Kelley Flanagan Reveals How She Caught Her Ex Cheating

[@abetterme7013]

One more thing I would like to add - PLEASE don't feel stupid! You're a brilliant lawyer and successful business woman. I'm an Ivy league-educated scientist and I got bamboozled as well! We are empaths who assumed the good in people because we are good people and can't even conceive being evil enough to mistreat people like this. This is not your fault. He is the problem.

[@Dawn1979-lup]

How do you know she is a brilliant lawyer?

[@moderator7169]

Why do everyone say their empaths??! I'm so sick of these little titles everyone gives them like it's some popular thing the label. I'm an empath, I have anxiety disorder, I have ADHD. Just because you have feelings and you feel other people does it make you an empath it makes you a human.

[@moderator7169]

​@@Dawn1979-lupit's annoying when these people think they know somebody's true self. Like when you hear oh you're such an amazing person you're such an amazing lawyer. I'd like to know one thing that's been done through law that makes her amazing lawyer I'm not denying she is or is it. But I would like to see the proof. People have got to stop idolizing strangers

[@annikaslabaugh1602]

I love how sweet and supportive you guys are to Kelly! I’m sure you made her feel so much better💛

[@mckenziehenke]

Ugh Kelley I’m so sorry. You are such a strong woman and inspiration to many. Heal yourself and focus on you now. Sending you all the love! ❤❤

[@stephKG]

I feel like i was spying on a therapy session

[@Tbeckchemist]

I went through a similar experience, moved states for somebody who promised the world to me and ended up cheating on me when I visited home. He lied about it and manipulated me until he finally confessed. Tried to shut me up when I put him on blast. These people are pathetic, him showing his true colors was my biggest blessing. I’m sorry this happened to you ):

[@joanneross5575]

Admit that you ignored all of the red flags. Focus on that because you deserve more.

[@abetterme7013]

The love bombing, the pathological lying, and the cheating/constant need for female attention, calling himself a "stud" - these are classic traits of a narcissist!! My ex was also very successful (PhD engineer), and tall/handsome. He's also a similar age (currently 34 and never been married) but exhibited all of these dark triad behaviors. He only cared about how others perceive him and his reputation as well. He also tried to keep me from telling people about his infidelity and narcissistic abuse. These people rarely change!! I'm in NYC and the city is FILLED with these types of men.

[@abetterme7013]

Aww Kelley, I'm so sorry 🥺 you're so strong and you made the right choice!! I walked away from my cheating ex too. I am going through something very similar

[@haleyrivera283]

When someone cheats or is being sneaky it has nothing to do with the other person, it has to do with them just wanting attention from anyone because they are insecure. You will get through this and you are amazing!! His loss!

[@jackieblue15]

You can tell she’s still rocked from this situation. Poor girl

[@tcurry1531]

I dated a guy seriously for 2 years and all of a sudden he was telling me a lot of evenings that he had to meet up with his guy friends, lot of excuses. I never checked up on him and never called him as that is what I was taught, and I was still very young, had a child, worked and was very busy. After not hearing for him for 4 or 5 nights I tried to call him and he did not call back. For some crazy reason reason I decided to go to a club where we always hang out. I found him dancing with another woman. When he came back to the bar I actually swung him around and hit him and kind of went nuts on him. I was so jealous. I walked out of the club with him following and I just got in my car and drove away. I was shocked I showed this kind of jealousy. I was so embarrassed and I promised myself I would never do that again ever., and I never did. Needless to say we were through. He did try to reach me with family members but I never returned his calls and my friends and family protected me from him by telling him I was with someone else and he should just leave me alone. People who mess with your mental stability need to be told to take a walk.

[@deborahbaxter9250]

NARCISSIST! Now it's time for us all to learn from your open sharing this experience. Huge lesson for all. Thanks ladies for this awesome episode!⭐️⭐️⭐️🩷🩷🩷⭐️⭐️🫶🫶

[@colleensmith3374]

Kelley, you are amazing! Just keep moving forward:)

[@tcurry1531]

I was told once that one person is always more in love and dependent on the other in a relationship. After my bad experience I always live my life like that. I had a second marriage when I was 35. I know I loved my husband but I also know my husband needed me more than I needed him. I was always independent and he loved that about me. I told my husband that if he even felt like he wanted to be with another woman just give me the respect to tell me and leave me. I told him I would do the same. I adored him.

[@kellywong5671]

PLEASE don't feel stupid! It wasn't your fault. You are strong, independent, and beautiful your future man will be there for you no matter what. We love you no matter what! Stay Strong!!!

[@HollyCooney]

His behavior indicates he is a narcissist

[@sharonmartin1223]

It was an abusive relationship...So sorry...You dodged a bullet...you are so beautiful.

[@alyssagilliland5494]

17:36 damn let Kelly talk!

[@evas1968]

This is so sad! He took her mind and really fucked with it, narcissism at its best. This is going to take awhile for her mind to heal....

[@jy_hawk]

Vanity is everyone's weakness. Getting love bombed by a decent looking guy will fool most

[@Eli91465]

You are crying because you went through a traumatic situation. Why are you apologizing for it? Ladies, take time to get to know someone, at least a year.

[@jenw3654]

Idk who these interviewers are but do they let their guests talk on this show???

[@joanberry235]

He is a master manipulator, liar, control freak, thinks only of himself. Kelly, PLEASE, lose this guy! Do not over think this, run in the opposite direction, get some therapy for yourself to work through. The layers will unfold . He is trying to cover his tracks. Yes, do you!! You are going to get yourself back, he may or may not implode, but it doesn't matter either way, not your job to care about him at all. Please, just realize how he bamboozled you, how you did not trust your intuition, how you had to have physical "evidence " to know he was using you, cheating, lying . Next time just trust your instincts, and walk away. I say all of this, cause I been there done that.

[@toniauciello8333]

Sounds like a narcissist be careful next time and if you feel you need to dig forgot all the digging. Run

[@ChristineH28]

I thought she was going to marry this man. I really thought he was “The One”. I did notice a few months ago all of her posts with him stopped so I knew something was up. I love her. Mr Right will find her.

[@toniauciello8333]

Him going out every nite huge red flag, pls next time around don't rush and any man who is a smooth taker and projects things on you run

[@sharonmartin1223]

Why did he want you to tell everyone you were dating? I would of thought ...he would have said keep it a Secret

[@andreegodbout868]

I feel like I'm listening to a highschooler. 🙈

[@msavg66]

Judgy

[@Caroline-hs8qh]

You will never be able to make any sense of it. Go no contact and move on. You are beautiful and successful. He’s a complete douche.

[@Bekind.24]

Sweetheart never waste your time what if. He sounds like 100% a Narcissist. The once that blame and control are the once who are doing the shitty thing on the side.

[@myrnabonafede5258]

you're beautiful you deserved better .

[@hannahvannatta]

Kelley was texting and hanging out with my college boyfriend and I’m pretty sure they hooked up when I was dating him. Karmas a bitch. I don’t feel sorry for her.

[@MisbehavedLady]

Whose this guy??