wings, aren't you?" CUTE AF

[@narendrakumar1300]

Trueeee ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@surekhasama5890]

Yeah truee

[@rp.reikihealing]

i feel so bad for the girl in the first concern. She will grow up resenting her dad and little sister, and the little sister will grow up to be a brat who thinks the world revolves around her.

[@SanaSamaha]

Well, it seems like the little girl realized how much it hurt her sister, so maybe she will grow up differently with that knowledge.

[@cc-co3gk]

Rachael Sarah Little kids understand more than you realise

[@rp.reikihealing]

That's true, but if the dynamic doesn't change between the father and the daughter, then the younger one may realize that she can use his love to her advantage and try to get away with more things because of it. Hopefully that wouldn't happen, but like you said, kids are smarter than people realize, so she could grow up to become manipulative because of it.

[@lenora_peaceful4168]

Just like beautifully shown by Kim Bitna in 'Still loving You'...thought world revolved around only her and woe r u if u got in her way.

[@nadia2883]

she has no anger on sister she despises the father for how he acts

[@LyraTomlayne]

I'm so mad at the first concern. That dad is ridiculous. I feel really bad for Mijin, she's such a sweet girl who doesn't deserve any of this

[@hazel-mv3qm]

If I had a dollar for every time there was an alcohol related concern on this show...

[@salmaa2505]

I'd probably have enough money to buy a ticket to Korea and watch the show in person with all those dollars

[@labellaxia7853]

A Carat's Buddy me too! lol

[@labellaxia7853]

EXO Kai's Wife and for the first concern, one parent or grandparents always favor one completely over the other.

[@blingblingisjonghyun6178]

EXO Kai's Wife Then I Would Be Able To,Go To An Exo, Bts, Shinee, Monsta X, Got7 And Nu'est Concert But #StillDreaming

[@impossidan1851]

Salma A to bad theres no captions in the live show😂

[@ms.dannyd9219]

the first concern was hard to listen to. her father sounds so cruel and mean and it amazes me how she still manages to love such a man. I feel so bad for her :/

[@hasa8491]

I'm glad that they addressed how her current relationship with her father will affect her future relationships with other men whether it be a significant other or coworkers. She'll be easily taken advantage of :(.

[@labellaxia7853]

just cried so much for the first concern

[@emiliawilson4378]

La bellaXia Thank God I'm not alone T.T

[@erikasanger7031]

La bellaXia I cried too much for the first concern, now I have a clogged nose

[@nadahamidanelhassani9411]

Same I have a headache now

[@kpoppersui.4563]

Same

[@jaebum7169]

La bellaXia same i'm just surprised she didn't cry

[@hxpewxrld]

I would've exploded at the father in the first concern. I'm so upset >:| There are many fathers who don't show outright affection, but the fact that he treated the younger one like a princess shows that h's quite obviously capable of doing so. Mijin is on the way to developing really bad dad complex, she's gonna end up making really bad decisions when it come to significant others if something doesn't change immediately.

[@hxpewxrld]

***** Uhm, I know quite a few people who have developed issues like that because of their relationship with their parents, it's a pretty big deal

[@thisiswolfmoon]

Rebelling would only have made her relationship with her dad worse. What she wants isn't justice-- it's her dad's love. I know because I rebelled, and my relationship with my dad couldn't be worse. Difference is, I don't want my dad's love. I think it's amazing how she's able to forgive her dad for everything.

[@thisiswolfmoon]

I'm just saying that it's more complicated than that. She's not bearing with it because she's a pushover, she's bearing with it because she doesn't want to worsen her relationship with her dad.

[@Minxy_binxy7]

Sandra B very true...I've learned from my mistakes

[@idastaszczuk9523]

She's definitely not a pushover. She tries over and over again to get a little bit of love from her father. To me she's a strong young girl, and also very mature for her age because rebelling and distancing oneself from their father is what most teenagers do, but she chooses not to despite the shitty treatment she gets from her asshole father.

[@rosemilkytea]

omg what kind of father calls his daughter creepy & gross, what a nasty man. And the way he looks down on all her effects to get to know him & do well at school is so ridiculous, I can't even really see him as a person after watching this. If I lived in the same neighbourhood I don't think I'd be able to even say hi even if that's considered rude lol I find that 8 year olds these days are a lot smarter than most people realize, it's entirely possible that she acts sweet in front of her father but acts differently towards her sister in private, since she knows the father will always be on her side. If he doesn't change his ways she's going to grow up to be a spoiled brat (if she isn't already). 22:49 Kim Youngok is my idol she's so savage lol. No wonder she's so good at rapping 😂 😂😂 😂

[@uroosam1853]

rosemilktewh I agree with you. I felt like going through the screen and hugging the girl and slapping her father. I don't get what kind of father can call her daughter disgusting and creepy. It's really disturbing to see such kind of parents.

[@HisSnuggleBear18]

He says that because he doesn't even consider her his daughter, which makes it all that much worse. That poor girl will get involved with an older man at some point if she hasn't already.

[@nadia2883]

dad obviously is a fucking pervert lolicon if he likes little girls (seeming like a couple like the mother of the 2 girls said)

[@noyb8340]

The little sister in the first concern is kinda scary not sure if she was fake crying or not The fact that she acts differently in front of her dad and sister just shows how bad it is to spoil ur kids

[@starrrysky8952]

but she just eight years old,

[@virainsani8394]

It's because she's 8 yo that's become scarier, it would become her habit if the situation doesn't change. sorry for my bad english

[@omegasage777]

Your English is great! :)

[@virainsani8394]

thankyou :)

[@mallowshan]

That's the thing that is scary. You don't know what's runnung in her head. 😂👻

[@LilyN2099]

I cried so hard while watching the first concern

[@user-ti9ix7hi8l]

right? i was lowkey weeping and my mum was concerned.

[@MariaFernanda-yr2ff]

My aesthetic is Taejoon getting angry at the people who cause the concerns. He's amazing

[@pluto19leo]

Wow, Kim Young OK is 79 years old!:She must have found the fountain of youth! She is beautiful and graceful! I enjoyed seeing her in dramas - still cannot get over how beautiful and healthy she looks and acts. Kudos!

[@ailem2707]

Can we have Kim Youngok as a fixed guest please? I'm loving that lady

[@fromjkim]

nahhh

[@Tatythrasy]

I wish that someone can tell the girl in the first concern that if a man treats you like that no matter who it is you throw them away and her father is so freaking fake with crying. he's not a man he's still a boy and a coward

[@Krisse91]

Yes! It's like they got their first child when they were too young and dumped her to the grandparents and when they had another there was no more excuse to keep her there so they took the older child back. ÄÄÄH..

[@sugarapplepie]

THANK YOU. This post should be THE STANDARD RULE for females when it comes to finding a man.

[@shabnamparveen4599]

I totally agree with u and there is nothing wrong in it if he being a parent can be so cruel to his own daughter and discriminate between them then he has no right to be present I her life or even be called as her father he doesn't deserve that title he is father to only the younger daughter not her sons he should just stop begging him for his love and attention and he says that he likes to tease her and all who does this and even i think that he is just faking it bcz he has to hes on the tv otherwise he doesn't feel guilty at all or will change and this sweet girl should just let him be and think as if he is not her dad anymore and focus on her and be a great daughter to her mother and earn hard and keep her mother happy let her dad be in hell she should just stop talking to him throw him out of her life

[@Eve141290]

Jinyoung 😍😍 erratic heartbeat during the "moonlight drawn by clouds" line

[@BerniceAnthia]

I can't with that dad. He does not even deserve the title of a dad.

[@taejin4553]

One of the only good things on Mondays. 😀😀😀

[@marianeladickson211]

Kpopislife ikr, starts my day off great

[@analisenervis9005]

Ikr

[@lanbui7813]

seriously

[@maemae3351]

The dad from the first concern really needs to get his shit together. Discriminating HIS daughters like that can make them hate each other till they grow old. Just like my dad and his sister. They stopped talking after high school and they're in their 50s now, but they still refuse to talk to each other

[@taiwoadewoye4057]

that first concern though, such a cruel father

[@softblackswan3714]

fuck i cried at the first concern. *sobs*

[@andsgayle3191]

Flying Naruki Same 😭

[@jenyeol]

Jinyoung always gets asked on shows to say a line from his recent drama nowadays. It's great that he's being acknowledged for his acting (however I wonder how he feels getting asked the same thing over and over lol)

[@jenyeol]

Also for the first concern I felt so sad for Mijin, I ended up tearing a bit T.T She seems very sweet and mature for her age/for someone who has been treated like that. No one deserves to feel unequal with their siblings. I feel like more parents need to know their boundaries when it comes to treating the younger child vs older child.. It can really put an emotional strain on them throughout their lives.. ;-;

[@aianatazabekova1025]

girl in the first concern is pure angel omg

[@lakshmikannan119]

omg the girl on the first problem is sooooo pretty!!

[@Chriss_KA]

Lakshmi Kannan Yeah! she could be an actress just like Kim Yoojung. P.S: Alina Baraz fan 👍😏

[@thangvuong9196]

It's beginning to be frustrating to watch this show, every other show has alcoholic related concerns, and yet it is not treated like an addiction that needs to be treated psychologically and medically. For a country so advanced in so many ways, they accept alcoholism as a cultural given instead of an addiction that needs to be treated

[@zindzy2330]

Thang Vuong Some countries are like that...

[@jadeurn]

Taejoon is so sweet. He always makes sure to stand up for teenagers like us, specially little girls who go through these kind of family problems and mistreatment. That's really admirable for a guy.

[@hi.imjojo.x]

The first concern had me in absolute tears... how awful that a father could be so cold to his daughter!

[@BlasianChineseBoy]

Damn, I felt bad for the girl Mijin in first concern. She is such a sweetheart with well manners. The father is a serious pain in the ass and mistreats her so much, he doesn't even deserve to have her in his care...very cruel man tsk tsk I commend the daughter for putting up with the abuse, but she truly deserves better.

[@Lanhua.v]

"She turned well for a daughter of someone like you." Idk if i should laugh or cry at that...Frankly I'm doing both.

[@judykang2]

The first concern- The daughter didn't ask to be born. It's not her fault she had to be raised under her grandmother because her parents were working. As a father, he's the one who brought her into this world. So he needs to accept responsibility for that and watch over her, and make up for lost time. Even if he had no choice but to leave her with her grandmother, it's still his responsibility as a parent to ensure she grows up well by all means possible. Instead he's emotionally abandoning her because he personally finds it awkward or weird to show affection to her. When the daughter doesn't know anything and just wants a parents love. It's selfish, he's only considering how he feels and not how his kid feels. He needs to make sure she knows she's loved. He doesn't deserve to call himself a parent.

[@eyeswithhope13]

South Korea is too lenient on alcohol consumption, seriously. That woman has an addiction. Honestly I notice that the majority of these problems on this show are caused by alcohol.

[@nadia2883]

says former drinker? exactly how do you notice it if you have not been in her shoes lol stop bullshitting alcohol is issue in every country not just south korea

[@ericsetiady4928]

Her boyfriend must like her drunk habit

[@shackylicious]

I have a similar experience with the first girl. I use to try my hardest to get some form of affection from my dad that I just gave up caring. So now that I'm an adult and he's much older and grasped some life crisis to be more affectionate towards me, getting a hug just feels so awkward.

[@codycat6]

shackylicious aw, I feel really bad for you.. my dad split with my mum when I was young but he tries to keep a relationship with me my brother and my mother. It would feel as if I didn't have a father if he didn't try and I'm glad he does try

[@shackylicious]

Roblox B2STboys I'm happy he does too! It's good to have caring parents

[@cc-co3gk]

shackylicious My dad preferred my brother over my sister and i now i don't really consider him as a 'father' anymore i cried because i can relate to this girl.

[@deadlynightshade1269]

lmao same. my dad didn't gave me much love either when I was growing up, so now not only a hug but everything he tries to do with me, like father and son stuff idk, is awkward.

[@spacegirls16]

shackylicious I'm the same, I'm the only girl and the first child of my family but my father treats me like I'm a loser

[@zoe-mv6ji]

The girl in the first concern is so beautiful. The dad needs to stop being immature and even if its awkward mask it lol she's your daughter so learn to be appreciative of that. At least he seems to be regretful near the end coz those emotions didnt seem too fake. Also I feel bad for Yejin she must feel in a way responsible and shes too young

[@adiam7060]

I saw hello counselor last night when I came home from work.. I couldn't stop crying over the first concern..he's awful. and his daughter is really kind..what a beautiful , smart and kind girl..

[@dr.amellea.yassin4769]

The first concern, the dad is so immature and unnecessarily cruel to his daughter saying "it's fun" to pick on her just to see her reaction. The amusing thing to note however is how the second child is mimicking her father when he puts his head down and even when he got emotional she's also wiping her eye. I love that hal munye tho

[@girlwithabitofall2434]

The father in the first concern reminds of my father. He tends to discourage and belittle me whenever I try to put an effort into something.

[@yeraziktahmasian4579]

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[@kawaiibunnbunn]

when they asked the dad to choose Mijin and her younger sister, I cried because I felt so bad for her. ㅠㅠ every child needs love from both of THER mom and dad~

[@ETFbvbAA]

I used to feel like the first daughter. Me and my dad have an awkward relationship but he doesn't ignore me. The first concern made me cry so much how is the first daughter so strong...

[@trangluu789]

if the dad in the first concern doesn't correct his behaviour soon, he'll damage not only his relationship w/ the older daughter but also his children's. I was actually the favoured sister when it came to my dad because I was the gentle type. This made my little sis resent me and when she got to middle school, she ended up fighting me all the time. We're better now after I spent a lot of time with her when she was hospitalized. But whenever our family has a quarrel, if I ask her to understand our parents, she'll say I just say that because they like me, which makes me both mad and sad.

[@ree1997itsme]

The first concern hit home, because my mom had to go through the same thing growing up even now she is treated the same and it saddens me and pisses me off at the same time.

[@sarahwoo5085]

when he asked if she had been "hiding her wings" i nesrly cried because she is so blessed with a smart and open minded mindset, i wouldn't be able to live in that house if I were her yet she is so persistent on loving her father.

[@maryme6696]

I'm so glad that it seems Taejoon has more duties : ) and I think he does a great job for reading the story.

[@MsLilahbug]

The first story honestly made me cry. I cried for the girl. I feel so sorry for her

[@kardsh]

the fuck is wrong with that father? if it's so awkward to you then you should've kept her with her grandparents! they raised her and they would've given her the love she deserves!

[@ananyaneralla5382]

Nafolchan Gurlll....let me answer your very first question, It's his brain. He is brain-fvcked.

[@pukbentsen6781]

This made me realize that i should apreciate the affection my dad shows for me much more.

[@lanavictoria8715]

I want to give Mijin a big hug and treat her to her favourite food because honestly a girl like her deserves the world and I sincerely hope her father changes his ways!

[@jimkemp1619]

Ahhh. This remind me of my relationship with my mom I feel you Minji! Stay smart and pretty! 😘

[@ostaniawhestalis8416]

in the first concern the older daughter is so pretty and mature

[@missbee2nice]

Yay!!! Finally here. My favourite Monday show.

[@samm169]

the girl in the first concern i thought i was looking at ioi's Doyeon she looks so similar or is it just me, shes pretty!

[@finessr12]

I knew I was thinking of an IOI member, but I don't know them by names. COMPLETELY AGREE!! She's so pretty.

[@FlorianBooo]

Damn I didn't expected him to cry, this show plays with my emotionnnns

[@xRavingMassacrex]

The Father in the first concern should be careful because Mijin so hard and could possible suffer from depression, his kids can grow older and Yejin will always boast about being the loved one, or by spoiling Yejin she will have the possibility of becoming the rebellious child that will push him away. Your children should be loved equally no matter how far the gap is, and Mijin is at that age where college is around the corner she needs that support to grow and transition.

[@Icebearbear]

watching the first concern is giving me a headache, SHE WAS YOUR FIRST DAUGHTER, THAT YOU COULDNT GET TO SEE GROW UP, i would have been so upset if i was him, i would be so mad at myself for not being able to raise her for 8 years of her life. I feel so sorry for her, she did a good job by bring it out and asking for help, MIJIN HWAITING!!

[@Dstanciuc]

the first concern as everybody says is just fucked up crazy!!! that man made me so angry

[@najajohnson7502]

the second concern when the sister threw her under the bus by say she drinks too😂😂

[@raisachoudhury4071]

The first concern really made me want to cry, especially when he has such an amazing daughter. She saves money to give them an anniversary present, she actually wants to pose in pictures with him, she works hard for his effect, and yet he gives nothing in return. Although, he cried and said he would do better, idk if he actually will. For such a long period in the episode, he looked to be unapologetic, it was only toward the end that he actually "cried" and said he would "change." I hope the daughter finds a better father figure in someone else, like her uncle or grandfather. This might not be the exact same bond, but my grandparents live in Bangladesh and I live in the U.S. Despite me hardly ever seeing them or even talking to them due to a language barrier, when I do visit they always treat me kindly and give affection equally to their other grandkids who they see regularly. The father has no excuse for treating his daughter like that, not to mention, I believe, she moved back in when the younger sister was born, meaning she moved back at 8, so that's plenty of time to get used to his daughter. Idk what the father's deal is, but his excuses are horrible! As for the second concern . . . I absolutely understand why she wanted to help her sister and her drinking habits, but airing that out on national television can hurt her. I can already see people looking at her on the streets and shaming her for her drinking habits. I hate to admit this, but women in Korea are treated much more harshly by society than men and scrutinized much more for similar actions. Although she wants to help her sister, she's not helping her at all by doing this, rather, her sister needs professional help to stop her drinking. The family should also help by not drinking at all during dinners and taking out all the alcohol from the house. This can be seen as a major sacrifice and people might question why they have to do that to help someone else lack of ability to control their drinking, but if the woman's family truly cared about her and truly want her to get better, they need to make sacrifices like that. I don't understand why her sister agreed to go on national television and air her dirty laundry like that, but the lady who submitted the concern, should not have revealed those stories, bottom line. What I hate the most, is that she clearly knew what she was saying might harm her sister's reputation and how society views her, but she's doing it anyway. Shaming a person into doing something you want isn't the answer, they need to truly want to change in order for change to happen.

[@maemae3351]

The kid in the last concern is gonna be so handsome when he grows up lmao I'm so random I sound like a creep

[@rubinatamu455]

Don't worry i also thought that.

[@hickyxnicky411]

same

[@Kt-cn2rq]

TheNational S that was a compliment. Unlike dad first one where the dad a pedo kissing holding his daughter like lovers. That's creepy asf.

[@umbral_echo]

@@Kt-cn2rq Well, the kissing and holding part isn't strange. I'm not sure about other countries but I've noticed in South Korea it seems much more common to kiss your children on the lips and be very physically affectionate with them, especially when they're younger. (And to be fair, in history, mouth kisses were originally only meant for family members because of germs and such, actually. A weird tidbit I remembered from World History class.)

[@paradiseana1]

I have serious problem with first concern, as a parent you should praise, encourage and support your child individually The world is a cold and indifferent place if a child can't come to their parents as their strongest support or their role model then there always those who will take their place to wrong your child and most importantly their self image, sense of self gets shattered.

[@aquareayla]

I honestly don't understand how Mijin has that much perseverance to try again and again to get a single compliment from her father. It's so heartbreaking seeing how much she tries but comes out empty handed, yet she wants to mend their relationship so much she's willing to hear those harsh words again in an attempt to get a step closer to him. I understand she grew up separate from him and her mother, but he should have made up those missing years when they got back together instead of neglecting her further. What made me the most sad is the fact that Mijin didn't shed a tear- it signifies she's already went through all the sadness and had herself heartbroken in every possible way that she no longer feels anything when she's being hurt. The fact the younger sister even comprehends the situation when she's only benefited from it makes it even worst. The younger sister understands, and she's trying to tell her father, but all she gets is her sister in more trouble. That's terribly heartbreaking. If this goes on any further, the sisters might have problems with each other as well. I can see that the father probably didn't realize anything wrong from the start, but by the end of it I can see that he tried fixing his problems and his guilt subconsiously by raising the youngest with all the love in the world. But by doing this it only created grief for the oldest daughter. Her grandparents brought her up so well... It's true when they said she was an angel. I hope that he and everyone understands that time doesn't stop, it simply keeps moving forward. No matter what state someone is in, time doesn't slow for anyone. Time passes and no one can do anything about it, the only thing one can control is how wisely they use that time. I hope the best to this family.

[@samm169]

the 8 year old sister is more mature than the father..

[@neelya1221]

Damn Mijin is a strong girl for not crying when they're all talking about it. She must've cried a lot back then :')

[@mun6138]

i would've cried so hard if i were mijin.. i also cried after hearing her story and i was holding still since the beginning.. i wanna feel loved too... but i just cant find it anywhere not from my family not from my friends its just so hard to have lots of people around you but youre empty inside last 2 months I've been so heart broken and i cant find a clear reason for that i just wish from all of my heart to be appreciated and loved as much as it could get.

[@precious94]

emma hope you feel better 💕

[@wumipopoola4030]

Jin young!!!!!!!!😍😍😍😍

[@arikalamari19]

the counselors are a great combo💪and i would have loved to grow up with such a sophisticated and cool grandma 🙇‍♀️

[@heykid95]

Ah the father in the first concern is really a handful... he's pushing his own daughter away & she's hurting so bad from it! If he keeps letting the little one (as cute as she is) get away with murder, her teenage years are going to be hell on him & the mom, the older sister will be out of the house so she won't have to deal with it! I bet he'd be furious if he saw his daughter in her 20s telling a man how much she loves him & making him stuff & he takes it then tells her to get lost to which she just says "ok honey I love you"! If he doesn't want another man treating his daughter like a burden why would he? A father is the first contact a girl has with men & he could've really damaged her relationships (romantic or platonic) with men in the future! I hope they can mend their relationship & she can have strong healthy affectionate relationships with her dad, sister & her future partners! She seems like a great kid & I hope her father tells her that more often! The 2nd concern is scary bc she is obviously bordering on, or already dealing with, alcoholism & bc the people around her think they can just tell her to stop! I agree with showing her how she acts so she can really see how this is affecting her & then try not to drink around her! If she has a problem, she's not gonna get better with you doing it right in front of her! This is gonna be a tough journey so my wish is that her older sister & boyfriend (of 52 days LMAO) lends her their shoulders, we all need help sometimes! The third concern doesn't worry me much I think the husband just gotta take the time to limit his stress relief time & it'll all fall into place. Its gonna take some growing up on his part but I believe in him! P.S their kid is adorable lmao P.P.S I can't lie & say my affection for Jinyoung & Baro didn't grow seeing them make thoughtful observations like they did! Gotta love B1A4! They're as kind as they are talented & they're overflowing with both plus a bunch of good looks LMAO

[@jasminesoyinka]

I cried through the first problem!

[@bl00m_22]

I just saw this episode but the first concern already made me cry when I heard about it. I know how it feels like, except with the opposite parent. My mother loves my sister more than me and she's proud of it, so I bottle it up until I can't hold it anymore. I feel bad that this had to happen to anyone else. This can cause mental illnesses and other problems as she grows into a mature adult.

[@elizabethbaldwin5226]

The first concern made me cry because I reflected on how I treat my parents, they give me things, they keep me alive. . .but I act so rude and disrespectful that it hurts them and I know it does and I can see it too, but it feels like they always have the iron fist ready, they always tell me 'you should smile more' 'stop answering us with grunts' 'you're so ungrateful' . . .but before this even happened I would do stuff like what the girl did, I made breakfast for them once. . .they didn't even eat it and when I finally brought it up to my mom she said 'I don't remember' she looked at me like I made it up, and with my dad, when I was a child, his only focus would be on the TV when he gets home and when I asked him something or tell him something he'd say 'hm' without even looking at me. So in a way I feel where the girl is coming from, she's having a hard time with having her father show her some love and it frustrates a growing child, so they change. . .i just hope the dad will show his daughter more love so that she grows up to be happy and in a good relationship with her parents.

[@RoshellDian]

Is there any video of the past guest there that their problems were solved truely not just by words? I mean how they're doing now..like that? Was going to this program really helpful

[@dnmahboi5450]

jinyoungs face when her sister said " she was sleeping half naked " 😂 (edit) his face when she said she witnessed it 4-5 times 😂

[@senumii5626]

i cried because of the first concern😢😢😢. I felt that so bad for the daughter

[@trinitybertinelli552]

OMG! That guy in navy shirt and gray-white sleeves is so cute

[@andreawatts5224]

Lena Mohammed His name is Choi TaeJoon.. he's on We got married too

[@jznkim]

Andrea Watts didn't he get married to bomi in a pink

[@andreawatts5224]

Park JiminBTS yep that s right

[@Saraanade]

I cried while watching the first story. I can relate so much and my heart broke when i realized she's going through what i did. Honestly there's a lot of us experiencing this. I wish the girl and her family happiness as well as all of you struggling ♡

[@vip-yk8gw]

I thought the drinking problem was going to get much more votes. It's really dangerous how she's sleeping in the streets and she even wets herself. On this show they act like alcoholics are normal. They need to treat the issue seriously. The grandma host gave good advice but not many members of the audience voted so it's like they don't think it's a problem.

[@Changgie]

it's because over there alcoholims is nothing

[@ericsetiady4928]

Is like smoking, very addictive

[@meech5407]

The father in the first concern is such a crappy person, his daughter is caring and loving and she's really pretty and it's hard to find teens like that most days and I bet she even does well in school and yet he treats her like crap and it sickens me to see that he's even proud of it

[@user-xk1gw2vm1b]

It's 2024 and I'm still binge watching this show.Still funny,and educative.

[@fabiolalopez4273]

Omg! My precious! Kim Young Ok! 😍

[@titemartiniquaise]

Fabiola Lopez Ooooohhh it's her???

[@fabiolalopez4273]

titemartiniquaise Yes! She was the grandma in Shopping King Louis

[@ameliaoktavina3142]

This is the first time I cried watching this show. Mijin's story was so sad, I hope everything's turning out better for her. :) So concerned when her father couldn't even brag about her, while she's a really good daughter. This story told us why parents should never take sides. He better start to change, because it will be too late to fix it when she's fully grown up and mature. She'll be hurt, and it's not easy to forget about it.

[@ericsetiady4928]

Don't worry her mama will suport her and she will find husband oposite her dad behaviour

[@Changgie]

i want to watch this T_T Jinyoung and Baro are here!!! but i need to clean my house T_T Is she the Grandmother that Jooheon teach how to rap? i'm not sure i can't believe it, the little girl is more mature than their dad, it's sad how he talk about his daughter, "it's gross" gross is him ¬¬ she's so beautiful, and he talk about her like if she were kid of other guy, he can't even "Smile to her" really in this moment i want to go there and broke a table in his face... i hope he change, at least he show some humanity Koreans and Alcohol, Alcohol and Koreans, i'm already used to it "That's a funny episode" i'm still trying to find the funny part... that was dangerous That girl have a serious problem, i use to drink too, but i never forgot what i did and i was aware of what i did.. at least she released she have a problem

[@nkechi0122]

Bro and the funny thing is I remember seeing a documentary on how there is alot of homeless old people and young people not wanting to take care of there elderly parents in S. Korea AND YOU MEAN TO TELL THIS MAN IS NOT GRATEFUL FOR A CHILD LIKE THIS like she actually WANTS to talk to him. WE NEED more people like her in this world.

[@sjbaem4448]

The first concern is absolutely infuriating! How can a father treat his own daughter like that?! She's so sweet and at her age to be so affectionate towards her father is a rarity. He sits there looking all nonchalant as if it's no big deal and says it's for her best. I don't think he'll feel the same in a few years if he continues his behaviour and she starts rebelling and tries to get the love she didn't get from him in all the wrong places. He won't feel the same when she hates both him and her sister. He should be more affectionate towards her no since he missed out on a lot when she was younger. Parents like him are the ones who create emotionally damaged adults and to think he saw nothing wrong with it before is even more saddening smh. This concern made me realise how grateful I should be to my own father he's nothing like that crazy mofo thank god.

[@codycat6]

taewoon was so cute, and he spoke nicely

[@rainbowandtheshrimp3979]

I just can't hold my tears when I listen to Mijin's concern😭 She is such a tough and mature girl at this young age

[@tomama3116]

the first counselor girl is really sweet and grow up strong comparing to her peers in her age. it's not her fault to grow up away from her parents, But her father make her feel like this. in Eng Sub they keep repeating CREEPY to what her father feel about her, BUT THE MEANING OF THE WORK IN KOREAN IS MORE THAN THIS

[@VK.x]

27:36 I can’t be the only in tears, listening to this Angel 🧿🫶🙏🏼

[@princesscordelia226]

I am learning many things from watching this show. Even if we don't think too much about our actions people around us can get hurt so easily. So I am gonna be more careful from now on about my actions. I used to be like that. But I gave up recently because I felt like I was the only one suffering.But it seems like everyone has their own battle. So Let's be kind and mindful about people around us...Fighting!

[@tinazheng8789]

The son in the third concern is so cute!

[@demi1dvioletta370]

The first concern made me feel really mad & sad at the same time.. I mean she's still his daughter and he should also love her as much as his other one

[@bomit-araqueenapinkbravegi4770]

that father is disgusting like what in the world like they said what if she really started to think that he hates her and he puts her down during every thing its just hateful. TaeJoon is right he's unnecessary unkind

[@haifanaveed6698]

I only watched the first concern and it totally broke my heart.....According to studies ignoring someone or your loved ones causes the same chemical reaction in the brain as experiencing a physical injury.....Thank God My father has always been so loving towards me and my siblings equally. He says that we are his strength and whatever hard work he does is for us so that we could have everything we want. I can proudly say He is the best dad in the world. Dad is the first hero for his daughter and my dad is my hero. ❤

[@seraphimhealing]

mijin looks a bit like yooa!

[@neverdowifeydutiesatgirlfriend]

koreans and alcohol ..sigh

[@anna_2100]

Gloria Asare well it's not only Korea

[@neverdowifeydutiesatgirlfriend]

kpop trash am watching a Korean show now and it true they have drinking issues

[@anna_2100]

I don't think you can really judge that from one show. Millions of people drink like that outside Korea

[@neverdowifeydutiesatgirlfriend]

kpop trash am not judging but how many times have we seen Koreans and alcohol issues .and let say i care more about Korean stuff and is into Korean stuff ..

[@neverdowifeydutiesatgirlfriend]

and i have been watching this show since so my comment is not based on this one episode or this one show

[@rymchad4883]

I can understand the girl from the first concern, my parent always favored my bid sister over me so I grow up craving for attention and kind from others and it made my relationship with my friends difficult

[@theemelancholicgyal]

-Dad irked me so much from the first concern. I sincerely hope he changes. -Second concern: She just needs to go completely cold turkey. Her drinking habit is escalating to the point where it's dangerous and destructive

[@bryannahernandez5228]

In the first concern the MCees were saying the father couldn't praise his daughter because it was all deep inside of him, but in reality it was just because he obviously didn't really love her. If he actually loved her he would hate to cause her pain and would actually put in a solid effort, but it's obvious he no longer sees his child as his own, as if it was a child that his wife brought in from another marriage even though that's not the case.

[@Kenny-eo2wl]

the second case. I'M DEAD! is it only me that noticed she was so fucking fast when she was talking? and she really needs to mind her drinking habits too. she just kept on giving stupid excuses instead of accepting her reality

[@manuellaoulabou1909]

The girl just wanted fair love from her father.