Keeping myself busy as I process unexpected loss

In this video I show a glimpse into my day as I try to work through and process the unexpected loss of a beloved pet.

[@MargaretLong-pg6it]

The "what ifs" are so corrosive, and are never ever helpful. My husband died unexpectedly age 52. He was unwell, and I told him I was going to call the ambulance, but he told me not to, and just to let him sleep until 4 pm. When I checked on him at that time, he was dead. When I told the paramedics that I KNEW I should have called them anyway, I was told that they would have come, been refused, and they would have left. In the end, after trying to endlessly blame myself, I had to admit that I wasn't responsible, so healing could slowly begin. Terrible accidents happen, particularly to our beloved pets. However, Onion was a deeply loved member of your family. You have a really beautiful soul, and thank you for sharing your inspiration with us.

[@remiclog]

I’m so sorry for your loss, and that you had to lose him that way. I can imagine the guilt! I’m so pleased you’re now able accept it wasn’t your fault!

[@kerriefleming6297]

So sorry for your loss guilt is a terrible thing.

[@margaretanderson1750]

Aw, Remi, I’m so sorry. I think losing a canine companion is just as hard as losing a human. The image of you opening the box had me in tears because that was my experience, too. Take care of yourself and your dear family. Better days will come. Hug you!

[@remiclog]

Thank you ❤️

[@quinnobrien8686]

Yes, Remi- it’s awful! I lost my 2 1/2 year old kitty in October ‘21 when he was hit by a car. My condolences for your loss…❤️ I came home from church and found him on the side of the road. Carrying his 15 pound body home was all I could do not to collapse! I’m in my 50s and I’ve never had to deal with that. I’ve had cats all my life. I’m alone otherwise, and it was the beginning of a whole year of loss. I lost my next two within that year. They were older, and they each got thyroid disease- one of them getting shut down kidneys and the other getting cancer. One month apart - had to put them down. So I lost all three in the course of a year. You’re right, it is absolute hell on earth. I have no children, I came home to an empty house with no one to greet me. The first week was hell. The second week I thought “OK I’m gonna get through this“. The third week I literally just fell in the floor crying for several days. I don’t know that I have gone a week since last November without crying. It is a process. Grief is different for everyone. I now have a visiting Siamese, who is so kind and so loving. he belongs to the neighbors on the street next-door, but they are gracious enough to let him visit and stay with me. Gods way, it’s not something we always understand, but have faith in Him and know that there is some lesson in this that you may not get for a while. Sending a bunch of love and hugs your way from another grieving pet mom✝️❤️❤️🐱🐶

[@adrianadelgado7475]

I am so sorry for your loss, my condolences 🙏 💔 Onion is running around in Heaven waiting for you until you meet again 🌈 🤍

[@JFlocRNa]

I read somewhere that grief is love turned inside out and that the amount of our love is reflected in the amount of our grief. I'm so sorry about the sudden loss of your furbaby, Onion. And yes, we do tend to "if only" and "what if" right after. Normal, but also realistically, we can't dwell on those types of thoughts because the guilt isn't healthy and it won't bring back those who've died. You are doing great right now, staying in the moment with your house and family, and taking time to grieve and rest when needed. Hugs to you all and continue to share, it's helpful!

[@sarahboyt1978]

Just lost my brother; hasn't even been a month yet. I too clean and garden to manage the chaotic misery

[@remiclog]

I am so sorry for your loss 😞

[@traceyburgin6646]

I'm sorry for your loss. I'm grieving my husband, since January. The thing I wasn't expecting was fear. The grief feels like fear, I wish someone would have told me that. Whether, it's our pets, friends, siblings, or anyone who is close to us, the grief feels overwhelming. Self care is important. So if you need to do nothing but lounge in your night clothes and watch TV, clean up the house, or anything else, do it. There is no shame in having any feelings you have. It's normal. I send you my love and hugs and I hope this is encouraging to you. ❣️

[@sarahboyt1978]

@@traceyburgin6646 thank you Hugs to you

[@sarahboyt1978]

@@remiclog thank you Hugs

[@mariekane7637]

Ah I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is like losing a member of the family. Take care and look after yourself and your beautiful wee family 😘

[@jillianbowen7265]

You're always real and never more so than in the moment you opened the box with Onion's remains ❤ Big supportive hug, sweet girl. My heart goes out to you.

[@iheartoahuhawaiinokaoi305]

Mama.. The fact that you are out of bed and your kids are fed is huge. I'm so sorry for your loss.❤😢

[@Maeda_Miakoda_Gaming]

We want the authenticity you bring to your videos, Remi. I'm so sorry for your loss and I wish you peace. 💕

[@freebirdy3771]

Ran across this video randomly looking for cleaning tips. So sorry for your loss! Cried when you got the ashes back. I still miss my fur babies, brother and sister who passed a year apart. I have their ashes and that is a comfort.😢

[@customer5032]

I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved dog. Pets are family, and losing them is heartbreaking. Feel better soon. 😞🐾

[@remiclog]

Thank you ❤️

[@TaraVixen]

I have fibromialgia & chronic fatigue and you have inspired me to take control of the mess! I have cleaners one a week to vacuum & mop, but SO cluttered! I’ve taken your example of making a list. I have days of exhaustion that it’s hard to Move. This disease took my nursing career and my marriage & im determined it’s not going to take my sanity & cause me to live in a Total mess! The list has helped me SO SO much! Bit by bit it’s looking nice and organised! I’m SO SO sorry for your loss of little “Onion” so heartbreaking to loose your fur baby so young! 😢 my 13yo GSD is day by day now, every day we get is a blessing 🥰 a friend just gave me a 1yo GSD and here I was today complaining about all the mud she is bringing in on her paws, and then I see your video! It made me appreciate that I have her & all the joy she brings not just the mess! So thank you!🙏🏼 Sending big hugs from Down Under🇦🇺 🥰xx

[@mallymakings2853]

Hiiii, fibro-sister! I’m so proud of you! I’m really struggling at the moment, excruciating pain and poor mental health and my house is a shit tip! Thank you for sharing this, I needed it. Much love to you from England.xxxxx

[@pamelabryant7390]

Love and hugs to you and your family….family pets are OUR CHILDREN! Love!!!!! 🐾🐾🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@pamelabryant7390]

@Makai Threads Well! I do hope feel better now. BE KIND🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@FlBeachgirl]

I'm very sorry to hear about Onion, my thoughts and prayers are with you ❤

[@fabab4467]

@Makai Threads ssshhhhhhhh…….

[@fabab4467]

@Pamela Bryant…….❤️

[@Cookmomx3]

I call them our furr babies... I hear lots and lots of people who say that. ❤😊 I even heard people even say Grand Furr Babies. It's all good. Let each family decide what is best for them??!!! ❤

[@peggytaylor8333]

Their is something so genuine about you , you are very likable

[@JFlocRNa]

And extra hugs for filming the receipt of Onion's cremains. My brother and I just got around to spreading my baby brother's ashes, about a year and a half after he died.

[@sammymoore2430]

My baby brother died 2020 he was only 45. My mum keeps his ashes on her dressing table in her bedroom. She can't part with him, he was her youngest. So sorry for your loss xx

[@3rz-rhymesreasonsandwritte437]

@@sammymoore2430 🙏🌼❤️

[@3rz-rhymesreasonsandwritte437]

❤️🙏

[@mama_jamie_elaine]

Hugs!!!!! You are doing so well to be real about your feelings! That is healthy. Praying for you to be comforted during the grieving. If something happened to my pup pup I would be heartbroken!!!

[@michellemumof3]

Our beloved 7 year old cavalier slipped in the garden 18 months ago and broke his back. I let him out to chase the birds and I have struggled to get over the guilt. He was my baby and the kids moved on quickly. I have his photo on my phone and his pictures over the house. He will never be replaced and I have forgiven myself for what was a truly awful incident in our home. It will get better, big hugs xxxx

[@kechdw4506]

I'm sorry for your loss and understand the difficulty of cleaning when you're struggling just to make it through the day. Today is my mother's birthday. We lost her to Covid in 2022 and the last thing I want to do when I get home tonight is the daily reset tasks, much less anything else. Thank you for being the voice in my ear today while I worked, giving me something positive to focus on, as I binged every single one of your videos and got to know you and your family a bit. I'll be back often as your voice is very pleasing to listen to and you've already gotten some ideas for getting my house back in order pinging around in my brain.

[@rhiannonwinchester3031]

I'm so sorry 😢 I lost my lovely dog to an accident last year, I understand the grim process you are going through. Please be kind to yourself

[@dukeofbuncaster]

Thank you for making such an honest video. 💕 I’m going through the same thing at the moment and can’t stop thinking about the what ifs either. Now that I’m at the point I’m able to function a little bit better I’ve found cleaning very therapeutic.

[@remiclog]

I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through the same too, but really pleased to hear you’re at that point now ❤️

[@dukeofbuncaster]

@@remiclog Thank you Remi 🥹❤️ I guess randomly crying is the new normal for us but that’s ok.

[@litbyhim878]

I can imagine how much it hurts, and I’m wishing you comfort. Onion sure was lucky to have you in his life. You are a precious, lovable young woman doing the best you can with what you have. You are growing in knowledge, skills and love every day. God bless you with His comfort and may He ease your pain of grief and loss.

[@MrGemmylum]

So sorry for your loss Remi, sending lots of love ❤

[@remiclog]

Thank you ❤️

[@nshively]

Hugs from America. ❤️😥 Grief is the price we pay for love, human or pet. Take care of yourself and you will get to the other side of it.

[@ouzelle]

I just found your videos in a similarly trying time in my life, and am entirely inspired and moved. You are so genuine and so bravely sincere. Makes me feel like maybe I can be too. Sending light and love your way. 💐❤️

[@sissilia449]

So sorry for your loss. I've recently lost my pet beagle Lucy and know exactly how your are feeling. ❤‍🩹

[@sonyasigler-by3ug]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your pet. They are family and it is always devastating. Take your time and let your little ones help you heal. They are little sparks of love and joy.

[@shaunasnyder8113]

it's normal to do what if often after a loss. this is a normal part of grief. it's so hard for our brains to process profound loss. I'm so sorry. I had my cat for 21 years and she had an amazing life. it took me 3 months to work through all of the things I thought maybe I could've done better. it was her time and nothing I did could've probably stopped it. she lived a long time due to being so happy. I still had major regrets. it takes time. I'm sorry you're going through this. so painful!

[@suesstrugglebus]

Praying for you, sweet girl. You are loving your family well. Over twenty years, I started pulling my house together…just like you. I used the “FlyLady” system and had our fifth and final biological daughter. I spent 3 and 1/2 months loving my sweet Jayna. She passed away suddenly in her sleep. God’s grace, my faith and family….along with the FlyLady system helped to keep my family together. Much love to you today. ❤️

[@brigidspencer5123]

My deepest condolences for the loss of your furbaby. 💐 “Grief is the price for loving” Take all the time you need to heal from your loss. Good for you for problem-solving by chunking your housecleaning and sharing your process with us. Your boys are lucky to have you as their mum and role model. Hugs!

[@nesramirez9592]

Grief is just love with nowhere to go 💟

[@nessaboo232]

Lies! Love is joy and happiness grief is pain and suffering stop trying to be a philosopher bc you end up making yourself appear like an idiot

[@loribragg2947]

It is SO hard to lose a beloved pet.😢 I grew up on a farm surrounded by woods, and lost any number of pets to snakes, bobcats, and the like. But the one pet I loved most was a gentle German Shepherd named Brandy. He was so protective and loving toward me. He would 'hug' me by leaning against me if I was depressed or crying, and once he saved my life. Sadly, a neighbor's pit bull broke loose and attacked him; he died two days later. It devastated our whole family and he was so loved even our neighbors across the way cried. That was more than 40 years ago and I still think of that gentle, special dog. If I could resurrect him I would. I feel your pain. It does get easier, with time. ❤

[@tinahuestis6931]

I am so sorry for the loss of your fur baby family. It is so gut wrenching, and heart aching and sad. Thank you for making real videos about lifes ups and downs. I lost my fur baby dog a couple of years ago. I swore I would not get another dog. And yet here I rescued a new dog from a tragic life of abuse. I have felt guilty about losing my dog and still, 2 years later, keep asking myself what if, or I should have done this instead, or I should have paid attention more. Those thoughts haunt me still. And like you, cleaning when there is a tragedy or I am upset, helps me so much keep my mind busy. So, thank you for this video, and I am so sorry about the loss of your family fur baby. This video helps me because I don't feel alone.

[@jblilbear]

😢 Our hearts break with yours and help mend the pieces back together. So very sorry about your loss. 💔

[@sarahjones6858]

Same here

[@irishphilomena6792]

It's incredibly tough losing a treasured pet, it's over 13 years since we last lost one and I still can immediately remember that horrible, knotted stomach that seemingly won't go x

[@iwillfindyou____]

It is never easy to say goodbye to a beloved pet. I'm so sorry for this heartache. May God comfort you and your family. I just found your channel a few days ago and have really been enjoying your videos. Love from California ❤

[@sharonalbritton7715]

My Dearest Darlings, So, so, sorry for your loss. I just had to let my "baby" go, a yorkie/pomeranian mix, God blessed me with Cricket for 18 wonderful years. He developed bone cancer. The vet told me on a Tuesday, had to say "goodbye " that Friday. Held him til he crossed the "Rainbow bridge." I know how heartbroken you are. It will be better one day... One day you'll wake up and discover it hurts a bit less than yesterday. That's how it works, you know, gradually one day at a time. Bountiful, bountiful blessings to you and yours thru this difficult time. GOD BLESS YOU. ❤

[@MamaJLW]

So very sorry for your loss. Love and hugs to you.

[@Houseatnumber9]

Ohh sweetie I’m so sorry 😢losing a pet is horrendous they are part of the family. When we lost ours my hubby and I fell apart we were devastated so sending you cwtches and hope your ok ❤

[@katharine2819]

So sorry for your loss. FULLY understand, our animals are family 😪🐶😪

[@Bee-ly4gx]

Sending love. I recently lost my 17 year old cat I miss him like crazy.

[@crystalheat5341]

RIP onion. Sending hugs to you all

[@lgibson0515]

So sorry for your loss of your 🐶!! Prayers sent up!! God bless

[@vivianhudacek1556]

Losing a fur baby is devastating! I’m a senior citizen, so I’ve experienced that grief numerous times. I have 2 sweet elderly pugs snoring beside me on the couch right now. Such love our pets give us bc they really are family. Sending hugs from the USA.

[@lauranadani9029]

I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏🏼🙏🏼 I know exactly what you’re going through. I lost my cat Sugar in horrible accident too. Things will get better. Just know you gave him so much love in his beautiful life and that’s enough. 🤍🤍🤍

[@TJ-kz1ul]

I am so sorry for the loss of Onion. We had to unexpectedly put down two beloved family pets within 7 months of each other. I am still grieving and traumatized, your videos are always such a source of comfort.

[@Morgan1Leigh]

Oh, it’s so hard! Our dachshund passed suddenly one day, and our Goldren walked around the house, looking for her, and *he* passed just 10 days later. We were devastated. It was 4 years before we could even consider another dog. Now we have another Golden, and a Kelpie/terrier mix. The little kelpie is the alpha, which is funny. Love them both, but I still miss Dash and Nikki. They’re always in my heart.

[@terrib.4442]

I am so so sorry for your family's loss.😢 Thank you for sharing and being real. 😔

[@htmc2022]

So sorry to hear you lost your puppy Onion - losing a pet is so difficult - losing that unconditional love from your special pet is irreplaceable. Good for you managing to hang in there with your clea😂😂ning & decluttering goals. You are a strong strong lady! Much love & wishing you and your family healing peace! So good to see that you can sleep when your youngest sleeps. You’re doing all the right things! Take care

[@blackbear1926]

I just discovered your channel and really appreciate your truth about life’s struggles we’re not supposed to talk about. Already been lifted by many of your words!❤

[@yogalates23]

My beloved grandfather, who I lived with for 20yrs before I got married, died during covid (though surprisingly not due to covid). He was around 102 or older. He was also back home a whole continent away and I wasn’t able to attend the funeral as I had young kids at the time. I remember silently weeping while I went from room to room putting things away and scrubbing and wiping and mopping, it somehow helped me cope.

[@sammihawe9836]

I’m so sorry, I lost my much loved cat this week very suddenly and I know what you mean about bursting into tears on and off. I’m so heartbroken and feel so guilty. Going to work has been very hard this week. Sending love xx ❤

[@JINNYJANNY]

Sending you the warmest, kindest & sincere hug x

[@remiclog]

Thank you ❤️

[@carolcopley3639]

Bless you, hon. Prayers to you and your family. Clearly, your darling pet was so loved.

[@woodysmum1906]

Oh sweetheart, I am so very very sorry. It is absolutely heartbreaking when we lose a much loved pet. Be gentle with yourself , take your time. There is no right or wrong way to deal with grief, just your way. I’m much much older than you and have sadly had to say goodbye to many wonderful dogs in my lifetime, but trust me,in time you will start feeling better and it will hurt less and less, you’ll be able to remember your lovely dog with smiles rather than tears. And one day you will be ready to welcome another dog into your life. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other, and hug your boys. ❤

[@hazelsisley2633]

I am so very sorry. Grief is the price we pay for love. And it’s clear Onion was (and still is) loved immensely. In turn you and your family were Onion’s whole world. Cuddle your boys and Mushroom close. Sending a big hug. ❤

[@StephanieHealy-wh9cn]

So sorry for your loss. Anyone who has a pet for a family member knows the pain you are going through. Much love to you and your family.

[@regineself3642]

Love to you, it is hard to lose a pet.

[@Marejohn1]

I’m just so very sorry for your loss. I know it seems like you will never be able to breathe again, but eventually time will pass and some of the deep grief will be replaced by a beautiful sweet memory a little at a time that won’t bring you to your knees for that moment. One day at a time. One moment at a time. Love will bring healing. Bless you and your family ❤️

[@Judy122550]

may you have comfort & peace soon prayers & hugs

[@rachaelayers5591]

I'm so sorry Remi, for your loss, sending much love to you and your family 🥰

[@ellisbell614]

My dear, Remi. 😢 I am so sorry to hear of the loss of precious, Onion. I cannot imagine what you are feeling and going through. Just trying to process everything. Just know that we love and support you. Sending love and prayers. 🙏❤️

[@smidgekat5296]

I'm so sorry to hear about Onion. You're right, life is sometimes **** and impossible to make sense of. In the space of nine months I lost both my cats, had a human family bereavement and my closest friend had a life changing event that has shocked us to the core. A friend of mine said "life only throws at you what it believes you can handle". You sound strong. Remember you gave Onion the life he wanted and made him happy while he was here. That's all we can do. Be kind to yourself. All the best.

[@remiclog]

Thank you! I’m sorry for the loss of your family members, both fur and human. You take care and be kind to yourself as well ❤️

[@smidgekat5296]

Thank you@@remiclog

[@ludakay640]

Hello, I am not quite sure how my iPad could read my emotions and know what I’m going thru but here I am, watching this video that popped out of absolutely nowhere. Or so it seems. Just 2 days ago I had to make the hardest decision of my life and let my little 16 months old puppy named Hedgy (a Pom that looks like a hedgehog) cross the Rainbow into a puppy heaven. The grief is so suffocating that it’s hard to breathe, let alone clean my house. As I’m aimlessly watching stupid pimple popping videos, laying on my floor curled up and surrounded by dog toys, clothes, unwashed dishes, your video How to tackle a mess in 2 hours (or something like that) popped up. I watched couple of times, made mental notes that we have so much in common meaning I like a clean house, I don’t like to clean. And I can not stand folding fresh laundry, I went on your page and the second (to last) video is this one. Thank you, Universe, KZbin or whatever Higher Power there might be, for you sharing your most intimate feelings and saying them out loud because I never could. Thank you again, you are amazing and Yes, your videos do bring people joy and Peace. ❤️❤️❤️👩🏻‍🏫

[@minnamae25]

I have always reverted to cleaning when I'm trying to get over something tragic. I am so sorry for your loss. ❤

[@rondaherriott]

I’m so sorry for your loss. My pets aren’t just pets, they’re family. I hope you find some peace soon.

[@pippap4385]

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤ Well done you for going through your house cleaning.👏 Grab 30 winks when you can xx

[@goldiedover9294]

A pet is not just a pet, that was a family member. I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending a hug your way honey ❤

[@sheilagarrido8204]

Ohhhh NO Remi. Soooo sorry😢. We're sending love and prayers. Truly 🎉🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Priscilla81ful]

This was a video of confidences . Don’t sell yourself short at least you pulled yourself together enough to tell us your circumstances surrounding your home. We’ve all lost love ones and fur babies and it doesn’t get easy no matter what you do. I’m old so I can tell you death is part of life, not a part you ever look forwards too but still there it is. You will see Onion again she waiting on the rainbow bridge for you. Sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you .

[@nehaanwari4588]

Hi Remi! I am a new subscriber and a fan. Really sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is indeed devastating😭 I could not stop my tears when you opened that box and cried. Sending you hugs my dear 💕🙏 RIP Onion😢

[@remiclog]

Thank you ❤️

[@d.k.s.4057]

Remi, so very sorry about the pain and loss... You know many people also go over the event and think that if they had only done things differently, etc. and feel guilt and more pain: this is not your fault. Accident means not purposely and I know you would never hurt or cause hurt to a pet... There are so many factors involved and we are not in control of most of them. No one can anticipate most accidents and please forgive yourself, if forgiveness is needed. You said that this is a first experience with grief close to you... That makes it harder to realize there is a time when resilience of spirit and body helps us to heal and integrate our loss rather than it being in the conscious mind all of the time. It won't always be this intense and you are not a bad person when you start to feel better. Love will still be there but extreme suffering will lessen. All of your feelings are valid and I hope you are getting support as you go through this. It is also known that young mothers with little children are more susceptible to the fear of "accidents" as they are hyper-aware of youthful vulnerability. Also normal! but not very comfortable. This too has a way of evening out as time passes. Not to lecture but share what life has taught me. Prayers for you to the Almighty who watches over you and your heart.

[@michellenoden]

So sorry to hear about your dog, it's never easy getting over the loss of a pet, because, after all, they are part of your family. Sending you virtual hugs🤗🤗🤗

[@SUZYRIDE]

Peace & Blessings 🌺🌸❤🫶🏼 You are strong!!! Hugs from Northern CA, USA

[@trishagail353]

Oh Remi, I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a fur baby can be like losing a family member.😢 Take all the time you need, sweetie. Sending you big hugs!🤗

[@celestewatson4874]

The shock & trauma of accidental loss is so different a grief to process, and that hypervigilance itself is so distressing to experience. Hope you and you family and Mushroom are getting along ok. Holding you all in heart.

[@garlicgalore]

Oh, Remi, I'm so sorry about your pet Onion! Sudden loss like that is wrenching in a unique way. We had an accident with a puppy and all you say is true - our human brains go over and over things. Please know I care and wish you and your family all the best while you grieve this loss. 💗💗💗

[@TASmith-ou3is]

I appreciate how honest you are. That is a wonderful personality trait.

[@kimhurley7019]

I am grieved by this Remi. Grief is a strange and difficult thing. Youu amaze me!

[@AmyAnyone]

Grief is the price we pay for love ❤. Sending you lots of healing, positive thoughts.

[@remiclog]

So true, thank you ❤️

[@kathleenharris8824]

It’s so hard to lose a pet. They are a part of the family!

[@vbhandle79]

Sorry to hear your sad news. Struggling with grief is nothing to be ashamed of, it’s a manifestation of our feelings of loss. We can grieve over any loss, whether it be people, pets or something unusual. I once had grief feelings over a plant I’d had in my garden for years believe it or not. Sending you all love and light x

[@kimosborne3454]

Totally agree

[@bonniespruin6369]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing our furbabies is so hard. Big hugs to you all.

[@caseyjonathonwhitelee7671]

I am so sorry for your loss. My boy was missing for 2 months and I learned that the loss of a pet can be even more traumatic and painful because animals have unconditional love. I'll be keeping you in my prayers.

[@vbstroud]

Oh, sweet girl... I know your sorrow. I lost my most dear furbaby right before she was 2 yrs... It is such a crippling sadness. My girl has been gone 11 years now and I am still changed from it. I am so glad I found your page... it already feels like a place I can stop and visit... hugs to you for your loss and your REAL HEART of sharing TRUTH ❤

[@ncbeachbumintx]

Sooo sorry for your loss. Pets are family to me.. and it’s never a easy to say goodbye.. and with an unexpected loss.. it’s so sad.. give yourself a hug.. and try to remember all of the joy he brought to your life & home. 🙏🏼😇🐾💙

[@guhrizzlybaire]

Oh honey I am so sorry for you and your family. That's incredibly difficult and painful. I have five pets. Please be easy on yourself. Sending so much love ❤️

[@shannonbolger6660]

Oh my gosh I am so sorry about your beautiful dog. Heartbreaking for sure.

[@anne-mariethompson4365]

Massive hugs to you and yours. RIP Onion 💜

[@evelynrogers6766]

I'm sorry you lost your fur baby. Any kind of loss is terrible, but it's how we deal with it that matters. You are showing so many people a great way to cope with a devastating event. You are a blessing to me and others I am sure. ❤

[@jenniferkey8209]

I just lost my precious kitty, Winnie, unexpectedly and tragically a few days ago. I’m so happy that I found your channel and, particularly, this video. This is exactly what I’m going through right now. Trying to declutter and clean the house while dealing with this crushing loss. Thank you for posting this. Exactly what I needed.

[@christineduffy3113]

So very sorry Onion looked a lovely dog you and your family gave the little dog love and a great life so don't beat yourseld up these terrible accidents happen unfortunately I lost my little cat last year and miss her everyday but have so many happy memories of her and the love we gave each other keep your chin 🌹

[@jessiewhitman8688]

My cat Murphy had to be helped across the rainbow bridge while I was on vacation. I cant look at pics of him without bawling my eyes out. Long as I stay busy, Im okay.. But the moment i stop moving.. I start crying. God gave us Murphy(he fell out of a tree into my sons arms and he was soooo tiny) and God wanted him back.

[@siobhanmcneenan3253]

Your videos are popular because they are real and honest

[@crystall533]

My deepest condolences! I’m so sorry for your loss.

[@user-po5ye7el1k]

Your doing so well. You gave your fur baby a great love. I know your grief I have lost so many pets. It is hard. But keep going. I love your honesty. I have 2 dogs who are my companions as my husband passed away after a short illness. I need to get my act together like you. I really need to keep you in mind so I can get my butt in gear. Stay strong! Your dog is in heaven with mine. ❤ hugs

[@zoebrindle7269]

Oh Remi so very sorry . Sending heart felt hugs to you all 💐

[@amethystrocks6433]

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, Remi. 😢 Losing a furbaby, who's a member of the family, is so difficult. And when it's unexpected, it's ten times harder. 💔😭 I'm keeping you & your family in my heart. Blessings, dear Remi! ❤

[@TheLinKrust]

So very sorry to hear of your loss and heartbreak - take care ❤

[@Cjspectre7782]

So sorry for your loss, but hopefully time will heal 🙏

[@remiclog]

I hope so ❤️

[@trishnickles2236]

Remi, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your dear dog. Sending blessings of comfort and healing to you and your family. Take care. 💕🙏

[@ab-fy6ih]

Sorry for your loss. I’ve been a pet owner my whole life. They’re part of the family, your grief is real. Take care of yourself.